| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 101 | Field Report : Met a cute a girl in a bar | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 11:18 PM | |
| 23 | Daygame sticking points | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 04:47 PM | |
| 15 | How to resist the temptation to Eject while talking | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:38 PM | |
| 6 | How many Rejections do you go through | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 21/10/17 01:21 AM | |
| 5 | Any Germans here? What is a good opener for the Bier Fest. | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 04:32 PM | |
| 1 | How many approaches a day? | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 10:23 PM | |
| 1 | Is the subway station or the subway a good place to approach? | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 09:42 PM | |
| 1 | Good reply to "Are you here alone" | rohan417 | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 01:06 AM |
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| 1 | Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too.Awesome my man, you killed it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?Well usually I make the first move. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Do men like being asked out or pursued by women?If a woman just starts talking randomly to me, my first reaction would be, "What are you trying to sell?" But If she wanted to talk to me to get to know me or something, I will welcome it whole heartedly for sure. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Too much theory, not enough practice.I have the same problem as you. Last summer I was in awesome state and could talk to any girl . This year, after few months of winter I could barely say hi to a girl last night. I have to build the confidence again from the scratch. In the meantime I'm building some muscle in the gym and got in my cities sports team. :) | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 02:57 PM |
| 2 | How do I talk to girls?This is so good, I'mma try it. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Do you ask if a woman is single? (daygame)"Are you single", followed by "so am I , so let's see how this goes. Wink" works the best bro. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I go direct or indirect?Dude, I always do direct game at night. It's far easier and faster, but you need to have a thick skin to plough through all the rejections. But the ones who do hook, hook very good. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 11:15 PM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?Bro, I have been down this road. I know how it feels to be an utter failure when it comes to women. But you know what, you can change, it will take some time, but it will happen. You need to trust the progress. As with any skill, the returns to investment ratio is exponential. It will be tough for the first 6 or so months, but then suddenly you will sense a change in your body language, your attitude. You will not give a fuck about their validation anymore. It will happen dude. Trust the process… | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 11:08 PM |
| 4 | How much does reading help with seduction?In my experience, Learning is 70% real life interactions and 30% books. | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 08:45 AM |
| 11 | How can I pick up girls in a foreign country if I can’t speak their language fluently?Indian living in Germany too, I love talking about their accents, sometimes making fun of theirs or mine. I Know lil German too but English is a lot more fun for me to escalate in. Plus seduction is mostly body language and kino anyway. Play thumb fighting , let her win the first 2 rounds, have fun in general.A Confident and funny guy is an aphrodisiac to girls. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How many Rejections do you go throughHow long have you been going out, I feel for me it's more like 50% rejection, 20% phone numbers, and 30% "nice talking to you but I gotta go or smth". | /r/seduction | 21/10/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How many Rejections do you go throughDo you go for situational openers or more direct ones? How do you dress, do you dress sharper or more casual while going out? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/10/17 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Going Sarging alone tonight at student bar - tipsMan what's up with the pua slangs. Just go out and talk to people, just say that you think that the girl is cute and you want to meet her. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 11:57 PM |
| 3 | The Truth About Seduction & Game!Just enjoy the process! This is the single biggest element to game. If you are not enjoying the process, you will get no results. | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Completely unable to approach women I don't knowOkay bro I know what your are going through. I went through the same 5 months ago(check my history). What you have to do is that you need to train your brain to say hi or hello to everyone for about a week. Just say hi to everyone, bonus if they respond. Then after some time you need to go to next step which is asking for directions, or complimenting them on their dress or bag. After few weeks, you will have developed enough confidence to talk to hot chicks. Remember, it's a numbers game and it'… | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Excellent infield video: The Art of INDIRECT DAYGAME - Prague 2017Ich bleibe in Stuttgart. Ich have viel mal in Stuttgart night game gemacht aber ich brauche motivation for Daygame. | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Excellent infield video: The Art of INDIRECT DAYGAME - Prague 2017Genial! Bist du aus Deutschland? Hast du schon "daygame" in Deutschland gemacht... | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 09:58 AM |
