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Christ dude it's not like she should stop walking, turn him around and yell "ME NO ATTRACTED! YOU UNDERSTAND? I WILL NEVER DATE YOU". Just continuing walking and saying nothing about it is the totally common normal non-drama-queen thing to do. No reason to say he dodged a bullet when she acted perfectly fucking normal. Everyone with basic social skills will try to flirt, get a non-reaction, and take it for the sign of disinterest it is. It doesn't mean the other person is crazy, ffs
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:47 AM
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Huh? No. This advice of going up to talk to a girl will never lead to those things
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:43 AM
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This is stupid. Nobody thinks the porn they are watching is (1) some girl they have any claim over or should be jealous of if seen having sex, or (2) a person they could meet and seduce if only they just stopped watching porn. This makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:37 AM
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Nice read. One way I think of this is when going out you are literally acting. Like, what actors do who have been trained and make it their profession. They can walk on stage and put forth a persona of anything they choose, angry, happy, sad, shocked, etc. This is a literal profession and there are books on how to do this. It's worth pointing out the reason this only works with so much effort, is because for certain guys, in our normal day to day life we are trained hard to not hit on women, it'…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:30 AM
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Yep, that is what I said
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:47 PM
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If you do things the way you think are right, then those will be the actions you'll stand behind. This kills awkwardness, cause awkwardness only exists if both sides think it's there. Pretty applicable to AA. Good stuff, ty
/r/seduction08/07/17 05:53 AM
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Cute facebook shit aside, it's just semantics. If not the word "friendzone" call your unrequited feelings something else, the situation still exists where they put you in "it". No need for this scripted M Night Shamallama feel good movie, not actually avoiding the problem.
/r/seduction08/07/17 03:05 AM
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Going on a date doesn't even mean putting out in the first place. There's no reason to think that's what her comment meant. Glad you had the outcome you say you did but, in general, better to bail on this since she's immediately putting cold water on things. A girl who is physically attracted to you and wants to eventually have sex never says "but can it be a non date". You just go on multiple dates and let it happen as desired by both parties.
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:57 AM
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ty ty, looking forward to your posts
/r/seduction04/06/17 12:30 AM
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I mean, agreed, that was basically my point. The value is about 10% actual maintenance of good physical health and 90% improved sex appeal. The literal strength gains are of almost no use or benefit.
/r/seduction04/06/17 12:26 AM
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This thought is nice but total bs. The percentage of people who literally need peak physical strength in their day jobs is minimal. Nobody is doing this for practical use, it is just to look good. Nobody has a practical short term or long term goals of pushing boulders or lifting cars. The long term goal is to lift/run more so you can lift/run more. Why bother with the 'oh I actually do it for xyz reasons', everyone should just be up front, we're all there for the same reason.
/r/seduction03/06/17 10:22 PM
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Wow, sounds like a lot ... what is that, 1 hour 6 days a week? EDIT: Sorry just saw your other post, thx
/r/seduction03/06/17 10:18 PM
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this is bloody brilliant
/r/seduction03/06/17 04:59 PM
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Nice, fully agree, how many hours a week do you usually spend at the gym?
/r/seduction03/06/17 04:55 PM
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Why do guys do this??? Why???????? I just want to say I always swear up and down that I'm gonna be a stone cold silent bad ass next time I get a girl's number. But then it happens and if I like her I just start blabbering, and it has for sure turned girls off. In the moment I think "she's so cool this one is in the bag I'm going to win her over and we're hitting it off why limit myself!" , so I stupidly keep thinking that I can just let loose and spill out all my personality and hit a grand slam…
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:42 AM
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You are a human being and it's what humans do. This whole situation is going to play out for you like a dozen more times in your life
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:35 AM
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it might catch her off guard and make her wonder "why did he approach her and not me?" I actually wonder if this is so common for guys to do that now it's become "ok here's the part where he gives ample conversation to Becky, and in 2 minutes he'll ask for my number"
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:31 AM
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Tinder and OKC are shite, don't even bother. Go to any bar, have a drink, and talk to anyone, guy or gal. If need be, start with uggos and work your way up. They are out doing the same thing.
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:10 AM
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Nice vid would love to see more. Don't think you made it past polite small talk but hey just making the effort is already better than most guys, good job
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:32 AM
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You have no chance. Just go there and enjoy yourself. Don't avoid her on purpose, just hang out like you would with anybody else. Incidentally, if you did want to try and win back her interest, the advice would be the same. For god's sake don't text her the next day with "it was good seeing you do you wanna hang out" . You need to move on to the next one.
