What do you do the next day after a one night stand?

Chill_Kramer · 2024-03-11T16:06:53+00:00

Reach out

KoolAidMan7980 · 2024-03-11T21:32:12+00:00

Ice pack on your hand from getting too many high fives from your bros

Reasonable_Mail_3656 · 2024-03-11T22:22:10+00:00

Welcome to hookup culture where people are disposable and you’re fucking up if you let any of those other feelings creep in.

Classic_Writer8573 · 2024-03-11T19:17:43+00:00

I call and let them know I had a great time. I never want anyone feeling used and always try being nice.

bigbronsexual · 2024-03-11T18:53:30+00:00

Nothing wrong with a 2 year one stand relationship.

I_suckyoungblood · 2024-03-11T18:08:28+00:00

If I like them, I’ll say something sweet and head out, but if I’m not into them, I’ll stay as long as possible and be super attached so that they won’t want me. 😅

Kusharti21 · 2024-03-11T18:37:25+00:00

Imo, if you don’t reach out, you’re a dick.

If you don’t want to see her again, just write a short text saying “hey last night was fun” or whatever and leave it at that.

If you do want to see her again, obviously you should reach out.

kobegoat222444 · 2024-03-12T04:03:12+00:00

Go to the gym

jwcole1956 · 2024-03-12T01:09:59+00:00

Go out and do it again.

Jeff_Bravo · 2024-03-11T18:20:46+00:00

If she likes you she’ll reach out to you, but the mature answer would be to reach out like “Hey I had a great time last night, I just wanted to check in on you and see how you doing?”

cleetusneck · 2024-03-12T01:55:54+00:00

I always message her if I like her

RandoRambo1 · 2024-03-12T02:38:36+00:00

I consider the morning after text a part of aftercare. A morning after text shouldn’t be enough to push a woman (who is interested in you) away. Guys are so scared to lose the girl that they avoid doing the basics in which they would be doing naturally had they stayed out of their heads. However, don’t do anything that would imply you are pushing for exclusivity, commitment, trying to make you guys “official” or posting pictures on SM, etc. many guys will rush to post pictures of them with the girl to try and mateguard against the other men in her rotation. Do not do this. Do not push for commitment too soon. Morning text, maybe set up another meet up or wait a few days. Don’t act like you’re dating though. Remain cool, calm, strategic and keep gaming. Dont become attached yet.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-03-11T17:04:14+00:00

I usually just move on to the next girl. It's a been there done that mentality. Not unless the sex was really good (which it's pretty much never) I want something new and different. I like the chase anyway. I think the chase is more fun than the sex itself. But that;s just me.

mister_k1 · 2024-03-11T18:02:39+00:00

most girls are ashamed after ONS, they usually ghost, if she wanna see you again she will reach out first, if she dont, dont even bother.

Deadpool-CB23 · 2024-03-12T03:42:25+00:00

Apparently with how people have done me in, ask if they want to continue seeing/getting to know you. Hear them accept, start to plan, and then be totally okay with them disappearing and blocking you forever with no context. When it comes to hookups it seems feelings=bad. I was told about the guy she was obsessed with, that what happened meant nothing, and basically played tinder therapist immediately after so. Not the kinda life I’m into. To each their own I suppose.

Alex, if you’re out there reading this, why’d you have to do me like that? That shit hurted. Best wishes, but damn dude.

brometheas · 2024-03-12T04:04:02+00:00

Get tested

Sudden-Conference-65 · 2024-03-12T05:17:26+00:00

Make it a two day stand

Kagenikakushiteru · 2024-03-12T06:37:38+00:00

Reach out and say thanks for fun night.

If you want to catch up, ask her when she’s free and sugges1-2 days.

If you don’t want to see her leave it at the thanks.

Don’t be those asshole guys who ghost them

KaysoundIT · 2024-03-11T19:42:15+00:00

The next day after a one-night stand, how you proceed can vary depending on your personal preferences and the specific circumstances of the encounter. Here are a few suggestions:

Communicate boundaries: If you haven't already done so, it's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your expectations and boundaries. Discussing things like whether you're interested in pursuing a longer-term relationship or if you both are just looking for a casual encounter can help set the right expectations.
Respect privacy: Respect the privacy of your partner. Unless you've mutually agreed to stay in touch, it's generally best to give each other some space and privacy after a one-night stand. Avoid sharing personal details or intimate information with others without their consent.
Reflect on your experience: Take some time to reflect on your experience and how you feel about it. Consider your emotions, physical well-being, and any potential consequences. If you have any concerns or questions about your sexual health, it may be a good idea to seek medical advice or get tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Practice self-care: Engage in self-care activities that help you relax and process your emotions. This may include taking a warm bath, engaging in exercise or meditation, spending time with loved ones, or pursuing hobbies and interests that bring you joy.
Learn from the experience: Every encounter, whether it's a one-night stand or something more meaningful, can be an opportunity for personal growth and learning. Reflect on what you enjoyed or didn't enjoy about the experience, and use that knowledge to inform your future decisions and interactions.

Remember, the most important thing is to prioritize consent, respect, and open communication throughout the entire process.

BlueCollarSinner · 2024-03-12T01:58:18+00:00

She wake up sunny side down?

TheFlyingDutchMen_ · 2024-03-12T04:08:16+00:00

Have another one the next night

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2024-03-12T04:14:40+00:00

I’ve never gotten the contact info of my ONS. But either way you NEVER reach the next day after a date.

SlackdickMcgee · 2024-03-12T05:43:02+00:00

don’t worry about it it was a one night fling

videogames_ · 2024-03-12T11:28:53+00:00

“I had a nice evening.” If you don’t wanna see her again. Ask for how her week looks if you want a repeat thing.

Sargasso234 · 2024-03-12T16:08:01+00:00

I respect your perspective, but for me, clarity is key. I always make it known from the start that I'm not seeking anything beyond a one-night encounter. It's important to set those boundaries upfront to avoid any misunderstandings or mixed signals. I believe in keeping casual encounters separate from any potential dating interests.

Lolo_PM · 2024-03-12T18:45:48+00:00

Reach out. It's not a battle of wills or ego. Plus, it always feels good to be on the receiving end of the message.

MephistoPhoenix · 2024-03-12T18:52:42+00:00

You go home and live life like you never met. It’s called “one night” stand, not situationship.

LikeyeaScoob · 2024-03-12T21:38:21+00:00

Go pee and smell the remnants of her on my dick

Mavericinme · 2024-03-11T22:27:20+00:00

What the hell does 'One Night Stand' mean literally!? 🤷🏻🤦🏻

JazzleRazzle · 2024-03-12T01:49:23+00:00

Let her contact you. That walk home was your time to establish where things go from there.

JohnnyStormz27 · 2024-03-11T17:50:47+00:00

Go home, smoke a joint or two, sleep and eat. If I have energy by the afternoon I will probably go out again to try and get another one night stand in.

No-Summer5676 · 2024-03-11T18:48:28+00:00

Let her reach out first. I’ve got the sex, so the ball is in my court now.

bytheninedivines · 2024-03-11T16:54:50+00:00

Ghost

Blitted_Master · 2024-03-11T20:42:01+00:00

The ball’s in her court after sex.

JohnnyStormz27 · 2024-03-11T17:51:59+00:00

I usually just go about my day and then go on to the next girl tbh. After one or two days I often forget about the girl I had a one night stand with.

Emotional-Brush5563 · 2024-03-11T19:30:36+00:00

Ghost

Title	What do you do the next day after a one night stand?
Author	selfimprovm
Upvotes	100
Comments	77
Date	March 11, 2024 3:57 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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