So recently, I've been getting a lot better at daygame. A bunch of times recently, I'll confidently approach a girl, and she'll warm up to me pretty quickly. We'll flirt for a while, and never really run out of stuff to talk about. The girl will give me an enthusiastic "yes" when I ask for her number or ask her if she'd be down to hang out in the future. Thing is, it always never ends up going somewhere. She'll either not respond when I try and set up a date, or flake after we do make plans. At this point I'd really like to know where I'm fucking up, because the in-person interactions seem pretty solid to me.

Out of the last few good daygame interactions that led to flakes/ghosting, pretty much all of them lasted from 20 minutes to an hour long. Here's what I THINK I could be doing wrong:

  1. Not escalating enough given the somewhat long times the interactions have been -- for example, taking her to a different location, or going for the kiss in some situations, instead of staying in the same place and talking the whole time.

  2. Allowing the interactions to drag on that long without escalation. The girls might've gotten bored towards the end -- maybe a better move would be to make future plans and leave after a high note in the interaction?

What do you guys think? Would love some opinions.