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Me too man, about a year ago I felt I was going insane because I had no action from women at all. Unfortunately for me though, while getting women and proving to myself I can get laid significantly boosted my confidence, it actually made me more lazy on my other goals lol
/r/seduction28/05/24 04:49 PM
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Yeah I guess that’s my fear is seeming desperate/needy in situations like this. And I’m scared of saying the wrong thing
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:45 PM
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The next day? Or do you wait a couple days
/r/seduction11/03/24 04:57 PM
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Good shit dude
/r/seduction09/03/24 10:19 PM
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She for sure was until the end, at least as far as I could tell. Basing this off of her body language, eye contact etc
/r/seduction04/03/24 02:39 PM
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Dude thank you for your comment, I really appreciate that
/r/seduction03/03/24 07:32 PM
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It’s honestly repetition, and in my case, alcohol lol. I think I have an attractive personality but I’m a very anxious person, when I drink a little it calms me and lets me let loose and be myself. Are you doing night game or day game? I find day game to be a lot harder for myseld
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:14 PM
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Did you even read my post? I am not trying to brag but I think I nailed many important aspects of game in the interaction. This girl walked away from me multiple times, and I had obstacles such as her being with a large group, her friend trying to cockblock, etc. there were many chances for me to fumble
/r/seduction19/02/24 04:19 PM
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Dude, I’m gonna tell it to you straight. I’m maybe slightly above avg looking, and like I said 5’9. You’re calling yourself short at 5’11, you are literally making excuses for yourself. I don’t get iois from basically any of the women I approach, I just approach. I went years believing I was unattractive and unworthy, and making justifications for why I’m unattractive. Too short, too ugly, bad social skills etc. until I decided to stop being a pussy and bite the bullet. That’s what you need to d…
/r/seduction19/02/24 04:08 PM
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I don’t know how I was able to either lmao. I think a lot of it is your mindset, I was in a great mood and just wanted to talk to everyone. I generally see myself as an awkward person but I did not feel awkward at all that night
/r/seduction19/02/24 04:05 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/seduction19/02/24 12:31 AM
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Thanks man :)
/r/seduction19/02/24 12:31 AM
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I’m 5’9 lol, and stop making excuses for yourself
/r/seduction19/02/24 12:30 AM
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Honestly bro I won’t lie, I’m no expert. I mainly just try and be as chill and relaxed as possible, and not having any expectations. Then I’ll flirt a little with physical touch
/r/seduction05/07/23 05:30 AM
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I went with one friend and a couple of his friends, but they all split off from me pretty quick. I did the approaching on my own
/r/seduction03/07/23 11:36 PM
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😂😂
/r/seduction03/07/23 03:16 AM
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If it makes you feel better I’m anxious too and have trouble talking to people, alcohol helps me a lot though! Lol
/r/seduction03/07/23 02:13 AM
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Thank you🙏
/r/seduction03/07/23 02:11 AM
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I’m glad it gives you hope man, it should. I genuinely thought it would take me years to get laid, if ever. It just goes to show how quickly things can change for the better
/r/seduction03/07/23 02:10 AM
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Well she made it easy for me because she wanted it probably even more than I did, but we put on a movie and I cuddled with her and we went from there.
/r/seduction03/07/23 02:00 AM
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Thank you dude I really appreciate that
/r/seduction03/07/23 01:51 AM
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There definitely were awkward moments. When I walked in at first it was awkward because we looked at each other and both knew what was about to go down and didn’t know what to say lol, but we talked a bit and then we ended up watching a movie, cuddling and making out and the rest is history. It was definitely not the smoothest transition into sex but I don’t think she cared.
/r/seduction03/07/23 01:33 AM
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Thanks man. It’s never happened to me before, my heart was pounding when I got that text lmaooo
/r/seduction03/07/23 01:30 AM
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Yeah it was about 10-15 minutes after she left
/r/seduction02/07/23 11:01 PM
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I disagree, I’m an adult and I wanted it.
/r/seduction02/07/23 09:50 PM
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Honestly, yeah it would a bit. 12 years is a big difference. I mean don’t get me wrong if there was some serious chemistry and our lifestyle and values aligned I would consider it for sure. That being said, I typically do like girls who are older than me. They are typically more mature and have their shit together. I would definitely date a girl in the 25-28 range. Also, I read a few of your comments because I was curious why you asked, and I wouldn’t worry about the guy you like who is 28 being…
/r/seduction02/07/23 09:30 PM
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I didn’t, they eventually left with her. The girl I hooked up with is a different girl
/r/seduction02/07/23 09:26 PM
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Thank you man. To answer your questions, I have a friend who introduced me to his friend who hosts a lot of parties, he ended up inviting me because I was asking him for advice about my new job since we are in the same career and he said we could talk it over at the party. I’m introverted and actually pretty socially anxious as well. I went with a couple friends but one left early and the other one split off. I hung out with them for the first hour or two, and then we split and I talked to a cou…
/r/seduction02/07/23 09:00 PM
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I’m not sure yet, i think it will turn into a fwb situation but she did seem like the age gap bothered her a bit, so she may change her mind.
/r/seduction02/07/23 08:55 PM
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Thank you man, I really needed to hear this.
/r/seduction02/07/23 08:36 PM
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I know i was confused about that as well lol, maybe she didn’t want to be seen leaving with me as there’s a 10-15 year age gap LOL, or didn’t want her friends thinking she’s a hoe or something
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:17 PM
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I’m still kind of in shock it happened like that and went so well
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:16 PM
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😂😂
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:15 PM
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Thanks dude, yeah it was awesome
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:14 PM
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Thank you brother!!
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:13 PM
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Thank you dawg!!
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:12 PM
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Yeah it’s crazy because I would have never guessed it would happen that quick. I made sure to just focus on having a good time with her instead of having an agenda, I think that helped a lot. She even told me that she felt like we were just having a good conversation and there were no expectations. If I was pushy I don’t think that woulda happened.
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:12 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/seduction02/07/23 07:07 PM
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