rpw_only Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Being a RPW epiphany - it's not about him. It's about you.		rpw_only	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/14 09:00 PM
7	The big lie: You can get pregnant whenever you want!		rpw_only	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/14 07:55 PM

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4	"Ban Bossy! Encourage girls to lead." Another feminist campaign that completely ignores Red Pill realities. Not totally related, but since you mentioned the self-esteem movement. I just read this article and found it extremely interesting. It's really long, though.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 08:14 PM
1	"Ban Bossy! Encourage girls to lead." Another feminist campaign that completely ignores Red Pill realities. I agree that kids learn boundaries from leading and being "bossy." I think the only problem with the word is that parents and teachers sometimes unfairly use it to characterize behavior from girls they would be fine with in boys. Once I read this a while back, I realized I even did it sometimes. I don't find the word itself that hurtful if it comes from another kid. They are doing exactly what you said - teaching the leader how far she can go. But, imagine being a parent of a girl at a parent-te…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 07:46 PM
-1	"Ban Bossy! Encourage girls to lead." Another feminist campaign that completely ignores Red Pill realities. Maybe I'm being idealistic. But, the passage I read a while back honestly made me evaluate my behavior and try to eliminate the things that seemed unfair. Calling girls bossy really made me think about how I'd handle my son doing the exact same thing. Usually, I found that I'd probably ignore it and let his friends tell him if he was pushing too hard. With my daughter, though, I felt compelled to tell her something like, "You're being a little bossy, sweetie. Why don't you let someone else try t…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 07:38 PM
6	"Ban Bossy! Encourage girls to lead." Another feminist campaign that completely ignores Red Pill realities. It's definitely mostly mothers who use the word. Either as an excuse to other parents or to their daughter themselves as a way to get them to shut up. That's what the campaign is all about. I haven't seen anything that says men are the problem or makes them a target of this campaign. If a mother tells her daughter she's being bossy when she's trying to tell her friends the best way to put on a fashion show for their parents, she's teaching her that taking charge isn't appreciated.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 07:04 PM
1	"Ban Bossy! Encourage girls to lead." Another feminist campaign that completely ignores Red Pill realities. I think it's more about making people aware that they're doing it than just getting rid of a word. I remember reading this a few years ago and it made me realize I used different words to describe similar behavior from my daughter and son. And while it may not be TRP-friendly, I actually do want to teach my daughter to be a leader and not be ashamed of having good ideas. I want her to be one of the outliers - a logical, effective, well-respected female leader - and while not using one word won't…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 06:38 PM
2	The shit test I've been getting (and failing) very frequently lately. Next time, say something like, "Sounds like you still have time to ask for a day off, then." She'll say it doesn't work that way, and you can ask her how it does work. Once you have that figured out, it should be easy. And if she just doesn't want to go, you'll have a more clear indication. I think the problem is that you're putting it on them to get back with you. I know I wouldn't like texting a guy to say, "Hey, turns out I'm off Friday. Still want to go out?" It opens us up to rejection and …	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/14 09:12 PM
5	Reluctant breadwinner moms are less happy You're right and I wish we could get over that. But, I admit that I like that my husband earns more than me. If we reversed salaries, we'd still be in the same financial spot. Yet somehow it would make him a little less attractive. I honestly hate that I feel that way and I hope women can get past it at some point. Because you're right - if we don't need men for money, and they don't need us for sex, why would any of us want to be married?	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/14 08:57 PM
1	Reluctant breadwinner moms are less happy Totally agree. Neither choice should be demonized. Because it's a really hard choice to make and you're always missing something cool no matter what you pick.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/14 08:50 PM
12	Reluctant breadwinner moms are less happy The word "reluctant" is a clue here. I'll try to explain the female perspective (if you're ok with that). Having too many choices makes us less satisfied. Either be successful in your career and give up the chance to be a traditional wife and mother. Or be a traditional wife and mother and give up the chance to see what you can accomplish in the professional world. You can't do both. But, if you pick the first one, you may regret not being there for your kids. If you pick the second one, you may…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/14 07:06 PM
