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| 2 | CA in a city with poor logistics | Logistics | rq7025 | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Sourcing leads in a small town? | Logistics | rq7025 | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Preferred dating app? | Outer Game | rq7025 | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Daygame/bar game in San Diego area? | Logistics | rq7025 | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:49 PM |
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| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadOYS #6 6/19/26 Stats: 5’8, 28Y, 153.8 pounds Lifts: Bench 235 lbx5, OHP 125lbx5, Squat 190lbx5, BB Row 175lbx5 (not going to list accessories) Vision/Mission: To live a healthy happy long prosperous life of abundance in beautiful cool interesting women, to spend quality time with loved ones, to lift, to excel in my career, and to pursue my passions Completed reading: sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Bachelor Pad Economics + most of Clarey’s other books, Rollo Tomassi Book 1-2, Praxeology 1-3… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/26 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit MegathreadIt's interesting you place such an emphasis on your relationship with your brother. It takes half the volume of your OYS. There's nothing wrong with that per se; maybe you and your brother were very tight for years. My speculation is that mending the relationship with him may be a redemption task in your sobriety that isn't fair to hold yourself to, because there tends to be a thousand food tow rope between change that we acknowledge in ourselves and others finally acknowledging it and modifying… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/26 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit MegathreadOYS #5 5/20/26 Stats: 5’8, 28Y, 151.6 pounds Lifts: Bench 235lbx5, OHP 115lbx5, Squat 190lbx5, BB Row 165lbx5 (not going to list accessories) Vision/Mission: To live a healthy happy long prosperous life of abundance in beautiful cool interesting women, to spend quality time with loved ones, to lift, to excel in my career, and to pursue my passions Completed reading: sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Bachelor Pad Economics + most of Clarey’s other books, Rollo Tomassi Book 1-2, Praxeology 1-3,… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/26 03:55 AM |
| – | How to stop offering advice and just listen?Research on Motivational Interviewing. I worked with people with addictions for years and it trained me to actually listen and understand. Evidence based. It’ll change how you communicate with people for the better. I use a reflection or summarizing statement multiple times a day in my personal life and use the core MI skills like developing discrepancies at least once a week | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/26 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadAbsolutely. I would stand by the opinion that artistic creation and anything of generativity is the essence of well lived life, as opposed to copious meaningless consumption (which can take many forms). I think if you're wired to have that itch for a creative outlet, you will always feel that itch until you find a way in your life to scratch it (some people aren't born with that desire for creation). I'm fortunate in that my line of work is in a sense an art, but before I was doing my current li… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/26 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadIf you do any driving, WhineMorePlease and Rian Stone's Midswatch series are great resources on YouTube to listen to. They go over OYS of guys that suck and don't get it but also guys that are switched on. Initially, I wasn't sure if it really made sense for TRP to do OYS as well, but at the end of the day the central question of OYS for either is "what are *you* doing?" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/26 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit MegathreadGetting out there and socializing as much as possible is a magic bullet for the man on his red pilled journey. Solves so many problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/26 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadThanks brother. Making peace with the moment and the journey as is something I have struggled with for years. I will be great at it for a months/years, then fall into a grindy routine. The change in behavior cascades to a change in thought, though it's all rooted in seeing women as the prize and an outcome dependence. You're right. I appreciate your confidence with your hair. For me, going from long hair that hid the state of things to nothing felt really exposing. It feels like trying to race i… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/26 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadI think you're right, I am just very rigidly goal focused in life and so I can't help but stew on how to achieve moving forward in my life to the detriment of appreciating what is good as things are. I'm trying to get more familiar with the buttons that push me toward restlessness and feeling like things as they are presently are not enough and I am making some headway in this pursuit. It feels hard to separate that though attractive women from good pasts put in a fraction of the effort or growt… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/26 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit MegathreadOYS #4 5/4/26 Stats: 5’8, 28Y, 154.2 pounds Lifts: Bench 245lbx5, OHP 115lbx5, Squat 200lbx5, BB Row 165lbx5 (not going to list accessories) Vision/Mission: To live a healthy happy long prosperous life of abundance in beautiful cool interesting women, to spend quality time with loved ones, to lift, to excel in my career, and to pursue my passions Completed reading: sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Bachelor Pad Economics + most of Clarey’s other books, Rollo Tomassi Book 1-2, Praxeology 1-3, … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/26 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadThe silver lining of more responsibilities is less expendability. Good job kicking ass at work. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/26 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadHave been prioritizing sleep and hydration in order to help with shoulder recovery. Lifted again yesterday and today, did reduced weight on anything risking the rotator cuff. Smart advice on the machines, as I push more weight again I'm going to jump to machines for a couple weeks. There has been a few events recently that have had me feeling particularly insecure. I have been aiming to catch them and reframe them with a healthier mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/26 01:15 AM |
| 10 | Own Your Shit MegathreadOYS #3 4/20/26 Stats: 5’8, 28Y, 152.4 pounds Lifts: Bench 245lbx5, OHP 115lbx5, Squat 200lbx5, BB Row 165lbx5 (not going to list accessories) Vision/Mission: To live a healthy happy long prosperous life of abundance in beautiful cool interesting women, to spend quality time with loved ones, to lift, to excel in my career, and to pursue my passions Completed reading: sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Bachelor Pad Economics + most of Clarey’s other books, Rollo Tomassi Book 1-2, Praxeology 1-3,… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/26 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadI have seen a consensus that as long as you maintain sufficient protein and caloric intake, muscle loss doesn't start for 2-3 weeks without lifting. This seems to be true in my experience. You will flatten out as you lost glycogen though. I actually tweaked something in my shoulder doing DB press last Sat and have been taking the week off just to be safe. It's frustrating not making forward progress but you may be like me in that I will at times put lifting before other important stuff in life. … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/26 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadMy brother is in town this week, so I have been eating with family or going out to eat for much of this week. It isn't a good excuse but I am going to start a gaining phase later this week when he leaves town, counting calories as I do. Macros should still be about where they need to be, going to count to make sure. I think a lot of stuff many of us can relate to. Feeling I'm too short, hairline, feeling like my clothes aren't good enough, feeling like I'm not jacked enough, feeling like I'm not… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/26 08:13 PM |
| 8 | Own Your Shit MegathreadOYS #2 4/5/26 Stats: 5’8, 28Y, 156 pounds Lifts: Bench 245lbx5, OHP 115lbx5, Squat 200lbx5, BB Row 165lbx5 (not going to list accessories) Vision/Mission: To live a healthy happy long prosperous life of abundance in beautiful cool interesting women, to spend quality time with loved ones, to lift, to excel in my career, to grow in my passions, and to spend time with the people I love Completed reading: sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Bachelor Pad Economics + most of Clarey’s other books, Rol… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/26 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit MegathreadThanks for the reply brother. I have large legs genetically so for the longest time, I was not doing legs. Have started back up sort of recently and am building it up again. Weekly volume for me depends on the muscle group. Some muscle groups you can hit nearly every day like calves, delts, core, some far less often such as legs. That mainly determines my weekly volume. I aim to track calories again to ensure I eat enough to get bigger which is my main goal physically. Though I have been getting… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/26 04:53 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit MegathreadI am so glad that TheRedPill is doing OYS now. Thank you moderators. This week will sound like gloating but I have been on top of it this week, will not always be this way. OYS #1 3/24/26 Stats: 5’8, 28Y, 155 pounds Lifts: Bench 245lbx5, OHP 115lbx5, Squat 195lbx5, BB Row 165lbx5 (not going to list accessories) Vision/Mission: To live a healthy happy long prosperous life of abundance in beautiful cool interesting women, to spend quality time with loved ones, to lift, to excel in my career, to gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/26 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Books to Give to my GirlI’m betting you’re being autistic about your beliefs and that’s what’s making her anxious. Not the idea that she’s living as a feminine woman in a culture that craps on that or any of that other shit. Don’t worry that this isn’t obvious to you, you’re in your early twenties and everyone is retarded in their early twenties. This politics society shit isn’t a hill to die on for you since women change their views on stuff all the time anyways (IMO). If she’s living as a traditional partner with you… | /r/askMRP | 21/03/26 12:24 PM |
