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CMVsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:57 PM
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Debatesadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:20 PM
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CMVsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:44 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:32 PM
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Question for RedPillsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:40 AM
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Discussionsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:23 AM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:31 PM
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Debatesadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:20 AM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:08 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:26 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:56 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:04 PM
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Question For Womensadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:33 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:33 PM
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Debatesadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:24 AM
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CMVsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:07 AM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:18 PM
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Discussionsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:29 PM
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CMVsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:20 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:46 AM
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Discussionsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:39 PM
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Debatesadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:59 PM
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sadbitch55/r/MGTOW221/11/20 10:10 PM
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Discussionsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:03 AM
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Complaining about jerkssadbitch55/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/22 03:51 AM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:38 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:33 PM
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sadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:26 AM
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Question For Womensadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:08 AM
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Question for RedPillsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:44 PM
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CMVsadbitch55/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:11 PM
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I am celibate for religious reasons, and, in my case, I am neutral about my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:54 AM
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If you are ugly, it's really hard getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:42 PM
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I do...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:35 PM

I'm sorry, fam, but there is no personality in this world that would make me receive a fat stinky gross man's duck inside me. Also, his personality is not all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:03 PM

I was nauseous seeing THAT guy which was my aunt's husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:48 PM
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Fictional romance: muscular man doing everything for you Real life romance: unkempt man paying home bills
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:13 PM
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Why, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:55 PM
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In my case, I'm single but I'm celibate (made a vow of celibacy). Does that apply to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:24 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:16 PM
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It's a status thing among their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:40 PM
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athletic build But I just told that I am always tired LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:10 AM
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Definitely harder. I am 5'2", 45kg, like to stay home most of the time diving the internet and I am also very weak and tired. And there are still men hitting on me, as funny as it sounds...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:18 AM
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so virgin = unable to work? I don't get it...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:18 AM
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every man knows what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:09 PM
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Why are you saying this? Any evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:23 PM
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LOL I want to move to wherever you live
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:05 PM
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Female women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:30 PM
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I would choose a bear because they are cute 🥰🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:24 AM
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TBH it's kinda different both situations. A woman is more expected to be beautiful than a man. Extremely handsome men are an anomaly. So, men often have other traits to compensate for their "homeliness". And this is what comes into play when a woman says she gives ugly guys a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:11 PM
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for some reason, reddit does not exclude your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:41 PM

Housewife. I would never consider sex work. But there is a thing: I would not have kids at all. Better two people broke than 3+.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:07 AM
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i see "whores" getting wifed up all the time tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:43 PM
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places*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:08 PM
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so, you mean a virgin woman should take any man before heading to the man she wants (hvm)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:08 PM
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My father was born when my grandma was in her 40s and he is extremely disabled - he was a little more "normal" when he had me, but still, we all think he is somewhere in the autism spectrum. It's only that we didn't have Medicine like we do have now in those times, but autism still existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:48 PM
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because humans are imperfect, and when you deal with that person on a daily basis, it gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:26 PM
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Majority of these 90% of women who do nothing to have access to sex are also easily tradable and can't hold a "relationship" for too long. Think ghetto chicks, single mothers, fat women, unkempt women, the list goes... These are the 90% of women who can - and do - have access to easy sex. But it often comes with being ditched later or with a shit relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:21 PM
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From my experience, they want to be seen as more "adult". When I was younger, I didn't see it like that. I thought that it doesn't make any sense to be seen as more adult if you don't pay your own bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:45 PM
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My grandmother had like 17 kids lol, but I'm glad times had changed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:34 PM
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My parents totally endorse me LOL. Maybe I'll adopt, but all I know is that I don't want kids of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:29 PM
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26F not in the dating scene - I'm content being single. All I know is that I definitely don't want kids and will have my tubes removed after I finish college. So, if I ever come to have a "relationship", the guy will have to be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:25 PM
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why don't you just say heterosexual women/men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:39 PM
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What are the main causes of arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:54 PM
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But why was it "worse"? Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:12 PM
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Oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:50 PM
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I currently work in a public maternity in the poorest region in Brazil. Majority of births on here "just happen". The women often don't care if their children are going to live a life of struggle, and self improvement is an alien concept for them. So, the majority of births are totally unplanned. I even often see some on here who are 14 years old becoming mothers, some victim of abuse. They don't plan on life because there is nothing to plan on. Their perspective of ascending socially is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:49 PM
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tbh the introverted ones are single for longer imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:11 AM
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From my experience, poor people in general don't have time to introspection. So, they often want someone to share the life with. Not that rich people don't want it, but rich people often have the means to have other ways of having "fun" (for example, internet, etc.) while postponing it. For poor people, sex is all they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:59 PM

