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don’t take it personally, it’s just your turn, there are 100s other with whom she was like that, you’re no special right now for her, just another guy she spoke with to kill get time, hence it’s just your turn, p.s. i’m not discouraging you or being pessimistic with you.
/r/seduction20/05/26 07:23 AM
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summer festive season sale..buy 2 at $4, get 4 free
/r/seduction13/05/26 11:59 AM
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i have it for 4.49
/r/seduction13/05/26 11:46 AM
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classic push pull on her
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:30 AM
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muu me leke maanega kya bkl
/r/seduction21/04/26 01:10 PM
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but how are you meeting them? while travelling
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:45 AM
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if you require medication then yes do take them, but for self talk, it’s like you’re the average of 5 people you spend the most time with, if you can’t seem to find them in real life right now, find them on youtube or books, read listen watch them, it’ll start to rub off on your personality, take care
/r/seduction20/04/26 06:10 AM
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change the self talk, you’ll see results
/r/seduction20/04/26 06:05 AM
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+1, waiting for it
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:55 PM
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can you advice any not so terrible opener
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:53 PM
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agree to the most of it, good content thou
/r/seduction22/09/25 05:54 PM
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how’s this free it you’ve added in app purchase?
/r/seduction29/07/25 06:33 AM
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buddy, you got those two programs with you to share?
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:25 AM
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honestly, thats a pretty generic answer, it’s like asking someone how to deal with anxiety, and you answer ‘just be confident, learn to enjoy the life dance’, you’re not providing any insights, and it’s completely ok even if you don’t wish to for any reason, but don’t answer with such open ended statements which could have thousands of interpretations. anyway cheers.
/r/seduction25/05/25 11:15 AM
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i have two questions you might be able to answer. 1)what’s the right way to approach a girl in your circle you don’t know much about but she’s the a 9/10 and she knows that she got attention by all. 2) what’s the right way to approach a 9/10 who’s got all the attention and is unknown to you, say you met her at a mall/library/market/club(day and night both situations separately)
/r/seduction25/05/25 05:20 AM
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and how does one deal with such a situation
/r/seduction25/05/25 04:48 AM
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except salmon bhoi
/r/seduction10/11/24 05:42 PM
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Please correct me if I’m wrong, also don’t wanna sound like a dick but don’t you think body modification is because people somehow have this insecurity with how they look and that’s how they end up modifying themselves? It’s basically an unsettled insecurity about they’re looks and how they see themselves.
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:23 AM
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What about lying in relationships? By women. Should a person with this red flag be trusted for a ltr.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 07:29 PM
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Do we have any studies about this? Also, is it just ED, or do we have anything else as well in the long run?
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:03 PM
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And what clues would you look for, can you give some examples?
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:38 PM
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How nice, which operator do you fly for?
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:11 PM
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I believe there a reddit PPL program. Not sure how good it is, but you may check.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 09:31 PM
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So, how exactly does one figure it out whether a girl has that wifey/ltr quality? Is it her personality, her habits, her relationship with family and friend, her family’s relationship amongst themselves? Or what? How does one asses that?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 05:18 PM
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OP, this comment! Underrated.
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:07 AM
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Good share bud.
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:04 AM
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Insightful.
/r/seduction21/03/21 08:43 AM
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And that’s why you should always stay away from the drama.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:09 AM
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It seems to be a paid online course. Got any specific link?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 06:09 AM
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Nice man. I want to know more about this. If you have any video/article and could share, that’ll be great.
/r/seduction16/08/20 06:11 PM
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I really like this analogy, could you elaborate a more on this?
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:06 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/seduction09/08/20 12:32 PM
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Not a native english speaker, could anyone suggest, how can the communication part be improved during these times?
/r/seduction09/07/20 05:32 AM
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Good stuff!
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:55 PM
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Can you tell more about vibe? What kind of vibe should you be throwing out to attract a potential person. Also, how can someone introspective about their own vibe? Asking someone is one option, but is there any other way we can analyse it?
/r/seduction23/06/20 09:17 AM
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I don’t want people here to bash out on me for saying this but physical attraction isn’t just admired online. Being fit, hitting gym regularly, being in shape does pay you well in most of the social interactions. Yes, it’s not all. But it does play some role.
/r/seduction06/06/20 06:22 AM
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Tell us about this strategy of yours.
/r/seduction06/06/20 06:17 AM
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It comes when you’re least bothered about getting it.
/r/seduction12/04/20 04:03 PM
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Well drafted post OP. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:40 PM
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Bingo!
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:45 PM
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It’s tough to be a wussy I know. That’s ok, be like this. No one’s gonna harm you.
