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Intelligent optimist. But failing that an ignorant optimist. Negative people are extremely draining to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:57 PM
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That’s not how genetics work. You seem to be implying that there are disproportionate amounts tall women AND more short men because tall men are having children with short women? Which is pretty out there and has no scientific evidence at all to support it as such partnerships are just as likely to produce tall men and short women as they are the other way around. It sounds like a 6’4 guy you had a crush on decided to go out with a short girl instead of you so you decided to create this false na…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:41 AM
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As to that I’m not sure. It could be visceral or it could be that every single couple I remember seeing in real life, cartoons, movies etc was made up of a man with a slightly shorter woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:48 PM
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So you made up some random scenario in your head and now that makes you right? That’s simply not true. I have two friends over 6’4 I’ve known since high school both are married to women over 5’8 and I’ve literally never seen them date anyone below average height and heard them on multiple occasions say dating women too much shorter than them is awkward. I feel like you’re taking some very specific personal anecdote of your own rejection and trying to create some false reality with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:30 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean? I can see objectively that they are pretty or have a good body but I’m just not attracted to women taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:23 PM
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That’s not a random number I just came up with though, my height is 5’10-5’11 so in other words I don’t care as long as I’m slightly taller. Men understand that women don’t like to date men shorter than themselves because most of us don’t like to date women taller than us. The problem men have is that women have unrealistic height expectations that men don’t have. In your post you imply that men have the same level of height requirements as women just aimed at discriminating against tall women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:16 PM
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I wouldn’t put it in my bio but I wouldn’t ever date a girl over 5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:27 PM
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Yes I can and that’s my opinion on what’s good looking which is again by definition subjective. Saying something is objective is stating a fact that isn’t influenced by personal opinion. Saying you find someone “good looking” is saying you find that personal physically appealing to look at which again is not objective. It’s not a fact that that person is good looking, you find that person physically appealing to look at which is entirely subjective. We are going around in circles so I’m leaving …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:03 AM
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Except your headline says “The average woman is more attractive than your average man” I’m not giving my opinion or what I believe, I’m just telling you that it is literally impossible for physical attraction to be objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:36 AM
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I’m bi-fruital so I’d fuck both equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:56 AM
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Being attractive is by definition subjective because by definition it’s a combination of qualities that please or appeal to the senses which are your senses not everyones. Sure there are some qualities that are almost universally considered attractive but that doesn’t mean what people find attractive is objective because again by definition objective means “not influenced by personal opinion” where attraction is quite literally entirely influenced by your own opinion about what you find attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:53 AM
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This kind of take is pretty nonsensical. Your attractiveness is completely relative to how you compare to your peers. It’s like saying oranges are on average better looking than apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:39 AM
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That’s a pretty ridiculous contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:31 AM
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That’s just out of touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:07 PM
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Money and status. Talent literally has nothing to do with it. If you think women would rather date a talented musician over a famous one you’re kidding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:30 AM
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I’d like to think I’m fairly attractive. I’ve found a lot of success on dating apps that aren’t tinder, Hinge has probably been the most successful. Also whenever I see a girl on a dating app that I’ve already met IRL or have mutual friends I’ve found girls are much more keen to go on a date. Hooking up with friends of my mates girlfriends has also been a pretty successful so I’d suggest trying to hang out in large mixed gender groups as much as possible. Have had absolutely no luck in clubs and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:49 AM
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Haha that’s a weak anecdote mate. Exceptions from niche parts of the population don’t prove the rule. How hard is it to understand that when people are talking about becoming “attractive” they are talking about what is considered attractive to the majority of the population and not what is considered attractive by some niche minority? I go to a gym that has some 5’5 250lbs meat heads that have good looking girlfriends, that doesn’t mean that that is the way to become to attractive to the majorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:39 AM
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Yeh when I start seeing men who look like prince or androgynous fem Korean boy band members taking hot girls home from the club over tall, handsome in shape men I’ll eat my words but neither have us have ever seen it and you know it. I swear you all live in some fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:22 AM
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When did I say they were celebrated sex symbols solely because they are rich and famous? I said being rich and famous makes having a unique non traditionally attractive look attractive to women and without the rich and famous part they wouldn’t be attractive. You’ve just named old and ugly people and said they aren’t attractive. No shit Sherlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:08 AM
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I’m not really sure if you’re agreeing or disagreeing with me but I don’t understand your example. OP is using the false equivalency that being fem/non masculine is attractive to women because rich celebrities that are feminine are attractive to women. Completely ignoring the fact that it’s being rich and famous that makes having a unique non masculine appearance attractive, not the actual being non masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:24 AM
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Do not pay any attention to this. Spray cologne directly on your skin on the top of your chest/neck area and on your wrists. Don’t use too much and don’t rub it in. Walking through a spray of cologne is just a waste of good cologne. https://bespokeunit.com/fragrance/apply/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:14 AM
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My partner is an nurse anaesthetist which is close to a perfect job that I would want for my partner. She is currently working full time and making very good money that has allowed us to get into the property market in a very expensive city. We are planning on having kids in the next year or two and she will be able to get work on a casual basis when she decides to go back to work. The mix of being well paid and having the option to work on a flexible schedule is ideal for a woman thinking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:04 AM
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I find it bizarre that some people can’t differentiate between how getting laid is achieved by rich celebrities compared to common people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:18 PM
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Comparing a notorious pedophile serial killer to men over 30 dating women under 25 is nothing short of bizarre and I’m not really sure what the point of this post is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:09 AM
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The literal definition is “a combination of qualities that please the aesthetic senses” so by definition beauty has to be subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:06 AM
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This man is also 5’9 and 200lbs. I’m not saying that everyone looks like a mr Olympia contestant but just finding a fat guy who fits the average weight isn’t a proper representation of “Average” when a large contributing factor of rising weights in western countries is more people weight training than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:56 PM
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I’ve never been properly obese, I’ve always been proud of my physique and have been Muscular/fit 5’10 and around 195lbs with a low body fat percentage. At the start of covid when my gym was closed and I started drinking and eating Uber eats more I ballooned out to well over 230lbs. The difference between being 190lbs and fit and over 230lbs and fat was night and day. At 190 I felt great, women would occasionally check me out at the gym, when taking my shirt off to sleep with a girl I looked forw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:39 AM
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The amount of hyperbole on this sub is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:43 AM
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I’m purely responding to your comment that you’ve never met a man with ass or titty requirements. I wouldn’t say narrow waist and big ass but I’m into fit women, shorter than me, with at least a bit of a booty. I don’t date women who have short hair or don’t shave their legs or underarms and they have to have a face I find nice to look at. Is that really much different to women’s standards? The only thing I’d say where women differ from me is they care more about money and success but men with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:56 PM
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I’m pointing out opposite ends of the spectrum. If you’re going to compare women to each other and label some that have mostly undesirable traits as low value then it’s only logical that women with mostly desirable traits are high value. You can’t have low value without a high value, it doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:48 PM
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I wouldn’t date a woman taller than me or one with no ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:01 PM
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Woman A - Promiscuous past, poor domestic skills, from a poor family, bad with money, low paying job, no education, poor values. Woman B - Not promiscuous, good cook, keeps a clean house, good with money, educated, good job that pays well, good values, from a loving and wealthy family. How is one not low value and one not high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:57 PM
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I don’t agree with OP about peaking in your late 30s but ive read a few times that men’s attractiveness peaks in their mid-late 20s and doesn’t drop below average until 36. Which pretty much fits my experience and what I see on a day to day basis. Sure if you have male pattern baldness or don’t look after yourself then your attractiveness is just going to be a downward trend from the day you finish puberty but for most people it takes a few years to grow into yourself and you can keep that going…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:48 PM
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I think they mean LTR with legitimate intentions of marriage. Which is weird because I think most people men and women start to look for that or be at least open to finding that well before 30. 30 would be more like the age that women who want to have children some day might to worry they haven’t found someone suitable yet but not the age that they start to look to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:53 AM
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Canberra has a greater metro population of 350k and OP is comparing it to Boston and Toronto which are 8m and 6m respectively. Glasgow is also the most dangerous place in Scotland so I think it’s safe to say OP has no idea what they are talking about in regards to comparing cities. I’d also love to hear of what city in Australia is more dangerous than Boston.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:37 PM
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Heterosexual marriages are at an all time low and are trending down, both men and women are marrying later in life than ever before and getting married in your 30s is the new norm and not getting married is more popular than ever. Not much will change really as women are trending the same way, everything is just getting pushed back a few years and more people are choosing to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:11 AM
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I don’t think you know what you’re talking about to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:05 AM
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Haha that’s a bit harsh. I think sometimes you can see where they are coming from, like where they summarise their own personal experience into broad generalisations or cite a bad study or something. This one is just really left field like stating young men like monogamy while older ones like short flings as fact when the fact is probably closer to the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:42 AM
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That’s a pretty hypocritical statement. A woman falsifies something about herself in order to be more attractive to the opposite sex and it’s the mans fault for creating a negative stigma about unattractive women. By that same logic a man lying about his income would have to be the woman’s fault for creating a negative stigma about poor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:19 PM
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Did you actually read the post? That’s literally the last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:07 PM
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Yeh I’m from London and moved to Melbourne (australia) so have friends in both cities and have never witnessed what OP is talking about. Both men and women tend to be happier being single the younger they are and get more serious about finding a LTR the older they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:22 PM
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Sometimes posts on here just don’t add up to anything I’ve ever seen in reality and this is one of them. Women are obviously going to be more urgently looking to settle down the older they get if they want to have children but what evidence do you have that the older men get they are less likely to want anything serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:41 PM
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Toupees are 100% not as socially acceptable as padded bras, shapewear, fake eye lashes, hair extensions, make up, high heels etc Personally I have no problem with any of it, I’m just making a case for anyone who might be frustrated by the double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:33 PM
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I think it’s less about people complaining women aren’t pretty enough under the make up but rather the deception itself. Would women not be complaining if it was more socially acceptable for men to do the same? Imagine sleeping with someone because you thought he was tall, handsome, had nice hair and good body only for him to take off his wig, muscle suit, girdle, lifts etc when he went to hop into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:03 PM
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Smiling releases endorphins, when we smile it subconsciously causes other people to smile which makes them associate us with good feelings and want to be near us more. Studies have shown that any kind of smile greatly improves judgments of attractiveness, generosity, health, and agreeableness in both men and women. As to why some people think it’s a good idea to tell women to smile I’m not too sure. If I had to guess I’d say it’s people with poor social skills thinking they are giving good advic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:56 PM
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Shave your dome, work out, eat well, take care of your skin and teeth and dress well. You’re not going to instantly become a stud after doing that but you’re going to be a hell of a lot more attractive than an average pudgy dude holding onto a few wisps of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:00 AM
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I’ve never been on either sub but I’d imagine it just comes down to the fact men need to get their head around dating from a young age or they don’t get laid or get a girlfriend. Women get chased from the time they hit puberty so never really need dating advice until they hit their 30s and are still single when they are inclined to look into what they may be doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:42 AM
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I’ve encountered a lot of women like that on dating apps. I think a lot of it is down to upbringing, a large part of society still regards a woman’s worth to be based on solely how attractive they are while men’s worth has always been about a combination of attractiveness, personal skills and ability to provide. These women probably feel like they have earned the very best men because they are attractive and they have been raised to believe that that is all a woman needs to be. Whether smart, ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:44 PM
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I don’t know what to tell you but going out with your friends to play basketball or go fishing is as much going out as going to the beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:55 PM
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Yes? I’m not saying 99% of births are planned I’m saying 99% of unplanned pregnancies are from people not using birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:51 PM
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The amount isn’t obsolete. Women ovulate one egg per month men produce 1500 sperm per second. It doesn’t matter how many it takes to fertilise an egg because it only takes one of the millions that you ejaculate to get someone pregnant so you have to stop them all. The medical process is the same? The pill works by tricking the female body into thinking it’s pregnant so it doesn’t ovulate any eggs. Does that sound like how a male pill would work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:01 PM
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I don’t see a lot of ugly people. The majority of people I see everyday are average and not noteworthy in any way. Ugly and not attractive are two completely different things in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:47 PM
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Little to none. 99% of people who are having accidental pregnancies are the people who just aren’t using birth control in the first place and aren’t going to be taking male birth control. It may help women who have conditions like type one diabetes that make the pill ill advised have unprotected sex with their partners but that’s about it. It won’t change the casual dating scene or birth rates at all, any person serious about using protection for STDs will still be using condoms and any woman wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:04 PM
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It’s more logical to try and stop thousands of sperm being produced a second rather than trying to stop one egg per month?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:31 AM
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Healthy, happy with a good moral compass mainly. I’d prefer them to be straight, successful, attractive and active but those are just minor details that don’t really matter. Disappointing life style choices would be sex work, criminal behaviour or anything morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:17 PM
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Who is taking dating advice off their mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 05:02 PM
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Why would I want her to look different if I like the way she looks? I really don’t care about cosmetic surgery to retain a youthful appearance or having a boob job post having children but changing your appearance is weird and isn’t an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:51 AM
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That’s ridiculously stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 06:59 AM
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You’re full of shit mate a 66 year old gave birth in 2005 which would have been 30 years older than the average life expectancy 200 years ago. Keep pretending like age limitations haven’t changed but just know you’re wrong because it’s clearly statistically proven that they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:13 AM
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lol it’s been pushed back over a decade and in a life that spans around 80 years that is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:46 AM
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It does when technology and medicinal advancements make it 100 times easier to have children much later in life. You’re delusional if you think that the barrier to starting a family hasn’t been pushed back decades with medicinal advancements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:02 PM
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Probably since biology has been around? Seen as the average life expectancy has doubled in 200 years and technological and medicinal advancements have removed a lot of the negatives of ageing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:59 PM
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I’d suggest re reading what I wrote or upping your comprehension skills because no where in my post did I say that I think women looking ugly at 30 is part of the definition of “the wall”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 04:41 AM
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When did I say the wall? I’m talking about the people who do get it wrong and refer to people of a certain age automatically looking like shit. Don’t tell me what I mean, if I was talking about the wall I would have used the term the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 11:12 PM
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I wasn’t talking about the wall. I was talking about the people on here who pretend anyone over 28 is wrinkled and saggy and fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:54 PM
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I’m 32 and nothing has really changed for me to be honest. I live in a large city where people don’t settle down until later and I’m still dating women 25-30. I would say nothing has changed for me from my mid 20s up I until now except the age group I date gets slightly older as I get slightly older. Generally don’t have a problem with getting ghosted, if it has happened it’s happened after one date. Like one or both of us decided after one date that there wasn’t much of a connection so we both …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:02 PM
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A huge portion of people giving out relationship advice, people on this sub included aren’t fit to give people relationship advice. That sub is full of beta soy boy advice like bring your girlfriend flowers and chicken nuggets when she’s being a bitch. Those guys who do that are just going to end up those guys that work 50 hours a week only to have to ask their wives permission to go to the pub. Personally I’d just ignore that whole sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:52 PM
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I think OP is being serious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:06 PM
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I never said anything like that. I said the op that people compromise in order to settle down applies to anybody, men and women who are ageing and looking to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:02 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:07 PM
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No offence but just because one man you know gets depressed that a woman makes more money than them isn’t a reason to formulate a whole opinion on all men. Honestly I don’t know how I would feel about being the less financially successful one in a relationship because I’ll never have the opportunity as I would make more money than 90% of women out there and the remaining 10% wouldn’t date me because I don’t make enough money. It’s a cop out when women claim that men being intimidated by them con…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 08:53 AM
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This just sums up everyone ageing who are looking to settle down. I never understand people on here who say “just date religious girls”. If you’re not religious at all that’s a big difference of fundamental values to overcome in a relationship, young religious girls aren’t holding out for a middle aged atheist to come sniffing around either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 08:46 AM
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That’s what I’m saying. TRP was designed for maximising casual sex and how to keep “spinning plates” not how to have a healthy marriage. OP saying that it isn’t an effective strategy for maintaining a healthy relationship is irrelevant because it was never designed for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:22 PM
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Well to be honest I don’t think you don’t understand TRP. TRP wasn’t designed to gain attraction only to transition into a regular type of relationship the idea is to remain red pulled until you’re dead. Even if you’re talking about the people who do use TRP to gain attraction only to pursue regular relationships, what part of any initial attraction phase is sustainable? Show me a man who acts exactly like he would after a year of dating on the first date and I’ll show you someone who is single …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:55 AM
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You really didn’t as you’re reading posts that are obviously not talking about day to day things that you may do with a partner that are by their very nature unattractive. My wife being overly rude or crass is a character trait that I would find unattractive enough to not be attracted to her. My wife taking a shit is also unattractive but is a part of life and obviously I’m not going to find her unattractive for going to the bathroom. You’re comparing essential parts of life with character trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:48 AM
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I think you’re getting a bit confused between people talking about the effects of being overtly emotional on initial attraction and the effects of being overtly emotional in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 02:34 AM
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If all men looked to fuck without commitment and all women looked for commitment before fucking nobody would win and nobody would be fucking. Other point would be both would cave, women like sex as much as men and would sell their values to get laid and so would men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:32 AM
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I don’t think so personally. I think it’s a more common idea that men handle their 30s better than women and then we fall off a cliff. I think it’s because there is something inherently attractive about youth in a woman where as there is something inherently attractive about experience in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:14 AM
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Phil Leotardo see above YouTube link for the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:05 AM
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Sorry but I’m going to have to side with Phil on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:00 AM
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https://youtu.be/LGLFPZj7O6k
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:04 AM
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I seen a friend cry when he got taken away by federal marshals at his daughters wedding. My estimation of him as a man fucking plummeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:21 PM
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This is one point where TRP constantly confuses itself. Using money to attract women is considered beta but in reality being wealthy is the biggest alpha trait in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 10:26 PM
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Welcome to the duality of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:11 PM
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Well thank you, I’m no saint but I don’t see the point in destroying someone’s ego if you don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:09 PM
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In my experience FWB type relationships are normally between two people of the same friendship group but aren’t necessarily close friends before sleeping with each other. I’ve never slept with a girl who is an actual close friend of mine, but casually slept with or had FWB with girls who are friends of friends or friends girlfriends friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 08:46 PM
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Me personally wouldn’t date a woman I find unattractive and wouldn’t want to have sex with anyone I don’t find attractive either but I wouldn’t be repulsed or obviously reject her. I would more than likely engage in conversation, ignore/deflect her signals while casually mentioning a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 08:40 PM
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Lived in Australia, Canada, the UK and America. All those countries have similar dating cultures but America’s is more extreme. Ie much higher importance placed on money, status, education etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:18 AM
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31 M single and always try to avoid using a condom. It’s horrible, doesn’t feel good and completely ruins sex for me. I get tested regularly and am careful, but I would never completely destroy something as great and enjoyable as sex by putting a plastic bag over my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:12 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:31 PM
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As someone who is in my early 30s and is looking to stop playing the field it isn’t because any of the reasons you listed. Most people just want to settle down, find someone who cares for them and start a family. I could still go out and get laid (maybe not in the middle of a pandemic) but I just find dating women in their early/mid 20s tedious and boring and I’d rather find a good one to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:06 PM
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Cat fishing aside women can just set their age limits on a dating app so pretending that gen x men are ruining online dating for young people is nonsense. As if women can’t clearly tell that someone who is 40 is using a photo of themselves from a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:11 AM
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Personally I don’t have a problem with being the provider in a relationship. I earn good money and I prefer the role as opposed to being dependent on someone. The only thing I don’t have any time for is when women expect everything in a relationship to be 50/50 except who provides. GTFOH with that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:51 AM
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As a man I wouldn’t want mandatory paternity tests, I just wouldn’t choose have children with someone I didn’t trust. If I accidentally knocked up someone I didn’t trust then I would 100% request one. Zero need to make them mandatory. Use common sense and don’t trust people you shouldn’t. I have zero sympathy for people who don’t look after themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:43 AM
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Bonus points for being a happy fulfilled person who enjoys their limited time on earth regardless of whether you find a partner or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:06 AM
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I disagree completely. You need to learn to be happy with yourself and build a life that someone else would want to be a part of before trying to find a partner. People who are unhappy with themselves tend to put too much pressure on their partner to mend holes in their own happiness that they should have mended themselves. Not to mention how much more difficult it would be to actually find a high value partner if your life sucks. People don’t want to just commit to you if you’re a boring sad sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:49 PM
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https://www.webmd.com/depression/news/20170815/us-antidepressant-use-jumps-65-percent-in-15-years There you go, 16.5% of women have taken anti depressant medication over the last month compared with 9% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:45 AM
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I’d say your estimation is way off to the point of absurdity. I’d probably guess 5-10% of men and about 15% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:44 AM
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Nice hair and skin, actually fit rather than just skinny, a nice ass and a proper warm smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:27 AM
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According to data 11% of people in the US take some form of anti depressant. I’d imagine that’s more women than men as women are more likely to a) Suffer from anxiety b) actually be honest about it and c) actually go visit a doctor/psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:22 AM
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I disagree in my own personal experience this would very much be the common opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:54 AM
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This is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:53 AM
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I’m 5’10 and 200lbs and powerlift and box as a hobbies so women who can kick my ass are pretty rare but yes I would find it emasculating if my GF was bigger, stronger or more physical than me. I don’t feel emasculated by women taller than me but still wouldn’t date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 07:43 PM
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I think people on here vastly overestimate how much society cares about how promiscuous a man is. I’ve literally never been asked, judged or had my promiscuity noticeably affect my life both negatively or positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:13 PM
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I started off my working career “blue collar” (journeyman lineman) before finishing a degree and becoming a white collar project manager and can honestly say this isn’t my experience at all and would say that if anything women were more interested in my blue collar career than my current one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:06 PM
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Covid has definitely made communication a lot worse than the usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:51 PM
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I think you make a valid argument, personally I’m a guy who can get a lot of matches on online dating apps and the ability to get matches isn’t the problem. It’s the fact that people in general (including myself) are a lot more picky, shallow and complacent on dating apps than they would be in real life so an abundance of matches doesn’t necessarily lead to me getting laid constantly or finding a girlfriend just more meaningless conversations that go no where. All of that said, people who can ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:12 PM
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I’m a project manager for a power company in Canada. Salary is north of 220k a year. Just realising after typing that that it may not be considered high salary for some people depending on your back ground but for me, my family and social circle that is extremely high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:19 AM
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A lot of what runway supermodels are is conventionally attractive but compared to actresses they are less conventionally attractive in both the face and body. Which is why I’m saying that it isn’t really face vs body as someone like gal gadot or Margot Robbie are more attractive than a runway supermodel as they aren’t a 6ft tall bag of bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:14 AM
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If he’s old enough to have had sex with 18 women and rich enough to have a holiday house in Italy than he 100% needs to worry about gold diggers and women who would purposely try to fall pregnant with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:06 AM
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Not really as super models bodies aren’t really conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:00 AM
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I’m not sure that’s why Karen’s are what they are. They just seem to be very self involved entitled people who have probably just become ruder with age and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:50 AM
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This argument gets brought up once every few months. Less masculine pretty boys have always been more attractive to teenagers I remember my sister having posters of nick carter, young leo DiCaprio on her wall this is seriously nothing new. I find it also quite strange that people bring up K pop and other famous people as examples when they are only attractive because they are famous. Being a non famous fem androgynous asian boy is not going to make you more attractive to 99% of the female popula…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:42 AM
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I wasn’t born into the kind of money you are talking about but have a very good job and very high salary. I avoid dating gold diggers by not spending money on them and it’s as simple as that really. If you’re using your money to attract and impress women then you are inadvertently going to attract women who are more attracted to wealth than you as a person. If you’re worried about divorce rape there are always pre nuptial agreements which I would seriously consider seen as you have a property in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:31 AM
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It literally says in the title “a few months into dating”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:04 PM
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Yep twice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:03 PM
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I don’t hate single mothers and would be open to dating one but if I dated a woman and she didn’t tell me she had a kid until after several months of dating I would automatically break it off. That’s weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:14 PM
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Withholding sex doesn’t get you respect. Men respect high value women, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 10:41 AM
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Personally I’ve found it’s more about how I behave single as opposed to in a relationship. If I’m single and interested in a girl I’ll play it cool in front of her to the point that I’m not really fun or approachable. If I’m taken I’m more likely to be the goofy drunk guy who doesn’t give a fuck and comes off as very approachable and fun to be around which makes women more likely to hang around with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:16 AM
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Because I don’t hate women and I want to have a family and share a life with someone who I like and care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:40 AM
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I would say I (male) bald faced lie more than my partner but would say she is dishonest and disingenuous more than me. Women are better at manipulating people socially with half truths, exaggeration, compliments they don’t mean etc which is what I would call not being genuine or honest but I don’t consider it lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:37 AM
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That’s your opinion but IMO and personal experience is that I find women on average to be noticeably more boring than men. Men normally develop interesting personalities to make themselves more appealing to women where women don’t need to do that because they are inherently already attractive to men. Physically speaking studies show there are greater intra sex variances in men than women, combine that with the fact that women practice higher parental investment strategies than men and its only r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:52 PM
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I swear people on this sub live in a different world to me. I have reasonably high standards, my friends have reasonably high standards. Yes I suppose a man will drop those standards a little more readily or a little lower than a woman but the idea all men have stupidly low standards is delusional as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:56 PM
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Because the men on here don’t get sex. Is having a leaky roof the most important thing in the world? No it isn’t but expect people who have a leaky roof to bang on about it at every possible opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 10:37 AM
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I think there are a lot of dudes here who comment about spinning plates and getting casual sex who don’t actually get it/do it. Yeh you don’t tell them you have other women but they figure it out soon enough when you don’t see them for weeks on end. As I said keeping more than one good looking girl waiting in the wings is a shit tonne of hard work and I doubt there are many, if any guys who post on here about spinning plates actually have what it takes to actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 04:27 PM
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Yeh sure, women have casual sex and FWB type relationships all the time but if you think girls like being one of three girls you fuck on a rotational basis and wait around ready to get subbed in then you’re a bit delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 02:11 PM
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Don’t get me wrong I’m a big fan of FWB type relationships and casual sex but how many of you actually believe that you can have 2-3 women warming the bench that you can just hit up for sex whenever you feel like it? Girls who are good looking and desirable to have sex with have other options then just being one of three plates for an average guy. Unless you’re famous, 10/10 attractiveness or rich no hot girl is going to be content being a “plate” for more than a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 04:45 AM
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I think most normal women looking to date or start a relationship won’t want to sext before meeting. Most of the time it’s going to be a huge red flag for them that a guy just wants to use them for sex. In my experience the girls who actually try to initiate sexy messaging prior to meeting are girls who aren’t really looking to meet but are more just using me to get themselves off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 04:36 AM
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I honestly don’t mind FDS for the most part, a lot of what they talk about like making sure the man is actually committing something to dating you before consider dating him makes sense as well as all the stuff about women respecting themselves and learning to recognise when a man is actually interested/committed to them compared to when he is just trying to fuck them. What I don’t get is how they want a modern relationship full of equality and sharing chores, decision making etc but want to spl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:09 AM
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I do but I don’t draw any real world conclusions from It because most of what you are seeing is set up just to make good TV. They pair people according to who would make more conflict and drama and edit everything to create whatever narrative they want you to see that episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 07:30 PM
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Women aren’t either it’s just something the delusional ones tell each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:33 AM
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Confidence, experience. maturity, charisma are all qualities that make you more sexually attractive that increase with age. Physically speaking there would be zero difference between a 25 year old man and a 30 year old, I have no idea what world you live in that 25 year olds are virile studs with full heads of hair and hard cocks but 30 year olds are all balding impotent betas. Women just get jealous that men don’t get negatively judged for having few wrinkles or grey hairs and can still be cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:56 PM
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I’m not red pill and the idea that men in their late 30s and 40s can pull normal hot girls in their early 20s with ease is laughable but this is nonsense. Youth and inexperience isn’t an automatically attractive quality in men but is for women. Where as experience, confidence, maturity, financial stability etc are all automatic attractive qualities in men that increase past the age of 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:39 PM
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Young men have always been less developed than equivalent aged women hence why women have always dated slightly older men and men slightly younger women this isn’t anything new. Young people are all having less sex because they too much time on the internet, not talking to each other and not developing social skills which makes approaching each other daunting and avoided. Obviously men are more effected by this because it’s still their job to do the approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:59 PM
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I don’t mean to be a smart ass but literally zero one night stands can lead to a relationship, if you sleep with each other again then it ceases to be a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:01 PM
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Where I worked was known as the “STD capital of Canada” haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:02 PM
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Longevity and back packing. Been sexually active since 16 and only in a LTR for 5 of those 15 years. Plus went travelling through central, south and North America for almost 3 years in my 20s. Working at ski resorts and behind bars and in hostels are all places where people are constantly hanging out, co-mingling and have a sense of freedom from being away from home that makes casual sex a lot more common than being back home slaving a 40 hour a week job. Having an Australian/British accent didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:49 PM
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How did I sleep with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:35 PM
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To be honest I’m a bit hypocritical, In an ideal world I’d rather my partner be no where near me in terms of n count. That said I have a female friend who I would guess would be at a similar number and I don’t consider her low value or non marriage material because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:04 PM
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Male 31. Around 50-60. Probably unusual for this sub but whatever. I don’t think my high n count makes me an unsuitable partner or that I’m more likely to cheat because of it. I just have a healthy relationship with myself, my sexuality and don’t see anything wrong with casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:11 AM
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On this sub? 110% yes. Majority of people who post on here would be better off giving up this sub entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:05 AM
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Are they though? Or do they just talk about it more?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:26 PM
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I jokingly say it all the time, especially if she’s noticeably shabby looking just for a bit of banter. Outside of joking it’s probably whenever I feel like complimenting her. She’s good looking and fit and dresses well so I get reminded frequently that she’s a fox. Personally I find myself rarely complimenting her on things other then her looks, which is something I’m trying to work on, both for her and getting in good practice for if we have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:25 AM
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Every relationship I’ve been in I’ve been the less social one but always have by default held more leverage because I was always the one more inclined to walk. The one who needs the other one more holds less leverage not your ability to socialise, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:06 AM
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Meh, men still don’t want to settle down with a slut it’s just the goal posts have changed because of increased sexual freedom for women leads to the average woman having slightly more sexual partners before marriage. Men and women have already been adjusting to this for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:52 AM
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No, high levels of testosterone in men is natural. Unrealistic expectations, lack of sense of community, increased pornography availability and a general removal from our basic instincts and natural purpose in favour of acquiring money and consumer goods is probably much more detrimental to our development of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:08 AM
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Sleepy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 06:04 AM
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IMO its all about how you give it, sad dudes online pining over a girl on the internet who doesn’t even know you is just a bit pathetic. Complimenting women in a fun, confident, relaxed non creepy way and complimenting women you’re not trying to sleep with as well as the ones that you are helps you appear more confident self assured and helps give off a good vibe in general which will make you more attractive to women. Don’t just go up to the hottest girl at your office and tell her how good she…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:47 PM
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I’ve been approached sexually a fair few times although it gets rarer the older you get and the less you hang out at night clubs, back packer bars, hostels and other similar places where everybody is fucking each other. I’d be open to sex most times I’ve been approached, although only if I found the girl attractive. I hate the idea on this sub that men don’t have standards and would fuck anything if the opportunity came up, it’s just not even close to be being true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:24 PM
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When did I say people can’t rationalise strictly dating virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:53 PM
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No because it isn’t about the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:23 PM
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I don’t think I have and I stick to my original response.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:09 PM
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I think there is plenty of examples of philosophically minded logical thinking women capable of intellectual debate and plenty of men who aren’t that proves you wrong without me needing to do it. If you were to say men were more likely to be logically minded than women I would somewhat agree but think your blanket statement that women don’t respect or care about logic and are incapable of philosophical debate is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:46 PM
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Same old sob story
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:35 PM
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A bit of hyperbole here, Not obsessing over a number of sexual partners doesn’t mean I would date a girl who has fucked a man a week for two years straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:33 PM
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I only have people I know on social media so I don’t know how filters etc would effect my opinion on people I already know and what they look like. If you mean dating apps then yes it’s a huge red flag and an automatic no from me. I have a clear photos that you can easily tell what I look like and what kind of general shape I’m in plus I list my height in my bio and expect the same level of transparency.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:23 PM
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How is having poor role models a strictly male problem? Women grow up with absentee fathers and poor female role models that negatively effect their lives as well. What kind of role models do you think sex workers and women with 5 kids to 4 different fathers have? One thing that gets me on this sub is people with such bad tunnel vision when it comes to their own genders problems they just completely ignore the other genders experience and just assume their lives are a cake walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:33 PM
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Men who assign value to women based on how many sexual partners she has had would be ok with waiting 3 months or longer. Personally I don’t really obsess over n count or waiting periods and would be concerned that 3 months or longer is a long time to waste to find out whether you have any sexual chemistry or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:18 PM
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We are the same species
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:13 PM
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lol your posts are so pathetically desperate and long winded I kind of just feel sorry for you. Still nobody cares. Enjoy your imaginary holiday house and cars though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:55 PM
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Again I’m not American so your irrelevant cry sessions are even more irrelevant. But yes I do pay a fuck tonne of tax but that’s just the price I pay for life at the top of the food chain while you live on the $30 a month I give to world vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:03 AM
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lol more incoherent nonsense. You’re in the wrong sub get over it, nobody cares about your long winded irrelevant posts or the dating culture of your shitholistan country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:59 AM
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It wouldn’t matter if there was 700 or 7 billion western people on earth, the fact that this particular sub is about their culture is literally all that matters. Cry all you want about this sub being US-centric, it won’t change the fact that you are on a sub about western culture complaining that the content is too focused on western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:24 PM
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This sub is literally about my culture and is relevant to the country I come from, I don’t need to create a different sub. You do because you don’t seem to understand that not everything is about you and whatever obscure culture you come from. Get a fucking grip on reality and realise no one here gives a fuck. I’m not American, I speak Italian, Spanish and English have lived in the UK, USA, Australia and Latin America. Keep pretending I live in a bubble if it makes you feel superior but you’re t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:59 PM
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I literally don’t care about anything you just wrote. The red pill and blue pill are from western (and mainly American) culture and this sub is about debating how they fit in with modern life and sex and gender issues. This sub isn’t about you and whatever country you’re from. If you want to debate sex and gender issues relating to your own specific countries culture then create a different sub. The red pill and the blue pill are both western ideologies, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:26 PM
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I mean reddit is founded by an American with mostly American based traffic and you’re in a sub that debates western dating ideologies in relation to western society. Why do you think it should be about you and whatever country you live in? I can’t imagine going on to a random sub that has nothing to do with me and ranting that it’s not all about me and my personal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:04 PM
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Obviously there is but what does that have to do with what you said? Women who you find attractive will rarely approach you, period. If you’re sitting around at a bar waiting for your looks match to come up and buy you a drink you’re an idiot because there is a 99.9% chance she won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:50 AM
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Personally I’ve never had anyone tell me to grow some balls but I feel like saying it to every second male poster on here who complains about having to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:39 AM
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That’s really not true at all. I have a high n count and do pretty well when it comes to picking up girls but if you took away the girls I’ve slept with where I’ve made the first move my n count would be like 5. Men just need to come to grips with the fact that unless they are a 10/10, famous or a millionaire they have to risk rejection in order to get laid by women who are as attractive or more attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:37 AM
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What do you think objectify means exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:45 AM
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Male lead relationships and female deference have been the norm for centuries and a lot of women still prefer that dynamic. What you described isn’t objectification, you think women liking a man to plan a date is them wanting to be treated as sub human? Learn what words mean before you write a big dramatic post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:30 PM
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Aren’t they calling for the Seattle police force to Be completely disbanded?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:29 PM
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I don’t really ask and it only really comes up later in a relationship normally as random conversation. I wouldn’t trust a girl (or anyone) to tell you the truth about n count unless her actual number is coincidentally a similar number to what she thinks you want to hear. To me little white lies about n count don’t matter at all, I don’t answer straight up when women ask me so I can’t get too bent out of shape if a woman says she’s had sex with 10 guys but it’s really 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:23 PM
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No I didn’t. This whole discussion has been about happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:24 PM
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As I said longevity isn’t a measure of happiness, I don’t know why you keep bringing it up. Feel free to share the overwhelming body of evidence that proves this. If you’re basing your argument on a book by Paul Dolan I would suggest looking into how he completely misused and misunderstood data from an American time use survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:33 AM
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Longevity isn’t happiness and yes if you’re concerned about dying at 87 instead of 89 than carrying and giving birth to multiple children probably isn’t beneficial to your long term health. My only problem is that the women are happier single and childless “fact” that gets taken for gospel around here has no scientific evidence to back it up and goes against what most people see and experience in their day to day lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:59 AM
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Has anyone actually read those studies or do they just get repeated on here over and over again so much they are just assumed as fact? I’ve read what constitutes studies on the matter, a phone poll asking women how happy they were with and without their spouse present. There is literally so many problems with basing such a broad idea of such limited and misleading information. In fact the same poll that came to that conclusion produced this... https://mobile.twitter.com/graykimbrough/status/1134…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 12:20 AM
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If you think sex and intimacy can be replaced by random tinder rendezvous then I doubt you know anything about women at all. Also women need men to successfully raise children, especially boys. Men who grow up without fathers are more likely to develop anger issues and deviant behaviour while for a woman having a father teaches her how to be in a successful intimate non sexual relationship with a man and leads to better partner selection, higher self esteem and better relationships with future p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 10:54 PM
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Your post is about racism and dating so expect people to talk about race and dating. Anyway what does your answer have to do with what I wrote? I’m just taking the piss out of you for pretending to guess his race when he literally told you his race in his comment you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:26 PM
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I’m black and haven’t really noticed this, there’s probably a certain percentage of white and Asian women who would never date a black guy but on the other hand there are white and Asian girls out there who would only date me because I’m black.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:20 PM
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Great guess, was it the part where he said he was white the give away?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:18 PM
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There are genuinely people out there who aren’t racist who protest racism just so you know. American society is just hypocritical, everyone hates racism and protests it but is fine with the system that actually produces black poverty and in turn black problems. NFL teams lighting up their stadiums blue to support health care workers during covid 19 while the rest of society is protesting in mass gatherings literally doing the one thing that is most likely to hinder health care workers. I’d say w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:11 PM
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So you agree with that but don’t see how someone can be powerful just because they want something you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:24 PM
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Being desired and being powerful aren’t synonymous, I don’t even know how you can come to that conclusion. If someone wants my wallet and then they beat me up and take it that doesn’t make me the powerful one just because I had something someone else desired. It’s cool if you think that being desired sexually feels powerful but the reality is a man wanted to fuck you, he fucked you, he literally got what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:24 PM
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You literally just described being desired by someone which is what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 10:25 AM
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So basically that he wants you and that you’re the object of his desire. Ie the last sentence in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:47 AM
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I don’t think that’s necessarily narcissistic, I’m no psychologist but I’d wager that has more to do with a woman’s natural role during sex, ie being submissive, being the object of her partners desire etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:42 AM
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Posts like this are so fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:28 AM
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Job and intelligence aren’t interchangeable like you have worded it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:01 AM
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People can be all of those things with a limited formal education. No I’m not attracted to dumb women who only care about their looks and celebrity gossip but you don’t have to be a scientist to be an interesting person. When it comes down to it for me personally, I care more about my human connections with my friends, family and my own personal enjoyment of my limited time here on earth rather than my own career. I would prefer someone similar rather than a woman who wants to be “successful” so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:30 AM
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I’d argue looks match doesn’t matter as some women go for a combination of other things as well as your looks and people in general aren’t very good at objectively evaluating themselves from the perspective of the opposite sex. Can you pull 8/10s but find 9/10s aren’t interested? Then 8/10 is your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 11:43 AM
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Arbitrariness is the quality of being "determined by chance, whim, or impulse, and not by necessity, reason, or principle". It is also used to refer to a choice made without any specific criterion or restraint.[1][2] Literally nothing can come under the category of arbitrary and manipulative as manipulation is the reason for the non arbitrary decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:39 AM
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Let’s be honest though everybody knows the answer, women just don’t want to say no because then it’s basically admitting they love them some toxic masculinity that they tell you they hate so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:26 PM
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Step 1. google arbitrary. If you just mean what do I think about women that use sex to deliberately manipulate their significant other? Toxic sluts who should be avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:13 PM
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For me it’s a no. My attitude towards sex is that I don’t mind sleeping with randoms on my way to finding someone I want to stay with forever. Casual sex for the sake of casual sex is enjoyable in its own right but its not something I want to do forever. From my own personal experience though, guys going out and interacting with women with the sole purpose of getting notches on the bed post isn’t uncommon, especially from guys in their late teens and early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:55 PM
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Sorry? When did I ever argue “why” they were less likely to pursue a same sex relationship? All I said was it doesn’t impact a mans ability to find a girlfriend for a LTR relationship because bi/bi curious women rarely pursue a LTR with other women over men and used my own experiences as anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:20 AM
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What did I say that makes you think I’m not calm or angry? I never said you were an incel either. Seems like you’re just perceiving insults that aren’t there because that’s how you see yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:15 AM
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I know for a fact that they are all married or in LTR with men. Either through FB, Instagram or mutual friends. How can it not be used as an argument? Why do I even need an argument in a personal anecdote?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:37 AM
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If they aren’t actually turning down heterosexual relationships for same sex ones it literally can’t effect you and your ability to find a monogamous relationship. Keep clutching at straws though, I’m sure your lack of attractiveness is down to chad thundercock with his harems and bisexual women and nothing to do with your own short comings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:30 AM
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Obviously I’m not speaking for all bi women but I am saying I’ve had 8 semi serious/serious relationships, 6 of them were bi/bi curious and none of those 6 have been in a lesbian relationship since we broke up so that’s the 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:25 AM
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No that’s from a below poster and that’s one persons opinion. Non lesbian women aren’t sleeping with each other, dating or getting married on a large enough scale to noticeably negatively effect male sex lives. If you can’t get laid it’s because women don’t find you attractive compared to other men in your demographic not because women are choosing to have bisexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:05 AM
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Literally none of the women I mentioned admitted to wanting to sleep with any of their friends. Not saying it doesn’t happen but doesn’t seem common at all and not the reason they care about their friends opinion IMO. Why would it? As I said I don’t think any of these women have any intention of actually settling down with another woman so why would it negatively effect what man they settle down with? It may slightly reduce your ability to get laid due to a slight increase in competition but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:22 PM
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I would say about 3/4 of the women I’ve dated were somewhere in between fully bisexual and curious/possibly open to experimenting but of that number 100% of them have or will only seriously date men in the future. I don’t think it impacts male smv at all and if it does it would be very minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:33 PM
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You don’t get any points for being un fuckable and not cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:09 AM
2

