So I had a pretty frustrating night last night which has driven me to ask for help! Here is the short story:

Went out solo to some bar that was pretty empty. I just sit at the bar and start talking to some dude next to me. In walk two girls, super wasted. One starts making out with me immediately. Like ridiculous hands everywhere making out. About 10 min later, I ask about going to her place, and she says only if her friend is getting on with "my friend" (who again is not an actual friend of mine, but to her it looks that way). They then say they have to go to the bathroom. We never see them again. So, pretty frustrating given how quick and how far she was going with me. Easy come easy go.

Now, what really pisses me off more is what I believe the reasoning is. I think the random dude next to me was a turn off to her friend. He was kind of a big guy, out of shape, and dressed like it was laundry day. Granted, this was a dive bar I was at, but still, he just wasn't a good looking guy. Even more annoying to me, I've basically had this same scenario happen to me once before recently. It sucks, and now I realize ... I need a good looking wingman!

So, I would like to ask if any of you lot are up for winging it with me here in NYC. I was impressed by the thread recently where two people helped each other make day time approaches. I'm not looking for that daytime stuff though, just run of the mill talking to girls at bars. I should say I don't take this pua stuff too seriously, I'm not a bro-y alpha male at all and I don't care for being macho or reading up on a lot of pua stuff. But some of it I find useful.

So, if you are good looking dude who wants to get out there in NYC, let me know! I hate to stress the good looking part, but right now I'm pretty annoyed at losing out because of this. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm a good looking guy, and I'd like to find the same. Sad reality.

Oh, age is probably important, I am 31. Thanks for reading.