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| 5 | Q4Women: How would you react if your guy says he's not in the mood?i'd be disappointed, i guess, but ultimately shrug it off. it happens sometimes, for really simple, harmless reasons (especially if this occasion involved a big dinner, like our anniversary did). sometimes you just don't feel like it, and he doesn't somehow owe me just because i did all that. but also, we communicate pretty openly about it so the grand gesture of all this just to 'get' it is a little weird to think about. 'asking' for sex, if you want to call it that, is pretty much never that e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/16 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Although looks aren't completely objective, what are the traits a 10/10 man necessarily has?he's cute! and agreed with most of the rest of this comment. always nice to find the few here i share tastes with... also makes me want to start dying my hair again... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 11:26 PM |
| 2 | About 40% of millenial women will be unmarried by age 40 according to future projectionsmaybe. probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 10:38 PM |
| 3 | About 40% of millenial women will be unmarried by age 40 according to future projectionsI find it sad to see my society, my community and my people self destruct. It has nothing to do with "looking down." Don't put words in my mouth. oh please. your comment was one 'lol' short of ridicule. also, the world is not your people. you have nothing to do with all but a few. you're too far gone making this personal is unwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 10:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Saying a women who got drunk around strangers and raped was practicing poor judgement is not victim blaming and is good. Same goes for a woman who distributes nude selfies to unknown men.Have it at. goodness. and also... come on. i know this is an easy subject to try and piss people off with, but try to put some quality in your posts at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 08:08 PM |
| 9 | About 40% of millenial women will be unmarried by age 40 according to future projectionsMarriage isn't for everyone, and it's not the end of the world. Unless you're a terper. with all their "never get married!!!1111" attitudes, i don't know why they're even upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 03:35 PM |
| 2 | About 40% of millenial women will be unmarried by age 40 according to future projectionsa great point. i really don't see the downside of people who don't want to get married not getting married, and even i waited until i thought it was something i wanted to be a part of, and could manage my portion of. i encourage people to take advantage of their ability to not get married if they don't feel right about it, or are questioning it for really, any reason. don't do it just because your parents or friends did; think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 03:14 PM |
| 14 | About 40% of millenial women will be unmarried by age 40 according to future projectionsi don't know why you'd want someone who would prefer a dog to a kid to be a parent, or look down on them for not having children. if they're that "selfish" then you should be celebrating their decision not to be a parent. i know selfish people who had kids anyway because they just thought that was the way of things. it's pretty tragic. i wish they hadn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?we disagree. not because i think the family deserves to suffer (as you've tried to make it out to be) but because there's little chance they aren't better off without him. not sad if this guy disappears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 11:46 AM |
| 10 | Interesting case of a female teacher "raping" a male student. Throw the book at her, as you would at a male teacher? Or, let her be?this. i know this sub is founded on disagreements, but there are at least some things we're aligned on. attempted gotcha unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?there's no guarantee of closure while he's alive anyway, and it's just as easy to say that their closure would be knowing that such a monster no longer lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?years, at least, would be way more appropriate, if for nothing else than to keep him from being out and about where he can do this again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?quoting the mother: He is not a monster, just a man that really screwed up and has been paying in many ways. that is most definitely an effort to excuse and minimize his actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?I only presented another idea. I don't know how they will feel. But with him dead, there is no going back. No reconnecting. No option to forgive, but not forget. No option to confront him. To make sure he knows how much he hurt you. No options at all. No closure if one of them wants it. Death is final. Death is not to be chosen casually. i mean, they're already there. there is no going back whether he's dead or alive, because he's already committed a heinous crime against his own family. on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?It's not yours to decide for children how they will feel in ten or even twenty years. ... but you get to decide that they would be crushed by the death of their child-rapist father? nah. i didn't 100% guarantee that they will or won't feel a certain way by sharing my opinion on this, and it was based on how most people feel about people that rape children/their family members/themselves. despite the ruling and opinions of the mother/grandmother, that's unforgivable to most people (and rightfully… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?aside from the awful grandmother/mother, i don't think so. i can't see the sons feeling much remorse over the loss of their sister's rapist, or the daughter mourning his death either. as a father, he's practically dead to them already. whatever person they thought he was before this is long gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Man sentenced to 60 days in jail for raping his 12 year old daughter. PPD, your thoughts?i can see what you mean... but i doubt this would cause more damage and suffering to his family than he has himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: is a man who beat a previous significant other but appears to have changed a good bet for an LTR?that's really shitty betting. it's not based on... anything, really. except paranoia, and unfounded assumptions about low-N women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Are men with high N counts good for relationships?they could be; i wouldn't totally rule out the possibility, even though my preferences are against them. if they haven't cheated and are healthy, it does seem like kind of an unfair assumption. i may not want to be with the guy, but i don't necessarily think he's bad (unless i have a reason to). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 12:23 AM |
| 10 | Q4BP: is a man who beat a previous significant other but appears to have changed a good bet for an LTR?a history of cheating would be an indicator that they may cheat again. having been promiscuous in youth is not. so simple! i get still having worries sometimes or simply being incompatible with someone because they had a history of promiscuity, but considering them a guaranteed cheater based on that alone (which is among the most generous qualities that RPers have ascribed to promiscuous women)... it's unfounded and frankly, stupid. especially if you yourself are promiscuous, man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 11:08 PM |
| 4 | In a relationship, how do you and your partner handle disagreements on matters of importance?at this point i can't tell if this is trolling or not. this sub has really warped my ability to distinguish... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship, how do you and your partner handle disagreements on matters of importance?i'd have to double-check about the deed since it was a lot of paperwork and primarily handled by my husband (given that he got the loan and all) but i know my name is on the title, at least, so i think you're right. i'm not sure if it's by default or not (in case a couple had some bizarre desire to keep it only in one person's name) but i think in most cases the house ends up in both names. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | In a relationship, how do you and your partner handle disagreements on matters of importance?I was under the impression that most people generally save half their income. Given an average person's income of $40,000, and that a Civic usually costs $2000-5000 around here, this is something that can be saved for over a period of months. i don't think that kind of saving or freely spendable money is a given, especially if things like mortgage and kids come into play. it wasn't really evident that we were talking about a used car, which is what that would have to be at those prices. that's o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 04:36 PM |
| 3 | In a relationship, how do you and your partner handle disagreements on matters of importance?impacted how? by a little car lurking in front of the house? i don't think so. whose budget? if u have enough money 2 buy a new car its on u it's not about the car being in front of the house. responsible adults living together and sharing a household budget are wisest to take their partner into consideration when making a decision that will impact that budget. most people don't have stacks of cash laying around just waiting to be thrown at a new car, so it does require some discussion and plann… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | In a relationship, how do you and your partner handle disagreements on matters of importance?i don't think those things are comparable, and even 'regular' compact cars can cost a lot of money. if you're living together or married and equally impacted by a big purchase, then yeah, you bet i expect a discussion. IMO, it's pretty bad if you just go off buying cars without telling anyone, knowing that will impact the household and budget (which is the case for most people). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 03:53 PM |
| 3 | In a relationship, how do you and your partner handle disagreements on matters of importance?Whoever's name is on the deed owns the house and the other person is a tenant. if i'm paying for it, even in part, then it involves me by default regardless of the name on the deed. As for cars I don't know why someone wouldn't just buy one for themselves and lend it to the other person, and vice versa. this still affects the finances of the couple, even if you keep your own bank accounts. i wouldn't want to be with someone who just made huge decisions about buying things that impacted us both f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 03:29 PM |
| 6 | In a relationship, how do you and your partner handle disagreements on matters of importance?it's a little hard to say; he and i haven't really encountered something that major (or at least it doesn't feel like it). we're aligned on not wanting kids and haven't really encountered anything problematic related to finances. i mean every now and then one of us wants something expensive, but then we realize that it either is possible/smart or not, and proceed (or not). the only thing i can really remember being a conflict was whether or not to get married. i used to be really against the ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/16 12:13 AM |
| 3 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.nah, you're just being usual you. sad. bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 04:36 PM |
| 4 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.I didn't frame HER conduct as anything at all. That's you reading into the reply something that's not there, for the purpose of you getting on your soapbox/hobby horse of "It's all gotta be EEE-KWALLL, goddamnit!" oh, don't play stupid. obviously if the man is sacrificing everything, that would imply that she's sacrificing nothing. are you really stooping this low, to try and deny that? are we doing this, again? i had hoped that with your new username, you would engage at least a little bit diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.Your entire reply is out of context and irrelevant. i'm directly quoting you. We're talking about the level of commitment HE is being expected to give HER. ... which was initially framed as if she offered nothing at all, or at the very least, something minimal (something you're still kind of insisting on). that's what's being called out. sigh... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 04:22 PM |
| 5 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.He's committing to her. and in this scenario, she's committing to him too. He has to support her financially. most couples these days are dual income, meaning they support each other. He's giving up opportunities to fuck other women. as is she. He's committing himself to certain courses of action and excluding others that he might want to pursue. as is she. Is it really this hard to understand the level of commitment required from a man? it's hard to understand why you're making this out to me "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 04:11 PM |
| 7 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.It's not "upset". These aren't petulant little boys stamping their feet. that's exactly what they are. edit: i'm getting downvoted for even pointing this out. don't try to tell me that this isn't something that RPers are insanely emotional about, haha. What they get pissed off about is the lying and concealment, which in itself reveal the character defects of the women who engage in them. there have been threads here just discussing promiscuous women in general, and the comments are filled with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:46 PM |
| 10 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.no one gets that upset about risk management. nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:23 PM |
| 4 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.Well, I mean, they ARE starting out of the gate being dishonest about something the guy may or may not consider important, so... i was just referring to high n-count women there, not ones that are being dishonest about it. really, whether they're honest about it or not, some guy is super mad even though it doesn't involve him at all. I agree with this. But we aren't talking about hanging your number in bright red letters on a placard round her neck. We're talking about telling someone who you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:22 PM |
| 9 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.Firstly, men with high N counts are not just like women with high N counts, and we've been over this enough times that I'm not going to repeat the reasons why. this isn't some sort of fact you've established; it's your opinion, and we don't agree. Thirdly, I've heard women on this sub admit that they use certain men for sex (aka stud duties) but would not have a relationship with those same men. i haven't, so i guess that's where our experiences differ. most women i see posting here are in commi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:20 PM |
| 6 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.The assumption here that its mostly High(ish) N men complaining about "sloots"? I doubt that highly. Guys racking up a notch count LOVE "sloots", they are how they get those notches after all. (general) you don't love them; you love what you can get from them, and despise everything else about them (and yourselves a little bit afterwards, unsurprisingly). The men complaining about "sloots" are more often than not the lower N guys, either by choice or by circumstance. Of course, since those guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:16 PM |
| 7 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.Just from reading /r/relationships, I would beg to differ. Unless you cushion your disapproval with "we have different values, so I wouldn't want to date her", any n-count based rejection will be met with insecurity-shaming and a chorus of people telling the dumped girl that "she deserves better". well, there are exceptions to everything, and the OP mentioned BPers having this view, not necessarily women in general. but, re: your comments... there are men who are insecure about that kind of thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Virginity as a concept was tied to Womeni haven't seen anyone arguing that it was never something more heavily considered/related to women, BP or not, so that's probably why this seems like a pointless thread to some people (or a subtle attempt to say that the old meaning should still hold true). if it's just etymology that you want to discuss and you're not trying to make any point about what it should mean today, i'm sure there's a more appropriate subreddit where people will be happier to just pick apart words and discuss their his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:09 PM |
