I still don't understand how the punishment and abuse tactics are justified

saivoide · 2023-04-15T19:01:39+00:00

Because it comes from entitlement. They don't actually see women as human beings like they see other men. They see women as sexual objects.

As soon as you stop seeing someone as a human being with thoughts, ideas, feelings, complex emotions, and problems, you only value them based on what they can do for you.

Which is why incels categorize women as wives, whores, mothers, virgins. And if its not those its simply female. But they won't refer to men as males.

And it all comes out of deep insecurities about things that aren't even caused by women but its where they direct it. They may have mommy or daddy issues, unhealthy relationships with either one. Some have learned to treat women like their abusive fathers did. Or some want every woman to be like their mother and cater to them.

Redpill men, much like actual narcissists, are so focused on being victims they lose sight if everything else. They lack accountability, theyre entitled and feel they are owed sex, attention, love when they do nothing to deserve it.

It has to do with socialization as well. These men struggle with most interpersonal relationships if the other person isn't like them. Man or woman. They don't understand what boundaries, respect, and love mean. They don't realize you need to give to get. And give genuinely.

That's why they abuse women, verbally or physically. There are tell tale signs for it. I recommend you read the book by Lundy Bancroft called "Why does he do that". You can find the pdf online for free.

The author is a therapist who's worked with men like redpillers, abusers, and narcissists and really helps you understand the signs and reasons why they do what they do. And it has everything to do with them.

SimplexPressureGrade · 2023-04-15T20:47:54+00:00

Back up. Preteen as in 10-12, you had a partner?

To answer your question, whether or not they realize the extent or reality of their bad actions, they don’t care.

By “reality”, I mean people too close to a situation most often don’t recognize what they’re doing. I noticed that these types do not like being called women-haters but accept the label of misogynist. Likewise “anti-women” will earn you their ire, while they still claim AWALT for negative accusations. There’s even a study where x>31% of men agreed that they would have sex with a woman against her consent if there was no consequences, but it drops to—I can’t remember the exact percentage, but something like—~10-13% when asked if they would rape a woman. Look no further than war to see the average person ravage the land and its people, when they and anyone who knew them would have thought those actions impossible.

That’s not to say women don’t do the same thing. I’d bet it’s true of both even when it comes to being the victim. Rape is underreported for many reasons, but one of those is the denial that they were raped, despite the events they described were the definition of rape.

No_Jelly_6635 · 2023-04-15T20:33:33+00:00

Search up narcissistic personality disorder. If he was doing that very young it might be because he has a personality disorder. Look up how to spot the signs and how to avoid them in the future.

elliebee222 · 2023-04-16T01:40:02+00:00

From when you were a pre-teen?? You had a 'partner' before the age of 13? Were they the same age as you or older? How much older were they than you? You know if they weren't the same age and you were a child/minor then that's grooming right? if they were 16 or worse much older than that they were/are a pedo and you can and should have them charged!

Title	I still don't understand how the punishment and abuse tactics are justified
Author	sadgal999
Upvotes	31
Comments	36
Date	April 15, 2023 6:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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