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This. It sounds silly where you are at now, but true indifference is amazing. I remember reading advice like this when i was in the thick of it and thought “well thats stupid- i want to win and i want her to lose”. I dont even know if she crashed and burned or not. All i know is she is terrible at co-parenting and a disorganized mess when it comes to anything we need to accomplish for our kids/schedules. Im sure thats the rest of her life also. Itll take time, but one day you just actually wont …
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 03:20 PM
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Haha, agreed/thats what i thought! I think she realized its not possible for me to ever move there full time because of my kids and shes looking for another fairy tale Prince to come along. Meanwhile, I was here in the real world loving this mew mature version of a relationship. Detachment mode- engaged; if she reaches out ill happily go for more. If not, it is what it is. Honestly, this sub has always been great to just help me sort out my own inner thoughts on things, you guys rule!
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 01:03 AM
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Thanks for your perspective… what stinks is it seems hard enough to find someone you click with physically and mentally… now you throw on top needing logistics to line up and feels impossible! Would love to have some relationship with her with some boundaries, but doesnt seem like that’s what she is looking for. So, i guess I’ll just grieve it for a week or two and move on. Its actually refreshing to have been through divorce to have perspective. Makes you a little bit bulletproof cause nothing …
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 04:17 PM
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Thank you! I thought it would work for a lot longer but, you are correct. As much as I want it to be different scenario, it isnt. Wanting it to be different doesn’t change the facts.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 04:09 PM
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Yup— thank you for confirming…. pretty much the only choice really.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 04:08 PM
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Haha, hardly… this was my ideal scenario for a long time. Had plenty of time for myself and my kids, and lots of fun and good times on the regular. Oh well, life goes on
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 04:07 PM
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yea, sounds very similar. So it goes I guess, but it is a real bummer!
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 04:04 PM
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Shit. Same same same timeline, details, fallout, new boyfriend etc and same feeling about everything as you. Are we good bro? I feel, in many ways my best version of me. Mentally and physically doing really well. But, Also a bit like I’m weird (certainly looked upon as weird by others) for not wanting or trying with women and just not seeing the point. I don’t want to let one gigantic and tragic failure color my whole worldview forever but…. Its hard to not see thru the entire charade and wonder…
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 04:00 AM
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Good analogy. Make it like recovering from Tommy John surgery. You need to shut it down for a season, see Dr. Andrews and put in hours and work on recovery. But afterwards, you are better than youve ever been. Lifes going to be very different. I found, and still do, this sub to be a very good place to be. Its pretty traumatic at times but take the chance to look within, find out what you think you need to improve and do it. Steady, consistent improvement. Its a hell of a journey and it takes tim…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 03:01 AM
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Oh man. Happy birthday and im glad you have them. So weird right? Like your world gets shattered but, really all that can kind of be put back together with some time and effort. People do it all the time. But the only important thing that you need to keep in tact and repair is your self image and respect and thats so hard when you feel like we have. Idk, im 38 and been divorced basically 2 years and i just, theres so much happiness i feel. The only thing i miss is easy consistent sex. Happiness …
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 08:34 PM