| 4 | What is your current sticking point and what are you doing to work on it?Mine is escalation, I go into the chit chat mode and not build enough attraction. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | If I'm just simply not attractive or good looking enough to attract girls what should I do? Just accept it right?Hitting the gym should be a priority, take care of the diet too. Once you are in good shape you will be surprised by the mad IOIs you receive. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Cockblocked twice in one night. Advice?Fail safe method to deal with a cock block is to take a wingman with you. If you are going out alone try to chat up girls in a groups of 3 so that the other 2 girls can talk to each other. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Any Germans here? What is a good opener for the Bier Fest.That's adorkable, but I don't think it's gonna work with German ladies. They need the flirting to be efficient and to the point immideaiately. So beating around the bush won't help it. My experience. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Any Germans here? What is a good opener for the Bier Fest.Quatsch! | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Any Germans here? What is a good opener for the Bier Fest.My native language is English, but I have learnt German enough to communicate at my work, but flirting in German is a whole new game, so I stick to English. Escalation in English is better for me. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Any Germans here? What is a good opener for the Bier Fest.I felt asking them about their dress can be a good opener, also the usual I think you are adorable and want to talk to you works too. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Any Germans here? What is a good opener for the Bier Fest.Joining them on the table is good idea. I also felt that a good opener can be asking them about the dress they wear(drindle). Ask them why is the belt to the right, or to the left. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Any Germans here? What is a good opener for the Bier Fest.I live in Stuttgart and the beer fest here is lit. I talked to few girls today and I did mostly in English, even though I can speak ok German. I'll go again with a wing tomorrow, it's gonna be awesome. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How bad do I look 1-10?Dude, you look great. Just hit the gym, you will be golden .. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Good reply to "Are you here alone"Ya, they always tell me that it was brave of me to come out alone and open a group of 3-4 girls. I had a real problem with opening groups, not anymore. | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 05:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you personally open a 3 set?"Hi, I think you guys are cute and I wanted to meet you". Works for me... | /r/seduction | 28/08/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Bailing out for no apparent reasonThat was my problem too, so to overcome that I have adopted a policy of "Always be closing". So if a girl is enjoying the conversation or is not not completely negative about me, then I HAVE to close her, in this case ask for her number or an instant date. The "Always be closing" is a good habit builder too, do it few times and you will close on more chicks. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 06:02 PM |
| 13 | How sexual attraction works for both women and menAny one got a TLDW | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 11:06 PM |
| 25 | I will tell you one of the best places to meet womenThere is a better spot: The bookstore | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 10:26 PM |
| 20 | I will tell you one of the best places to meet womenYes, I prefer meeting women or people on the streets more in the night. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | You are not trying nearly enoughThis. There have been nights where literally every girl was so open to me and had number closes, nice conversations etc. Also, there have been nights where I cant even have a 2 min interaction. | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How to separate a pair of girls when approaching with my friend?First you and your friend talk to both of the girls as a group. So, now you 4 people are like a group of 4 friends hanging out with everyone talking to everyone, then after like 5-8 sentences, you ask a question to your girl and hold her eye contact so that she knows it's you who is interested in the answer. In the meantime, your friend asks a separate questions to his girl and voila you and your friend have separated the girls in your own conversations. Then, after some rapport building, you ca… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How to resist the temptation to Eject while talkingThanks a lot, next time. I'll stand in there and let her invest too. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.Do it! JUST DO IT! | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Approach Anxiety Field ReportHi, I'm studying in Germany too and I am in the same situation language wise, I know good German but better English. You can open girls in English, but try to have a small interaction in German. It will totally make their day. I also went on a lil night game tonight and it was fun, but having a wingman would make it better. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 12:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR]saturday - ouch - feel suicidalFirst of all congratulations for taking action and implementing that, that shit takes major balls. I think in those interactions, the girls were rude. Plus, I would suggest to talk somewhere like a bar where people go out to talk to people rather than a club where people go out to dance. Of you want to hit on a girl in a dance club, I suggest the smoking area. The direct approach works, you just have to be confident and polite. And one more thing dude, don't give a fuck if a girl isn't intereste… | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 12:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Thursday - quick few approaches in barWhat you should say tonight: 1. to the girls on the street/in the bar: ""Hi, you guys are adorable and I want to meet you" or "Hi, I think you guys are cute and I want to talk to you". 2. To the bartender: "Hi, I dont want to buy anything, I just wanted to say you are absolutely adorable." Just say this and tell me how did it go. Happy to help :) | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 04:58 PM |
