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Haha I lived in nyc for the last decade, just moved to Austin Texas a few months back. Broadening the cultural range of women definitely wasn’t an issue for me brother, but I appreciate the feedback and am happy for your own personal successes
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 06:50 PM
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Agreed on that, I also mentioned I agreed with you beforehand. And brother, as someone who’s been training martial arts his whole life, you definitely wouldn’t spar that often lmao. Even forgetting about what I would do, considering I’m just some random guy on reddit, it’s impossible to name a single high-level professional athlete who trains hardcore every time they train. Again, they would either get badly injured, burn out or they wouldn’t be able to be a top athlete because they’d never mast…
/r/seduction28/12/20 05:42 AM
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Of course brother. If you need any more clarification drop a comment here
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:49 AM
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Of course brother
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:47 AM
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This was a reply to another comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kkqw45/spam_approachingdming_tons_of_women_isnt_going_to/gh975le/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:47 AM
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No, but you also wouldn’t put a boxer in a ring who spent all of his time sparring without learning technique, which is also the point of this post and I think we both agree on. Also, you wouldn’t put a boxer through sparring sessions 5+ times a week because he’ll either burn out, not be able to actually master his skill set, or eventually get seriously injured, which was the crux of the post.
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:46 AM
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Some of the stuff I worked on! https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kkqw45/spam_approachingdming_tons_of_women_isnt_going_to/gh975le/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:45 AM
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Hey brother, thanks for your comment! I agree with a lot of what you said here in terms of why approaching is important to do, especially for guys with AA. My point in this post, as defined in the title, is that spam approaching won’t help you find your ideal partner, nor will it necessary make you better with women. You might get more comfortable with approaching women if you spam approach, which is great, but throwing shit at a wall and hoping it sticks isn’t the best way of going about improv…
/r/seduction28/12/20 03:44 AM
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For some things I worked on, refer here: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/kkqw45/spam_approachingdming_tons_of_women_isnt_going_to/gh975le/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 In terms of mentors, some were friends but most were paid coaches and mentors
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:39 AM
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Communication skills: Storytelling, vocal tonality and building rapport to name some basic ones. Personal development: Understanding who I am and what I represent as a man + my core values, improving my confidence/self esteem/self image & incorporating positive momentum routines into my daily life. (Reading, meditating, meeting with like-minded entrepreneurs in a accountability group, etc.) Hope this was helpful in providing practical examples!
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:38 AM
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Waiting isn’t the answer; I didn’t passively sit by and wait. I took massive action towards self-improvement, and then after a little time had passed, I put myself right back out there to start taking action in my dating life.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:36 AM
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Oh boy, the random guy on reddit caught me red handed. I’m clearly scamming each and every one of you
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:35 AM
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Damn dude, you’ve found me out. Lol Yes. It is an observation. One that I believe tons of guys, especially former red pill, can relate to. On top of that, I never claimed it to be anything other than my own personal experience. Also, I provided what I consider to be some valuable insight in terms of what DID work for me, and what I know to work for plenty of other guys. Cheers brother, hoping you’re enjoying the holiday season
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 12:03 AM
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Been in a monogamous relationship for going on 4 years in Jan. 🙏🏻
/r/ExRedPill27/12/20 05:40 AM
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Yes sir! Happy holidays brother, cheers
/r/seduction24/12/20 08:15 PM
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Yup. You’re so right brother. Can’t teach charisma/the art of skillful communication. Not possible. The literal hundreds of thousands of examples of men and women around the world improving this aspect of their lives is all a lie and made up. Cheers brother thank you so much.
/r/seduction24/12/20 07:55 PM
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Yup. You’re so right brother. Can’t teach charisma/the art of skillful communication. Not possible. The literal hundreds of thousands of examples of men and women around the world improving this aspect of their lives is all a lie and made up. Cheers brother thank you so much.
/r/seduction24/12/20 07:54 PM
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You’re totally right man, I’m a sham, my whole life and career has been a lie, and it’s impossible to improve your communication skills and become a better man. Therefore, we should all just accept exactly who we are and where we’re at and never try and improve. Thank you for this amazing comment.
/r/seduction24/12/20 07:44 PM
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Thanks man, been working on it lately.