I have a doppelgänger who is a running back for the Detroit lions so explaining what I look like is pretty easy. That said I’m a British black guy who lives in Australia so putting an out of 10 ranking on my attractiveness is hard as I’m pretty much an anomaly here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:34 AM
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Not really, calling an obese woman a queen is just delusional pandering, I doubt anyone actually believes obesity is beautiful on men or women it’s just our shitty pc culture that makes people say shit they don’t mean. Saying men age like wine is actually somewhat correct, wine doesn’t necessarily get better with age, a crap bottle of wine will still be crap if aged 10 years while good vintages are prized for years provided they don’t go bad. Not all men get better with age, but I will say this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:02 AM
1

Gotta love the internet. There’s a reason pulling hair is illegal in MMA, clearly being easily able to grab someone’s hair is going to be an advantage in a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:41 PM
2

Can some women weigh in here? I have no studies to back this up but in my daily life I’d say women are more attracted to short hair. Sure a hot guy with long hair is going to be considered hot but for an everyday guy, growing a greasy mop is going to make you less attractive not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:39 PM
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God this sub has become a pathetic circle jerk of sad cunts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:03 AM
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Personally I do think overall women have life slightly easier time of it than men but there is also a really bad habit of people on this sub to focus solely on problems that effect them directly or people similar to them while trivialising problems of people they cant identify with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:22 PM
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I don’t know how much actual “harassment” goes on on OLD I think that’s a bit of an exaggeration but my guess as to why women avoid online dating is similar to why a lot of men and women get jaded with it. Lack of actual conversation, time wasters, people who swiped right but aren’t actually interested in dating, guys who are looking to get laid without taking them on a date, aggressive repeated messages etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:42 AM
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Send nudes? Inbox me. Yeh no idea, I will say that there are a lot of girls who I have dated who have voluntarily sent me them without me asking so I’m not sure it’s entirely one sided and that there are probably a lot of girls who get turned on by the idea of sending sexual photos of themselves to guys they are seeing or interested in. Men like to see women naked I guess, porn is one thing but it’s very fake and unrealistic and naked photos of people you know is probably more of a turn on becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:30 AM
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I disagree because as a man I’ve had sex with women who have had no intention of getting me into a LTR and finding a suitable woman I want to marry is the end game, not sex itself. Every situation for me is different depending on the person and what stage of my life I am in and I would imagine women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:22 AM
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The world is literally full of examples of shit men do that isn’t to impress women. Achievements in sport, technology, science, the arts are all done without the goal of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 08:57 PM
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The best wingmen are confident interactive guys that are fun to be around and create an atmosphere that is generally positive and fun that attracts women to your group but ultimately are less attractive than you. Problem for you is men who are like that are actually fun people and probably have a vast network of friends and people who already want to hang out with them and not likely to want to hang out with you. Surrounding yourself with docile simps doesn’t make you more attractive it just mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:49 AM
2

