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| 1 | What exactly does one say when asking a girl out?Ask for her phone number, call her, talk about bs for a little, invite her someplace. Wait like a boss and don't disqualify yourself. If good get date, if bad don't let it phase you and try again later | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 12:34 AM |
| 1 | am I just fooling myself?You will never be perfect. Dont wait for anything. You shouldnt fear rejection and thats the worst someone can do to you | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 04:29 PM |
| 2 | What does seddit think?This has been stolen from here: http://www.bristollair.com/2008/inner-game/nature-reality/the-truth-about-women/ | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with BaldingThe girls only care about how cool and confident you are. Don't let it phase you and act like normal. A young chick might be a little shocked that you don't have hair, but she isnt going to shut you down over it. Expect shit tests though, acting like it doesn't phase you is the only way to pass | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 03:15 AM |
| -1 | I fucked up, and now I'm a mess. I need to figure out how to keep from making the same damn mistakes.Next time you are with her, just grab her boobs and don't apologize | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 12:07 AM |
| 9 | Shit pick-up Artists say.Hilarious | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Friend Zone [xpost from TwoXChromosomes]From a guys perspective there are some girls that make you feel something. And a fear of messing things up makes you take a more cautious approach. Girls perceive this as being weak/timid when compared to the guy who does not feel anything. When in reality it takes a lot more effort to seduce a girl that you like and know versus a girl you just met and want to date 'casually' | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 02:22 AM |
| 2 | How to make the most out of lifeDont put off things, like: I'll do this when I have blank. Do what you want right now. | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "You're cute"?I would own it and say something like damn right I'm cute and maybe call her handsome or something | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Could use some advice... I've been reading seduction material since 2004, it has helped me in innumerable ways, but over the past couple years I've been closing myself off and staying at home mostly..I felt the same way last night reading your post. Then I remembered I promised an old friend I would shoot pool with him and logged into facebook to let him know when/where, and I went to this girls page that I kinda like cause of her status or something. She was at some steak place with my cube mate at work (we all use to work together she has since left) I was pretty pissed. So instead of sitting at home and reading reddit and thinking all day I went out to the coolest bar downtown by myself. … | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 01:35 PM |
| -1 | Tips for first date with a stripper?She is using you for money and entertainment. She wants drug money. But on the plus side she will fuck you. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 05:25 PM |
| -4 | How do I get a "crew" of friends when I don't have one?A Guy's friends are the people you have known forever due to work, school, etc, reconnect with those guys. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 03:59 PM |
| 0 | To delete from Facebook or not?Block her, she will be pissed and think about you / want to resolve conflict | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Introverts of seddit, what do you want from a woman?I dont really want anything from a women, unless I'm attracted to her. In which case I just want to spend time with her because she makes me happy and fuck her of course. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Text stuffomg 8 texts world ending | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Text stuffI didn't blow up her phone... | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else come to seddit anyway but realize a majority of the information here doesn't apply to them?Go play billards wih some friends, hit on waitresses when you are out eating, go play poker, flirt with girls at the bank, behind the register or in line. Go to a park and ask a girl for directions in an obvious I'm flirting with you way. Girls are everywhere | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 04:42 PM |
| -3 | Seduction realizationWhats this guy smoking | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:48 AM |
| 0 | found the Girl of my dreams, we have an amazing time together, suddenly just wants to be friends. Help!Dont be her friend, it will be the most painful thing that has ever happened to you. Cut all ties and look elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Rudest thing I've ever heard from a girlDont take her too seriously, sort of like how you would treat a child if they said the same thing. | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.Fat girls are more eager to please etc | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 03:28 AM |
| 1 | I don't drink and I'm young. Where do I take the ladies for a good time?Concerts, coffee, the park, (bike ride / night time walk), shopping, billards, movies, restaurant, etc | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 11:29 PM |
| 1 | DAE think life would be better if you had some to share it with?Of course, I'd love to travel etc, but going alone seems like no fun. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 11:11 PM |