/r/seduction03/12/20 05:50 AM
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Took me 84 hours, 47 minutes & 15 1/2 seconds to write this one post actually. Extraordinarily disappointed you don’t like it. I guess I can just never write another post again because some random guy on reddit told me my post was shit. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction03/12/20 01:53 AM
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Double got em
/r/seduction02/12/20 06:56 PM
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Great comment and totally agreed!
/r/seduction02/12/20 06:56 PM
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🙏🏻
/r/seduction02/12/20 04:18 AM
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Thanks for reading brother. Glad I could be of some value to you!
/r/seduction02/12/20 04:12 AM
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Got em 😂😉
/r/seduction02/12/20 04:11 AM
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100000% ABroham Lincoln
/r/seduction02/12/20 04:10 AM
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1000000%
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:02 PM
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Fucking love this. Really happy to hear that man, and you’re 100% welcome. Whatever you want to achieve, make that shit happen.
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:02 PM
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I greatly appreciate that man. Happy to have made some sort of impact on you
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:01 PM
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Cheers brother!
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:01 PM
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You’ll only overcome it if you’re willing to stare adversity in the fucking face and continue moving forward brother. And I believe that you can do that. Make sure to stop and smell the roses along your journey
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:00 PM
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Weirdest comment I’ve seen on my thread so far 😂😂
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:00 PM
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Some good shit to think about man. Happy this post was of value to you.
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:59 PM
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Thank you for this comment brother, it’s why I do the work that I do. Much love
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:58 PM
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So true brother. Thank you for sharing this awesome comment
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:58 PM
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I appreciate you brother. Super pumped this was able to shine a bit of light in that darkness us men often find ourselves.
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:57 PM
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Exactly! If it’s not the right fit, then so be it.
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:38 AM
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Agree with this 1000000%, wish I could upvote more than once lol. My general rule: for every hour of content you watch, you should be implementing for at least 3-5 hours.
/r/seduction19/11/20 12:55 AM
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1) I never said men own their women. EVER. Because that’s disgusting and something I vehemently disagree with. 2) Masculine leadership is not a tactic, it’s a way of being. 3) I don’t model it as a teacher student relationship, you’re wrong and nothing in my post insinuates that, it’s probably just you’re negative perception. 4) You’re literally writing comments to attack a person you’ve never met about things you clearly don’t understand. I genuinely from the bottom of my heart wish you the bes…
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:35 AM
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I don’t use “tactics.” There are no power dynamics. I love how you, as a woman yourself, think it’s a bad thing that men want to be positive role models for their women and encourage them to grow in all of the areas of their lives. It amazes me that you think growth and fulfillment is a bad thing. You really do make me laugh, and you certainly don’t speak for any other woman but yourself,
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:25 AM
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No my friend. You’re delusional. I’ve known guys who were 5’3 and doing AMAZING in their dating lives. I’ve known guys who were completely cross eyed and dating Instagram models. You’re just wrong, and I really do feel for you. Work on your mindset and limiting beliefs brother, your future self will thank you.
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:22 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:20 AM
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Again. Not barking. Speaking to be heard is a sign of confidence. You should pretty much never have to be asked to repeat yourself or “what was that?” Speaking loudly and clearly covers that.
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:53 PM
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This doesn’t mean yell, which is what I’m assuming you think most Americans do. (Which is actually pretty accurate when you tell people in America to speak louder lol) it just means speak louder.
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:50 PM
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He didn’t really dissect my points lmao, that guy clearly doesn’t have a single clue as to what he’s talking about. But for you, my friend, I went ahead and responded. (:
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:39 PM
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1) You’re wrong. Height isn’t relevant. They will listen to the most charismatic leader. 2) “My voice is shit.” You’re fucking attitude is shit. You can always work on improving your vocal tonality. Always. 3) If women are usually avoiding eye contact with you, it’s almost always because they aren’t comfortable. 4) What does women sensing serial killers have to do with absolutely anything here? 5) I don’t understand why you would approach women you’re not attracted to, but okay. 6) You’re not su…
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:38 PM
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Agreed on doing things for yourself.
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:30 PM
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Lmao I love how he asked you to tell him why my post is inaccurate and instead you wasted your time writing a mostly inaccurate guide yourself.
/r/seduction16/11/20 01:30 PM
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Cool
/r/seduction14/11/20 04:56 PM
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You’re going to live a miserable life if you don’t work on your mentality. No more replies from me my friend. Cheers.