| 15 | Men who genuinely cannot attract anyone are not as common as people here think.While we know women have a longer list of screening benchmarks for men (many women I have met do have literal *lists*), most men are simple on their bar for entry with a prospective partner. For most men, their screening consists of the two questions: Does she treat me like shit? Is she attractive *to me*? While many men have other bars for entry such as no kids, number of previous partners, relationship with family/father, attitudes on marriage/children, etc, many men, at the end of the day, wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Rebuilding in 2026You could start with the rough framework of approaches of guys like Coach Kyle, Austen Summers, etc. but to be honest all of that 2010’s shit drastically overcomplicated things. Establish your intent in some sort of direct way so she doesn’t think you’re bored and pointlessly bothering her/trying to sell her something Smile Keep it fun and flirty Keep the conversation about you and her Tease her, don’t be afraid to break rapport Push for longer interactions (3-10 minutes or even longer) Be norma… | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Daygame/bar game in San Diego area?Any recommendations on neighborhoods/suburbs for good day game/bar scene? | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 10:00 PM |
| 12 | Do you approach every random attractive woman you see? Why or why not?If they are exactly your type, it's more likely you are exactly their type. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Working on myselfNothing wrong with working on yourself. I had some people be weird about me starting to lift and stuff years ago, but now that I've been lifting, dressing better, etc for years people don't question it. You should improve your income, be happy, be more confident, improve your hygiene, vibe, energy, etc for YOURSELF, not for women. You are enough for women as you are now. Do all of that because you want a better life and be a better you. It just so happens that stuff helps with women. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Started working on myself, now I fell in love with the grind. I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thingDon't let go of your hobbies. Those are more important than some tail. As Thorn_Tail mentioned, is there a way to leverage your hobbies/work into social interaction? One of the predictors of romantic success is raw time spent in social interactions. Maybe you can join a new gym with more women or join a running club when you're cutting? (just don't come on too strong and quickly become "that guy". I would also look at your time management. I work 50 hours a week, am in graduate school with a 4.0… | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:03 AM |
| 28 | Is it over or a shit test?dating for men is a numbers game bro. If you make it a habit to get hung up on interactions that go nowhere, you'll end up miserable. it is literally sales. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Used to be unshakable with women. Now one girl has me anxious as hell. What’s happening?Once you’re at peace with the moment and as things presently are warts and all, then you’re truly free. This mindset has made me truly happy for years, up until recent dire health news concerning my mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/25 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Women see AF/BB as a singular journey of personal growth.Agree 100 percent with that. Not a small amount of 45 year old men can absolutely slay really any age if they have game/style/logistics/muscles/lowish body fat/haven’t trashed their bodies. None of that is hard or expensive either, people are just lazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/25 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Red flag from LTR. Overreaction or cause for concern?Would add to everything said here being with the virgin is not all it’s cracked up to be. That’s really tradcon mental masturbation. Basically what’s going to happen if you were to get with the sister, it’ll be a giant nightmare of emoting because people emotionally invest in who they lose their virginity to heavily. she would immediately throw bundles of covert contracts your way and when you fail to fulfill them, long story short you’re in for a shit storm of all sorts. But I don’t think you p… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/25 04:04 PM |
| 22 | Women see AF/BB as a singular journey of personal growth.I would disagree. The peak of the curve is much flatter for the SMV of men over time in the looks department than you give it credit. Women will jump the bones of George Clooney or Brad Pitt even removed from status/money at 30/40/50 just the same as in their 20’s. Viewing 27-32 as the time to cash out and settle down is not only not a productive statement, but I would say a recipe for major settling for a crazy/mid chick. Not being unattractive/frame/all other aspects of attraction other than l… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/25 04:27 PM |
| 6 | She Left You, for you to Become the Man She Begs ForKeep your irons in the fire but don’t forget to enjoy life my friend. You only get one of them. I spent years in your exact mindset obsessed with results, only to realize only when you come to peace with the present moment are you truly free. That is outcome independence | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/25 12:21 AM |
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