| 3 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?Go to a church youth group | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 06:39 PM |
| 2 | What are women thinking?I'm a single guy and I tend to go for the shortest line, or the self checkout, but then again if I was standing between two equally long lines and saw an uber hot girl in one I would go for it. | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 02:24 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Got her number on Wednesday night, she stands me up Saturday. What did I do wrong?Sounds like low attraction really, she wants to see how you respond to her bs, I'd say ignore her and game other girls. | /r/seduction | 01/05/11 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Any Tips on Picking Up Girls in Public?Most people expect someone to want something when they approach them. The easiest openers are asking for something. (I always need to ask people for crap like 25 cents for the $1.25 coke machines, paper, pencils, etc.) Directions can work, but most people will expect you to actually go to where you are asking help with finding. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Do you get numbers offered to you often or do you have to ask for them every time?I ask, as I normally get a number pretty quick after talking to them once. Numbers are next to worthless though as she will either ignore you, bring up a boyfriend, or act like a bitch to get you to back off. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What to do in the seconds after you're denied a kiss?Act like it doesnt bother you at all. If you are no longer having fun because of it, I'd end the interaction instead of lowering your value sitting there with a girl who isnt sure what she wants. | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 02:16 AM |
| -18 | Girlfriend and I got gamed Mystery styleI've noticed one guy at my university. He is an overweight, ugly, indian guy, but is very sociable. I'm 99% sure he is into pickup. He has this one decent blonde girl that he hangs out with. (bad complexion) But I'm pretty sure she has him in the "this is a guy I would never fuck" zone that lets her be friendly without feeling guilty. -- Dont know why I'm posting this here, but hey. | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 03:25 AM |
| 3 | How badly did I fail at text messaging... repeatedly?She wouldnt be talking to you if she wasnt interested. Go out with her, if you dont like her you can leave any moment. | /r/seduction | 12/02/11 02:20 PM |
| -4 | Hey Seddit, a text game questionDon't ask girls to go out by text ever, Call her. Don't remind her that you asked her out, she knows, she ignored it. Her ignoring you doesn't mean she hates you, it means she didn't feel like she wanted to be alone with you. (lack of attraction) ignore her for a couple weeks, call her, catch up first, then ask her out again. | /r/seduction | 10/02/11 03:13 AM |
| 0 | An interview with someone who was on VH1's "The Pickup Artist"This is an objective and unbiased article. Everyone should take this piece to heart and dismiss pickup completely. | /r/seduction | 10/02/11 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How can you tell if you're good looking?/r/amiugly | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 12:11 AM |
| 3 | [fR] Great first date and then she drops me. Why?I would of been more sexual with her on the date, but either way her ex probably came crawling back. You cant really stop that if she wants him back. Best thing you can do is forget about her and move on. | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Bald or balding puasThe real issue is how you feel about it. If some one calls you on losing hair, which is a real low blow, it is on you to either act like it doesnt bother you or break down in front of her. | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How to handle being teasedI would tease her right back and show that her comments dont bother me by agreeing. eg: Nice shirt! -- Thanks my mom bought it for me, I'll let you borrow it someday. | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I was told years ago "I bet you are always just friends"That would really piss me off if a girl said that to me. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 04:10 PM |
| 5 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?I wasnt exactly saying to tell the girls that, just trying to get you to do something more entertaining than video games. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 01:21 AM |
| 3 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?One time I went with my roommate to a bar in arlington. It was pretty dead we were going to go checkout another bar, but as I was paying this mexican chick started talking to us out of no where. (No young guys were there, place was completely dead) Anyway, we told her we were going to check out milo's not too far away and she wanted to come with us. She took her own car, me and my buddy took my truck down there and we all went in. She mentions her ex-boyfriend just got out of the marines and she… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 12:58 AM |
| 10 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?You are boring when you do nothing with your free time except play video games. Go to a bar, go to a concert, go to a strip club, go do something. You will eventually have a lot of cool stories to tell from those experiences. Go hit on girls and fail miserably. It will at least give you some experience and a story to tell. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 12:28 AM |
