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| 3 | Advice on girl that doesn't text backIf I'm honest with you man, I think texting her again at this point would come off as kinda needy/desperate. Feel free to do whatever you want since this will probably be a learning experience anyway but I think you're bet shot at pulling through with this is to just wait for her to respond. Texting her so far apart just seems like you're trying to get her attention (which I mean you are but she doesn't need to think/know that lol) | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Advice on girl that doesn't text backIt's ok, I'm 17 now and I was 16 when I started so I understand the position you're in. Btw props to you for asking her for her number and stuff. That's more balls than most guys have at first. How long has it been since you texted her? | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Advice on girl that doesn't text backWait. People have things to do. Also, did you include who you are in the text? ex. "Hey it's the guy from the bookstore" (but witty-er of course lol) | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Do I look worse than 5 years ago? Depressed about itIt's good to see you again man! | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | when you ask a girl to “hang out” how does she know you trying to date her?This. The biggest changes to my success with girls has been developing solid and flirtatious eye contact in combination with a smile, and learning to touch people in a way that shows interest. | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Got another "I'll let you know" response about a date last night and at this point, my frustration is becoming unbearable.I've been joking around with her like that for a few weeks now, although it's just now that I'm starting to talk to her. Maybe ur right and it's the way I'm asking. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | When is it too late to kino people you already know?That's a great idea! | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 12:29 PM |
| 2 | When is it too late to kino people you already know?Alright that makes sense. I don't want it to be a complete confusing shock. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 02:15 AM |
| 2 | When they say "I'll let you know" and never let you knowI'd much rather have a no then have no closure. Thanks a lot. I'll remember this and refer to this going forward. | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 03:04 AM |
| 1 | When they say "I'll let you know" and never let you knowIn retrospect this does all sound boring. I'm a pretty serious person and that's just how it naturally comes out of me. I really need to focus on being more energetic with this kind of stuff. It's okay to be pushy like that? I'd never really thought about it because in my head that'd just make the situation awkward. I guess it just comes down to how I say it then. Also, I'd heard that when asking a girl out, it's only a yes if she's all in. I'm assuming this is a flawed belief? | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 01:52 AM |
| 3 | When they say "I'll let you know" and never let you know1: (Girl I'd been talking to for about a week. I had asked for her phone number and been clear with my intentions. The main reason I was talking to her is because she thought I was one of the cutest guys at the school, so obviously she was somewhat interested. This happened in person.) Me: Hey I'm going to the historic district of (city) on (whatever day). I'm gonna walk around and grab something to eat. You should come. Her: Um okay, I'll let you know. 2: (Talked to this girl for about a week a… | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Do I look different on the recent side pic?Nope. Not gonna feed your self consciousness. | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Do I look different on the recent side pic?This is the millionth time you post about this. I think you should get a therapist. You've got some incredible self esteem issues to work out. | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Do I look different on the recent side pic?You're ridiculous man | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 01:35 PM |
| 1 | My experience in going from below average to average/good lookingI really like this way of thinking. Never heard it described like this before. | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | My experience in going from below average to average/good lookingWith the one that didn't know I liked her I did do all three. When I approached her I said: "Hey I saw u playing soccer and realised we never talk. The thing is, I think your really cute so we have to fix that. Give me your phone number and I'll text you later." She did, and I started texting her every once in a while. Less than two weeks later, I asked her if she wanted to go to this place I know and she said she'd let me know but she never did. The thing is, I had been told by my friends that … | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 04:24 AM |
| 1 | My experience in going from below average to average/good lookingYea I knew it was a needy thing to do to tell her that I liked her even though it was indirectly. The thing is that with the last girl I went for, she later told me she had no idea I was even interested, so with this girl I wanted to avoid that and I felt like I was at risk of being thrown into the friendzone. Still not the best idea though. You're right. | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | My experience in going from below average to average/good lookingThis is really good. Thanks for taking the time to type this out. | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | My experience in going from below average to average/good lookingI wasn't really asking her if she liked me; I was trying to let her know I don't anymore. I see her everyday multiple times so I just wanted to make sure she knew there were no hard feelings, but I totally understand what you're saying. | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Hermit because I’m too insecure...tall and lanky. How can I improve?Are you a troll man? This is the fourth time u post something like this this month. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Do I look worse than 3+ years ago?You're doing this again?? | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 12:34 PM |