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Im two years post and it can be really hard, my kids were 3 and less than a year old. Especially in the beginning, expect it to be really hard. Life as you knew it is totally different and that can make anyone shook. And theres times still that are really sad and i wished it worked out differently. As soon as you think you are able, try to stop putting effort into her and that phase of life and begin the next one. Many people experience this, its nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of. Its ok t…
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 04:06 PM
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Only time will tell. Every day is different. I love being authentically me all the time. I hate not getting to bang her on the regular cause shes really hot. I love being a dad, i hate being a single dad without the financial means i used to have and i hate the life they have to live because of us. I love the feeling of peace, calm and happiness. I love not grinding my teeth, not having insomnia, or having someone else having the power to destroy me. I hate that I dont have a partner anymore to …
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 12:59 PM
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Dangggg yup. I am 2 years out and share your sentiments and actions. I did everything “right” and in a way that makes me more miserable that I’m still sad and lonely. What I miss is being part of a family. Our co-parenting (actually parallel parenting) relationship is not great. I went from a doughy 190 to a shredded 145. I think I stepped up in an awesome way as a single dad. I stopped drinking except on special occasions which actually has lost most of my guy friend group. I do therapy that do…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 12:27 PM
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Mostly the same. I feel ya big time. I dont think so, but just sometimes wonder the same— is something wrong with me? But overall I think its no. Its a brutal brutal circumstance. The best case for us is we shut up, man up, quietly move on. For them its this exciting freedom YOLO go live it up while we have the kids. I dont know why its so hard to get over, but im sure it will happen eventually if we stay the course. Maybe its because our little kids will pop up and say the most heartbreaking th…
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 02:59 AM
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Home run comment i couldnt agree more. #8-9-10 are the tough ones, the ones thatll ruin everything. The first few are red flags and they know it, so itll be hidden and you will only get the full picture when youre in too deep. But the last 3 are the ones that will suck you in and entice you and eventually ruin you. 8- when youre younger, shes hot and sexy and puts effort in and were dumb and just are attracted to that. 9- shes fake nice… to you! You are 100% perfect, until youre 100% awful. 10- …
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 03:30 AM
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Yep! My wife wanted to stop fucking, loving, living with me, doing stuff together as a family, and everything else to do with me. But boy oh boy she still isnt ready to stop treating me like shit, control, manipulate everything, fight over the smallest stupidest things, Be a mom for instagram while taking full advantage of right of first refusal. Completely made up abuse claims yet wants me to raise our kids 🤔. Our 50/50 turned to like a 70/30 which is fine by me. Anyways, for the 1st 3-6 months…
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/24 02:20 AM
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Second this- i read most of the bullet points and skipped the color but its just an uncomfortable truth that is so hard to see. Youre a guy, its your girl, its your family. youd fight like hell for it. Theres nothing to fight for there, just not how it works. It fuckin sucks but its not the same person in there as the good days. You seem like a really nice guy, so youll try even harder at something that isnt working. Cook more, do more, clean more, flowers after work all that. What actually woul…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 02:27 AM
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From experience, no good comes from it. My guess is she wouldnt really know if it was your dads one year death anniversary nor text you. Lifes not all about reciprocity, but… move on as much as you can. There are certain things that make it so you cant move on like kids, finances, kids, and also finances. Finances about kids. This you do get a say in, its totally optional so i wouldnt. Its really up to you and why you want to in the first place
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 09:09 PM
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Yea hopefully short term. I dont live in town, 20 mins away and the older kid gets off the bus and is with a babysitter after school. Cant wait for the scumbag to show up!