| 26 | [FR]Thursday - quick few approaches in barDude, you need to create attraction and put your intentions clear from the get go. Just tell them that you are cute /adorable and you want to meet her. You will be surprised by the results, the girls who aren't interested will say that straight away but those who are will literally start talking more than you. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 11:26 AM |
| 3 | what would you ask a chick with ~2000 matches, growing at ~70 a day?The real question is why does she still swipes when she already has 2000 matches. Is she participating in some kind of tinder Olympics? | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Daygame sticking pointsThat video was golden, thanks. Need to develop confidence or situational competence to talk to women during the day time. | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Daygame sticking points"How do you approach night game sets?Tell us that, and we can tell you if it works for day." If I see a group of girls smiling or generally having an open body language, I walk up to them and say : "You guys are adorable and I wanted to meet you" or "I just think you are cute and I wanted to talk to you". It works for the girls who are interested in talking and really filters out girls who aren't interested. | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Daygame sticking pointsmakes sense, thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Less is more in Daygame. Beginners read this!!It's all about Confidence, Confidence is a fucking Aphrodisiac to women.That's all pick up is about folks. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 09:14 PM |
| 6 | 24 year old virgin gets attractive girlfriend - My top revelations from 2 years studying dating/seduction"She wants to know that you picked her specially" How do you communicate this to her if you are in a bar, usually talking to somebody in a bar is pretty random. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts in my head preventing me from approachingPerfectly explained, I would like to add to point no. 4. If you are confident and polite, there is no reason for them to find you wierd. Smile and have a nice confident vibe about yourself, feel as if approaching them and chatting them up is the most normal thing in the world. And guess what, girls respond to it. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 11:37 AM |
| 3 | The Guide To Nightlife – A Simple Method To Making Bars and Clubs Your BitchI am not a dating guru or anything, but as per my experience, in clubs girls want a guy who wants to dance and have fun, and not necessarily a guy who has sick dance moves but doesn't seem to enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Is there any place on reddit where seduction/dating is discussed in regards to specific places or cultures?Dude, I live in Stuttgart Germany and people here have the reputation of being closed off and not so open on being approached. Even I was surprised with the reaction I got to "I think you are cute and I want to talk to you". She was so pleasently surprised and we had a nice conversation. Just approach!, you never know what can happen. Edit: spellings | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Popped my cherryAwesome, I started about a month ago too and I would like to tell you that slowly you will see the development within you. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | 30 Day Infield Challenge - Day 15: Daygame Compilation: POV INFIELD + Instadate + Number CloseGood on ya mate ;) | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 07:12 PM |
| 0 | 30 Day Infield Challenge - Day 15: Daygame Compilation: POV INFIELD + Instadate + Number CloseYou are getting better, keep working on it. How do you get the time to go out everyday though. | /r/seduction | 11/05/17 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Field Report : Met a cute a girl in a barYes, I do believe now that going out more and opening more will give me greater belief. | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Field Report : Met a cute a girl in a barThanks, It really felt good tbh. | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a day game wingman in SydneyAnyone in Stuttgart, Germany? | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 12:49 PM |
| 3 | How to be confidentIf I can summarize this post, which is excellent by the way. It would be that Men need to act like they know already in their heads that they will bed that women they fancy. It's a very powerful emotion, the anxiety of approach and failure will turn into the joy of possibilities. Excellent article. | /r/seduction | 21/04/17 10:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop being so nervous around girls?Holding the frame means to not to chicken out of a conversation even if your body tells you otherwise. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 10:27 PM |
| 13 | How do you stop being so nervous around girls?I know dude, this "be yourself" and "just do it" won't help you. So I am putting forward three steps and they can be done in one day or split across multiple days: 1. Just ask the hottest girl you can find for directions, the idea is to be comfortable with the idea of interacting with a beautiful woman. 2. Next step is to walk up to a girl and compliment on her piece of clothing or anything she is wearing or carrying and then bailing. Something along the lines of "I know it's a little random but… | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Daygame openers?Yes this makes sense. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Daygame openers?Hi I know it's wierd but I think your cute and I just wanted to say Hi. Then talk about what you noticed about her. Then trust your brain and sense of humor from that point. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches a day?Thanks, I really want to do as many as I can in a day. If I don't do any approach in one day, I motivate myself to do more the next day. What's unusual is that I am a very funny guy among guys and girls with whom I'm not trying to sleep with, but kind of freeze with the women I am sexually attracted to. I am getting better at opening them, but need to start giving complements and then small talk. One step at a time. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 09:12 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches a day?Good luck man. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 09:08 AM |
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