/r/seduction14/11/20 04:56 PM
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You’re 100000% wrong and I really feel bad for you brother. You’re young though, 20 from what I read in your post. Now is the time to start taking ownership and responsibility over your life. Here’s a thought to chew on for you: If ANYONE who had their college experience “ruined” by the pandemic and has a shitty social life in general is having a good dating life right now, then you can too. And believe me, because some of them are guys I work with, there are plenty.
/r/seduction14/11/20 04:39 PM
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It’s not the advice, it’s the person reading it. You’re blaming the pandemic, your social life, your lack of college experience; nothing is to blame but you. When you get that, your life will change my friend.
/r/seduction14/11/20 04:25 PM
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Haha I appreciate it!
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:57 PM
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I’ve been in the men’s dating community for 6 years, coached dozens of clients online and in person around the world, and this rings true every time. Not sure what experience you’ve had my friend, but if you’re not getting results when expressing your vulnerability, you’re probably coming from a place of neediness or weakness instead of freedom and power, which is the key to attractive vulnerability.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:57 PM
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I’ve known guys who’ve lived in their fucking cars (homeless) and were high school dropouts and slept with women women on a nightly basis. You’re wrong my friend. Your perception and beliefs are everything, and if they’re negative, you’ll get negative
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:55 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:53 PM
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Faking it till you make it never works long-term. If you are able to get any results faking it, you’ll feel miserable and develop more self-hate than you can imagine. Vulnerability from a place of strength is different than vulnerability from a place of weakness. One is SIGNIFICANTLY more powerful than the other. If you’re just walking up to women complaining all the fucking time or crying about something in your life, than yeah, it’s probably not going to get you a lot of results. But if you’re…
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:53 PM
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And you read like someone who has nothing better to do but judge other people on the internet.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:50 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you said here. I didn’t make this post as the “is all, be all” of dating advice. Self-improvement and personal development is ESSENTIAL, not just for attracting women, but for life. “Become a better man to attract better women.” Is literally my favorite line in dating. Not really a disagreement from me here, and if you check my profile, I’ve written a ton of other posts similar to what you spoke about. Also have a shit ton of YouTube videos on them as well. Good share …
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:48 PM
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Yup! Great read
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:44 PM
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You don’t make those things more or less attractive. Re-read the post. Accepting them makes YOU a more attractive individual, not those things more or less attractive.
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:00 AM
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One of the most beautiful states to live in, and a beautiful comment here. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
/r/seduction13/11/20 06:00 AM
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Of course man, and you’ll get there. Takes time
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:35 PM
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This is a takers mindset. You should always be looking to be valuable, regardless of getting value back. That’s what givers do, and that’s why they get so much. It’s not about giving to get my friend. It’s also not giving to people who don’t deserve it, because fuck those people, I don’t want to waste my time on people who don’t value me. But is always about giving without a need for expectation. They’re not obligated to like you or give back, but that’s not why you give.
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:35 PM
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Couldn’t agree more
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:33 PM
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Sure you can. Takes time
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:32 PM
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I appreciate it man thanks for reasing
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:31 PM
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Not there just yet brother lmao but I appreciate the comment
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:31 PM
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This is awesome man. Good stuff and glad to hear it
/r/seduction09/11/20 03:21 PM
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Dude, late 20s is a fucking baby. 40s and 50s is young as fuck. It’s not too late AT ALL. If you want to change, there’s so much time and room to do so.
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:38 PM
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So accurate man. It’s an unfortunate reality
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:46 PM
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Good stuff!
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:13 AM
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I agree. Nothing in this post disagreed with this.
/r/seduction29/10/20 04:02 PM
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Of course. If you re-read my post, I’m specifically talking about INITIAL approaches only, falling for someone does NOT happen initially. Also, I never claimed that this filter worked 100% of the time, or often at all. I simply stated what exists and how best to work within the given systems
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:37 PM
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Aside from your opinion, please explain.
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:33 PM
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Of course they do. That’s why I literally said INITIAL judgement; not long-term judgement or decisions. Also, women stay with shitty guys, and guys stay with shitty women, because of sub-conscious drives that are hurting instead of helping them. That’s a whole different topic, but it’s not something logical.
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:32 PM
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Wrong. Men are a light switch in terms of their attraction to women; women are more like a dial. Any man with tons of experience approaching women would tell you this,
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:28 PM
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Very thoughtful reply, thanks for sharing. 🙏🏻
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:27 PM
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What are you afraid of?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:10 PM
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I definitely hear you on the burnout man. What caused that? And also what have you been working on for the escalating?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:09 PM
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What have you tried so far to work on developing those things??