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 04:56 PM
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Damn; nail on head. I moved out 16 mos ago, 4 and 1.5 yr olds. I almost dont miss my ex, but boy i still miss that fuckin house. Im there 3 or 4x a week….drop off, pick up for this or that and its the worst part by far. Everything has gotten easier with time, this probably will too. its the past, present and “future” thats hard. The past— so many great huge memories there. DIY’d so much. Fixer upper, elderly mans house that i did all the floors, landscaping, kitchen, 2 bathrooms, refinished base…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 03:01 AM
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Cant say if its normal, but i have sure felt like that and i may again. All a part of grief and grieving process. Everyone blossoms in their own time and their own way. I felt like that because i felt like a loser who was losing and she was a winner who was winning. But we werent playing the same game, or there wasnt a winner or a loser in the grand scheme. I stopped comparing myself with her, and with others as well for the most part and feel better for it. You should start to find a new living…
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 12:29 AM
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Wow. Absolutely nailed it. Well written. Exactly just needed to hear all that once, or even just one of them. Especially after i put in effort, admitting my shortcomings, apologizing, trying to improve. All that used to be reciprocated— then it just… wasnt. Then it became negative, verbally abusive and slanderous, which sounds like your experience. Guessing your ex was never ever wrong and her opinions became irrefutable facts. In a way, i kinda wish she just cheated or there was a villain or a …
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 03:36 AM
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No. I feel like a stupid sucker and fell for a fairy tale leave it to beaver family life and had it all ripped away 3 months after our 2nd daughter was born. Never even got to enjoy it. I put all my chips on the table and went bust, i have no other chips left to play, nor would i feel safe wagering them again. I wouldnt even know where to begin even if I did want to. Im considered handsome mostly and really fit from a solid year of trying to lift myself out of despair. But i am not socially desi…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 03:11 AM
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Good stuff and reminder. Seems so cyclical. Was depressed and crying like a bitch for 6 months, then the next 6 months i felt like i was kicking ass and everything on here was true. Then recently, about another 6 months go by and i am feeling miserable and shes really kicking ass. -she is, just a fact, so fucking hot. Absolutely so fit and dresses very slutty. Tough to exchange kids normally when shes in the shortest vball shorts and a sports bra and….. ya id love to just have another go. -she p…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 02:44 PM
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Ugh. So sad. I just didnt see it coming and I watch a bunch of 25-35 year olds at work going down the same path. I lightly attempt to give just some facts and they all have the unicorn. I was the exact same way. I can’t believe this is the same person I married but its just human relationship/female nature and you cant overcome it. I am a territory sales manager and every time I get a new rep for one large volume, pain in the ass client, i give them all the facts, all the warnings, all the tende…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 02:36 PM
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Dead on advice. its the secret of life.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 12:41 AM
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Do what every one says, all over this sub. Be your best self. Discipline, action, drive, smile again and best case scenario, you realize it was just time for you to both part ways in life- and your gifts were exchanged with one another. Most likely scenario: youll have a sudden realization that you were groomed as someone else put it. By society, by Disney, by her….and that you are in a happier healthier place because of yourself and for yourself. That you actually feel nothing/mildly repulsed b…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 03:20 AM
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Its wild shit really- such a predictable pattern. Man can be man of the house. Can solve every issue, do a ton of unseen work (lawncare, home maintenance, often bills) on top of parenting and full time job. Man can do it for years- can problem solve rationally, can communicate effectively. But if man shows weakness at all, if man has a human moment where he shows any negatives, anger, or weakness and its see yaaa! Fuck it. All the effort and working towards a thing that isnt real was such a long…
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 01:02 AM
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I feel you on a lot of these sentiments. Especially the podcasts and toxic social media. Its why every one of us was diagnosed with narcissistic personality or something. They get a phD in psychology from tiktok university. Everyone gets more and more of what they are looking for on these stupid fuckin phones. Anyways, you described just a shitty thing about life and partnerships way way too often. A deep, truly good relationship gets decimated far faster than it took to build. It goes from all …
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 11:05 PM
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Yea i had that. It was so oddly embellished on this online support group and it got a lot of positive support from strangers and all that just fueled the fire, made it real to her. Fuck it. Its hard but its a pattern thats well described on this sub. Go, pick up the pieces and live your life by design. You dont have kids which is such an absolute blessing