I think the average man supports equality and women’s rights, there are no possible negative repercussions from the government for doing so and I have no idea what this post is supposed to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:58 AM
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I’m not red pill but these opinions that women don’t care about muscles at all just because brad Pitt is hotter than Ronnie Coleman are stupid as fuck. Take two men who have the same facial features and are the same height but one works out and has an overall lean and strong looking physique and the other is a sedentary, noodle armed, soft bodied weakling. 10/10 women will find the former more attractive physically. Obviously muscles aren’t the most important thing to attraction but telling some…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:15 PM
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No, if a woman who I found attractive in college became ugly a few years down the track or vice versa I have every right to change my opinions on her attractiveness. That is what attractiveness means after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:13 PM
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I think this sub makes an incredibly delusional distinction between good looking and not good looking people. Like there are a bunch of 6’5, ripped dudes with perfect bone structure, moves like James Bond who fuck like a porn stars and then just “average” dudes who can’t get any attention from women. The reality is most people exist somewhere in between that “chad” definition and ugly but the majority of incels on here don’t accept that people are out there who aren’t perfect who are perfectly c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:49 AM
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The same men who are pining for female contact aren’t the ones using women for sex so this statement just isn’t correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:42 AM
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Just because you’re female and someone doesn’t agree with you doesn’t make it a hostile argument. The same as just because female comedians exist and have fans doesn’t make them popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:23 AM
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If that’s your female comedian trump card then that just proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:50 PM
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I’ve literally never met a woman who is a fan of female stand up. Never had a girlfriend who watched female stand up or suggested watching it. Female comics are just unfunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:41 PM
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Normal person here who is actively dating and getting laid and that’s not true. How I present an OLD profile, clothes I wear, restaurants or bars I pick to go on dates, conversation topics etc are all conscious decisions I make as part of a wider sexual strategy to get laid or find a LTR. Sure I don’t read books about sexual strategy or google the red pill but acting like people just magically start dating or sleeping together without even thinking about how to date is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:37 PM
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It’s not that women aren’t funny it’s men’s fault because they don’t like jokes about the female experience. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:30 PM
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There is a lot of hate here for OLD. Personally I’ve had some success with it, I’m 31 male and would probably rate myself somewhere 6-8 on an out of 10 scale. Sure it’s tedious and everyone seems to be a lot more shallow and lazy than in real life interactions but there are still normal people on there willing to meet and go on dates with people of a similar level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:27 PM
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The CEO thing is somewhat a non accurate representation of importance of height in society. Most CEOs aren’t self made, they are from well off families who are white and who could afford prestigious schools. If you’re Caucasian and come from a historically wealthy family that has benefited from generations of higher quality nutrition you are going to be taller than your average joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:06 PM
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I have no thoughts on Jeff Bezos personally but I dislike the system that allows rich people to become richer and richer to an obscene degree while 80% of the world are struggling to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:33 PM
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I wouldn’t marry a woman who wasn’t good in bed. I don’t think they need to be a super slut who fucks like a porn star, does anal and lets you watch her fuck other women but yeh someone who loves sex, is enthusiastic and wants to learn how to please you is a non negotiable for me in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:31 PM
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This isn’t a new thing so I don’t know why you’re aiming it at people under 30. Inviting a woman over for a drink alone has always had sexual implications. You think that in the 80s if you asked a girl over for a bottle of wine she wouldn’t think you were making a move?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:15 PM
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The idea that men are terrible in bed and can’t please women but women are awesome at pleasing a man is ridiculous. A vagina is about 10 times more complicated than a dick and still there is only about 10% of the female population who can give head properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:04 AM
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Probably because in 3/4 of America the public transport is actually scummy as fuck and only used by poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:06 PM
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Ive never slept with a woman who asked me or cared about how many women I've slept with in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:15 PM
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Gold diggers are basically whores with extra complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:11 PM
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I don't know why women who complain about the wage gap just don't get better paying jobs and work more hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:03 PM
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People in the second category die inside quicker than the first though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:59 PM
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Being human isn't the qualifier to having arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:21 PM
2

I'm black and haven't seen much proper racism. Mostly just people trying to troll and be edgy by saying nigger or making a race related joke. Personally Ive never got an overly racist vibe here at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:05 PM
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If dogs have hips and back legs but have shoulders and elbows, why arent their front legs called arms instead of front legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:02 PM
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As someone who is not from America and recently lived in America for several years, you all dress like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:35 AM
2

Are all trannys this bad at trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:33 AM
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Rich, famous, successful, could more than likely kick your ass in a fight and wouldn't give a fuck about any of you. Personally I think he is a pseudo intellectual wanker but he is definitely alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:17 AM
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Ok mate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:49 AM
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Being a sad cunt doesn't make you enlightened mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:45 AM
1

That's stupid. How would anyone know who is upper middle or lower class from Twitter accounts and Tumblr pages that are more than likely going to be anonymous, faked or just don't mention socio economic status. Obviously if you're making a statement that most feminists are upper class you're making a comment about feminists you actually see and know they are more than likely upper middle class. What is your argument anyway? That there are a lot of women on welfare who are feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:08 AM
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I did say "or recourses" Obviously you're not going to see too many disabled people on welfare marching in feminism rallies for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:21 AM
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https://youtu.be/ArH-5I42bxE This guy disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:20 AM
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OP definitely a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:15 AM
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I mean sexual performance problems are a thousand times more common than freak accident penis removals. ED, premature ejaculation, extremely low sex drive, strange fetishes etc are all extremely common and extremely debilitating to a fulfilling sex life in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:07 PM
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How old are people on here who post about hookers replacing relationships with women? Fucking a hooker on the regular as my only form of human intimacy seems so fucking sad to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:12 PM
1

I think you need to look up what misandry and misogyny mean in a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:06 PM
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Are you concerned that your own sexual inexperience will lead to you making a poor choice when it comes to gauging sexual compatibility in a future husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:03 PM
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If you want to date women in their 20s when you are in your 50s you better start taking care of your bank account and become a millionaire. If you think slapping on some moisturizer is going to get you young hot women in your 50s you're a fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:56 PM
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Incels are like that kid from high school who wears black eye liner and smokes up the back of school during lunch time. Thinks everyone hates them but In reality no one gives a fuck about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:34 AM
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If you mean "sow your Wild Oats" as in have a bunch of kids that's a no. I'd never want to have kids out there that I wasn't looking after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:29 AM
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I don't know what to tell you. You asked why are most feminists upper middle class women and that's why. Lower class women don't have time or recourses to care or attend protests or complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:51 AM
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You could say that about all activists really. People who need to concentrate on just surviving have more pressing things to worry about than saving the rain Forrest or recycling or the lack of female CEO's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:43 AM
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I don't think that this sub is representative of real life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:40 AM
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No I just come here to jam my beliefs down everybodys throat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:37 AM
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Why have a ceremony and a ring though? If you're anti marriage that's cool just don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:57 AM
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Why would I want to pay for a ring and a wedding ceremony just to have my wife bang other dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:48 AM
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I think this is completely false. There is a huge portion of women today who dislike modern feminism also rad fems, lib fems, non feminists, Trad cons are all have conflicting ideals and are definitely not on the same side. The only reasons men's rights movement hasn't taken off compared to women's rights is societies (both men's and women's) aversion to helping weak men. Weak men are just told to be strong and weak women need to be helped. Pretending like men are in competition with each other …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:49 PM
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I'm 31 and have been single since 29, my options have slightly decreased even in that small space. I'd imagine its because a lot of girls in their early 20s will "draw the line" at 30 even though in reality I still look the same as I did at 29. If you're an in shape man who is semi successful, decent looking and living in a large city you will always have options to date women younger than yourself but the idea that you will be still able to attract girls in their early 20s with no mental issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:08 PM
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Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:19 AM
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We do have a few female fire fighters who are awesome and who had to do the same tests we did. Lowering physical standards for women is even more insulting to them than it is for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:59 AM
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Size isn't everything but it is mostly the reason. Men and women have different types of muscle sure but the difference is minimal compared with the sheer muscle size difference between the two genders. An average man will have about 40-50% muscle mass while a woman will be 30-35%. So an average woman would have to significantly out weigh you to have a similar amount of muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:29 AM
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Our union has been fighting against lowering physical testing standards to become a firefighter for years but it's only a matter of time before they do it. All because there is a low percentage of women in our workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:15 AM
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Yes, although I'd say masculine and handsome is the default preference over pretty boy for 90% of women. Obviously teenage girls are going to be attracted to younger looking men than men who look closer to their dads age then theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 03:22 AM
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Guys aren't shallower then women just for admitting we are shallow. I'll admit I prefer attractive women over less attractive women. I want a girl slightly younger than me, slightly shorter, in shape with a pretty face, nice ass and a good head of hair. Women always say they don't care about looks or money or status but then only want to date men with money, looks and status. You don't get credit for being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:20 PM
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You mean my location as in Brooklyn and Manhattan? You're telling me interracial couples exist more commonly in other locations around America? Absolutely delusional. Why would I be talking about current marriage rates? I literally said it's rare to see a BM/WF couple why would that not extend to everyone I see in my daily life that fit that demographic? Asian male and white female couples are only one percent behind black male/white female ones so if you're saying one is common then the other i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:47 AM
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This whole discussion is about how common interracial couples are, of course current existing amount of interracial couples is the right figure to use. So you would call Asian man/white female couples common as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:11 AM
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"4.6% of married Black American women and 10.8% of married Black American men had a non-Black spouse. 8.5% of married Black men and 3.9% of married Black women had a White spouse. 0.2% of married Black women were married to Asian American men, representing the least prevalent marital combination." According to a 2010 census.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:26 AM
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Can you read what I'm replying to before you type? I was replying to OP saying that it's way more common for those kind of relationships to exist in New York. I'm saying I lived in New York and in my experience wasn't the case. No I don't think that at all. Do you honestly believe that multiracial couples are the norm or as common as they are portrayed in commercials?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:16 AM
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I lived in New York the whole time I was there. Sure you will occasionally see an interracial couple but thats a long way from calling it "common" People just think it's common because every second black guy who makes it big in sports starts dating white girls and TV commercials in America feature crazy amounts of unrealistic interracial couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:56 AM
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Outside of rich athletes it's pretty rare. Im a black guy who lived in the states for like 3 years with my white girlfriend and can't remember ever meeting another BM/WF couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:54 AM
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I don't mean to alarm you but I think average looking and older men figured this out a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:01 AM
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Don't fuck your dog please million suns
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:57 AM
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These have to be anti red pill fake posts surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:55 AM
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I'm good mate. Once you make a woman orgasm you will see where I'm coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:21 PM
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Every LTR I've been in I'd say my girlfriend wanted sex slightly more than me. Women are horny but aren't down for casual sex as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:38 PM
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Yeh you don't have to. You also have the option of dating no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:35 PM
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Fit (works out fit not just skinny), nice face, certain level of class (no smokers, junkies, chicks who swear etc) and someone I find at least kind of interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:40 PM
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I'm Irish so pubs and bars are cultural meeting places
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:33 PM
2

Strange thing about being unattractive means normally you have to date other unattractive people. Unless you're rich
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:32 PM
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Whenever I hear someone say "I hate the taste of water" https://youtu.be/YSDTPPM9qsc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:29 PM
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I would consider myself relatively high value (good job, home owner, in shape, ready to settle down) but no way am I waiting 3 months for sex. Obviously what a woman has to gain is to keep a high value man from dating someone else. Plus women enjoy sex as well don't they? And wouldn't women want to have sex with a man to find out if they are sexually compatible before wasting several months? Why wait so long to have sex to find out you're not into each other in that way, it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:18 PM
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I'm not 100% but I'm pretty sure this sub is about gender roles in western cultures? I'm not about to dive into understanding complex gender roles and sexuality of cultures I know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:13 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:56 AM
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If women are second class citizens what does that make betas who pine for their attention but can't get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:31 AM
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I think that's just more down to Americans having a history and culture of being more anti regulation and anti government than other western countries rather than being more sexually liberated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:31 AM
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That's just what we need, more undeserved entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:17 AM
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Everyone, both men and women desire the best possible mate they can get so sure a woman technically could just find some cuck who will wait 8 months to fuck her but the problem is that if you're looking for an attractive, successful, intelligent man that man is going to have other options that he will pursue instead jumping through hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:36 AM
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A Gallup pole which asked people from different countries to identify how important religion was to their every day life 69% of Americans said yes "it was important" Compared to 42% of Canadians, 32% of Australians, 40% of Germans, 27% of Brits and 16-20% of Scandinavian countries. 69% of people saying religion is important to them in their everyday life is not a subculture it's the majority and much higher than any comparable English speaking western country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:51 PM
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The president ends every speech with God bless America, every athlete in every sport thanks god after winning a game. That isn't a subculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:24 PM
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Religion. Other western countries aren't as religious as Americans and therefore less sexually prudish. Also America has a more recent history with puritan pilgrims than any where else in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:21 PM
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I don't think that's a true statement. For every heterosexual interracial couple there has to be one male and one female of a different race married to each other so there is no logical way that there is more women than men in interracial marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:08 PM
1

If that's what you believe then that's what you you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:37 AM
1

I was more thinking that you're guilty of it seen as you're under the illusion that you have mastered your subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:19 AM
1

Are you familiar with the dunning-kruger effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:57 AM
1

If you're aware of it it isn't your subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:51 AM
1

"Show her your wad of hundreds and box of magnum condoms" - Mantis Toboggan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:40 AM
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Humans associating things like gender, height, deeper voices, body language etc to being more trustworthy and better leaders is happening on a subconscious level. You may think you're one of a kind and intellectually superior to everyone else but the reality is you're not and are subconsciously reacting to these things the same as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:35 AM
0

Feels like a troll post. Where are you living that your wife needs to be carrying wood and using saws?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:42 AM
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Women think they are masters of deception just because they never get called out on anything because men still want to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:41 AM
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because it feels nice. I genuinely feel bad for men who dont want to be masculine but force themselves to pretend to be just to get laid. What a sad fake existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:30 AM
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Kind of like men who arent white yeh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:43 AM
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Its human nature to automatically view a person who is bigger and stronger as a better leader. We still haven't completely evolved away from our cave man instincts in that respect. Also wealthy people are taller than poor people and white guys are taller than every other race in most western countries. Majority of CEOs are rich white guys, doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out why most CEOs are 6 ft and its not because all the short dudes elect tall CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:29 AM
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Is this serious? Women are more likely to discriminate based on race than men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:23 AM
1

Sure I agree that societies expectation of men is to be the man and know what to do all the time but thats my point? for whatever reason men have been conditioned to be overly confident about their abilities, which is what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:16 AM
1

That's probably because you're not alpha so attempts to appear so are weird and unnatural. I'm not purposely trying to bring you down or anything but there is nothing more pathetic than a guy pretending to be tough or a ladies man when they clearly aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:36 AM
7

If anything id say men have more of an inflated opinion of their abilities than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:31 AM
0

Yes but I have no sympathy for people who don't respect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:39 AM
2

I personally disagree but in general your opinions are completely pessimistic and borderline misandristic and have no chance of ever changing. So my question to you would be why do you do CMV's? You're obviously biased and stubborn to a point where your opinion will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:36 AM
3

I remember seeing something on TV about amount of "particles" that escape when flushing the toilet so I always close the lid before flushing. But in terms of seat down lid open vs seat up lid open they are both equally wrong ways to leave a toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:04 PM
28

The toilet seat being left in the up or down position are both equally acceptable ways of leaving a toilet seat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:33 PM
10

I'm wearing a hat made from aluminium foil in an attempt to block the oncoming mental destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:33 PM
3

There's way, too many, punctuation marks. In that paragraph, bro. Please. Eliminate, at least 3 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:14 PM
10

Honey bunch*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:09 PM
21

Oh no I'm being intellectually destroyed, somebody save me!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:04 PM
20

Intellectually destroyed by the guy who can't spell attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:46 PM
2

The heading literally says "don't work full time"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:32 AM
2

Welcome to 2020 bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:07 AM
5

How dare you tell me to be happy and not hate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:52 AM
12

Men and women should be concerned with both their own pleasure and their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:07 AM
0

I dont need to deny anything. Those shows are in the minority and are made for adults as opposed to 95% of media that pushes the opposite stereotype. Again, a few exceptions don't prove a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:18 AM
3

A lot of what red pill talks about is common knowledge amongst men. Actually talking about the red pill and consciously implementing it as a system is very uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:30 AM
2

You think men with sisters, mothers and girlfriends are soley watching Arnold Schwarzenegger movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:27 AM
0

Did you read what I wrote? Men use the media as an example because the overwhelming stereotype inTV and movies is that the nice guy eventually wins and gets the girl. The overwhelming stereotype for women in movies and TV is not "the slutty girl gets the guy" I don't even agree with men who complain about that as they should (in my opinion) be able to distinguish TV from reality. What you're saying however is just completely logically false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:23 AM
-2

You can't list them because there are 10 times more movies and tv shows that will disprove what you're saying. Again exceptions don't prove the rule, if you actually believe that mainstream media, movies and television promote the idea that men find promiscuity attractive you're living in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:17 AM
0

OP is literally talking about being lied to about what men find desirable and brought up TV/movie characters to prove their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:13 AM
0

I completely disagree. You have two examples, Lois Griffin and the lady from sex and the city? Nearly every rom com has a female romantic interest that is a good looking innocent girl. You've just randomly selected two outliers to try and prove a rule, but it's just not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:08 AM
0

I don't care really and I don't think 10+ makes a woman 100% "promiscuous". Im 31 years old, have a high n count, live in a very liberal country and I'm not religious. The chances of me having anything in common with a virgin is ridiculously slim. I don't want to marry someone who is "easy" that's pretty much my only stipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:59 PM
3

I think you mean objectively instead of subjectively. But still people aren't robots, most people who get married think they are making the right call.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:45 PM
3

In terms of normal relationships, yes. Women prefer older men but 10+ years is a bit much. Women on here like to pretend that they don't like older men because it would be admitting they are shallow and care about money and status. But still 10 years is a large age gap for a normal relationship, a woman who is 22 is not going to go for a 35 year old dude when she could easily get a similar guy who is mid-late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:41 PM
3

Probably the mythical "wage gap" that is commonly accepted as fact in the main stream media. That women earn 70¢ on the dollar for the exact same job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:35 PM
2

Yes, I have a friend who played sport at a pro level, is objectively good looking, married his first girlfriend who is not extremely attractive and has never cheated on her despite having the amount of options to do so. However I do believe there are a lot of "good guys" who are only good because they have no opportunity to be bad. It's pretty easy to stay faithful when getting laid in the free market is extremely difficult for you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:30 PM
2

Thanks for quoting what I said, I have a rare condition that means my eyes can't view things 2 inches up. God bless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:34 PM
3

Congratulations of possessing a womb I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:26 PM
4

90% of everything is done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:05 AM
2

High value and low value, what makes someone low or high value is completely subjective to the majority of people of the demographic you are trying to attract. Physical attractiveness, status, personality, wealth etc can influence how high or low value you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:04 AM
2

I agree for normal people but my taxes paying for every rood rats baby is what makes me ok with the enforcement of child support
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:24 AM
3

Don't get them started, if you tell them your brother and brother in law are 5'6 you will get some dude who is 4'11 on here ranting about how 5'6 isn't even short.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:06 AM
1

How so? I'd say the ethical system that results from my viewpoint is one that encourages awareness of human populations influence on the environment, if that is troubling to you then I don't know what to say. Maybe you should pull your head out of your anus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:55 AM
1

I appreciate the time it took for for to google Malthusian but how does that have anything to do with what I said? I'm talking about the human population increasing to a point that negatively harms the environment or changes our way of life significantly which is already in effect. Malthusianism is the theory that human population will eventually exceed our ability to produce food and recourses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:02 PM
5

The ability to attract other attractive, high value partners is what makes someone high value, sexually speaking. If you're attractive, successful and respected the amount of partners you have actually had sex with is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:34 PM
2

Yes but that's completely unrelated haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:50 AM
5

Hahaha women having casual sex without you reduces your quality of life you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:48 AM
17

Haha with patenting like that you will probably get a daughter with both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:21 AM
2

You mean a legend like king Arthur, merlin, hercules, Atlantis? Imagine having a discussion about modern day dating and say "yeh mate when a girl is interested in you she will throw a sword at you, just like the lady of the lake did to king arthur"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:29 AM
4

Ive never understood the dudes on here to complain that women aren't attracted to them physically then complain again that these same women are attracted to them for reasons unrelated to their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:23 AM
5

Haha what? Shaving your facial hair is not the equivalent of applying a foreign substance to your face everyday. Outside of a very small minority of men or men who are covering up a pimple, make up is nearly exclusively used by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:18 AM
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My ex was in a sorority at Butler, she said that one of the hazings there was to get all of the freshman girls in their underwear and as a group the other girls circled parts of their bodies with a marker that were too fat and needed improvement. I'd be more concerned about your daughter developing mental problems from that shit as opposed to worrying she is going to have a dick in her at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:10 AM
2

They are more likely to know they like by dicks than someone who has no experience yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:25 AM
3

Settle down. Just pointing out that loud, revealing outfit wearing, plastic surgery and insta thotting is more common among women than men hence disagreeing with this CMV about women not being attention seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:24 AM
3

Well when we all live in an ancient Chinese fairytale I'll give you your dues but in the real world it isn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:03 AM
19

Women calling themselves a prize or a "queen" or say they are looking for a "king" get an automatic left swipe. You know they are just going to be the biggest high drama fuck wit with a Kardashian complex. Some dumb bastard will jump on that grenade but it's not going to be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:11 PM
1

A pretty ridiculous hypothetical situation. No one is going to show up noticeably more attractive than they appear online unless they were doing some kind of social study or taking the piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:06 PM
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Your headline needs a comma. I think that debate would be more winnable if women didn't wear heels, skimpy dresses, push up bras, fake boobs, hair extensions, make up etc and post a million sexy photos of themselves on social media all for the sake of attention. Not disagreeing that a lot of men don't also love attention but come on. Just look at Instagram and Snapchat, so many attractive women not only thrive off attention but actually make careers out of getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:00 PM
1

Doesn't seem likely. Seems like older experienced girls are more likely to seek out big dicks if that's their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:44 PM
9

Ill never get to drive tank so why should my tax money go to the military?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:07 PM
5

That doesn't sound like much of a strategy to me? I'm fine with whatever other men decide on as their strategy to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:38 PM
2

Thats just daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:02 AM
2

Ok so your argument is it's ok to have a trillion people on earth just as long as human beings change their entire way of living that we have shown no inclination to changing and never will? Yeh sick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:12 AM
2

It is overpopulated. I could fit 10 people in car as well but doesn't mean that's what I should be striving for. Animals are going extinct, the ocean is full of trash, glaciers are melting and fuck wits want to give birth to every human ever conceived because some imaginary man has decided it is so. Fucking morons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:46 AM
1

