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Totally. Hugh Jackman‘s ex-wife Deborah Lee Furnass was was trying to hurt and manipulate him. She was 13 years older. Glad he escaped her. Took about 25 years. She supported him while he was blowing up in the movie business and they had kids. Must have been horrible. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:29 PM
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Here is the problem with “boys are shamed into being capitalistically productive.” Men are generally very sex motivated to a level women will never and can never understand. A male dog will literally chew through a fence to have sex with the neighbor dog in heat. And if it’s chain link, he’ll spend days digging under it. Men often risk a 20 year marriage and future relationship with their kids over a one off car sex with a coworker. Being capitalistically productive gives men more options. Talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:54 PM
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Some make it 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:12 PM
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I mean it isn’t women’s fault for liking what they like and it isn’t men’s fault for liking what they like. Sure parents. If I were a dad I’m sure I’d give my sons and daughters an education. Probably a lot about how we’re attracted, how it’s different between genders, and not be ashamed of it. But don’t be a slave to it. And recognize the other party isn’t often aligned with you even if they say they are and seem to be. The lack of parental education is probably why young men like Andrew Tate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:11 PM
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It’s 100% of women want 20% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:53 PM
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You don’t understand redpill. Nothing you said negates redpill research. Redpill doesn’t blame anyone for anything. Dating apps aren’t changing human nature. It expands the sexual marketplace. The marketplace used to be the local mall. Now it’s global. You buy what you can afford and seeing what’s out here in the world changes the behavior of the participants of the marketplace. People have a nature and it plays out the way it plays out. Redpill educates on the reality of that nature, sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:52 PM
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Confirmation bias maybe. People say a lot without actually saying it. Like hearing deeply religious Muslims is a wild experience. They’re telling on themselves. When blue pill folks talk it feels a little like watching that. If you go to relationship advice sub or divorce sub you’ll see blue pillers doing all the wrong stuff to save a marriage. It’s heart breaking to see. And if you try to educate them, you get banned or warned for making “misogynistic generalizations.” So dude thinks massaging …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:12 AM
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No I’ve learned a lot here. As I kept consuming redpill I kept coming here to see what people thought. I thought it was really helpful. Was helpful as my mind was changing to keep a pulse check on everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:05 AM
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No I’ve learned a lot here. As I kept consuming redpill I kept coming here to see what people thought. I thought it was really helpful. Was helpful as my mind was changing to keep a pulse check on everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:05 AM
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This guy is a a tiny twerp so it’s possible he being bulkier is better. Other than that: Women say one thing but fuck the other. Listening to what a woman says makes a very frustrated and confused blue pill man. Any man that has lived on both sides of that body shape knows the fit body gets more short term attention. Much less resources to get sex. Marrying and fucking aren’t the same selection process. Super fit handsome men are often problematic life partners for women because men tend exercis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:09 PM
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That’s what he said. The unethical is happening a lot more than people admit. I don’t understand what you don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:36 PM
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Strongly disagree. Probably most women would rather be in a relationship than not but there’s a vanishing point of happiness and compromise. How many shitty 5 year relationships does a woman go through before she throws In the towel? It is true the men they won’t don’t want them. Thats what makes them single. Or the man they want doesn’t want to close off his options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:27 AM
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Laws are created to enforce their morality on others. It’s not a choice. Prostitution is only ok if it’s on camera but not if it’s not on camera? Laws are passed to restrict abortion because God doesn’t like it? Don’t hurt anyone. Be honest. If a guy wants to see a prostitute, how is that immoral? They’re consenting. No one is hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:25 PM
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When you turn 18-20, every thing I your head was planted there by parents teachers pastors. As an adult, you are supposed to systematically review all the things you thought you knew and ask are you sure, how do you know, and what do I believe? Am I really a liberal like my parents? Am I gay despite my pastors telling me that’s a sin? Am I an atheist? Don’t hurt anyone and be honest is the basis for all lasting moral systems. It’s what love means. It shows respect. If a man wants to be married t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:21 PM
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You asked a question and I answered. Hard to break the news to you but there are cults everywhere. You think it’s healthy to grow up a Muslim girl? Covered head to toe, even at the gym, and told you can’t divorce the man that beats you? That’s a death cult. They really believe the prophet was given the final word of God. Can you please answer the question? Who has the authority to tell me what’s moral?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:17 PM
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Be honest and don’t hurt covers what you just said. My parents were raised in a mind control cult that gave all autonomy to the discretion of the cult leaders. They both dumped decades of their lives working for free and at their own expense to enrich the leadership and that was moral to them. It hurt their conscience to make decisions for themselves. So yes. I reject that. They said be honest and don’t hurt anyone, a value system I retain. Who has the right to say what is moral? If I’m going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:07 PM
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It’s modern to not have anyone’s morality tell me how I’m supposed to live. One persons morality says it is ok to throw acid in a woman’s face for the sin of going to college and another’s morality says it’s ok to marry multiple underage girls because the leader said so. These people have morality police which just serves to subjugate people. Be honest and don’t hurt anyone covers living in a pluralistic society. I reject any idea that I need anyone to aim me. I’m a grown ass man. It’s my right …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:50 PM
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The only morals that matter are: be honest and don’t hurt anyone. Do whatever you want but be honest and don’t hurt anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:13 PM
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I don’t think Selma Hayeks husband feels like a pet. He’s a billionaire, charming and briliant. She’s wildly in love with him. He’s ugly as hell. Lots of examples like that. In the blend of 10 things that make a woman deeply love you, if one is lower, like looks or height or charisma or any of them, the other areas can compensate plenty. You underestimate a woman’s ability to deeply love and respect a man who isn’t physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:03 AM
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I agree. This is the general buzz with women. Find a reliable stable man with a good job who is heavy, or ugly-ish or otherwise not dating app friendly. This is well suited to a woman’s goals and is a good deal for the ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:57 PM
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Good question. Our software wants signs fertility, and beauty and peace at home. Not looking to her for resources and charisma can be risky. Think of it in terms of her being his queen and the mother of his kids. She has his children and his resources. Shy men might desire your wife or gf but might be afraid to approach. If she’s putting in all the effort by being charismatic, men mistakenly think that means she wants sex. “Wow this girl is really charming and friendly and is interested in me. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:03 PM
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Glad she got that off her chest. Sounds like she’s with a good man and hard working partner. After her little vent she should feel better so she can get back to planning shit for her family. Her husband is good at all the things she’s good at. That’s why men and women are better together. It’s not why her husband or “all men” (her phrase at the beginning of the video) need to become good at the things she’s good at. She should thank her husband for working hard for the family. Lots of women woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:45 PM
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To tinker: All relationships are transactional but the more invisible the transaction, the better the relationship is. Men and women deeply in love don’t say “I’m getting sex” and “he’s providing resources.” They do that but it’s a wanted and eagerly pursued transaction. “This is my baby girl and I’m so in love I want to give her the world.” And “This fucking man is so masculine and such a good provider I just want to fuck his brains out.” This is what blue and black pilled guys fight with. “Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:11 AM
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Redpill is very healthy for lasting loving relationships because it’s reality. You don’t learn about hypergamy and automatically become a manipulative selfish cheating asshole. Redpilled men women make wonderful life partners when they want to have that. The man feels this is the love of his life and the woman feels this is the most masculine man she’s ever met. And they want to fuck a lot. When their goals of wanting a family and being in it for the long haul align, redpill allowed them to navi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:52 AM
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I don’t see it here as much as in real life and other reddit subs but men are also shamed for not being attracted to very heavy or being more attracted to younger women than older women. It’s pretty pointless to do that. Strong genetic software running in the background. The beauty of redpill is you can make decisions based on reality, even if that reality is bad. Lots of men go through an anger and denial phase, like the stages of grief and I’ll see them come here and rage about it. Eventually …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:29 AM
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Sorry anyone would make you feel that way. Being redpilled means not having emotion about what you just described but just accepting and adapting to it. It’s not possible to shame women in general into lowering their standards and not many individual women would be susceptible to that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:16 AM
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Don’t think he said all. Not sure I’ve seen anyone say all women except maybe some black pilled guys. Averages and trends are made up of all people in the sample but it makes averages and trends. It’s why they’re called averages. Not all. Psychology only works because it’s reliable enough. The outliers aren’t all either and don’t negate the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:13 AM
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Oh you make the mistake of being too honest. It’s only funny if it’s true and this is a funny comment. That’s called “make rules for betas (I’m a size 7.5) and break rules for alphas (he just needs some work and I can fix him and my God his abs are yummy and that fucking hairline and he made me nut 4 times last night and I want more)”. Her response is it was a mistake. The guys who she made the mistakes with probably didn’t think it was a mistake. In her defense, a girl has to try or she’ll neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:08 AM
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She sounds wild. I’m going I guess I ignored her red flags when we were dating and my dealing process post divorce will be taking responsibility for marrying this person when I knew better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:47 PM
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No. Strong prochoice and atheist here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:18 PM
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This is a little bit of a conservative Christian/Muslim blending of values. Not redpill really. If it’s ok to take BC, an abortion is very similar in effect. Hormonal BC aborts babies about 40% of the time because the egg can’t implant, for the times when the egg drops even though she’s on BC. RP is “what it is.” Christian or religious “is what it ought to be” which is not RP. Abortions have their own emotional issues but like it or not, it is 100% a woman’s choice. What is the right level of te…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:17 PM
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Not trying to contradict myself. A man whose wife leaves him needs to take responsibility for what he did and didn’t do. He chose her. He ignored red flags. He let himself go. He wasn’t paying attention. He was fine she went dancing without him and came home smelling like alcohol and cologne at 3am because he trusted her. He needs to look in the mirror and realize what he was supposed to have done differently. Ok she cheated. What responsibility can you take? A woman too can say my husband cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:27 PM
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Maybe yeah. Stephen crowder is a weak whiny beta bitch. Can easily tell his wife ran the marriage when you listen to the audio of them fighting. Begging her for stuff. Very embarrassing. Ben Shapiro maybe too. It doesn’t seem misogyny and wanting to abolish no fault divorce is as linked as conservatism is. But maybe. People listen to glen beck Rush Limbaugh or whoever and they just think whatever thoughts are blasted at them and the echo chamber for this belief is in the conservative arena. Peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:18 PM
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Thanks for the answer. Sexually liberated would be like having a some substantial period of time on a military base or club scene fucking dozens of guys. Sometimes girls will travel to find themselves and it’s like 6 months of fucking tons of guys. Maybe ran through is what I meant but I didn’t want to sound derogatory. Edit: and still not being judgy about it. I know what you mean by good people proud to be friends with and no idea what happens behind closed doors. Sounds like all my friends in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:09 AM
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Maybe listen to conservatives a bit more. Google it search YouTube for no fault divorce. It’s part of many conservative pundits platform to get rid of it. It’s very popular in conservative circles. Matt Walsh, michael Knowles, Stephen Crowder, Time pool, and lots in the redpill space like Andrew Wilson. It’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:43 PM
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Yep. She may have changed. But did she? Hard to know. All I know is she’s slept with guys who she doesn’t even remember and she was horny. You know what? Let’s go all in baby!!! Roll the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:53 PM
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Can I ask, your colored hair friends were sexually liberated? Are they calling their sons they/them, are they in open marriages, do they talk about their husbands as if they are in love and the relationship will last? Being a good mom doesn’t men being a good wife. And if she’s not good wife, hard to say you’re a good mom. It can happen. But if being a lousy wife leads to a divorce, the kids are collateral damage. Asking in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:47 PM
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Word. Some victim bitch post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:31 PM
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If a man cares for himself, he can look hella handsome at 52. For many men, their very first marathon or triathlon happens after the age of 50. By then they have the financial and time stability to be able to manage something like this. I don’t think there’s any reason for a man to “let himself go” unless he’s got cancer or something. It’s his burden to keep the attention with his wife going. Dates, sex, flirting, dress and smell nice, don’t get fat. If he can’t, he should look in the mirror whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:28 PM
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No fault divorce is great and I don’t understand why anyone would think otherwise. The only recourse anyone has if they’ve decided they won’t be a manipulator or hit their spouse is to walk. You appeal to the heart, appeal to the mind, then you walk. That’s your entire toolbox for fixing a marriage. Locking people in a marriage or relationship with some legal bullshit sounds like prison. Condemning no fault divorce is very popular in conservative circles and I think that’s insane and just a reci…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:12 PM
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Edit: I love you baby. Just having fun in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:05 PM
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I agree with this post. And some respondents are claiming this can’t be true because some people were upset about Eve in the Bible which is some bullshit. The 80s and 90s portrayed women as gentle and soft and the prize and not superficial and having good motive. Men were Fred flintstone and Homer Simpson. The straight men in movies were always the good guy who respected her because she deserves to have a man respect her not like those guys that just want sex. Social media and TikTok have helped…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:58 PM
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Date for casual physical intimacy, could be, if she isn’t gross. Life partner no. Lazy, no offline friends, hooked on porn and fast food are all deal breakers. What kind of mother or wife will that make her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:04 AM
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No didn’t say that. That’s the other extreme from the comment I was responding to. I don’t advocate all or nothing thinking. And the value of a woman is measured by the men who interact with her and the value of a man is measured by the women how interact with him. Virginity of a man isn’t valued by women generally and a low body count for a man is also not valued as highly as other traits, like confidence and financial stability. Men value virginity or chastity or low body count. That’s because…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:00 AM
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The RP doesn’t desensitize anything. When you have one option, she’s your hottest option. When you have 50, you have to prioritize because you don’t have time for them all. So you pick according to whatever are your attraction cues and turn offs. Women do the same thing. As your options grow, you’ll tend to pick the best of that option group.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:43 PM
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You show quite a disdain for black men in your comment and post history. You probably had more options than your realize. Having Options doesn’t mean good options. It means having lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:56 PM
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I’ve been banned for saying something as benign as “men are 15% larger and have a grip strength 400% stronger than women” I was told “you’re promoting sexist tropes” for stating facts and data. Archeologists, biologists, medical professionals, and people who read are fucked on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:42 AM
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I was doing the identical thing as another, female, Redditor. I’m ok being called snarky and trolling if it’s fair with everyone. Some bullshit here. Let’s debate. Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:59 AM
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The poster wrote a satirical version of what a read husband should be if he were what men say they want. It was clever. Easy to argue against. I just posted the same thing but from a man’s perspective. This is called debate. Not trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:52 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:51 AM
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Exposing hypocrisy isn’t trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:51 AM
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I did
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:49 AM
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Reinstate my post. I like free speech
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:17 AM
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Well let’s see what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:17 AM
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There are tons of effeminate, obedient, poor bitch men in society. You’ll have no trouble finding this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:31 PM
