Background- I used to be pretty anxious around women before, (I'm 26M, with no physical experience with women. Never been on a date.)
Have been working on myself since last year & I'm seeing progress as well.
Presently - I can easily talk to random people(mostly guys) and I feel quite confident and appealing (seeing their reaction) while taking to them. I feel they get impressed.
When I'm not doing anything(as I'm a student), I usually spend time at home with family(i.e. less interaction with outsiders), and when I'm out(which is once in fortnight) I'm all over everyone, talking to everybody, making connections. Not sure if I'm a extrovert or introvert but I truly like meeting new people.
Problem - Say while talking to a girl, when I'm having 'man to women' interaction, I freak out and start feeling nausea. I don't feel like eating in front of them(which makes me about going out on dates). Don't even feel like having a meal in advance if I ever plan to meet someone. Due to this all I'm doing is maintaining my relationships with all those potential girls just virtually(texts and calls). I'd give 'em all the excuses not to meet so that I'm not in that position to feel that unpleasantness.
I feel as if I'm trying to save the 'image' of being awesome and confident and charismatic that I think I've made over them by being behind the curtains. I do wanna go meet them, get involved and experience all those great or shitty things in life but this feeling of having nausea is stopping me to meet them.
P.S. - I've been matched with a lot of women over online dating sites over a time but because of this I've never gone out on a date. I do talk to a few of them over calls, but never met them personally.
If anyone knows what I should be doing, how I should be handing this then please direct me.
[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Reggeidt 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link