| -2 | [Female FR] Awesome is what awesome does!lol | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 10:28 PM |
| -4 | [Female FR] Awesome is what awesome does!No offense, but a girl doesnt run into the same bs that guys deal with. This is basically a story of you whoring yourself out. | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 09:04 PM |
| 2 | For every post by guys who are getting discouraged...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0N-c8MIFvaI | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 10:18 PM |
| 1 | End of semester, is this girl showing interest?I see nothing here that says you arent already in friend zone. Ask her out, 50% likely she isnt interested and will kill the friendship. But if you dont care you have nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 07/12/10 03:01 AM |
| 10 | Are women aware of the pickup community now?I wouldnt say it's common knowledge, but more people know about it since the mystery method, the game, the pick up artist vh1 show etc. But even if everyone knew about it, it would be hard to know if you were practicing it. (Not that I really think everyone should be ashamed about it.) | /r/seduction | 07/12/10 02:54 AM |
| 2 | How to tell the difference between flirting and being friendly?As a guy who screwed up two sets of girls by telling them how I felt, let me assure you that making a move is much much better of a play. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I get out of the success/fail mindset?So, if your goal is to fail and you succeed, does that mean you've failed or succeeded? | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 02:02 AM |
| -1 | Self Deprecating HumorIt works because it tells other people you are below them. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk to a girl when you have nothing to say?tease her about something | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you make you intentions clear to a girl? I'm just looking for fun, nothing serious.Just tell her you arent looking for anything serious. | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Can't read her, should I call the girl or back off?I've heard of instances where a girl will ask for space, the guy will give it to her, and she will be pissed at him because he listened to her. If you do contact her, it needs to be in a cocky funny way. Not a I have feelings for you and I'm pathetic sort of way. You are back at square one with this chick. | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 02:09 AM |
| 1 | FR lame date, girl leaves early in a huffI just think it was a misunderstanding. You arent a jerk, just apologize and explain things. But thats assuming you want to see her again, if it went like that I wouldnt. | /r/seduction | 31/10/10 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What's the worst reaction you ever got from trying to take the interaction to a sexual level with a girl?I had a girl call the university police on me for trying to kiss her. The police gave me a ticket and I was put on academic probation based only on what she told them. (I left after she freaked out, didnt even touch her, but she told the police I grabbed her and forcibly kissed her.) A couple of months later she complained to the university again about me and I got suspended for a year. I was working closely with a married girl around my age at a new job on a project that we were both in charge … | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 10:45 PM |
| 1 | DeAngelo's "Deep Inner Game" or Durden's "The Blueprint"?I downloaded a torrent of deep inner game, most of it was completely worthless. I didnt even finish watching it. | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 10:17 PM |
| 2 | What do women want?!They dont know what they want either. You have to convince them that they want you. | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 09:46 PM |
| 1 | So...why did she flake?That's last minute resistance, she is trying to not be slutty and make you take it from her. You didnt. She fucked some other guy and is now ignoring you. | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 02:07 AM |
| 8 | What do you girls think when a random guy talks to you?Might want to send this question over to XX. | /r/seduction | 12/10/10 02:35 AM |
| 1 | FR: Nothing happenedYou were probably stuck in your head thinking. Which isnt where you want to be. Call a friend, talk to the first person you see, do anything to get into a social mindset and your AA will fade. Joke/mess with people, you will notice when you are tense it is near impossible to do so. | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Really hot chick, just called me 12:43am, saying she wants me....Go to a place with a bed where you can be alone. Hug her, kiss her, undress her, fuck her, dont call or respond to any messages she sends you immediately. | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What are the disadvantages of watching porn?Jerking it lowers your serum testosterone levels which makes you more meek/timid. | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Alright, give me some advice here.Right now I know I should distance myself from her. She is taking me for granted / losing respect. But should I stop being her friend completely? Should I tell her anything? (I know telling her how I feel wont change how she feels and she probably doesnt care.) Last time I was in this situation I got way too attached to a girl by staying in friend zone. I dont want to repeat this, but I dont find girls I have strong feelings for easily either. I know nothing about her dating style or boyfriend, … | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid the LJBF zone?You can always rebound, but it depends on the situation. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How do I avoid the LJBF zone?Touching her tells her that you want to be more than friends. Letting her know that she is cute, hot, whatever tells her that you are a potential guy. I know getting a girls number tends to put her in that 'he is about to ask me out' state of mind even if you just want to be friends. She will LJBF you if she is not attracted to you, being passive/weak will do this, being cocky/funny on the other hand will build attraction. If you manage to take her out and you miss an oppourtunity when she is gi… | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1252801662339654284# | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 03:28 AM |