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Your personal experience isn’t a generalization that can be applied to everyone. Most women have as much sexual attention and optionality as an A list actor. Dan literally go to the grocery store and most random men will be ok to have sex. This attention tends to diminish in time. Glad you’re having great options as a 30 year old. Sorry you have few in your 20s. The exception proves the rule. Could be a lot of reasons. 20 year old you would generally be preferred over 30 year old you and 30 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:07 AM
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Yes they do. Statistically Much less than women. “Men cheat to stay, women cheat to leave” is a stereotype that has merit. It’s something like 15% of men fall in love with their affair partner, women it’s closer to 80%. That why many movies show the frustration women have with dating a married guy who won’t leave his wife. “I need more time.” It’s even in pop culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:43 AM
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Confused sad men say AWALT. RP is about tendencies and observed behavior. The only AWALT statement that is true is “all women are human”. After that it’s just generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:24 AM
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Women can’t have it both ways! They can’t prefer a 6’ tall man if they aren’t 6’. They can’t prefer square jaw and broad shoulders unless they have that. Could be men and women prioritize different things and that’s ok. No one is at fault. It’s not personal. It’s not an attack. Relationships are a gamble. A 100 n count girl is a bigger gamble than a 3 N count girl for a wife. For a fuck, it doesn’t matter. Sexual discipline is very important for a man to master his life. It doesn’t mean he needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:19 AM
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Saying women are perfect or better or more virtuous because they’re women isn’t stating facts. It’s equally as sexist. Describing observed behavior shouldn’t need to be curated simply because it puts a gender in a negative light. Men tend to prefer…women tend to prefer….men tend to behave like….women tend to behave like. Sometimes it’s pretty and sometimes it’s ugly. It’s ok to make generalizations based on gender. That’s what psychology is. It’s not everyone. It’s mostly true or mostly true und…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:30 PM
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I’ll let Derek Jeter know he fucked it up. Girls won’t want him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:23 PM
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DNA isn’t a straight jacket with regard to behavior. You and I can control our own behavior so it’s not fatalism. But generalities in society aren’t going change because I read a book and went to a breath work yoga retreat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:54 PM
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RP has bad news for most men. It’s easier now to enter the top 20% than ever before in history as a man, but still 80% of men are invisible. Reality is full of good and bad. RP doesn’t apologize or worry about hurting peoples feelings. If you’re 5’3” man, you can be wildly successful with women. But it’s a much harder task than if you’re a 6’3” man and that is no one’s fault. How does that favor anyone? It women who select the tall men, not RP. RP just describes it. A woman’s N count matters. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:04 PM
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Discord is ok. I’m not a circle jerker. I’m here to let people change my mind and talk it out so I can hear myself to make sure I’m rational. I love women and have good healthy relationships with women. RP has made me respect them more and also respect myself more. Generally have nothing bad to say about women and am not upset at the current dating market. It’s pretty cool for me and is getting better over time. If that’s your jam, throw your discord here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:54 PM
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If women aspire to be in a lasting relationship and have her husband love her, she’ll work to develop qualities he finds attractive, like humility, frugality, common sense, and physical beauty. Being humble isn’t a character flaw or show weakness. It doesn’t make a girl gullible or make it more likely to fool her. Humility makes her a better life partner. The challenge for women who value humility in relationships is the marketplace and business world doesn’t run on humility. It runs on capitali…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:40 PM
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Your post shows you don’t know what the RP is even saying. RP has no one’s interests in mind. It’s information. It’s not a value system and doesn’t tell anyone what do to or what aught to be. It simply says what it is. As we learn more, it changes, the same as any data set. It’s debates like this that stray into actionable judgement calls. Relationships are a gamble. RP helps you identify the risks and rewards much better. Women can use RP knowledge to maximize their happiness in relationships a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:02 PM
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Hypergamy isn’t going anywhere. It’s a hardwired program that never stops running. It’s why the pool of acceptable men is shrinking from the perspective of now enabled and empowered women. Women are leveling up and men need to be a little better with no end in sight. Having women be equal to men in income and education creates a math problem for women since their guy needs to be a little better for her to maintain attraction. It’s not all money based. Can be his looks and intelligence or other f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:49 PM
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I agree with this post. Men blaming women for their unhappiness is stupid and wont make anyone happy. Genders seeing each other as enemies or adversaries is so bad for us as people and as a society. We’re in this together and we need each other and we’re happier together than we are apart. A feminism has stacked the happiness cards against men in some respects. This is worth talking about. Men being with men is very important. But it isn’t the same as women being with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:24 PM
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There’s some limit to speaking for “all men” and “all women” of course. People’s limits and what they’ll tolerate in a relationship changed over time and through the public war of ideas. Two main reasons men don’t want a ran through girl as a wife: 1. He has the need to ensure paternity. This is the source of a man’s jealousy. “did you fuck him” is what a man says when he finds his wife’s texts to Chad from accounting. “So you love her” is the wife’s response to the same scenario. David buss has…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:16 PM
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I wrote this as a debate and my feelings have evolved a little. IQ going down has many factors. Partially if you don’t use it you lose it. People can make babies while being idiots because smart people made the world safer and easier to survive in. Hypergamy is a wonderful evolutionary adaptation with some good and bad but overall very successful. Men should stop bitching about it and work with it. It’s not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:59 PM
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I’m referring to behavior, reasoning process and sexual preferences. Im licensed medical professional with my own biology based science degree. I suppose that means you’re aware AI can look at an MRI and guess a persons gender about 90% of the time currently. As it stands, people are perfectly happy to allow women advantages that favor them, to fight an imaginary patriarchy, but when men want advantages, it needs to be equal, or it isn’t fair. Men don’t need to hold themselves to any upper N cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:57 PM
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You’re trying to use societal programming to fight DNA programming. Accepting ugly reality is about honestly and humbly acknowledging we’re intelligent animals with a blend of good and bad as part of our DNA. Socialism is societal programming that comes into conflict with DNA programming in such a way that it creates horrible misery. Conversations can change how we behave and our ethics and what we consider justice and I’m all for that. But we’re sexual animals first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:46 PM
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Not anyone. Thirsty desperate men stay with cheating women all the time. This is a character flaw for these men. For women, Vanessa Bryant was not confused about if Kobe was going to be faithful sexually. A tall handsome charming emotionally engaging wealthy man who is sexually faithful is Prince Charming. A bit of a fairy tale. The women who get to be his queen often look the other way. This is a pragmatic decision. Not a character flaw on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:04 PM
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Yes. Bye, to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:00 PM
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If men and women were the same. We’re not. We overlap about 20% and the rest is different. So no to whatever this comment was supposed to be saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:58 PM
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Not expired. Honestly pretty cool. Women like this, often not always, tend to have been raised in sexually repressed environments like Muslim and other high control cults. When these girls become free to have sex, being the guy she wants to try it all out with is pretty fucking great. Childlike innocence and raw trust. Lots of beautiful qualities in women like this. Also lots of word comments here. The hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:30 PM
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Having sex with a virgin is a great privilege at any age for many men. What a weird blanket statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:26 PM
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We can’t change human nature. Can’t wish women liked things different than they do. Cant wish men liked things different than they do. Adapting to reality is a lot less frustrating than hoping your vision of how it ought to be would be adopted by the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:14 PM
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Ohhhh you’re an English major. Poop is a different word than shit. I’ll agree. But I’m pretty sure we’re talking about the same thing. Taking a smaller data set, creating an average, and using that to predict what you’d find when you encounter other people that weren’t included in the original data set is a generalization. But only if the average is 100% true? Only if the generalization has no exceptions? Ok cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:03 PM
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RP education is a great path to a loving lasting relationship. It doesn’t tell anyone to do or feel anything. It’s just data. People can use the data how they want. Believing pretty lies and fantasies can’t be better than believing things that are true even if they’re not pleasant, IMO, but religious people and BP will disagree. I agree with your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:55 PM
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Saying men are on average 15% larger than women is a generality that isn’t always true, but seeing that allows for entire female sports leagues. The stock market goes up when interest rates fall is a generality that isn’t always true, but you can make a ton of money if you see it. A generality can’t by nature be 100% true, or it would be a law, not a generality. Generalities are great. Helps you see a lot of details and make sense of what’s going on around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:52 PM
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That’s cool. You’re living the way you want and it makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:12 AM
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Sounds like a little mental prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:06 AM
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I agree. Men who help other men make money tend to have friends. Those are the guys whose numbers you save. My closest friends are business owners. They don’t buy my friendship. I like them and I learn from them. Their lives are interesting and their perspectives are healthy to listen to. I have more in common with them. The exchange isn’t monetary. But if they’re talking and not doing, we wouldn’t be as close or I wouldn’t be friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:02 PM
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“A man should not self improve for love or friendship” I disagree. I said my thing. Have fun not self improving if you think that will make you happy. Become a life coach and tell your clients to not worry about becoming better if sex isn’t involved. That’s probably a very popular message among men who don’t get sex anyway and who don’t want to self improve. Men make themselves and their goals their primary importance and sex and money and friends come as a result. It will make me happier to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:47 PM
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Great. You believe I clearly agree with you. I see where this is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:21 PM
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I think you’re intentionally misunderstanding me. There are many reasons to self improve. Having a goal of sex doesn’t mean there are no other goals. Men who have things people want will never be lonely. That could be abs, money, wisdom, jokes, a beautiful home that hosts fun parties, job opportunities, encouragement. I have men who are friends who crush life, they dont pay me. If they aren’t crushing life, they’re not my friends. The men who self improve only to have sex tend to be unhappy in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:52 PM
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I think it’s great. Women who win can brag. Men who win brag too. Win more, and then you can brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:27 PM
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Wow this sounds like you’re trying to use the law to advantage women and disadvantage men. Wonder where I heard this before…affirmative action, divorce court, programs for female run businesses, making genetic testing for new borns illegal unless she consents. This is a disgusting post. Men are adapting to a dating market and it isn’t fair for anyone. We all have to do the best we can with what we’ve been given. You want to lock them in the room with you while you tell them they aren’t good enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:26 PM
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This is a poorly thought out post. Men have a burden of performance in all areas of life. The kinds of friends you can have when you’re not improving vs improving is night and day. Men who don’t improve are not respected by anyone. They repeat the same mistakes, they have nothing to offer as they age because they haven’t invested in themselves. They make for a low quality friends. Sex is a strong motivator to improve but so is poverty, adversity, health problems. A man who improved only to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:02 PM
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You can’t redefine what respect means to a man any more than you can redefine what love means to a woman. Part of the blue pill fantasy is this attempt at redefining. Let’s write articles about how men should be attracted to mature women in their 40s and 50s and tell men they shouldn’t fat shame and call them pedos for wanting to be with a short girl or a petite girl or girl in her 20s when he’s on his 40s or 50s. Also let’s redefine what it means to be respected. Men feel DNA driven visceral re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:51 AM
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From the woman’s perspective, this is a perfectly natural and normal progression mentally. “I deferred to you because of the value you brought. Now I don’t need the value you have because I made my own value, so why should i defer to you?” This is why dating can be so hard for a man still coming up. He needs to have a lot of value and a bright future or she won’t even be attracted and the higher she is and the brighter her future without him, he needs to rise up to match it. If she feels like he…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:57 AM
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Ok. I won’t say polish women will make good wives. Don’t know what you’re fighting for here but polish women make for lousy wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:52 AM
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The west. It is absolutely possible to find a wonderful mother and wife in the west. A woman who was raised in a death cult, was sexually repressed, and raised uneducated sounds like a recipe for a miserable marriage. Women are like flowers. Put them in sunshine and they blossom. Put them in the closet and they whither. You’re marring a human and hoping her childhood didn’t fuck her up. The Middle East fucks women up. You can get the traditionally desirable qualities without the death cult and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:51 AM
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Spoken as someone who ignores rape in the Middle East. Also, unbelievers can be raped without guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:43 AM
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Pretty good summation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:18 AM
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Incorrect summation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:17 AM
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If he’s enjoying paying women to pretend to like him and you’re enjoying getting women to actually like you, not sure how anyone is getting anything wrong. Everyone is consenting. Also there isn’t anything redpill about either activity. There isn’t any insight into how men or women think or behave by paying women to drop their safeguards and purchase their consent. A red pilled guy could do that I guess but it doesn’t show he has any idea how women work so there’s no telling what he actually kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:15 AM
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Sex in this scenario. A woman who will have sex only twice a year doesn’t love you. That’s heartless and selfish. The resentment that would build up and kill the relationship. If we go a week without sex, I’d be able to take a hint and go find a woman who actually cares about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:28 PM
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🤜🤛👌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:06 PM
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5% of men are desired by nearly 100% of women. They get messaged first on tinder or asked to go fuck in the bathroom at the club. These guys can be fuck boys because why not. No need to be in abusive relationship to get sex. They can get it for free and easily. The next 10-15% have lots of options. No need to be in an abusive relationship. They can typically chose which girl and what kind of relationship they want. Can also be fuck boys. The next 80% especially the bottom 50% has so little acces…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:43 PM
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Ok I deeply respect this response. This ship is burning. Let’s dance and fuck I can sort out a life raft when it’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:34 AM
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I don’t cold approach too often but yes that’s true. Any sign of interest, go investigate. What I’m saying is being handsome matters but it’s not the entire story. Handsome men can be called creeps too if they’re creepy. The club scenario was just an illustration about how there are a lot of factors that go into the attraction process besides just being handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:40 AM
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I already know about it. Thanks for humbling yourself to yell at someone so insignificant. You trolled yourself. You need to wack off or have a beer. Chill out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:25 AM
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Being mad “at women” for how they select as a group is like being mad at trees for how they grow. Men who do this are trolling themselves. Being upset at a particular woman for hypocrisy or an overestimation of her value can be perfectly justified. TRP opens the topic enough that a sufficiently determined man can generate attraction for sex and lasting loving relationships. But it can be a lot of work and frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:08 PM
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Well said. If I may tinker: Redpill says truths about men and women, some of it can be seen as harsh for either gender, but it’s better to say it out loud, even the quiet parts, than lie about it, which is the blue pill. Blue pill will see the harsh truths about men to be true and the harsh truth about women to be misogyny and hating on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:01 PM
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Many get stuck at denial and anger and bargaining. They don’t get to acceptance. Good observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:57 PM
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I see that. The spaces men used to approach women have gotten smaller. Bill Gates married his secretary. In any company in American now this is seen as predatory, there can be no genuine consent in this dynamic, and you’ll be fired even if you’re high up in the company. Women pass laws and train HRs to protect themselves from men they find creepy and this trend will continue I’m sure. But parks, concerts, public spaces, bars, clubs, sporting events and coffee shops are fair game for now. Being c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:06 PM
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Being called a creep is an excuse huu uh t it isn’t because they aren’t handsome. Saying that handsome men aren’t creeps and ugly ones are is a gross over simplification. Being handsome is only one of many attraction cues. A man can absolutely display other attraction cues before he approaches and switch from being creepy to being cool. You dont go to a club at 1:15am and take home a girl by 2am. Not even very handsome guys are doing that. You go at 10 and start talking to her at 11:45 and take …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:09 PM