| 9 | N-count post #121: Women who hide their N-count are hypocrites/cognitively dissonant.They think men who dismiss women as relationship material due to them having a high n-count are being dumb and sexist. i think it's more that they think men with high n-counts dismissing these women for being just like them are setting a stupid double standard. or that these men make up that women with high n-counts are x number of other horrible things totally unrelated to their n-count, just because they take some weird personal offense to her having been with a lot of guys. a lot of women her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Virginity as a concept was tied to Womenit's like the argument over the definition of 'respect' all over again. sure, RPers. words can never mean more than one thing, or change in definition/application over time. never ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 12:24 PM |
| 1 | What's the worse sexual advice you've received?they did the tape thing at my school and it wasn't even a religious school :( another year they had a paper heart that they passed around and had everyone take a piece of, and compared that to what happens with sexual experiences. sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Men's virginity? Should losing it be special?what a senseless definition of virginity. no, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Why is it often assumed around here that only women change in a relationship?so... a change. at least in the eyes of everyone around him, if not an actual change within himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/16 07:58 PM |
| 7 | Why is it often assumed around here that only women change in a relationship?there's a huge difference between a few months and a year. but regardless of the period of time, if a guy suddenly starts being his 'true self' (a self that wasn't outwardly shown before), it appears as a change to the woman because she didn't know that was his 'true self' before. it's also harder to notice changes that happen slowly and subtly, as many people even here can attest to. they're still changes, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/16 07:53 PM |
| 8 | Why is it often assumed around here that only women change in a relationship?it seems equally likely to me that men can change after a period of time in a relationship/marriage, especially if the people in the relationship got together young or very quickly. people grow and change, and most people know that you don't snag a partner by showing your worst traits right away. although not in every case, of course, there's a possibility that things/red flags are overlooked in the 'butteflies' stage of a relationship, and once things settle down those problems become more glar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/16 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Men's virginity? Should losing it be special?Is there a value men place on their own virginity? Should it be there? i don't know about should but if they do place an importance on it, or if it's something that matters to them, i don't necessarily think that's a bad thing. note: caring =/= obsession. How does the concept of virginity significantly differ between the sexes? men are encouraged to lose it, women are encouraged to hold on to it. there's still some stigma against guys who haven't and girls who have, but thankfully, it seems to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many guys meh at sex?i disagree. doesn't really matter anyway, i'm married, and if i were single, i'd avoid them like the plague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/16 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Could you ever date someone with radically different political opinions from yours?just waiting for TRPers to wake up and swoop in to tell you how ugly you must be for being into researcher guy (who sounds totally cute). i feel pretty much like you do; personal values and beliefs tie into it pretty closely, so i just wouldn't be compatible with someone who had such different beliefs. he'd probably be pretty terrible in my eyes, and i would be repulsed. from my exposure to 'the other side', they seem pretty full of bigotry and ignorance (loudly, outspokenly so). we can find ple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/16 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many guys meh at sex?Why are there so few guys capable of giving women breath taking sex? IMO, some guys don't care as long as they get off. some don't research, or try to improve because they're nervous or don't think there's a problem. some don't realize they're doing something 'wrong' because no one tells them. there are probably all kinds of reasons. when i worked in a XXX store, there were a lot of people who felt awkward even being there and needed 'comforting' in order to shop normally, so i think the taboo o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/16 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Last Namesyou didn't even read my comment; nice. i'm not insane to tell you you're wrong when you tell me i don't love my husband, and other women who object to this wouldn't be either. i know this; you don't, and your authority on the matter is zero (guess you just got lucky enough this time to have me respond to your... remark). the superiority complex of some traditionalists is astounding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 03:16 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women on PPD are not representative of women in generalno. try taking yourself away from team red for a bit, and actually read threads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 03:09 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women on PPD are not representative of women in generalit would help if TRPers didn't apply what they see (as no doubt, a lot is overlooked) on a single night out at the club to all women, every day, 24/7. or, construct an idea of what a woman's life is like, and telling women that their lives are like that because you said so, no matter what they actually experienced. if that wasn't going on, you'd probably have less women telling you that you're wrong/stupid. most non-RPers here readily agree that terrible women exist; that's not what's being deni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Last Namesthe people i know with more than 2 hyphenated names seem to just go with one of them most of the time, for convenience. how it's chosen, i don't know; i guess it's up to the individual. and when it's time for the kids to get married... they have the wonderful opportunity to pick their own names, i suppose. haha. i only know a few people like that and i'm not one myself, though, so it's just a guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Last Namesthis isn't something that puts a strain on my relationship. it's a non-issue, which is why a relationship (that i was a part of) would be pretty weak for falling apart over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Last Namesi mean, it's wrong. i don't really care if you think it's distasteful or whatever for women to not give up their names, but you don't get to tell someone else they don't love their partners (and that's a really shitty, mean thing to do). it's this kind of thing that gives people the impression that RPW are catty 'mean girls'; good grief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/16 01:37 AM |
| 0 | What's the cause of the increasing number of Incels?not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 11:45 PM |
| 7 | What's the cause of the increasing number of Incels?i sure as hell don't talk about things i claim to be cutting out of my life and moving on from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 11:22 PM |
| 2 | What's the cause of the increasing number of Incels?this is what i seem to remember from the articles i read about it... not all of them, of course, but a good portion were opting out by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Last Namesyeah, wanting things. women; such bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Last NamesHaving a different name doesn't mean you're suddenly not the author of those works. having a different name also doesn't mean you don't love or respect your husband, or aren't married (as evidenced by the responses in this thread). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Last NamesITT: men more obsessed with the ring that so many women supposedly go nuts about. i agree with this thought though; a ring's not going to get in the way of anything if the intent to go outside of the marriage is already there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Last Namesyeah... no one was present when my husband and i got married (we thought it would be fun to make it a surprise, since we dated for years and people always asked us when we'd finally do it). but, once it was done, we practically shouted it from the rooftops. everyone knew about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Last Namesa friend of mine is marrying a guy with like, 4 surnames... last time i talked to her, she was pretty confused about what to do with hers, or the names of their future children, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Last NamesYeah, I was going to actually just use the work "marked", but I knew immediately that would get some hackles raised here. But? For the most part, that IS the intent here. She is "mine", and is marked as such with a ring and my name. I am "hers" and marked as such with the ring. But I've never hidden the fact that "ownership" is a HUGE part of marriage for me. Despite what the law may say, I do view her as "mine". And in return, I view myself as "hers". Which is also why I tend to call monogamy "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Last NamesSeems like a very silly reason to base such a big decision on - how easy they'll be able to spell it for a few short years. as someone who has had my name misspelled by other people since childhood (and even my chosen name, which isn't that hard!)... i concur, it's kind of silly. haha. you can never escape the misspellings... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Last NamesAfaik just changing your name legally is easy. At least in the UK all you do is copy/paste a document template (deed poll for change of name, probably called something different in the US) from the government site, fill in your current name and new one, sign it and have a witness sign it, then just send off copies to everyone who needs to change their records. That's it. Doesn't even cost anything in and of itself, although you need to pay if you want new ID (passports, driving licenses) with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Last Namesit kind of seems like something you should know or discuss before actually getting to the point of marriage too (eliminating the need to call anything off except a dating relationship)... but maybe that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Last NamesThe ring isn't for YOU and your husband, its for everyone else looking. It is the public acknowledgement (to those that weren't at your ceremony) that you are in fact married. eh, i just don't think of it like that, or at the very least, not as the ring's sole purpose. i don't act like a single person, and clearing up any misunderstandings is as easy as saying i'm married or bringing up my husband. i wear one and enjoy it, but it's not some insanely sacred thing to me (especially since rings get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Last Namesokay then, a different actual lawyer, with a more balanced view of things and different history of engaging on this sub. i'm really not taking the word of an extreme TRPer on this one; i'll wait for confirmation from someone else (if they should choose to provide it, not that they need to) and stand corrected if i need to. it doesn't really matter either way though, so i'm just as happy leaving it here. i was told i had no contract; i do. i signed it. there's not really further discussion needed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 04:23 PM |
| 7 | Last NamesAnd what you read and signed means exactly NOTHING if and when it ever becomes time to end that marriage. All that will matter is the law as it exists at the time of divorce, and your and your husband's economic positions. That's it. maybe legally; maybe not. i'll take the word of an actual lawyer if they choose to chime in, over the comment above. i made my decision carefully, as did my husband, so 'our divorce' is not a concern of mine nor do i see it becoming one. in any case, i absolutely di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 04:14 PM |
| 9 | Last Namesyeah, i read and signed things in order to get married. go rant about the sanctity of marriage to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Last NamesMy mom and I don't have the same last name and we never felt like less of a family for it. i seem to think along the same lines as you do, and i wonder how much this factors into it for other people too. i think the names in my family have changed with each generation; my father was adopted so he doesn't have the name of his blood relatives. i don't go by the surname i inherited from him. my grandmother and grandfather on my mom's side had different surnames, neither of which my mom has (and i d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Last Namesyes. i didn't take it, though, and only wanted to legally change my name to the name that i go by (which is not my family or birth name). i'm not familiar with the systems so i don't know why changing it to my husband's name would be easier than just changing it entirely... but i had just gotten married so i just let it go and enjoyed the day instead. from the judge's description it seemed like at least starting the name change process would have been easy, but maybe it just seemed that way from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 03:35 PM |
| 9 | Last Namesyeah, i can't think of anything that makes it more clear and set in stone that i'm married than the certificate and the contract i signed. i wear a ring, but the ring matters so much less than the contract, and much much less than the promise i made to the person that matters: my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Last Namesweird; the judge was practically ushering me to the counter to get my name changed when my husband and i got married. it ended up being a no go, because he only said it would be the easy route if it was to change it to my husband's surname :( haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 03:14 PM |
| 14 | Last NamesDid/will you take your (future) husband's last name? i didn't. If no, why? it just seemed weird, you know? and it didn't affect our married status one bit; i wouldn't have wanted to get married if our relationship was feeble enough to be broken by something like that. i also guess i didn't like the idea of a name being chosen for me... and when it comes down to it, if you ask men that think it's important to take names 'for family'... most of them probably wouldn't take their wife's name, and wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] How long should a man wait to ask for sex again after being turned down?er, no. this would be taking place after she already rejected him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/16 12:19 AM |
| 6 | What are Women's "Responsibilities" in Rejecting Men?while i don't disagree that this would be ideal (and i'd probably try it if i felt comfortable doing so)... the guy might already be feeling pretty bad after being rejected, and it seems like giving this feedback would pretty easily just turn into an argument or salt the wound (if not both). i wouldn't blame anyone rejecting someone else for not wanting to invite that situation upon themselves/another, man or woman. super uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 09:40 PM |
| 3 | What are Women's "Responsibilities" in Rejecting Men?EDIT: TIL that men have to learn and follow all sorts of rules and social conventions for dating and sex; but women can do any goddamn thing they want to whoever they want, and be bitches about it to boot. no, if a guy approached politely and normally and the woman flipped out and threw her drink in his face, that would be totally inappropriate and it would only make sense for him to be upset, as well as the people around who had to be present for that meltdown. but i don't think that's as commo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 08:30 PM |
| 5 | What are Women's "Responsibilities" in Rejecting Men?Be direct and firm with guys who cross lines, but you don't have to be a bitch about it. That's all I'm saying. one person will interpret the rejection as clear and polite while the other will remember the woman as a stupid cunt who doesn't know what she's missing (even if she is just polite and direct). i'm not advocating rudeness but there's not just one rejection that will please everyone, so i'm gonna go with the one that pleases me most. Lines get crossed because men have to push for what t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 07:48 PM |
| 7 | What are Women's "Responsibilities" in Rejecting Men?if he's approaching me, he's opening himself up to whatever response i choose to give. that's the risk that he took by making the approach in the first place; i have no responsibility or obligation to that guy. typically, i'll be direct, clear, and polite, but that's not so much because i think i owe it to him, it's because my interest is in reducing an uncomfortable interaction as much as possible, and conducting myself in a way that i prefer. i'll give a pass to guys who are awkward or shy; i'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 06:57 PM |