25F here. About to go to 26. I wouldn't say that I am "happy" because no one is happy 100% of the time. But I would say that I am conformed. Whatever happens, happens. And I am ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:07 PM
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Corinthians 7:25
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:08 PM
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Which is funny because I was speaking about Brazil, where most people make a minimum wage that does not cover the bills. If you are making through it, great. But most aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:24 PM
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having a company, i guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:32 AM
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In my experience, most of human interactions have problems. Before the need of women to work, it was still like that. But now times have changed, and women have to keep smiling to make ends meet. It was not like they were all charismatic with their husbands in the past, but now stress has taken a toll on both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:29 AM
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to be honest, most men that I've met are not obsessed with women's virginities. most women that I've met (who weren't virgins) were able to find relationships just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:11 AM
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social prowess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:39 AM
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The problem is that there are millions of single mothers all across America (10M+ at least only in Brazil) and most people that know single mothers say that they are infatuated with their baby daddies and do absolutely NOTHING to change their situations or to stop having children by low vibrational men. So, do you think that it was ONLY a case of a woman with low IQ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:55 AM

No. Women innately have the so called "crabs in a bucket" mentality. We want to see all women doing good, but not better than ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:32 PM
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I was roommate with a single mother when I was around 22, before the pandemics. 3 months of pure chaos. I thought that she was "left" by her then "husband" and that she was an absolute victim. Turns out that she spent all her weekends drunk to the bone, and the "former husband" that she said that left her was in fact married to another woman and she was the side chick. Never asked for child support because she was infatuated by him. Then, I also overheard that she left her children at previous t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:11 PM
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There are tons of types of "intelligence". A woman can know Biology, other Mathematics, other can simply know how to cook. Intelligence is not something that you either "have or don't have" Intelligence is fluid, not crystallized. Being able to survive is already a sign of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:52 PM
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It makes a whole lot of sense. Cats are cheaper, cuddlier and are not getting bullied at school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:24 PM
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You can do everything right and still commit mistakes in life. There is no certainty to anything. And this goes for both men and women, there is no way life is always how we wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:48 AM
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"Women have always played the social game better" - I beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:14 PM
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Being a winner is being happy with life no matter your relationship status ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:20 AM

Not a nun here, but a 25F virgin who is a voluntary celibate, due to several reasons. I believe it varies from one to another. I know women who absolutely can't be alone, and also others who have high sex drives. I also know a lot of women who like to be alone and celibate. So it varies among people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:28 AM
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I know a woman who is 70 and has a life similar to her. She lives in absolute peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:08 AM

Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:37 PM
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What a sad existence... I think the fact that she partakes in online games contributes to her obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:31 AM
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No. Men DO have types. What mostly happens is that men string some undesirable woman along until she finds his type. That's why you have a lot of "ballers" marrying a specific type of woman: sexy blondes. What happens is, men have a type and, if that woman is not his type, he will treat her poorly most of the times. Even if he holds a relationship with her for a specific amount of time. Men are NOT so noble like some people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:16 AM
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does this "hanging out" thing involves sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:09 AM
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I used to have a Christian guy who was kind of "my friend" (who used to throw subtle hints at me). The only self care he used to do do wash his clothes, take shower and cut his hair. His legs were as wide as my arms (I'm 45kg), he was just skin and bones (no exaggeration) and he used to be awkward as fuck. His interests included "video games" and "geeky" stuff. I'm sorry, but even if I never had sex with "Chad", my biological imperative was still the same. No woman, virgin or not, wants to fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:19 AM
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A lot of these things also happened to me. A lot of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:39 AM
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what happened next? did he come into reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:54 AM
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it depends on the slut...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:48 PM
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i will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:11 PM
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The whole point of this sub is to talk about others. What do you want to talk about, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:34 PM
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I am sorry if you went through this, where are you from, btw? In my experience, pretty women get much more shit... Some of these things happened to me and I judge myself as pretty decent looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:54 PM
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There are a lot of people who can't be alone in any scenario, so, they choose whatever there is to date, instead of doing the hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:49 PM
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Nobody talked about height on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:53 PM

If he does, bye to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:39 PM
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As a virgin woman at age of 25, it's a lot hard to keep it since other women keep giving you the side eye as well. But it's a sacrifice that I am supposed to make. If it was easy, everyone would do it. It's a matter of self-respect. Society do not award what is easy to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:53 PM
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ugly men can work to the top...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:56 PM
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i would love being a mother and wife and stay at home all day browsing pinterest and doing crafts... but only if my child was actually a cat or a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:25 AM
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as a woman, i am getting my degree because I want to live life with comfort and to be able to eat, not because I am competing or trying to be bossy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:15 AM
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Okay, but anyway, I think you don't need to be "useful" everytime. God created us all and everyone has the right to live, no matter their usefulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:21 AM

It seems like Heidi Klum was pregnant by another guy when Seal took the place, so, it's like there was not a lot of successful men to step into the plate to begin with. If I am not wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:06 PM
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Some thing that I have NEVER understood is how some women start off relationships with people they know for, like, two weeks. One colleague of mine did this and it once shocked me. I am glad things are working out but I would never. I am extremely cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:21 AM
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One of the biggest example of it is Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady's children. I have seen poorer better looking children OMG
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:57 PM
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I think it is extremely exhausting and sad to be in a relationship where you have to constantly prove that you are enough and that you deserve a prince charming, so, most women choose to settle for a guy that they don't have to impress. IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:53 PM
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If you are unsuccessful you should not reproduce. Life ALWAYS has a way to balance things out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:03 PM
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I think most straight men do not make unrealistic demands on women. So, if a guy makes too much demands on women (tallness, leadership, etc.) he is most likely gay. Men always had to be the "provisioners" in all of human history. Women only had to take care of themselves and of the "house", which is easy work. So, if a man wants all the "male" attributes in a woman, he is most likely feminine. He is going after something that he lacks. A true masculine man know that there can be only one "leader…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:05 AM
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I don't even know a person who had 1000 previous sex partners - I think it's humanely impossible tbh. But anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:12 PM
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women have to have standards. if you take care of yourself and make changes you will succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:41 AM
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white men age like milk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:44 AM
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an me not having kids is a problem for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:32 PM
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ok incel, i can clearly tell you have no life outside of reddit. poor you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:20 PM
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The best comment. You nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:21 PM
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Yes. If I am going to marry one day, one of the reasons I want to get married is that I want to go out and spare a little, because I'm a loner myself. So, two loners wouldn't mix well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:12 PM