I hate the idea of being anti abortion seen as the world is overpopulated and fucked anyway without forcing people to give birth to unwanted children that no one wants. I'm all for financial abortion for men, however I don't want the cost of child support alleviated from these men only to be thrown the bill in the form of my tax money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:34 AM
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No, being friendless is a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:22 PM
3

Sexlessness isn't that bad if it's your choice to be sexless. I'm a guy with a high n count who has occasionally gone months without sex, either because I'm wrapped up with work or just can't be fucked dating or whatever and it's been fine, I haven't really thought about it. Getting no sex ever, matter how much you crave intimacy and affection would be brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:20 PM
3

I don't think that's the case at all. Men don't have trouble knowing with what women find attractive, it doesn't take a genius to figure out what is a attractive to women. Men on here are just pissed off they aren't considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:52 PM
0

Sleeping with 100s of women (not saying thats how many people I've slept with) takes skills. Sleeping with a 100s of men as a woman takes nothing but being available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:21 AM
1

Its hypocritical for sure but anyone but it's no different than people sleeping around with people they don't consider marriage material any way. As for the religious aspect that's between you and your faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:39 AM
0

I never said women peaked at 19 either. I'm disagreeing with OP's opinion that all men over 30 are unattractive when in reality they are probably just as attractive or unattractive as when they were at 25-30
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:11 AM
1

Whatever makes you feel better I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:45 AM
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Are you 16 or something? You can literally just go google sexiest men alive and count how many names come up of men over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:23 AM
1

Absolutely. Though I've never found any women who ask or particularly care about an N count. As previous posters have pointed out women normally look down on lack of experience not the over abundance of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:42 PM
3

lol Women can have as high of a libido as they wish, fuck as many men as they want and hit triple digits for all I care. Just don't complain when self respecting men would rather marry a woman who hasn't been fucked by the whole town.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:32 PM
2

Really?! Women don't tell men exactly the amount of men they have slept with?!? Consider me shocked and appalled. Thanks for the advice OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:34 PM
3

I don't expect her to, the same way I wouldn't tell my partner exactly how many women I've slept with but reputations get around and if you were the town bicycle a long term boyfriend would eventually find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:31 PM
3

I'm not one of those guys who expects a virgin or anything but I have a high n count and would never marry someone who has had sex with as many people as me. I just don't want to marry a woman who is "easy" for any man to get into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:51 PM
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Because they are poor, most people from first world countries have no idea what it's like to be actually poor and hungry and what they would do to be a middle class westerner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:39 AM
1

Its a bit hard to oppress men when you're in a primative society and you can't physically dominate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:41 AM
1

No opinion, I work with my hands and go to the gym regularly so I don't wear it. Conversely I wouldn't suspect my wife of doing anything untoward if she didn't want to wear one either. The increase in people in commited but unwed relationships and people who choose not to wear their ring has surely made the whole looking for a wedding ring thing redundant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:09 AM
2

Sounds like you've figured it out already. Dudes in college are less likely to settle down than a 27 year old because they are surrounded by single females 24/7 and college is seen by a lot of people their chance to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:32 PM
7

I don't know how much of this is a joke but my girlfriend religiously watching the news is a huge source of fighting in our relationship haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:23 PM
2

Because everyone on here acts like being sub 6' in the dating world is the equivalent of being an obese double amputee female with one eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:20 PM
2

The company avoiding overqualified people is simple, they will just leave as soon as anything slightly better comes. The reason some men avoid career oriented women isn't because they are afraid she will leave them as soon as a better option comes up so I don't really understand the comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:58 PM
2

Short is a disadvantage for sure although I do have friends who are 5'7-5-9 who get women at the same rate and attractiveness as friends who are 6'2. Under 5'7 is pretty rough though, most girls I see in my day to day life who aren't Asian are probably around 5'5-5'6 plus they are normally rocking some form of heel if they are dressed up to go on a date or a bar. I'm 5'10 and can feel pretty damn short at some bars or clubs where all the girls are rocking heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:07 PM
2

I'm with my long term partner who i will probably get married to in the next year or two. Honestly I wouldn't think consciously about any of those questions you posed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:59 PM
2

There's some high quality mental gymnastics involved in that post. I'm not saying one is shallow and one isnt, I'm just disagreeing with the comparison as they aren't comparable. The same way someone finding a certain race unattractive isn't the same as finding obesity unattractive, one is purely pre determined genetics and one is a lifestyle choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:52 PM
3

Did you even read my comment before writing this? I'm not shaming anyone for who they are attracted to I'm just pointing out the weight/height thing is not a reasonable comparison as height is completely unrelated to someones personality or lifestyle choices where someone being noticeably overweight is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:35 PM
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People who take care of themselves age better than ones that don't? I'll alert the press
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:38 AM
3

I'm not tall or short or have any care in the world about who people are attracted to but the idea on this sub of comparing height to being overweight or obese is not a reasonable comparison. Height is something completely genetically predetermined and is comparable to things like race or facial features. Being noticeably overweight is something 99% of the population can do something about and says a lot more about a person as a whole, like activity levels, diet, general health etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:17 AM
2

I'm not sure about other men who are generally quiet or timid but I've never personally been intimated by a woman, not physically or on a personally. Its more that I just don't like overly loud, obnoxious, crass women and it's these women who tend to take that as people being "intimidated" by them rather than seeing their own character flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:40 AM
1

True but it's not like anyone has ever denied celebrities look good in their late 20s and 30s. Brad Pitt and my dad are the same age and I'm 31 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:32 AM
3

Nothing of the sort was ever implied. I said more attractive men attract more attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:02 PM
1

Aren't black Americans shorter on average than white ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:34 AM
2

Id argue that merit has nothing to do with attractiveness. Are you gonna fuck the ugly woman with great moral fibre over the one with a nice ass and rack? Why hold women who don't find you attractive to a moral standard you don't apply to anybody else?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:19 AM
-1

How convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:54 AM
9

Everyone on here complains that men under 6' get marginalised but 5'8 isn't worthy of being called short? Get the fuck out of here with gatekeeping what being short actually means. "Yeh but he's taller than Danny DeVito so he isnt THAT short" yes if you're 5'5 and the same height as an average woman then you're shit out of luck and at a serious disadvantage, but don't turn around in the next post and pretend like obese women have it easier in the dating world than dudes who are sub 6' because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:12 AM
15

I don't understand what's so hilarious about the comments? All the top ones seem pretty reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:40 AM
3

A country where the official average is 5'10 and 1/2. Keep in mind most discussions on here (for the most part) are about western societies of people a certain age whos average height would be taller than a global average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:05 AM
7

Did I say there wasn't? Every comment not pertaining to the results of some kind of proven data is anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:26 PM
1

Taller or similar height to me, out of shape, short hair, tattooed and/or Pierced look, no ass, unpleasant face to look at, unshaved body hair (underarms, legs, down there etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:35 PM
1

If by "better" you mean strictly better looking then yes. I would wager the majority of people who are married aren't married to the hottest person they ever slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:30 PM
2

https://youtu.be/fc7Q8i33s9E
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:29 PM
-2

Two words puffy vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:25 PM
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Honestly sometimes I think I live in a completely different world to some of you people. Ive never in my life seriously dated an overweight girl and neither have any of my friends who would be considered decent looking. Meanwhile my two friends who are shorter than 5'9 have zero trouble getting laid or finding hot girlfriends. I think you're all just seeing what you want to see and only notice things that happen to you directly while marginalizing difficulties faced by other people in the dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:21 PM
1

I'm a guy who works out, is a big believer in fitness making you more attractive, happier and putting you in a better mental state but this opinion is way off. Genetic traits like height, build, facial features, hair etc all are more important than muscles when it comes to being physically attractive. Find a photo of a 5'7 230lbs IFBB pro who is also ugly and ask women if he is hotter than a young Marlon Brando and you will have your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:19 PM
1

I find it weird that so many dudes on here who are average or below average looking who constantly complain about getting overlooked by women for not being physically attractive enough complain when women find them attractive for something other than their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:10 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:29 AM
0

I'm not really talking about maximising attractiveness. You're talking about constantly having to lower your standards but the reality is if you can only attract 6/10s and can't ever get anyone more attractive then 6/10 is your standard. You're not constantly lowering them that is just all you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:45 PM
12

If you want easy sex with attractive women be more attractive. People complaining about not being handed stuff they have no right to is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:57 AM
3

For a healthy relationship yes, at least initially. People can settle for SO's they don't find attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:55 AM
1

No. But luckily for past me, women in their early 20s and late teens were dumber than 30 year old me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 10:03 AM
3

Thanks for the capital letters I wouldn't have noticed those words if you had just written them normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:14 AM
1

I'm from the Dinka tribe. Do you really not understand how removing the shortest demographics from a study of average heights makes the average higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:51 AM
1

I find it funny because in my experience the chad people talk about on here is almost mythical. Like you have rolled all of these masculine qualities into one person that doesn't actually exist in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 10:09 PM
2

You don't have to start a new paragraph everytime you use a full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 10:52 AM
2

Jesus do women ever just own up to negatives about themselves? All the mental gymnastics must surely get tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 10:48 AM
1

Its not about what people claim. Measured studies show the average is 5'10 1/2 but that is well below what i would say the average height is for under 35 white males in my country. I'm not bragging, I'm actually 5'10 and would call myself slightly below average height for my demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:45 PM
1

I don't care what the average height is in whatever country you were born or in America where I don't live. I'm telling you that the official average height of my country is 5'10 1/2 and that includes people from older generations and other races that are on average much shorter. Men in my country, my age, my race would be on average around 6' tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:54 PM
8

That's some very out there conclusions based on one girl you know who turned down a (in your opinion) a superior male for an average one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:30 AM
3

Young girls date broke musicians. Women looking for a partner aren't looking for someone broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:28 AM
3

I'm not disagreeing that America has a larger gap between poor and rich. I'm saying that if those low status jobs paid more money women would find those men acceptable to marry. OP was that women aren't attracted to the money it's all about education and "commonalities" which is what I'm disagreeing with. If you paid a construction worker the same wage as a lawyer professional women would happily date them as is the case in a country that is similar to America where this is already the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:29 PM
0

But what does that have to do with women being attracted to blue collar jobs when they earn better salaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:32 PM
13

I've lived inbetween Australia and the US for most of my life, one difference between the two countries is Australia pays a lot more money for skilled labour (people who didn't go to university but did some kind of apprenticeship or traineeship instead). To a point that tradesmen can earn the equivalent of well paying white collar jobs and guess what? In Australia you will see women with University degrees dating plumbers, electricians, carpenters etc but in the US you wont because they don't ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:18 PM
1

Believe what you want but as a male with a lot of decent male friends, I don't and neither do any of my friends. Literally none of my friends have bitches as girlfriends, men don't associate confidence with attractiveness the same way women do. To believe we fall for loud bitches the same way women fall for over confident dick heads is completely false as men and women aren't looking for the same qualities in a mate. Sure low class dickheads fuck and marry low class bitches but that isn't a rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:42 AM
2

I think we are on a different page sorry mate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:32 AM
1

Its really not I hate to disappoint you. Out of me and maybe 5-10 of my Closest friends I'm one of the shortest at 5'10. Most of them are between 5'11 and 6'2 with a few 5'8 and 6'5 outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:31 AM
1

I'm not really talking about that though. OP is posing a hypothetical question about what would happen if feminists realised that most women were highly selective and had a preference for dominant men. I'm asking if there is anyone actually out there denying that sexual selectivity is a thing? If it wasn't perfect 10s of both genders would just be fucking and marrying hard 2s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:35 AM
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I'm not saying TRP beliefs are entirely true but is there anyone out there who actually believes that women don't selectively choose partners based on looks, fitness and social status? Its basic human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:44 AM
2

Fucking with your hormones is a hard no for me. Your body makes millions of sperm every day, imagine what kind of drug would be needed to stop that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:34 PM
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Because blaming things you have no control over is much easier than actually working on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:29 PM
3

Quick question but what do you all mean by short man? I'm from a western country that has an official average height of 5'10 but where the actual average height for men my age and race would be probably 6' and one of my friends is 5'8. We jokingly tease him about it if we are ripping on each other but he has never struggled to get laid by attractive women. Fair enough if you're talking about someone who is extremely short but if you're talking about regular men who are just sub 6' then I just do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:51 PM
5

Love and infatuation aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:59 AM
2

If you couldn't tell how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:40 AM
1

Nothing. Although complaining about male privilege would be the first step to avoiding being a massive delusional hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:19 AM
1

Honestly I don't know what your point is. If you think that then that's your problem. I'm not playing a game, I'm merely pointing out that women in my demographic (middle - upper middle class white people) have it slightly easier than their male equivalents and are (outside of the very rich) the most privileged people on the planet. Nothing I've said has any agenda to trivialise anyones problems and if you choose to misinterpret what I'm saying that is 100% on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:43 AM
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Why would that be a correct line of thinking? Why would I think that? I'm a white, 30 year old man who makes good money in one of the most livable countries in the world. Are my problems automatically void because 95% of the world has it worse than me? Just pointing out that women in my demographic are slightly more privileged than the equivalent men doesn't mean I automatically trivialise all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:28 AM
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HAHA who do you think would do all these dangerous shitty jobs if they quit? You think women are lining up to be loggers and sewerage workers? Of course not, it would be more working class men who have to provide for a family. Again choosing to have children and then feeding them and caring for them is not employment, no matter how much you think it does. PS you have no evidence of the race of people who occupy dangerous careers stop blatantly lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:11 AM
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I wouldn't go that far. Not every society is a modern western one and there are still are a lot of women in the world who are actually oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:07 AM
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I dont know you and don't care about you personally so obviously I have no agenda that involves you. This may come as a surprise but the world doesn't revolve around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:05 AM
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Why do you think that because I simply said that upper middle class white women have more privilege that I constantly talk about it or can't have normal relationships with women because of that opinion? Its just a fact that they do, I don't care that they do or constantly whine about it, I just find it a funny and hypocritical curiosity when upper middle class women talk about white male privilege, seen as they are the main beneficiary of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:03 AM
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Haha settle down not everything is a personal attack on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:12 AM
2

HAHAHA all these stupid men with their silly jobs. Don't they know they can just like totally quit and do something else? I wonder if they have thought of that. I said my girlfriend and I both have seperate apartments so we do our own housework that we don't include in our "hours worked" for the week because obviously vacuuming my apartment and walking the dog doesn't count because that is just called looking after yourself. Claiming that looking after yourself and your kids is somehow equal to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:50 AM
1

How is a razor feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:23 PM
5

Would you prefer I tore your whole argument to shreds? Because to be honest most of the rest of that comment didn't make sense either I just preferred to ignore it because I considered it nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:12 PM
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I'm not a red pill man, I didn't down vote you and don't care if you think I did. You seem to have abandoned your argument in favour of name calling pretty quickly though so I'm guessing you don't have anything to counter what I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 11:01 PM
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When did women start referring to basic housekeeping tasks as paid work? Me and my girlfriend live seperately does that mean we both work 70 hours a week and clock times everytime I walk the dog or clean the toilet? 93% of workplace deaths and injuries are men. You're talking nonsense, working class men do absolutely hold most of the most hazardous jobs in the world. Loggers, roofers, farmers, fisherman, electrical lineman, truck drivers construction labourers etc are all some of the most danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:58 PM
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Working class men would probably hold 90% of the most dangerous, physically taxing and overall shittest jobs on the planet. They work from high school and die not long after retiring. Please explain what privilege you think these people enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:08 PM
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What's with the strange attitude towards "settling" on this sub? Everybody settles, if your partner could lock down someone better they would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:51 PM
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Middle class - upper middle class white women are the most privileged people on earth and it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:44 PM
3

lol don't worry it's all the patriachy's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:10 PM
6

That's a complete cop out to claim women don't start cheating unless they see their partner trying to cheat. There are a number of reasons why people cheat in their significant others, why is it so hard for women to own up to anything without blaming men for being the root cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:13 PM
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Of course cheating is about how it makes the person who is getting cheated on feel. Mentally healthy people who get cheated on are still going to feel bad when they get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 03:12 PM
2

I don't know what you're asking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 02:42 PM
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I disagree. Women look for the best possible mate and don't like sleeping around, a woman cheating on you is basically saying she found someone better than you to sleep with and that you are inferior. A man cheating on a woman doesn't have anything to do with a woman's value. https://youtu.be/3psB9nG75sM Because Eddie Murphy said it better than I ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 01:43 PM
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I had bad acne as a teenager but was also the captain of the football team, that absolutely impacted my attractiveness back then. Ive always worked out, I think everyone should even if you're not trying to get laid. Imagine having a body and not trying to keep it as fit and healthy as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 01:18 PM
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Men who are angry at women's standards are the ones who automatically get filtered out of dating by 99% of women they find attractive. Why would men celebrate the fact that they aren't found attractive? Filtering out picky women is only an option for men who actually have options already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 12:45 PM
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I don't, at least not in the same way women do. I find women who make 1/3 of my annual salary attractive in the same way I would find someone who earns as much as me. Status and potential wealth mean absolutely zero to me when the woman earns less than me. The only time I would notice would be if the woman earned significantly more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:16 AM
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Meh, I think both men and women are equally judged. Men who can get young women are as socially acceptable as women who seek rich or attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:12 AM
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Both. Some people do settle and are happy no matter how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:11 AM
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Funny men attractive. They are just more likely to overlook lack of humour for someone who is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:10 AM
3

"chad" can and does commit to long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:09 AM
1

No woman has ever asked me this. Some will ask questions about family and gauge your responses, I'm assuming because they are family orientated and want someone with similar values. But I've literally never been asked anything directly about my relationship with my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:22 AM
1

Yes and personally I am all for sexually liberated women over the alternative but that doesn't make your OP correct. Liberal societies make more sexually liberated women, slut shaming creates more sexually strict behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 02:25 AM
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It's not considered less shallow IMO. Men seeking a slightly younger partner is completely normal and socially accepted and so is women dating a taller man. Women who are below average height calling a man who is average height "too short" is 100% shallow the same way a 30 year old man turning down a 27 year old woman for being "too old" would be. Most people don't take any issues with women choosing men who are taller than them, they take issue with women turning down men for being too short ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 02:16 AM
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Nothing? I'm not arguing what is right or wrong I'm just saying that OPs view isn't correct because it's blatantly obvious less slut shaming and a more liberal culture creates more sexually liberated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:36 PM
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Except that when slut shaming was more common and more socially accepted women slept with less men and behaved more modestly. If you're theory was correct then more liberal societies would produce less "slutty" women than ones that still actively encourage shaming women. But they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:23 AM
2

I asked my girlfriend once and I think it's as much to do with her dislike of regular male female porn as it is her actual attraction to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:57 AM
0

I've never heard anyone, on here or in real life claim that women are less cultured than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:55 AM
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They have just confused the human need for intimacy with desire to jism in something that resembles a woman. Porn and sex toys have only managed to seperate these men fuether from acquiring intimacy but they are convinced a sex robot will be the answer to all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 08:52 AM
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My old man says stuff like this all the time, even if we are in an area full of hardcore modern feminists and SJWs and everyone thinks he's funny or charming. But hes a friendly old man with an Irish accent and a bit of a swagger about him, I don't think regular younger guys can get away with it as much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:42 PM
1

Mincing gays? Jesus what year is it? I'm not trying to be argumentative but you literally said you don't know why people think gay men are automatically less masculine. In my experience and I'm sure most other people's experiences as well most gay men they know are less traditionally masculine than the straight men they know. Its a stereotype yes, but there is a reason that it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:52 AM
1

When did I say that it did?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:37 AM
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Enjoy your sex robots I guess, I think dudes who are actually looking forward to these will be painfully disappointed that having sex with an inanimate object will not satisfy the urges they expect to satisfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 03:50 AM
1

Haha well that's ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:50 PM
1

No. For all the complaining of the betas on here women and men are still hooking up with comparably attractive members of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:49 PM
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Women banging gross old dudes just because they are famous is something I'm yet to get my head around on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:47 PM
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Explaining to sexless men that sexual interest is just as bad as having zero interest is like me telling a starving person eating is overrated because my wifes cooking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:43 PM
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Is it rationally false though? There is a very large portion of men who are homosexual who are extremely feminine and every overly masculine career path is dominated by straight men. It's a stereotype that not every single gay man fits into yes, but it's still a stereotype for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:51 PM
1

I have one female friend who I'm close enough to talk about things as I would a close male friend but that's it. I think it's pretty rare for a straight man to have a female "best friend" but maybe that's just the people I hang around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:03 AM
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Certain level of class. Attractive to me. Pleasant to be around. Active and healthy. Empathetic and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:01 AM
1

I don't find female stand up funny at all but I've met a couple of funny women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:06 AM
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Whenever I read posts like this it reminds me of AJ in the sopranos and how he is too dumb to comprehend a lot of everyday stuff so the whole negative news cycle really bums him out and he tries to drown himself unsuccessfully in the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:26 AM
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Depends on the woman. I'm 5'10 and 195lbs, so not huge but not small. There is no way I'm going to just drop a 100lb woman with a right cross and put her to sleep when I can just safely subdue her instead. If the woman is a 6' 200lb tank who could actually do me damage I would go to town.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 11:22 PM
3

So you're saying percentages will always exist despite how attractive or unattractive we become? Hot take
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 11:18 PM
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Ah ok I would say in terms of an actual slut and perceived slut/trashy woman there isn't much difference for me. I'd like to date women of a certain level of perceived class, how many men she has technically has sex with is mostly irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 11:16 PM
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I'm not sure what either of those things are sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 07:43 PM
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N count is irrelevant. Perception of her from my family and friends is. I have a female friend who has been single from 18-30 and has probably slept with over 50 men if I had to guess, however she is still seen as classy and high value because of how she has gone about being single. On the other hand you can have girls who are considered the town slut with an n count under 10 because of those 10 being very poor decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:34 PM
1

The music and entertainment industry would have to close wouldn't it? I don't know much about the industry as a whole but it's basically about getting paid what you can earn and female actors and musicians are as in demand as male ones. Sure there may be pay differences in some cases but it's entirely consumer driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:29 PM
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If it was still not serious I would bail. I have sympathy for people with mental illness but I'm not signing up to deal with it if I don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:45 AM
1

Girls who love sex are great but there are other factors in who I choose to enter a LTR with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:58 AM
1

Mrs right. Harems are for weird cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:52 AM
1

Still beats delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:14 PM
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Whatever they want I suppose. Personally if I was a girl I would be studying, travelling and having fun between the ages of 18-26
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:53 PM
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31 m The very underrated feeling of not being made to feel vulnerable or worried about being a victim of sexual violence. Also I've found that as I've gotten older people just generally listen to me and give me more respect than what I think they would do if I was a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:50 PM
1

There's literally nothing to debate. 99% of high status jobs are high status because they are well paid. Doctors average 300k a year in the US, if they averaged 30k they wouldn't be considered high status. All of your points are irrelevant so I have nothing to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:25 PM
5

