I travel for work in an area of a few small cities/towns each with anywhere between 10k people to a couple college cities with 600k people metro (USA). The problem is, the college cities with 600k people where it would make more sense to run pickup, I'm between an hour and two hour drive from, so logistically the only option would go for the SDL on a Friday/Saturday night with a hotel/their place OR "I come here for work a couple times a week, want to grab dinner/drink/food later this week?" I much heavily prefer daygame though I'm open to nightgame say on a Friday night. The town I live in probably has 60k people. Can't move for at least a few years due to family obligations. Has anyone been in a similar situation that can offer advice on how to frame it to girls? Should I suck it up and hit up the bars?