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 01:14 PM
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Ooooof. Yeah. Cringe memory. Its a wild time with wild emotions and your whole worldview, routines, life path are drastically changed. So, its ok that happened. Theres a lot of good times and more shitty times ahead. Stiff upper lip and never let her see you sweat any of it again— probably very satisfying for her. When youre in a safe spot you can cry all you want. We have a version of this too, when they realize all the shit you did to keep the ship afloat and start complaining and asking for h…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 01:59 AM
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First fathers day post divorce and it sure didn’t disappoint in the highs or lows. 5 yr old and 1.5 yr old girls Only divorced dad i know so far, so everyone got their instagram tribute post and i didnt realize how much i liked them or felt left out or… idk what. Remembered social media is fake as shit and made my own tribute to myself and for myself— called pictures. I didnt need the validation of putting it out for everyone to see and have looked over them and smiled all day. Had a glorious 10…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 11:30 PM
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Damn this was a well written post and we all appreciate it and have felt the same- some for a long time some for a little. Its fucking awful- gut wrenching. You think you won the rat race and before you know it, you got a penalty and are thrown to the back. Equally well written responses and i hope you take the time to read and digest them. I did and found them so awesome. Im in same boat and hindsight is 20/20. I realize we were both brain washed into the american dream. Loneliness is just a sy…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 05:29 PM
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They are both right. She should be dead to you or simply your kids mother. Way easier said than done. Dont fret, It just happens one day and you dont care anymore
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 12:29 AM
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First off, very sad for you and kid (and your wife i suppose too) its a shitty and sad scenario no matter how it plays out from here. Being a beautiful woman fucks you up in the head from all experiences i’ve had. She likely has some kind of cluster B disorder. My advice is to prioritize yourself and your well being as much as you can, it will be better for your daughter in the long run. Your wife will likely respect you more as well if you arent just doting on her all day every day. Post partum…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 03:22 PM
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Very savable from what i know now but wouldve had to know it all 2 years before it was even an idea in her head. Very savable if there wasnt so much mental illness (from us both) that festered unsolved. Incredibly not savable by the time i first heard of our problems.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 02:17 PM
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Yea. Damn. Well spoken and i feel this big time. I feel for you, with you and its a cyclical wave of massive pain with temporary relief— such is life. This sentiment is a part of all of us in different measures. We wouldnt have taken such a massive leap and commitment if it wasnt what we wanted life to be. Women are different it seems to me. I think that many of us come to realize that nothing will bring it back, but especially not screaming to God to get it back. So what choices are there If yo…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 10:51 PM
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Wowwwwwww that really cut to the core. In this process i find a lot of self discovery and reflection and then sometimes it can be difficult to actually face that. Like the sex paragraph here - me to a t. I mean the whole thing is me to a T. I clicked on it bc that was a cute pet name awhile ago shed say “you’re workhorsing today!” In a positive way. But its hard to really really face and change when you see how formulaic it all is. How to undo instinct. Thanks for sharing. Damnit. Equally enligh…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 07:06 PM
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Yea same, exactly. Not saying were not fucked up in someway. But there’s being an asshole, or a depressed jerk and theres clinical NPD/BPD. the best thing you can do is put it to the test and really just stop engaging. Dont give the attention they so desperately want, put up boundaries and stick to it. Their tough exterior, their amazing new life, it crumbles and they turn into sad sacks. They are happy when we are sad. They are happy when they moved on and we have puppy dog eyes, and we mow the…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 12:54 AM
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Reactive abuse. Bet you tried really hard a lot of the time, it wasn’t making her happy like you thought (transactional love) and she needled you until you became a dick. Learn from it and be better but something tells me she wasn’t great to you, never owned any of it and made you think it was all you. Been there done that. Just read around this sub and youll figure it all out. Really amazing gents sharing their lowest life experience for the better of us all. Im gonna fire in like usual, DO gym…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 12:45 AM