I would move in with a woman but not the author of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:36 PM
0

Yes and then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:33 PM
1

UK doctors are high status because they get paid on average 100k a year, which is well over the national average. Trainee doctors aren't doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:45 AM
1

The mean salary of a doctor in the US is 300k.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:25 AM
1

Hahaha what does that have to do with anything? It's high status because it's financially lucrative. If you paid a doctor $25 an hour it would be a low status career path. End of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:22 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:58 AM
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Hahaha yeh sure. Start paying doctors 35k a year and see how high status it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:03 AM
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Social class is based entirely on money and to think otherwise is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:28 AM
2

Yeh if an extra 50k isn't in another social class I have no idea what is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:01 AM
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I have no idea what world you are living in. In my experience I constantly see men dating and marrying women who earn significantly less than them. Lawyer with secretary, managers with HR girls, surgeons with nurses etc. Even down to blue collar workers you have skilled tradesmen (builders, electricians, plumbers etc) married to women who earn significantly less. Even look at how many "instagram influencers" end up dating actors and athletes who make bank. I honestly don't know any couple where …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:06 AM
0

I don't think it's the same thing as men are biologically programmed to sleep around where as women are programmed to look for the best possible mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 11:56 PM
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There is definitely alpha females in terms of social interactions. Whether that social dominance translates to physical attractiveness to the opposite sex is debatable. I'd probably go with no, that there is not a female alpha male equivalent as I don't find that kind of dominance and assertiveness more or less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:51 PM
0

I think you're delusional if you think you're so hot that every man you know jerks it thinking about you. I have attractive female friends who I am not trying to fuck and don't jerk off to fantasies involving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:59 PM
1

There is on here because this sub is full of strange units. In the real world I see more and more couples starting families without being married. It's not a big deal, marriage doesn't mean what it used to mean and you can still have a normal healthy relationship without being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:37 PM
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I dislike that double standards exist when a man gets figuratively dragged over the coals for something a woman would get away with. Like the lady who chopped her husband's dick off and got a sympathetic documentary about it while everyone laughed at the husband. But realistically I don't care about female sexual harrassment, I'm a man and have never felt violated or vulnerable in that scenario so I don't even consider it sexual assault or harrassment. When I was a senior in high school an older…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:35 PM
2

Fuck no. Id love it if my daughter got an education, travelled, experienced the work force and then thought about getting married after she felt she was ready to make that decision. Who cares what incels and TRP think, you can still do everything you want when you're younger and get married to a good man in your late 20s so fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:06 AM
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No offence but I've always thought women who can't differentiate between men who want to actually be friends and men who are just trying to fuck them were just a bit stupid. I dont think it means you're 100% unfunny and uninteresting though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:01 AM
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Misogyny is literally a dislike of women, you can still be man and not a little bitch without being a misogynist. Misogynists would be ok in the dating world but would struggle to have a healthy meaningful relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 07:54 PM
3

I just don't find most women that interesting that I would choose to hang out with them in a non romantic way over other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:21 PM
3

I'd get married to the right girl who wants to get married. It would be completely for her not me as I don't particularly want to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:46 AM
4

"Women aren't attracted to me therefore they aren't attracted to men"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:13 AM
1

Yes, women do next to nothing when it comes to approaching, unless they are drunk, well below your attractiveness equivalent or a combination of both. Unless you're an athlete, musician, millionaire or some kind of other famous person, good looking women wont throw themselves at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:10 AM
1

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:45 PM
3

Where I'm from a kiss on the cheek hello and goodbye is standard and nothing to be read into.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:37 AM
9

You're projecting your own insecurities onto women. True its hard for average men to initially attract attractive women but once a woman has feelings for you she's attracted to you, she's not just sitting there thinking "can't believe I'm stuck with this 6/10 when I could totally get a 7/10"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:17 AM
1

Some great things have been achieved by people who would have been considered extremists as well though. Irish and American independence to name a few. Whether you're considered a freedom fighter or an extremist terrorist is often subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:28 PM
16

Reality is neither sex falls of a cliff after 30, ugly people will still be ugly and people who don't look after themselves will look like shit. A 35 year old man is still better off than a similarly attractive 35 year old woman for 3 reasons. Men's attractiveness isn't as heavily linked to looking young as a woman's is, women are medically advised to have children before 40 and women generally tend to date slightly older men. Pretending that women have it better just because they can still get …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:39 PM
4

I don't agree with OP that women across the board are unprincipled but personally think it's a more common trait amongst men. I don't have any statistics to back that up or anything but have come to that conclusion from observations on how many men compared to women become extremists, resistance fighters, freedom fighters etc or end up dying for political or religious causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:12 PM
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Not really, some people have principals that they stick to despite personal inconveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:21 PM
2

More options and less social stigma around being divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:16 PM
1

Not much, I've never made them or even thought about the words that are used. Not shitting on marriage or anything but if I'm getting married to someone i'm already going to be commited to them, looking after them, living with them and in love with them so making vows for something I would be doing already just seems kind of stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:06 PM
1

I don't know if I'd use Kanye as an example I'm pretty sure he has proper mental problems. Celebrities in general aren't great examples for discussions on these kind of topics as their lives are just that different from the average person. I agree with your post though, I'm a guy with a relatively high n count and don't really care that much about n counts. I just wouldn't get in a LTR with a girl with a ridiculously high number of sexual partners or one who has a reputation as a slut. Men who c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:01 PM
1

Yes. I'm not committing to anyone I haven't got good sexual chemistry with or not falling in love with someone I haven't had sex with yet. Before I came on this sub I didn't even know there were people out there who actually expected commitment before sex except various religious nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:54 PM
2

Genes that select male sperm? Never heard of any such thing. Sex of children is mainly determined by the male sperm and whether it's carrying an X or y chromosome. Still there is absolutely zero logic to the idea that you can apply eugenics to one sex and not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:48 AM
2

Yeh I don't get it. Men don't pass their DNA onto male sons exclusively
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:10 AM
3

Please enlighten me Mr KFC drive through man who googled something on evolution. I'm dying to know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:12 PM
5

I'm not disagreeing with you that men aren't the more accomplished leaders of society but I think that is entirely down to biological differences between men and women, societal influences and historically less opportunities for women. The idea that female selection of men for positive traits that are more present in men has created some kind of super race of men has no scientific base to it as genes get passed down to men and women relatively equally from both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:42 PM
8

Thats not selective breeding though as women and men pass their genes on equally to daughters and sons. If a woman in the 50s had an athletic intelligent father she would still pass that DNA onto her sons. Just because she didnt need those particular traits for her role as a housewife in the 1950s doesn't mean she doesn't pass on her superior DNA. You're also forgetting about male selection criteria. Prior to modern medicine bearing children and surviving the birth was extremely difficult so men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:48 PM
5

An easier way would be to just mention to one of her friends you think she is attractive. The friend will tell her within 24 hours and you will have gotten your message across without the awkward conversation and possible face to face rejection. Plus women love to match make so if she felt the same way about you chances are the friend you told would probably tell you to make a move. If she doesn't feel the same way you can always pretend like you didn't even like her and you just said she was ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:29 PM
7

I don't quite get what you're saying? Any female sexual selection would have to benefit both male and female children equally as obviously you don't know the sex of the child you're going to have before you pick a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:04 PM
3

Yeh well public bars do tend to have people you don't know in them. I actually agree that average guys would have an easier time hooking up with girls if they had more of a connection to women in general or social situations with a mixed crowd but telling a guy "to get female friends" in order to get laid is an extremely inefficient strategy. Take a guy who has zero female friends, going out and randomly finding one is going to be even harder and more awkward actually than finding a date. A more…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:53 PM
1

He's probably not a complete random if he is at a social event with all of your friends someone would know him. That doesn't mean he is actually close friends with any of the girls there and being close friends with girls there wouldn't increase ugly man's chances of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:32 PM
5

You're basically saying to meet women in real life you have to have a social life where you will be at social gatherings where women will be present. Thats just a given. I would imagine people on here complaining about not being able to meet women don't have that. They either don't have much of a social life or have a social life with other similar men who don't have any connection to women. Having actual female friends and getting casual sex is completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:25 PM
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You probably don't notice if you've lived in America your whole life, but it's consumerist as fuck. I've lived there on and off between there and Australia and the UK and it still shocks me everytime I go back. Every TV advert is based around buying something crazy, like men buying their missus a new car, who actually does that in real life? Like makes a 40k purchase without even asking their partner? Or jewelry adverts where the husband drops 15k on a ring, "every kiss begins with Kaye" ever th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:08 PM
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Women don't only hook up with the top men. Women can just hook up with more attractive men than they would be able to get for a LTR so they do. As if we wouldn't do the same in their position? Like a guy who's "level" is a 7/10 but could get random sex from a 9/10, you think he's taking the moral high ground and only fucking 7/10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:49 PM
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Haha where are you from? I remember watching a British kids show called worzel gummadge.. I think it gave me nightmares for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:49 AM
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No you wouldn't. There would just be men who would be willing to sleep with the 5/10 anyway, there wouldn't actually be many men delusional enough to objectively label her an 8/10. Where as with women you get girls who like the skinny hipster type and women who like the muscled jock type who don't find the other attractive. That doesn't exist in men, women are either attractive or they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:51 AM
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5'10 - 5'11 is still average height for Scandinavian countries, Australia and most of the tallest European countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:34 AM
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I don't mean to attack you personally but if you're going to India to get your limbs lengthened just to become 2 inches taller you're a idiot. I'm 5'10 and do fine with women and I have a friend who is 5'8 who does even better. I don't think your height is as big of a deal as what it is in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:26 AM
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Not sure what you mean by real men but I would say men and women are both guilty of seeing gay men as less masculine than straight ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:18 AM
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If you can't observe your surroundings and see what women actually want you're basically fucked anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:13 AM
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I can hold it because if I pointed out an 8/10 woman and asked 10 of my friends what they would rate her, every single one would say between 7/10 and 9/10. If the same scenario was put to a group of women and you pointed out a skinny, long haired drummer from a band you would get answers of 4/10 - 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:04 AM
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Not sure if anyone has ever argued that being slightly taller, in slightly better shape, having a slightly nicer face etc isn't going to make you slightly more attractive. I would say men's ideas on women's attractiveness is more universal than women's ideas on male attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:44 PM
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Sorry to hear that. And no I wouldn't consider someone falling for that stupid. I'm referring to catching feelings for or expecting a relationship from somebody strictly because they are sleeping together which is what OP was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:32 PM
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I honestly don't think they are a thing. The only thing I've noticed is young girls with no thoughts on their future will hook up with or date men based solely on how attractive they find him physically and mentally. Women who are thinking about settling down will consider men who are responsible, well off financially or have any other positive father figure/provider trait that will make a man more attractive. Women don't pick out betas, men fail to create boundaries and let their partners walk …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:24 PM
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I know a few 5-6/10s who do alright. Sure they don't go the casual sex route because they would struggle but mostly they date girls who I would consider attractive in some way, ie good bodies and average faces or average bodies but very pretty faces. Personally Ive never seen a 7.5/10 struggle to get dates so not sure where you're difficulty lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:19 PM
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It's not that it's completely unmanageable for middle class people but for people today it seems unmanageable because we love having new cars, houses with 4 bathrooms, overseas holidays and branded clothing. When I was growing up there were a lot of stay at home mums in middle class families, the difference was those people didn't eat out at fancy restaurants, go out for brunches, get a new car every 4 years and go on skiing holidays. Modern people are just more selfish and addicted to buying ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:01 PM
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I'd say it's mainly to see more of what you look like. There are a lot of people on OLD with very carefully selected, filtered or very old photos. Obviously Instagram is still selected photos but there's more of them and a better chance to see what people actually look like and more of what they are like in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:55 PM
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I think people constantly overestimate how many people actually hook up in this manner. Woman makes eyes at a man, he gets the bar man to send her a drink, they start talking and bam they have a hook up going. Mostly what I see is men and women both going out in large intimidating groups that makes random approaches hard and hook ups only happen after copious amounts of alcohol and possibly grinding on a dance floor or they go out and drink while trying to tee something up on tinder. I know a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:42 PM
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Women should probably understand pretty early on that regular sex and commitment aren't as inextricably linked with men as they are with women. If a man is having regular sex with you but not investing much time, effort, money or not introducing you to friends it is pretty stupid to believe he wants anything more than sex. Men get consistently lambasted on this sub for not understanding the female psyche but this is a case of a woman not understanding the male psyche. Stupid or naive doesn't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:27 PM
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I don't care about the money. It's completely about getting stuck for a long period of time with someone I'm not attracted to or who I just don't like talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:02 AM
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Yes no doubt their experiences are making them more mature, they are getting exposed to more different social experiences with older and more mature men than you. I remember living with a female friend when we were both 20 and she was dating a 30 year old. We used to laugh and tease her about him having grey pubes or quoting Billy Madison about his old balls but in reality she was probably just enjoying more mature company, classier dates and an overall more experienced man. I think it's relativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:52 AM
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Not a fan. I prefer to be having an alcoholic drink to loosen up a bit. Even as a dude I find the suggestion of a coffee date a bit of a cop out. Like hey, I had better options Friday and Saturday night but I'm free for an hour or two to get a coffee just seems a bit lazy. Drinks with no dinner is what I've found to be the perfect medium between coffee and dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:33 AM
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I'm surprised you managed it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:44 AM
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You said it means they are 1. Low value, 2. uneducated or 3. Misogynists. Obviously a rich, educated, high value man is not low value or uneducated and doesn't necessarily make them a misogynist. There is no logic In your assumptions on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:40 AM
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Pretty sure there are a tonne of high value, educated rich and powerful men who marry women who have no other ambitions outside of raising a family. Personally marrying a woman like that isn't my thing but that doesn't make a man who does automatically low value or a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:31 AM
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Being open, experimental and being eager and able to please your partner is a massive turn on for me and is imperative to a healthy sex life after the novelty of fucking someone new wears off. Plus there is nothing worse than a woman who thinks the only thing she has to do in bed is just be there. Personally I would never wife someone who never gave head or was just bad in bed or prudish in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:08 AM
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Casual sex and dating is definitely skewed towards women and I don't think there is a reasonable argument against it. However there really isn't an alternative to a free sexual market place and as long as women can get casual sex from men more attractive than them that will be your competition. If you're a 7/10 you're realistically competing against dudes 7/10-9/10 for sex with 7/10 women. It's a harsh reality for some but just because you happen to exist doesn't entitle you to having the abilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 11:09 PM
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It's too hard of a question without actually knowing you or what you look like. Maybe you're dating men who think they are too "out of your league" to settle down, maybe it's something in your personality that makes men think you're a less suitable option for a LTR or maybe you're just great and you have just been dating ass holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:57 PM
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Some women do sacrifice their career some are just lazy and can't wait to stop working then pretend they sacrificed something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:15 AM
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Yes that's what I'm saying. You were the one originally saying what's the point of making something you can just buy in a store.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:16 AM
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At least when people do that they are making a comment about what they find interesting or what is generally found to be more interesting by the majority of society. You're just incorrectly breaking down all hobbies as boring by referring to making or crafting something for yourself comparable to just buying things in a store.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:05 PM
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Just because you see no value in making things for yourself over buying it at the store doesn't mean they aren't worthwhile interesting hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:19 PM
1

I got bored of the game at about 30, it got to that age that travelling solo was more weird than cool and young single girls were less attracted you unless they had daddy issues. Not that i really liked "the game" anyway but yeh that was the age I stopped enjoying it and wanted to seriously find someone I just enjoyed hanging out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:46 AM
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It is, but if a girl can get more attractive men easily then your witty lines aren't going to get you anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:42 AM
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Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:18 AM
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I don't know in what world marrying someone who earns 20k more than you isn't marrying up or where your pay jumps 20k in 1-3 years but it's a fantasy one. All of that is irrelevant however as your argument is that marriage doesn't benefit women which is clearly untrue. Just look at the statistics of women taking less demanding jobs, less shifts, less hours or go to part time work after having children. Having a husband who makes money allows people to do that which is beneficial to both a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:49 PM
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Sounds like it would be true? It is true. Majority of relationships are still men out earning their wives and women spending most of the money. Marrying allows women to be a mother while someone else provides resources. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:49 PM
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Personally Ive found I'm more confident when I'm in good shape and that confidence generally has a greater impact on interpersonal interactions than actually being fit. It's a cliche but it really is a look good, feel good type deal for me. Also I'm only 5'10 so going from 155lbs to 190lbs definitely changes the way people perceive and interact with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:43 PM
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Sorry I accidentally deleted that comment. That doesn't change the fact that women generally marry up in socio economic terms and have access to more money through marriage than they would have unmarried. The benefit of marriage for women is obvious, more money = better opportunities for your offspring to prosper and men provide more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:34 PM
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Porn addiction. People watch too much porn and need something different and more extreme to get them off the more porn they watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 10:47 PM
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Sporting clubs, pubs, gyms, car enthusiasts, supporters clubs, societal based clubs like the stone masons, fishing trips, work related trips etc. It's common as fuck. What these guys in that video are doing is pretty weird and YouTube comments are what they are, I think you're making too broad of a statement just based on one comments section.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 10:42 PM
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The average American woman earns a median wage of 41k while the male equivalent is 52. The difference between marrying your average equivalent and the 150k stemlord is massive. A woman marrying a man primarily for financial reasons is still a gold digger even if you personally don't think 150k is that much money. Melania Trump was just hotter than your average gold digger so she got to marry a richer sugar daddy than other less attractive gold diggers but the principal is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 10:17 AM
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I have no idea what world you are living in
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:46 PM
1

If you think all good looking women want the same things in bed you haven't slept with many good looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:01 AM
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I think technically I could be dating a slightly more attractive woman than my current partner so yes? Women don't have a monopoly on finding people with good personalities more attractive than hot idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:44 AM
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I've never been involved with a woman who earns more than me so I'm not sure. If I had to guess I would say I very much like the feeling of being the provider in a relationship though, I would find the idea a bit emasculating to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:40 AM
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If you think all women want the same thing you probably haven't slept with many if any.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:37 AM
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Are you serious? Women don't want ugly sloppy, poorly dressed, men with bad haircuts and no hobbies. Go make some moves on some actual attractive women being a 4/10 who doesn't look after themselves and tell me how successful you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:35 AM
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How? OP is asking what the female ideal sex is and there isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:19 PM
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Yeh I read that you want an answer but not the actual logical answer but sadly for you that is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:53 PM
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I don't get how it's so hard to understand. Women like different things in bed, there is no ideal way it's supposed to go. Find out what they like and then do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:49 PM
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Being in a shape won't make me as attractive as Chris Hemsworth, may as well stop trying all together because life sucks and I won't ever be guaranteed sex with perfect 10s. This site is just a circle jerk pity party for dudes who want validation for their lack of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:12 AM
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I don't think it's overestimated. Women (and men) care about approval from people they don't know it's the whole basis of Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:04 AM
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Nah it's always the same. Comparing a hot skinny guy with an ugly gym rat and saying "see! Women don't care about muscles". The only real comparison you need to worry about is comparing a fit version of you to a fat/painfully skinny version of you and then ask women who is more attractive, because becoming a more attractive version of you is all working out is going to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:04 PM
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One of those dudes is Jon Kortajarena, a male model who could slay women at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 09:59 PM
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Working on yourself 100% makes you more attractive to women. You are ultimately limited by negative traits you can't change ie facial features, body type, height, social status etc but there is no reasonable argument to be made that working on yourself doesn't make you more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 09:45 PM
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So you can't find a compromise between once a fortnight and 24 hours a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:06 AM
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You're literally on a sub on Reddit where people give their opinions on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:54 AM
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Never said I did or that I was a great philosopher, advocate or inventor. OP said men have no real hobbies, they actually do and I listed some of the best ones above to prove a point. Even at an everyday level though the majority of men's hobbies and interests are vastly more interesting than women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:56 PM
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I think those are called human rights and yes you can advocate for both it's called common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:43 PM
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I'm not in denial about men being responsible for 99% of world fuck ups as well as achievements I'm just taking issue at OP saying men have no real hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:36 PM
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Meh, I've met dozens of interesting men and fuck all interesting women. Women's hobbies are mostly made up of buying things and their own appearance. Tesla, Einstein, da vinci, Aristotle, Ali, Galileo, Genghis khan, Alexander the great, Marx, Caesar, Socrates, Plato, Shakespeare, Darwin, Martin Luther king, Mozart, Aristotle etc all the most interesting and influential people of all time have been men. It's a man's world, women are just freeloading off it because we need you to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:15 AM
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I dont really care what random people do with their lives as long as it doesn't negatively impact me. If it was a family member or someone I was close to I would be ashamed of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:06 AM
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Your objective attractiveness (your league) doesn't matter if the person you're trying to attract doesn't find you attractive. I would just move on, any attempt to try to "put someone in their place" in order to show you are out of their league will likely have the opposite effect with the added bonus of making you look like an insecure prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:20 AM
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So? OP never explicitly mentioned or implied anything gender related.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:30 AM
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Nothing about this person's post or username indicates they are a man or that they are talking solely about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:15 AM
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I don't think it's changed that much. It's more that emotionally balanced people with healthy and happy relationships aren't going to be on Reddit getting all worked up over the trivial bullshit that TPP specialises in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:06 AM
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Their ego is bruised obviously. People don't like rejection for obvious reasons. Ever heard a woman talk about a man who dumped them? Its just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:02 AM
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I would never date a woman taller or bigger than me and I would never expect a woman bigger and taller than me to want to date me. I've never been accused of having a "complex" for having those feelings. Just because a few people have strange concepts about this doesn't make it socially acceptable or normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:54 AM
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Thanks Captain obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:02 PM
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I wouldn't date anyone who described themselves as woke that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:00 PM
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What in my posts makes you think that that's what I would be advocating? You literally asked a question not understanding why men think women's standards are too high and you got an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:57 AM
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I didn't say it was. I've also heard women refer to men the same age as them as "too young"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:53 AM
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I'm sure I could come up with something If you're that desperate to have a man to tell you how to live your life. I don't like that the blatant hypocritical double standards that are applied by women in the dating market are socially accepted and I think it is a large reason behind men believing that women's standards are too high yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:54 AM
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I think you should re read what I wrote. "Slightly higher propensity for double standards" is what I wrote, not all women are hypocrites with double standards and men are perfect. As I said above, I don't care what your selection criteria is, it can be whatever you want it to be. You were just asking in your post why men perceive that women have too high of a standard and I am pointing out that those double standards are probably the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:10 AM
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Ah whatever you want them to be? The only thing that I would say annoys me about womens selection criteria is their slightly higher propensity to hold a double standards than men. For example I've dated two Asian girls who would never date an Asian man, female friends who are 5'2 referring to 5'10 men as "too short for them" and women with low paying jobs and no great career prospects turning down men for being in the exact same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:51 AM
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Americas age based restrictions are pretty weird and contradictory. You could literally go on a tour of Afghanistan and kill for your country, come home and still not be able to buy a beer. I like the idea of 18 being the age where I minor becomes an adult so I'd have no problems with a 14 year old being able to consent to sex with someone under 18 while full consent age should be 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:35 AM
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I was drinking at 14 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:31 AM
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Yeh what the fuck. Mid 20s > teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:23 AM
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I try being sane and everything isn't so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:45 AM
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Why do people get so upset by this? It's stuff that's been happening forever and is just the female equivalent of things we do to make women fall for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:29 AM
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OP is saying men who want low N counts automatically label women who sleep with them too soon as unsuitable for LTRs. I'm saying that isn't true because I don't automatically think a woman who sleeps with me too soon is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:11 AM
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When did I say n count was irrelevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:53 AM
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I'm a man with a high number of previous sexual partners who wouldn't marry someone who had a similar amount of previous sexual partners as me. That mindset however has no correlation to my opinions on how suitable a woman is for a LTR based on how long she waits to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:11 AM
1