I agree. Short men should stop trying hard and start compensating in other areas. I always find short men to be more easygoing, sociable and happy than tall men, and this is extremely attractive. So, this is a way to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:28 PM
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yess sister. i am a woman who likes to sleep, so i'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:18 PM
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me too lol. imagine having kids for the sake of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:09 PM
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Stepping on others to make it happen. As a Medical student myself, once a guy told me "don't be anything more than what you NEED to be" and this is my motto. I will most likely be a doctor someday, but I will not be flashing it. I will be as discreet as possible and I know that my job is just like any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:05 PM
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But it seems like people will think you are a freak
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:35 PM
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Life would be easier if we did not need to have sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:50 AM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:21 PM
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I have NEVER met a promiscuous woman that was happy. Everything in life has a price, and if you want to sleep with a lot of men, you will have to pay the price for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:00 PM
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One thing that I've learned is that if you feel the need to look down on a person, it's because said person hold extreme importance to you. No one goes around looking down on homeless, addicts, crack users, victims of rape, etc. It's better to cause jealousy than pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:30 AM
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From my personal experience, if you want a woman that is "pure", expect a "loner". That is the price that you have to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:21 AM
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The Bible says it all: Put not your trust in princes, in a son of man, in whom there is no salvation (Psalm 146:3)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:23 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:18 AM
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If "holding out" means not having sex and being celibate until the "right guy" comes along, I have my two cents because I am in this situation - I'm virgin BTW. These 6'3" "chads" with white collar jobs and everything (which is very difficult to find in my town), this is the hot take: I KNOW they will not stick around, so I protect me for a guy which is on my level, in order to not waste my time and to not have my heart broken. So, it's not a matter of not finding "Mr. Perfect" attractive. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:55 PM
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Nothing bad considering she is white.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:48 PM
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But what if a woman's "first love" is abusive? I totally understand your view, which I agree to a certain point. But the conversation at the bar stated that women should not be all romantic towards their loves. And this is acquired through experience. So, what if a woman doesn't have previous relationship experience? Doesn't she take the risk of being "played"? Please, I understand your point, but I really want to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:10 AM
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Hum... care to elaborate? Is this an absolute truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:02 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:09 AM
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I agree, but both of these cannot be mutually exclusive in today's society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:01 AM
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How does it relate to the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:53 PM
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The Heaven's door was opened ❤️😍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:42 PM
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This ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:49 PM
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Best comment ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:49 PM
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Francisco Lachowski is his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:45 PM
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Men never leave women? In which planet do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:31 PM
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Not all women, just the ones you give your attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:01 PM
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You forgot "be blonde" for the lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:31 PM
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I don't know about the male perspective on it, but let me give you my two cents. In most cases, losing virginity correlates with being heartbroken, that correlates with bitterness and other bad feelings. I have seen it personally. I am not saying that non-virgins should be badly judged, but I think that is the reason that men "prefer" virgins. But I also think that everybody deserves a second chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:41 PM
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Curves overall and, for some, blond hair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:10 AM
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This. Calm seas never made skillful sailors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:39 PM
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So you want a person with ABSOLUTELY NO PROBLEMS? I wish you good luck with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:36 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:38 PM
1

I think it depends on the type of rich man and how he acquired his wealth...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:35 PM
2

Models are skinny because they have to highlight the cloth they're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:13 PM
2

Asshole behavior in men. There is nothing more off-putting than an impolite man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:06 PM
1

A woman who doesn't take care of herself and doesn't want to improve in all aspects of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:59 PM
2

That's ridiculous... porn will not cook dinner for you, not clean your house, not gonna talk to you and give you the emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:20 AM
1

Because women HAVE TO withold sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:36 PM
1

Which one did you lose your virginity to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:44 AM
1

So, what is the outcome of "dating experience" for women? So she can have more stories to tell? It's not like "dating experience" is as productive as "work experience". Women do not have this luxury of wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:29 AM
2

Being an attractive woman has more downsides than upsides. Women actively try to put you down, and good luck with pervert men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:50 PM
2

Most men who travel to these places to get laid also prey on children as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:40 PM
1

As long as it is natural, it plays a big role. And, men, we KNOW when you are natural or not!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:38 PM
2

I have witnessed some cases like that, and when I asked about it, she said that she did not want to be alone. Most of these people have issues with introspection and lack of self-critical approach. Also, they are often "live in the moment" and do not have much "preserving" instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:35 PM
1

