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Agreed... also, great post with interesting/relevant responses, thanks for sharing! :D
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/24 09:29 PM
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I hope it's not true 😂 It was an attractive and successful man, so I'm like, is this his way of saying he's not loyal..? 😅
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/24 11:23 AM
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Well said, thank you so much ❤️ I've also come to the conclusion that it would not be worth it if this affects my self esteem, that would not be fun for anyone 😅 I am definitely on the more sensitive side, so like someone else commented, I think I'll work on accepting inevitable changes in my body (i.e. pregnancy) instead of actively trying to change it/gain weight. I wish you luck in your journey towards being as happy with your body as your husband is 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/24 03:19 AM
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Hmm I wouldn't go that far — I think there's a huge difference between going beyond your comfort zone, and doing literally whatever it takes to make a man happy. As someone pointed out, if either of us doesn't like it, I could always lose weight. But a drastic change that is harder/impossible to reverse would only cause resentment if you end up regretting it. Plus, he probably wouldn't even be able to enjoy it if you permanently felt uncomfortable in your body, which is the biggest reason I'm he…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/24 12:15 AM
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True! Another great example is Paleolithic Venus figurines, they're soo chubby and cute 😭 Especially those found in colder climates... "over-nourished woman [sic] may have been seen as the ideal of beauty in these areas." It makes me happy to think of it this way, that our men just want us to have some padding 😂
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/24 12:06 AM
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I'm about 4'10 and slightly under 90 lbs. If you plug that into a BMI calculator, it will say I'm on the lower end of the healthy range, but BMI doesn't tell you much at my height 😆 I think I look heavier because I'm skinny fat. Definitely want to tone/improve my body, just not sure if I want gaining weight to be a part of that process 😅
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 11:40 PM
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My guess is 25-30% and I'm convinced it's all stored in my legs and tummy (and cheeks 🐿) I think my cup size is A... flat enough that I don't need to wear a bra/know my cup size, anyways 😩 He's been trying to put a practical spin on it, saying stuff like, "That dumbbell is our baby, you need to get stronger so you can hold him" 🤣 It's so cute and never fails to make me giggle (and actually motivates me lol) Part of me wants to trust the vision and just do what he thinks is best, but part of me i…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 05:53 PM
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I think I wouldn't intentionally gain weight because the baby will do it for you. Good point! I do want to have kids and I've always been a bit stressed about baby weight, but I guess it could actually work out for the best 😆 Congrats on finding a happy place with weight despite the health issues and while taking care of a baby, that can't have been easy!
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 05:25 PM
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You get it! 😭 The weird thing is I don't think thinner always looks better on other people, but it just feels better/safer to me... it is indeed hard to escape that mindset 😓 Thanks for your comment, that sounds like a good compromise/goal!
