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Heavy agree. If it was maybe 8 years ago I would have said no. But now? with the rise of RP in mainstream media - oh absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:39 PM
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Red piller's absolutely look like that these days. I think a misconception is people have RP men is its some nerd living in moms basement, who is overweight/extremely skinny, dork, with 0 social skills. The majority of men who are rp or rp adjacent that live in my city all have the same look/vibe as the persons ig linked above. All of them have a job in the city, fly out to Dubai/Mykonos, crazy workout routine etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:37 PM
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What posts specifically? Are you speaking about this subreddit? or other subreddits? This sub has a lot of women on here who have been abused by men who have used tactics from RP/PUA, this isnt a very large subreddit so I doubt that the women specifically on exredpill randomly found a small niche subreddit to exaggerate their experiences? I found this subreddit because I needed to find other women who have been in my exact situation
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 06:16 PM
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Does RP say anything specifically about empathy? Aside from being as heartless and ruthless as possible? It's super dangerous to suppress or mask empathy.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 02:01 PM
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I actually think its 50/50, I think maybe pre-pandemic redpill was more of a combination of heart-broken men, socially inept men, and men with unhealed childhood trauma. I think stereotypically that's what comes to mind for a lot of people when they think of men who end up going down the rabbit-hole. Now I think we're seeing a lot more guys who have had a good upbringing (little to no adversity) but one heart-break / difficult relationship, and now they're looking for answers in these communitie…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 10:33 AM
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Interesting, this take is probably the most accurate out of all the replies. What do you think happens when a redpill man realises at some point they have to settle down? Do you think they kind of just find whoever is the most convenient to them?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 10:34 PM
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did you even read the post
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 10:31 PM
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its a shame no one is answering this? I find it to be the most mind-boggling part of RP. They pretty much have to wear a mask 24/7 around women yet no one has answered
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 04:00 PM
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After years of torture from my RP ex, I ended up suicidal. From around 16, I felt my life being derailed, I could barely do anything, almost dropped out of high school due to depression. I was extremely anxious throughout my teens because I felt scared he would leave me. I remember it was so severe I could barely breathe during the day, I felt like I couldn't control my thoughts at all, especially during the ghosting periods, where he'd offer 0 explanation as to why he needed to ghost aside from…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 03:39 PM
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Are you not aware redpill was a subreddit / forum that started 10 years ago?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 11:25 AM
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No no, we were initially friends both aged 12. He was fed redpill beliefs since that age, and now that I look back I believe he was practising tactics from aged 12. We dated throughout our teens into our twenties, when I started to piece together that he was definitely involved in TRP through older family members. I just didn't realise till my twenties.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 11:08 AM
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'Why does he do that' has been on my to read list for quite a while now. Will definitely buy this week.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 10:28 AM
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Sorry I should've clarified. I meant we were friends at 12 but our relationship started in our teens till our twenties. When I look back his cousins and brothers were all into redpill when he was 12. I didn't realise at the time, but he was doing redpill adjacent tactics on me even in our friendship. edit: my ex and I are the same age
/r/ExRedPill16/04/23 10:25 AM
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My redpill ex was the EXACT same. His desirability meant more to him than anything else in the world, even to men - not in a sexual way but he wanted even the men around him to respect him the bigger he became through his "bulks". He triangulated me with his "friends" too, and almost enjoyed watching some sort of invisible competition from the girls in his life. What he personally valued in the women he wanted as his end-game vs the women he actually chose / kept in his rotation, were wildly dif…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 09:36 PM
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When I was in a redpill relationship, I constantly felt like I was painted as a villain without any nuance or understanding, I felt like anything I did I was made out to be some sort evil whore in his (redpiller) eyes. So this post really speaks to me, the issue is - these RP men really think like that, they write off people based on their ideology, it completely fogs and brainwashes them.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 05:36 PM
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How were you able to pull yourself out? What was the turning point?
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 05:33 PM
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the subreddit?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 04:18 PM
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I'm not sure if these will be useful to you, if you are the person who was once red pilled or you are the victim of redpill abuse but I just wanted to mention for those who was with and in a relationship with someone who was red pilled who is trying to heal, I'd recommend these: Men who hate women - Laura bates Why does he do that - Lundy Bancroft These helped me when I was trying to heal from redpill tactics used against me
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 04:17 PM
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I know you're trying to be open minded, but leave before he starts to manipulate, dread game, neg, triangulate, gaslight and fog you. I was in a relationship with someone who I truly thought was level headed enough to take the "good" aspects of redpill (the self improvement stuff) and ignore the toxic parts of it. But as time went on he progressively got worse, its been years now and I've now moved on - but from what it looks like he's gotten even more abusive since then. So just be vigilant and…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 09:21 PM
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I wasn't married but I was dreaded to the moon and back. Then he'd slip off the mask and go back to his regular old self for a month or so and then back to dread gaming for a few more weeks. It left me hysterical.. I think dread game is one of the most damaging parts of red pill, I still can't believe some rp men can do it so easily.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 09:30 PM
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I'm sorry you had to go through that, it really is so so difficult. Did things like dread gaming, negging, manipulation occur in that relationship? or was it more so beliefs and rhetorics?
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 11:11 PM
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Thank you for sharing. I always thought that the techniques and maintaining frame and overthinking every interaction must be so exhausting and not even worth it.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 10:54 PM
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I've actually been lurking this sub now for months because I am recovering from the trauma of being with someone who was deeply red pilled. I just wanted more background into the why's and how's and also the downsides and if there are any other people who have lost someone to RP. My ex had been redpilled since they were early teens to their twenties so I've seen my fair share of tactics and techniques being used on me, and only the last year did I find out about RP because he was very covert. It…
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 10:47 PM
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I'm going through something similar, I am a woman who was involved with a man who became heavily red pilled by 18. I knew him through my childhood, dated him in my teens and left by my early twenties. I knew him way before being redpilled and way after he was red pilled and it tore me apart which is why I lurk this sub. That relationship was filled with abuse, where he was using redpill tactics on me for 3 years. As much as I hate the community and the ideologies that radicalised him, I can't si…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 08:51 PM
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Was he involved in RP / MGTOW when you met him or is it recent?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:10 PM
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What specifically made you step away from TRP? I lost someone to trp and genuinely don't see them leaving or making it to the other side. How long did it take you to realise you didn't like the ideology anymore?
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 08:10 PM
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I too lost someone to RP. It sounded like he just echoed things he read / rationalised every neg or action that hurt me. It was hell and I ended up on r/CPTSD because I felt so abused.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 07:02 AM
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Yes of course! I'm a woman who has recently found out the toxic on and off situationship of almost a decade - was just a broken teenage boy who was red pilled. I'm new to all this and I'm so shocked at how much he followed since he was a teenager. Please go ahead! How did they react?
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 07:55 PM
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