As a woman, being a virgin is not the issue, at least not for me. The biggest issue that I face is lack of companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:29 PM
1

Dating when you are young is stupid. I don't care about RP fellas talking about "the wall", but most relationships that I've witnessed between young people turned out to be very brief. You have some success stories, but they are few. Women should mature themselves while young, through study and learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:11 PM
3

Was this man as rich as her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:47 PM
1

So, you want a relationship without any turbulence and hardships? Couples should improve each other's lives, not just complain and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:52 AM
1

I am in a relationship with God. And I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:27 PM
1

Wow... so sad. Best focus on yourself. And on God because He is the only loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:05 PM
1

Do you know who did not pop out children? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:12 AM
1

I think they're beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:15 AM
1

Really well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:48 PM
4

In the first case I've mentioned, I said that that girl/woman is very beautiful (at least for him) and had a lot of stuff going on and was all on him. And they had a relationship. So, it's not a case of "pump and dump", like you said, but a case of him using her through all this time (a relationship) and left her after he graduated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:41 PM
3

This make some sense but I think it's kinda obvious. But this does not answer the question that I have made, which revolves around men not staying with women that were with him through hard times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:15 PM
1

what is the difference when i'm 100 years old and the person cleaning my ass loves me or not, if i'm going to die anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:49 AM
1

ALL and EVERY woman HAS THE DUTY to be selective. Women invest way more emotional and temporal resources into a relationship, and we have hearts that can be broken. So, a woman should not open her legs to anything with a pulse just because she can't handle being alone for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:37 AM
2

as a single woman, going to places alone really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:46 AM
1

I think it has everything to do with how promiscuous or extroverted a woman is. I am not saying however that promiscuous and extroverted are synonims, but hear me out. I am an introverted woman and I also have a lot of social anxiety. Based of the few experiences that I've had with tall men (none of them being sexual, just glance) I've always felt anxious or a little more nervous, and I tend to not prefer that. Subconsciously I feel more threatened, and, therefore, it's not my preference. But an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:53 PM
4

What does it have to do with the question in the OP? He is talking about handsome men, not ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:46 PM
1

Majority of people in MGTOW and RP atmosphere are lonely men, Im'ma be honest. From my point of view, I see a lot of single mothers getting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:13 AM
1

Duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:50 PM
0

This made me remember an episode in which a coworker started talking to me and, all of a sudden, he turns his back to me and go to speak with his female best friend. Then, in a very fast movement, he turns his head to me to see if I was looking. So pathetic...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:09 AM
1

I am in the exact same boat. I will either be celibate for life or I will have to teach a common agreement with a man that doesn't want children either. But you have to be upfront with it from the get-go. If these RP men speak something, you have to ignore it. They are not going to raise your offspring if they become sick, so the consequences are all yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:21 PM
3

I have a sister totally autistic and a father on the spectrum, and I myself never had a lot of friends and never had any boyfriend. So, I can give my two cents. I was never OPEN to relationships and I often feel very anxious about a lot of situations. Also, I don't usually speak my mind and my inner problems and struggles that I face across life. So this is one of the reasons I never hold any profound relationship of friendship and of love. I am a very superficial person, and I often only talk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:53 AM
3

I think that the biggest problem men face when it comes to these dynamics is that these men that demand that women find them desirable don't do anything to make themselves desirable. You cannot force attraction. But at the same time, you can move from one level to another. So, the problem with most men is that they don't exercise, they don't dress well, they don't put ANY effort to look their best and they have the GUTS to complain. Women don't need you to be a male model. We want you to go to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:48 PM
2