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:32 PM
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Books-The way of the superior man, how to win friends and influence people. Podcast-mark manson Videos- RSD(youtube)
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:58 PM
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What the fuck is your problem, you have women in your life, you know how to play it. What else are you crying for? Yes you have to earn it the hard way, yes it might not yield the same results but why the fuck do you expect it to be easy for you? It’s like crying to dealer Why have you been dealt with tough hand but the other guy with easy one. That’s stupid. Not every question has to be answered. That’s life. Take it or leave it. And from what you’ve written, I can tell you’re playing your hand…
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:38 PM
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Asking me or telling me?
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:32 PM
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Fucking go to a mall. Stop this habit of ‘please spoon feed me’. You’ve got a problem, atleast use your brains to find a solution. Worst that’s gonna happen is you realising that place is not a worth to you. Then you go to some other place. And then another. Finally you’ll reach where you belong.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:32 PM
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It broke you because you are the kind of person who runs on other people’s validation for you. The self-talk that goes in your mind is not working for you, it’s working against you. Change it, before someone gives you a real pill to do that.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:28 PM
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Sir you don’t have to answer me or anyone, if it’s a conscious decision that you’ve made about yourself or your life then kudos to you. But if you’re hiding from the part where you have to put effort into something that you created with someone(a relation as you call it) then probably you’re running from life. That’s called playing it safe. Bcoz life is not happy and cheerful emotions always. And I’ll tell you a secret, even if you manage to play it safe and try to be happy like that, it’ll get …
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:26 PM
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Why is it that ‘they’ are in the exception and it’s not you? Do you know the answer? And No it’s not the fucking luck. It’s because they know that whatever the cards life has dealt you, you have a choice, either to cry about it, or learn the game and win the hand.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:17 PM
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Find some other place where you think you’d be celebrated then.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:09 PM
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What’s with the ‘maybe’? You either are or you you are not. If that maybe is there then think probably it’s not the choice that has put you in this but it’s rather something else, insecurities ‘maybe’?
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:03 PM
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‘In conclusion: yes i am ugly’ wow, I pity you bud, the way you’re concluding yourself or rather your life, with a remark from a girl who doesn’t even know you. The level of self respect that you have is too low. Talk some sense man, who the fuck is she to validate you. Why the fuck is your self worth so low that you have to take someones validation.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:01 PM
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It’ll work like charm I’m telling you, just believe in it.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:56 PM
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mind blown away
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:51 PM
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Theory (from books, videos, podcast, or a social group from where you can learn) + practical.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:51 PM
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‘The way of the superior man’ read it.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:47 PM
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Gosh! Have some patience will ya?! Let it digest. Mean time why don’t you listen to some of mark mansons podcast.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:45 PM
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Reveal the truth then sir.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:36 PM
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I also have got long hair. I don’t get thick beard, but then fuck that, I’m awesome anyway ;)
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:22 PM
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A lot here did.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:21 PM
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Epilator is what you need then.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:20 PM
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Indeed they are. Everyone’s got their own learning graph. But what people don’t realise is that, that graph can be curved as per you need. You are the designer of your own life and not any power sitting in the sky, dictating our fates.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:19 PM
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Find them in books, podcast, videos.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:16 PM
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Well I haven’t studied psychology or anything but I can certainly tell you that being physically appealing is a plus point, probably it’s deep down rooted in our brains that being good looking has something to do with healthy genetics and that’s why we chase it. But that’s not the only criteria sir. If that was the ultimate truth then 7.6billion people wouldn’t have been here.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:15 PM
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Partly true, but you’ve conditioned yourself to think like this. There are plenty of guys who are not physically appealing but are scoring chicks like anything, now you give me the reason for that sir.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:11 PM
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Glad that you’re truthful to yourself. It shows confidence and self acceptance. Good for you bud.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:08 PM
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That’s just an upper layer of you. Yes people are superficial these days but not everyone. Some do want to know the content of the book, and not reject it but it’s title.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:06 PM
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You are an average of the 5 people you hangout with most. So if you want to be amazing at social skills hangout with those amazing people. If you can’t find them in real life, find them in books, podcast, videos.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:05 PM
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Be the fucking king of that desert then.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:03 PM
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I know its a choice. But we need to be aware whether it’s a conscious choice or an unconscious one.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:01 PM
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If you’re going out alone and feeling bored then certainly you’re not in a good company. Change starts from within. It’s not about soda or drinks. It’s about whether you’re enjoying yourself first. If you’re not enjoying your own company then who’d?