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Your question is about average women at 40 and having limited options. Average men of any age also have limited options. 100% there will be a many men who will marry any average 40 year old woman, never cheat on her. But is she attracted to him? He’s making $26/hr, heavy, not emotionally resilient, small (ahem average for his ethnicity) penis, no degree and mediocre social skills. She’s not proud to take him to her family, can’t get him to dress sharp or lose weight, and is lactose intolerant an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:24 PM
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Perhaps it’s way better than dating apps and IG for some guys. 5’8”, not good looking, means possibly zero swipes on a dating app. In public, a man can showcase his charisma, humor, confidence, and fitness, all valid and real attraction cues. The times I’ve been cold approached by women is when I was with other people and they could watch me interact with my friends at a concert or a bar, or doing gig work and they could see my work ethic. It puts a man in context better to be in the wild than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:23 PM
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Your post is saying “if you want to find a relationship, you should self impose a severe limitation on how you meet women because you don’t know strangers and talking to them is a gamble.” I cold approached a woman, first time ever done that, and ended up marrying her. Married 17 years and later divorced. I still love her and wish her the best. If cold approach makes you afraid, you probably should just cold approach just to get over your fear. I’ve been approached way more than I have approache…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:03 PM
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This isn’t typical girl behavior. This is typical boy behavior. This is how boys communicate and explore. Girls are better behaved and obedient naturally. Boys are more energetic and difficult naturally. It’s an education system that drags boys into an environment well suited to girls. And girls get much better grades and go to college more often than boys. Boys are told it’s their own fault and scolded for their normal behavior because they aren’t behaving like the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:51 PM
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The fMRI studies that are recent show that women and men still have brains that are so different they are easily recognizable to artificial intelligence for gender. 90% accuracy and I bet if you fed those machines more data points, they can get to 95% or more. My suspicion is that when resources are scarce, people access the part of their DNA that is most well suited to survival which would be that the women want to hide behind a strong masculine person who protect them and provide resources for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:10 AM
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Fuck that. No one can tell me how to live. “I think you should have no dopamine whatsoever and that makes common sense to me. Eat kale and celery every day for the rest of your life.” Thanks for responding. I respect you. Thanks for responding. I disagree. Hope the communism team loses everywhere. Invent a better system that cooperates with our genetics and I’m on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:07 AM
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Morality is really a conversation, not a genetic trait. About 2 billion people think that throwing acid in a woman’s face for going to school or raping her for the crime of showing her hair is moral. Even if they don’t say they advocate for it, which many millions directly do, they’re very afraid of saying it’s evil wicked satanic and not something that belongs in society. They’ll simply say that they personally disagree with that. Which is some bullshit. So after sometime, people have conversat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:04 AM
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We are small group primates naturally. Like 20-50 tops. But our language and organizational ability allows us to create armies of 1mill. There’s a lot of debate about what really happened to the Neanderthals. Neanderthals were so muscular and so androgenic, it would have been easy for an adult male Neanderthal to kill five or 10 adult male humans by himself with no weapons. You could not outrun him, he could easily overpower you, and they suspect they could see in the dark. Pretty terrifying. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:51 AM
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I was a New York Lib for most of my adult life and spent quite a bit of time listening to democracy at work and listening to NomeChomsky and socialist ideas. I would say I’m much more informed on socialism than probably any random 1000 people on the street. I liked Burney and AOC. Still do. I am well aware of the inefficiencies of capitalism and a bloody history that capitalism has. It’s terrible. The real tricky run into with communism is that every human has some in a desire to accumulate reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:32 PM
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Probably the way we treat criminals would be greatly enhanced using DNA and MRI brain scans to understand the root cause of certain behaviors. Hospitals could individualized care extremely well with quick DNA sequencing to help the doctor understand what medication’s and antibiotics might help this person. We’re probably 10-15 years away for this already for the medical part. In the US people like vengeance over rehabilitation so that wouldn’t happen probably for longer. As far as intersexual dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:21 PM
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Also, why would anyone be communist? Serious question. That never went well for anyone except the 20 at the very top.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:52 PM
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He’s not be touched that way yet. But he’s on the trans train. His mom is obviously pressuring him to continue and he’s obviously protesting. The chance of him having a healthy loving relationship with his mom when he’s 30 is about 1 in 50 billion, even if he gets no surgery or anything else. If he does, we can only hope it wasn’t a mistake. Kid looks and behaves like a normal boy to my eyes. The mother isn’t hands off letting him “come out”. It’s pressure. It’s heavy. She’s emotionally involved…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:50 PM
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I’m doing good. Someone posted a great study I want to read more about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:44 PM
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It sounds like you’re trying to engage me in a conversation about how many penises of minors is the correct balance level of penises. I don’t wanna have that discussion. The ideology that says our gender is fluid, that our gender is not related to our biological sex, That our brains are essentially the same, that we can choose for ourselves our own gender and sex bias, gives rise to this idea that the best thing for sexually confused at the tender age of 9 to 13 or whatever, is very likely to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:43 PM
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I’m answering everyone in good faith. I’m trying not to misspeak. Gender differences are under reported, not overstated. AI can scan a brain and tell which gender is it 90% of the time. Feed it more data points and I bet it can get it to 95 or 98% over time but 90% is pretty fucking different. This one shows the structure of the brain are different sizes. this leads the differences in cognition, memory, how emotion is expressed. This one shows they handle stress differently. I have no bias here.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:32 PM
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You have stated I hate trans people for having a reasonable and well articulated desire to protect children. If I say I’m equally supportive and indifferent to trans people as I am everyone else in the world, you’d not believe me. I don’t think you’re interested in productive dialogue. I don’t want to back and forth with you. I’m here to learn and expand my horizons, not engage with trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:54 PM
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Puberty blockers is gender affirming care. One dose is not long term irreversible. But puberty blocking puberty is not reversible. At 16 when you can amputate the penis, that child is already altered permanently. Taking to trans apologists for Minors is a bizarre walk through insanity. If a guy wants to be a woman at 18 or 55, that’s great. If someone wants to swim in an ocean of meth and Molly until they die from heart failure at 28 years old, it’s your life, this is your shot. Do you, and be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:39 PM
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Jazz Jennings had it at 11. So my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:28 PM
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Feminism doesn’t seek equality but I’ll answer your question. The conditions that might have merited feminism dont exist. Women are winning everywhere but the drum beat to call men toxic and destroy the patriarchy is relentless. I can find no greater parallel or explanation for what we see in dating and relationships than the mouse utopia. Feel free replace my suggestion with another suggestion. Reduced population is a greater existential threat than anything except nuclear war and AI. That thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:27 PM
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The idea that Percocet wasn’t addictive or additive in only 1% of cases was taken from a footnote from a study that didn’t involve addiction and had no reference to back it up. It was just a stand alone footnote with no apparent backing. “A study showed only 1% of Percocet users become addicted.” It didn’t. No study said that. I was a comment in a study unsupported by evidence. The statement made wasn’t the science. It was a modifier inserted by the authors to steer conclusions a certain way. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:55 PM
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Jazz Jennings doesn’t agree with you. She was 11. She’s also pretty unhappy. She’s not the only one. I’m respectful to everyone here, but due to the potential consequences of your misinformation, you should be ashamed of yourself for posting that. Lie about the world record Rubik’s cube solve time. Not this. This matters. If my son or daughter (I’m childless) told me they were gay or bi or whatever, I’m totally cool with that. If later they decide they’re straight yeah great. Chopping off your d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:51 PM
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I will YouTube how to quote in mobile. I dont see the promt. Whatever we currently are now started about 3.2 million years ago, became one of a few human species about 250,000 years ago and while it is not clear what we did in those days, the data on what we are now is pretty good. I think this is really what the redpill is. What is it? For good or bad or pretty or ugly, what is it now? This is sort of the same argument that carnivore diet advocates try to say, that there were knife marks on ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:35 PM
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That was a comment, not the research. It’s an attempt to prevent the reader from making a conclusion the research might support but the authors don’t want. In academia, talk about gender and genetic based sex differentiated Behaviors is met with more vitriol than it is here on reddit. You can lose your job and all your funding if the women who control the purse get upset at you. Conclusions about men that are not flattering to men, tend to not be tinkered with or softened but unflattering conclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:07 PM
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Biological determinism is an extreme. Im not advocating for an extreme in my post, I’m fighting against one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:56 PM
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That is a fascinating sting article. Thanks for posting that. There were in the 60s these mouse utopia studies where they took mice and put them in an arena where they did not need resources. All the food, all the water, perfect temperature, perfect health and let them see what happened. They fucked and they socialized. Over time, The male became more feminine, the female mice became more masculine, the colonies decided they didn’t want to have children anymore, and the entire society collapsed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:51 PM
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I do Reddit almost exclusively on my phone and I don’t know how to do the quotes on mobile. I’m open to the idea that environment matters a lot on behaviors in a relatively short term. But our behavior is much more elastic, than it is plastic. Elastic meaning, when left to our own devices, we will tend to snap back to our original behavior, plastic would mean that once we are bent, we stay bent forever. I was raised in the Jehovah’s Witnesses mind control death cult since a child, and now that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:43 PM
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Schools as they are now where every child learns to read are a modern invention. Wealthy kids had tutors and the teacher could Taylor his education to the child specifically. The child wasn’t sat in a room with 40 other kids and told to listen to a boring person talk at them for an hour. Poor kids learned masonry. The more modern school type was started in about the 1830s. And states began to make free education mandatory over the decades. The schools are typically run by women, taught by women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:14 PM
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Thanks for completing missing the point and nitpicking an argument out of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:06 PM
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To think women have been socialized to read body language 40% more accurately than men without any formal training or even informal training is pretty nuts. You’re more than welcome to say it’s socialization but I’d like if you had a theory or study or any evidence at all. Here’s one of many articles about the communities. These are feminists. https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/these-parents-let-their-kids-determine-their-own-gender-identity_uk_6493f878e4b0c0ed59b06a7e
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:05 PM
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Does it matter to you that girls tend to choose dolls and boys tend to choose objects like trucks and these selections have been shown to be related to androgens and not societal pressures? The real question at hand is how wired are we? When a gazelle drops out of its mother‘s belly, it’s up and running within a few hours and already knows that it’s supposed to eat grass because the grass smells good and it stays close to its mother and no one needs to tell it to do that. The evidence shows that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:01 PM
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Men and women are more or less capable than each other in many ways. This is one of many studies showing that women are more capable that reading body language. The difference is very great, like 40% more accurate. I can post more like this if you like. Women are also much more successful at guessing what men are sexually unfaithful by simply looking at a photograph than men. I would say this makes women more capable. A woman would evolve these characteristics because of violent man proposes a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:52 PM
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It is now a common belief in psychology that humans do not have free will. We are complex enough that we have what appears to us to be free will. I suppose if you ask a cat why he’s sitting in the sunbeam, he’d say he chose to because it’s warm. Whether we do or don’t have free will, our DNA powerfully affects our decisions. We crave certain foods, seek certain friends, crave love or social acceptance or sex. Humans are animals. Not sure if that’s news to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:44 PM
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I accept this small victory in the market place of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:43 PM
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The comparison I’m making is that our brains are not moldable soft clay. We’re stamped at conception and we can vary a little bit after that instant. Gender and sex and the introduction of androgens during gestation further stamp us for life. Much less social conditioning and much more genetic predisposition. The actual redpill is neutral as to outcome, has no anger or resentment toward anyone. It is an acceptance of what is true, as ugly as that may be. Feminism has an agenda and promotes lies …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:42 PM
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Your post seems sincere so I’ll take it face value. Our brains aren’t clay to be molded by our parents and school. We’re stamped at conception. Our environment matters but not much. The twins studies show this. If twins are stamped, there’s no basis to believe genetic gender is not a factor in personality or preferences. That was my point. David Bus work has not been falsified. Thanks for posting that chart on Judith Mckays work. Judah McKay’s work does talk a lot more about societal pressures o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:37 PM
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Don’t know how this is adding to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:09 PM
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Feminine and masculine change a tiny bit by culture. It’s not a culturally dictated free for all where testosterone doesn’t affect men’s behavior. Men holding hands or kissing each other are perfectly socially normal in some societies for instance. The French revolution was a kill or be killed environment. Women also fought alongside Russians and also alongside their British husbands when the Romans invaded. This doesn’t make women masculine based on society or change their roles. They all fough…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:07 PM
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The point I was trying make is that our brains are not clay to be molded any which way. I made that point pretty effectively. Here’s the gender study These societies socialized separately and this had no effect on mate selection and preference. If being socialized differently and separately has no bearing, it means it’s stamped. Are you saying men and women’s brains are essentially identical (with normal individual to individual genetic variation) and that our thinking and actions are a result o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:42 PM
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Trans people are great. Happy they have their freedom to be who they are. I support them in their desire for happiness and self fulfillment. 9 year olds can’t choose to get a tattoo because they aren’t mature enough to make a decision like that. Hope we’re not castrating boys mistakenly. A lot is on the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:35 PM
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It is now a common belief in psychology that humans do not have free will. We are complex enough that we have what appears to us to be free will. I suppose if you ask a cat why he’s sitting in the sunbeam, he’d say he chose to because it’s warm. Whether we do or don’t have free will, our DNA powerfully affects our decisions. We crave certain foods, seek certain friends, crave love or social acceptance or sex. Humans are animals. Not sure if that’s news to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:32 PM
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I’m crazy sure. She’s fucking that kids life up. But I’m crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:18 PM
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We can categorize people in buckets: Human. We will not behave or chose the same as dolphins or parrots. Much of psychology is at this level. Sex. Men and women show differences in career and clothing selection, mate preference, hobbies, communication styles. These differences are significant enough and reliable enough that CIA and salespeople will approach the genders very differently. Pick up artists say certain techniques with women work like voodoo and they would never work on men. A lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:16 PM
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Dr David Bus did extensive gender studies that covered 37 cultures in societies that had no societal or communication relationship to each other. Men and women interacted with each other, for societies, selected partners based on extremely predictable and consistent gender based processes. The twins example listed here is a parallel showing that our brains are not clay to be molded, we’re stamped at birth to be a certain way. This is true for twins. This is true for gender. I’m not talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:07 PM
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Dr David Bus did extensive gender studies that covered 37 cultures in societies that had no societal or communication relationship to each other. Men and women interacted with each other, for societies, selected partners based on extremely predictable and consistent gender based processes. The twins example listed here is a parallel showing that our brains are not clay to be molded, we’re stamped at birth to be a certain way. This is true for twins. This is true for gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:05 PM
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Yes sure. Cats chose to chase mice. Sharks chose to chase fish. Birds choose to do mating dances. We’re discussing a root bias for those decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:02 PM
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I’m not advocating an extreme. I’m fighting an extreme. We overlap. But we’re less alike than we are the same. All men and women exist on arrange of feminine and masculine but the most masculine women are about as masculine as the most feminine men. The overlap is pretty small.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:00 PM
