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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | OKC first date: f-closed, now how to keep momentum?haha sounds like a friend of mine was your date. if you're from Mass... | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 09:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)bud i see what you did there... and thats great - i wish i could cope with it since i love me some tree, but hey can't have everything. thanks man, you too! | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 10:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)I agree - i didnt mean to say weed kills everyones social skills, just mine, and evidently OP's. Different strokes yo. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 09:01 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)I, too, love weed, but even a little bit of it combined with a new social situation where there's even the smallest amount of pressure creates catastrophic failure. It does for me the opposite of what alcohol does. Over the last month I've noticed it's basically instant AA when i'm on weed. I smoked and went grocery shopping not intending to do any pickup. The CUTEST girl keeps driving her cart around mind, pausing, looking in my direction, and I spend so long mulling over how awkward it could b… | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Something I do that so far has worked wonders in group settings - and can be picked up later when you're isolated and building rapporthaha i missed that entirely... I have a few responses - the primary one is that my "thing" is trying new things, and I'm entirely honest about that. I have had a ton of different hobbies in the 22 or so years i've been alive, and love picking up new ones, if just to gain an appreciation for it even if it turns out not to be something i'm obsessed with. So i love meeting people that teach me something new and picking things up. I know a little bit about a lot of things, I like to say, and I don't… | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Something I do that so far has worked wonders in group settings - and can be picked up later when you're isolated and building rapportthis guy right here! this guy knows. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 04:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Wedding FR, #-closed an 8, maybe could have pushed for more. Did a lot of things right, felt awesome. Long FR but formatted!thanks! I knew i was onto something when the tall amog was making room for me to steal 8 back on the dance floor... he pretty much ceded victory by the after party. a generally awesome guy ive met a couple times, but not a close enough friend to lose a set for haha it's high time i learn some actual routines to fall back on. im certain i could have closed better, either in the cab, or by isolating better - looking back i had a few opportunities i missed out on, but it just means ill have to thin… | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 05:50 AM |
| 1 | [2 FRs] My first failure FRs (but clearly not my first failures). Frustrating sticking point - I cant think on my feet and three steps ahead in conversation, and just default into being "that loud maybe funny guy"that last paragraph - nail on the head. im great at getting attention, but i get stuck there. so far have relied on skills on the dance floor to escalate girls. but that's really very hit or miss as some girls just arent great dancers. isolating im pretty sure i can learn how to do, but it's tough keeping the chill / sexy vibe on when the girl's giving you a run for your money wit wise - i get anxious having to come up with stuff quickly and do one of a few things: * go back into dick alpha neg … | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 03:36 AM |
| 2 | 3 mini FRs, plus advice please - should i stick it in crazy? (well, not crazy, but she was extra forward; i felt like the target)You speak sense. Thanks for the rational thought. | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 07:41 PM |
| 1 | 3 mini FRs, plus advice please - should i stick it in crazy? (well, not crazy, but she was extra forward; i felt like the target)haha plus the username works, like "hey man, on the dl, this is what she meant" that's a good way of looking at it. | /r/seduction | 14/04/11 02:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Cashier #-closeman, you're creative. thats awesome, and good advice on making a connection. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 03:43 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Cashier #-closehahaha im just imagining going to different stores and just ripping one at each cash register as i walk by... if you can still get a number while her nose is wrinkled in disgust, you beat challenge mode. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 02:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cashier #-closeThanks. Haha yeah it was a lot more awkward than it reads, but on the whole i felt like i did well. Progress! And a huge boost to the rest of the day, the state i was in made the rest of my social interactions that day extra positive | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Let's Talk About Eye ContactI'm good at making eye contact when listening, but TERRIBLE at it when speaking - it's just easier for me to think when i'm looking around. What's a good way to start fixing this? | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Help me not read into this too much. Or rather, help me convert this vacation into a victoryi think i read about that before? you get a girl to help you massage another girl, start making out with the one that's helping you, and then either make out with the girl that's getting massaged or somehow encourage them to make out. i forget exactly but i'll look it up. and thanks for the encouragement. i'll be pretty disappointed too if nothing goes down...but it will, so we're good. | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Help me not read into this too much. Or rather, help me convert this vacation into a victoryhaha. fair points all around. i actually didnt send any early signals - i was pretty non-responsive/joking about the suggestive things that were said. i'm very confident the extra girl is coming along because her schedule freed up. these girls are chill, pretty sexually liberal and open to ridiculousness. so...you're right, what am i worrying about? im probably being too cautious, but that's because they're actual friends, not hookup acquaintances and i'm aware that friend zoning can be a real t… | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] turned a friend-zone into an f-close, and also the biggest f7u12 evermore thoughts: Bedroom: I just read KYT's post on how to be great in bed, and I have to say - it's spot on. In this instance I thought not keeping it up was mainly HER fault for being patronizing or cold and throwing my head for a loop, but when i think about it, she was just trying to be helpful, and she actually DID communicate what she wanted. I, on the other hand, was so wrapped up in performance pressure that I didnt relax, didnt communicate what I wanted, and it crashed and burned. i got f… | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 08:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] turned a friend-zone into an f-close, and also the biggest f7u12 everThanks for the advice. i like trees too much to detox for that long, but i definitely should cut down, maybe taking a few week or two week breaks would give me a similar smaller effect? As for the bedroom issues, well, it was mostly nerves/anxiety. I used to be a lot more AFC than i am now and along with it came performance anxiety, which doesnt really crop up much anymore. The reason it came back was that I fell out of state worrying about whether or not I was doing it right, etc etc - she's ol… | /r/seduction | 07/03/11 05:41 AM |
| 2 | [FR] turned a friend-zone into an f-close, and also the biggest f7u12 everYeah, i was totally understocked on EVERYTHING. she was on BC and wed both been tested recently, but i definitely should make a run to the local pharmacy... | /r/seduction | 07/03/11 05:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Evening game at a cafe (update to "should i go tonight?)haha good advice. Still, i'm wondering if i've already become too friendly, I dont know if i maintained or ever even started a sexual vibe due to sitting across from one another, no kino, etc... i hope its not past salvaging/getting back on track, but first impressions are important | /r/seduction | 24/02/11 04:40 PM |
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