sedditpost Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
334	Almost graduated college a virgin, but ended it banging a "10". Here's my 4 year progress and what I learned.	sedditpost	/r/seduction	11/05/16 01:33 AM
127	[FR]Flaked on; decided to go meet strangers instead of being sad	sedditpost	/r/seduction	13/07/15 02:11 AM
42	What to do when a random douche disrespects the girl you're with?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	31/01/16 08:15 AM
40	Did your success with girls skyrocket after losing your v-card?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	09/05/16 01:57 PM
19	Crazy amount of flaking in a big city? Anyone else deal with this problem?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	05/09/16 03:39 AM
14	Scared of approaching when other people are nearby. Advice?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	25/06/15 09:35 AM
13	Any "late bloomer" success stories here?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	25/10/15 11:44 PM
9	How to end first dates if there's bad logistics?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	25/05/16 09:18 PM
8	How do you cope with past mistakes?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	29/06/16 06:07 PM
6	[Inner game]How to stop being impatient about my progress?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	29/05/16 10:45 AM
4	How often to text/communicate with girls you're already sleeping with?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	30/03/16 02:26 PM
2	Making improvements but not quite there. Shit's frustrating. Advice?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	04/03/16 04:46 PM
1	Great daygame interactions... but they never go anywhere. Advice?	sedditpost	/r/seduction	22/09/16 02:50 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Chicks During Day vs. Night. I've had a completely opposite experience. During the day, girls I approach are usually immediately receptive to at least have a conversation with me. I can usually get numbers during the day pretty easily, and even went on an instadate yesterday that lasted an entire afternoon. At night, girls are super bitchy towards me, and give me the vibe of "I'm way too hot for you to be talking to me right now". I don't think I've had a good experience approaching a girl at a bar in quite a while.	/r/seduction	30/10/16 04:22 PM
2	Crazy amount of flaking in a big city? Anyone else deal with this problem? Yeah, all of these flakes were back to back. Pretty demoralizing, especially since I've already been going through a dry spell. I think you're onto something when it comes to texting up until the date. I've noticed that I usually experienced flakes less in the past when I texted and built rapport after scheduling the date, as opposed to just setting it up and waiting until the arranged time.	/r/seduction	05/09/16 04:50 AM
3	Tinder:Lots of single line replies and no interest in meeting You also have to consider timing as a pretty big factor. I've been using Tinder really heavily for the past 6 months, and I'd notice HUGE variations in my success. Sometimes I'd get tons of dates -- one time I even had a date with a different girl every day of the week. Other times, I'd go weeks without any results, like right now. What I noticed is that at any "beginning" of a time period (for example, beginning of summer or the school year) I had the most success. Makes sense, because at the b…	/r/seduction	30/06/16 10:12 PM
11	When to Kiss a Girl (Don't Make This Common Mistake) Holy shit, this explains PERFECTLY my date last night. Towards the end, I brought her to an isolated spot, where we made out for a while. For the rest of the night, I was really handsy with her, and she ended up ghosting on me. I've definitely noticed way better success not even kissing the girl until she's back at my place. Going to follow this advice from now on.	/r/seduction	26/05/16 11:31 PM
1	Almost graduated college a virgin, but ended it banging a "10". Here's my 4 year progress and what I learned. I think I'm a 7/10, and yeah I do have a shirtless pic. I built/lean and you can see an outline of my abs, but I am in no way jacked or shredded. I mostly just had clear pictures of me smiling, and an "interesting" picture of me doing a flip.	/r/seduction	15/05/16 01:04 AM
3	Almost graduated college a virgin, but ended it banging a "10". Here's my 4 year progress and what I learned. It really is hit or miss in terms of making actual connections at those events, but still worth the effort since you're putting yourself out of your comfort zone and trying to be social. One time, I went alone to an event, and some other dude happened to be there by himself too. He was bored waiting for his friends, so he sat next to me and started talking to me. I'm still friends with his social group 4 years later and we had a great time at senior beach week. I'm still friendly with my freshma…	/r/seduction	11/05/16 01:11 PM
12	Almost graduated college a virgin, but ended it banging a "10". Here's my 4 year progress and what I learned. First couple were coffee dates, but those went nowhere. I'm no longer a fan of coffee dates, because they feel too platonic and make it hard to escalate or flirt. Later on, I decided to have all my dates in a beautiful park that's near my apartment. I'd usually take a scenic walk with girls, and later on bring them back to my place with a 2 minute drive.	/r/seduction	11/05/16 01:08 PM
5	Almost graduated college a virgin, but ended it banging a "10". Here's my 4 year progress and what I learned. I'm guessing you're a rising junior? A lot of people say that most circles are established during freshman year, and that's somewhat true. However, with some effort, it is NEVER too late to build up a new social network, especially with 2 years left. Good luck, and really try to enjoy college while it lasts. It seems like only yesterday when I finished up my finals sophomore year and went back home for the summer.	/r/seduction	11/05/16 01:06 PM
12	Almost graduated college a virgin, but ended it banging a "10". Here's my 4 year progress and what I learned. Yeah, at first I was afraid to even message girls because I thought that they match with guys way better looking than me, and wouldn't even respond. However, I learned that most guys (especially the hot ones) SUCK at text game, especially after some girl friends showed me their Tinder messages. Like, 90% of good looking guys just say shit like "Hey" or "You're hot" as their first message. Being a fun conversationalist and going for the number early works wonders, and helps me actually score date…	/r/seduction	11/05/16 03:57 AM
5	What to do when a random douche disrespects the girl you're with? No doubt it was a mistake, but do you think it was a big mistake? Like one that's enough to make a girl lose interest?	/r/seduction	31/01/16 09:04 AM
3	Did your parents affect your social skills? My parents immigrated from China, which has a pretty conservative culture. Main thing was, they NEVER showed any physical intimacy. I rarely saw them hold hands, kiss (light peck on the lips) MAYBE 3-4 times ever, and of course never had to worry about walking in on anything. If I weren't their son and observed them from the distance, I would have guessed that they were coworkers or acquaintances. They've been married for almost three decades. As a result, I grew up feeling very awkward when it …	/r/seduction	04/12/15 12:55 PM
46	How to become a better dancer in club-style environments. Club dancing is all about feeling the music and mastering some basic movements. I learned how to dance purely from Youtube tutorials. I started out learning some basic moves, such as the two-step, pimp walk, dougie, and some toprock moves. The key to all this honestly is simply practice. Learn some basic steps, do them over and over again every day until it feels completely natural doing them to music. Put on some of your favorite songs and practice to them every day. When the basic steps start …	/r/seduction	02/01/15 01:28 AM