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| 420 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-close | ronmagicjohnson | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 04:06 AM | |
| 6 | Tinder | ronmagicjohnson | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 09:22 PM | |
| 1 | Bad case of oneitis, frequently fuck up yet girl keeps giving me second chances | ronmagicjohnson | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 04:54 AM | |
| 1 | [FR] One must learn to crawl before they can walk upright | ronmagicjohnson | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 04:00 PM |
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| 1 | How do you get girls to approach you?Talk to everyone and people will naturally gravitate towards you | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How I get girls phone numbers.So this is how they put their contact info in when you ask for their number? | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 12:04 AM |
| 3 | How I get girls phone numbers.952 in the house | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 12:02 AM |
| 12 | How I get girls phone numbers.Call me old fashioned, but I just ask girls for their numbers verbally. Tbh this seems kind of desperate to me. Also you from Minnetonka? | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!Gotta be honest, every time a girl has asked me to buy her a drink it's been a girl I'm in a relationship with or a girl i'm friends with, never had a stranger ask me to buy them a drink. Unless I'm in a relationship with the girl asking, my response will range from hell to fuck no depending on how drunk I am. If a girl I don't know ever asks me to buy her a drink, I'm going to ask her she thinks she's worthy of that and basically try to charm her into buying me a drink. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Recently outer game advice on seddit is almost nonexistentListen to them! Game is game and you can't fake confidence forever so at some point you'll reveal yourself as pussy you are, except she'll also think you're manipulative and creepy bc you concealed your true self, then she'll move on and tell all her friends not to bang you bc you'll conceal your true self and only want vagina, but don't feel you deserve it. | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Women's Dirty Secrets - Told by meHow do You know if You cant kiss well? | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 01:28 PM |
| 0 | [FR] I'm mad at myself that I can't do thisThe thing that I found most bothersome about this post is that it ended with "I'm so mad that I just needed to vent." Are you here to vent or improve yourself? (Spoiler alert the answer cannot be both). When you stink of desperation and your main course of action is to vent and overreact to a few girls rejecting you, nearly every girl you approach will dense your discomfort and probably reject Youtube. Odds are they won't remember the incident days later bc of alcohol and the frequency with whic… | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Don't Act Abundant. Be Abundant.How are you pretty sure that not masturbating with help people not come across like the need sex? Give it a try. Also, if you're watching a lot of porn and masturbating a lot, sex is all that is on your mind. So while you're not aroused as easily, your mind is always in the gutter because you're drowning it with hyper-stimulating images and thus that's what you're thinking about. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Don't Act Abundant. Be Abundant.how so? | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Don't Act Abundant. Be Abundant.6 is so key! A girl k-closed me after I had taken a couple month sabbatical after getting my heartbroken and just trying too hard. I went to a party, no expectations. twin hb9s were talking to me all night, I was flirting with them, pitting them against each other and even teasing the one who had a boyfriend (I thought she was the better one, they were fucking twins, the grass always SEEMS greener even if they are IDENTICAL). Anyway, I talked to the single twin for a while, she was really trying… | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone that run cocky/funny feel like it's become too much of what they are?JUST BE CONFIDENT IN WHO YOU ARE. You don't have to perform for the girl, you just have to be you. If you are funny, but sometimes feel pressured to fill an awkward pause with a joke or make the girl laugh until she falls in love with you you're gonna fail. why? Because you're not being genuine, you're trying to perform, you're trying to win over a girl you feel is too good for you and that's why you play up your cockiness and funniness. It's ok to be cocky and funny if that is how you genuinely… | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Delivery driver was pretty sexy...should I text her?Does this include waitress/bartenders/shot girls? I know several girls who are one of those three and meet the majority of the guys they date from work. My buddy also got a girl's number who worked at a headshop. I think it's circumstantial and definitely worth remembering that hired guns are still people. Although in this circumstance i do think OP would come off as creepy. | /r/seduction | 13/07/13 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Social Media Gamefacebook has straight up ruined potential sex or relationships for me. It's a DLV to friend them and/or message them. Best results i've gotten were from when I haven't friended them, or even let their request sit for days. | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 06:02 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/26/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I've found it's best to ask open ended questions that are unique. This genuinely shows interest in the woman, and by making her really think about her response she has to put in effort so let her take her time and answer. Don't say things because you think she'll respond positively. You have to put in as much effort as she does or else your sexual advances will make you seem desperate. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 05:18 PM |