Thats pretty delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:57 AM
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Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:49 AM
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Pre civilization we still would have been in societal groups with a linear dominance hierarchy of males and complex interpersonal relationships. It just doesn't make sense for a human society to function allowing lesser males to rape whoever they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:08 PM
1

What's love bombed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:36 PM
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I have no idea what those studies are but I can confidently say they are worthless in relation to normal people. There is literally zero negatives relationship wise to moving in prior to marriage. You have no idea what someone is truely like to be married to until that buffer zone is removed and you have to live together every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:36 PM
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Id probably use my SMV in the same way that pisses so many men off on here. I'm optimistically an 8/10, I'd use dating apps to have casual relationships and sex with men more attractive than me then settle down with someone more in my league for A LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:21 PM
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Everyone settles to at least some degree. Deal with it, it's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:08 AM
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A woman who bangs a lot of pro athletes is a hypergamous slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:30 AM
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Your sex life sounds pretty normal, girls have access to casual sex they don't want but still have problems finding the right guy for a LTR. My experience is similar, I'm a 30 year old male and finding casual flings isn't too much of a problem but finding suitable LTR material is. Women are what they are, some are materialistic shallow bores and some are interesting, lovely, caring and beautiful individuals but most are somewhere inbetween the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 10:13 AM
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"scandals" because it isn't paedophilia apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 10:01 AM
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Stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:57 AM
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The media is idiotic to appeal to the common idiot. The media is not pushing anything except what is appealing to the masses of fuck heads
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:34 AM
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Haha good one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:19 AM
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Pfft they are only pandering to the lowest common denominator and that's sjw feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:48 AM
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Who the fuck thought Homer Simpson was an instruction manual for men? It's just a stupid tv trope that is only a thing because television is too scared to portray an overly stupid and naive female character because women everywhere would be up in arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:36 AM
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The dumb dad. Ie Homer Simpson, Peter Griffin or incapable dad like Ray Romano. In real life I've met a few dumb and incapable wives but I've never actually met a really incapable or stupid dad but for some reason it's a common trope for TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:18 AM
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Oh well if this mysterious study you haven't linked and haven't named that's good enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:10 AM
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In my experience when I've broken up with women who aren't in the "I'm over it" part they still seem to move on much quicker than men. The initial post break up sadness for women is massive sure, crying, not eating, not sleeping etc but after a couple of months they had moved on to another man. It usually takes me at least twice as long before I'm ready to consider a relationship as opposed to women I've broken up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:39 PM
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Nothing you described is objectification. 99% of what this generation describes as objectification is not objectification. Stop exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:24 PM
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Thats not true, my dad was a wine maker and there is a lot of effort put into creating complex flavours while reducing sulphur and other preservatives that add to bad hangovers. Sure there are well made bottles for $20 that can appeal to a certain persons taste buds better than an $80 bottle but the difference between a well made bottle of wine and mass produced preservative filled cask wine is still massive and obvious for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:15 PM
1

The whole advice of lifting to get more attractive pretty much speaks for itself doesn't it? What do women in your target demographic find attractive? Do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:19 AM
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Maybe she just found it weird you masturbate with a dildo replica of your own penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:22 AM
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Comparing your physique to an athlete is unrealistic but why movie stars? Have a look at a list celebrities, most of them have average attainable physiques. For every hugh Jackman there are 5 guys with physiques like Leonardo DiCaprio or james Franco who have very little muscle definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:20 AM
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I wouldn't say admiration, but if I see a man who is say a 7 or 8/10 who regularly bats above his average and takes home hot girls on the regular I absolutely respect that. Difference is nobody likes a docuhe bag who needlessly brags, exaggerates or makes up stories about how much of a "slayer" they are. Which would probably explain your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:13 AM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:48 AM
0

I slut shame women all the time, sugar babies, gold diggers, strippers, cam girls, girls who wear next to no clothes out clubbing etc etc. Stupid sluts the lot of them. I also had sex with my fiance on the first date. Waiting to have sex doesn't make you pure as a mountain spring in the same way that having a one night stand with someone doesn't make you an automatic slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:41 AM
3

Yes he is really. Don't want to talk about the other part?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:01 AM
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What does that have to do with anything? Tom Brady is better looking than Wlad and is more well known in western pop culture. Thats not even the point though, the point is lifting makes you more attractive. Wlad Klitschko with a 6 pack and overall muscular frame is a lot more attractive than a Wlad Klitschko with Tom Brady's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:54 AM
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Tom Brady is a 6'5 millionaire professional athlete with an extremely handsome face. Which do you think is easier to obtain? Going to the gym and getting in shape? Or becoming a 6'5 millionaire NFL quarterback?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:47 AM
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Depends on the individual. Relationship compatibility is something everyone is looking for but what constitutes compatible differs from person to person. For me it was someone who I found attractive, gives me enough space, is generally a happy person, family orientated, active and healthy and is just generally positive to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:41 AM
2

Why not just leave your sons alone instead of teaching them something that could give them issues later in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:24 AM
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It's stupid how many people on here equate lifting to looking like Arnold. 90% of attractive celebrities, male models and athletes work out in some fashion. David Beckham has probably spent 15+ hours a week in a gym for over 2 decades. You can't sit there and tell me being fit, muscular and healthy looking doesn't make you significantly more attractive to women because it's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:09 AM
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Not really, high value is all relative. If a 6/10 man waits 90 days for sex off a perfect 10 woman thats a relatively low value man waiting for sex from someone out of his league. If you were a perfect 10 woman a high value man to you would be another 10/10 and they wouldn't wait 90 days for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:51 AM
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Everything about attraction is asymmetrical. Women prefer men with masculine traits and men prefer women with feminine ones. Height is not only masculine but it's also been seen in society as a marker for good genes, health and standing in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:51 AM
1

I'm assuming you're 18-23?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:39 AM
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I don't need to find a loophole I'm just telling you what is considered normal behaviour for people who aren't socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:11 AM
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Thats the stupidest analogy I've ever heard. You have called him saying you are cooking steak and implying that it is for him by asking him what time he will be home? That is implying you are cooking him steak and want to know when will be home so you know when to start cooking. Saying "yes I am looking for a relationship" is not implying anything other than the fact you are looking for a long term relationship. There is literally no implication in that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:57 AM
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Sex is not a job interview. Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship if you aren't sexually compatible you shouldn't be together. No that analogy doesn't make any sense, I haven't changed the criteria at all. All I've said is I'm looking for the right person to commit to. Thats all. If you misinterpret that to mean you will be commited to if you spread your legs then that is stupid. It's 2020, regular people are not committing to long term relationships before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:48 AM
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Being daft is expecting people to take my words at face value and apply them logically? If I told you I was looking to hire a person in your professional field and you quit your job before the job interview, that would make you a fucking idiot not me being disingenuous. If you make assumptions and add different meanings to words people say that is no one's fault but the person doing the assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:22 AM
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You can replace marriage with long term commited relationship if it makes you feel better about your nonsensical position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:12 AM
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I doubt you lead and are admired by a group of men if you're on Reddit asking if men should be masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:08 AM
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So a woman taking "I'm looking for relationship" as "I will marry you if you let me fuck you" is me being autistic and not them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:48 AM
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If he's intentions are good, ie he is actually looking for a relationship but realised after the fact that they weren't compatible it's not using in my book. I'd never commit to a relationship with someone I haven't slept with and just because I'm telling the truth that I am actually "looking for a relationship" but you took that to mean "Im ready for a serious relationship with you right now" that's not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 06:56 AM
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Not familiar with it but I just read a few of the top comments and more recent ones but doesn't look close to a red pill equivalent from what I've seen. That just looks like a sub for body positivity and how to become more objectively attractive in a general sense. Sharing beauty tips and anecdotes about becoming more attractive. It doesn't focus on the male psyche and how to manipulate men into liking you. TRP is at its core dating strategy which is why it's compared to FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:13 AM
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I wouldn't call it novelty but there is definitely an urge to have sex with other women despite having an a girlfriend I'm extremely happy with. I basically just think of it as a biological seed spreading urge that I can't really help, I don't think "novelty" or different for the sake of it is my sexual preference over familiarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:18 AM
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Men and women who may have helped raise us, relatives of the opposite sex, friends, career mentors, teachers, spouses of relatives etc. Too many examples of people actually having those feelings to say that it isn't possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:57 PM
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To be fair a bald woman relatively is a lot less attractive than a bald man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:07 AM
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I don't really understand the point of studying or stressing about the fact that women prefer traditionally masculine handsome men. It's been the case since the beginning of society that certain characteristics in both men and women are more attractive and the more of those characteristics you have the more likely you are to attract a more attractive mate. OLD and recent dating trends have not introduced this to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:21 PM
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I'm hoping the novelty of internet dating wears off and people go back to drunkenly groping each other on dance floors. Ah the good old days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:05 AM
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There is lap band surgery for obese people so even by your ridiculous line of thinking weight loss could be achieved with exactly the effort as bigger boobs. Only difference would be is there is a healthy, simple, non surgery option of losing weight as well. Fat people making excuses for being fat is the most modern day bullshit problem I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:00 AM
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That's the biggest load of shit I've ever heard. Costly plastic surgery surgeries and Costly Illegal substances that completely ruin your endocrine system are easier than eating less and exercising?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:29 AM
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I have a friend who is very ugly, he is super fit but is still flabby somehow as well so I automatically think of him. Red curly hair, gigantic chin and nose, face like a jack-o'-lantern and a pasty freckly flabby body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:54 AM
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I have a thing for tom boy women.. ones that like to lift weights and be outdoorsy, wear minimal make up and jewellery etc But automatically would be a round ass and a genuine smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:51 AM
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Being a healthy weight is a hell of a lot easier than getting muscular, taller, bigger boobs, non balding hair or more pleasing facial features. In terms of things that we can change to make us more attractive it's on the easier end of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:48 AM
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Was that the guy who thought he discovered a dating game changer by putting his bed on a bed frame?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:46 PM
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It's hard to change your view when you obviously don't know what disrespect means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:21 PM
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Well lucky I never said super models had hot bodys. A hot body is someone whos body appears healthy and yes more than likely someone who appears to be healthy is actually healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:21 PM
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Common in small towns or when you're younger. Once you hit mid/late 20s I've found its way less common and people who have slept together generally drift apart in a friendship sense. Not sure how much that has to do with the rise in internet dating or the general seperating of our original friendship group as we have gotten older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:37 AM
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Average face and hot body. Face is just a random assortment of facial features, a hot body indicates health, attractiveness and more than likely a healthy active lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:32 AM
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I'm wouldn't call myself superficial but dating someone who I find attractive is a non negotiable for me. I don't have a number value on it but I'm attractive enough to date women that I find attractive and would rather be single than date anyone I don't think that way about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:30 AM
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That women get to choose whether to have a child or not but a man can't choose to not be financially responsible for one. When we talk about abortion for women we talk about how they 100% have a right to choose and men it's always the same argument "he should have kept it in his pants"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:00 AM
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Nothing new about these views really, read anything from Plato or Aristotle and you will see how long bromances and ideas of female inferiority have been around. I'm a man who's much more of a man's man as well, I prefer the company of men (no homo) but as you're only 21 you probably haven't experienced a lot of your buddies getting married and stating a family and having less time for bro activities. Basically you're saying you're a typical 21 year old guy. The attitude to women will probably c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:04 AM
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Here's a link of a very in shape man doing body fat tests. https://youtu.be/o-qbNmR8cLQ 3:25 onwards to see his physique and test results.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:08 AM
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I appreciate the mental gymnastics that's going into trying to make this argument fit but no that isn't accurate. How is that the same thing? It's the same result yes but the automatic paranoid and negative implication of being used that TRP implies is exactly what makes it the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:33 PM
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Love is a feeling. Just because women require more communication in a relationship than you doesn't mean they don't love you like you love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:06 PM
0

Overall good shape, healthy hair, booty, pleasant face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:01 AM
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Yes. I think that idea comes from men who don't necessarily understand women. You touched on it in your post about how men form relationships by shared intense experiences. We don't necessarily need to constantly maintain relationships, but women do. Women are constantly talking, calling, hugging and catching up with their friends. They need to constantly nurture and maintain relationships or those relationships fail. Some men get a woman to love and commit to them and think that's job done so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:36 AM
1

I would raise normal masculine sons who have the highest chance of being successful. Hopefully everyone else raises soy bois so my son's will be even more alpha my comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:07 AM
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"where did I say attractive" - TheMarbleSlab
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:29 AM
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Women can be trusted, TRP just know fuck all about women and maintaining a relationship so it's just it's easier to come out with "they can't be trusted" and "they don't love the same as men"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:28 AM
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It's convenient that you're discounting all the advances of men who you don't find attractive. So youre saying very attractive men aren't approaching average looking women for romantic relationships? I'm shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:48 AM
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I'd go with an actual plant over a cactus.. they help to oxygenate a room
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:50 AM
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When I started this post I was assuming you meant adding frivolous stuff that men don't need so they don't have like house plants, art on the walls, photos, scented candles, matching towels etc. Then you start talking about putting books in a bookshelf instead of on the ground and getting a bed frame haha seriously? Having zero furniture makes you look poor, cheap or some kind of tramp/squatter that could just pack up and skip town at any minute. How many of you are sleeping on a floor mattress?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:42 AM
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Just don't kill the house plant. no houseplant > dead house plant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:34 AM
1

Are you planning a mass Jonestown like Kool aid drinking session for all the betas?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:29 AM
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I'm going to tell my kids this one day with no context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:43 PM
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"Don't be an arse hole"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:42 PM
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So you don't see a difference between normal human interaction and consciously manipulating people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:28 PM
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Women are all the same? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:01 PM
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Is there an element of manipulation in that? Yes. There is a difference between natural human interaction and literally reading and implementing instructions on how to consciously manipulate people. It's creepy because its unnatural, people don't like to be studied and manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:59 PM
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You're not sure where I'm going with this? It's literally just an answer to OPs question, where I started and finished with it is all here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:51 PM
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Everything and everything. Well thanks for paraphrasing what I'm saying to a philosophy that it wasn't intended but that's not correct. The rep pill generalizes womens motives and teaches men to manipulate those motives to suit his own need for casual sex. That's a great story but TRP isnt just about respecting yourself and self improvement is it? A large part of it is faking self improvement to get women sexually attracted to you, which is in itself manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:25 AM
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Not saying you do but do you understand the correlation between disliking and not respecting the women you sleep with and building a culture of not respecting or liking women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:56 AM
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Well most people want to have a wife and family one day if you don't like women you're not going to be happy with a wife. Even if you don't want to start a Family disliking 50% of the population which includes your mother, sister, aunties, nieces, female co workers, friends, wives of friends etc isn't healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:45 AM
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The positives are that from what I can tell is it helps young men who have no confidence in talking to women get some level of understanding about how to appear more desirable sexually and be more confident in themselves. The negative is that it's all about manipulation and not respecting or even liking women. If you're straight and dont like or respect people of the opposite gender you are going to be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:36 AM
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No. I'm not a judgey person but poly people are weird as fuck normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:34 AM
1

Do you mean from a moral standpoint or?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:59 AM
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This is supposed to be some kind of edgy comeback post to that other post about girls consent I take it? Women and men both date with the expectation of initially being non exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:57 AM
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Its in no way shape or form consent. However if you're a woman who goes home with a man from a bar to sleep in his bed but doesn't want to have sex you're a fucking idiot who puts themselves in stupid situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:45 AM
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OP is talking about a wall where women automatically become less attractive simply for being older and closer to the end of their fertile youth regardless of how good they look for their age. But yeh I don't think women are oblivious to this fact as it's been thrown in their faces since the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:13 AM
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I think there is a pretty big gap between actually being objectified and what modern society classifies as objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:23 AM
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I think women are pretty keenly aware already that they get less attractive as they get older. Seems petty to keep bringing it up, imagine if women on here kept bringing up the fact that most men look ugly as fuck with no hair. Like yeh no shit Sherlock stop bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:19 AM
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Worse than developing feelings is letting her know that you have developed feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 01:00 AM
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Look out James Harrison that 150lb computer programmer is coming to kill you and your children and steal your girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:18 PM
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This is complete bullshit. I'm a man and don't date women who are out of shape, taller than me, smokers, are low class, have short hair, dreadlocks or have faces I don't find nice to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:59 PM
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I've said this before when it comes up but I think a lot of people who claim women hit a wall at 24 and men are unfuckable after 30 just live in small shit hole towns where no one looks after their themselves and has kids as soon as they leave school. I'm the same I always used 30 as some kind of life marker where I would be officially considered an old man. I remember when I was 19 a female friend of the same age was dating a 31 year old and we were all making jokes asking her if he had grey pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:49 PM
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I never said you didn't have problems but your problems are the same as this hypothetical top % woman and they are first world problems. You are not the centre of the universe or a barometer for what constitutes real world problems. Just because they have it slightly better off than you doesn't make their problems first world ones and yours not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:37 PM
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"successful reproduction" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:38 AM
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99% of this sub is the literal definition of first world problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:56 AM
1

I agree with the sentiment that modern society is just getting more and more soft and consistently churning out neurotic cry babies but I'm lost at that NFL lineman analogy. I got no idea where you're going with that, most lineman I knew growing up were part of the popular crowd and only got lightly teased about being fat on the practice field or locker room by their pals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:54 AM
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God these threads turn into a depressing pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:55 AM
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It's not that funny. Teams normally carry 2-3 QBs but about 15-20 offensive and defensive lineman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:51 AM
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Everyone should be picky on there, why the hell should you be swiping 4/10s when all your exes are 8/10s? Fuck getting guilted into feeding the pigeons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 10:07 PM
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Cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 10:04 PM
1

There's 2 hot women I've seen at my gym, I've been going there for 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:05 PM
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Male, 29 somewhere between 7-8. My strategy was to use really good photos that women like, outdoorsy stuff, travel photos, photos of me doing fun stuff and avoiding selfies wherever possible and write a genuinely funny and different bio. The idea being that all of that stuff would be stuff she could bring up or we could start a conversation about. My general strategy was be selective, a lot of people fall into the trap of swiping everyone and sorting it out later but I just found that cluttered …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:03 PM
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I've lived in 4 different western countries (Vancouver, melbourne, New York, London) nearly all of them tend to be similar in the way that attractive men can get dates with women at the same level of attractiveness fairly consistently. The larger the city the more diverse women's tastes in what could be considered attractive might be. For example if you live in New York a short, non masc, hipster dude is more likely to be considered attractive than in Indianapolis. Also by the same token a tradi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:42 PM
1

For the love of God can you just google conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:02 PM
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Again, being attractive for being famous is not being conventionally attractive. I'm sure lil Wayne gets a lot of sex too but I wouldn't recommend to a normal person that looking like a gremlin and tattooing your face will get you laid. Edit - sorry I meant again as in what I've said below.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:06 AM
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If you're under 30 and want to fuck hot singles NSA go travelling, Central America, south east asia, europe etc. Back Packers are constantly in Yolo mode and most are drinking, partying and just hanging out with each other all the time. You meet plenty of people in real life, have something to talk about (where you've been, where you're going etc) and people are just way more open to meeting new people and doing whatever they want. Why waste your time trying to fuck married women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:13 AM
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10s have to exist, if there were literally no 10s the scale would have to shift and 9s would be 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:09 AM
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If you're 40 something and single your options are sleep with women over 30, go to the whores or become a sugar daddy. That's it. 22 year olds who are into older men are going to be sleeping with 30 something year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:04 AM
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You're overthinking it, people don't mean masculine as in you have to be a linebacker for the 85' bears or wrestle crocodiles. Being physically masculine is being tall, broad shouldered, strong, functional etc and having traditionally handsome facial features. Mentally masculine would be having traits normally associated with a strong men like assertiveness, confidence, reliability, pride and having a sense of adventure, being able to provide for or protect a family etc Women don't want to marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:50 AM
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You're on a sub that discusses western theories (pills) in relation to western society. So no there aren't 3.5 billion western women in the world. People on this sub when talking about attractiveness are talking about what is considered conventionally attractive to western people. Not the minorities who like fem Korean boys or middle aged men with silver hair or Mr Olympia mass monsters. Key terms to remember here "western society" and "conventionally attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:13 AM
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Sugar babies and sugar daddies are both creepy, shallow, low class humans. People can do whatever they like behind closed doors with consenting adults but I reserve the right to call them weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:09 PM
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You're talking about men on here complaining that "women don't want feminine men" they are talking about conventional attractiveness for everyday people. What does a Korean pop star fad have to do with conventional attractiveness for everyday people? Telling a non famous man to be a short, skinny, feminine to become more attractive is stupid because it isn't those traits that make them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:07 PM
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wtf are you talking about? Donald Trump has a hot wife, does that mean ginger comb overs and orange tan are attractive? No that means he is rich and famous. Nothing about K pop is considered conventionally attractive in western society except the fact that they are rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:09 PM
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Personally I find young girls looking for old men to be sugar daddies far creepier than old guys looking for young attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:17 PM
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Why do people bring up K-pop as an example of fem guys being attractive? I don't know a single woman in my social circle who would have sex with them, famous or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:35 PM
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This is so stupid. There is nothing wrong with a 30 year old man who dates a 24 year old. So many successful relationships happen in that 5-10 year she gap window. Fact is the clingy ex is probably just an excuse, they don't want to get serious and they use that as an excuse. Simple as that. Normal men don't get traumatized by having a "clingy ex girlfriend" if you're attractive, interesting and non suffocating I'd take that at face value until your actions proved otherwise. I'd say you're consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:26 PM
1