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:30 AM
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I think you may be on to something. But jesus I hate it. Like even with your tinder example, you've known her vaguely for some time, like what, several months? Do we really have to not try for months, and just hope you somehow run into each other again?Anything could happen, either party could even start dating someone else in the mean time. If you literally don't try I don't see how anything successful happens. Yet there are stories like you and your brothers. I guess I'm missing something. Why…
/r/seduction28/05/17 04:31 PM
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Not in my experience. Could be an age thing. Women who are out for this purpose, and you're in the proper setting and flirting the proper way, don't need plausible deniability. If it's working all you have to say is "you wanna go back". Or they will ask you. I mean we even talk about the upcoming fucking while at the bar or in the cab ride back. They aren't sweet fragile flowers who don't want to tarnish their image.
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:09 PM
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You don't need a bait product to go home. It's not about going home to do something cool, it's because you like each other. If you go home the night that you meet, it's to have sex. That decision doesn't depend on or require you to have anything special at home. If she likes you as a person (or as a hot body) she'll go home with you that night. Alternatively, you don't have to bring a girl home that night, just get some info and go on dates later.
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:58 PM
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This is tricky cause if you don't act interested, how do you get a number? It's not the same as casual friends, to get a date there has to be flirting beforehand. Or so I thought. Example - I was at a party and there are these two girls who enter. We chat as part of a bigger group, I'm pretty into them and would like to flirt with either one. In my mind I'm not targeting either one and I just kind of want to let things play out and see if one of them picks up and reciprocates interest to me. But…
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:51 PM
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I don't have a good answer, but I suspect I have ruined many chances by coming across as too excited and too talkative on text
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:43 PM
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What did you text when you were "trying to escalate"? Her saying "calm down, we can talk about that later" is a pretty harsh and patronizing response. I think things were dead at this point. then I explained to her why text was awful, This is just belaboring the point and keeping it alive. Like thrashing about in quicksand. I don't know what you said, maybe it was reasonable and maybe cornering her on her response was morally right. But you are never going to get anywhere with this. Any meta con…
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:40 PM
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Did you notice I'm talking about my experience with Bumble in particular and not my experience with dating in general? You get how your quote doesn't really apply, right?
/r/seduction19/01/17 02:38 AM
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Woops, you confused my attitude about Bumble in particular with my general attitude, your mistake. I guess you're trying to deflect and avoid claims that Bumble being pretty bad. Nice try lol
/r/seduction19/01/17 02:36 AM
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Well there is a goal and there is a winning end state and losing end state, thus yes adversarial, or at least, yes chess analogy applies
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:22 AM
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No it's not, they just chose you to do the work in conversation, same as any other app. And then they don't respond if you do message them, even worse than other apps. Nothing good to say about Bumble.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:20 AM
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throw out your own opener Thus defeating the purpose. What you call "girl doing work" is the same meaningless bullshit of swiping any guy and sitting back and waiting for them to do the work. Bumble saves guys nothing in terms of effort required on guys' part.
/r/seduction15/01/17 05:10 AM
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Well if you call "socializing" the goal or objective, then it is still adversarial in the sense of "pro-socializing" moves vs "anti-socializing" moves. If you both advance you "win", if anything else you "lose"
/r/seduction15/01/17 05:08 AM
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Waste. Of. Time. Never use Bumble.
/r/seduction15/01/17 12:30 AM
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o basically do what you want. If you really want to sit at home and play XCOM 2. Then do that but if there's something else you'd rather be doing. Then just accept that as fact and do it This is pretty good advice that borders on the morita philosophy. Accept your feelings as they are and then get on with what needs doing.
/r/seduction31/12/16 11:03 PM
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Sorry, wanted to see if you had a point. I have my answer now, thx =P
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 10:01 PM
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Of course I'm not saying anything. I didn't make your claim. You did.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:57 PM
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You know we meant your first point. You're still not saying anything.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:42 PM
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uh, you made the comment he responded to. Burden of proof is on person making the claim. If you can't make an actual point you don't have to say anything
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 07:15 PM
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and get good with online dating I think this is almost an oxymoron. Isn't it true that most people have better dating success irl vs online? For an introvert this is like asking him to game on hard mode, IMHO online dating will just make you feel worse (yes, biased by my personal experience). For a noob with social problems I'd say start going out irl, hell even start with uggos sufficiently down the scale until you start getting that easy XP. Online dating could easily just crush his spirit eve…
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:42 PM
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Good points. I've also found that moving around is key to not feeling like an awkward idiot when going out solo. Like, once you stand planted to some spot beyond 5 minutes, you just feel like a creepy stalker. If you're standing solo and not talking with someone past 2 minutes, just fucking walk to some other area. Bam, now you aren't looking as weird. You're walking around, you have a chance at making eyes, you have a chance at overhearing something, you have a chance of appearing to "naturally…
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:36 PM
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I hate the midnight kiss expectation. On the times when I've been out single it just passes as a super awkward moment where everyone stares at/approaches the hot girls from 11:45pm, then midnight happens and everyone subtly tries not to look at each other and be disappointed. Cringe. I'll probably be out solo tonight, but I live close enough to the bar area that I'll just come the fuck back home from 11:45 - 12:15. I just hate that shit. As far as your situation, if you're going out you are alre…
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:28 PM
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/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:00 AM
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Well, women certainly don't want guys who want them. Hence your success.