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 05:01 PM
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1) His body looks like a marble statue 😂 He works out almost every day and I really admire him for that. 2) You're so right about the different preferences! Same goes for makeup and fashion. I actually have no idea what my bfp is, I should get it tested 🤔 Safe to say his preference is higher than what I'd like mine to be, though 😅 3) That is so interesting! Tbh I know next to nothing about his exes, maybe I will investigate 😂 Ironically he loves how short I am, so I always thought he preferred p…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 11:34 AM
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I do what I'm comfortable with and take his requests into consideration. That sounds healthy! Good point, if he chose you, it doesn't matter what his type is, you're his type now 😆 Thank you~
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 11:24 AM
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Sorry, I meant targeted weight gain... I do try to focus on lower body exercises 🍑 but I've always heard that every pound gained or lost is 1/2 fat and 1/2 muscle, and I can't control where the fat goes 😆 That is interesting... I hadn't heard of the Pareto principle before tbh. Thanks for your input! <3
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 11:20 AM
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I probably have dysmorphia to some degree because I'm not sure what I look like, but it's definitely not extreme! You are right, it's my body and I guess I don't have to change anything, but I want to be perfect in his eyes and do whatever is within my power 😭 That's so sweet and caring of your husband! I wish more men were like that instead of just being critical of women's bodies 😩
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 05:40 AM
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That reminds me, he said something similar. Good for you two for being communicative about what he wants! Thank you for the encouraging and reassuring comment 🤗 I will try to stop overthinking it... might be time to limit social media consumption 😆
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 05:19 AM
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I wouldn't date a man I wouldn't submit to, so yes, I guess it is earned 🙂 It's important to me that a man understands submission is a choice i.e. we're doing things his way because I respect and trust him, not because I'm too daft to have an opinion on the matter.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 03:58 AM
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If he's just trickle-truthing me, it seems obvious to everyone here except me 😭 I think he is genuine, but maybe I'm just too naive/trusting 🤷‍♀️ I mean, I'm fairly certain he really does want to be a husband and father, so this question was more about whether that's strong enough a reason for him to be loyal, y'know? Like, is it worth pursuing a monogamous relationship with him if he has to try/if it doesn't come naturally to him? He cited wanting variety in his sex life (and I don't blame him)…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 01:01 AM
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That's just the problem... He says he doesn't want an open relationship again, but I'm worried that because of his past behavior, he will change his mind down the road 🥲 It is a long gamble and I'm getting a vibe from the comments it doesn't look good for me 😆 Am I overly optimistic/trusting..?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/24 05:05 PM
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Thank you, that is what I fear 😓 I guess I haven't met many men who do make me feel safe in that way, so it's weirdly reassuring that he's open about his past and how monogamy doesn't come easily to him 😅
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 05:29 PM
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Thank you for your comment! <3 The concerns you brought up are very valid. I have been very clear about my timeline, and although it's not quite the same as the wall for women, he has also said he doesn't want to be too much older than his kids (40+ yrs) so there might be a little bit of pressure there? According to him, they agreed to have an open relationship before they got married because he is very sexual and told her he didn't feel ready to commit. I guess she agreed so he'd stay with her …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 03:38 PM
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Interesting! I think there are a few exceptions (like if your man interrupts you harshly out of spite, or to intentionally embarrass you in public) but for the most part this really resonates with me 🤔 When I've practically put my life in his hands, I naturally feel more secure when he asserts himself, even if that means interrupting me, because it shows he is confident. What other people see is a strong, capable man who is deeply trusted and respected by his woman, a couple that doesn't waste t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 04:11 AM
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I appreciate the specific examples with each point! Keep conversations light, simple. praise her raising son ability even if nonexistent. Talk about what you bring to the table. How you plan to be a dedicated caring partner. That's it. This is very straightforward and easy to remember... I'll try to stop overthinking and just stick to this 😆 Some MIL like the idea of gaining a bestie daughter. But to be honest that pulls you away from your man. He will not share his thoughts, and his desires wit…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 01:11 AM
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Homemade baked goods is such a cute idea! I'll be sure to ask first. If/when I meet her, there are several other things I should probably know beforehand... including how formal she is, as you said 🤔 Thank you for your comment! <3
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 12:13 AM
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Well said, thank you! 🙏 I'm naturally deferential, and I've been told I'm a good listener... I guess I'm just worried about being perceived as boring/vapid 😅 More than anything I'd like to show that I'm a caring/supportive partner, but also that I have my own personality and opinions. Especially considering her academic background and demanding career choice, I thought she might want to know her son isn't dating a wall 😂 I wonder how I can do this without making things about me. I just hope she …
