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I think we might have to exchange numbers 😂
/r/seduction25/04/20 12:44 PM
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Ye but did you notice a difference now vs when you started? I can honestly say it feels 10x more work than before. Even though I have gotten my shit together now. I think as you said, it could be that I was not meeting the right demographic
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:07 PM
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Wise words. Thank you
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:35 PM
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Yeah tbh she mentioned her ex of a few months ago and she kinda wanted to talk abt it more. I politely changed subject even tho I broke up recently too. I feel maybe she's nt ready to date yet. Dunno. Dunno what to do now tho tbh. Also, false time dilation?
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:04 PM
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True. Was thinking the same thing. Although to me asking why she's busy etc screams neediness. And my motto has always been like Mark Manson said "fuck yes or fuck no". If you're taking hours to msg all of a sudden, to me seems like it's "maybe".
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:35 PM
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Great stuff. As someone who has recently broken up, I can confirm that one of the biggest mistakes guys make in a relationship is thinking that they've done the work to get the girl and then 'relax'. You have to keep seducing. Lesson learnt.
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:50 AM
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Yeah it's mostly about getting that ego boost for them. Also since I last used the app ( a few years ago), it's become really evident how much the company manipulates the matches. As soon as you buy a boost, you start to get likes and matches. When you run out of boosts, all of a sudden, you get nothing. It's just a circuit designed to get guys to pay up for more matches
/r/seduction17/08/19 08:37 AM
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I got around 70 matches within 2 months (organic matches and boost) I'd say I msged 75% of them with some witty line or something related to their profile (not your generic 'hey'). Most responded back and sent a msg or 2 yet they didn't message back 1 date out of 70 matches. Not such a good ratio imo. I'm starting to get annoyed by the level of flakiness tbh. What are your thoughts?
/r/seduction17/08/19 08:25 AM
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Top notch content!
/r/seduction14/08/19 03:35 PM
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Ok good to hear it's normal to have lonely weekends too in the beginning. It can be tough if you let that FOMO get to you. Good idea. I'm starting to go to a bar in town regularly and was thinking about your suggestion. Thanks a lot
/r/seduction09/08/19 03:14 PM
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It's probably quite common. Have you joined meetups or local hobby groups?
/r/seduction06/08/19 08:47 PM
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Thanks for your pov. I am the type of person who tries to get back to ppl quickly be it email or texts. Maybe that's why
/r/seduction04/08/19 06:55 PM
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Yeah tbh that was my thinking; if you're actually interested you would make an effort to send a quick msg. Then again, why would you take the time to msg again after a few days? Dunno
/r/seduction04/08/19 04:10 PM
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Guess I need to read up abt framing and some other basics
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:16 PM
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Yeah I'm trying to be easy on myself. I guess time is the best healer
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:15 PM
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Also is it just me but I find sitting next to each other quite unnatural. Apart from the neck pain I tend to get afterwards
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:05 PM
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Wanted to send the text genuinely because it helped me open up a bit (even tho it was with a stranger) - sth I don't do very often. A small part of me was hoping I'd get a shot at a second date. Especially cos of 2 reasons - 1) she was eyeing me while swimming (am in pretty decent shape - gym regularly) 2) her facial expression as we left - she looked like she wanted this to work - like for me to step up and grow a pair. Anyway will msg and see.. Definitely not looking to transition to a new gf.…
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:01 PM
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Sounds like a really good way to deal with the nerves! Thanks man
/r/seduction27/07/19 12:56 PM
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Thanks a lot for your words! Also profit? Hahah Anything you specifically do which helps getting out or your head? CBD maybe?
/r/seduction27/07/19 12:36 PM
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Great quality, well-written FR!
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:46 AM
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Ok I think it's clearer now thanks again :)
/r/seduction13/02/16 06:23 PM
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Thanks for the link. I will definitely check it out. I usually am capable to do that back at home (most of the time). But maybe it's cos I'm in a new country it may have an effect. Dunno. Also don't rly know how to dance in clubs so that may effect confidence levels (sorry going off on a rant here)
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:19 PM
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Great response, especially the social conditioning bit. I think since I've been absent for a couple of months from goin out etc I was becoming more inclined to stay home (in the comfort zone) rather than make an effort an go out. And as you said things begin to get a little rusty. I did not fully understand the first bit: "sounds like you have reason to validate and deem yourself socially worthy" Are you suggesting that it's normal to seek some level of validation from others? Thanks
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:16 PM
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I think personally, kino can be started immediately even when her friends are there but the proper escalation I normally do after I isolate (say ask her to dance with you or get a drink by the bar). Just my personal opinion
/r/seduction05/12/15 10:15 AM
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My advice would be to shift your mentality. Instead of focusing on "how to pick up girls", focus on "being the best version of yourself". This means taking a look at every facet of your life and try to improve it; style, fitness, grooming, hobbies and so on. This is what I aimed to do when I started out and what I still do nowadays. Having said that, I still go out and try to meet new people. A few key points which helped me a lot on my way: 1) Outcome-independence : the nights where I didn't gi…
/r/seduction30/11/15 10:51 PM
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I'm gonna comment about the kino. You have to keep in mind what I believe is called delta (or her basal amount of kino). If she initiates kino naturally with a lot of people including you then I would not take that as an IOI. Italians tend to be quite in to touching people at least from experience. With regards to the cooking, I would definitely not combine it with the other event since this would not give you any private time. Leaving it for 2 weeks might possibly reduce interest from her part.…
/r/seduction22/11/15 10:27 AM
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Great post. I was actually going to ask something about this. While it's true that being overly cocky will scare shy girls off, is it risky to be too friendly as you might appear "beta-like"? I just wanted to know if anyone had any personal experience with this.
/r/seduction10/11/15 06:58 PM
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