| 1 | If women cared so much about their looks, then why are there mostly men at the gym?Hahaha same here. It is a part of getting older and learning more about your body. Another very interesting thing: Your current diet will affect what you crave. If you always eat junk you will crave junk because your body has reached an equilibrium of sorts where it has adapted to your current diet. yeah... i had to learn that the hard way. between my husband and i, i'm the snacker, so it required a major shift in what i snacked on too. so much stuff i don't buy anymore or found replacements for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 03:58 PM |
| 2 | If women cared so much about their looks, then why are there mostly men at the gym?Seriously, people do not realize the extent to which they overeat and how easy it is to do. I have a few rule of thumb diet techniques that help to avoid a lot of that type of stuff if you're trying to lose weight: -Never eat out or avoid it as much as possible. It's almost always worse for you than you think it is. It should be an occasional treat, not the norm. -Avoid stuff with any kind of "sauce" or "dressing" on it. They are usually SUPER high in calories, especially white sauces which are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 02:48 PM |
| 3 | If women cared so much about their looks, then why are there mostly men at the gym?One meal at a restaurant could be an entire days worth of calories and most people wouldn't even realize they're overeating, because it's only one meal. finding this out when i started actually counting was... alarming. it's so true. there are so many places where just appetizers are on the large/high side of what a meal should be; i couldn't believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: If you had a friend that was an incel, would you have sex with him out of courtesy to make him feel better?your desperate need to tell yourself that to feel better just doesn't count for much. sorry, guy. besides, as tons of us have stated, if that was the best we could do, then it's what we'd be doing. but it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: If you had a friend that was an incel, would you have sex with him out of courtesy to make him feel better?an incel is far from the best that the women here could do as far as i know, so there's no need for us to do that, ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: If you had a friend that was an incel, would you have sex with him out of courtesy to make him feel better?agh, i remember this. it was definitely a painful scene (George was my favorite, even with his problems). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 3 | If women cared so much about their looks, then why are there mostly men at the gym?ugh, not cleaning the machines. also, that guy who grunts and frowns and throws weights around so loudly that it can be heard throughout the whole gym (while other dudes manage that amount of weight with as much effort, but not being totally obnoxious). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: If you had a friend that was an incel, would you have sex with him out of courtesy to make him feel better?it sounds like you're too self-absorbed, actually. back up your words with actions! donate to your local lonely incels! aren't you their leader, after all? don't ask everyone else to do your work for you, that's just pathetic. attraction doesn't matter anyway, so you'll be fine. i believe in you. now, get out there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 11:43 AM |
| 9 | Q4Women: If you had a friend that was an incel, would you have sex with him out of courtesy to make him feel better?or you could just stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 11:37 AM |
| 9 | Q4Women: If you had a friend that was an incel, would you have sex with him out of courtesy to make him feel better?But what's wrong with having sex with someone your aren't attracted to if it's for a good cause? it sounds like you're way more concerned about these men than anyone else here. go donate your own body and time to them then, or buy them more prostitutes. It's like donating blood. You sacrifice some pain and your blood for someone in need. But sex dosn't hurt like needles do. it's not like donating blood at all, and it would be painful and unpleasant in many ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 05:10 AM |
| 2 | If women cared so much about their looks, then why are there mostly men at the gym?interesting, and good to know, thank you :) my husband and i are hoping to build a spare bedroom into a home gym, so this definitely helps. i don't drive either, so that definitely matters too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 05:06 AM |
| 8 | Q4Women: If you had a friend that was an incel, would you have sex with him out of courtesy to make him feel better?nope! no need. at best, i'd try to find him someone else that actually suited him. as madscientistlove said... if he was someone i was attracted to and at all interested in sleeping with, i would have (given i was single anyway). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 05:02 AM |
| 7 | If women cared so much about their looks, then why are there mostly men at the gym?i see women at the gym all the time. a lot of them are on cardio machines or exercising on mats (or in classes) , but there are all kinds of exercise and training so i don't know why "not weights" always has to be such a bad thing with TRPers. this could be unique to me/my gym, but i prefer to do weights at home because it's less crowded, i don't feel watched or pressured, and i don't have to deal with guys walking off to the locker room after using a machine and then coming back ten minutes lat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Is there still a difference between BP and RP anymore?i meant more of a hierarchy, or imbalance; the kind of dynamic that TRPers usually bring up (it's been a long day). neither of us holds some unilateral/uneven power over the other, despite terps insisting that this is present in all relationships and all relationships are a power struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 02:11 AM |
| 8 | Men want women to only ever want them and women want men to be extremely choosyokay, then most people care for others and want to be cared for in return. it's this shit that makes people outliers, not women who don't use Facebook or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 12:55 AM |
| 10 | [Q4BP] How long should a man wait to ask for sex again after being turned down?10 years. 11, for good measure. but really, letting it go for the evening after the first attempt seems pretty safe to me (without context). leave it up to her to bring it up next. if she still doesn't want to, then no pressure on her. if she does want to and finds herself disappointed at the end of the night, she can wise up and be more vocal about what she wants next time (and you save yourself the risk of pressuring someone into sex they don't want by badgering them endlessly). i wouldn't bri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Two questions about affirmative consentpretty sure this is a troll :/ all his posts are this nonsensical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Anger and Sexme neither; i can't even imagine it, honestly. angry sex sounds totally unappealing to me. i don't think i'd even be into it if just he was mad (though being mad is rare for both of us). no anger in the bedroom, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Is there still a difference between BP and RP anymore?How can a relationship not involve power dynamics? ... easily, it just doesn't. my husband and i are two different people making our own contributions and efforts in the relationships. there's not a hierarchy. neither one of us is subordinate to or 'beneath' the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Is there still a difference between BP and RP anymore?how many times have i said it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Is there still a difference between BP and RP anymore?OP seems to think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 04:21 PM |
| 11 | Is there still a difference between BP and RP anymore?oh, don't do this. OP is definitely presenting them as if they're something RPers came up with. they aren't, otherwise he wouldn't be so surprised that 'the others' agree with those thoughts (which weren't even solely RP in the first place). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 04:16 PM |
| 10 | Is there still a difference between BP and RP anymore?There is not a single RP-exclusive idea. That's a lazy kind of criticism. OP seems to think otherwise, since he called those RP ideas (which they aren't). Oh as usual you take issue at hyperbole taken literally. ah, the "i'm kidding when it's convenient for me" RPer response. how... novel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 04:12 PM |
| 13 | Is there still a difference between BP and RP anymore?Most BP on here seem to accept common RP ideas your first sentence holds the answer to the question in the subject... sort of. believing that looks are important, that there's more to being attractive than being nice, there are some physical/biological differences between men and women, etc. (the actual ideas in question, not what you quoted) are not RP-exclusive ideas, and never have been. How do the BPers on here distinguish themselves. Where do you still disagree with RPers? women are all blo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Incel Moratorium Debriefthis seems like the best idea so far; designating a single thread for the discussion. post away (in that thread only), incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 01:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"there are a bunch of hair, makeup, fashion, and gonewildy-type subreddits, to name a few. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 11:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"that's the only sub you're acknowledging as another place women will post? this site is huge. explore sometime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How many men are actually "divorce raped"?Clearly, I'm right. If couples were free to determine the legal terms of their marriages, you wouldn't have men complaining that the terms are unfair. you're not. trusting someone who actually knows law on this one. tell this to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How many men are actually "divorce raped"?By terms I mean the details of the legal contract of the marriage i.e. how assets get split in the event of a divorce etc. lawyers are free to chime in if i'm wrong (which i definitely could be) but this doesn't sound accurate to me at all. it sounds like a red pill horror story, which is to say, false. All the due diligence in the world cannot guarantee that the future behaviour of a partner will not be to your gross disadvantage. you're acting like you can have no possible way of knowing how s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How many men are actually "divorce raped"?The problem with marriage is that you have no control over the terms of the deal and the deal is bad for men. what terms? both people in a marriage have a lot of control; this sounds like paranoid nonsense. No one's judgement or predictive powers are so great that they can guarantee a potential partner, particularly a woman, will not take advantage of the man's vulnerable position somewhere down the track. i'm not saying to roll dice or shake a magic 8-ball. properly vet your partner. don't pick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 11:31 PM |
| 6 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"there are a lot of subreddits outside of pill stuff. more 'normal' women post on the site than you seem to realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | How many men are actually "divorce raped"?i'm pretty sure there are both legal (IANAL) and personal benefits from marrying a good partner, especially if you plan to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 09:39 PM |
| 3 | How many men are actually "divorce raped"?because you can avoid the risk by not having a bad partner that your marriage will fail with. it's not a 100% risk if you're actually paying attention to what you're doing. edit: to be clear, again, i don't think there's a problem with not getting married and you shouldn't, if you really feel this way. the reasons behind it just don't make much sense, and involve risks that can be so easily avoided. i don't think it's marriage that's the problem here; it's the way of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 09:22 PM |
| 7 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"yeah, i would understand what you were saying if you actually explained it instead of just flying off the handle about the term. if you're just here to shout at people instead of engage in discussion, please go away. TRP is perfect for that; not here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 09:14 PM |
| 2 | How many men are actually "divorce raped"?i mean, i think a prenup would eliminate that problem, though if your worries about the marriage failing are that high, it seems questionable that this is actually a great relationship partner. it's one thing to know that there's a possibility that it could happen, and know what your options are then, but being this afraid of it is something different entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 09:07 PM |
| 7 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"I didn't ask such thing. this is your comment: "And since only men can do those type of things, let's call it "toxic masculinity" instead of "behaving like an asshole". Right?" Also that is not what I meant when I asked what that changes. which is why my comment started with "what?", because it was totally unclear. I'll give you the answer though, for the benefits of making things more easy: It changes nothing. no one said anything was changing. i still don't know what you're talking about. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 09:01 PM |
| 4 | How many men are actually "divorce raped"?there's nothing wrong with not getting married, but this thinking is silly... i mean, why wouldn't you just opt not to have a bad business partner first, before swearing off all deals entirely? one of these is much more sensible than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 08:45 PM |
| 5 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"what? you asked why we can't call that 'being an asshole' instead of 'toxic masculinity'. you wouldn't have to; the behavior she described can be both of those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 08:37 PM |
| 3 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"it doesn't need to be one or the other; it can be both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 08:24 PM |
| 7 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"she's not an outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.i didn't say otherwise. please actually read what i'm saying; i'm not talking about japan at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 05:28 PM |
| 2 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.You're on purplepilldebate, denying that mgtow and trp are a thing. quote me, then. can you? you can't. i didn't say TRP and MGTOW weren't a thing; i said they weren't the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 04:50 PM |
| 6 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.up to 70% of men aged 20-30 in Japan have "no interest in relationships with the opposite sex", the same thing is happening here. this seems pretty outlandish (that it's happening in the US/West), and without an article or study saying this, i just can't take your word for it. i do think that dating and relationships have changed. i don't believe they have been destroyed. i look outside and see mostly happy couples and singles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 04:38 PM |
| 3 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.if you're not pre-RP anymore and you know that was a bad interpretation, and the commenter you responded to clearly said that's not what she meant, i don't know why you would still try to interpret it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 04:00 PM |
| 4 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.Generally all these arguments are dismissed as being only held by a minority of men - however we all look out into the world around us and see that things are deteriorating. to repeat, i don't think most men feel this way, and things aren't deteriorating; just changing. perhaps you feel that way; based on this comment, it seems so. but i don't believe that most men are upset that women are choosing them for things other than money or social obligation. Never expect men to tell you the truth abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 03:54 PM |
| 3 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.With enough awareness we can successfully condition undesirable behaviour out of women too. i think the group of men with this complaint is relatively small, so i doubt any attempts to condition out 'undesirable' behavior would be successful. most men would be happy to have someone choose them for their individual traits and not their bank account, and most will be successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 03:43 PM |
