So I'm a student who's home for the summer and living with his parents. I've been on Tinder and have several dates with college girls lined up, as I'm looking for someone to have a summer fling with. Thing is, for a lot of these girls, we live at least a 15 min drive away, and both live with our parents. For a lot of my dates, escalating to sex seems just logistically not viable (drink after work or during a time parents are home).

They way I see it, there's two ways to go about this -- Escalate as much as possible (like going for the kiss) and the other way is to not even go for the kiss if you can't escalate to sex (idea being that you don't want to escalate if you can't get the lay and/or you don't want to kiss her and kill the sexual tension you've built).

What are your opinions on this?