1	Most Women Who Earn More Than Their Husbands Aren't Happy About It The thing to keep in mind is that they probably aren't unhappy with the amount they earn. They wouldn't want to earn less. They just want their men to earn more.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/14 06:18 PM
8	Marital Benefits for Men Stability for your children is the biggest one. If you don't want kids, marriage becomes a lot less attractive. Social acceptability. In some professional circles, a wife is an important part of earning credibility. You could seem lower class or less stable for not being married. Not losing a good woman. Many women, especially the traditional type, just wouldn't be interested in a long-term relationship without marriage with you. You could lose out on being with that kind of woman if you don't p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/14 06:26 PM
2	Is it possible to be TOO alpha/jerkish? I have no advice for the second scenario, but your mistake in the first scenario was not just calling sooner after her last text. Once she called you out on playing games, it makes no sense to wait a day to call her. It just proves her point. Some girls are hypersensitive to being gamed (I'm one of them too!) and refuse to give into it if they detect it. It becomes a stubborn pride thing where we can't show vulnerability for fear of losing. It's not too late to fix it, but you have to decide if …	/r/askTRP	05/02/14 07:10 PM
10	A tale of short hair, publicity, hamstering and Felicia Day. To be fair, learning that lesson is almost like a red pill of its own. A lot of women have no idea that the treatment they get isn't the same everyone else gets. Once you have the realization, you start questioning everything. You realize maybe you aren't as interesting, funny and unique as you had been led to believe. It probably sounds ridiculous, but try to imagine living in a world where everyone treats you the way attractive women are treated for your whole life. Why wouldn't you believe yo…	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/14 04:17 PM
3	How do I shake off the Oneitis? How do I start TONIGHT Ignore her, but don't delete her. That just makes you seem weak or passive aggressive. Instead, just hide her from your newsfeed so you don't accidently come across something that makes you want to contact her.	/r/askTRP	31/01/14 08:02 PM
23	"He caught me cheating, it was his fault for spying on me." To be fair, this tactic isn't new or unique to women. Cheaters often try to deflect blame.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 07:53 PM
3	Guy has been with his girlfriend for 15+ years. She promised him she wouldn't ask for children. They get married. She suddenly reveals that she wants children. When you're 5, it's not a lie to say you want to be a ballerina when you grow up. Lots of girls truly believe their goals and hopes won't change. Same thing when you're 25. It's not a lie to say you don't want kids. In that stage of life, many women probably truly believe they will never want kids. But, life experiences change a person. At some point, maybe you realize being a ballerina doesn't seem fun anymore. Or maybe you realize having kids does. Either way, it's not a lie.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 07:47 PM
0	Practical Applications of Red Pill Theory in an LTR I also hump my gf a lot of the time. Like as she's making food I'll just walk up behind her and start humping. Playfully. Maybe I'll whisper "Shhhh. It's not about sex it's about dominance." My current gf is the only one so far that humps me back. It's fun. This cracks me up. It is literally the biggest complaint my girlfriends have about their husbands. If we all go out for dinner, it comes up every. single. time and all the other women nod and laugh and say their husbands do it too and it's to…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 08:27 PM
3	Practical Applications of Red Pill Theory in an LTR Push her against the wall - yes. We do love that. The table too. We like that stuff. However, I will tell you that my girlfriends and I laugh a lot about how our husbands or boyfriends seem to think it's attractive to be naked or show off their privates. Spinning them around - gross. Placing them somewhere on us - yuck. Hitting us with them - even grosser. Sometimes funny, sure. But in a clown way, not in a hot way. Obviously all women are different and maybe your girlfriend honestly liked it bu…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 08:24 PM
1	Feminists: Biting the Hand That Feeds Them How should they express that gratitude, though? Even though I'm grateful for Einstein and Newton, I don't go around thanking physicists when I meet them. It just feels like a stretch to credit a whole group of people for accomplishments they had nothing to do with.	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 10:43 PM
3	A Tale of Two Women Possibly. I know I would never create a hard and fast rule like that. But we can't assume that it's not getting her exactly the guys she wants either. She created a strict rule for a reason. Just because it weeded this guy out doesn't mean it's not working the way she wants it to.	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 07:20 PM
35	A Tale of Two Women Honestly, it's hard to argue that her rule isn't working. You were not looking for a relationship and her rule weeded you out. Sounds like it worked to me.	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 06:45 PM