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HBO has a great documentary on it right now. Called trans hood. This normal seeming 9 year old little boy is being paraded around as trans and dressed in makeup and dresses and being told he needs to write a book. The mother is a hard core feminist and the father is a weak effeminate man who is too afraid of his wife to protect his progeny. It’s fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:58 PM
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Biological determinism is an oversimpliflication and isn’t what I’m arguing at all. Blank Slate equalism is advanced here and elsewhere online pretty much non stop. Any honest discussion about female and male psychological and behavioral differences gets labeled as toxic and promoting old tropes and society has evolved and a lot of stupid shit. Discussion about this gets you labeled as sexist or “making offensive generalizations”. Twitter would ban or sensor you for being sexist for saying true …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:49 PM
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By saying I’m making a big step, you’re saying men and women are the same or almost the same as if they were separate individuals and sex has no bearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:43 PM
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I linked an article that links to studies. The science doesn’t show that there are no differences between twins. The science shows that there are no differences between twins that were raised together versus twins that were raised apart. The environment seems to have had no influence on their similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:35 PM
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I appreciate that. But your experience is anecdotal. It isn’t science.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:30 PM
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Thanks for this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:16 PM
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“Don’t put your dick in crazy” only matters for men. Women have no responsibility for allowing a crazy dick to shoot DNA into them. But he broke the window. She’s a victim, of her own bad decisions, but still a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:15 PM
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I’m not talking about stories. I’m talking about studies but thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:03 PM
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The video you posted was about this chick letting a maniac get her pregnant and now she’s sad at the consequences of that. That involves fucking IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:57 PM
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Yeah it was like 95 to 2002 or so.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 06:39 AM
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RP is Rollos bag. He’s been doing this for 20 years and he’ll do it for another 20.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 02:48 AM
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The redpill was a fringe experiment in the 2000s. It used clubs and bars and short term dating pick up artistry to decode what women are attracted to. It became mainstream in late 2022 or early 2023, which didn’t help it much but it did introduce some questions into the public domain. When the swing dancing resurgence became mainstream, it had a moment of fun and excitement, it was adulterated and basically a caricature of the genuine swing culture of the 39s, 40s and 50s. A few good bands showe…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 02:04 AM
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Here’s a the trick to know if you are a creep or hurting them: ask them if they’re enjoying the experience. They say they are and their body language is congruent, we’re all good. Like the same as every other human. I’ll politely and respectfully let you know to even ask if I’m hurting a girl without knowing is insane, insulting, close minded, ignorant, and culty. Most 22 year old women can run manipulative circles around most 40 year old men if they wanted to. Personally I enjoy the genuine att…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:43 AM
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Men over 40 become a little bit of a fetish for girls in their 20s I think. I date women 21 and 23 sometimes but those girls are looking for an experience. Like a girl saying I wonder what it’s like to date a black guy and they just want to have the experience. I had a 22 year old tell me after sex that she’d never date a really old guy like 40. I was 43 and laughed. I look younger, I’m 6’6” and very fit. But she had a number upper limit. She had her BS in something. Very smart. Not broken. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:41 PM
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Marriage is a state designed legal arrangement to know how money flows and assets are divided and who has power of attorney when medical decisions need to be made. In the eyes of the state it simplifies taxes and what happens when someone dies. This arrangement has some benefits and some risks to both sides depending on who has more of what the state cares about. Prenups are a great way to take control of this legal process and allow a couple to keep the state out of it. Running a business with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:19 PM
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I was a bull for a couple for 3 months. He likes when I’d tell him to get me a beer and command him. “Stand there in the corner while I fuck your gf, cuck bitch.” He’d present me to her like a gift. It was a role play that they enjoyed and was not comfortable for me. We spoke to see what the dynamic is was they were looking for and he wanted to be talked down to. He was a pretty wealthy working professional, handsome and well spoken but effeminate and timid. He was not well endowed and didn’t la…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:02 PM
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I reread my post and it is pretty schizo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:53 PM
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I did for one couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:19 AM
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No. I haven’t. They tell men they want nice men, safe men. Emotional men. Show your feminine side. To a man’s ears, he’ll just go weak thinking that’s what it is. A man is charming when she’s attracted and creepy when he’s not and there is no difference in his behavior. Asking her why he’s creepy will get her to respond with things that aren’t the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:52 AM
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My cyberstalker
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:49 AM
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I’ve been told by literally dozens of women, including relationship specialists therapists and life coaches that men need to learn to cry and emote like women. Haven’t seen that in porn but maybe post a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:49 AM
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You’re making my point for me without realizing it. “Jealousy is toxic. Unselfishness is for him to enjoy seeing his wife being pleasured.” This chant is a powerful demasculining influence on a man’s mind. Thanks for your concern. I have friends and hobbies. This dismissive condescending sort of statement is a tool because you don’t have good arguments. Go to school, read words on pages. Stop being a naive idiot. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:48 AM
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Haha right. It’s my porn addiction. Thats a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:44 AM
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No. I’m saying women’s emotionally stated opinions have strong influence on men’s minds. Men are told they are toxic for disregarding statements that man’s nature and intuition say are wrong, bullshit or is contrary to reality. And the things they seem to feel strongly about and even say matters to them steers men wrong very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:43 AM
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I’ve been asked to be the bull several times. Been interviewed by several cucks who wanted me to tell them to “get me a beer and stand in the corner while I fuck” their wife or gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:40 AM
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Not speaking for the commenter, but Opinions have reasons. Feelings are not burdened by reason or reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:39 AM
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I accept your agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:38 AM
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No. The body is a reflection of the mind. A man who is unaware of a meatball stain on his shirt is telling you how his mind works. A woman who gets her dopamine from her food is telling you how her mind works. There is no one over 300lbs who is happy unless you’re Eddie Hall or Hafthor Bjornson.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:29 PM
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I like her. She talks openly about gender roles. She’s not a divisive sort of content creator. Doesn’t advocate for contention. She talks also about the dangers of men believing money will get them a better partner. She says the beautiful young wives of rich men and Abu Dhabi will use the credit cards of their husbands to have Afairs with young men. She says the mark of a truly good man is his self control in all things (in an age of excess, addictions, video games, defeatist attitudes). The mar…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 03:13 PM
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Nice. Way to add to the conversation. Sounds like you’re telling on yourself.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 03:04 PM
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You accidentally entered into a cult brother. Look up information, even if just casually, on Steven Hassan and his information on high control groups. The basis for any cult is information control. Your mind is a powerful computer that makes the best decisions it can based on the information it’s fed. You’ve been feeling your mind a certain variety of information and your mind is trying to make decisions based on that information. You need to feed your mind other information and let your mind do…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/24 11:21 PM
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I understand and respect the sub I’m in and won’t argue this much because it would be pointless. I don’t like his message as a practical means for having healthy relationships. Anyone believing what they say to help them be in happy relationships is just going to fuck their own minds over. A man with zero options won’t ever cheat. A man with hundreds or thousands of options will likely exercise some of those options, even when married, and if a woman wants a man who has options, she’ll need to d…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/24 09:55 PM
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There are no good responses here yet. Fresh and fit are a rage bait team. The show has a formula using a certain kind of woman to make the same points. The strongest argument against any show like that is if it makes you angry and hate a demographic, it isn’t a healthy program to feed your mind on. It’s never been easier in history than now for a bottom 85% man to become a top 15% man and this show isn’t very helpful for how to get there. They have a few shows on how to make money and that’s coo…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/24 09:36 PM
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He doesn’t say that
/r/ExRedPill27/06/24 09:13 PM
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Amen sister. We’re in this together. Don’t know where we went wrong but it seems to be getting worse as the years go on. Wish we could all hold hands and stop fighting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:06 AM
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To have men and women not be seen as enemies but as partners. To have men’s nature and desires not be labeled as toxic, or to have the laws of the land enforce women’s mating and dating preferences at the expense of men. It’s fine if men want to marry and make kids and be providers and be monogamous and of that. It’s also fine if men want to have multiple partners and don’t want to have one woman. Andrew Hiberman isn’t a pig. He’s Andrew huberman. The courts treat fathers like they’re shitty mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:10 AM
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At some point men and women became enemies of some kind. I told a woman once that divorced men in their 40s and 50s commit suicide 4-6x more than all demographics and she laughed. Said it was their own fault. Looked like it made her genuinely happy. The same sort of men show contempt at women i guess. There are no healthy happy people who are upset at other happy people for being happy. Unfortunately it looks like this trend will just get worse in the short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:54 PM
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I was practicing cold approach. Just wanted to see how far I could get. It was midday at a bar and she was day drinking. After about an hour, she was ready to go. She was a little heavy for me and a day drinker so not the sort of energy I wanted to invite into my life. We both said we needed to go pee. She went to pee, I dipped. FWIW I’ve slept in bed with a naked woman many times without sex for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:23 PM
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Yes. Those things are either sexual dimorphism or femininity. Not hypergamy. Both men and women have attraction cues that are different enough that they can believe that they are marrying up, and both of them are correct. To him she is prettier and softer, to her he is more rugged and has chest hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:13 PM
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Marrying your best option isn’t hypergamy. Men don’t want taller stronger more intelligent more experienced women. Those aren’t sexual attraction cues for most men. A taller stronger woman doesn’t make him want to have kids with her. They have the response from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:35 PM
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No. Women are wonderful and beautiful and flawed and complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:28 PM
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There is a reddit thing where people speak topic adjacent or draw issue with an example as if the example were the main topic. I fall into that sometimes. Let’s recap what was said. OP said if there were no shaming or societal pressures, men prefer 18-24. (He’s wrong btw, the surveys show men think this regardless of any societal pressures, in all cultures and languages sampled and regardless of the age of the man.) You said social conditioning are the basis for our cognitive processes, preferen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:50 PM
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I think if there’s ever been a broad sweeping statement made about humanity in general that is not arguable, it’s that humans have revulsion against eating shit. Kids don’t want to have sex generally speaking, might eat shit, might eat boogers and other stuff that adults wouldn’t do. Humans eating their own feces is lethal. Cows and dogs do not feel this revulsion because cows eat their shit to survive, dogs eat their shit to keep their dog nest clean for the puppies. Revulsion, sexual desire, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:13 PM
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In modern society a 23 year old woman would be able to manipulate a 43 year old man fairly easily. It’s how they make money in strip clubs and online. Manipulation is bad. The attraction isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:24 PM
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You’re making broad affirmative statements without a shadow of a doubt or nuance. Re read what you said. Fear of the dark, revulsion, sexual desire are hard wired. They have been our survival. If what want to fuck is cultural, tell the gays they’re making it up when they say they’re born that way. They have been molded by society and don’t realize it and they can pray the gay away. No it’s hard wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:20 PM
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People are socially conditioned to hate the idea of eating literal shit? No. Culture isn’t the basis for our sexual attraction, our revulsion. What we want to fuck or kill or be afraid of or be repulsed by aren’t cultural. They’re deeply DNA driven and based. They can however be conditioned away. Eating ass and cuckholdry are examples of conditioning jealousy or revulsion into erotic excitement because it makes the heart race. I hear this so much from the blue pill and the left and I don’t know …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:10 PM
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Yes. The irony here is that women’s greatest source of pride is often their husband or boyfriend, not their career or wealth. Even if they don’t need a man, a woman is way more likely to parade her man around than a man to parade his girl or wife around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:57 PM
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Hell no. That any of these RP assholes say they’re converting to the world’s most violent religion is obscene and baffling. Tate says he doesn’t really know too much about the religion but he should spend a minute on google and read about it. It is dishonest to point to anything good that the Islamic religion has done, such as charity, family values, without also fully accepting all of the evil that it’s done, throwing acid in women’s faces for getting an education, beheading anyone who doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:17 AM
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Yeah good luck with that. Better get some bandaids for your little angry typing fingers so you can keep at it. They make classes for snark and witty comebacks by the way. There’s resources for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:01 AM
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It’s made my relationships easier too. Could have saved my marriage if I’d known how to communicate with her the way she’s made to communicate instead of the way I was made. Thanks for your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:58 AM
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Your hate makes me smile 😂. I wish you the best buddy. A happy successful life. I’m engaging in conversation, and I’m generous and very open with people and with the women I interact with. I don’t hack anyone. Wish I knew how. I’d probably be a lot richer. My redpill education has been how to keep myself from being hacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:38 AM
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When I get a minute I’ll copy and paste all of David buss books, and marti hazelton. Im happy to go where the data leads me. We’re not in any sort of patriarchy currently. The mouse utopia experiments are very closely mirroring what we’re seeing happening in a society of abundance with regard to gender and mating. Well if a man sees a rub and tug, she takes his pension kids and house. He gets hated by friends and family. They take her side. If he says she refused sex with him, he’s told she does…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:31 PM
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It’s never to late to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:29 PM
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I am totally open to the idea that I’m wrong on absolutely everything. That’s why I’m engaging in discussion. Being on Reddit is good because it allows you to interact with people who have different backgrounds and life experiences. Part of the deprogramming process is allowing what you’ve learned to become part of your personality. There’s no such thing as “red pill techniques” or to indicate that it is “doing” anything is missing the point. It is perfectly possible for men to exist in a comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:29 PM
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But she did marry him. And then she “fell out of love with him.” So she’s encouraged to leave to find herself and that’s a good thing. If he marries and sees a rub and tug, he’s disgusting. Men are so reluctant to get married these days in part because it’s such a one sided system in favor of women. Loving differently doesn’t nullify the meaning of love. Kids love differently than adults. I think you said that women are told by TRP they don’t actually love men. They do. And it’s powerful. And it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:10 PM
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Very good comment. Thanks for this. I was married for over 10 years and I left her. I’ve lived in New York City and travel a little bit. I have a lot of context with which to place what I had learned in that told me and still tells me to just be loving honest and forgiving. There’s a lot of red pill content I can’t watch anymore. Just a lot of angry bullshit. Sometimes the way they speak to the girls is so horrible and uncalled for. Sometimes it’s called for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:56 PM
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I don’t advocate for dishonesty, not that you said I do, I’m just clarifying I don’t advocate for that. I recognize dishonesty is effective. I recognize both sexes use it. It’s used in business and sales and sex. I’m honestly still doing a little bit of soul-searching about the limits of this. I’m 6 foot six and a man of means, very fit, I was asked to model in my early 20s a couple of times when I lived in New York City. I do not suffer the same frustrations that most men suffer in the dating m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:21 PM
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Oh I think we’re way more different than alike but that’s cool. If the men that you are around are more like you than they are unlike you, they are effeminate weak men. They think like women, they behave like women. They are docile. These men find themselves unable to compete against masculine men who have the courage to be antisocial, to take risks, to not listen to people around them. Sometimes these guys find that their girlfriend jumps ship to a man who is a bit more exciting. Masculinity ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:14 PM