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So funny and short sighted. Our exes are all typically among a cluster b type personality disorder. I havent looked into it or cared for awhile if shes moved on. Been like 8 months since i moved out? I really dont care but im accutely aware that she NEEDS attention to live. I gave her good attention. Then bad attention. Now just absolutely neutral- no attention for a month or so. They just need external validation. Its much harder to go without it and you can slip into self pity. I sure have. Yo…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 08:23 PM
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Yea thats true. I do shit sometimes just because it seems easier to not argue.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 05:12 PM
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I listened awhile ago and re-listening now that you mentioned it. Theres a lot thats spot on yet i struggled with a lot of gray area in the book thsts halted some of the major changes he suggests. Though i agree I DEFINITELY have some of the issues, i have some questions about the book. 1) stbxw comes home, says shes sick and she wants to lay down = 3 more hours of kid time that we had a fuckinnnnn blast 2) she doesnt clean the house and it piles up and becomes gross, i feel it is unhygienic and…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 04:23 PM
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Haha dead on! The wives now think “i hate that guy now i side with her!” And the guys just dont have an opinion or care that much, because…. We’re guys. We have hobbies and interests to devote time to that dont involve talking about your friends marriage and tiktok. So, the wife defaults as the friend who stays with the group. Sadder is when she is found out to be a user, trash person later on and the wives now despise her too. Then your kids just get left out of everything
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:00 AM
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Thank you hell yes!! Really appreciate the effort put in here. I know already “holidays” for instance is a big one… but you having so many specifics is really helpful and allays some of my fear of the unknown. Its just such a mindfuck to have so many big emotions surrounding life-altering decision. Then trying to switch to the practical, nuts and bolts stuff is very hard but i thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 04:07 PM
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Damn this sounds like about the best case scenario ive read on here. Hope it stays peaceful and you continue on your path
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 12:36 PM
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Get nothing. It will do nothing good and believe it or not, may end up as bad. I made a christmas card for my stbxw , signed it FROM OUR KIDS who are 1 and 4. Initially made her sob and hug me foe 10 seconds, and thenit was taken as a love bomb and flipped later on to “i said no gifts for christmas and you didnt respect that.” For a homemade card. So ya, nothing is the correct answer. You can be cordial and nice without giving anything. I have a feeling youll get something. If you do let me know…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 11:46 PM
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This is a great comment. OP— i think you will get here eventually. You described my brain and thoughts exactly like… omg someone else is gonna f*** her, that was mine, it should still be mine yada yada…probably 4 months after initial separation im on this side. It happens over time as you find yourself. As you untangle yourself from the web of this fucked up situation, and as you recall you are in this life ultimately on your own path and journey. Its fun, freeing, scary, exciting all of it but …
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 07:42 PM
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Yea, its part of human nature to feel wanted im sure, but its a bad idea short term. You just let someone else have your feelings for yourself in their hands, and they treated your feelings like shit… so dont go find someone else to do the same. Just breathe deeply… let that shit go and begin the new plan today. Validation come from within and the rest follows. Ever heard “if you build it, they will come?” Perfect analogy. The IT is you. So, you can find some ways to begin that journey all over …
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 03:41 AM
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Getting into some “light” parental alienation during divorce… seems like a nice big setup for down the road. I am a fuckin awesome dad… but how does one prove it in court? How did you
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/23 10:55 PM
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Very excellent advice and you wont regret heeding it!!! I was the biggest chump/simp for a month and a bit grovely, then realized it was just bc i didnt want to lose my house, all my money, and all my time and connection with my lovely children. Its enough to make you do and believe dumb things. Im now remembering my wife is an absolute torturous, sick nightmare who i married because she was hot. damnit i really would love to go back and do all these steps listed above.Dont do anything, any favo…
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/23 10:49 PM
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Probably when i realized just how great of a job i did lying to myself, how co-dependent i was on her (when that was exactly why we WERE a good relationship in the past) and the only reason i wanted to stay married was she was money, my kids, and shes very attractive still so that provided external validation. It was (is still?) a rough 3-6 months but i am honestly the most happy mentally and physically ive been in so long. I am me again. we had a great relationship where we were ourselves for 1…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 01:10 PM
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Holyyyy shit lol…now you just made me notice how i slowly disappeared from her social media to back it up as well. Oh man. The realization that my special unique little life actually follows such a wild unhealthy pattern and realizing what im dealing with every day is so hard.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 10:32 AM