Singer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:30 PM
1

Most people, men and women, if not all, have to put EFFORT in look THEIR best. You cannot control whether you're blonde, your eye color, your height, but you definitely can control your level of musculature, your clothes, the perfumes you wear, etc. Also, there are more things about you that you CAN control than things that you cannot. And most people have to choose to be content at least. Having an "I already lost" mindset never helped anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:38 PM
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I think it's more of a geographical issue. In Anglo/Germanic countries, where people tent to be a lot taller, this factor is very important. But in South America, where I live, I personally have never seen women discriminate againt "short men", because they are the vast majority. Here, women care way more about his job and other factors, like whether he is social, how he dresses, those things...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:30 AM
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Most of them don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:24 PM
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Virginity is the state of a person who "never had sex". If "sex" was not a thing, it wouldn't produce babies, STDs, trauma, mental health issues, it would not be the core of the rape crime, and so on. Are you saying that a person who "never had sex" is just like a person who is a mother, or has an STD, or a rape victim? Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:23 PM
1

Evey person, men and women, have to at least put an effort in their bodies, their hair, etc. There is no excuse to not do it. Answering your question, as a woman, I find it very appealing men that do some sport, that has muscles in their bodies. Men should stop complaining about what women find attractive and put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:11 PM
2

"Working on yourself", in my opinion, gives a sense of purpose for both men and women. Not everything should be made in life for the sake of the opposite sex. Do what you have/want to do for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:05 PM
2

In my case (25F kissless virgin) I don't feel this "nervous craving/urge" that some people that I've come in contact with feel. I am really completely ok with being alone in my mediocre life - and when I say ok I don't mean that I'm either happy or sad, just ok. I don't want to have sex, and if I occasionally find a man who really wants to be with me, I hope he is ok with not having children. I am not in a manhunt, and I think that most women give up past a certain age. There comes a time when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:47 PM
0

For as long as I've perceived, most women "bang Chad" because they were "dating him" in High School for example. They, more often than not, have had some kind of "connection" with him. But I think this varies from one culture to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:56 AM
1

Me being 160cm (5'3"), having 45kg and having really big round eyes, I would be offended if a guy much older than me got interested in me... You know why...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:07 PM
1

I think of it depends on whether this celibacy is voluntary or not. I don't think if a person CHOOSES to be celibate because it prefers like that it will be seen as a bad thing, people are going to find it odd due to it being a concept alien to them, but that have always existed in virtue of religion and spirituality. Other thing if it's the case of someone deliberately wants to leave celibate state and fails constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:52 AM
1

The type of man that demands an instamodel is definitely not the guy I want around me. In the end, it all balances itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:25 AM
1

If Billy Beta decided to punch above his weight and marry the Stacy without poundering the other aspects of her personality, then, Billy Beta has it coming. Every single soul on Earth has to deal with the consequences of their actions. End.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:15 PM
1

I think it would be divorced and having a kid to pay for, but IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:42 PM
1

The overly attractive women would still have guys wanting to commit to them, no matter their personality. More often than not, these guys are also repulsive, because only the lowest of the lowest men care that much about a woman's genetics and minimalize the rest. I have seen it with my own eyes. Truly desirable men take everything into account. And before you say that there is nothing wrong with being a slut, let me tell you something: they have the most awful personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:34 PM
3

Personally, I think I am much more prepared for a relationship at 25 than I used to feel at 18. It has nothing to do with "riding the cock carousel", since I am a virgin, but it has to do with the fact that I am much more aware of the world I live in. Now I can hold conversations that I could not hold previously, and, also, I have more life experience overall. Also, if you take care of yourself, you can look younger for longer. People never say I look the age I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:00 AM
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Apps like Tinder is like a craigslist of dating. I, as a woman, think that this whole idea is absurd from the day it was made, so, I believe that most of us still want the traditional way of meeting people. But men don't care about it as long as they are getting play.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:02 PM
0

Women of color can sleep occasionally with attractive men, but all things equal, it's white skanks that will definitely find some dumb cuck to marry them later, whereas WOC most likely won't. I have seen it plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:03 PM
1

I think you social success is not defined by the amount of friends you have, but the quality of friendships you can keep. So, in my case, I really had a few friendships in life, but they were really worth it. But they were very few and I lost contact. For women, a good relationship trumps having a bunch of "friends" that are worthless. I have lost count on how many times women try to sabotage each other, and this is a VERY well known topic in RP. So, I have met "popular women" who were utterly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:18 AM
1