| 2 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.I'm not here to "make here happy", I'm here to help her find her OWN happiness, and along the way she's providing me with the same. Do I love to see her smile? You bet. Do I sometimes do things just to see it? Sure. But, SHE is still the one that is "happy" about those situations, all I'm doing is helping her to remember that. I'm happy to be with her because she enhances my life this seems like a really convoluted way of saying that you do things that make each other happy, which you can do eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 03:35 PM |
| 13 | [discussion] Men are unhappy because the relationship paradigm has shifted from an exchange of services to manipulation.why are kids and other expenses being totally left out of the equation, in favor of 'bitch just wants to spend'? seems to me a married man would also have a better (more expensive) car, a house instead of an apartment, a family budget to contribute to, just like the woman. it doesn't seem weird to me that someone who grew up and got married ended up with more expenses and less leisure money; that's kind of how it goes as far as i can tell, for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Incel Moratorium Debriefyou could always just do the popular blue pill quasi-personal-attack route and tell them to "get help" and "get therapy" to counter balance this supposed pity party. it's not a personal attack, and many people here have admitted to getting therapy. it's not shameful to do so. unfortunately, this sub does attract people with really unhealthy views and ways of dealing with things, but it's not really appropriate or good if it becomes their personal advice column, or a tool for furthering their sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 04:45 AM |
| 4 | Student at Columbia is reported to Gender Misconduct office for calling himself handsome in class.i mean, when an article or whatever like this written by a woman is posted, she's criticized as well. there was one here not that long ago, maybe a month or so (about a roommate/rejection scenario... i'll try to find it, i can't be the only one that remembers...). the criticism towards that author was pretty much like the criticisms here, as i recall; it didn't matter that she was a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Student at Columbia is reported to Gender Misconduct office for calling himself handsome in class.i feel like if people were upset about this kind of thing, we'd see a lot more outrage about having feminine/masculine nouns in other languages too. some people in my classes thought it was unusual, but no one really got upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Student at Columbia is reported to Gender Misconduct office for calling himself handsome in class.i wonder what was going on when he said it; i noticed the article (?) specified several times that there was a problem with his conduct towards the professor. i do feel like he's probably leaving a lot of things out, and he doesn't strike me as someone who exactly enjoys rules or having to adhere to a certain conduct: I probably shouldn’t have done that but it was just too damn funny not to. “If you’re asking me to not be myself, then I guarantee I will end up back in your office again.” if this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Women who wear tight/revealing clothing shouldn't get upset when men oggle them.what a generous (and ridiculous) thought, to think that men won't stare at a woman in a sundress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Let's Talk about Trumpyeah, i think there are a lot of women who would be creeped out by this. i'm pretty sure my celebrity crush is totally single, and even if i were also single, this would make me mega uncomfortable. don't just go grabbing and kissing people; it's not okay even for celeb crush guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Let's Talk about Trumpit's not an ego boost for someone to treat you like a thing or possession they can play with, instead of a person. not at all (and quite frankly, i'd be wary of anyone who said that it was for them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Women who wear tight/revealing clothing shouldn't get upset when men oggle them.noticing =/= staring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Let's Talk about TrumpSure, men are always in a position of power. Never concede any responsibility on your part. You know what, maybe women are children after all. first, calm down. second, we're talking about one man, who talks specifically about what he does and can do because of the power he has (as another person has already pointed out). most people aren't so vigilant that they're 24/7 expecting to be grabbed and ready to fight someone off either, so it doesn't surprise me that he, or anyone else trying it, wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Let's Talk about Trumpnope -_- my bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Let's Talk about Trumpor because he's in a position of power over them, or because he just does it without permission so they don't actually stop him before he does something because who the hell expects that weird shit. it would probably seem more like a joke if that didn't seem to align with all of his other public, non-joke statements about women. he seems to think pretty poorly of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Incel Moratorium Debriefnot ones like why doesn't the government send me prostitutes. the problem is that the discussion always inevitably ends up being this or some other kind of pity party, even if the OP isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: so when do we actually get around to talking RP?You do realise you're doing exactly what he's saying, right? Offering no value (while being snarky to boot) and showing no insight into what he's talking about. he's been asked to clarify what he meant and explain what he's talking about, and has failed to do so. if he would, i'd be able to talk about that, but his response to just being asked to explain what he meant was basically "whatever mom, you just don't get it." TRP/RP is defined differently by all kinds of people; it's not a fixed thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 01:17 PM |
| 2 | The hatred of Trump and love for Hillary (despite her lies and deception) prove TRP right more than ever- detractors don't understand what locker room talk isthis OP and his posts aren't to be taken seriously, apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: so when do we actually get around to talking RP?it really is. you should get back to your super important world-changing work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: so when do we actually get around to talking RP?From what I've seen on PPD, the people who question TRP actually demonstrate that they didn't read it. i mean... nothing in this comment really has meaning, because of what i said above. you're just doing what i already pointed out you were doing. but sure, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Discussion: so when do we actually get around to talking RP?You don't take them seriously because you say stuff without actually reading about them? no, because they claim everyone who disagrees with them is wrong and doesn't read, but can't even explain their own ideology, even to defend it. it's rich, because not even all TRPers agree on RP things. expecting the world to know and agree with (general) your specific interpretation of RP things, which can and does change whenever someone challenges you, is pretty absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 12:43 AM |
| 9 | Discussion: so when do we actually get around to talking RP?i can't explain it, but you know, just read it and get it. unless i decide i don't like what you say. then, you don't get it, obviously. RP is never wrong. only those i disagree with are wrong. things like this are why TRPers aren't taken seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] What did/do you think of online datingIf you could tell someone who is totally unfamiliar with this concept something positive about online dating, what would it be? What about something negative? Was/is the overall experience worth it to you, or did you get fed up and take down your profile? i haven't been on a dating site since late teens/early twenties, and even then it was just out of curiosity. it seems like a gamble, with bad odds, from the things i see online. if someone wanted to try it, i would tell them to only use it as o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Have you ever slept with a woman that was considerably more sexually experienced than yourself, if so how did it feel?if you don't want other people to respond to your comments, send a PM. my guess (and personal opinion) is that it's better to just not run the risk of meeting someone who thinks like that at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/16 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Do most women have a desire to get wild with sex, drugs and alcohol?Do most women have a desire to be wild? Wild as in doing kinky, dangerous stuff with sex, drugs and alcohol? Do most women dream about cheating on their husband with a hot photographer friend? all i've ever truly wanted... ya got me. just can't hide it anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/16 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Why do you complain about women only noticing attractive men, when you only notice attractive women?careful, you'll break this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/16 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: Have you ever slept with a woman that was considerably more sexually experienced than yourself, if so how did it feel?for starters, believing that someone is subhuman for stopping in the middle of sex if they're not cool with what's happening. also believing that paying for a prostitute means she has to do anything and everything you say with no right to refuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/16 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Men and the ‘Betas Are Wonderful’ effect.you're doing it right now. look at your last comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/16 05:56 AM |
| 5 | Men and the ‘Betas Are Wonderful’ effect.Being nice is hard. It takes time, effort and the mental fortitude to accept the real possibility that no one will reciprocate your feelings. it really isn't hard. and the other side of this is the real possibility that someone will reciprocate your feelings. it goes both ways. if you're carrying that chip around, people can absolutely feel it, and that's how you end up with a self-fulfilling prophecy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/16 05:26 AM |
| 2 | "She looked so innocent!" When her appearance does not match her sexual history.uh, i'm not taking it that seriously, haha. i don't object to not being interested in or attracted to certain things (given that guys with light hair are typically a hard 'no' for me), i just didn't remember 'basic' meaning 'things a person was born with and has no control over'. don't get so defensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/16 04:25 AM |
| 5 | "She looked so innocent!" When her appearance does not match her sexual history.lazy eye, super curly/nappy hair how are these on the same level as the tattoos, or at all indicative that someone is 'basic'? this is like calling someone with freckles basic, or a short person. so weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/16 03:08 AM |
| 3 | "She looked so innocent!" When her appearance does not match her sexual history.makes sense to me, and i'm always amused when a guy who is super concerned about promiscuous women describes his ideal, which matches a lot of the flirty, promiscuous party girls i knew or knew of, who looked way more 'wholesome' than i do/did. i don't think they did anything wrong, but if we were put side by side, just in terms of personal style, i have no doubt i'd receive the harsher judgment from other people, and accusations of things they actually did that i didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Have you ever slept with a woman that was considerably more sexually experienced than yourself, if so how did it feel?yeah, i'm pretty great. thanks for noticing :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 11:26 PM |
| 8 | Q4Men: Have you ever slept with a woman that was considerably more sexually experienced than yourself, if so how did it feel?yes. i might be disappointed, but i'm not going to force him to keep going or consider him subhuman. to do either of those would be insane and horrible, among other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: Have you ever slept with a woman that was considerably more sexually experienced than yourself, if so how did it feel?oh, come on, don't troll. you already had a thread removed today for being unable to participate in this sub properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: Have you ever slept with a woman that was considerably more sexually experienced than yourself, if so how did it feel?that's not women asserting ownership over the encounter, it's ownership over their bodies, which you don't get to violate just because you want to finish. just... FYI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Do you drive defensively?i drive so defensively that i don't even drive at all. take that? if (general) you think the criticisms people have about AWALT is that guys are taking a little bit of caution when it comes to dating, you're really not paying attention at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 09:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: All women will become promiscuous or have NSA sex if a man is attractive enough.oh, how that thread would go... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 07:05 PM |
| 5 | CMV: All women will become promiscuous or have NSA sex if a man is attractive enough.unfair not to remove that if you're removing other comments like it... though i really wouldn't care if this whole dumb thread was deleted; these OPs recently are absurd, and there's clearly no actual interest in having a view changed going on :/ . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 06:16 PM |
| 6 | CMV: All women will become promiscuous or have NSA sex if a man is attractive enough.well, OP is taking what women here have said, and assigning his own meaning and definition to it, then telling everyone (including those women and... all women) that this is what they actually mean by what they say. to paraphrase, "women are too stupid and oblivious to understand themselves the way that i, a man, do. here, let me tell you." he's 'correcting' them on something he has zero authority to correct them on, because he enjoys being upset, or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 05:54 PM |
| 5 | CMV: All women will become promiscuous or have NSA sex if a man is attractive enough.That's a personal attack. Are you that ignorant? ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 05:48 PM |
| 10 | CMV: All women will become promiscuous or have NSA sex if a man is attractive enough.i haven't and won't. boom. and i know my drive better than you. i don't even know what to say about your basketball analogy attempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: have you had a NiceGuy^TM experience?nope. if that's what you think, you're not actually listening to the people criticizing you, and their reasons for doing so. but, no surprise there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: have you had a NiceGuy^TM experience?imagine the complaints some men would have if women in general were actually demanding that men behave like the good guys in disney films. get me my glass slippers and fancy carriage already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Temporary Test Incel Thread MoratoriumWhy? I'm perfectly capable of ignoring the threads that don't interest me, because I have a reading level of above ten years old. you are super mad about this. haha. Why do you need to censor at all? We are adults. We can scroll past that which does not interest us. because it was getting out of hand, and ruining the discussions in the sub. if you don't like the rules here, or that mods manage sub content, you can just as easily go elsewhere. you are the one with the problem here. If some of us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: have you had a NiceGuy^TM experience?people observe things and have opinions even if they haven't experienced it themselves. this is not unusual or new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: have you had a NiceGuy^TM experience?there are lady niceguys too; they come up in that sub, and a couple of us have admitted to being like that in the past. there may just be more guys like that, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 11:38 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: have you had a NiceGuy^TM experience?i haven't had anyone get mad at me, thankfully. i did have a guy get super persistent though. think, texting once or twice when i was at work, then asking if i was mad a couple of hours later when i didn't answer, then giving an apologetic and confused speech another hour or two later. i had to keep my phone in a locker while i worked, and seeing my text count at the end of my shifts was... intense. he was always polite, never got hostile, but really struggled to accept the rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/16 12:39 AM |
| 1 | TBP wants to silence TRPsame, same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 11:29 PM |