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Weak effeminate men who are blue pilled are exactly what you said here. Society has feminized men. You haven’t had a lot of exposure to genuinely self assured masculine men who have nothing to prove. Men who matter, the men who won wars, invested shit, created lasting benefits to society, actually men, don’t argue emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:04 PM
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10 minutes? You should write an audible. Rollo is the shit. All these guys have faults in how they present. I dont like his criticism of Sadia khan. I think she has a lot of good insights. And there’s a few other things he says that I know is algorithm food.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:01 PM
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I am the OP. Sounds like what makes you upset is the aspects of men’s sexual strategy that will allow them to have more access to more women, such as dread, plate spinning. The men who do these things say they’re great because they get the results they’re looking for. These are things that can seem manipulative. I can totally understand why that would bother you. this is an adequate answer for the question I originally posted. Women will also use manipulation, in order to achieve their dating an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:59 PM
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You don’t like the generalities about monkey branching and hypergamy because you don’t feel like they apply to you at all? Or you don’t think that you have ever done that? Women can absolutely have profound deep passionate love for men. And men of course can have profound deep love for women. But the vantage point from which it is launched and the goals that nature has given us to accomplish with that love is different. Men cheating on their wives has no correlation to a man’s happiness in his r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:53 PM
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Your question is the actual heart of what makes men who wake up so upset. Worth its own post. The way that blue pill teaching manipulates men is they keep men in a state of ignorance regarding the differences in how the genders select for sexual and mating partners, discourage any discussion regarding hypergamy or other well researched mating strategies, how the menstrual cycle affects women’s sexual desires and propensity cheat or select. I would say probably the worst thing about pill is it me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:32 PM
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Women in general don’t chose to be auto mechanics. Can you see that? Men chose that. Men don’t chose to be daycare attendants in general. Women chose that. You can’t see that? I didn’t say women can’t fix fences. I didn’t say that women can’t fix cars. They don’t chose to. They don’t love those things. You think the car grease monkey muscleheads were taught to be that way by society? A shop full of custom car makers making hot rods with 20 guys working there and the only female in the entire bus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:17 PM
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My comments and vantage point are very consistent. I came here to engage in dialogue to fill out my perspective. I still pedestalize women a little. It’s a vestige from my single mom upbringing and I’m working past it. I’m Very redpill. I don’t know what that is supposed to mean to you but I don’t care. I have women I’ve spoken to about RP stuff and they were all on board. A FWB told me it made so much sense why she behaved the way she did. She kept making bad decisions with guys and was self sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:10 PM
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One red pill writer says that men and women absolutely have the capacity to love, love tremendously, love ferociously, and stay loyal to the last dying breath. But men love idealistically. Women love opportunistically. It’s still love. It’s true genuine love. But it’s from a different vantage point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:05 PM
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Sure dude. Well gendered species have gender roles. Saying that men and boys are taught to fix fences, make money, fix the car, protect their families is simply a product of our culture and training is absolute bullshit. Go train those boys to put on pink dresses high heels lipstick, not be ambition, and not be able to fix anything and see if the girls want to have sex with them. I’m going to preempt anyone saying all or nothing because I never said anything about that. But in general the more m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:58 PM
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Men and women can both be ruthless, can both be honorable and honest. But their goals aren’t aligned from a sexual mating perspective. Every aspect of human knowledge is a combination of textbook study and real world application. Learning and reading about the red pill and consuming information is extremely valuable for person to go into the world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:55 PM
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Insects and gendered animals know who is male and female and they physically do different things, those things are writing into their DNA, they have different (gender roles) roles, have different mating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:51 PM
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Ok why would truth make you upset? So what if it’s offensive or unflattering. Let’s do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:48 PM
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There is money there. Pearl and Kevin Samuel’s a few others bounded around other media projects until this boosted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:45 PM
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Maybe this is confirmation bias. The angry are vocal, and the serene are busy working so it all looks like anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:44 PM
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Good response. Do you think that if you have been redpill aware, it would’ve helped you? Sort of like an information arms race? After having learned a lot about not just the red pill but evolutionary psychology, psychology, sales, business, the dating market in general, I recognize that people tend to say what they need to say to get the results they are looking for. I take people’s word for it most of the time. Sometimes I recognize this person isn’t lying or trying to deceive me in their minds…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:41 PM
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Well written. 5 is the thing. The presentation is so shitty for many content creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:33 PM
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I suck. I can’t seem to get it smooth and neat. I’ve been shown many times. It’s just crumpled fabric that looks nothing like what I was shown. I can’t clean stuff either very well. It’s very hard for me. I drive a convertible BMW, have employees, I’m good at other things. I’m an iron man Triathlete, compete in BJJ. I’m not an idiot because of the shirt thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:31 PM
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They’re not unrelated. All men and all women exist in with range of masculine and feminine traits. Men tend to have much more masculine traits and women tend to have much more feminine traits. But the correlation is absolutely overwhelming. No one teaches a male wasp to behave differently than a female wasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:28 PM
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I used an example of how emotions prevent honest and scientific discussion. Not trying to sidetrack the discussion in another topic. I don’t feel icky about gender stuff. I don’t care who fucks who as long as everybody is consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:25 PM
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They need to get over it. They’re hurting themselves. Maybe this is the unintentional Buddhist in me. But I don’t attach any emotions to reality, to what ought to be. I just wanna know what the thing is as much as I can know so I can figure out how to use my note to get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:22 PM
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The gender rant is actual science. If you are open to science, the definition of a male and any species is the gender that produces smaller cheaper more prevalent gametes (like sperm), the definition of a female of any species is the gender that creates larger more expensive less prevalent gametes (like eggs or ovum). Hermaphrodites are not a separate gender or sex, they are a human that are both male and female. Male and female is all we have. Even for genuine hermaphroditic species like some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:19 PM
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Yeah Rollo Tomassi said talking about the game isn’t game. In my first nine months or 12 months, I did talk a lot about it just because it was so interesting to me. And girls that would go on dates with I would talk about it too. I’m sure I lost a couple of promising sexual opportunities because of it but That’s OK. I was going through the process. As of now I keep the pontification about all this shit to myself. But you can’t unsee it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:16 PM
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The Blue pill manipulates men and to a lesser extent women. TRP lets you know how the rules work. If someone wants to manipulate, they’re assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:13 PM
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A man being called a stupid cunt shouldn’t get mad. That would make him easy to manipulate, like Donald trump. Praise him and he’ll fuck over America for you, don’t suck his dick and he’ll send the court system after you. Thats not masculinity. If someone is lying about you, being upset is a normal reaction. If someone is highlighting your least desirable traits, getting angry is sort of pointless. It’s embarrassing for someone to put a mirror to your face but that doesn’t make it wrong. Rich co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:09 PM
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The punching bag is women? I think tradcons and redpill have significant overlap but trad cons think the Bible should be used for guiding their lives and not as beer mug coasters. Trad cons also have a very easy to see blue pill theme so they aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:53 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:51 PM
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I think this is a huge part of it. Men argue rationally, women argue emotionally. And I don’t mean in a courthouse we’re both parties will reason and argue rationally. In relationships men present reasons, women present emotions in order to get the response they want. Women blast emotions at the red pill space and men who are trained to obey women’s emotions as if the women’s emotions were their responsibility will come to their aid, pass laws, have their own YouTube channels because they don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:50 PM
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I’m gonna push back on this pretty hard. Biologist can say with follow awareness of sexual biology that they’re definitely are two genders, not five, and that while a grown adult should have the right to amputate their sexual organs if that makes them happy, imposing that system on children May have terrible consequences. And those biologist are canceled, fired, publicly shamed, called trans phobic. It’s a lot of anger over well reasoned and factually accurate statements. Tell me what do you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:49 PM
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My question was geared toward every gender, but it sounds like you’re saying that blue pill men think the red pill content is useless bullshit because it isn’t the code that gets you directly to Mike Tyson. That’s interesting I never thought of that. But I have heard Rollo Tomassi talk about that. It’s not a step-by-step process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:46 PM
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Lots of people are angry at redpill content.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:44 PM
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You know that to a psychologist, humans can be hacked. CIA operatives who have been trained thoroughly and how to create a sense of trust to attain secrets will say that people are laughably predictable. A well trend and experience salesman who understands psychology is able to hack into the base motivations and desires of the client. Blue pill teaching is that women are all different, can’t be known, can’t be figured out, are magical and beautiful. The red pill helps you realize that women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:43 PM
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I know you weren’t asking me this question but I think what makes people annoyed with so-called red pilled guys is they don’t actually consume and digest fully the red pill content with perspective. Women are not the enemy. Women are not hoes. Women are not sluts. Men are not groomers, not pedophiles, not cheaters and narcissists. All humans can be all of those things. Women have their own version of slutty narcissism than men. There is essentially the stages of grief when you are realizing that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:31 PM
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So far I have only interacted with rep pilled gentleman, wealthy, businessmen, athletes. There are a lot of very angry men that exist in a space of frustration. those angry socially isolated frustrated men and women latch onto Glenn Beck and Info wars or they latch onto the trans movement or some other bullshit that allows them to be angry at other humans. I’m certain that there are a lot of angry assholes who permitted red pill rage bait YouTube channels to make them into worse assholes than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:26 PM
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Statistically speaking almost no men are any women’s first choice. And many men discover TRP after their high school sweetheart and mother of their kids leaves them for her rush boss, takes his kids, his house and his pension with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:23 PM
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This is by all accounts a true to life success story that has been in literature for thousands of years. An older more established man falling in love with a beautiful young girl, attaching his soul to her and treating her like he loves her. I’ve been in a couple age gap relationships, 20 years was the biggest gap and it was great. I learned a lot from her. Treated her very well. She was way more sexually experienced than I was, travelled a lot more, better family and childhood than me. And we h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:52 PM
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One of the things redpill research has shown is you cant reason your way into sexual attraction. A lot of sexual frustrated neurodivergent men have no idea why they aren’t successful and many will never have the social skills and aptitude to be able to figure it out despite being especially intelligent, and TRP gives them a step by step framework or a hack that is way better than what they had before. Telling one of these guys to keep your car smelling nice, get in the gym, wear tight shirts, go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:43 PM
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Lots of red pilled men are handsome tall make money confident, are definitely women’s first choices
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:25 PM
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There was a documentary about this. 50 shades of gray. It was a beautiful love story. Just love the broken mentally sick handsome billionaire and you can fix him and make him like more vanilla sex and be in love with your pasty white average ass and not want to lock women up in his sex dungeon anymore. Kissy kissy. Shows women how to properly handle that sort of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:38 AM
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Oh wow yeah haha you sure got me there oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:24 PM
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Why does she need to know my income? I’m fine to fuck a slut. I know you’re not trying to add anything meaningful to this conversation but just to troll people, but both genders show some level of dishonesty in their mating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:24 PM
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In all seriousness, men lie or exaggerate to get sex because women believe the lies and bluster. Women have their own dishonesty to accomplish their goals so claiming rape and that a woman can’t consent unless she has full and complete disclosure of a man’s situation for everything seems anti feminist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:56 PM
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Ok well then just if she lies about body count, whether her ex was really a narcissist, since she was with him for 4 years and had his baby, which is kind of a long time be with someone she dislikes so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:54 PM
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I came here to have conversations with people who matter. Even your snark is empty and pointless. It’s cool if you can’t address the issue. It’s just makes you another reddit troll, mr. fatly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:54 AM
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I like it. Then I’ll get free health care be able to claim ablism and blame the world for all my sadness. Then we’ll have some fucking equality for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:22 AM
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Yeah basically. A man should be able to claim rape and sue her, ruin her career, make her lose her business. I like how you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:53 AM
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If she’s wearing makeup or lies about her body count, it’s a tie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:29 AM
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Look up nitric oxide. In 1992 nitric oxide was called the molecule of the year and in 1998 the guys who did the research on it won the Nobel prize. I’m not sure which one it was, but I think they were three scientists that got the Nobel prize in physiology and one of them started a product line That helps with your body’s natural nitric oxide production. You may not have the appropriate vitamin substrates in your diet to create sufficient amounts of nitric oxide. Testosterone, DHT, estrogen, B v…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/24 11:16 PM
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Women aren’t assholes. They are our mothers and sisters and wives and lovers. Your brain needs a recalibration. Stop listening to whoever told you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:03 PM
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OP, this isn’t a question for women. This is like asking men how best to deal with the emotional fluctuations during the menstrual cycle. Your question is best answered by men and specifically men who have overcome this already. You’re 6’4”, hung, make a good living, hate yourself, have no confidence, need to her to give you reassurance several times a day, jealous over everything. Or You’re balding, 5’7”, make average income, average penis (5.3” which is still in the average range) but you’re g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:01 PM
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I didn’t insult you. It’s an old short sighted argument. I would consent to having sex with a selfish woman but there’s a level of selfishness at which point it becomes not worth it. What that optimal selfishness is not really know able. You just know it when you see it. So if you’re not the honest level of selfishness when we are first talking but later I find out you’re unbearable I can claim rape? Being feminist is about taking responsibility for your own life and not relying on or blaming ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:50 PM
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This is perfectly rational pragmatism on her part. I don’t see this as rule breaking. She was blessed with likely the best option that would possibly present itself to her in her lifetime and she capitalized on it. Hypergamy doesn’t need to be proven over again. It’s a sub routine that never switches off. Sounds like your last exclamation is negative. Hypergamy makes the rules. A man’s sense of fairness doesn’t and that makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:05 PM
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I have sex standards and relationship standards. Relationship: kind, self sufficient emotionally, not sad or pessimistic (sex ok, relationship no). sex when she’s a little heavier ok, like 5’3” size 8 or 10 is ok depending on how she wears it, not for a relationship. I have a limit for selfishness for both, the sex it’s a higher limit. Past or current Sex work like OF or stripper ok for sex with tests, not for relationship. I prefer a fun girl but boring is fine for sex I don’t care about religi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:22 AM
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This is an old short sighted argument. How true do details need to be to put the burden of consent onto the consenter? Makeup? Spanks? Lift in shoes? tax statements? He only works part time not full time. She said salsa dancer but it’s actually a swing dancer. If a guy said he’s 5’10” but he’s 5’8” it’s rape? Colored contact lenses? I have an idea. Wear colored contacts, then volunteer for jail because you raped that guy and let me know if it’ll make you a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:03 AM
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I don’t expect anything. Nice when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:24 AM
