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| 115 | Chivalry in the modern age | sagelydrunk_sedditor | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 05:34 AM | |
| 92 | The reality is different | sagelydrunk_sedditor | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 08:21 AM |
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| 1 | The reality is different*edit: was not totally sauced when I wrote this comment. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 02:25 PM |
| 2 | PUA the Natural Way and other questions?The bottom line is field experience. Don't create expectations about yourself based on field reports, lay reports, or stories from other PUAs. Make your own stories by going out and just opening and crashing and burning and accepting it. You are going to fuck up and go through awkward and awful situations, things you would cringe at today but maybe not 5 years from now. Those crazy stories with insane lays and incredible DHVs from doing crazy random shit? They are rare and they are not what you … | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, lets compile a list of simple exercises that improve your game (and more)Situational experience is your best wing. From it flows attitude, problem-solving, social acuity, resourcefulness. Combine it with creativity, sexuality, and intent, and you are on your way to PUA-status. | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Eliminating approach anxiety using a clear process?Be more social generally, instead of just focused on women. Being comfortable and feeling secure in any situation is an attractive quality. Chat up random strangers of both sexes and of any age. A person who can be comfortable socially with all ages, statuses, and sex, is more charismatic overall and that will bleed easily into your game. | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Update: My cousin told me the game he used to k-Close 3 girls within seconds of eachotherThis sounds like using a routine to manipulate a situation that was already there. Kissing a girl in-field after seconds of meeting them is not a big deal, kissing multiple girls in-field on the same night is not a big deal, sometimes friends kissing each other and you happens and it's not a big deal. The routine opens it up but it wasn't the routine that made it happen- it was waiting to happen, all it needed was for someone to make it. | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed.In general don't read too much into this type of thing. It's not a big deal to break of plans, just make an effort to make new ones. For future reference, sometimes you can create problems out of over-analyzing or making a big deal out of them. I knew a guy who had somewhat flirtatious on-off relationships with a few girls and they would talk semi-regularly but not super-seriously. When he entered into a LTR he called every single one of them to tell them he couldn't keep it up and every single … | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Has pickup theory changed significantly since The Mystery Method?I'd say it's stepping away from routines, lines, over-analysis, to a much more process-oriented, methodical, and naturalistic approach. Here are what I think some of the flaws are in early MM: Peacocking - Super cheesy, contrived, a bit forced, not necessarily naturalistic, you need the energy and craziness to back up wearing a feather boa. DHV stories - In many cases makes you look like you are trying to prove yourself, a lot of self-aggrandizing which may come across as cocky. If you know how … | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Tap water opener (for a club)This opener? misdirection and fool's gold: weird friendly-compliance if she gets you water she is helping you do something you weren't able to do yourself you set yourself up as VIP, and minutes later show that you are definitely not "I should repay you." Your little kino experiment is rapport by misdirection You are better off parking it at the bar near a high traffic spot, engaging girls or anyone that comes up to get drinks, open body language. Why? You can open girls without moving from your… | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Do not ever be half-heartedly assertive sexually.As a newbie once you start getting numbers you are going to find out that half the time people don't even bother responding to texts. They just don't give a shit. If you're just the next dude or person that sends some boring non-text which requires effort on the girls part to reply to you are going to get nowhere fast. Versus if you send something meaty for her to dig into she is much more likely to respond. RSD guys talk taking their phone out out and mass-texting 30 dead(unresponsive) numbers … | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Do not ever be half-heartedly assertive sexually.The best part is either way you save time. You establish what is going to happen and you generate either a positive response or a non-response. Don't send a flurry of I want to fuck you texts, use it when it will have the most effect. Just be bold and direct in a positive manner without being crass. People like to feel excitable and desirable but not in a cheap way. I'm going to further caveat by saying you will definitely cross the line if you go creeper status. Some chode dude once tried fuck … | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Do not ever be half-heartedly assertive sexually.Like many things in game it was born out of frustration. Like OP says, if you do anything halfway it just doesn't read very well. Having been there a few times IRL situations and having sent dozens of text with no replies one day I just said fuck it. The fact that text a is 'safe' and appeals to people as a non-committal way of trying for conversation means most other dudes(chodes) are gonna go that route. So if the girl you're after gets 5 text A and you come in with a baller text B what do you… | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Long text post: I've been making awesome progress. How do keep my momentum going?Let the successes in your game affect the other aspects of your life (sounds like this is already happening). The