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Rule 9 reminds me of the movie fight club: rule 1 of fight club is that you don't talk about fight club.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 01:51 PM
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Actually, it kinda is. If you want to get a girlfriend, first become good with women in general. If you have a girlfriend, but no game, you will be afraid to lose her you get needy and possibly a toxic relationship.
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:13 AM
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This looks like a luxury problem. Due to your attractiveness you never had to develop any raw seduction skills. I would say: go for it, just try to escalate, learn how to handle rejection.
/r/seduction31/01/18 01:25 PM
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correct
/r/seduction21/10/17 12:10 PM
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You are fucking awesome as you are;) Thanks!
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:20 PM
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Since they left, you did alright! Though you could be more physical with the girl, having your arm around her. If you were more physical the guys wouldn't have approached. Because without physicality you look more like a 'friend'.
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:17 PM
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I love your encouragement, but remember to undertake action to meet new girls.
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:13 PM
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you're not exciting. Indeed. Be passionate about something and it will draw women in. But going out and getting reference experiences with cold approaching will give you more results than 'bettering your life' (just my opinion, but based on experience).
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:54 PM
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Just say "hi". Don't overthink.
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:51 PM
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“You put someone on a pedestal they have no choice but to look down on you” Thanks.
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:58 AM
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When your first start out and are nervous, girls are really nice, yeah, but they probably don't see you as fuckable. Wait till you gain some confidence, girls will throw all kinds of shit to you (mainly to "test" you).
/r/seduction17/06/17 12:46 PM
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But if you have mindset "I'm PUA, I'm alpha!" then after each unsuccessful approach you would feel as shit, as it was with me. If you feel shit after each unsuccessful approach, your not a PUA or Alpha at all. When I started out first I went trough whole nights of "unsuccessful" approaches. What saved me was focusing on the progress, not the results. Realizing that you know your OWN WORTH, no matter how girls react. Now that's alpha.
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:45 PM
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Isn't the "cure" to AA to approach so many woman that you realize (logically AND Emotionally) that rejection doesn't matter?
/r/seduction15/06/17 12:38 PM
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Awesome video! Thanks :D
/r/seduction09/06/17 01:04 PM
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Open questions, starting with how/what/why. For example: instead of "do you like sport" say "What do you like about sport".
/r/seduction30/05/17 07:14 PM
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Looking down can come across as insecure. better to look to the side.
/r/seduction26/05/17 09:47 PM
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When making a joke which is a bit over the limit, strong eye contact definitely helps. I remember seeing the initial look on her face like "WTF did you just say", but I kept eye contact and wasn't apologetic. I felt like it increased attraction immensely.
/r/seduction26/05/17 09:46 PM
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End goal: To go from scarcity to abundance with woman. But I find it hard to describe/imagine the situation when one can say: now I have abundance.
/r/seduction26/05/17 09:36 PM
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most of the time it's not a no, it's a not yet. This is so true.
/r/seduction26/05/17 09:25 PM
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Back in school when I hit a girl they would leave. Now when I hit on a girl they will chase me.
/r/seduction25/05/17 12:33 PM
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4, Be as social as possible. I remember that one gave me huge improvement. Great advice!
/r/seduction24/05/17 02:02 PM
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The Game - Neil Strauss
/r/seduction18/05/17 02:30 PM
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Lead, lead , lead. She wants you to make the first move and to lead. That's what she referring to I think.
/r/seduction18/05/17 02:30 PM
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You should have made it clear before you ask for the number, that it's not to be just friends...
/r/seduction09/05/17 04:40 PM
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"Game is not something you do, Game is something you are." You may feel like a robot in the beginning, but after a while, it will become something part of your personality. With enough time, game will become something you are.
/r/seduction09/05/17 04:37 PM
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The point is, just blurt shit out. It's not always going to be gold. But no one is listening. Love this :D
/r/seduction09/05/17 04:30 PM
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You live in a town? LUXURY! I live in a village...