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:09 PM
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Love that you took the time to read and comment on this; I appreciate you sharing your perspective!
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:33 AM
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Very good point here, tons of nuances could be made. Appreciate you contributing.
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:32 AM
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I mean, if she’s taking hours to respond each and every time, then that probably means that you’re not a priority, or that she’s busy. (Most likely the first one) You CAN set a boundary if someone is taking a long time to text you back, it just comes across as needy behavior in a lot of cases. (Why? Because you should have other things you’re doing in your life that keep you excited, not just revolve your life around waiting for one text back) Not saying that’s you btw, just giving an example.
/r/seduction24/10/20 04:48 PM
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They can take as long as they want to text back, just like you can. If you’re talking about ghosting you in general, you can send a follow up text and if they don’t reply, then it wasn’t meant to be anyways.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:42 PM
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I highly recommend that book as well! Funny you said that, I’m actually reading through it myself now. Only through the first few pages but I’m excited to match up some of my real-world experience with someone else’s.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:41 PM
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You’re totally wrong. Dating apps are GREAT. And there are tons of great women on there. It depends how your profile is set up, the pictures you use, the messages you send; all of this is relevant to the quality of women you’re interacting with online. Have you tried working on your profile?
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:40 PM
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Appreciate you.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:38 PM
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Express how her being late made you feel in a non-needy, matter of fact way. Set your boundary on timeliness. If she crosses that boundary again, cut her off. She’s not worth your time if she can’t respect you.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:37 PM
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This is 100% accurate. A man who can’t defend his boundaries will never be able to defend her.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:36 PM
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Definitely.
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:29 PM
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If it’s a pattern that women aren’t responding, there’s probably a reason for that. (The way you’re texting, boring conversation, you never really got her interested, too much back and forth, etc.) There are boundaries you can set with texting, but it seems in this case there’s probably some deeper stuff going on before boundaries should even come into play. Why do you think they don’t respond generally?
/r/seduction24/10/20 02:29 PM
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I appreciate it! Thank you
/r/seduction22/10/20 05:42 PM
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This is 100% on point.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 03:44 AM
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THIS ^ Thank you for sharing your perspective/experiences! This is super insightful for so many guys, and I love that you’re not sugar coating. Men need to hear this truth
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 12:01 AM
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What have you tried to work around all that?
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:47 PM
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Have you tried any other ways aside from clubgame of meeting women?
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:18 PM
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What is your frame like when you're approaching? What about after the conversation begins?
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:03 PM
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Restaurants? Cafes? Your home?
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:02 PM
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It’s long term vs short term thinking my friend, believe me, I work with plenty of guys who have that mentality and struggle to give it up until they realize how bad it’s hurting them long term
/r/seduction14/02/20 06:58 PM
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100% brother, glad it was a good read for you! What are you doing right now to overcome some of that emotional pain?
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:49 AM
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But she’s not better than you. She’s just a woman who happened to win the genetics lottery. She did legit nothing to earn or deserve her looks; how does that make someone better than someone else?
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:48 AM
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Agreed with taking action, a million percent. I fucking wish more guys just shut up and DID THE FUCKING WORK. BUT. Inner game isn’t bullshit. If you’re a shitty guy with “good game,” you’re still a shitty guy who won’t feel any better no matter how many women you hook up with. To GREAT with women, and not GOOD, you have to have both your inner and outer “game” on point.
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:48 AM
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A trillion and sixty two percent, you’re right about the faking it till you make it thing. That’s total and utter bullshit. Also, the mindset of “fucking” as many women as possible is an awful, toxic one to have, if any guys are still thinking like that. Growth takes the courage to act and the dedication to see it through.
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:46 AM
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Quality over quantity is a massive concept I wish more guys understood.
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:44 AM
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You’re totally welcome brother!
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:42 AM
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Wrong. Nobody likes to get approached by the creepy guy. I guarantee that if Brad Pitt or some guy you find to be super cool and has great vibes were to approach you, you'd be happy to chat.
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:36 AM
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Agreed! Self & Social awareness is a key aspect to being an authentic communicator. Really important point.
