***Literally try adding two of these with your next date or girl you want to connect with and see what happens***

  • Change up your style. Get a haircut, buy some more form-fitting clothes, invest in a nice pair of shoes and a watch.
  • Speak louder. Women are attracted to leaders, and leaders speak to be heard.
  • Speak lower/deeper. Don’t go all Morgan Freeman on them, but women love a man with a deep sexy voice. Find the lowest point of your natural speaking voice and get used to using that!
  • Have good eye contact. This doesn’t mean to stare women down like a serial killer, but it does mean to work on connecting with women via eye contact; don’t avoid it!
  • Meditate for 15 minutes. Presence is a powerful tool when it comes to communicating with others, and meditating can put you into the right headspace for attracting women.
  • Be honest & direct about your intentions. Women can tell when you’re being inauthentic or trying to be confident (which means you aren’t.) Being honest and direct will instantly improve the way women respond to you.
  • Express your emotions. Kind of like the last point, but here I want to emphasize: if you’re feeling nervous when approaching an attractive woman, telling her “I’m really nervous, but wanted to come say hi to you” takes the weight off of your shoulders to perform, and allows for an honest interaction to come together, rather than both of you performing for one another.
  • Have open body language. Standing with your arms crossed, not looking in the direction of the woman you’re talking to isn’t exactly a turn on. Open up your body and let it communicate alongside you.
  • Use humor. Women LOVE a man with a good sense of humor. This doesn’t mean you have to be the funniest guy in the world, and it certainly doesn’t mean you become a dancing monkey that entertains her. It simply means you can tell, and take a good joke.
  • Playfully tease her. Being able to tease an attractive woman shows her that you’re game to have some fun, and that you’re also not scared of losing her.
  • Implement the 80/20 rule: Have her talk more. You should be talking 20% of the time, she should be talking 80%.
  • Have fun! Women aren’t attracted to logic; they’re attracted to emotions!