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:25 AM
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Ask her to play CS:GO with you ;)
/r/seduction04/05/17 04:24 PM
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Nice story. My goal: To go from scarcity to abundance with woman.
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:13 PM
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Wow, you really can see the pain through your eyes. Take better care of your body and mind by exercising and meditation. Try to be more positive, because negativity will kill attraction.
/r/seduction03/05/17 04:19 PM
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she will remember your face for a good month after the approach. Yeah I can relate to this. The other night I approached this girl using strong eye contact and walking directly to her, but when she noticed me she looked like she saw the most nasty thing in the world and told me to f*ck off. I was shocked and asked her: Hey, do we know eachother? She said I approached her 3 months(!) ago. But she took my neg the wrong way or apparently I said something offensive. I really couldn't remember anythi…
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:33 PM
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that's what guys do, they invest themselves too much in the new relationship and become attached to the girl far sooner than the girl gets attached to you. That's definitely a trap I fell in...
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:23 PM
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Find your own leverage to take action. How bad do you want it and why? If you don't achieve succes, it's simply because you don't want it bad enough. “When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful.” -- Eric Thomas
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:16 PM
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As a novice, remember to celebrate even the small victories. That's really important. Totally relate to that, back when I started I also did this.
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:12 PM
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Nice tips, makes me think about cold reading. But I am missing self-amusement in your post. Pumping your own state during a conversation may be even more important than pumping the girls state. Would be better to talk about what you want to talk about. If the girl goes into a boring converstation topic, cut her off and change the topic to something more interesting.
/r/seduction25/04/17 03:58 PM
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I got aspergers too, so I think I can relate. I got some boring dates too, but I also got some awesome dates. Some girls you will connect with, some girls you won't. You can't get everyone to like you. Due to aspergers I have a huge interest in a couple of subjects. I noticed girls like it when you talk enthusiastic and passionate about my interest. Use your Aspergers to your advantage.
/r/seduction25/04/17 03:50 PM
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About the weed you are going to smoke and the chicks you are going to bang? YES!!! That what's I am thinking about all day :D
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:13 PM
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They will feel like you’re trying to get something from them, like you’re a beggar on the street saying, “Change?” Love this Analogy. A hot girl is like a millionaire in the club, and all guys asking her for money. (except the guys which have abundance mentality, which will stand out immediately)
/r/seduction23/04/17 02:57 PM
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Why didn't you go for the F-close? You don't need her number to f*ck her.
/r/seduction19/04/17 04:45 PM
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Yes I can relate to this :)
/r/seduction19/04/17 11:00 AM
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Though I like the effort you put into your FR, looks like your overanalysing this. Do like 10 approaches and see more general trends and try to detect sticking points. Also what I noticed when I just started cold approach: At first girls react nice to you, but there isn't any attraction, you classify as cute and harmless. If you get better you actually get MORE rejections. But you also build attraction with girls who don't reject you.
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:07 PM
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Makes me think about the time my friend had a puppy and we were walking on the beach. I was getting annoyed, because that puppy had way more attention than me. I was getting out-gamed by a dog! XD
/r/seduction14/04/17 03:05 PM
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The (only?) way to stop feeling that way; Approach more. Be more around girls. Something that's unfamiliar is always scary at first. You will get more comfortable when you've had more interactions.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:59 PM
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the women I approach are really attractive You don't have to sleep with every women that you approach. Try out approaching more (and maybe less attractive) girls, just do it for the reference experiences and to get "into state". At the end of the night, escalate on the attractive ones.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:31 PM
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You show good self-reflection that you notice you need alcohol to talk to girls. It will be hard the first time without alcohol, but when you stick at it, you don't need alcohol anymore to be social and this will help you in other aspects of your life and in daygame.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:25 PM
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The reason certain material fails for you is because you don't have trust in it. I can relate to this! When I first started using some routine, I thought it was the shit and it worked for me, but when I lost my trust in it after some rejections, it didn't work anymore.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:22 PM
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Go out even more, so you will get more comfortable in teasing. Teasing is great. Especially with hot girls. Hot girls are used to compliments and getting their ass kissed all the time. When you tease her and be confident about it, you will stand out immediately.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:18 PM
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Sorry, but I can't see how this would create attraction. As a man, it's important to set the rhythm of the interaction from the start. You want her reacting to you, not the other way around. I envy you if this works for you. A girl wouldn't open up that fast to a complete stranger about what her weaknesses are.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:12 PM
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"The Game" was the book to read I would say; "The Game" still is the book to read. It's nice written, enjoyable to read and the routines in the book can really help you to get started.