| 14 | Don't be this guyTryhard. I dont lie about things, but even if I have done something impressive flat out saying it in a you should be impressed manner is a dlv. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, if you ask a girl if she has a BF and she says yes, what do you say next?I would play it off like I'm not hitting on her, like whoa I just want to be friends. (when you both know that's bs) Girls with bf's give out numbers all the time. After that you just got to keep interacting with her until that one day she is pissed off at him for whatever reason. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Got girl's email, now what to say...or even to email at all. hmmIf she worked there, she was probably selling you things and being friendly. Dont ever ask for an email again, go for a phone number. You can email her if you want, but 99% chance you will not get a response. | /r/seduction | 21/09/10 01:40 AM |
| 7 | FR: HB8 For me I think and I'm new to this stuff. What do you guys think?Fuck her. | /r/seduction | 19/09/10 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Video of a guy trying to pickup a girl at the beach using one of the tactics mentioned on Seddit!@ 50 seconds: He is nervous and asks stupid questions without building any attraction. Do you live here? What do you do in the evening? I cant speak english, please be my friend :( I dont think the bomb comment means anything, just act cocky/funny and play it off. | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 07:44 PM |
| 3 | What's your take on being sober and talking to drunk girls?Alcohol doesnt change your emotional state. Look at all the boring guys with AA standing / sitting with friends not talking to anyone with a beer in their hands. Redbull should cure the tiredness. | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I might have picked the wrong university.At that point it should strike you that they are really religious, play off your opener, and keep the conversation going. I doubt the girls are dtf, but you could likely number close the one you like and go for a 2ndday makeout session. They're probably virgins that never drink. | /r/seduction | 18/09/10 07:28 PM |
| 7 | This wasn't my University, but the same thing has happened twice at my University...So at what age do you become too old to get a college education? | /r/MensRights | 17/09/10 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Strange but interesting tactic. Can you awesome PUA guys give me your thoughts/ opinions.I dont think so. That story creeped me out. -- And I never get creeped out. | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Girls drunk/on drugs, do you give a shit/make any changes?They want to be cool with the Dj, they are after your status only. Do what you want, but I don't think it's your job to save these girls from themselves. They will be all over the next Dj working as well, except he might not care. | /r/seduction | 14/09/10 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Big changes after AMOGing. I'm really amazed.Amoging usually refers to the amog testing your frame / giving you shit. So the title confused me a bit. | /r/seduction | 14/09/10 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Tips to Kino Escalate on a first date?I tend to start a date with a hug if that helps. Kind of hard to tell you when to make a move as there are many variables. But if she is having a good time you can get away with making contact. I don't get hand holding really, could end up lingering and get awkward. Try to get close enough comfortably to the point where you can make out. | /r/seduction | 09/09/10 08:13 PM |
| 3 | How Men Can Ensure There Will Be No Second DateThis has nothing to do with seduction, reads like a cosmo article. | /r/seduction | 07/09/10 02:03 PM |
| 1 | ATTENTION SEDDIT: There is no such thing as online game. Go out and find real girls to game on. Every rejection is a learning experience.Just got back from a clinic I've been going to for a while. Always flirted with the receptionist, last day I'm going to be there. On the way out I ask for her number. Look of disgust and straight "No" with a vocal tone of I cant believe you just asked that. :( | /r/seduction | 31/08/10 05:53 PM |
| 2 | "canned openers" how do they work?The page isnt loading for me right now, but here is a google webcache. I would never use a canned opener as if anyone has heard it before you will get caught on it. http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:ZpH3KvqcSLYJ:www.bristollair.com/outer-game/-pua-routines/-pua-openers.html+http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/-pua-routines/-pua-openers.html&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us | /r/seduction | 31/08/10 03:03 PM |
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