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Read "feeling good" - I've had several bouts of depression and this book has pulled me out of every one of them. Plus, check out theXeffect subreddit. Achieving small goals will make you feel like you have control over your life and increase your happiness. As an example, you might tackle 2-3 habits starting today: 1) read 1 chapter of "feeling good" per day 2) exercise daily. Personally, I lift 3x/week and the other 4 days I do one of the following: 30 pull ups, 100 kettle bell swings, 150 push…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:45 PM
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Find new friends. You have a power dynamic with people you spend a lot of time with and these friends were created when you were still very BP (assuming) and that dynamic is very difficult to change.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 02:23 PM
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lol - approach like they're retards. I'm gonna try that :)
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:18 PM
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That care-free outcome independence of just having fun really seems to be what I'm lacking. If anyone has some nice tips as to how to engineer that mindset id be appreciative.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 01:51 PM
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Thanks - I'll definitely give that a shot. I had a mission last night, but it was more general: make 5 approaches. The thing I'm struggling with is that, in order to learn, you need to see what works and what doesn't. All I'm seeing is what doesn't work as NOTHING has worked so far. I know what it feels like to have it work. I was young, a player, etc. - but then I was out of the game for 10 years. My friend last night opened a bunch of a girls and I ended up talking to a few without much diffic…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 12:45 PM
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This brings the often-asked question of how do i show interest without losing frame? My interactions last night went like this: 1) saw a cute pair of girls on the other side of the bar when i walked in. Glanced at them several times, they glanced back. About 5 mins later I held my head high, walked around the bar straight at them and said, "You two look like you're having the most fun here." - The uglier of the two looked at me with a strange face. It was a loud so I said, "Do you speak english?…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 12:39 PM
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I honestly don't know what I fucked up. I stand up straight. It does take me a while to "make the approach" and I wonder if this turns women off. What i mean is, I'll usually see a girl and it takes me a few mins to get over my AA and go talk to her. Is it possible that because I'm waiting too long they're massively losing interest? That can't be the case with all of them though. I know the sidebar fairly well and run RP game on my plates all the time. Yeah, it's a process, but I doubt it's a la…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:41 AM
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I'm an American and I live in munich. I speak shit german. I get laid all the time. Sprechen sie englisch? Good. My name is *** and you're kind of cute. (German guys aren't direct so they eat this shit up) You can buy me a beer when u swing through during Oktoberfest to thank me
/r/askTRP31/12/14 09:00 PM
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First off, please add a spoiler alert to the top of the post as a lot of people may want to read the book. Secondly, I'm curious as to why you felt the need for the disclaimer to "forget about her politics/philosophy?"
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 09:55 AM
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Read the final 3 chapters of "Sex at Dawn" with her and tell her you're polyamorous (because you are).