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:50 PM
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You mean not being needy I guess, or rather an abundant mindset.
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:07 PM
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True that.
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:05 PM
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7.6 fucking billion people, roughly half of it women, roughly 1/3 of your age bracket, thats still in millions. And you think all of these millions are not available?
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:01 PM
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Go for an autist then. No offence.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:48 PM
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It was easy right?!
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:46 PM
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If you aren’t seeking out for skills then why even lurking here on r/seduction bud. We all know it’s not JUST the looks, there’s something apart from looks which distinguishes you from that good looking guy at the bar. What is that? Is it the charm(that you learned to fabricate and now is natural to you) or is it something else? Do figure it out on yourself.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:43 PM
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Social skills is a very broad term. Seduction is part of it. So be precise what you have, skills to seduce or skills to socialise.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:36 PM
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This thing my prof used to tell us. That there are two types of people. 1) people who’re more like a Push-start- They always need some external push to get through in life. 2) People who are self-start- who are self motivated. Always strive to be the latter one bud.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:33 PM
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Work on your physical appearance, if not your natural appearance.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:11 PM
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Only purpose of money is to make it less of an effort for you, by gaining access to things(materialistic, like the crowd you hangout or the places you visit, stuff like that). But it can’t make it effortless. And even if it does make it effortless, then there’s no point in chasing it bud, coz it just spoiled the fun of it at the first place.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:07 PM
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1) First thats not you, could be a coincidence. 2) If it ain’t first(and you know it) the remember this bud ‘You attract what you are and not what you want’. And in that case - change your vibe.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:02 PM
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Money does work to an extend, but not always.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:58 PM
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Lol, my last was like this. But hey, nothing to worry, plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:57 PM
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We don’t try things because either they are not important to us or we don’t have the necessary skillset to handle them(making us feel afraid and so we quit).
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:56 PM
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Things that came on top of the mind. Could be: 1) Afraid of it(Or fear of unknown, you might be afraid on hows and whats of relationship) 2) lack of skillset(can be learned) 3) Deep down you don’t want that. And you’re seeking it because you think that’s what is normal in this society. Could be other things also, but these are some generic I things.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:54 PM
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Bud just remember this, emotions are never permanent. They do trick you to believe that you’d last forever with these emotions but that ain’t true. So take what you feel, don’t resist. Bcoz it’s not going to remain as it is.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:48 PM
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Ask yourself where are these expectations coming from? Have you learned behaviour of having expectations this from people?! Or is it self made. If you’ve learned it then probably some self awareness is needed as to why you’re following something that you might think is the righteous think to do. And if it come from within you then see within yourself if the expectations are genuine or something made out of thin air. Sometimes having expectations are good, but you should know that even being in a…
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:35 PM
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Well for the first thing, their ain’t any pill bud, it’s the right eating that you’ll have to do. Feed yourself with that food day in day out. And the body(mind) will grow. And for the second thing, the idea of being ugly or good looking comes only when you compare yourself with someone that you may think is good looking. So it’s not that you think you’re ugly, rather it’s the importance you give in your mind to the kind of people that you think who are good looking. Preaching self love, is the …
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:29 PM
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Bless you mate! Do you have got any video material by ‘em?
/r/seduction18/07/19 04:46 PM
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But I don’t want it to affect my profession life. I mean, people talk about each other and I know I can’t really do anything about it, but I don’t want my future seniors to have a prejudice about me as the guy who has just got one motive. I’m not rejecting what my personality is, it’s just that I’m asking how can I be a bit more careful with the my game so that I’m not throwing clear signs to people around me that I’m talking to girls with just one intention that is to sleep with them.
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:15 PM
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What if you don’t have your own place? How do you go about that?
/r/seduction11/06/19 03:04 AM
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Ok so anyone doing approaches in Delhi? Let’s hit it together guys!
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:27 PM
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I loved it!!
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:49 AM
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But we do owe you an upvote for this.
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:34 PM
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Does that mean to start seeing and believing myself to be the version I want to be, rather than focusing on the one I don't wish to be?
/r/seduction22/05/18 09:48 AM
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Sorry for the delay, yes i agree that somehow I'm doing this. I'm in a way playing it safe. Trying to save the situation and saving myself from the fall(if it happens). Fear of seeing myself falling/getting rejected. Maybe I feel, it's because of I'm highly outcome oriented. Which is making it tough for no reason. But the question comes how should I not do this? Because it has become a habit.
/r/seduction21/05/18 10:27 PM
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Couldn't agree more. I guess I needed this. Thanks.
/r/seduction18/05/18 07:03 AM
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