| 3 | TBP wants to silence TRPyeah, i don't really see most of them disagree that they're there to circlejerk and make fun of TRP, because... it's true, and their space to do so. but, whatever... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 09:20 PM |
| 2 | TBP wants to silence TRP7 months old, and 2 years old. you are really dedicated to your outrage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.if you get a good one (or hell, even a mediocre one) you can make a whole meal in it. cook all kinds of stuff at once. so. down with the rice-cooker shamers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: Contrast NiceGuys with Unattractive Womenno, no, you're outraged. OP knows it, so don't even bother trying to hide it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 06:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.If you want to eat processed garbage maybe. I prefer home cooked meals made with fresh ingredients. you can just as easily get chef-prepared meals to take home, or have them delivered. at least in the US, that's pretty easy these days. we're not talking lunchables or lean cuisine here. Also women need time to count their calories, put on makeup and nice clothes, do all the laundry, clean, vacuum, dust, make the bed, do the dishes, sweep, mop, clean the toilet, and make little crafts to give me a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.yeah, lots of moms work, while pregnant and after having kids. also, lots of people don't know how to cook these days, because it's easy to get good food without having to know. the family can feed themselves at a certain point, honestly; homemaker not needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Is "niceguy" just code for incel now?i'd imagine some can be both... though the volume of nice guy posts doesn't seem to be on quite the same level as the incel posts. maybe that's just my perception, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.i do, and that's usually how i see it used by other people. you might come across someone with a weird definition for it every now and then though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 05:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.good question... i initially started using it because i stopped hanging out at TBP but still didn't agree with red or even most purple. but, some have given it some weird definitions here and there (some super radical, which, hey, whoever did that, i don't appreciate). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 05:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.lots can pay someone else to cook even more than a can of soup though. nothing really embarrassing about that. weird that you'd care whether or not a woman could cook a can of soup though. just do it yourself if it's such a simple no-brainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Temporary Test Incel Thread MoratoriumAre we also going to ban the rape threads too when there is an influx of them? those get removed just as much when they get out of hand, though usually, it stops on its own after a few get taken down. not so with incel posts (hence, this moratorium). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 04:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.Were you politely and amiably explaining you arent interested or were you treating him like a piece of excrement you just stepped in? if you're too gentle about it, they don't get it, and then rant on reddit about how women never say what they mean or make a rejection clear. when you do try to make things explicitly clear, they think that you're treating them like pieces of excrement even if you're simply being direct (without being rude or disrespectful), rather than giving them the softer let-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 02:19 PM |
| 0 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.How do you know this without personally knowing them? you don't have to. they'll tell you; they'll tell anyone. it's pretty obvious by just listening to their stories once they get going. And if that's the case and they aren't even aware of it themselves, is it right or remotely productive to shame them for this for lashing out at other people and throwing tantrums because they didn't get what they wanted? yeah, that's a terrible way to behave, so i don't feel bad for someone being shamed when t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 12:24 PM |
| 4 | CMV on Niceguy Shaming: Entitlement is a Copout.First off, following that logic nobody is really entitled to anything. You are not entitled to a relationship. You are not entitled to friendship. well, this is true, though. no one is entitled to that. they are not owed that. it sounds made up that you're called a 'real man' but that aside... knowing what you want and thinking people owe it to you just because are very different things. niceguys are only nice because they've got this covert contract in their head that tells them they deserve se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: What would you think of a physically/sexually attracted man if you figured out he has no experience with women?i'd think that's fine, depending on the reasons i suppose. unless it's something to be worried about, i wouldn't be worried, essentially. example: super religious. i'd take more issue with his age; he's young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Question straight people: would it bother you more if your SO cheated with someone of their same sex?ah... yeah, i guess that's where we differ. i would probably still wonder, and feel sick at the thought of him with someone else, even if i recognized that the situations were different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 09:33 PM |
| 7 | Question straight people: would it bother you more if your SO cheated with someone of their same sex?yeah... i think i'd also feel somewhat different here, given that he cheated with someone who was so different from me. but in the end, my trust would still be broken and he would still have been unfaithful, so it would still be painful, and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 09:28 PM |
| 5 | CMV: women will not date men Who have slept with other men. This proves Trp correctthat's something that I'll never be able to offer him. fair point; i hadn't thought of this, but it might actually be the only 'maybe' concern that i had about it (assuming he wasn't super promiscuous or anything before, as that's a no-no). aside from that, though, i can't see myself having much of an objection. good for me, provin' terps wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4women. Would you exchange fidelity for a higher smv maleif they're relationship-minded, his general SMV and salary isn't going to be enough to change their minds. lots of women only care if the guy appeals to them, and plenty make their own money. also, attractive guys who aren't into cheating exist. there's not really a need to sacrifice something as important as fidelity, for those women. that's why it's a no-brainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Where do you hang out?assuming there's nothing special going on... Where are you found on a Sunday afternoon at home, doing laundry, or drawing/watching TV in between loads of laundry. a Friday night at dinner with my husband, maybe doing a little bit of shopping after at the beauty store or electronics store (depending), then home, probably playing WoW together or catching up on TV. Monday evening? depending on how the day has gone... it can range from relaxing at home to hiding under the covers. mondays, eh? it's f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Q4women. Would you exchange fidelity for a higher smv malethere's no trade-off for me; i don't share. i devote myself entirely; i expect the same in return. mere 'hotness' is not going to suddenly change that. so, guy A. besides, what's hottest to me may or may not be what's considered objectively hot, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Q4women. Would you exchange fidelity for a higher smv malethis. there's no one hot enough for me to tolerate infidelity from. doesn't mean i won't still acknowledge he's hot, or attractive in other ways. but, it's just not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Who is Chad Thundercock?Others have replied better, but in short, Chad is simply a place holder or "ideal" for men to live up to in terms of generating female attention. As a general heuristic its not very good, but individually it helps a man gauge where he sits on the scale, and what his realistic expectations should be. In other words: a man may try to achieve Chad status, but realistically he will not actually achieve "Chad" status, as in a top 20% man across the board. But, he can tailor his chosen audience to inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Who is Chad Thundercock?In a general sense, "Chad" is the man that gets interest often, and very enthusiastic interest at that. So a top 20% Chad type gets hit on often, gets turned down VERY rarely, and almost never suffers for lack of female interest. it's great that that's your definition, but even in this very thread, the bar for being a Chad is set much, much lower in the descriptions that other TRPers have of him. so, that's why it's kind of meaningless, especially with just how low some of those bars are. even t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Who is Chad Thundercock?this is the only conclusion i end up at, after hearing all the different descriptions of what Chad is. it's pretty much meaningless at this point, because it does seem to just be "man who receives interest at least once". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/16 02:15 PM |
| 9 | Q4everyone: why do you think Millenials aren't getting married?maybe both? it seems to me that the friends around me just took their time, because there wasn't really a need to get married. they all had their own jobs, money, education, and so on. they could take time to date, and decide what they wanted. personally, i think getting married really young can be kind of risky, so i'm in favor of people taking their time to make sure they're making the right decision (same with parenthood). no one i know is married to anyone they knew before, say, 25, and most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 10:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women have lots of casual sex in the college and early adult years.many women won't include oral in their number. yeah... i wouldn't, and i don't think most of the women i know would either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 09:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women have lots of casual sex in the college and early adult years.Girls are sprawling around, full of make up putting the parties aside... this is definitely not the norm. someone, please teach these girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 09:02 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most women have lots of casual sex in the college and early adult years.A comfort zone is when you hold a belief that shields you from reality. yes, it is. exactly. Your claiming that most college campuses don't have any parties on holidays at all. Do you honestly believe this? can you quote where i said that? surely, if i made such a claim, it will be somewhere above... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 02:05 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most women have lots of casual sex in the college and early adult years.Your the one being ridiculous. Your purposefully focusing on outliers that don't party or drink at all. i'm not, because those people aren't outliers, silly! http://youtu.be/9aPpGWBSASs Look at these Halloween parties across the country at college campuses. This is reality. so you're looking up videos of parties thrown on a holiday, and trying to say that this is all that happens on college campuses... ? yeah, no wonder your perception is warped. this is a really weird comfort zone you've made f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How do you think women talk about men?these days, i feel like all of us just joke about fun parts of our relationships, or try to outdo each other with cute stories. but, even when we were dating, i think things like size only came up once or twice. whether it's with guy friends or girl friends... the type of over-the-top crudeness in regard to other people has never been a part of discussion. that kind of thing is seen as blatant try-harding, and it just makes it awkward so anyone who does it either changes or doesn't hang around l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 01:46 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Most women have lots of casual sex in the college and early adult years.The vast, vast majority of women are horny in college. the horror. haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 01:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most women have lots of casual sex in the college and early adult years.Oh please where did u go to Canada? You have never been to a college gym or a dorm kick back then. Typical BP denialism uh, don't talk to me like that. and back then when? i attended a community college myself, and visited friends at the University of Texas, Texas State, Sam Houston State, Southwestern, and UNT. college isn't just a big, boozy, 4-year party vacation for everyone; stop being ridiculous. i'm pretty sure they're not allowed to throw parties in the gym, and a lot of dorms have peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 01:37 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Most women have lots of casual sex in the college and early adult years.Go to any college campus. Girls are sprawling around, full of make up, in booty shorts, high heels, crop tops, all to get the attention of the alpha they are lusting for. i don't know what colleges or specific groups of people you're looking at, but i've spent time at a few major universities (with friends) and most of what i see is sweatpants and backpacks. perhaps the occasional skirt or pair of jeans, but... no. they're not all just spending a ton of money to go around hoping, just hoping, to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 01:15 PM |
| 1 | The only way to avoid Red Pill men is to avoid confident men altogetherthat's not even what this thread is about. but no, that struggle is not my concern, and i don't know why you think this is a major issue that all people should be invested in. feel free to return to the actual topic of the thread anytime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The only way to avoid Red Pill men is to avoid confident men altogetherwhy would i care? that's not my concern or my problem. i'm certainly not wasting my time with someone who isn't courteous or respectful, and i'm not alone in that. ensuring guys get laid is not my responsibility either way, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys receive no niceness themselves, that's why they think it's so preciousnope. just the ones who've earned it. i'm actually pretty nice, and enjoy being around most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Q4 Women: How do you think men talk to each other in all-male groups?i assumed they just grunted and beat their chests. words are for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys receive no niceness themselves, that's why they think it's so preciousdon't make this personal. at least find a good diversion, if you refuse to stay on topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | The only way to avoid Red Pill men is to avoid confident men altogetheri don't care for TRP's definition of alpha, or rather, men that match the description. it doesn't take much to be courteous and respectful of others; that's a great start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys receive no niceness themselves, that's why they think it's so preciousants are fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 07:41 PM |
| 2 | The only way to avoid Red Pill men is to avoid confident men altogetherBut when did the man in question become "good"? That's the crux of the issue. fine. men that i and lots of other women think are good don't need TRP, and don't follow it. i'm not talking about what TRP thinks is good; i couldn't care less how they define a good man. Say Bill just grows up and is a "good" man already. He has his life together and knows how to interact with women in a way that's attractive to them. George didn't grow up that way, but he read some stuff on the internet and became j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 06:18 PM |