| 1 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark MansonHow did this get you out of the friendzone? I'm reading it, but unsure as to what you took from it to get that result. Was it through being vulnerable? | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 05:17 PM |
| 3 | TinderYeah I see your point, but your comment is more or less irrelevant considering how little time tinder actually consumes. Just wondering what other people's experiences have been like. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 10:35 PM |
| 12 | Advice/resources for curing oneitis?How do you know she's wild in bed if you've never fucked her | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 06:46 PM |
| 2 | When a girl rejects you at the last minuteI mean her asking that kind of sounds like a Shit test. Why would you be mad, you're stilling going and you found a better date. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 07:05 AM |
| 2 | When a girl rejects you at the last minuteSeriously, I know a girl who has flaked on me multiple times like this. Last minute text to cancel, cancels plans if I try to confirm them. Regardless of if her excuse is valid or not, you should not try to immediately make follow up plans. Give her space and let her initiate contact with you, which she will do if she's legitimately interested. If she isn't she's just too nice to not give you a flat out no when you made the plans. Also, if a girl says maybe, or doesn't give you a definite yes, y… | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 06:34 AM |
| 2 | RSDJULIEN - How To Get Your Dream Girl Off The Pedestal: The Cure For Oneitisdamn I'm definitely doing that right now, but i didn't even realize it until I saw this video. Awesome find. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 10:56 PM |
| 31 | The "Little Sister" MentalityI've been trying to fuck my sister for years so this thread was really helpful for me. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Zero interest in making out with girls that I don't have an emotional connection with or that I had to work for?Stop masturbating | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 06:33 PM |
| 8 | How often do you run into rude or unfriendly people?This doesn't necessarily apply to seduction, but I used to work at a liquor store in a poor, black neighborhood. Some of the customers resented me immediately because I am a white kid from the suburbs selling them alcohol in their neighborhood and therefore have power over them and can prevent them from getting the drug they are addicted to. A lot of my coworkers would get mad at rude customers, often times yelling or trying to abuse their powers and not sell them alcohol. Most of the time, the … | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 01:22 AM |
| 6 | How to get over oneitis?Spend some time building up your inner game. That can be achieved by exercising regularly, eating a healthy diet, pick up a new hobby (or two) that you really enjoy, meditate, spend time and converse with a wide variety of people and finally stop masturbating. Sex doesn't lead to higher self-esteem, it's the result of high self-esteem. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 12:59 AM |
| 7 | Seddit, what does a guy do if a female has resorted to calling him a stupid nickname?Since you didn't tell us what the nickname is or why it bothers you this is kind of hard to figure out. If it isn't negative, act like it doesn't bother you because frankly it shouldn't. If it is negative, tell her you don't like it. It sounds like she likes you, but you're too shy to make a move on her so she's trying to illicit a reaction. a lot of times when a girl likes you and you don't act on it they'll do little things to annoy you because they're annoyed by your lack of assertion (and in… | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Trouble with an openerThere are a lot of theories regarding what makes a strong opener, but the most consistent thing I've read about it is that what you say doesn't actually matter. If a girl holds eye contact with you for more than a couple seconds, no matter what you say, the ball will start rolling. people seem to think that a perfectly crafted opener is key to getting laid and anything less will result in failure, but i've found this to be untrue. The only opener I consistently use is "Hi my name is Ron," with m… | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 04:25 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closedo you take medication for your ADHD? I started taking adderall about a year ago which has been very helpful. I also see a therapist on a weekly basis and my school provides special accommodations for testing to help manage any distractions that can occur. I still struggle with my ADD quite a bit: I am terrible at time management, I get distracted very easily even when I take my medication, sometimes i get lost in conversation or lecture. I can't really think of any specific experiences right no… | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 04:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeWe were sitting next to each other, so I probably would have kissed her and seen where things went from there. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 01:05 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeIf you're one on one with a girl at a bar, just notice the girl's nonverbal cues. If she is looking around a lot, not really participating in the conversation, checking her phone, or has slumpy posture that means she's bored. I didn't even let her get to that point: I'd suggest we get a drink inside, bring the drink outside, and when we were both finished with our drinks, suggest we go explore inside when their was a lull in the conversation. Granted, this could have been an opportunity to kiss … | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 12:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeUmm, it helped motivate me to actually have sex. It helped me become aroused when I was with her. I had been fapping about every day for the past 10 or so years and doing so to internet porn. Arousal never became a problem for me up until about a year ago, but I just ignored it and kept fapping. I was more aroused with her having not fapped in almost 3 weeks than I had been in any context since about the time I lost my virginity which was about 4 years ago. It seems weird, but I used masturbatio… | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 12:52 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeThe extra info is helpful, but I still feel like you have a whole queue of excuses for why you didn't escalate and bounce her alone to your place. it just wasn't an option, I told my friend he could sleep over at my place (assuming he'd sleep in my roommate's bed because my roommate was out of town). I guess that constitutes poor planning, but it is true that I failed to escalate. Jamie and I had established she was staying at my place pretty early on, but that is not a valid excuse for lazy sed… | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 12:47 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closein the past year, what's the longest you've gone without masturbating? | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 12:43 AM |
| -1 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeThis needs to be upvoted until it receives in answer | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 07:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closehttp://lartistesociale.com/2013/03/27/powergaming-the-great-pua-trap/ | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 05:38 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeBasically, but you missed the part about how i roofied her and then left her in a dumpster. You might find these details helpful so I suggest you read the whole thing. Thanks for your constructive criticism! | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 03:31 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeHe was drunk to the point that upon seeing me he was ready to fight me and was clearly blacked out. He was also there with 5-6 of his other friends, 3 of which were his roommates. Even if it's his birthday, I don't feel it is my duty to babysit him, especially if I bring a girl. The next day, he sent me a text apologizing for his behavior and level of intoxication. I don't even know how he got into the bar or why his group thought it was a good idea to take him. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 03:15 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeThere is definitely enough information regarding how I treat my friend for you to make that assessment and you're absolutely right. Seems like You really got a lot Out of my field report, and thanks for the constructive criticism! ;) | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 08:30 AM |
| 44 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeI guess I wasn't clear about this: my friend was with us the entire night, was following us around the bar and even brought a girl back to my place. I wouldn't say I failed to escalate because we weren't alone until we were both in my room. I guess I could've been more clear about that in the field report. I did escalate kino as much as was appropriate while we had a third wheel, but I didn't ditch him to go kiss her. We also went to the cheaper bar, in part to meet up with a girl my friend knew… | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 08:02 AM |
| -6 | How to answer "how old are you?"I'd say "30, how old are you?" and if they're a few years younger, i'd respond with "oh you're too young for me" or "you must be too immature for me." Girls like an older guy so feel confident in who you are and how old you are. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Bad case of oneitis, frequently fuck up yet girl keeps giving me second chancesLol she canceled ice cream over text which is not surprising. I told her today is the perfect day for ice cream so it's a shame she can't make it. Not going to talk to her for awhile/ever again. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you respectfully convey that you find a girl w/ a boyfriend attractive?The key is to not let her know you're interested, then get uninterested. If you want to be friends with her, be friends with her. If you are friends with her and find out her relationship ended, you can't just assume you're in or that she's into you. She'd rightfully assume you were just being friends with her while she was in the relationship so you could get some easy poon. If her relationship ends and you do see her, don't act any differently. People need time to get over these things. Then, … | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What's the best seduction method?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x--j6J5TB8Q | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 04:14 PM |
| 3 | How many got into this to get over a girl?Dude defriend her on facebook, hide any photos of her that that pop up in your news feed. If you don't see her, you'll get over her more quickly. It's weird because my big ex and i broke up like 4 years ago. It gets better when you put her out of mind. I still think about her sometimes, and miss her. The key is to cherish the good memories and laugh at the bad ones, part of you may always love her but that's ok. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Bad case of oneitis, frequently fuck up yet girl keeps giving me second chancesThat's literally what I did the last time we hung out. One of her past flames was hitting on her all night and I was just owning the room, flirting with her friends and not giving her much attention. Problem is I teased her a bit, got caught up in power game and sccidentally hurt her feelings, otherwise it went well and I think this follow up could be good because we never have really hung out one on one. I only feel invested or oneitis-y when she's mad at me. If things go well we will probably … | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 07:44 AM |