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I don’t expect anything during any phase. But if she cooks, I’m on her program. Cleans, love pets, takes responsibility for her happiness? My god, here’s a ring. I don’t throttle my texting, dancing, flirting, humor, emotional engagement. I’m the same with everyone. If a girl has to turn on cooking, cleaning, making coffee, she doesn’t like it. You can tell a girl to stop being nice to the elderly because a man doesn’t deserve to see that part of her? GTFOH
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:51 AM
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I’m happy he’s happ..…oh shit. I didn’t understand the question. Detention for me again? People who aren’t happy a person is happy has troubles unrelated to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:52 PM
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Sexual dimorphism creates sexual attraction. Men like boobs because they don’t have that. Women like big hands and square jaws because they don’t have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:01 PM
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This. The guys they feel are attractive enough to swipe are the 20%. To women, this is a normal guy. Checks enough boxes to be considered normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:55 PM
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Super easy. Women are swiping the same 20%, they’ll message first the same 4.5%. These guys have 100+ matches and three new matches everyday. These guys aren’t feeling there’s any urgency to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:53 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:50 PM
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I’ll add that after studying evo psych, I’ve seen things that are so down the middle of the predictions, it’s like voodoo. I was raised as a soft sweet docile mommas boy and the things I’ve been able to get by simply standing my ground and being indifferent to the result has been nuts. I have a woman who will go on a $200 date with a wealthy businessman and after she’ll call me to blow her back out because she’s tipsy and horny and because she “doesn’t have sex on the first date”. She’s done thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:48 PM
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No maam. What men and women are attracted to has been studied heavily for decades. It’s pretty reliable. Nothing in psychology is all or nothing nothing and it’s never 100% and there are lots of individual variations but all psychology is “sweeping generalizations”. When a salesperson is dialed into the psychological motivations, they say people are laughably reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:40 PM
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I agree. The faster we can adapt the better our chance for survival. Sexual attraction cues are deeply genetically rooted. Maybe our intellect can see something is at least moderately self destructive if allowed to run its course unchecked. The sexual attraction is embedded and won’t switch off until after many generations, maybe 100? Maybe 500? We’re currently the product of millions of years as primates. Hundreds of thousands as humans. We can’t wish we were sexually attracted to something. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:34 PM
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Planting trees in 104degree weather, being yelled at by the boss, being threatened with being fired because the owner is a bad decision maker, is harder than doing laundry with your kids. It sounds under like your breadwinner is the one who is under appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:28 PM
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There’s merit to this rebuttal. Thanks for this l link.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:24 PM
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Strong masculine men can be vulnerable with most women. No need to vet her. Be a strong brave man who isn’t whining and a victim. If you have a moment of sadness or emotion, she’ll be happy to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:40 PM
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Pedestalizing women makes you the nice guy that finishes last. Chase your goals and wear a tight shirt. Be about your business but wear your cologne. Women don’t want to be pedestalized even if they say they do. If you’re amazing they’ll find you. Go be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:29 PM
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Trying to be worthy of a woman is pedestalizing women. Not a healthy mindset for a man. Worthy or not is immaterial. Does she want you or not is what matters. Men have to do a lot to create attraction. Women will say “some guys happen to be wealthy”. No maam. That was years of hard work, stress, sacrifices, and a little luck. “That guy is an athletic build”. Yes he spends hundred of hours a year sweating and sacrificing to look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:25 PM
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Men have figured out what women want. It’s easy. It isn’t one thing. An average 15-year-old boy can overpower the overwhelming majority of women. That is definitely much easier than spending 10 years turning yourself into a sexually desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:18 PM
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I disagree with aborting boys. Women love their sons. I can’t see that happening. Marriage has so many benefits for women. As it is now marriage locks men and exposed them to so much risk, it’s a great system for women. Men are opting out and maybe that’s what you mean. The gynocentric social order loves marriage. Maybe it would be done away because men aren’t interested? Masculinity is already heavily policed. In schools and online, masculinity is discouraged, shamed, punished. I agree with eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:14 PM
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You’re a redpill man. You’ve been liberated from societies lies. We have more reason to be grateful than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:51 PM
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When people say that their purpose in life is to do a certain kind of activity or to say that God put them on this earth for a certain activity, such as boxing, professional surfing, to be a musician, or scientist, what they are referring to is that their DNA has made them especially talented at a particular activity. Your genetics has made it so that you strongly prefer to do research and science, and aren’t very good at and not very interested in being a professional cyclist or power lifter. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:50 PM
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Reproduction is the predefined purpose for all life. Maybe Im misunderstanding you. Reproduction is more important than eating and breathing. We wouldn’t have art literature research and science without it. What can be alive without reproduction? Every generation eats plants so it can make babies and that generation dies and the plants will eat them, which the babies then eat and grow up to make their own babies and the cycle continues until we get unlucky and we die off. I am extremely happy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:46 PM
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In that respect the anger is one of the stages of grief. Eventually we need to get the acceptance part so we can live fulfilling lives. I have seen men angry about hypergamy and it seems so pointless. She can’t flip that switch off. Why are you mad at her? After she’s committed to you, and she monkey branches, be mad for sure. But to angry women behave this way in general is foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:39 PM
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There is an experiment called the mouse utopia. It was done in the 60s with several dozen repetitions if I remember. All the colonies ended up in death. The experiment was to give a mouse colony infinite food water perfect climate perfect clean health and see what would happen. it started off as having lots and lots of babies. After a couple of generations, the females became poor parents, became disinterested in males and sex. The females became much more masculine and the males became much mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:36 PM
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I’m an atheist but even if there were God, being alive is its own reward. If you read my comment history, you’ll see I’m a huge fan of love. Love is the great motivator that gets us to remain joyful during extremely challenging times. It’s also the great reward. I don’t think there is any reason to believe a person should have any goals whatsoever. A person should feel totally free to take Molly cocaine and heroin until they are dead if that’s how they want to spend the precious minutes oftheir …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:28 PM
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I’m not here to win but your anger at being wrong on the internet means I win, idiot. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:21 PM
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You think chasing a woman down in a parking lot is harder work than going to the gym, learning a craft, generating resources, charming a woman to gain her consent? What a weird thing to say. It’s the men who can’t figure how to do all that shit who tend to rape the most. Your response is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:20 PM
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Women being treated as spoils of war, being forced into marriages and being traded like commodities has a long well documented history. There is a war bride theory regarding some aspects of how women choose men or how women emotionally move past an old relationship much faster. Females having the ability to choose their mates also has a documented history. You can see it in some passages in the Bible from thousands of years ago and in many civilizations, women’s selection was respected. Every ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:17 PM
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I agree with everything you said here and thanks for your thoughtful response. I have a lot of respect for the process that got us here and I’m open to being critical of it if we know for sure it isn’t a good thing. When my mind finds some things distasteful about this process, it always comes back to “this is what works” and I’m very reluctant to argue with success, especially the success of the human species. It’s not a perfect system. It’s the one we have and that has gotten us here. Men want…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:07 PM
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They select for the men most likely to have their DNA live on. Sometimes those choices seem terrible to us. It may not be perfect. But it’s a good system that fit us where we are. Individual men do what they can to make sure their DNA makes the cut and that’s our goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:31 PM
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You and I are DNA carriers and nothing more. All of our intellect and body shape and humor and social skills and all of it only exist to make sure that molecule gets replicated. We are locked in a beautiful DNA prison and we’d be better off loving it because we can never escape it. It’s been our privilege to have our moment so we try to live the fuck out of this life. If we don’t make babies, the party is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:28 PM
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If we don’t make babies, the party is over for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:24 PM
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That article isn’t speaking about rape but criminal offenders. Look up hybristophilia. Men don’t have this. Women have this. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hybristophilia#:~:text=Hybristophilia%20is%20a%20paraphilia%20involving,to%20those%20who%20commit%20crimes. Women select the men that have best chance of having their DNA carry on. These may be horrible men in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:23 PM
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And floundering men isn’t redpill with all due respect. There is for many men grieving process that has to end the same way as all other grieving processes: acceptance. If you can’t accept that you have cancer, are you really going to be motivated to do chemotherapy? Full acceptance of it for many men can seem very bleak and I totally sympathize with that. I also don’t sit in the echo chamber and interact with anybody who is angry at women, angry at life, angry at whatever. I find that to be com…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:49 AM
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This is a great success story. Thanks for writing this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:46 AM
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It’s not good. Definitely a crisis. Also, this isn’t the first time it’s been like this. The French Revolution, and many other upheavals have been powered by angry men who were tired of this shit. We’re repeating history. I suspect we’ll have a less than civilized century and it’ll be something for the history books to ponder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:17 AM
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And they are carried on by reproducing. It’s the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:14 AM
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Tons
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:12 AM
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I hear you. And with all due respect, don’t believe what women say. Believe what they do. If you ask a woman if she thinks that Lizzo is beautiful, she’ll say yes. If you tell her that she reminds you of Lizzo, she’ll be offended. I think the sad reality that we are experiencing is that many women who are able to care for their own needs are genuinely happier by themselves. It means that they will tend to opt out of relationships they would find lowers the general quality of their currently happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:09 AM
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I doesn’t sound like I was wrong in the post you said I was wrong in. I just wasn’t comprehensive enough. I don’t disagree with anything you said here and neither does my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:03 AM
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Getting half is the legal aspects, not the genetic sexual attraction aspects. Western societies thankfully do have some safeguards for men, specifically prenuptial agreements, and bundling all of your assets in another legal entity before you were to take the risk of getting married. Also, almost any man can enter the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:58 AM
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In which animal species is rape normal? If rape was genetically rewarded, we would be a species of rapists. We aren’t. Men have approaching anxiety because they are seeking consent. Consent from the female has been rewarded in evolution because it is the females hypergamous or picky nature that has made it so weaker men die without offspring. Sexual consent from a woman is vital to our being the dominant species. It’s why sexual assault is treated barely below murder in our society. Killing isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:55 AM
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There are genetically ingrained attraction cues that women have. There are essentially zero men that are perfect 10 on everything that a woman would be sexually attracted to. That would be a 32 year old, billionaire, GigaChad, 6 foot six, 9% body fat, deadlifts 600 pounds, funny as fuck, emotionally engaging, Tremendously creative, gifted musically, etc. etc. that dude doesn’t exist in nature. Don’t see all of those items as “checking the box“. All of those items are sliders and if one of the sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:47 AM
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The only method I’m describing above is women being picky. I’ll call that a major part of natural selection. Sexually selective is part of natural selection. It’s just not the only part
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:38 AM
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Ok troll
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:36 AM
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My older brother is a high functioning autistic man. Married, makes good money, two beautiful kids. Very blue pilled and he’d find himself very lost in the dating pool if he were to attempt it now. How has what you’ve learned so far helped you? You seem to be ok with the struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:32 AM
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You check the boxes put there by nature, and you ignore the shit put there by nurture and wait for the magic to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:29 AM
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Science opens it up. I don’t know how natural selection works in its entirety, I just know it works. I’m not gonna argue with success. Eventually science will figure it all out. Until then, let’s just keep doing whatever has been working so far
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:27 AM
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I have nothing against gay people but I’m extremely sis straight and love sex with women. No interest in seeing penis, would never in 1 million years have any attraction toward a lady boy. I work in the medical profession and am used to describing things with complete dispassionate accuracy. If I were gay or at any sort of leanings, I would give zero fucks about being honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:24 AM
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Women can vote. They’ll advocate for themselves. My post has nothing to do with the Legal system, the education system which is generally speaking an unfair matriarchy. It has to do with women’s mate selection process .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:18 AM
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I don’t know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:16 AM
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Sounds like we’re agreeing. The original study on hypergamy was done in India and was specific to the caste system that is popular there. It was later expanded to cover many other aspects of “marrying up”. Salma Hayek and her husband are a good example of both people in the marriage feeling as if they “married up“. It’s just that the attraction queues are different enough that he believes he married a woman who is way more attractive than he could ever have hoped to have, and she married a man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:15 AM
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Feel free to educate me. In what way am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:12 AM
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I don’t want to fuck tall men. I’m 6 foot six and while I love a tall beautiful woman, I am Hella attracted to 5 foot tall women. If I see a woman who is happy spending time with the elderly, assisting new mothers with their babies, being genuinely joyful with animals, I find that to be an extremely powerful sexual attraction for me, and a woman’s income has zero sexual attraction for me. a woman’s intelligence and competence I find to be very sexually attractive because I am sapiosexual, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:12 AM
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I prefer to continue doing what has worked so far, even if I don’t understand what that is. Also, it doesn’t matter what I prefer. If I imposed my opinions on natural selection, I’d fuck it up and we’d all be dead. Christian monogamy has been a wonderful thing for the average man, and I don’t know how that will make its way into the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:07 AM
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Hypergamy is a software routine than never shuts off until a woman dies. She can ignore its urges and it may speak louder or softer to her, but it doesn’t stop talking to her. Men are much more swayed by blue pill conditioning than women IMO. So you’re probably right about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:03 AM
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Perfectly happy to argue this with you respectfully. Women see a confident handsome tall muscular wealthy man and say “shit, i want to fuck that guy.” I’ve seen it in the wild. It’s why otherwise mediocre looking college professors are able to slay college pussy. And otherwise unsuccessful and otherwise mediocre men who are extremely talented as the lead guitarist or lead singer frontman for a band are also able to get a lot of sexual attention. Tell me why I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:59 AM
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Yes happy to argue this. Bring it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:56 AM
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Women are viscerally sexually attracted to: Taller, stronger, more intelligent, more experienced, more confident, generally older, more income than they have. That’s what Hyper means. Equal to or greater than, and the greater it is, the more sexual attraction. Those things trigger a SEXUAL attraction response in women. Men don’t care about any of those things as sexual attraction cues. Hypergamy is a very good thing. Not an insult. Doesn’t imply anything bad. It’s made the human race better. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:29 AM
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Hypergamy isn’t the same as gold digging
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:26 AM
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That’s not the definition and men don’t do hypergamy. Taller, stronger, more intelligent, more experienced, more confident, generally older, more income than they have. That’s what Hyper means. Equal to or greater than, and the greater it is, the more sexual attraction. Those things trigger a SEXUAL attraction response in women. Men don’t care about any of those things as sexual attraction cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:24 AM
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One was no introspective questions, one was wrong flair, one was no circle jerk posts. Im not entirely sure sure but they have a system to whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:18 AM
