In a month I'll be spending sometime in Berlin on vacation and I'll be around where my Ex girlfriend is. I'm thinking about contacting her to stay at her place so that I can save some $$$ as well as possibly get a few lays (although the money aspect is good enough). My German sucks so I don't think I'll be able to hook girls with my limited time over there.

We ended our relationship on a good note, we don't contact each other and I don't really harbor any "lovey dovey" feelings for her anymore after I've banged a bunch of French/Italian chicks. I'm just a horny dude. I'm not looking for a relationship, I'd just like a place to stay for a few days and possibly an international booty call. How should I go about this?

(1) – Hey [name], I'll be in Germany for a few days. Let me swing by and see you.

(2) – Hey [name], I'll be in Germany in January, let me know if you'd like to see me.

(3) – Hey, whats up, I'll be in Germany. Let's meet up.

(4) – TRP created response / DO NOT CONTACT YOUR EX YOU GOOF