| 1 | You're depressed and lonely. Should you work on yourself before taking the plunge?Don't thank me, thank Freud :D | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 04:51 AM |
| 30 | how to respond to these approach time shit tests ?Sounds less like shit tests and more like rejection | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 03:20 AM |
| 5 | You're depressed and lonely. Should you work on yourself before taking the plunge?Self-improvement is an overwhelming process when you focus on the end goal of being a super jacked player who gets laid all the time. You even have to change the framing of how you view self-improvement. Take masturbation: You're going to be miserable because it's the only way you're allowing your brain to release dopamine, . You're going to be four days in and feeling even more depressed than usual, especially if you just sit and dwell on the fact that you're not doing it. you also can't think … | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 03:17 AM |
| 2 | You're depressed and lonely. Should you work on yourself before taking the plunge?Yeah it works well. I still struggle a bit with procrastination, but I read in my psych book that the best way to overcome procrastination is to do the things you would be doing while you procrastinate after you've completed whatever it is you're putting off. It's an obvious, but effective solution. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 12:25 AM |
| 1 | This guy is literally with this girl any time I have a chance to talk to her. What can I do?So the three of you are in the class together? If you really want to make a move you need to talk to both of them. This other guy is a non-factor, he's afraid to touch her. Go talk to the two of them, invite them both to a party and get their numbers. She eye fucks you in class, she'll want to go to the party to see you. You're taking his number, he'll think it's just a cool opportunity to get that girl drunk. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 12:23 AM |
| 0 | This guy is literally with this girl any time I have a chance to talk to her. What can I do?Talk to the guy, become friends with him. Also, why do you assume they aren't dating? Is this high school or college? | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 11:47 PM |
| 85 | You're depressed and lonely. Should you work on yourself before taking the plunge?You have to take little steps. Improve your social skills and start enjoying social interaction for the sake of social interaction. Smile at yourself in the mirror until you feel good. Keep smiling for the rest of the day. Take pride in your small victories. Also, exercise, a healthy diet and a decent amount of sleep will help with the depression. Try not to place too much value on one person or build expectations. Expectations lead to frustration and loneliness. It gets better, even if it feels… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Cockblocked by friend - how could I have responded?drunken jealous dudes try to cock block a ton. You don't need to have a response ready, you can either brush it off and ignore them or turn it around on them, but in a clever way. If you're socially in the zone and confident you can handle it. Personally i would've looked at him and said, "Nope still not gay," then i would've said, "not sure why he keeps asking me that," with a smile to the girl. Not taking childish behavior like that seriously is a DHV because it shows you're confident, logical… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 06:43 AM |
| 6 | Living with parentsgo home with them or move out of your parents' house. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Sharing details of abusive childhood?You're wondering when you bring this up to someone you're dating? I had similar issues growing up and it's created a lot of attachment and jealousy issues for me. my therapist told me I'm attracted to women who aren't present enough in our relationship because my parents weren't present enough when they raised me. I spent a lot of time never wanting to tell anyone about my upbringing, then i got more comfortable with myself and am comfortable telling friends. The issue is I try to use it as an e… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Inspire me to get over my fear of rejection.You have to inspire yourself. Just close your eyes, plug your nose, and do a cannonball like it's the first time you've ever jumped into a cold lake. After a moment the cold water feels warmer than the air did. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 05:17 AM |
| 1 | When do you let go?I'm in a similar situation, have a girl on freeze out, and will for about a week because she suddenly seems disinterested when I see her in person, but still wants to talk and text. However I found inconsistencies in her stories aka she's lied to me several times, is it worth calling her out on past lies? | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 02:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I need help figuring out what I did wrong.Yeah definitely too soon to tell her she's cute. I know little about being a PUA, but in my interactions with women I try to avoid saying things like that right when i meet someone because you want her to want you, and she's not going to want you if she knows she had you from before the first time you even spoke to her. Also, you want to say something that makes you seem unique. She is constantly reminded of how cute/attractive/hot/etc she is because people probably constantly whistle and yell t… | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 05:19 AM |
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