feedback cycle between the two will improve both. You might find that your taste in women and other things becomes more refined because you have a broader range of experience and therefore a better sense of what you actually want. | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Rejected - I don't know what I did wrong.You have way harder lessons to learn in the future, but once you get the hang of them they will be easier. What all the FRs and LRs and big talk in here don't mention is the fact that even if you have a good interaction, you might not get a number. Even if you have a good number she might not still feel it a day or two later. Even if you get a hang out she might totally flake (happens ALL the time). Even if you get a hang out the chemistry might not be there. Even if the chemistry is there the l… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Looking for some tips on how to work up the courage to talk to someone.Don't worry about any particular outcome. The fact that you did it is going to be much bigger for you in the long run than any immediate positive reaction you might get. | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:46 AM |
| 13 | Do not ever be half-heartedly assertive sexually.Sometimes all it takes is flipping the scenario to think about what would be best. Which text would you rather receive from a girl: A. "Hey, what's up, how's it going?" versus B. "I can't stop thinking about fucking you." The 1st contributes absolutely nothing other than feebly trying to start a conversation. The 2nd is way more exciting, bold, assertive, and enticing. Why would a girl feel any different about a text she gets from you? You obviously may have to calibrate depending on the person. | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:43 AM |
| 1 | BIGGEST QUESTION: Approaching fear. What is your mindset for going direct in the seconds decision time you have?There shouldn't be a mindset, just action. That fear is there because you don't have enough experience and you don't trust yourself yet. If you keep up with the game you will learn that one of the biggest steps will be to trust yourself to know how to handle the situation without pre-empting it by having canned openers. Don't think about what to say, just go in and open and trust your mind to come up with whatever it needs on its own. Eventually it will start to and you'll be able to open anyone… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:32 AM |
| 0 | Why are woman attracted to confidence?There's a lot of 'gamespeak' in here. Theory from all the PUAs and whatever and evolutionary biology etc. It's good to learn if you want to give yourself a new context to think about these things but I'll try to give you a relatable example: If you've ever been in class, or if you've ever watched a talent show, or if you've ever seen a presentation of any kind, you've seen people who are good confident speakers, or people who just seem to have a better ease about being in front of people. When y… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:27 AM |
| 3 | okay, I kissed the girl. then what?Escalating is always about ramping up the intensity, not necessarily about proceeding on a linear progression of more intimate physicality. You don't have to touch a boob or grab an ass even, just start transitioning towards taking command physically. If you don't have the context to get clothes off just bring her body into yours dominantly. Press yourself into her, if she feels like you want her intensely her mood will escalate naturally. Your physicality is an extension of your desire, let tha… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Got a date set up for Sunday with a cute girl. What are the simplest pointers you can give, to keep me in the right frame of mind?You can do little things tactically -assume a power stance for 2 mins before going to boost your testosterone, get your body engaged -try approaching sets beforehand to warm yourself up socially -Venue bounce (3 different places) to make the date feel longer than it is -kino, etc. But the best thing you can do is not psych yourself out mentally. The best advice in this thread is to relax and not care too much about the outcome. Don't worry about getting laid, impressing her, judging her reaction… | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Any in-between stages from eye contact and smiles to approach?Opening by acting as if you were mid-conversation works GREAT. You have to start with something engaging though. Casually go towards the person, no introduction, and just be like, 'Ok, so I was doing this thing today, and it was the shit/total balls. Like I tried it before and I thought it was cool but I then I did it today and BAM it was awesome/fucked up. (describe whatever) ' And replace all the nondescript stuff with filler/actual content from your day, something relatable or ridiculous or w… | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Another perspective on Inner GameThere's a corollary tool and tactic to apply from this which is basically giving yourself permission. People can easily get stuck in environmental trance mode or w/e it's called. The environment (loud club, crazy party) starts to overwhelm you and you buy into it and start looking at others to find your position in the hierarchy as opposed to drawing it from within. You can overcome it by basically starting slow. Walk up to a girl and be like, "Hey, what's up, my name is ______. Yo how you doing… | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Excitability and slowing down the pace of my speechWhat you guys should be aiming for isn't a specific pace of speech but a new level of expressiveness. A lot of times if you speak slowly you end up killing the pace of a conversation, or re-aligning it to something less fun- particularly if you speak in a deliberate, calculated way. It's better to have a more dynamic pattern of speaking that takes into account tone, cadence, accenting, volume, CONTEXT, etc. I have one buddy who is a really good social speaker/conversationalist and he speaks pret… | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 04:39 AM |
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