Ah yes they do, all the time. Don't women always say they are more mature than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:15 PM
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This is a post I would expect from a dude who has no experience with women not from an actual woman. Some are sexually very open and some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:49 AM
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My opinions about your relationship aren't important tbh. I'm just saying that what you outlined in your post, is imo not essential to a happy relationship and gave my reasons for it. Consider your view not changed I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:06 AM
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The picture you painted was of someone who had no other ambitions but to have babies and breast feed and work on their figure. (Your words not mine) so yes women who have so little ambition are probably not going to be mentally stimulating enough for an intelligent ambitious man. Why can't you have power exchange with an ambitious intelligent woman? Her giving up power is basically 50% of power exchange, if you just have a dependent at home who does whatever you say anyway there is no power exch…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:54 AM
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Outside of sadists and masochists I think it's just a power thing. The woman looking in slight discomfort shows that she is doing something for him (being submissive) but looking like she's enjoying it implies that she is enjoying herself so it's not some kind of dark forced sex scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:42 AM
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I'm all for power exchange in the bedroom but the counter argument for this would be sometimes too much full time power imbalance would become boring. If you want your man to be smart, strong, charming and witty I don't think a stay at home brood mare is going to provide enough mental stimulation to keep a man like that interested. Give me an intelligent ambitious woman who's only into power exchange in the bedroom over just generally helpless and boring any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:26 AM
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Aren't women always banging on about how their brains mature at a faster rate than mens? So wouldn't an 18 year old woman be the mental equivalent of a male in his 20s. Or do you all just use that argument when it suits?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:39 AM
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Theres not that many neutrals on here which is something that surprised me a bit seen as it's supposed to be a neutral community. Seems to be more of a place for red pill and blue pill people to come just to have an argument. Obviously the internet is made up of more angry young men than women which is why you're probably seeing a lot more "red" posters than blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:29 PM
0

I'll take things that didn't happened for 500
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:47 AM
5

Except for the fact its entirely changeable. People just choose to not do it out of laziness. Its like a doctor telling you to quit smoking or you will get lung cancer. You aren't incapable of quitting it's just hard and takes effort. So you can quit and improve your health or you can keep smoking and get lung cancer. You are entirely capable of carrying out either path. Dating advice on here is to improve yourself so you're more attractive or don't and stay a pleb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:12 AM
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Women should sleep with whoever they want, why would you sleep with a low value man you're not attracted to? Also you keep referring to TRP and low value men as the same thing which they aren't. If you want to just bang hot guys then that's fine go nuts but there are attractive men who are red pill and ugly men who are not. If you're argument is you shouldn't sleep with TRP men then I would 100% agree that women shouldn't, they are deliberately manipulating you into having sex with them but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:57 PM
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Capable is a pretty strong word, the human body/mind is capable of incredible things so everybody is capable of changing but the majority are too lazy or arrogant to do it. People want to change but rarely put enough effort or planning in to actually execute it. You have a toxic personality? Should you see a therapist? Nah just read a self help book. Fat as fuck? Should you make long term sustainable changes to your attitudes on nutrition and exercise? Nah just do a keto diet for 10 weeks and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:18 PM
1

Ah ok... Personally I always found tinder ok when I was younger and bumble to be full of snobby mid 20s girls who were looking for older more successful types. Now I'm 30 I do a lot better with that bumble crowd and tinder is just full of young dip shits with butt pics and no personality. Maybe you're just an old soul?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:46 PM
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It's not and they don't have especially shit co-workers that is just life as a man. You obviously don't understand what it's like to have multiple lives rely on you and your ability to earn a decent wage. Most women don't because they aren't the sole breadwinner for a stay at home dad and a brood of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:54 AM
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Its just context for why men can't act whiney, it's a pretty easy contextual conversation to follow sorry if it's over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:25 AM
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Ok you're friend quit and that's great for her, this guy couldn't find a new job that pays enough to cover his mortgage because he is in his 50s and works a physical job no one would hire him at his advanced age and would have to take a job at 50% salary with a wife and 2 kids to support. Yes like a mother, except he isn't a mother, he doesn't have a partner working to support him and doesn't get any paternity leave so actually nothing like a mother because he is the sole bread winner for himsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:13 AM
1

No they just want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:00 AM
3

Why is trump synonymous with traditional relationships? Because he has a stay at home mum/wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:41 AM
2

From my own personal experience it's very effective. Especially compared to the alternative of going to bars and clubs and trying to hook up there. At a certain point yes it's just unattractive men flooding the app and making women generally less interested in engaging but still. You also have to take into account the fact that people in general are going to be less open to talking to strangers in bars when they can just open their phone and get their flirt on without the risk of meeting or reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:39 AM
1

So you personally feel like you have to be mutually exclusive with a woman? Or you're just asking why people feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:09 AM
1

Are you male or female? And what age?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:14 AM
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Sometimes I think I'm from a different planet to some posters on here. I love my girlfriend, we will probably get married and have kids together she is loving and generous and I completely respect her but sometimes she likes to be grabbed by the hair and have her face smushed into the pillows and fucked doggy style. Why is it one or the other? Do you lose respect for someone you fuck? Or are you saying that once you fall in love you have to "make love" all the time instead of fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 05:05 AM
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Modern society has just put an arbitrary number on when people should be mentally able to make a decision about who they want to bang. So basically you have something that is entirely biologically normal ie. being attracted to someone who is sexually mature and society making that attraction taboo thus creating a young woman fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:52 AM
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I know this is shit posting week but I'll take this seriously. 2 examples from my work, one guy had a rough couple of weeks where his niece committed suicide and his dog got bitten by a snake and had to be put down. He was down in the dumps for a few weeks understandably. I'm his manager and heard on many occasions co workers of his complaining that he was being miserable and making mistakes at work and implying he should man up and get over it. Another guy had his wife give birth to twins that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:37 PM
1

So you actually have no evidence to support your theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:48 AM
1

No people with larger heads are more likely to have larger brains (men). You haven't added anything that supports your theory and have no actual real world evidence that women out perform men in any intellectual career path.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:44 AM
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Yeh except 99% of geniuses and intellectuals have been men. You keep saying that womens neural pathways are more optimal but I don't think you know what that means. It seems like you're referring to Women having greater cortical thickness and a greater cortical surface area. Which is true but only accounts for an extra 5% of Brian capacity to make up for the fact that men have a larger brain by about 6-12% When women start to outperform men in any intellectual competitive field on a consistent b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:32 AM
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You have absolutely no evidence to support that. Men still dominate intellectual career paths. Inventors, doctors, scientists, software developers, engineers and many more I can't be bothered looking up are more likely to be dominated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:17 AM
1

I'm not mad, I have the skin health if a 18 year old woman. Watch out for those frown lines, apparently they are a killer for 40 year old men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:57 AM
1

The fact men invent,build and are responsible for 99% of technological advancement is a pretty big thing to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:35 AM
1

I'm not a dermatologist but men have thicker skin with higher percentages of collagen so their skin is more resistant to signs of aging. Google it. Don't shoot the messenger you wrinkled old fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:31 AM
2

Lucky for Usain Bolt I just decided not to run the 100m then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:10 AM
2

Hookers don't care to a certain degree, sure they dont want a gross old hairy fat fuck on them, so if you're decent and clean hookers will be fine with sleeping with you and won't care that you're short. On the flip side you're fucking a hooker, she is only paying you attention because you are paying her 100s of dollars. I honestly couldn't deal with that at all so I guess it's up to you if you can?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:06 AM
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That must be why they invent everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:03 AM
1

Except the attractiveness of the people you attract is intrinsically linked to how attractive you are. You could expose me to 1000000000 ugly women and literally 0% of them have a chance of me going home with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:00 AM
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People with professional photos definitely get left swiped. Women don't want a complete phaggot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 09:57 AM
3

Learn to cum on command
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 09:54 AM
2

At least we are top of the dating food chain, white women have had all the same advantages riding our coat tails to the top of society and are easily below Asian and Latina women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:45 AM
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Then don't change and stay a sad lonely cunt forever. Society doesn't care about how much pussy you do or don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 02:08 AM
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Is the reason I can't get laid because I'm a sad, unattractive loser with a complex who complains all day on Reddit? Nah must be because I'm 1.5 inches below average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 02:05 AM
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https://www.dermalogica.com.au/is-a-man%27s-skin-really-different-from-a-woman%27s%3F/ys_shave_4,en_AU,pg.html Just think when your skin is at its post puberty peak you have the same skin age as a 35 year old man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:02 AM
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No because I'm a man and not interested in status or money. should be an ask women question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:00 AM
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If you operate a farm or cultivate land you are a farmer not a stay at home wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:57 AM
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I don't want a stay at home wife. Don't pretend this is the 20s and you have to pluck chickens, butcher animals, cut wood, cook dinners from scratch and that life is super hard for a stay at home wife. If you're rich enough to have a stay at home wife then I guarantee she doesn't have much to do all day, and even less to do once you don't have small children under school age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:05 AM
2

How is getting more than you earned irrelevant in terms of purely benefiting from divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:01 AM
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Isn't OPs whole posts point that women don't benefit from divorce? So who is entitled to what legally is irrelevant. If you are obtaining 50% of assets that you didn't earn or work for then you are benefiting from divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:54 AM
2

Yielding? Has an old timey feel to it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:17 PM
1

I get on TRP all the time for their shitty command of the english language but this is another example. They should use the word deference instead of submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:08 PM
1

I'm not even going to get into why you think FDS and radfems know anything about men's true nature either but it falls under the same category of hatred comes from a lack of understanding not an over abundance of it. It's human nature to fear and hate what we don't truly understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:01 PM
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It's literally the exact opposite. Red pillers are red pill because at some point in their life they knew nothing about women, turned to red pill rhetoric and now they just know enough to try and manipulate them for sex. If you really understood women you would be able to have healthy relationships with them outside of sex and have an easier time getting laid without needing to consciously manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:17 PM
2

People on here are on the internet talking about this stuff for a reason. And 95% of the time it's not because they are in a loving happy relationship with someone of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:29 AM
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Ive met plenty of women who like to say no in the hope of being persuaded or pursued more forcefully all for the sake of some kind of sexy game. Its incredibly fucked up considering the ramifications for both parties if there is some level of misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:25 AM
5

Fish thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:58 AM
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If you're bad with women don't listen to women on how to get better with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:02 AM
5

Nothing worse than a slut who refuses to fuck you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:57 AM
2

TRP says women like money, alpha males, muscles and status if that is completely false then how do you explain ugly male athletes all having perfect 10s wanting to fuck them? Yeh there is some weird stuff on TRP from guys who don't understand women, "loving the cock carousel" is one example but yeh there is also a lot of truth in their theories, in terms of being a base way to pick up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:40 AM
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Sarcasm* sorry about the confusion everone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:31 AM
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Womens worth isn't any more tied to male approval than male worth is to female approval. We are social animals who like sex, getting approval off others is never going to stop. It's not like both men and women don't do things that are solely for the approval of their same sex anyway. Fashion for example is something that women do solely for the approval of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:02 PM
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Personally no. It's pretty convenient that out of the billions of people on earth so many people found their soulmate in a 50 mile radius of where they live. There's plenty of people out there who you could be happy with. Most of the time I find people who refer to "the one that got away" either never dated that person long enough to find their flaws or are viewing an ex through rose coloured glasses and only remembering the good times and forgetting the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:57 PM
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Flagged for misuse of the term "size queen"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:00 PM
1

I try to treat them the same but I subconsciously place a higher importance on socialising with attractive women. For example I travel for work and interact with different offices within my company, we have about 15 sites with 15-40 employees at every site so I can't remember most people's names unless they are important to me specifically but I seem to always remember the good looking girls names and maybe something about them that we previously talked about. I don't treat unattractive women po…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:52 PM
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There's actually nothing in standard vows that says "I won't bang anyone else"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:41 PM
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This is kinda dumb, every relatively normal person would pick 2. The actual questions come in the grey area inbetween, like how many qualities of woman 1 would you put up with for a compatible partner? How many negative personality traits do you put up with to be with a girl who is great in bed? Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:39 PM
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So many edits. Why didn't you just proof read what you wrote before posting it? But yeh complete load of pseudo psychological nonsense. Dudes want casual sex because we are biologically engrained to want it, dudes who can't get it are angry at women for not giving it to them. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:33 AM
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From an evolutionary standpoint when talking about pack/group mammals there is literally zero evidence that beta males (or females) go extinct. Where did you get that theory from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:57 AM
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If women were serious about this avoidance of risk they would always push for a daytime coffee dates to weed out plate spinners and possible serial killers. But they don't, because deep down it's not about avoiding risk it's about being taken to nice places and to be bought nice things because they love the status of it. You could easily turn this scenario around and say it's the easiest method for a high value man to weed out low value women who are going to expect you to pay for dates all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 08:30 PM
1

I was looking at that sentence for like 5 mins wondering why It looked weird haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:44 AM
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I dunno seems like rich people still just have the man working with a SAHM, it's just now they can afford a maid so the woman just goes out and eats fancy brunches and goes shopping. No way some poor ass cole miner back in the day had a missus that stayed at home all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:39 AM
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Not a woman but what exactly do you mean when you say "what you think happens" do you mean how you're perceived/treated by other people change?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 12:00 AM
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Morally speaking it's whatever you're comfortable with. Personally I wouldn't touch it, chances are he will deny it and she will probably believe him over you anyway and some girls can get crazy when it comes to rationalising that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:49 PM
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When I was 24 I went to a woman's 40th because she had a hot daughter, I got there and started chatting to the daughter, but then her boyfriend showed up and took her to another party. I stayed, had a little too much to drink and ended up sleeping with her mum (the lady who's 40th it was) Also slept with an 18 year old when I was 28
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:35 PM
2

I was at my Christmas lunch yesterday and my brother's wife was yelling at him for not helping her "look after" their 5 year old kid. He's running around a back yard with 5 other kids FFS just sit down and have a drink
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:26 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:18 PM
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I think it's seen as a woman problem because they are more likely to openly complain about it where as men will pretend like it didn't happen but I'd wager as many if not more men get stood up/ghosted as women. I think a huge portion of stand ups come from people who were less than truthful with their dating profile/photos and then getting cold feet at the last minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:54 PM
2

Male, nothing wrong with stay at home dad's as long as you're both ok with the roles. I think if you're wife makes more money than you it's only logical. Personally I'd hate it, staying at home with the kids while my wife worked would be incredibly emasculating for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:29 PM
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I don't believe in the 24 year old wall or any of that nonsense but for me and men I know of a similar age this statement just isn't true. Every single one of my friends is with a girl either the same age or up to 5 years younger, obviously as we are biologically engrained to want to breed women's attractiveness is inextricably linked to youth and fertility, even if we personally don't want kids. You're right about the young people thing, I couldn't think of anything worse than dating an 18 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:21 PM
1

He's talking about societal protection isnt he? Not the fact that men would abandon "their" women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:05 PM
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So why would women not having rights lead to child rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:33 AM
3

Insoles aren't meaningless, they helped me correct by pronated feet when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:59 AM
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Umm everything? Why would a handful of marginalised men have anything to do with every single man in the world? What makes you think men work in a collective for the sole benefit of other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:46 AM
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You do know there are nearly 4 billion men in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:41 AM
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I don't think either of those examples disprove an innate instinct to protect your children or other family members who carry the same genes. Both of those examples are human responses to external influences (religion and government restrictions)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:16 PM
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Women don't appreciate it because they don't have to. People take the easy modern western life for granted because they haven't known anything different. You only have to look at what happened in the Iranian revolution to see that women's fates are basically completely tied to what the men in power at the time decide. I don't think that societal protection for women could ever just stop completely, one of our most base human instincts is to reproduce and women bring us into the world and bring o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:16 PM
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If every mother in the world decided to go against their most basic biological instinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:01 PM
5

So no they don't appreciate it because they are in denial about its existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 08:59 PM
1

Male State what you mean by drug user, drug user could be any number of things. Yes I'd be ok with a cool dude who occasionally smoked weed or dropped MD but obviously wouldn't want a meth head for a son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 08:44 AM
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Google "HSDD" Yes it's a thing, not exactly sure how common it is but its not something that's openly discussed so it's not surprising you haven't met someone who describes themselves as hyposexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:30 PM
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How soft they are even when they are fit, they always smell better than me, they are very complimentary. Guys never compliment each other but you're girlfriend will throw a compliment your way every so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:24 PM
1

Wait so what's a good wrist? A thick one or a skinny one that makes your hands/forearms look bigger?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:20 PM
1

Not very representative. I would consider myself "normal" for what that's worth but I post here because I don't want to freak out/annoy any of my real life friends with these debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:17 PM
0

K
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:33 AM
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Why anyone would ask that question is beyond me.. would you be happy with the answer? Would you even believe her answer? What happens if you say you don't believe her? If you're both fucking each other and like it and want it to continue don't ask stupid fucking questions you may not like and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:31 AM
0

People in general are ruder via text than in person. It's probably more so for women as they aren't going to be physically intimidated by a man like they would be talking in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:20 AM
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It's been that way for a while though hasn't it? I mean being skinny has never been in itself attractive and some form of muscle tone always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:17 AM
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No it doesn't it just means we are lazy and swipe right regardless and either delete or not talk to all the ones we don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 01:07 AM
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No. The "men are attracted to every woman who isn't obese" idea that gets constantly brought up here is bewildering. Ask yourself honestly, is that what you see from men in your day to day life? Or something you have pretty much heard exclusively on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 01:05 AM
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Humans are social animals, we aren't just ever going to "not care" about things that will largely disrupt our entire social network. Everyone of us every day do things that may be against out own base desires in order get along with or avoid conflict with people who we like and want to like us. It's human nature. Plus I've seen the fall outs of those kind of break ups and sometimes they are pretty substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 11:30 PM
1

I think people in general get a bit of grass is greener type attitude towards everything. I personally didn't find it lonely because I'm pretty comfortable in my own company but a lot of these guys who are saying they wish they were single have always been jumping from one relationship to the next, so I don't think they actually want to be single just to fuck someone different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 11:22 PM
1

You're*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:55 PM
1

Up until recently I was single from 25 to 30. Sex life would go through different patterns to be honest, sometimes I would be hooking up a lot talking to a lot of different women both from real life and dating sites and sometimes there would be large 1-3 month dry spells where I just couldn't be fucked putting the effort in, I focused on other parts of my life until I'd feel the need for intimacy I'd have to get myself back out there again, rinse and repeat. I never really exaggerated how it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:05 PM
1

More stupider? Im sure you mean just "stupider" or "more stupid" No I'm saying this isn't the red pill, this is the purple pill, which is debating/being critical of pill concepts and I'm calling it fucking stupid to misuse the English language, the english language isn't my "views"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:51 PM
3

Ah yes because exchanging gifts with loved ones is the same thing as what we are talking about. I appreciate the effort of trying to argue your crappy position but it's just not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:37 AM
0

Yeh sorry I'm talking about seeking for LTR seeking dating. I do pay on the first date, I think there is more risk involved for a woman to go out with a stranger than there is for a man but a woman who doesn't even make a token effort to offer is a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:53 AM
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People who think that being bought material things is mutually inclusive with showing attraction is exactly the kind of people I would screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:49 AM
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And a lot of men don't want to LTR relationship someone who gets turned on by getting bought things. It can go around in a circle, I'm just pointing out it's a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:29 AM
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Personally I screen out women who don't at least offer to split a bill on the first date. So the reverse of your theory is that you could be that you are screening yourself out of a LTR with a high value man for being entitled. Not attacking you or anything but that shit is a two way street when a man has other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:15 AM
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I'd rather pay for a one off that may not go anywhere over continuously paying for everything with a girl who earns a similar amount of money than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:42 AM
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I can tell you're a female poster trying to justify your own mentality of wanting a man to pay for a date. That said I'm personally not completely against traditional gender roles so I'm happy to pay for the first date, after that I'd expect more split bills or her for paying for dinner one night and me the next type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:33 AM
1

I'm not on the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:30 AM
1

I know this, I'm just pointing out that it's stupid to use a pre existing term and bastardise it for a personal philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:41 PM
1

Well for starters I'm not red pill so don't need or use red pill dating advice. There is a difference between looking after your physical appearance and making small lifestyle changes that help you become more attractive and changing everything about who you are and faking your entire life to pretend to be interested in something you're not just to get laid. Thinking that people should or could just change that much about themselves for no reason other then to just have sex with some average art…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:38 PM
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I don't feel hatred or disgust towards anyone I don't know, I do have general negative feelings about the state of the human race and how large and unhealthy we are becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:41 PM
0

Male 30 no pill. Yes it's better to have loved and lost. Sometimes people learn a lot from previous failed relationships, you become better at spotting red flags and get a better idea of what you need from a relationship or what a relationship should feel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:35 PM
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Jesus some of you need to pull your head out of your ass, op is asking how to meet more promiscuous women. That's it. Changing who you are, what you like and taking up extremely time consuming activities that you're not interested in isn't logical at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:29 PM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:42 AM
2

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:41 AM
10

It's kind of stupid though, how are you just supposed to start hanging out in an artistic music crowd if you're not artistic or musical or interested in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:21 AM
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Where does this come from? Everywhere I go I see men and women partnered up with people of comparable attractiveness and socio economic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:14 AM
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I don't think there's any evidence to support that theory. Personally Ive found people get less shallow as they get older so I don't know why women would become more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:09 AM
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I don't know if it's just my social circle or not but I see so many examples of intro/extro couples that there must be something in the opposites attract theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:55 AM
4

Fear of being rejected isn't a fear of confident women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:41 AM
1

What is considered a dad bod though? I've seen a slightly out of shape Jason Momoa be refered to as a dad bod and Seth Rogan being described as having a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:53 PM
1

Shorthand - a method of rapid writing by means of abbreviations and symbols, used especially for taking dictation. Alpha (sociological) - denoting the dominant animal or human in a particular group. learning English must not be an "alpha" trait I'm guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:19 PM
9

Personally Ive found it to be a mixed bag about who pushed for it first. There's plenty of reasons why someone may push for it. I pushed for it with my first girlfriend because we were dating for 3-4 years but I still wasn't sure she was the person I wanted to spend my life with. Living together exacerbated all of our existing problems and led to us breaking up way sooner than if we never lived together. Which was a huge bonus. A lot of women are going to point out on here that men do less house…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:40 AM
1

That's not shorthand. It's just misusing the english language.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:16 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:08 AM
2

I know what TRP defines as alpha and beta but why just misuse existing terms? Why not just use the correct words for what you're trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:06 AM
5

Some of those things are leaking into everyday life though, the idea of toxic masculinity definitely is. I don't worry about that for adults because we should be able to distinguish bullshit from normal things but I worry for young boys who are still developing. Getting told that normal young male behaviour is toxic and unacceptable is just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:57 AM
13

We reflect our environments. Our true nature is on display in both hard and good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:34 AM
9

My main beef is with the term alpha, I'm probably what TRP would consider alpha but I'm not an alpha male, I have a boss, clients and other work mates I have to navigate around, people I meet day to day who are higher up the social ladder than me and guys who could kick my ass in a fight. I don't know why the red pill doesn't just say you should be confident and masculine rather than alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:13 AM
1