/r/askTRP20/12/14 09:51 PM
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i.e. It may be a better strategy to postpone bringing it up?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:47 PM
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My wife doensn't want to meet any of my (what she calls) "randoms." I have a fairly solid girlfriend who is also poly, but I'm playing with a few girls who don't know I'm married and who I've had 1-2 dates with. Bringing it up right after sex is a strategy I've considered. It seems a bit cold-hearted though. That being said, women are cold-hearted as fuck so I'm trying to not be a white-knight who finishes last.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:47 PM
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Sexual strategy is supposed to be amoral (apparently?), but I'm trying to find a middle ground as well.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:44 PM
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It's funny you say that. My wife and I were watching House of Cards the other day and it was the first time we've ever encountered anything like the arrangement we have. The problem with swinging is two-fold: (1) my wife doesn't want anything else so being with another couple wouldn't work for her and (2) I want more than just casual sex. While casual sex is great, I'm open to (and hoping for?) a deeper connection (as deep as TRP will realistically offer anyway) with someone else.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:42 PM
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How do I "deliver the information well" ?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:40 PM
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Absolutely. She agreed to allowing me to "fuck around" a lot earlier than she agreed to me having a "girlfriend"
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:37 PM
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It hurts me to be monogamous. It's baked into my DNA to want to sleep with other women.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:37 PM
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Thanks a lot for the straight-forward answer. This is the direction I'm leaning too. I have one girlfriend and I want to add a 2nd. The first is also poly so no problem there. The problem is that it feels like it's going to be damn near impossible to find another person who is okay with dating a married guy. (I live in a very culturally conservative part of Europe BTW) Also, I wonder if it's possible to be vague like I have been (without explicitly lying) and that increasing the likelihood they …
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:31 PM
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For sure. I'm fully aware that what I believe goes against 99.9% of what society believes. But I don't care. I have one life to live. Am I going to suppress something that I feel is integral to who I am because I want to conform. Fuck no.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:27 PM
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No kids. Even when i first started having sex this was my biggest lifetime fear. I've never wanted kids and go to great lengths to make that happen. I actually recently had a vasectomy consultation.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:13 PM
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She was 31 and from Ukraine. She rejected kissing me 3 times. (I fully understand that standard practice is that based on that alone I shouldn't have seen her again, but I recently read Roosh's Ukraine guide and apparently this is fairly standard procedure for them so I'm going with it) On the 2nd date I got her back to my place, kissing, making out, etc. But it's still WAY to slow. I'll propose a 3rd date at my place and if she gaffes at it I'll do the whole "maybe we shouldn't see each other a…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:12 PM
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She respected my honesty. Not to say that it was easy on her, but she respected the fact that I was open and honest with her. The biological proof for men's wandering eye is pretty straightforward and the evidence is quite clear once you look for it. Once the premise that "all men want variety" is established, it's just a matter of logical discussion while trying to avoid emotional outbursts. It usually boils down to: guy: I don't know how to explain it. I love you deeply. I still find you attra…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:08 PM
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I was upfront about being non-monogamous last night and she clearly took it quite difficult so I'm fairly sure she wouldn't want to see me again if she knew I was married. A part of me thinks though that the poly lifestyle is so shocking to some that if their investment in me was high enough that they'd at least consider it - sort of like the idea that you should drop hints about non-exclusivity if you're plate spinning and if they like you enough they'll just go with it. If she ever outright as…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 02:05 PM
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So first off, you can find a lot more information about this lifestyle by going to /r/polyamory, but I'll give you my perspective. If a mother has a 2nd and 3rd child, do they all of a sudden love the first child less? Is there a finite amount of love that a mother has? I believe the answer is no. In the same vein, I believe that if somebody falls in love (whatever that means) with a 2nd person, it doesn't take away from the first. Yes, time and money are finite resources, but that's why polyamo…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 01:22 PM
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It was a slow (and honest) transition. My wife and I have great communication and are very honest with each other. At about the 7 year mark of our marriage, other women started to really catch my eye. I felt slightly trapped and started realize why men cheat. I felt guilty because our marriage was incredible. Great sex life. I love her deeply. Therefore, there must be something wrong with me. Then I read a book (Sex at Dawn) which led me to read a couple of other books (Ethical Slut, etc.) and I…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:11 PM
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It's called stress-testing logic. I'm looking for input.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:53 AM
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Intense is bad?
/r/askTRP11/12/14 01:17 PM
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Thanks for the positive and helpful response. I might be able to find somebody to go with - but I'm also inclined to just man the fuck up and do it. I thought that perhaps people had little tricks or thought exercises that separated their ego from the outcome.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 05:34 PM
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Yes - that book changed my life. The thing is, I'm accomplished in many areas of my life. I deal with women all the time in a professional context b/c I don't think about them romantically - it's purely business. But lately I find myself seeking validation from women romantically and I know that logically its bullshit, but I can't figure out how to match my feelings to the logic.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:47 AM
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Is there any recommended reading on getting over the "mommy issues" that require many men to seek constant female validation? Or is the common trope of "see a therapist" ring true?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:14 AM
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