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:59 PM
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You need a sleeping bag in combination with a sleeping mat(those used for camping, they are foldable).
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:54 PM
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bench-> sofa. (I am not a native English speaker.)
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:53 PM
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Be more around girls. Something that's unfamiliar is always scary at first.
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:25 PM
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They will sleep with you when they classify you as sex-worthy. The four pillars of sex-worthiness are: puposeful controlled flowing self amused
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:15 PM
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Getting past the opener I can definitely relate to this.
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:12 PM
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Don't see problems when there aren't any. I am a student too, also with a single bed. No problems at all to get a one night stand on that bed. Only after sex I have to get a matras and sleeping bag for her to sleep on. But since she is also a student it's no big deal for her. Also this one time I was at a girls place, and she had a high bed. So we just ended up having sex on her bench.
/r/seduction13/04/17 01:07 PM
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Sounds like you have a really high flake rate. I have that problem too, especially with numbers from night game. In general numbers from daygame flake less.
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:19 AM
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Focusing on Body language is a waste of time. Body language is a manifestation of what you feel inside. Feel good inside and confident and it will show in your body language naturally.
/r/seduction10/04/17 04:29 PM
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What could be done to overcome LMR? Try out a freeze out; That means do something else like reading a book and wait till she escalates on you. Nice FR btw.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:44 PM
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Try it out yourself, instead of wasting time posting these simple questions. Field experience is KING Go out tonight, and try saying hi to the girl dancing. If you do it high energy and loud "HI!", she probably stop dancing to talk to you.
/r/seduction01/04/17 12:00 PM
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I am a huge fan of super direct game. When you are clear in your intent and physical from the start, it doesn't come as a surprise when you whip your dick out in the bedroom. So in general you shouldn't have a problem with LMR when you run direct game.
/r/seduction31/03/17 04:24 PM
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A girl holding strong eye contact is definitely an IOI.
/r/seduction31/03/17 04:19 PM
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Wow, she is giving you huge IOI. Good job. I also sometimes get questioned if I am player. What i do is exaggerate it(reply something like: "Yes I am a HUGE player"), or don't make it a big deal and move on to another conversation topic. In any case, don't apologize for it. Girls always say that they want the "nice guy". But emotionally(not logically) they are attracted to the player.
/r/seduction31/03/17 03:03 PM
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Most girls in clubs can't dance. I only had a couple of salsa lessons, but by confidently dancing with girls in a club you already get compliments like: "wow you can dance so well". During dancing it's easy to escalate; start out with the gril on arm's length. After a while you put her arms around your neck and dance closer. Then go for the kiss or/and isolate.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:56 PM
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I like the idea behind this approach, but I think it will kill attraction, because you say indirect to this girl: I am not confident and I think I am a idiot if I don't make up for it.
/r/seduction20/03/17 02:46 PM
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Field experience is KING! Totally agree with your post.
/r/seduction20/03/17 12:44 AM
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Congratulations; By going out you already left behind 90% of man who never work on themselves and stay at home watching television. To get started on your night you could talk to people who are less intimidating than hot girls, like other men or the bartender. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. You are just starting. Just try to give everyone a high five or do other warm up exercises.
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:13 PM
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The Game, by Neill Strauss. Really fun written and easy to read. Written as a good story and not some boring summation of techniques.