| 9 | How can I seduce men at the gym?Also, try to be pretty clear although not necessarily straightforward. From the guy's perspective, if a girl asks me to help her with a workout I probably won't think much of it because I know it's more likely they just need help and not that they're interested. However, if they're relatively flirty and compliment me or something then I know there's a chance it's something more. Guys have a hard time catching on to subtlety. | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Cultivating a rotationSo you're basically just saying get a bunch of FWB's | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | When should you hug a girl?Studying is actually a great time to get touchy. You can touch her arm when your teasing her or push her when she makes fun of you. Keep it light and be confident when your touching her. Don't look at your hand, and don't overthink it. Humans touch each other all the time. Now if you wanna sleep with her you're gonna have to do more than that. DiCarlo escalation ladder is really good for that, and it's also good for casual touching so look it up if you haven't. High fives can also go a long way … | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 07:21 PM |
| 3 | When should you hug a girl?If it's just been a couple of times it's not a big deal. Just make sure to do escalate sooner than later on girls you're into. I'm not a very touchy person so the first couple of times I talk to a new girl I don't usually hug, but once I'm trying to ramp things up that's always my first step. A redditor once told me "Don't be a bitch. Escalate." | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 06:42 PM |
| 3 | I (16m) not a touchy person. Do I have to be?Alright, thank you. It's been my biggest sticking point so far. For the longest time I didn't even know people casually touched each other. I'd never realised it. Now I see it in some of my more socially affluent friends but I'm still not comfortable with it so I guess I'll just have to practice until I am. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 06:39 PM |
| 10 | When should you hug a girl?It's good to hug to say hello or goodbye, and you want to establish that as normal as soon as you can. If you've been talking to someone for a while without breaking the touch barrier and then you suddenly do, it'll come off as artificial and awkward. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I get closer to (and make REAL conversation) with new people?Worth a shot | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I get closer to (and make REAL conversation) with new people?Oh I see where you're going with that. Yea, I think that'd help us get more comfortable. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 10:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I get closer to (and make REAL conversation) with new people?Yea I agree. My problem is that I can only make either small talk or have deep conversations with girls I've gone out of my way to talk to. I have a hard time with the in between. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Feeling discouraged. Gotta vent a little.Special forces operation 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | When are apologies ok?This. This is exactly what I was looking for. Thanks so much. Perfect. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 03:40 AM |
| 1 | When are apologies ok?By that logic, am I in the wrong here? Is an apology appropriate or is it not that big a deal and I should just pretend it never happened? | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | How to become more interested in what others are saying?Alright, I'll try this when I get a chance later today. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How to become more interested in what others are saying?Hmm, although that might be possible, I doubt it in my situation. If someone loves Moana and just wants to talk about the soundtrack, whether I care or not doesn't necessarily depend on how interesting of a person I am, I might just not be able to relate to what they're saying and be interested in learning more about what they're talking about you know? | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 09:40 AM |
| 1 | How to become more interested in what others are saying?This is a really interesting point of view, but I don't understand what you're recommending I do. How do I reconcile the two polarities you've described? | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 09:38 AM |
| 6 | Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me.Interesting perspective on things | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Got conversation going with an exI'm no expert, but this is a really, really bad fucking idea dude. Nothing good will come from this. No matter how good you are with words, when you reveal to her who you really are she will be betrayed (rightfully) and probably be pissed at you. Just stop talking to her before you dig yourself into too deep of a hole. | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 05:46 PM |
| 3 | How do you get better at text game?In the past, I texted girls and had long conversations with them but I found that after a short period of time, they became waaayy less interested in me as a partner. DON'T CONSISTENTLY TEXT A GIRL YOU'RE TRYING TO PULL. if you see something funny or something that references an inside joke you two have, go ahead. Text her whatever it is, talk about it for a bit, and drop it. Anything you say to her over text has less than half the meaning it does in person. If you text her she has beautiful eye… | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 06:22 PM |
| 1 | She's got no game and I don't know what to doOk thanks, I'll definitely try that. You're approach makes sense. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 01:17 AM |
| 1 | She's got no game and I don't know what to doThat's not a bad idea. Thing is, she's got like a quiet confidence kinda thing going on where I'm not sure she'd get a good kind of nervous. It's likely she'll just be confused and tell me she's not nervous. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | She's got no game and I don't know what to doNo... | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 12:22 AM |
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