/r/seduction24/12/16 05:34 AM
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Your mindset is the normal mindset we have in day to day life. You don't do xyz cause it's rude and creepy. That guy is on the next level of not giving a fuck. I'm not always that good but yeah he's got the right idea. Drink a bit if it helps, otherwise try to build your inner game to be naturally outgoing and not be outcome dependent. Again, easier said than done, but damn he offers a good tale of motivation.
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:59 AM
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dumb macho man fight, threatened by you with his lady. agree and amplify, especially in front of the women. you can't be sure it won't turn physical, but just make sure it isn't you turning it physical.
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:57 AM
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trying to hide the fact that I'm attracted to her This, this is their turn off. They know when trying to hide it vs when you're actually indifferent. They want the latter. You just need to be comfortable talking to hot girls. If she's one routine mundane hot girl of many that you talk to day after day then you'll be calm and relaxed, bordering on indifferent. And it won't be an act. Sadly you need to actually be in those social circles for like, life long, to literally be that bored and indiffer…
/r/seduction24/12/16 03:54 AM
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same feels here man, the usual sat morning and sun morning regret, feeling awful after no success. For me it really is only success that makes you feel better. To get it, you can always start low on the totem pole, approach some uggos, work your way up from there. Lifting is also the only other thing you have easily in your control to boost your chances, appearance wise. Wish I had some other easy answer, but I'm right there with ya.
/r/seduction18/12/16 04:01 AM
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You can also possibly win the lottery if you play, doesn't mean you should
/r/seduction10/12/16 06:38 PM
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lol ad hominem when shown wrong, classic reddit
/r/seduction10/12/16 05:52 PM
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Yes. Was there something you didn't understand in what I wrote?
/r/seduction10/12/16 05:24 PM
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First, it's your assumption whether you think they know you are interested. You are going to be wrong some of the time. Second, a girl can know you are interested, and still hang out with you with NO interest. What, are they supposed to just run away and not hang out with guys unless they want to fuck the guy or date the guy? That's idiotic. Of course, they will if you are a creep who doesn't know when to stop trying and relentlessly drive them to it. Just because a girl continues to stand in fr…
/r/seduction10/12/16 02:04 PM
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This is soooooo so incredibly stupid. A girl can exist, hang out with you, and still not be interested in you. A shocking revelation huh?
/r/seduction10/12/16 05:51 AM
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Fair enough, yeah otherwise your comment was spot on. My girl pornhub, ha, nice, sometimes I just dip into uggo territory when it's 2am. I'm not proud
/r/seduction01/12/16 03:50 AM
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Dude wtf that sentence was about being comfortable talking to girls where in the hell did I remotely sound like I said anything about condoning rape?
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:17 AM
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I mean ill definitively try prettier girls from now on. But I kind of dont have the confidence, yet. I think you have exactly the right idea. This is why any guy can go up to any uggo and be normal and witty and have success in dating, they are literally not nervous, it's not a big deal, and they can come across in an appealing way. If instead you are an uggo and you go up to some really attractive girl, you are probably freaking out in your mind, thinking so much about oh god I can't believe sh…
/r/seduction30/11/16 01:32 AM
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I feel like this sub really doesn't pay attention to this part of success nearly enough
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 03:52 AM
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Perhaps I'm too unread to know the answer, but which one of those would you say "attitude" fits into? I feel like attitude is the missing link between looks and success. In OP's story I think the only reason being the hot shit guy on the town everyone knows + drug dealer only helped because of the subsequent attitude it instills in him. Also, similar to what OP said, yes I have seen rando average looking dudes with super hotties. From what I can tell they have some confidence or attitude that ma…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 03:47 AM
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True, some of it bs and some of it not
/r/seduction18/11/16 04:46 AM
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BS psychobabble. If someone likes you they are likely to do you more than one single favor. That's it.
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