| 7 | Q4 Non Red: What Do You Suggest Nice Guys Do to Improve Their Lives?oh, that's who this is, then. good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4 Non Red: What Do You Suggest Nice Guys Do to Improve Their Lives?Why are TRP and the manosphere bad sources? they don't offer any more truth than the platitudes you mentioned before. They don't spare men's feelings or coddle them. there'a a difference between just being as harsh and over the top as possible, and giving honest advice that might be hard to hear. (Dont' tell me "sexism" or "misogyny". A man saying to women "stop hurting me" is NOT "misogyny". A man saying "most women are X" or "Most women have a specific female nature and sexuality" are not "sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4 Non Red: What Do You Suggest Nice Guys Do to Improve Their Lives?no. reread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4 Non Red: What Do You Suggest Nice Guys Do to Improve Their Lives?Why are women letting you down a good source? because they're the ones rejecting you. Aren't you telling these men to "read between the lines"? yup. Isn't that bad advice for men who don't have a lot of experience doing that? i also mentioned talking to others, if you struggle. but no, you need experience with this. it's a useful skill in all aspects of life, not just dating, anyway. And women usually say things like "it's not you, it's me" or "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now" ..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4 Non Red: What Do You Suggest Nice Guys Do to Improve Their Lives?try listening to what the women are actually saying to you. even with soft let downs, there's usually clues as to what the problem is. or talk to a female friend or two. or ask for advice on multiple forums, not just the ones that promise to help you unlock your male superiority and the secrets of life, making you 100% successful, as seen on TV! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4 Non Red: What Do You Suggest Nice Guys Do to Improve Their Lives?to the gallows! obviously. like everyone else, they should realize when they aren't getting what they want, and try to find out why and what they can do to change it. if you go from 'women owe me sex' or 'everyone should love me as i am no matter what' to 'women are subhuman things, incapable of love, for male consumption' you're not really doing better or somehow making yourself immune to criticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Nice guys receive no niceness themselves, that's why they think it's so preciousThat's not the assumption. The assumption is that 'something' is must be going on if these men are "great guys" but they women that are spouting this off don't want them, especially when the men these same women -do- go after are the ones that women complain about so much. i think the view that the NiceGuy has of other men is also skewed; those men have what he wants, so they must be jerks. but, it's really as simple as asking what he's doing wrong. those guys don't. or if they do, they get mad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 02:12 PM |
| 2 | The only way to avoid Red Pill men is to avoid confident men altogetherit's a decent strategy. good men don't need TRP. it's a serious thread; don't be upset. it's better to find people who actually want to be around you anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Nice guys receive no niceness themselves, that's why they think it's so preciousThe problem is that these men will often get the "soft" let down where they get the spiel about how they're "such a great guy" and "she just wasn't right for you" and "the right girl will come along some day." why is the automatic assumption that these things aren't true? do you have a seething hatred for everyone you've broken up with, or can you realize that they're still good, kind people that you simply can't have a good relationship with? Additionally, being an emotional tampon for the woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 01:04 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys receive no niceness themselves, that's why they think it's so preciousi mean... this isn't anyone else's problem. if you didn't realize that what you were doing wasn't working despite several failures, that's not on anyone else. the world is not obligated to console you, fuck you, or put up with your tantrums. i really wish i didn't have to bother talking to people at work, and could just be appreciated for the actual work i do instead of having to also interact with people a certain way for their own comfort. i mean, it's my heart, what's on the inside, that ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 11:37 AM |
| 6 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 12:01 AM |
| 4 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.ya, debate never involves proof or evidence, just shouting I'M RIGHT over and over duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 11:19 PM |
| 4 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.k nice dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 11:01 PM |
| 6 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.you don't have any proof of that, far as i can tell. if they don't appreciate the image people have of them, they could change it. not hard. i doubt anyone would have the same reaction to someone who simply said he was focusing on his career/interests instead of relationships, and actually did that. it's not the GTOW part that's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 10:50 PM |
| 12 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.i'm not here to entertain you no. but actually supporting the assertions made in your post would be to your benefit, as well as that of the others in this sub. if you can't even support it, then, well, why should anyone care what you have to say? It doesn't take a genius to look at a bunch of people react to something and understand that most people will probably react the same way it's a group of newscasters that i can count on one hand. not a bunch of people. We're not all different, everyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 10:22 PM |
| 15 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.i mean, you can only find one example for something you claim is happening throughout society. do better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 10:10 PM |
| 11 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.nope. bad post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 09:44 PM |
| 14 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.so... one news story = society? come on; at least do better than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | The only way to avoid Red Pill men is to avoid confident men altogetherTRP is superior to all, just get it already, sheesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 09:39 PM |
| 23 | The fact that people are upset over MGTOW shows that society is clearly gynocentric.as far as i can tell, the only real complaint people have about them is that they claim to be going their own way, but don't, and actually obsess over women and how 'horrible' they are. no one enjoys hearing someone whine and pity themselves all day long regardless of the subject, but it's extra annoying because MGTOW are doing the exact opposite of what they claim to be doing. people not wanting to listen to a bunch of sad-ass whiners wallowing in self pity has nothing to do with society being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 09:34 PM |
| 28 | The only way to avoid Red Pill men is to avoid confident men altogethernah. plenty of men are confident without needing TRP. there are much easier and less restrictive ways to weed out the bad ones, like wearing glasses or pants or a short haircut or less makeup. some are even pretty great, like reading books, having a job, visiting foreign countries, having opinions... easy peasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do TRP men constantly belittle women?er, you've been saying disrespectful things about women all throughout this thread. you don't get to make those generalizations while restricting everyone else from doing the same, in ways you don't like or agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Would all women cheat on their boyfriends/husbands with Chad if they could get away with it?no. i love my husband, so i'm not interested in Chad (if a Chad was even my type, which he's not). husband > Chad in so many ways. if i weren't happy with my husband though, honestly, it just seems pointless. i'd sooner get a divorce than go through the trouble of cheating (on top of the guilt and shame i'd inevitably feel, even for cheating on a husband i don't like). i'd rather be free in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TheRedPill Advocates for Emotional AbuseIs the second case implying that she has to do it at all? Doesn't seem it to me, not that I've actually heard it IRL in the first place anyway. she has to do things to his specifications as much as he has to ask permission to go somewhere. neither person has a gun to their head here. I've literally been told "do what your [implied future] wife says and you'll be much happier" it's not exactly ambiguous lol. Add that to my anti-marriage pile. i mean, it seems pretty clear to me that the comment i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Why do TRP men constantly belittle women?yeah, who cares about them. answer: only TRPers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 02:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TheRedPill Advocates for Emotional AbuseThat's not really the same thing. A man will joke that he can't do XYZ until his wife approves. A woman saying the same about her husband would be taken more seriously. i don't see how a man saying he can't do XYZ without her approval is different from her having to do XYZ to his specific standards (which are typically picky or high, or there would be nothing to say about it). Oh you know what I mean, that's just pedantry. no, i'm pointing out that the saying isn't just 'make women happy at all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Why do TRP men constantly belittle women?because it makes them feel a superiority that they can't derive from anything or anywhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Why do TRP men constantly belittle women?it's as open and available as being posted all over the Internet. people generally keep private things that they don't want others to read. if it's supposed to be private, make it so, or stop complaining that people read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 02:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TheRedPill Advocates for Emotional AbuseHowever, the fact they are thrown out casually as jokes in polite company clearly demonstrates a double standard in our attitudes about this stuff. You could not swap the genders around on the "oh I gotta do what my wife says" jokes and have it taken lightly. it would only become dark if someone made it that way. i hear just as many jokes about doing things 'the way he likes it' and there are still people who think it's cute for women to shuffle to the kitchen while the men relax outside, smokin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 02:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TheRedPill Advocates for Emotional Abuseseriously? good grief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 01:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TheRedPill Advocates for Emotional AbuseHow many times do you hear guys talking about how they have to ask his wife's permission to spend money or go out? And the commonly thrown around trope where the husband has to do everything the wife says, this is just casual and normal. i wonder how much of this is actually accurate, or one-sided though. does he have to ask permission, or does she just like knowing if the person she's spending the rest of her life with and having kids with is going out somewhere? does she also provide him with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Both negging and dread game work, and are attractive to womenWell, situation is the context. "Talking" alone doesn't always help things. You can talk until your face is blue, but that doesn't always work...otherwise, people could just tell you to act rational and Don Draper and advertisement agencies wouldn't exist. Of course talking should always be part of the equation but there's nothing inherently passive aggressive about dread game. no, dread game is absolutely passive aggressive. you're intentionally trying to make someone feel afraid that you'll le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 10:58 PM |
| 7 | Both negging and dread game work, and are attractive to womenWhen a boyfriend isn't acting up to her standards, is it immoral for a woman to shift a proportional amount of her attention to her career, hobbies, and forming fulfilling relationships? If she has a smidgeon of self-respect, it's a no-brainer. er, she should break up with him or talk to him about it. not just passive aggressively edge him out of her life, waiting for the situation to eventually explode or just disappear. be an adult. You don't know what dread game is but go ahead and keep straw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 10:08 PM |
| 4 | Both negging and dread game work, and are attractive to womeni started watching Luke Cage last night and in the first episode (i think) there's a scene where he's the bartender talking to a woman... i feel like that's how some of them imagine they pull off negging and some other 'tactics', or imagine they will. but they're not Luke Cage, and that's a TV show, so it's not really all that charming or attractive in the real world. while it's pretty glamorous and exciting on TV... i'd probably leave that conversation after the first jabs (and wouldn't start t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What does it mean when a woman "needs" to get to know a guy before she wants to have sex with him?woman who needs to know a guy first here. i can want to do it, and know it within moments. however, i have self control. and the reasons why (not) and possible negative outcomes also come to mind; if i don't know a guy, there are a lot of those. if i get to know a guy, i have the chance to rule them out, or walk away. i can get to a place where i feel comfortable with the decision, and won't suffer regrets (or worse) later. it's really a matter of weighing risks vs. reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: If you have to choose, would you rather be married to Asa Akira, or Emma Watson?my hero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 12:05 AM |
| 3 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexit seemed less twisted and more juvenile, but, to each their own (interpretation). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 10:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexoh don't be mad. it's Friday. lighten up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 10:06 PM |
| 7 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexsheesh, they can dish it out but... where's the amused mastery? the agree and amplify? come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 09:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexyeah. not even having my face firmly held for a kiss :/ which sucks, it seems so much more magical in movies. haha. sometimes i like having fingers intertwined while my hand is resting over my head, and he does end up putting some weight on it... but he's never done anything i felt like i couldn't easily pull away from, which i'm so glad for. that is scary, otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 08:57 PM |
| 4 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexand some people are never open to things because they know they don't like it. who knew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 08:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexhonestly... i don't even like hair-pulling (though i know i'm in the minority there). i'm also someone who doesn't really enjoy painful sex. biting is fun though. i think you're right on about it being more passionate than rough though, and it definitely is an exchange. being dominated or 'thrown around' just doesn't sound like fun to me, but i like when things are exciting for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 08:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexthat really doesn't mean much, though. and i'm not saying most women do or don't like it; i'm sure there's plenty on both sides. i don't agree with the OP though, since it seems to be leaning far rougher than a lot of people would care to do things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 08:23 PM |
| 6 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexi can say, honestly... absolutely not. it would be done the minute any of this was tried on me; i'd be gone. those are not things everyone can agree they enjoy; those are not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 08:17 PM |
| 5 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexew seconded, haha. just reading that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 08:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexi don't enjoy any of those either, and i doubt my husband would. maybe light scratching or a light slap (NOT in the face), but nothing more (not that there's anything wrong with people who do enjoy it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 07:51 PM |
| 7 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexyup. agreeing that there's more to attraction than just looks doesn't mean looks are excluded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 07:35 PM |
| 12 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexamazing that this still isn't seen as a given during discussions in this sub. sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 07:22 PM |