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:02 PM
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Don't hide that you are attracted to her. Too much man approach women way too indirect and hide that they like her.
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:30 PM
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I'll be paying for her dinner as well, and it's a fine dining place so not cheap. Looks like your going into the "provider frame". Have your heard of the lover/provider principle? The lover is someone women will have a One night stand with FAST. The provider is someone a women needs to provide for her and she will make him wait for sex and try to keep him around. By buying dinner for her and arraging a taxi, you put yourself in the role of the provider and you convey a scarcity mindset to the gi…
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:15 PM
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Open, be "man to women" and clear in your intent.
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:10 PM
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Love this. Indeed there's no magic trick...
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:06 PM
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No man! You don't wanna be your first time with a hooker! By the way, the first time sex almost always sucks, so it wouldn't be worth the money xD.
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:04 PM
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So the next step is to try and get my intentions known. It's not the next step. Get your intentions known from the first moment you approach. So during the first minutes you could say something like: "Yes I approached you because you stood out/look interesting". I'm in college too and when I did this I got appreciation from the girl about my honesty. Also you don't waste time because the girl will say if she has a boyfriend.
/r/seduction13/03/17 11:11 PM
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To get the (special) girl that you want, get good with women in general first.
/r/seduction13/03/17 11:07 PM
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get in touch when you know you are free and we'll go from there. I think you made a mistake here. You put the responsibility and initiative in her hands. Instead you should have kept it with you by saying: "I will let you know when I am free." Then you could have texted her by now for a new date.
/r/seduction13/03/17 11:05 PM
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Try to get her number or/and arrange a date with her. Looks like this meaningless snapchat conversations are a waste of time. Just ask her out on a date.
/r/seduction13/03/17 11:01 PM
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Your post makes me think of the lover/provider principle. The lover is someone women will have a One night stand with FAST. The provider is someone a women needs to provide for her and she will make him wait for sex and try to keep him around. When your 20 years old, try to get in the lover frame. Being an asshole won't necessary help. You can do some push/pull however. This means giving NEGs(mean comment) alternated with compliments.
/r/seduction13/03/17 10:58 PM
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To be honest with you, I have been diagnosed with (light)autism too. I have been told autism can't be "cured". Then I saw this video of RSDTyler and he came from a much lower place then I was at the time. This showed me if he can do it(improve social skills and pick up women), I can do it. But autism isn't all negative. Find something you are passionate about. I hear a lot of times I talk with a lot of enthusiasm about the things I love. People like te be around positive and enthusiastic people.…
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:46 PM
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For 3 years now. When I first started it was terrifying AND awkward. After almost all my nights out I write down some notes about my feelings about the night and what can be improved. I still have my notes from my first nights out. First I hardly dared to step foot inside the club. But the girls reacted pretty well to my surprise, I think because I was honest in my approach. I asked her what her new years resolution was (this was in january). Then I told her: "I am working on my resolution right…
/r/seduction04/03/17 03:59 PM
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You don't "have to". But if your unsatisfied with the amount and quality of women in your life, cold approach is a great way to change that.
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:35 AM
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During one of my bad nights out, I approach for 2 hours without succes. At the end of the night I went to the exit with my head hanging low and feeling like shit. When I looked one last time over my shoulder to the dancefloor, I saw this girl I approach earlier that night and who got pulled away by her girlfriend. I decided to approach one more time that night. This time I got a make-out with her. I assure you that was one of the best make-outs I ever had. Not because she could kiss very well, b…
/r/seduction02/03/17 12:50 PM
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Though I am honored you posted this question underneath my post, I think it is better to ask this question in the Main Seddit. I don't see what is has to do with my post... To answer your question: Looks and money don't matter. It is a epiphany you will reach at some point. Social circle can help you to get laid, but you don't need it to get laid. I personally like cold approach above all else :)
/r/seduction02/03/17 12:29 PM
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One of the important principles of pickup: Don't give a f*ck what anybody thinks of you
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:33 PM
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Dont be hard on yourself. You dont have to keep up with everyone at social media. Just keep your attention to your say 5 best friends. Most of those social media friends aren't real friends and won't stick around when you go trough bad times. Focus your energy on your 5 best REAL friends and you will get much more out of that.