Just because you saw one example, that does not apply to all the women. Yes, some women are stupid enough to fall for this, but some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:55 PM
0

LOOOOL Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:14 PM
1

Speaking about my reality, the only "very tall" people I know (which are very few) are lanky skinny men, more often than not with acne and anorexia to go with it. So, for most of us, we don't care that much. It's only a trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:32 PM
2

Only if the female is attractive. If this is the case, she can be an absolute criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:20 PM
3

I personally think you should have more empathy. Some people are not 100% responsible for their circumstances, and you are no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:09 PM
4

This...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:01 PM
4

This ❤❤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:17 PM
3

It's an absolute fuckery, man. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:18 PM
5

The child should not pay for the mistakes of the parents. This is insane! We should have more empathy, please!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:58 AM
1

If the price I pay for not having kids is half a meal, then, so be it...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:58 AM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:45 AM
1

There are other reasons why some attempts at stablishing relationships fail. Sometimes, despite all these attributes, these guys fail at some aspects, like, for example, displaying empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:40 AM
1

Definitely not going to marry. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:51 AM
1

Female here: I was tried to be set once by a "friend" but let me tell you: female "friends" NEVER want the best for you. They are competitors for the most part. This ended up in a confusion in my work and I didn't even asked her to set me up with someone. I think people should simply care about their lives instead of sabotaging others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:58 PM
1

I talk to God. I write my thoughts and I have in mind that we are only passengers to this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:28 PM
1

Evil and violent men are attractive to women?! Who said this absurd, please???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:38 PM
1

There are a lot of consequences that come with it. So it's not that they aren't JUST masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:45 PM
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I am going to tell based on my own perspective as a woman. The truth is, we KNOW right away when a man is feminine and when he is not. It's this "aura" thing. Or when we talk to him and we just know that the feminine energy is there. It's not that the man is gay per se, but we can recognize when he is. I've had run into some of them and I know when I see one. They just don't give this masculine vibe. And they more often than not have more women and gay friends and acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:25 PM
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I think that it's because, for the fact that they are "feminine", they don't have much assertiveness like other "normal" guys do. And they are often shy...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:18 PM
1

Based on my personal experience, they often stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:15 PM
1

Don't feel bad about yourself because these habits of sleeping around and drinking are not good for your health, and will definitely make you older earlier and bring health problems in the long term if you engage in it, so, don't do it. Plus, it will make you uglier (seriously). Engage in HEALTHY habits because these are going to make you prettier and better in the long run. When it comes to male attention, learn to not depend on it, because no woman will have it for too long. So, learn to be ha…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 10:11 PM
1

If your wife hits the wall, the idea is that you stick with her even after that. If you married that woman, it's not moral to abandon her because of age.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:10 AM
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LOL
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 02:28 AM
0

Indeed a very extense article. I will consider reading it calmly later.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 12:46 AM
1

Definitely. This was the red pill that I had to swallow.
/r/MGTOW209/08/20 08:30 PM
1

I was naive when I did that. I thought that being a single mother was a thing that ONLY concerned to her and I could never imagine that she would attack me. It was beyond my understanding. I thought that, by interacting to her as little as possible, it would work.
/r/MGTOW209/08/20 02:35 PM
1

Sincerely, I wonder what was going through the mind of this man to want to marry her...
/r/MGTOW209/08/20 02:33 PM
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Yes. I decided to be the best human I could be to her and she still didn't make good use of it. At the end of the day, she is the one that loses.
/r/MGTOW209/08/20 12:45 PM
1

This what?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:15 PM
1

Which country do you speak from?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:50 PM
0

I don't know haha
/r/askTRP21/06/20 04:59 PM
-2

What are the hints that deceives she as a virgin?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 04:25 PM
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