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 12:02 AM
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Noted, thank you! 😃 I do like to misbehave on purpose sometimes — he may know that I'm just playing, but I can see why it wouldn't sit well with his mother. Looking back, I may have had interactions very similar to your cup example... 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 10:45 PM
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If you have the means and feel comfortable doing so, I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with picking up the tab sometimes, but imho it seems a little early for him to bring that up? Personally, I don't believe in paying during the "vetting phase", it naturally happens when you're bf/gf. Dessert is okay 😛 Or maybe you could reciprocate by planning fun things to do together that don't necessarily involve spending money (like a picnic, community events, etc.) Follow your heart on this …
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 12:13 PM
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Thank you for such a thoughtful response! I realized this is probably something I should ask myself first 😆 I think my internal conflict comes from a combination of several factors: I'm physically and psychologically put off by the idea of cooking meat 😓 I could probably get used to it, but that's where the psychological part comes in; do I really want to get used to it? 🤔 I would feel like a hypocrite, like, well what's the point of me being "vegan" then? In quotes because I would be violently …
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 04:48 AM
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Haha I love the old girlfriend analogy 😆 I agree, I personally prefer dishes that highlight plants over veganizing familiar foods. That is really good advice, I'll start by learning what types of cuisine he likes and build on that 😄 From what I know so far I see many taco nights in our future, fortunately that is one of the easiest foods to customize. And I will study next time I go out to eat! This is super helpful and got my brain going. Thanks so much for your comment~
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 05:19 AM
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Wow, so does aunt's gym bro husband not eat eggs/dairy either? 😮 Yes, there are many great alternatives, this makes it a lot easier to share certain meals 😄 Also, peach dumplings sound amazing! 😭
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 05:02 AM
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That's a good system, everyone is happy! 😄 I will try to do something similar, and also perfect some plant-based side dishes everyone can enjoy. Side note, I salute you for using veggie stock, a surprising number of people don't think about that 😆
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 06:21 PM
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It's cool that he's so thoughtful/respectful of your religious beliefs! 👏 I think my man wants me to eat meat (especially during pregnancy) but wouldn't push it. But he definitely wants me to cook it 😅 Baking does sound more manageable than some other methods 🤔 Thank you~
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 02:56 PM
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I feel you! Cheese is one of those things for me, even vegan cheese that's too close to the real thing 😂 I'm impressed that you're still cooking some things for your family after being plant-based for so long, I already don't know if I remember how to fry an egg 😆 Just out of curiosity, have any of them tried/shown interest in going vegan?
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 02:45 PM
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I'll definitely have to read and maybe watch some cooking videos 🧐 And I'm trying to enlist my friends to be taste testers at their own risk 😂 Feedback would certainly be helpful. Thanks! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 02:06 PM
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Parallel proteins is a great idea! I'll make a list of meals that are good for this. Thank you! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 02:01 PM
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Tbh it's a relief to be told it's okay to be honest, because that just feels right 😆 And thank you for your insight. I do hope that my commitment will be appreciated and not taken for granted. Btw, does KG stand for something I don't know? 😅
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 07:55 AM
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I see! 🤔 I think this might be my ideal move, being honest but clear about future expectations as well. Thank you <3
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 07:40 AM
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I see! 🤔 I think this might be my ideal move, being honest but making future expectations clear. Thanks you 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 07:38 AM
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Thank you, I think that was important to hear -- I probably need to work on my self esteem, part of me is afraid of being deemed not worth the wait 😅
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 07:36 AM
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I hate not knowing... ahh this sucks 😂😭
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 06:24 PM
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Thank you! You worded my thoughts perfectly; I definitely don't want to negotiate/demand for my commitment to be returned.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 06:21 PM
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Thank you! You're so right, in the back of my mind I'm always worried about coming across as too eager 😫 But he has said several times that he likes how I don't (more like can't, lmao) hide my feelings, so I'm also afraid of coming across as uninterested/unserious 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 06:18 PM
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I know because I've asked if he's dating/sleeping with other people... and because I can see his Hinge location 😂 I don't like it but I don't really mind it either; I figured since he's a man who also has a higher sex drive than me, it would be unrealistic to want exclusivity from him at this stage. We were planning to have this conversation the next time we saw each other anyway, but he brought it up first using your example almost word for word 😆 So I was wondering if it's fine for me to give …
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 06:13 PM
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