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Yea i think i would love to know that and understand the situation and what to do, but its hard to get into that stuff and constantly trying to learn about NPD/BPD all of it. Its all the shit she projected on to me, diagnosed me with and got me twisted in the first place— so its A) well that was fucked up that she did that, i dont want to do the same. B) sometimes i read it and i believe it about me while i read it. What can i do, we have 18 month and 4 year old that are seriously everythingggg …
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 04:14 AM
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Yes. She purchased it. I saw it in our house while watching my kids like i do more than 50% of the time. I thumbed thru it. Its her to a T. “the Blamer”…. Its genius of a thing to claim because, only a narc would then say no you are a narcissist or defend themselves. Welp. Only 17 years more of being tied at the hip.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 02:06 AM
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After 10 blissful years, we had our second child and she started acting nutty for the last 1 year. Coincides with her going on an antidepressant for post partum depression. She claims the meds were the best thing ever for her and it pinpointed that i was the sole problem. Nutty being Really explosive, gaslighting, abusive verbally and occasionally physically, brain fog (literally minutes later would say what just happened didnt happen). I dont care all that much overall, I am losing some friends…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 01:59 AM
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Yes. Exactly listen to this one ! Its like a fishing story, after 6 years the fish is bigger and your human mistakes are emotional abuse. Theres one thing you can do to “save the marriage” i guess, but i recommend either keeping status quo for the kids if you want to until she goes to the next step or just cut it off yourself now. You can, turn inwards, evaluate where you think you suck at life and try to improve FOR YOURSELF only… and basically let her go. If she thinks its a huge mistake then …
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 01:58 AM
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Yessss. Its so true. Again, something i was stupid enough to forget for awhile.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/23 01:51 AM
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So im quite fit Im 5’10, 155-160 between 9-11% body fat, advanced in yoga but not like scrawny—-Would like more muscle i reckon. The hair, issss passable for now… also very gray but has to be styled just so. i got the drops and shit well see. My confidence isnt that great and — im learning thats probably from a couple years of emotional abuse. Some of these books have been recommended a lot on this sub so ill try those out. I also am not actively trying for a little while longer just til life ge…
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 07:29 PM
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I fuckin love this woah. Same story for me. I wish i could pin point when i turned into a bitch but what everyone knows and says is true. I used to do whatever i wanted and then started like asking permission. Since shes hot and a narc she would respond better and was like, addicted to me back then Bc the validation aspect…. It all makes sense. I knew it once ill re-learn it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 07:12 PM
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On it! Thanks man
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 07:09 PM
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Brilliant i love it
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 01:00 PM
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Just love this sentiment in general. I got to really focus in on it daily. Reminds me of the japanese life concepts someone sent me. Dont compare yourself with anyone, accept and let go etc. i suppose every thing is figure-out-able
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 10:58 AM
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Right on… ill shoot for the moon and if i miss, im in shape
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 04:06 AM
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Hmmm. We were young, she was naive and i used to be cool? I totally get and agree with your sentiment
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 04:03 AM
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It went really fuckin well. 4 and 1.5 year old and we had sooooo so much fun, everyone acted like i had just seen them yesterday. And I absolutely crushed being a single dad in a hectic environment! The wives even said i get an A+ and they couldnt imagine trying to come here solo with 2 kids. Felt like a real win! Didnt get into divorce talk much, just said i really appreciated everyones help and inviting me along and they are an important community for my kids and i. Did talk about my new hobbi…
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 04:25 AM
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I wonder if anyone else had this experience but as young as maybe 15 years old, definitely in my 20s as a bartender…. Older guys have just peppered in here and there “never get married its a trap”…. often. Im 37 just getting a divorce now, and I seriously thought almost every time “wow that guys a loser/drunk/ugly/insert shortcoming here, no wonder his wife left him”. Jokes on me! If “educating young men” is actually informative like you are talking about maybe i would have listened. Always just…
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/22 11:05 AM
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