/r/seduction15/10/19 06:36 PM
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Realize that women want sex too, man. You seem to have a fear of rejection; not of girls not wanting to have sex with you, but, of not liking you for who you truly are, and that could be what's leading you to have all of this negative self talk. My girlfriend of nearly three years knows how involved in this community I am, and, she doesn't judge for it. Not because she automatically agreed with it, but because I showed her how amazing this community is at it's core. Sex is only taboo if you make…
/r/seduction14/10/19 08:43 PM
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It's NEVER about what you say; it's ALWAYS about your vibe, energy, and how you say what you say. Two guys can say the exact same thing, "Hi, My name's Michael. What's yours?" And one puts out sexual, masculine energy while the other is either placating, feminine, or just straight up friendzone-y. Anything specific your're struggling with when it comes to these things?
/r/seduction14/10/19 05:07 PM
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This is such a much needed post. Gg OP
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:38 AM
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Honestly man, I guarantee when you go out there and start dating other women (which you should, MANY of them so that you have abundance) either way you’ll both either realize that you’re meant to be together or not. I don’t like the games, and I teach the men I work with the exact same thing I’ll say right now; Develop boundaries in ALL of your relationships in life, from friends and family to partners and one night stands. You’re a man of value; you should be allowed to speak your mind without …
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:37 AM
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Fuck that judgement man, and fuck being able to “keep a conversation going.” Keeper me a conversation going comes from being present and free-flowing, and if fear of judgement is HUGE, but, it’s all a matter of learning to be unforgivably authentically you. Which as a man, I know that shit can be hard, but, there are so many tools and things you can do to start building it all up. You’re a fucking awesome Man, you just don’t realize it yet.
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:17 AM
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I’d love to have the link man, it’s sick that you’re doing this. I agree; those years were Owens best honestly. Just had this convo with my gf a few minutes ago lmao
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:12 AM
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Man, honestly? You sound like you’re KILLING IT! Cold approaching women that you’re attracted to is fucking hard, and, the fact that you were even able to talk to that many women under those kinds of circumstances (being on the phone, etc.) is really awesome. I’d say that the feeling is only there because you still have the nutsack of society casting a shadow over you, creating fears and anxieties that affect mostly everyone at the start. That typically wears off with the as you dust societal ex…
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:10 AM
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You were perfectly fine friend. There may or may not be a better way of saying what you said, but, irrelevant to that it’s always best to speak your mind imo.
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:05 AM
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It sounds so counterproductive, but, I’m really just focus on dating or hanging out with as many different girls as you possibly can. The only reason why you feel like you can’t talk to others is most likely not because you’re madly in love with the one girl, but because you’re coming from a place of scarcity. You’re scared that if it doesn’t work out with this ONE girl, you won’t be able to find another anytime soon. Fuck that. Abundance is the key to successful future relationships.
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:03 AM
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Yikes, my apologies for that. I’ll def add the body text! And also okay; I’ll just offer the answering questions bit. :)
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:18 PM
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Go ahead friend! I legit hope it works out for you brother. Def update me how things go!
/r/seduction11/10/19 11:10 PM
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Doesn’t matter. Your mindset is the problem, not the current perceived social status.
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:59 PM
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I feel you man. The best way to even have a chance to get the girl you want is to be a man of high value and abundance. Oneitis is literally cancer my friend. How would you know you want her for sure if she’s the only viable “option” for you right now? You need to have abundance for many reasons but some are so that you can A) have options and get to experience different women and B) to build your social proof so that you CAN get the women you want.
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:44 PM
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Literally just tell her “Hey, I really don’t feel like going out tonight.” Honest is always the best policy, it might sting a bit at first but most people at least appreciate the honesty.
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:41 PM
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You could text her, but the best thing to do would be to go meet more women. Oneitis is legit cancer.
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:39 PM
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Broham, I totally 100% feel you on there being too much to focus on all at once. Do you have a solid foundation? And if you do, What’s your biggest sticking point rn?
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:38 PM
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Legit anywhere you see an attractive woman should be the #1 answer. But I mean you can do daygame or night game. Ie malls or public spaces vs nightclubs and bars
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:37 PM
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This leaves you in a pretty great spot! Social circle game broski. NOTHING beats that. Come from a place of abundance and see this as a great way to meet other people, hopefully high status males and other attractive women.
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:35 PM
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How do you know it’s time to start feeling nervous?
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:33 PM
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