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Married 17 years and finally admitted it wasn’t my person. That’s ok. I learned a lot and I was made more pure through the fire. I’m so grateful to be alive. I have a lot of people that I love and love me and I’ll find the mother of my babies eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:17 AM
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Also I read a few of your post. It looks like you have really found love. I’m so grateful for that. Love makes the whole fucking thing worth it. Good luck to you and your partner. Hope you guys make it and grow old happy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:12 AM
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The auto mod was flagging my post as shit posts and quarantining and hiding them. I can repost it and see what happens. I’m very interested in a good discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:10 AM
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Women feeling sexual attraction for only the best men is good for the human race. Being upset at how picky they are lacks appreciation for why you are as good as you are. Thousands of generations of picky women made us better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:05 AM
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Thank you kind redditor for being my only responder!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:51 AM
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Some there’s some bullshit in the manosphere that isn’t red pill. Complaining that men have to compete for women is probably more like black pill. “Life isn’t fair“. That is true, life is not fair. Everyone gets their shot and everybody has to play the cards that they’ve been dealt as skillfully as they can. Some guys were given aces, some guys were given deuces. That’s life. Competing for women is how you get women. This is natural, very good for the human race, nothing to be angry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:52 PM
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I did too. It’s like a gentleman’s agreement not to pressure a man who he says this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:44 PM
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What a wild post. Don’t teach kids to be ruthless. Definitely love your children, and teach them that love makes the entire journey of life worth living. Excuse me sir, you sound like a maniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:36 PM
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Sperm is cheap. Men will have low standards because they can impregnate a thousand women a year and it doesn’t cost them anything. Eggs are expensive. Women will be picky because they bear the burden of carrying and raising the child. Why this works for evolution is that women’s sexual attraction is tied to the sorts of qualities that can protect and care for them and the baby. Women a sexually attracted to men with ability to protect, taller, strong, clever, determined and also for men that can…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 07:04 PM
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I tell the men who date women in my industry: “she doesn’t need you. You better bring the sunshine or you’ll lose her.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:51 AM
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I don’t think chores belong to anybody. I just find it interesting that a 50-50 split would cause so much annoyance so as to ruin the relationship. It’s like saying this girl is wonderful in so many ways but I’m annoyed that she won’t 50-50 the dishes with me so I can’t stand her and have to break up with her. It would make him sound like a maniac who is sabotaging his own relationships. What I’m saying is that it seems kind of petty and the persons strengths in other areas would seem to be able…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:38 AM
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Consenting under a false premise or falsified data set is called fraud. It’s also still called consent. If somebody believes they’re gonna go to heaven or hell and that Jesus body was turned into literal wine and bread, and someone believes it, that’s called fraud or bullshit. It’s not as if that set of lies means the person was unable to consent when they got baptized. I have had people bullshit me out of my time and resources many times and while I will never trust the bullshitter again, I rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:19 AM
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Also curious in what sense are you an ex red pill man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:09 AM
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Many men are able to get women to have sex with them without any date. They literally come over and have sex and leave. Many men have a rotation. Charming handsome interesting men with means can create this environment pretty easily. If the girl was especially fun to be with, was great with sex, brought her own stash of weed, picked up some Thai food on the way over that she paid for, and did his dishes while she was at his place, that’s gonna be the girl he’s gonna ask on a business trip. She’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:08 AM
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I’m agnostic about his stated method but I’ll argue his stance…. How does a woman get one on one time with a busy successful man besides with sex or promise of sex? How would he ever know she was amazing? If she doesn’t make him money, does she golf with him? And she’ll help him with his business but not have sex with him? He’ll hire her then maybe. If she’s working for free and making him money and having sex, she has his attention and she’ll have many hours to showcase what she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:56 AM
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Because refusing sex with him isn’t going to make him investigate her more. She could be amazing but he’d never know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:38 AM
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You’re looking for your dad to some extent maybe then. We’re getting into personal preferences which I guess is ok. No one asked us to speak for all men or all women. People are blend. Two people who aren’t tidy can make it work but you’d need a housekeeper and that’s ok. I have a housekeeper now and she’s really good. The day after she cleans I want to invite people over to be impressed at my clean shiny house. Personally id look for a woman that has things I dont have. I was married to a very …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:01 PM
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A bangslave who loves me, laughs at my jokes, loves pillow talk, goes on hikes in Hawaii when we visit there, will dance with me, is a good mother to my kids, doesn’t scream at me, gets along with my mom and sister. Sign me up. Sounds like true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:27 PM
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You said the men doing this are taking away a woman’s ability to consent to sex. I don’t know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:22 PM
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Clingy can be from attachment style and upbringing for both genders, but clingy needy men will make women’s sexual attraction wane. That’s the scarcity thing. A woman doesn’t want to feel like a man’s mother usually. I don’t mind clingy as long as I’m not shamed for needing to work when I have to work. And if I’m in a relationship I’m sort of a more is better person but this isn’t about me. Vacation gym sex dancing all together and I’m happy with that. Clingy needy women will be maybe annoying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:18 PM
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Ok to play it this way: sex everyday, don’t scream at me, chores, get along with my mom and my sister, don’t get us in debt, work if you want, don’t if you don’t want, but don’t be lazy and just watch TV all day. If youre not working, do something meaningful. In exchange, all the value a man adds as described above and I don’t have to mop floors which I will half ass for sure and you will be mad at me about for sure. I have a floor mopping disability and I’m not lying. It’s basically ableism to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:12 PM
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All people will not be good at all things. This isn’t my thing. I’m ok with that. I add value in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:53 PM
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How does this affect a women’s ability to consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:30 PM
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I have heard a psychologist speak about this and I know this is true in my case, and I’ve heard other men speak about this. My desire to have sex isn’t 100% of my motivation to go to the gym. But I would say it’s like 20 to 50% of my motivation every time I go. My desire to run a business and make money will be extremely powerful inside of me without regard to whether or not this will increase my ability to have sex with women, as well as my love for my convertible sports car, but sex and being …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:13 PM
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No man, woman or government can revoke my man card. And no man should be able to revoke yours either. Redpill isn’t a label in my perspective. I haven’t joined a group. I feel no cameraderie with anyone who identifies themselves as redpill. I’ve exited the matrix and I’m ok with whatever mayhem is outside of it. Other redpill men are also my friends or my competitors but it changes how I need to communicate with each party. Blue pillers might try to cancel me for not using their pronouns. Blue p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:44 PM
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I agree. A lot of guys want a formula for how to get the girl. “Tell me what to say.” For PUA, that’s how it works maybe. For TRP, That’s not how it works. You pull the bullshit off, good bad or ugly and you see you and you see her for what it is and then let it sink in as your human supercomputer brain figures how to process it all. Your failures become obvious and your successes easily planned out. Then go into the world and make good decisions based on what’s real. Then you can get the girl k…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:37 PM
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What if on a day to day basis didn’t spend that time, as far as the minutes are concerned but he made you coffee every morning, took coffee or lunch to work when he could, made you laugh your fucking head off at least once a day, and you knew he was doing it to please you, like epic air guitar in his underwear unexpectedly for the giggles and when you were out in public with him, that fucking guy was such a gifted boxer grappler and intellect that you knew three guys couldn’t take him to harm or…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:30 PM
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If you ask women if men are idiots and easy to manipulate, even the high value ones, you and I both know what they’ll answer. I don’t think we’re discussing most men. Probably the top 5% or so. But I know those men will likely want those things too. I’m just exploring the space here but maybe the way to see it is, society sells women that they need to act like a queen, they are the prize, make him come to you, help him be better by nitpicking and challenging him. Where is the advice above is to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:23 PM
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Maybe we’re talking about different things. Ugly women have much more sexual options than the top 5% of men, according to tinder and bumble, like 100x more or something ridiculous. Men generally are not selective. Most men will fuck most women. I work in the medical field and one of my patients said a guy paid her to fuck her colostomy, which was why she was there that day, to fix her colostomy, to give you an idea of how selective men aren’t. All women can easily get sex. Maybe 99% of women tap…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:11 PM
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Yeah the gamble. Bet on a horse and hope it pans out. Many women, and one responding here, say they won’t bet on a good prospect, they want a complete package when they start. They need to see he’s done something with all that potential. If a girl joins a man when he’s up and coming like dustin poiriers wife or Alex hermozis gf, she has lifelong equity in everything. If she jumps in after he’s made himself, like what Selma hyek did with Renault guy, you’re more likely to be treated differently, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:55 PM
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This is so true. Helps you really recognize what a valuable woman really is. Makes her even more precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:46 PM
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If I can give you a long answer... When I was religious, I privately held that women were God’s greatest creation. Now that I’m not in any religious cult (I think they’re all cults, but mine was especially culty) I recognize men are pretty good too and much of what I’d been told about men’s nature being bad in some way wasn’t true. Our aggression, risk taking, sometimes flippant disregard for consensus and “spaciness” like daydreaming and inability to sit still has helped humanity create a ton o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:44 PM
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Sounds like many positives. Why would not identify here as Red pill? Just curious. I think purple pill is like using red pill “tactics” to create more success while maintaining a blue pill worldview. I think redpill has no gender bias. Blue pill puts women’s needs first and calls that “the right way” or “how things should be”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:16 PM
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Oh crap that was unexpected. How cool. I haven’t looked into him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:13 PM
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Clever username pot smoker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:12 PM
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I had a girl who was a brutally persistent shit tester tell me she loved that I didn’t care at all what she thought. She’s making $400k, has an IQ of 140, very attractive with tons of great options. I didn’t feel the need to perform for her and she loved it. I broke it off because the shit testing was so relentless, the sex wasn’t worth the headache for me. Who knew frame worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:07 PM
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He is a wealthy semi celebrity and is not interested in committing, he has stated. It is possible he did a thought experiment of how a woman might change his mind personally and applied that to all or most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:59 PM
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I’m very open to the idea he doesn’t understand women. He is also a wealthy minor celebrity and may be just walking through how a girl could land him personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:54 PM
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I think his point is men have a sex bias and women have a commitment bias. Both genders want those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:49 PM
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With all due respect, you’re 19 (so probably haven’t made your wealth, gotten your degree, created status) and you’re asexual. A women attempting to lock down a high value man who has lots of sexual options wouldn’t be catering to you. I think his advice was regarding a man of means for whom she wanted a relationship with especially to make a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:31 PM
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Your label is LVM or low value man advocate? Can you explain that? I know there is a purity bias in some men’s minds and some feel sexy on the first date disqualifies a woman for a LTR. I don’t share that bias even a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:28 PM
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Noted. This audience is why I’m doing this. I’ve binged Rollos stuff the last two years and it’s been so helpful. I see it everywhere now and so much more stuff makes sense that used to baffle me. I’m going back now to see basically where my mind used to be before I did this journey. I have no agenda here other than to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:03 PM
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So they say. I fuck it up. There’s sweeping then mopping and for some reason there’s still spots when I’m done but when my ex or gf does it looks nice. I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:00 PM
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Some men decide “I’m now ready to find a wife and make a family” but often men are wandering through their relationships or situationships without a goal. This kind of man described is very deliberate about his business life and very casual about his romantic life because it’s very hard to do both at the same time. She would just be a hookup to him. But he wouldn’t forget about her if she was adding this sort of experience to him. I’m curious how the men here will respond to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:57 PM
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I think the game here would likely be a period of time where she was gambling on this guy, being taken for granted for sure and she knows it. But she’s on a mission to lock this guy down and he doesn’t realize the game she’s playing. At some point, he goes from seeing her as just another sexual opportunity to having felt he found a gem that he would be stupid to throw away. It may not work In her favor but the probability it will is much higher than if she weren’t so crafty about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:53 PM
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I know two women who did this and got their guys. But both are conservative Christian women who want to be lead by a man. One of the guys is a professional athlete and the other a tall handsome successful businessman. Both of them think feminism is poison. I think this description above would be how TRP would be used as a woman to shoot higher than she would normally be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:50 PM
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I’m never not in the mood for sex but I do were and I saw her going for it, I’d be in the mood very quickly. I’d think her handling her sexual needs was very cool and is a testament to her self care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:32 PM
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I’m of the opinion that dating is similar to a marketplace. You’ll need to put your product where the customers can see it, make sure the label is nice and wait for buyers to come by and select. Are you a social person? Meeting with groups? Would you be happy to have a man approach you at a grocery store or gas station and ask your number?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:04 PM
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Some men find themselves to be auto repair geniuses, and floor mopping idiots. I’d consider myself in this category. No, I will never be good at cleaning things. I have a top 2% IQ and I look at cleaning a mess like it were an impossible puzzle. I can train your AI chat bot to manage your online business in an afternoon and I can fix your car. If I was supposed to mop floors, I’d hire a cleaning lady to do it for my rotation. It’ll take me 3x longer and it will be shitty work. I take great pride…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:02 PM
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This upsets you which I think is sorta odd. Yeah evo psych is cool. Doesn’t shoe horn anything. Just lays out the rules and describes typical behaviors and tries to attach an evolutionary meaning or basis for those behaviors. Evo psych isn’t provable, and changes as new data comes in but it’s extremely helpful. A man who isn’t brave enough to approach will be brave enough to fight off intruders? Not saying he won’t but confidence is a very common attraction cues from a woman. Not sure why her de…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:52 PM
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So interesting. Would you say your lesbian exploration was in any way influenced or motivated by your disappointment with men? And my experience in life is if I want to hang out with successful motivated businessmen, don’t go to a board game meetup. If I want to hang out with fit people, I’ll need to be in their environment. Nerdy guys will tend to be in nerdy locations and doing nerdy activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:44 PM
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Was this guy married before? Lots of married guys doing it for round two have a lot of the husband traits down well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:28 PM
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The clingy thing I think is scarcity and lack of intimacy that sort of man typically experiences. There are probably literally millions of men just like you described in the US. Sounds like you want it to be easy and comfortable and his uncertainty with himself can make it awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:26 PM
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You guys I think you’re describing a stereotypical reddit man. If you live in a decently populated area, there are thousands of these guys on reddit. I posted on r4r in San Diego for a friend of mine just to see who would be into her and she got about 3 guys like you describe, about 30 responses total in a couple days. One was a divorced guy about 46 and he seemed like a great option. She’s a trad con and wanted a more masculine assertive man and found him but that guy seemed super cool. I’d tot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:24 PM
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If you get on any dating app, or post a reddit post or even just wear a tshirt that says “single”, and go where there are people, you’ll be approached. 6s say they’re approached a ton. 10s say they’re almost never approached. Maybe you’re unusually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:20 PM