How is it ignorant to point out that I don't see sports illustrated models everywhere I go?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:53 PM
1

Kate Upton is a double d, so I don't know what country you live in but where I live fit women with Kate Upton size boobs and bigger are not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:37 PM
1

I didn't call them bisexual, just open to experimenting or bi curious. All three of my serious ex girlfriends, if they watched porn it would be lesbian porn. I don't know if that's unusual or not, just what it is in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:33 PM
2

Is genital mutilation funny when it happens to women or no?/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:30 AM
20

Who cares? In my personal experience I've found maybe 75-85% of women I've dated would be open to sleeping with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:23 AM
2

I do, I mean I don't really give two much of a shit about anyone I don't know but won't be deliberately offensive or negative towards you. If I do know you and don't hate you then yes I do care about your feelings and how you perceive me, that kind of applies to everyone I meet though not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:22 AM
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I don't care if you do or you don't. There are a lot of Racists, misogynists and other bigots who don't feel bad about what they are either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:15 AM
10

This is a horribly sexist opinion and you should feel bad about having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:07 AM
1

I would say if that's true that's pretty rare obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:12 AM
2

They hold up tits yeh? I know how bras work, obese women will have bigger cup sizes. Ever seen a 200lb b cup? Yeh me neither
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:01 AM
1

I dunno where you live but where I'm from fit girls with over an e cup are extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:32 AM
5

In my personal experience it's the opposite so I have to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:46 AM
2

5'10 and 195lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:41 AM
16

Height is universally considered attractive though big boobs aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:18 AM
2

But I don't want land
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:17 AM
1

You're making assumptions that all men on here are clueless friendless losers but you're really angry about other people making assumptions about people? You just seem to be lost in your own rhetoric to be honest and I can't be bothered. Adios
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:11 AM
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Big muscles for sure. Not universally attractive, catches the eye but not necessarily something someone looks for in a relationship. All the muscles in the world won't make you hot and neither will double D's
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:05 AM
2

In the unlikely event she gets trapped under a heavy motorcycle and I free her I will have the last laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:55 AM
1

I never said men don't make incorrect assumptions about women, they do especially on here. I'm saying the reason they do this is that women are deliberately obtuse about what they like and look for in a man. That leaves a lot of men confused and on here making assumptions, both correct and incorrect about womens motives trying to fill in the gaps between what they hear women say and what actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:48 AM
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So by your own argument how do you know men are making assumptions if you are not a man and don't know what we are thinking? Are you getting this idea from other women? Is it that inconceivable to you to think adults with fully functional brains can observe the world around them and make assumptions based on observations?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:35 PM
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What assumption would that be? I'm a normal person who has different women in my life in various different capacities so I'm basing that last comment on personal anecdotal evidence and don't really care if you agree with me or not. If pretending i'm some kind of internet shut in who doesn't know anything about women or doesn't interact with them on a daily basis makes you feel like your argument is validated go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:25 PM
4

It's not absurd really, what women say they want in a man or relationship and what they actually seek out are very contradictory, not saying that's wrong or unfair but it does mean a lot of what women say is going to be interpreted by men rather than taken at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:15 PM
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Yes because women aren't just looking for the hottest partner anymore. If you're not physically attractive you will not become physically attractive to her, just more attractive of a mate because of other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:07 PM
7

So you're admitting you can't ask a woman for answers because they will lie but you can't make assumptions based on their actions either?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:04 PM
5

I dead lifted 475lbs the other day and when I told my girlfriend she just asked if I was still doing my cardio with a not so subtle glance at my midsection. Bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:37 PM
1

We are like those animals just replace those physical things with money and nice things. Look at a Bowerbird, making fancy nests with shiny things in it to attract a mate that sounds pretty familiar to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:33 PM
1

Personally I do, my current girl friend is probably objectively less attractive than my ex because she is more cheerful, funny and overall more fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:20 AM
3

Personally I think it's just poor people are caught up in the daily struggle of putting food on the table so don't tend to have those middle class problems that everyone seems to have these days that hinder your ability to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:59 AM
2

I'm not talking specifically about you, but in a country where money and status are removed from the equation there is no barrier between college educated and non college educated people. So therefore the divide in the US between college educated and non college educated people has to be, for the most part driven by the need for money and status. Personally I don't find educated and intellectual mutually exclusive. I know a lot of tradesmen who watch history documentaries and read philosophy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 02:28 AM
1

I don't but I'm not a psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:03 AM
1

Not a fan of tattoos, my girlfriend has one and it's shit. She has a nice body and amazing skin so it just feels like she's ruined that a little bit. On the other hand I have 3 that are all questionable to terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:03 PM
4

Does that mean this post will be removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:51 PM
0

Baby boomers are like 60 years old, what makes you think they want to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:47 PM
1

There are no gaps to fill in. Individual acts of violence/cruelty against another person. Systematic oppression of a whole gender. They are seperate things, Im not a kindergarten teacher so I don't know how to describe that more simply for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:45 AM
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I said "anyone who believes that is an idiot" which is a phrase I'm trying to eliminate from my vocabulary. Someone can have a biased or in my option, wrong opinion and still not be an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:31 AM
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It makes absolute sense. Rape is the actions of one person against another, that makes the person a victim of rape. How is being the victim of a crime oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:29 AM
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"subjected to prolonged cruel or unjust treatment" is the definition of oppressed. Women having different problems than men ie higher likelihood of being a victim of sexual assault is not oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:11 AM
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I claim women aren't oppressed because they aren't subjected to prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or exercise of authority. They have the same (actually slightly more) rights than men and on average enjoy a higher quality of life than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:59 AM
1

True but the original comment that I was commenting on was that Donald Trump is a true definition of an alpha without looking through TRP ideals. Really TRP only applies to people who need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:43 AM
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I have the same feelings, I wouldn't trade being a man. However women having feelings of vulnerability isn't oppression or subjugation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:33 AM
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This is a huge misconception, I've lived in both the US and Australia. In Australia trades people make very good money compared to the US, so it's very common to see women with degrees married to a carpenter or something who makes more money than her. The idea that these couples don't work is entirely driven by money and status, not that there is some kind inherent personality difference between white/blue collar people. I have two friends who are doctors who refuse to date other doctors for wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:06 AM
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They aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:59 AM
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I said this on the last thread but discussing Donald Trump's lack of alpha traits in relation to TRP theory on here is basically redundant. Everyday men need to use things like height, physical fitness, confidence, masculinity etc to appear more alpha to increase standing in society. Donald Trump doesn't need any of those things because he actually has legitimate power and status of an alpha male. Yes he isn't attractive, fit or confident, he's a shallow petulant man baby who paints himself oran…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:05 AM
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Yes and no one would fuck Chris Hemsworth if he was broke and looked like Steve Buscemi. Women love guys with money then complain that ugly old guys get laid for having money, do you see the contradiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:59 AM
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TRP discusses being "alpha and beta" through the lens of everyday people and how men compete against each other to increase the appearance of being an alpha male to attract women. We don't hold any real power over each other so it's more about how alpha we can make ourselves appear. Confidence, physical fitness, nice clothes, height, handsomeness etc are all things that help do that. Donald Trump isn't any of things, he is ugly, fat, petulant, childish and is basically paying for pussy but none …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:34 AM
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Men like Donald Trump exist on a different plane than what we talk about on here. I say this as someone who isn't conservative and doesn't like him. I'm confident, fit, able and masculine but my whole life exists in a society ran by men like Donald Trump, he is a billionaire who is the head of state for the most powerful country in the world. That is being an alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:18 AM
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Yes but what constitutes being more subjugated? Women are more educated, have more rights, work less, spend more money, live longer, have better health, better access to public health benefits, don't die in combat, don't die at work etc. Uighurs are getting thrown into concentration camps. The comparison just isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:11 AM
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Women's weakness and inability to vote differently than their husbands blamed on men. Classic. Is there anything women take responsibility for? Maybe women shouldn't be allowed to vote if they cant vote for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:05 AM
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Being insecure and immature doesn't make you a beta does it? Men like Donald Trump are the definition of alpha in modern society, they own everything and run the world that we all exist in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:03 AM
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Are they actually being subjugated though? I mean we are all under control or domination of modern society to some degree but what makes women especially subjugated?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:56 AM
2

Sorry I should say that is an idiotic idea, not that you're an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:03 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:16 PM
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I think men who equate waiting time to sexual attraction are normally just idiots so I don't think there is much point discussion the correlation between wait time vs sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:12 PM
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30 years old. Cheerful disposition, nice smile, in shape, health conscious, certain level of intelligence, hard working, responsible with money and draggin a wagon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:03 PM
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Why would straight women want to fuck men when they could have sex with a gender they aren't attracted to to make them cum? Gee I wonder. Why don't men who struggle with getting laid just turn gay because gay men have more casual sex? Also I'm not sure you're correct about the lesbian/increased orgasm thing, pretty sure lesbian couples are more likely to suffer from dead bedrooms than straight ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:56 PM
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Yes I do think having sex with someone is the only way to truely figure out SEXUAL chemistry. It's not even debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:48 PM
0

Is that an actual question?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:39 PM
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Hence why I said the "illusion of virginity" plus as I said I'm talking about middle class people, those who had choices, not poor people who have to whore themselves out just to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:38 PM
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You can think whatever you want. I'm not committing 3 months of my life to emotionally investing in a relationship with a person I may not even have any sexual chemistry with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:36 PM
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Attractive men who can get other women aren't going to wait 3 months for you to let them fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:57 AM
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I completely disagree, sure having a bastard child was the worst possible outcome but for middle class people and above (those who had the option) virginity or the illusion of virginity has always been extremely important. Pre marital sex shaming today hasn't sprung up in the last few decades, it's left over from bygone generations. Today's generations are the most pro pre marital sex generation there has ever been in post industrial age western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:52 AM
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That statement isn't contradicting his statement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:25 AM
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Are they punching above their weight all the time or do you just not know what is attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:25 AM
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I'm romantically in love with my girlfriend even though I could have sex with other women as attractive as her. She is in love with me despite being to have sex with other men as attractive as me as far as I can tell. I don't really know how I can change your view but thats how it is I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:20 AM
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I have one friend who is unusually tall who won't look at attractive short girls and another like me who is under 6' and isn't interested in women taller than him. Pretending that I'm the exception and that all men have to jump at anything considered objectively attractive because they aren't attractive enough to have personal preferences may make you feel better about yourself, but it isn't the truth. I'm not saying height preference isn't skewed a lot against men, but it isn't one way at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:00 AM
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Well they have since edited that for what it's worth. Agree to disagree I guess, personally I wouldn't include just having casual sex with someone who is a part of your wider social group to be FWB. What I would classify as FWB would be someone who you are actually close to and decide to start having sex on top of the original close friendship which I think is pretty rare. Maybe that's what OP is talking about when they say FWB which is where the confusion is probably coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:24 AM
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ED, premature ejaculation problems, poor social skills, diagnosed mental disorders, anxiety, sexual deviant, overly religious, bad body odour, unusual sexual fetishes that women find creepy, small penis, ridiculously large penis, low testosterone, very poor, extremely uneducated, homeless, doesn't own a car etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:18 AM
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This 89/20 rule that people bring up on here is fucking nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:12 AM
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Probably the definition of FWB, I've lived in a few different western countries including NYC and never found what I would define as "friends with benefits" even remotely close to the norm anywhere I've lived. I'm guessing OP is referring to FWB as people who are or would be friends even if they weren't having sex fucking each other. Where as you're probably just referring to any relationship where 2 people are hanging out and having casual sex but aren't exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:09 AM
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More extreme parts of TRP tactics wouldn't work on me because I'm not desperate but some of it would. Not being clingy and seeming slightly uninterested would make me pursue more for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:23 AM
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My grandfather was a kid during the great depression, went to war in his 20s, survived a Japanese pow camp, came home and worked as a mechanic every day until he died. Your life isn't that hard mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:21 AM
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You think a big Mac costs 0.1¢ in Malawi? Even disregarding other people in other countries people in western countries are still very well off. The only difference with this generation is we have social media accounts and follow celebrity lifestyles that make us feel bad about our extremely fortunate position in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:04 AM
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I don't understand this at all, you're probably more wealthy than 95% of the worlds population. Peasants/working class people have existed for hundreds of years. What makes this generation worse off in that regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:37 AM
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Because dudes on here want to wife hot virgins but hook up culture has basically eliminated that as hot girls can now choose to get dicked down by good looking guys before settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:06 AM
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True but as the world isn't just churning out endless amounts of 6'3, successful, handsome, athletic male humans every day it all has to even out at the end yeh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:20 AM
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Pretty face, huge cleavage and no body shot is a hard left haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:05 AM
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As a guy who is a height that could be considered not tall enough for some women, I don't mind the mandatory height section. I don't want to match with girls taller than me and I don't want to waste time talking to women who would be put off by me being under 6'. The general idea behind it I'm guessing is that it's a big deal for a lot of people and hard to pick someone's height from photos. Where I think it's pretty obvious from someones photos if they are 50lbs overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:30 AM
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Lots of actors wear lifts, how you gonna be 5'7 playing a superhero? Apparently even John Wayne wore lifts even though he was well over 6'. Plenty of actors have admitted to using them for movie roles but I've never heard of any of them actually admitting to using them off screen. I wonder why that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 11:49 PM
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No idea, I have a friend who is 6'1 and wants to find a girl as tall as him. Society has brought a lot of changes to what we find attractive so it could be anything. I'm just talking in generalities but I don't think liking tall girls qualifies as a fetish, just sexual preference that is different from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 10:44 PM
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I'm the shortest guy in my friendship group, averages don't mean anything if you're comparing me to people born in the 40s and people who aren't the same race as me. Dudes my age and race are on average 6ft I'm 2-3 inches below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 10:05 AM
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Hey man you sound down. I'm 5'10 or just a shade under and do well with dating and women in general but also struggle big time hooking up on a night out. There's something about all the girls rocking heels and the atmosphere in clubs that just sucks if you're a short dude. Go out and have fun with the boys instead, there's better places to meet women that are more short fella friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:11 AM
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You don't have to believe a word I say about myself but I'm attractive enough that I don't have to desperately jump at any offer just because the girl is objectively attractive. I'm quite happily in a relationship with an attractive girl who is shorter than me also so yes I would turn it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:56 AM
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I wouldn't date a woman larger than me under any circumstances. Take that how you will but I don't think i'm some kind of weird minority in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:15 AM
1

Totally acceptable. Same with foam butt padding inserts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 01:56 AM
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Heavily built doesn't mean just heavier. If a woman was 200lbs of fat and a man was 190lbs of lean muscle he would still be more heavily built. Heavily built - (of a person) having a large, broad and strong body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:20 AM
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Exactly, OP is only going from an actual height of 5'8 to a fake 5'9. I didn't mean to get so negative about it, if it makes him feel better that's all good. The reality is though, lifts aren't socially acceptable. OP is risking the ridicule that would come with someone finding out he wears lifts just to appear 1.5 inches taller. It's a lot of risk for very little reward so I disagree that short men should wear lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 11:39 PM
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I'm 5'9 - 5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 11:32 PM
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It's also reinforced by society since we were old enough to watch Disney movies. Nearly every single romantic partnership in tv and movies feature a woman with a taller man. That's why it looks so foreign to us when we see a couple that is the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:56 PM
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Men have a larger bone structure than women, carry more skeletal muscle, are taller and heavier than women. Men are clearly more heavily built than women. Even in some parallel universe where all the men on earth got into shape and all the women got obese, men would still be more heavily built.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:49 PM
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No, as I said I'd rather leave that stuff for women because it is feminine as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:45 PM
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Wearing heels isn't solving your insecurities, I'm not the bad guy for disliking artificially altering your appearance to deceive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:35 PM
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I think hair matters, a guy balding in his early 20s probably has it harder than you being an inch or two below average height. Personally I would think less of a mate I knew he wore lifts and I would imagine my girlfriend thinking less of me if I wore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:46 PM
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Nah I'll leave that stuff for women. What's next? A wig? A girdle for your beer belly? Padded shirts to make your pecs bigger?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:28 PM
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So a woman buys a house she can't afford, a car she can't afford, eats food she can't afford and her ex pays for it because "it's for the child as well" this is the whole problem, men have to pay a shit tonne of money and have absolutely no say in how it is spent or have to be provided any proof that it's even spent on the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:22 PM
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that's not necessarily a bad thing. Yeh me (31) and my girlfriend (28) don't have kids yet and won't for maybe a couple more years it's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:11 PM
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A child wouldn't be hurt, just wouldnt be super rich. Women shouldn't just be able to get knocked up by a successful man, divorce him and collect massive amounts of child support that she doesn't even have to account for. Problem is trashy women collect child support, buy a Louie Vuitton bag with it and send the kid to school with school shoes with holes in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:54 PM
2

Just make sure you don't have sex with more than one person before you hit "the wall" or you will never be able to lock down a ppd man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:45 PM
2

I wouldn't say id completely lose all levels of attraction to women with fake boobs but they aren't nice. They look ok but they feel exactly like what they are, a fake plastic sack installed in your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:16 PM
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Tall girl short man relationships get teased all the time because it looks odd and a bit funny. Unattractive guy with fat girl is pretty standard though, why ridicule a 4/10 guy for going out with a 4/10 woman? What should he be doing instead? Fucking Selena Gomez?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:55 PM
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Women dating men larger than them isn't "dating up" average man is about 4-5 inches taller than the average woman and is heavier built so a 5'5 girl dating a 5'10 guy who is physically more powerful than her is just an average girl dating an average guy. Women like to feel small and feminine in a relationship and men like to feel large and masculine, it's biologically engrained in us, so I'd guess that it would be very rare for a woman to be sexually attracted to a "smaller" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:44 PM
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Under a certain age both men and women are fine being single. After that it's hard to say, I think everyone, both men and women are biologically and socially conditioned to find a mate and raise a family so failure to do that can make us feel unfulfilled. I'd probably say women over the age of 30 are better of than men, Women nurture relationships better than men and have multiple people they use for emotional support. Men normally rely solely on a partner for that, so not having a partner will …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:36 PM
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No, this is a collection of things that she thinks she wants and thinks are socially acceptable to say in a video. She will end up dating a guy she finds attractive, with a good pick up game, who might fit 1/3 of that criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:23 PM
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Most people 18-23 should be happy being single though, you're probably in college or just finding your way in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:16 PM
3

Wasn't a sneaky edit was it? I could have sworn it said argument haha If I'm arguing I'm defending my position to the death. If I'm having a debate I'm having a discussion of opposing viewpoints with the mindset of being open to having my mindset altered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:49 AM
0

I always argue to win. If I wanted to logically discuss things from various view points I'd be having a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:36 AM
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None at all sorry haha I found girls on hinge were more likely to like one of my "answers" rather than any of my photos so maybe it's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:17 AM
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Tinder, bumble and hinge. Tinder is obviously pretty shit, a lot of fake profiles, insta girls, girls looking for a confidence boots etc. Profile was just me, a clear photo of my face, then just photos of me doing things I like doing. I've travelled a fair bit and like hiking, fishing, snowboarding etc so my photos are the things that are interesting to girls (minus the fishing) anyway so that helps. Just started a conversation with something from their bio, generally I found girls with nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:06 AM
2

Very little, I know literally zero women who could overpower me. If they get into packs and decide to hang rape me what are they going to do? Force my dick to be hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:49 AM
1

I don't know what that means or why it is the key. But it was just the way I thought back then, I had no idea about relationships so I just assumed the best girl to have was the hottest girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:45 AM
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Different experiences for different people I guess but I'd say 100% of people I went on a date with from OLD were looking for a relationship or were open to starting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:40 AM
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Depends on the person, when I was 18-21 I would have put up with some pretty shitty relationships for a hot girl out of fear I won't be able to get someone hotter. Now (31) I'd say I'd probably put up with about 1% of that crazy shit due to the fact hotness isn't as important as dating someone I don't want to strangle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:59 AM
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I disagree, I think at its core internet dating is a good idea, it connects single people with other single people who may have not otherwise met. Internet dating is only as shallow and fickle as the people using it make it and really it just points out how shallow we are capable of being when presented with too many options. Cam girls are women exploiting your loneliness for money. I don't mean for that to sound like I'm attacking you, we are all lonely sometimes but paying women to talk to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:36 AM
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Serious? I've found that ever since I've hit my 30s everyone listens to everything I say, people ask my advice no matter how full of shit I am. Its like a level of respect I've never experienced. https://youtu.be/t28ZB1t6gg8
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:04 AM
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You can't honestly be trying to frame that as being a male problem? Women invented the "I'm upset but you have to guess what it is or you're a bad partner" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:48 AM
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Male, straight, 30, no. I'm open minded and I've actually met a trans girl who is insanely attractive but just couldn't date a trans person. Not sure why that is, I'm not disgusted by the idea just not interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:10 AM
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Aren't we talking about what women think of men? This chart is obviously written by someone who is a gay man, commenting on other men's attractiveness. Girls don't use the terms "otter" and "bear" to describe men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:06 AM
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I don't really think this chart can be trusted at all, the only indicator of whether the watcher is male or female is by self reporting their gender when signing up for pornhub. I'd imagine a fair chunk of that percentage are men pretending to be women on Pornhub for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:59 AM
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I'm the opposite, I enjoy playing sports, fishing, lifting weights and working with my hands and do them even though I'm engaged and not trying to attract women. How do you feel after lifting weights, manual labour or overall masculine things? Fulfilled or just nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:00 AM
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No, people don't want girls more than they want boys. Most people will choose one of each. A lot of mothers I know who have had both say preferred raising boys than girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:56 AM
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Not putting out in the first 3 dates isn't "playing games." For some women it is, for others they just need to get to know you better. If you have any interpersonal skills it's pretty easy to spot which girls are low class and using you for free meals and which girls just want to know you better before sleeping with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:53 AM
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Well yeh, women have got more options to pursue whoever they like, obviously there is going to be more pressure on men to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:48 AM
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I don't mean to be the one to tell you this but I don't think this is a chart made by women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:21 AM
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Slim/fit with good curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:21 AM
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https://youtu.be/eNPyY6q4mTA
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:27 AM
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Personally I'd go body as long as we are talking about an average face not hideous. Faces are just random features that are subjectively attractive. Good body is more objective and universal in appeal, indicates healthy lifestyle, fitness and overall health.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:23 AM
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I'm not attacking anyone for sexual preference, but I wouldn't say "having a nice ass doesn't matter" then only date women with nice asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:23 PM
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No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:36 PM
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I'm about 5'9- 5'10and I would agree these responses aren't typical of real life. Girls here who are saying "5'6 or taller" or "just taller than me" are probably telling the truth but if faced with the option of 6' option or 5'7 option they would go the taller guy. On the other side of it I've always thought the over 6' thing that people talk about is a bit exaggerated as well. I've really had no problems picking up and dating 7-9/10s despite being below average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:05 PM
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