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:21 PM
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Haha I love this idea! :D What you also can do is 10 pushups when you break the 3 second rule. You have to do those pushups right away in the club, so a win-win because it will help you to get outside your head :)
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:18 PM
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Don't give up on pickup! The best PUA's were coming from the lowest point. You dont have to be rich or good looking to pick up girls, just focus on the skills. Check out some youtube videos from RSD, certainly helped me a lot. Monk mode is a stupid idea. But you can try NoFap. I am part of the nofap reddit and welcome you to join too!
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:14 PM
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Go with her to standup comedy :)
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:56 PM
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I was nervous as hell on my first dates and it turned pretty awkward. The only solution I found was going on more dates. It's all familiarization. You are not used to going on dates so its freaks you out. When you have had multiple dates you will be way more relaxed and the dates will go better.
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:51 PM
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If you ask her out on a date and she ignores you, then she probably doesn't love you. Next time she gives you an IOI try to escalate and otherwise she is just playing games with you. Don't get affected by it. Another option is to make her jealous by flirting with other girls, then she will chase YOU.
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:46 PM
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Maybe you were too direct. You could have said: Hi, you stood out/ I noticed you, are you Irish? Then you give her room to answer and to let her invest in the conversation.
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:40 PM
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It won't "leak" into your night game. What could happen is that you need some more time to warm up during night game if you didn't do daygame. So do some exercises to begin you night like "Open all, limit time between interactions". That will get you into state.
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:28 PM
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So what's the problem? If she loves you just ask her out on a date or something and escalate.
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:24 PM
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3 seconds rule. If you see the girl approach within 3 seconds or otherwise your mind will come up with excuses. So next time you see her approach instantly and tap on the shoulder and throw in you opener: Hi, im (name), who are you?
/r/seduction27/02/17 07:09 PM
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"Don't do what everybody else does." Dont start the messaging with hi how are you what do you do. Start with some joke or something that stands out on her profile. Personally i think tinder is a waste of time and just do daygame.
/r/seduction27/02/17 07:07 PM
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Do not overthink your approach. For example, you can approach with: Hi, I am (name), who are you? Or you can open right away with a story: Hi, you dont believe what happend to me yesterday.... What helps is "ASSUMING FAMILIARITY". This means that you pretend that the stranger is actually a friend of you and you approach that way, like: "hi how are you, bla bla bla"
/r/seduction26/02/17 12:27 AM
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Love this story, sounds to me like you read: Ayn rand, The Fountainhead. If you didnt read that book, you should! It is about men and purpose and building :) Follow your passion, dont dabble because you are afraid of failing. Are you a dabbler?
/r/seduction26/02/17 12:23 AM
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David Deida. The way of the superior man. That book is awesome! It talks about how a man should be on his purpose. It is also suitable for relationships because especially in relationships a man should be on his purpose. You shouldn't take too much shit from your women cause she will lose respect of you.
/r/seduction20/02/17 03:21 PM
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You wrote: ""Will you be my girlfriend?" seems kinda childish". But you can ask this if you ask it confident and un-apologizing, she will probably like it. But it is also a bit chode to say, so you should wait with the question and let her chase first.
/r/seduction20/02/17 02:04 PM
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Go Out! Just go out in the evening to some bar on your own. Then approach the first girl you see in the bar. Get used to talking to girls. This is gonna be hard, it was really hard for me too, but if you push through you get really get there and that's the best feeling ever, even better as sex. Because sex is instant gratification and pushing your comfort zone and working on long steady progress is something which gives a lot of validation and self respect. Good luck man!
/r/seduction20/02/17 01:52 PM
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