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Strongly disagree with this. In all gendered species, the gender that has the most investment in a child, like carting it for 9 months, typically the female, but not always, is the sexual selector. The gender with less investment in the offspring is the sexual aggressor. This has never been falsified in nature. Her interest in being approached by a sexual aggressor so she can select is perfectly natural and part of our DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:18 PM
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No I meant a man can have a lot of lousy partner qualities and a woman of little means might compromise on his personality because he’s a provider. This historically has been the norm. Marry a man so she can raise the kids and she’ll have to deal with whatever sort of man he turns out to be. Don’t know of anyone who would be jealous of a man that provides. I’m in favor of that. Would you be ok if he never cleaned the floors but always fixed the cars, built the fence, fixed the plumbing? Like he …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:14 PM
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I don’t think the men watching women get on the life boat while they were about to drown would agree that they were privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:09 AM
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You nailed it. I will never meet a man or woman that this has ever happed to. “If you shake your soda at the carnival, and it sprays out and melts your cotton candy, you shouldn’t expect the kids playing dart balloons to care about it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:46 AM
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Even a short ugly guy can get a lot of numbers. There’s a dude on YouTube who isn’t bad looking but is literally a homeless drunk guy and he picks up on women all the time and stay with them for days on end. Then back to the streets. 1% means you’re pretty shitty at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:09 AM
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There was a psychologist on YouTube he said one of his clients wanted to get past his approach anxiety and in 72 hours he approached something like 400 women. He went through the entire gambit of despair, hopelessness, frustration, confusion and ended up at total indifference to speaking to women which was a huge victory for him. If nothing else, cold approach can help a man become more brave and confident. Can help him understand psychology and human motivations better, can help him to be witty…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:07 AM
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With all due respect to the unethical traits women select, it’s a good system that has gotten us where we are. I find it pointless to have emotions about this. Those are the rules. We’re lucky to even be playing the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:49 AM
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Yeah it’s a wild world. Creating actual value in order to generate resources is harder than fraud or extortion. But the last two are quicker. I think breaking into the top 20% has never been easier than it is now. That isn’t cool for the bottom 80% of men but this competition is how we’re wired. An egalitarian or equal society isn’t natural. We’re not much better than a bear who holds down a living dog and eats it before it’s dead. We made laws to curb the worst aspects of our nature, but when r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:47 AM
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TRP doesn’t blame anyone for anything. Doesn’t excuse any behavior. Women aren’t a problem. Their attraction cues have made the human race what it is today and that’s a great thing for the human race, but it’s kinda shitty for men who can’t pass the tests. It clarifies the rules for attraction so both parties can better understand the other to either get what they want or to know how they can negotiate better for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:43 AM
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The average man has always been a comparative loser and still is. The average man now is doing great compared to 1000 years ago but so is most of humanity. In comparison to the top 20%, the average man is he’s better off than he was 1000 years ago, but a much bigger loser than 50 years ago. In terms of sex or reproductive options, women have never been losers. Any woman of any age and any appearance will have way more sexual and reproductive options than men. The bottom 10% of women have way mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:38 AM
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I’m sorry, how are men failing women? Honestly asking. I created this profile to dig into this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:15 AM
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The redpill honestly and unflattering informs men we have been losers and cannon fodder throughout the ages and that’s the deal. It isn’t pretty. If you got lucky you were born a lord. If not, you were made a eunuch to serve the queen or die making the Great Wall of china. In western society we have a rare moment in history where we can break out if we’re clever. But the other men around us are also clever so we need to be a little better and don’t quit to have a shot. Consuming redpill content …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:19 PM
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Honestly asking, how are men failing women? FDS commonly refers to all men or men in general as scrotes. I haven’t seen any helpful posts for either gender other than being aware of the worst sort of men, which is good advice. The worst sort of men aren’t most men. Any “redpill” YT channels that blanket refer to women as anything derogatory isn’t redpill. It’s clickbait. Rich Cooper admitted one of his most inflammatory video titles was baseless anger baiting. (He’s an arrogant dick that doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:15 PM
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See it this way, you need to check a lot of boxes before she’ll want sex. Consider them shit tests. Are you shit? She’ll want to make sure you genuinely check the boxes, safe, masculine, clean, self sufficient, emotionally stable, tall enough handsome enough, then it’s the playboy mansion for the two of you. Some women can’t ever shut off the shit testing even after you’ve passed the shit tests already and that’s normal too. It after you’ve checked the boxes, she wants you to touch her cracks. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:35 PM
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Anecdotally I can say some women want layers of consent. But that’s very uncommon. Some will respect you for continuing to ask for consent at various levels but won’t need it really. After you’ve passed the initial barriers, she wants you to touch all her cracks, to show that you want her as much as she wants you. You have created a moral dilemma in your own mind. Update us for date 5. Brother if it took 5 dates to have sex I’d find that assurance she wasn’t into me at all. 1-3 dates is enough f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:31 PM
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A few men were vastly favored historically, the other men treated like cannon fodder. Women were treated about the same as each other, not great, but better than the majority of men: “women and children first.” Men were conscripted and died. Worked the most dangerous jobs. Western modern society favors women. More education, more income for the same work, free to clubs and dates and lots of other smaller day to day favoritism, marriage laws favor women, often custody laws, thought that’s changed…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:50 PM
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Men will wait to have sex with who?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:31 PM
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If she likes you, She probably wonders why it took you 4 dates to touch her sexually. Ive had women tell me on the first date “are you going to kiss me or what?” Because she was feeling it and I was moving a little too slow. She confirmed a 5th date. 2nd base next buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:16 PM
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Most men would prefer to have more than one sex partner. Even if that desire is too small to make him seek that out, it lives in there. If there were zero consequences, men typically would chose that. Most men have few enough options that he’s better off in a relationship so he can have regular sex. Christian monogamy has been great for the average man in this regard. But if you’re very handsome, or have other highly desirable qualities and you have many options as a man, a relationship may not …
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 05:48 PM
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Ok. That is a nice companion. No one likes a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:37 PM
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If a man can have the same girl, identical girl in all respects, and one version is 23 and the other version is 43, there’s no boycott happening. If a woman can have the same man, identical man all respects, and one version is 5 foot four, and one version is 6 foot four, there is no boycott happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:32 PM
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Yes. Rachel settled for Ross when she was “done having her fun.” You’re speaking about average men and average women. If average men wait, get their careers fixed, have some assets, show some proof of concept, learn to keep their cars and houses clean, they are on average better off than the average 22 year old man. As a mans options dissipate, she’ll be more ready for whoever is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:30 PM
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The red pill is not angry, has no agenda, isn’t masculine or feminine, doesn’t care to be flattering and doesn’t advocate for anyone. It’s just the reality of our mating preferences. What we do with it is up to us. Both men and women can use RP information to get what they seek in the dynamic. A woman who understands how men are motivated can absolutely lock down a handsome successful man. He won’t know what happens d to him. Just that he’s happy as hell. RP content tends to be men and tends to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:26 PM
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Simpy men who go along with women don’t get far in their relationships. Girls get bored and or the ick. If he’s agreeable in the rest of his life very likely he’s pretty average in most respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:13 PM
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Yeah she won big. I didn’t get into it with him. When his first wife let him, he fucked around a lot. 146 women before he stopped counting, got a black belt in some bullshit martial arts, fixed his money from nearly being bankrupt to barely working every week making single digit 7 figures a year. He travelled. Burning man. He lived. Then he found this girl. They’ve already been married a long time and he’s very happy. I took it as a teaching moment for me tbh. I can’t put the blue pill lens back…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:08 PM
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Women have a dual mating strategy. Women want two kinds of men. Handsome tall masculine confident successful intelligent: the good genetics. The second guy she wants is a loyal provider, faithful. If she’s lucky she can get both guys in the same man. If not, she’ll fuck the good genetics guy because he’s hot. The loyal provider guy, if he isn’t the good genetics guy also, will wait. It isn’t always a bad thing. A friend of mine is a handsome intelligent loyal completely predictable non toxic mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:52 PM
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Women want sex and probably about the same as men do. Just they select much more carefully than men do. Men will have sex with a much wider variety of women, and their standards not very high. Women will have higher standards, have a lot of barriers to their sexual attraction, but when she’s found her guy, or the guy that passes her barriers, she’ll often want plenty of sex with him.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 08:57 PM
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Person to person, there are probably a blend of motivations for their selection process. Insecurity may be in the mix. A youthful woman is more likely to make healthy babies and so our DNA makes us sexually attracted to that. A tall man is more likely to be able to protect and provide so a woman’s DNA will simply see tall and think “I want to fuck that guy” and she may not be aware of why. In general, insecurity isn’t why men chose younger. It’s not a negative thing. That means his attraction co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:51 PM
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Women of any age can be very problematic or very interesting and intelligent. All things being equal, a woman will chose a man who is wealthier or taller. Two identical men, completely equal in all respects but one is 5’3” and one is 6’3”, she’ll chose taller. A women is more likely to overlook some things even for a taller or wealthier man that shouldn’t have with a man of less means. All things being equal, men will tend to chose younger for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:45 PM
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/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 02:57 PM
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Who taught men women are only good for sex? That isn’t redpill. That’s bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 02:56 PM
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InterSexual dynamics doesn’t need to paint anyone in a good light. It is what it is. Some of it is flattering and some of it’s not flattering. Without regard to the morality of exercising those options: Men want their cake and eat it too. Yes. They want to keep the mother of their children, protect and provide for her and the kids, also want sexual variety. Some men find this to be repulsive enough an idea they wouldn’t, some feel it’s immoral, some feel it will have such heavy consequences that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:26 PM
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The song desperado by the Eagles talks about this dichotomy of simply chasing pussy versus let somebody love you before it’s too late. In eastern religions and philosophies like Buddhism, sex is considered one of the lowest chakras and as someone elevates their consciousness they develop other desires like the desire to love and the desire to think. Regardless of your desire for sex, it’s pretty universally agreed that simply having sex or seeking sex isn’t the pathway to happiness. It is one am…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:28 PM
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What’s the difference between a man flirting with a beautiful woman that is not his partner, and a woman flirting with a man that is higher value than her man is he is looking for typically a one off sexual experience. Just some variety. She’s looking to trade up. A man can absolutely be in love with his wife, love the family they have, and also flirt with the beautiful woman that is not his partner for a one off sexual experience and then go back home to love his wife. Hypergamy cannot miss an …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:21 PM
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My brother is a lead guitar and sometimes vocalist in a small band. He’s got a prison record and no money and he pulls hot chicks all the time. He’s 6’4”, kinda handsome and charming as hell. Very fit. The stage gets him the opportunities and he closes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:04 PM
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What you’ll see more often is a man saying it’s cheaper to keep her, satisfying his sexual needs outside the marriage, then he’s blamed as a cheater and ruining the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:28 PM
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My SO. Being vulnerable with your significant other is perfectly OK as long as you are a strong man who takes care of his shit. If you are a weak victimized depressed man who won’t take responsibility for his life and then express vulnerability, she’ll simply see it as more weakness. in general women love when their warrior comes home and cries in their lap. But he needs to be a warrior. And if he has a good cry, it’s because he’s preparing himself for the next day of war
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:45 AM
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I’ve seen it stated that saying men in general are better athletes than women to misogynistic. This is true for any sport involving strength, endurance, and special ability like chess, and fast reflexes. I’m sure there is genuine misogyny. But a lot regular statements that are pretty obvious and factual are called misogyny. They’ll respond “not all men are better than all women” when that wasn’t what was stated. Then a warning or a ban for misogyny happens. It’s weird to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:41 AM
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I’m a polite person. This isn’t true. There are politely spoken words that some get very emotional about based on the content of the words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:36 AM
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That’s nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:33 AM
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Then maybe you cracked the code. I’ve been banned in several subs for what I thought were pretty benign statements
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:32 AM
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I think this is it. I’m sure it’s well meaning but it amounts to misguided censorship and harms the subject and prevents the truth from emerging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:31 AM
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All or everyone I’m sure will get you banned but even a carefully worded suggestion all humans aren’t completely random and individual can get a warning and anything about women seems to get the hammer dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:30 AM
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I agree that psychology isn’t really a provable science but it’s so reliable it wins elections and makes salesmen into millionaires. The CIA says people are laughably predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:29 AM
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“Well documented” is different than wild conspiracy theories with no documentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:27 AM
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I think Davi’s buss is a feminist and this study wouldn’t be flattering I don’t think to that ideology. His data wasn’t falsified. His conclusions are debated some but the data is hard to argue with. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/29871054_International_Preferences_in_Selecting_Mates_A_Study_of_37_Cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:27 AM
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That’s not science and not what I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:25 AM
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This is a great study that did research regarding mate selection in 37 cultures. This culture is were chosen to be unrelated to each other without cultural influence to each other to make sure that there was no bias between cultures or media. So it’s well documented. Nothing in this study has been debunked by anybody. The things discovered in the study have an extremely solid basis evolutionary psychology, greatly informed us how we have survived as a species. Edit spelling https://www.researchg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:25 AM
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That’s a straw man response. I wasn’t referring to all anyone being all anything. I was referring to things that are well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:23 AM
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Bingo. Being permanently banned is t caution. It’s censoring and information because it’s “offensive” which is dumb. Science doesn’t need to make you feel good. It needs to discover things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:21 AM
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I don’t claim my person experience to be science. Dr David buss has done a lot of brilliant research into this. Women selecting for resources and men selecting for signs of fertility were consistent across 37 unrelated cultures. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/29871054_International_Preferences_in_Selecting_Mates_A_Study_of_37_Cultures If you’re saying me reading this is my personal experience then yes. I read it personally. What was so brilliant about this is he chose so many cultures …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:20 AM
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Good question. I don’t know. Sadia Khan talks about this. She said that by the time women have sons that are of the age to be able to date, the moms are well past their party, hoe phase. Boys tend to believe that all girls are like their mothers, responsible, want stable providing men for emotionally available. Boys don’t know their moms may have been very slutty when they could do that. Not only do fathers tell their daughters about scumbag men, they tell their sons about women’s faults too. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:51 PM
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Humility means you view yourself as not as important at as others, in a way that elevates them, doesn’t lower you. Humility is more important for a lasting marriage than love is because it allows you to live peacefully and not create resentment. Love or no love, arrogance will blow a relationship apart. You don’t insist on your own way about things that don’t matter that much. Quick to apologize and forgive, encourages gratitude for even small things. Humility is beautiful for both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:58 PM
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Status is either more people looking to you for resources or for answers. In the case of a celebrity, it’s how visible or well known you are. Ghandi had status. Everyone deferred to him when he was in the room despite being so small and soft spoken. He was also having a ton of sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:54 PM
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