In the seduction community and here on Seddit, I found a lot of focus on details and quick-fixes. But what I love about the pickup journey is the long hard road of trial and error.
When I first started with pickup I went out alone to a bar or club. Because I was alone I was forced to approach, otherwise I would stand alone and awkward all night. My first nights out were rough and I was very happy when I would have a 5 minute conversation with a random girl. I remember I was so happy when the third night I was out, a girl told me: “I like your confidence”. This was the only compliment I got that night but it made my night awesome. Other nights will be very rough and almost everyone will ignore you or turn their backs to you, but at the end of the night you will have 1 good interaction which is completely worth it.
I use these anekdotes from my first nights out as illustration that there is no magic pill. You will always get rejected, even the best PUA’s get rejected. The difference between the PUA’as and you is that they don’t let rejection influence them negatively.
I would love to hear some story’s from you of bad nights out and the long hard road to success.