| 4 | CMV: All* women enjoy rough sexgreat questions... i like occasional roughness by my definition, but it's not really domination and is still pretty vanilla by most standards. anything beyond the light roughness i'm okay with is either uncomfortable or actually scary, so... i both agree and disagree with the OP, as vague as it is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Short guys are the futureAlso, American detected. Short guys are cute but why would I fuck them? i'm American, but i don't know where you got the rest of that from. pointing out that your choice of language is dumb and disgusting has nothing to do with whether or not i would sleep with a short guy (which i would, were i in a relationship with a short guy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Short guys are the futurei was actually kind of on board with this from the subject, and then i read the first paragraph. i think short guys are cute* but... nah, and gross. *when they have other cute/attractive attributes, obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 04:10 PM |
| 2 | r/TheRedPill isn't full of incels and foreveraloners. r/thebluepill isn't full of incels and foreveraloners. Why is r/PurplePillDebate full of incels and foreveraloners?because there were way too many that were basically the same, or really similar in topic. it's less about the topic, more about the volume/content. this isn't an incel sub; there's no reason so many threads about it need to be posted here, same as any other subject (though for some reason, a single incel thread seems to generate 5 more just like it, unlike most other topics). regardless of who can read what, keeping the sub on track and dealing with stuff like this is part of being a mod; i don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 03:31 PM |
| 5 | r/TheRedPill isn't full of incels and foreveraloners. r/thebluepill isn't full of incels and foreveraloners. Why is r/PurplePillDebate full of incels and foreveraloners?it's not censorship to manage a sub properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 03:14 PM |
| 5 | r/TheRedPill isn't full of incels and foreveraloners. r/thebluepill isn't full of incels and foreveraloners. Why is r/PurplePillDebate full of incels and foreveraloners?part of a mod's job is to control the content of the sub. this is why there was a moratorium on these posts in the past, because it was turning into a 'what about incels' sub. that is not the sole purpose of this sub (which is more narrow than the other subs you mentioned, making problems like this more obvious). telling people to go read a different sub because they complain about the sub being filled with threads and discussions that are incredibly similar is just lazy. if you, a mod, are anno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do we assume incels or FA's are unreasonable?maybe we need a new sub just for incel talk... because damn, the volume of threads this week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 02:30 AM |
| 3 | How much has lifting improved your romantic and/or sex life?Are you male or female? Red or blue? female, not red. What kind of lifting do you do? (Bodyweight and gymnastics count for this thread.) casually, with body weight or weights depending on how i feel. How strong are you? not very, haha. my upper body is pretty weak. my legs are decent though, at least IMO. What's your body fat? chubby and shrinking. that'll suffice. How has lifting affected your romantic and/or sex life? Has this changed over the course of your lifting career? i've been in a comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: If you have to choose, would you rather be married to Asa Akira, or Emma Watson?Who would you rather marry? You have to pick one, and you would have to stay married for at least 3-4 years. this is just asking for people to say both, in some order. up the stakes. make it for life. can't leave even if you want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 08:12 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Unless someone makes an effort to be as attractive as possible, then they have no right to call themselves incel.is it incel week again is it ever not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What is your personal 10?brie larson is gorgeous >.< | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Female sexuality is based around narcissism and superiority while male sexuality is based around generosity and devotion.honestly, while i like what i do now... that was easily the most fun job i ever had. i so miss it. can also confirm what you're saying about which sizes/things sell; it was the same where i worked. we never got shipments of big stuff often, because they just didn't sell often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 03:01 PM |
| 2 | What is your personal 10?it is really nice; inviting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 02:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women make bad friends and should be avoided in general.can't CYV. you should definitely avoid women. do them a favor, if you already feel like this about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 02:15 PM |
| 8 | What is your personal 10?weighing under 115 is also a weird absolute. especially as you get older, that's just not possible or healthy for a lot of body types. 114 is closely bordering underweight for me, and i'm average height for a woman (and 28). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: Does cute equate to fuckable?i mean, not all the time. sometimes cute is just cute. it's more like... i'm not sleeping with every guy i think is cute, but i'm not sleeping with a guy i don't think is at least a little cute. i think for me, cute also equals a level of comfort, and i'm not sleeping with anyone unless i've got that. it's not an insult. i think cute > hot, personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 11:33 AM |
| 2 | When is a man in his prime?agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Ladies: How soon after you give a guy your number do you expect him to text/contact you?this is not a guy thing. it's a silly TRPer thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Ladies: How soon after you give a guy your number do you expect him to text/contact you?I'm going against the TRP grain here and actually giving women a shot to be honest and tell it like it is. oh, good grief. so dramatic. haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?not sure he? does either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 03:14 AM |
| 8 | Considering how women have to spend much more time, energy, pain, and money on their appearance for dates (sources inside), it's absolutely fair & equal that men pay for food & entertainment on dates.i think it's more common for a girl to get 'done up' using expensive makeup than for a guy to get bottle service for $1000. way, way more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?er, easy? some do fit that. simple. thinking that only men can creep someone out or make them uncomfortable is really bizarre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?they are capable of it. not my problem if you choose not to believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?good for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?i'm thinking more along the lines of someone being an extremist about their beliefs, who brings up controversial things and seems to revel in shouting at anyone who even slightly disagrees (especially if bigotry is involved). even if it's his real beliefs, he's basically just picking fights with anyone he can pick a fight with, and trying to be mr. dominant. super confrontational. can't control his emotions. always gunning for a fight. insulting everyone around him unless they wholeheartedly agr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 08:33 PM |
| 7 | CMV: above 24 (25 at most) noone is a 10he's going to be a different 'number' to different age groups most likely. there's no guarantee he has more charm just for being younger. he also won't have the same features, because humans age. now that i'm 28, no one below those ages would be a 10 to me. not because they're bad, but because there are just too many differences in life experience and other things for those ages. but when i was 23-25? sure, someone around that age would have been great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?so? it's not somehow less gross or uncomfortable when a woman does it. breaking news: women are also capable of being creepy and gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?depends on how obvious he makes it, IMO. triple take is definitely pushing it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: Is it better for the man to express his interest in you sooner or get to know you first then express interest?the effort that would actually go into managing all that, on top of having things like a job or education to tend to... haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?taking place as part of social circle game doesn't make the things i described above less creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?Making sexual remarks without knowing you or having spoken to you at all. i've been fortunate not to encounter creeps in a while, but this is a good one. even if you're acquaintances, a guy who crosses the line with sexual remarks or innuendo = immediate discomfort. i'd say for me, the same is true for opinions on controversial subjects or violent comments/off-color jokes. these are signs of someone i will never feel comfortable around, and do not want to be alone with. knowing info and contacti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Something needs to change about these unrealistic body standards put on menwho knew this sub had consistency police now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Something needs to change about these unrealistic body standards put on menjeez. they both look great. yeah, he's doing fine, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Something needs to change about these unrealistic body standards put on menI've seen this type of diagram a lot. Especially on the bodybuilding forums. To me, it's bullshit. You shouldn't kill yourself if you're under 6 foot, and you aren't a "manlet" unless you fall below average height, if that. I know I just did a post like this but this shit needs to stop. This is not progressive. This is not reality. And these types of messages are KILLING young men who believe it. maybe you should stop frequenting those places. or if you feel like someone's taking it really badly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Ladies: Is it better for the man to express his interest in you sooner or get to know you first then express interest?Say I'm in a college class with you. Im a hot guy. You hold eye contact with me a lot. Should I ask for your number as soon as possible, or wait till I get to know you in class first? i'm pretty into studies so this isn't happening unless you're the teacher, and probably not even then, because that's weird and unproductive. but to go with the hypothetical... wait until you get to know me. it's as easy as chatting after class or walking to the next room/commons together. even during a break in cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between "she's not yours, it's just your turn" and "next-ing" someone?yeah, didn't you read what i said? those were my exact words. you should have just quoted me, even. come on. we all know what 'it's just your turn' means, whether RPers choose to fully acknowledge it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between "she's not yours, it's just your turn" and "next-ing" someone?and the part no one ever wants to acknowledge: no matter who she is or how she acts, she's probably going to dump you at the drop of the hat, so remember that when you think about how you're going to treat her (like a worthless, disloyal piece of shit). obviously, very important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/16 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Are abusive men easy to spot or not?It can easily be both. pretty much. i think it's also easier to see from an outside perspective, if we're talking about someone abusing someone else. it makes sense that i would sooner recognize and identify abusive behavior from someone i have no reason to try and see the best in, especially if they're already abusing someone pretty heavily at the time i'm observing them. the same's not true for someone that i love and care for, who started from a great place and gradually, quietly, got worse a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/16 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Discuss. What up with this height obsession lately?this, exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/16 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Why is there no female equivalent of the "Playboy Millionaire"?that comment doesn't say "men and women aren't different at all." if you disagree with the degree of difference in that comment, and what those differences should mean/do... well, you're just proving the comment above you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/16 03:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Unrestrained sexuality and female sexual liberation leads to the vast majority of women in the hands of a few men.ah, i see i see. yeah, it seems like a pretty low bar to set for yourself. it doesn't seem like an existence with much meaning to me, and it's pretty rich that he's doing what they claim the women they hate do, but they worship him for it. silly, silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Discuss. What up with this height obsession lately?i've honestly kind of grown to think shortness is cute, recently. granted, it won't make an unattractive guy suddenly attractive... but i think it adds to a cute guy's charm, actually. he's more cuddly somehow. the first short guy i knew had a massive complex about it so i kind of... didn't have fond feelings there. but, i've grown to think differently after knowing/knowing of some shorter guys who are nice and cool. i think there are good things about both tall and short guys. also, even with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 06:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Unrestrained sexuality and female sexual liberation leads to the vast majority of women in the hands of a few men.i mean, OP is the one freaking out about it, not me. i was just pointing out that the picture looked weird. i still don't really know who he is aside from what's been talked about in this thread. seems boring though, and nothing to aspire to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 04:08 PM |
| 3 | How many of us have had high risk unprotected sex, without trying to create a child?Was there any pregnancy scare at all? Were you aware of the risks? Would you do it again? in the past, sometimes we'd start without condoms since it felt better to him, and i wasn't on birth control. i was aware of the risks; just lazy and broke (yes, i realize how stupid this was now). i'd probably do it again and just be on birth control that time around, though. he got a vasectomy a few years later so it's not a concern now. there were only mild occasional concerns; no real scares. sometimes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 04:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Unrestrained sexuality and female sexual liberation leads to the vast majority of women in the hands of a few men.ah, so he's both stupid and violent. blech. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 12:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Unrestrained sexuality and female sexual liberation leads to the vast majority of women in the hands of a few men.i feel like it should also have some sort of function, with that kind of edge. cut something? haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 05:13 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Unrestrained sexuality and female sexual liberation leads to the vast majority of women in the hands of a few men.since we're going full nonsense in this thread... his facial hair makes his face look remarkably like an anvil. so weird. maybe it's just me... but isn't the girl leaning a little too far forward to actually be doing anything to him? unless he's absurdly sized, something seems off there. just above her shoulders is about where his dick would be, not where her head is (especially at that angle). guy is not cute, and as others have said... money or other things aside from the guy himself are proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 02:12 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Unrestrained sexuality and female sexual liberation leads to the vast majority of women in the hands of a few men.he still doesn't own them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 01:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Society refuses to address sexism that affects menWhat's so bad about that, especially in society today which is devoid of such thinking? stop looking at pill stuff and "reaffirming reality" by looking at their subs, and you'll realize that there's a lot of love in the world, most of which doesn't need TRP/RPW to exist, and certainly wasn't invented by them. come on; don't be a fanatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 01:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Unrestrained sexuality and female sexual liberation leads to the vast majority of women in the hands of a few men.i vote you throw a protest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: If there were a pill that eliminated oneitis and a pill that made it impossible to cheat, which one would you want people to take?i guess since i have to choose... impossible to cheat, staying together for life. none of these choices really sound great though. non-red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Society refuses to address sexism that affects meni mean, read your own post, even. do you think that's lacking in hostility towards women, presumably a group of women that you see being beneath you given how you've described them? can you really not see that? by their own admission, many of those women did have a need to control before realizing it was a problem; i'm not slinging an insult with that, they've said it themselves. and the RP subs aren't really diverse, so i don't know what you're talking about. they're pretty focused on their ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Society refuses to address sexism that affects menyou get that they're in that sub because they were previously the exact kind of naggy controlling women they deride though, don't you? plenty of women were just good partners to begin with and didn't need a sub telling them what to do. like with any group, some of them are cool. but some of them are either so guilty or disgusted with themselves that they've gone the total opposite direction, managing to talk about how superior they are to other women while also becoming a total doormat to their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/16 08:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male height matters the same amount as a woman's cup size.They'd be attractive, but they wouldn't be even nearly as attractive as they are now. They wouldn't have almost every girl wanting to be with them, not even close. they'd still be handsome and charismatic; even with just a little effort, they'd do just fine. they don't actually fuck every single woman that wants them anyway, so that's not really relevant. To the vast majority of girls in the top 20% I'm practically invisible. right, i already said that not every woman would be into a shorter guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/16 12:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Male height matters the same amount as a woman's cup size.He's also a famous actor, which is an astronomical boost for him, same with all the other famous people you mentioned. those people would be attractive with or without their fame, though. and the point isn't that women everywhere are lusting after extra-short guys; it's that it isn't the dealbreaker or point of disgust that TRP makes it out to be, and a woman thinking tall guys are hot doesn't mean a shorter guy who checks a bunch of other boxes will be ignored or rejected. he might even be want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why does "no fap" get a lot of heat and flak from both BPers and RPers?does it? i guess i don't see much non-RP complaints about it. i mean i'd only do it if you really needed to... but whatever, do what you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 11:25 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Male height matters the same amount as a woman's cup size.seems like a good comparison. i agree. i mean i drool over tall and short cuties alike... but yeah, i agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about this video of Buzzfeed women trying to be "perfect homemakers"?shivers Glorified ketchup meh, i didn't hate it. sometimes my mom made sauce too, so it wasn't always from the store. might need a food processor if i end up being a regular subscriber Put batches of onions, celery and carrots in the processor, about 2lbs of each at a time. Saute and freeze. This is the basis on any soup or roast. After mirepoix, all your need is broth and chicken. For a really lazy fix, most groceries stores will have a generic mix of "soup vegetables" which is usually mirepoix… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about this video of Buzzfeed women trying to be "perfect homemakers"?If you can make spaghetti and sauce how do you not know how to make soup? i couldn't make sauce. i had a handy dandy jar of it though, haha. i could make soup out of a can? if a kit was put together? maybe if i had a simple recipe? blue apron made it really clear to me that i also don't know anything when it comes to cutting vegetables. might need a food processor if i end up being a regular subscriber... A friend of mine just got blue arpon and it was like a pack of herbs that she put in a fish… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about this video of Buzzfeed women trying to be "perfect homemakers"?I seriously dont understand how boys or girls can reach like 16-18 years old and "not know how to cook". I dont even know what that means. What did there parents feed them? Were they always hungry at meal times? Did they never get a night home alone? as someone who isn't really good at cooking (and wasn't at those ages)... my parents fed me fine, but that didn't do anything to improve my cooking skill (and why would it?). i had nights home alone, but i typically snacked, or cooked something simp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What are REAL masculine traits?i found it! yay: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4akn5m/cmv_magnanimity_is_the_alpha_trait/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What are REAL masculine traits?really?! aw, dammit. i'm sorry, my bad. i should have bookmarked it; i really loved that post. maybe i just remember talking to sublimemongrel in that post, and thought they were the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 04:21 AM |
| 22 | What is your best proof that TRP and MGTOW are wrong in their view of womenme, and most of the women i know. it's not that those women don't exist; it's that they aren't all that exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 12:21 AM |
| 2 | What are REAL masculine traits?everyone has their own opinion of masculinity, so some variation isn't that weird. and just because something might make a guy seem more (positively) masculine doesn't mean that it's an exclusively male trait. i mean, i guess we could talk about negative things that might be masculine, but that seems like a pretty unproductive discussion. personally, i left out a lot of things that i personally find attractive since that's not really the subject here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about this video of Buzzfeed women trying to be "perfect homemakers"?i only recently realized how pretty much all of my friends have this 'rule' now... as do my husband and i. we used to not care (us and them), but i guess our dislike of cleaning prevailed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 08:35 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about this video of Buzzfeed women trying to be "perfect homemakers"?yeah... i can't remember what else counted against me. probably a lack of fawning and being perfectly groomed 24/7 (the horror). my husband would have the same reaction though. he'd be annoyed or confused, if not both. edit: i totally squeeze the toothpaste from the top of the tube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 06:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about this video of Buzzfeed women trying to be "perfect homemakers"?now i'm curious about everyone's different answers. he snores and leaves lights on, and i definitely cook/sleep in pajamas (as opposed to a gown). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:57 PM |
| 5 | What do you think about this video of Buzzfeed women trying to be "perfect homemakers"?i didn't watch the whole video, but if the commenters thought the expectations placed on them as women were stupid, then i'm not surprised that some women laughed off failing the test. it's incredibly outdated anyway. you can find out more about the rating scale here, and possibly even rate yourself/your spouse? for fun, why not. i also think it's old and silly (wears red nail polish? oh, come on). i got a 26; poor. husband got 70, so he's superior... in 1939. haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:42 PM |
| 6 | What are REAL masculine traits?interesting question! let's see... physical: similar to what someone else said, traditionally masculine facial features; particularly the jawline and cheekbones, for me. some toned arms/abs; it seems like even guys who don't work out much have visible muscle (however slight). *ooh, and back. i seem to like hands too; typically, they're a little larger and/or rougher. non-physical: ambitious/driven/has goals competitive in a friendly way magnanimous laid-back personality/good humor flexible/okay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 05:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women can exercise a reasonable standard of caution to lower the chance of rape without compromising on freedom.Idk why people spend so long defending rapists and predatory creeps. I think it's (sometimes) because they're worried they might be one -- but normal men just aren't rapists or predatory creeps. They're not. the offense some take to those guys getting called out is bizarre. you're not a white knight by admitting they're creeps, and defending them says some pretty terrible things about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Are men with experience better in bed? Women of ppd do you prefer experienced men?yeah, it's probably for the best. it's not guaranteed to be awful with a virgin and i don't want some guy who had lots of women before me, but i feel like him having at least some experience means i won't have to teach him things, and run less risk of getting hurt or bored. plus, he might feel more comfortable telling me what he wants; communication is a must if you want anything to be good. i mean, there was a time when i thought all i had to do was lay there and i was good to go. that's just h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Do we actually know for sure that girls "with experience" are better in bed?Usually the advantages of 'experienced' girls are brought up as a counter to guys who say they want a girl with low N. This is implicitly implying that high N = experienced i mean, if you're calling out a guy who's being all "EW GROSS PENIS MUST HAVE VIRGIN" about it, experience means anything above virgin, in context. at least in discussions here, i don't see men being shamed for preferring a woman with a low count by anyone reasonable; just those that say any women with N > 0 is a huge high-N … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Do we actually know for sure that girls "with experience" are better in bed?i don't think most people are just talking about someone who's high N or promiscuous when they talk about having some experience, though. like you said, you can be experienced without being high N; i don't really see suggestions otherwise. i do see people calling out the stupidity of thinking that a virgin is 100% guaranteed to be this eager to please girl who has the same skill and comfort level of a woman who's had more experience and encounters though (unsurprisingly, non-virgin women somehow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 09:16 PM |
| 6 | Do we actually know for sure that girls "with experience" are better in bed?just saying... Maybe a virgin girl would be more eager to please yeah maybe. or they'd be really nervous and slow to do anything, whereas someone who's done it a few times is less likely to be. or could forge a more intimate bond resulting in more satisfying sex, or some other reason. i mean, there's no reason women who have had partners before can't do this too, though. i don't think this ability or desire differs that much because of experience. my husband wasn't my first, but it's the best an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?agreed. i mean it's nice to be good looking and have a nice body, but if that's all you got... well, why bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Q4RP: Why is Angelina Jolie insane for getting her breasts removed?thank you; i just saw this thread and hadn't read much about the story in question, or angelina in general, but i seem to remember hearing something like this in passing; that she had a really good reason for it, not that it was just something she decided because she was bored or crazy, or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?well, from the way they tell it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 03:52 AM |
| 5 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?Otherwise, the gym would be hella hostile. can you imagine? i would never go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?i feel like the only one who got close in what little Dawson's Creek i watched... was joshua jackson. but even he was 20! it's crazy. the casts of teen dramas are way too beautiful and glamorous; it made me feel better once i realized how old they were too, haha. kudos to degrassi for at least casting real teens... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 08:56 PM |
| 8 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?important: men who lift =/= TRP. and also, men who lift =/= attractive men. (necessarily, for both.) TRP didn't invent lifting, and lifting isn't a guarantee of attractiveness. were i single... i don't think i would seek out or avoid men who lift; i'd be indifferent, probably. the lifting's rarely the problem, the guy is. i'm sure some regular, nice guys lift. they're alright. maybe not my type depending on their size, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?yeah, i never watched that show but from a google search on Alison's actress and the cast... i totally see it. from a quick cast list i looked at, i don't think there was a single person under 22 on glee either, and most of the classmates were in the 25-30 range. real teenagers don't look like that; there's a significant difference, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?Men who spend time grooming themselves are usually looked at with suspicion. not unless they overdo it. again, i'm not talking about a Super-Duper Done Up Guy. there's miles between that guy and a total slob. you don't have to be SSDUG to still groom yourself. The question that often comes to my mind in interviews is, "Ok, behind the overly shiny does, spotless black suit, that immaculately tie on that crisp blue shirt, slick hair, what the heck are you hiding?". well that's what an interview is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?okay, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?yes, because the world of my ancestors is the same as today. completely. you guys will say anything to try and justify it; the scrambling and desperation is somewhat entertaining, at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?i'll believe it if i want to dammit! no one can take it away from me! not science, not reddit, not anyone! i'm not gross! i'm right! I'M RIGHT! ^<sup>i</sup> ^<sup>swear...</sup> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Summer 2016 General Survey Results...yes, it does. If someone stopped reading TRP a year ago and is making a claim about what the content is like today, their old information absolutely reduces the credibility of that claim. please provide an example from someone who stopped reading a year or more ago, and claims to be 100% up to date on the latest threads in the sub specifically. please also provide proof that the sub is totally and 100% different from what it was a year ago. and i mean 100%; there had better be no content simi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 05:10 PM |
| 7 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?it seems to be all some men care about. it's not an assumption, but an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?High profile executives are sometimes showboats. For most of us, people like Steve Jobs etc. are the usual type of executives we care for. The dandy finance types never created anything lasting. i mean, even Steve Jobs was a groomed guy. i'm not talking about just showboats, and taking care of your appearance doesn't automatically make you a showboat. i don't think that being super groomed means you can't also make something lasting either. that's as ignorant an idea as 'a woman can only be hot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?i think the bottom half of this pretty accurately sums up what it's like when i don't shave for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?yeah, i feel like... like they imagine the 18-year-old on TV being played by the impeccably styled and groomed 25 year old actress, who has a really fantastic, writer-designed life and personality, haha. i'm not saying there aren't great 18-year-olds; there certainly are. but not for people more than a year or two older than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?i know plenty of guys who pay close attention to their grooming and dress (especially those with beards, or even just longer hair). some men don't care, sure. but plenty do. i mean, even to go outside of the people i know and bring up the simplest example, high-profile executives and celebrities. money. grooming. nice clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?A woman with money doesn't make her more attractive. but it does remove a lot of limits on what you can do together, and the burden on other people having to pay. I prefer a less experienced girl. i don't think that's true, at least outside of whatever fantasy so many have about 18-year-olds. someone with little life experience is a lot harder to relate to and hold a conversation with, unless you're on the same level. most would be bored to death. As long as she is not retarded, a degree isn't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 02:02 PM |
| 26 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?money, life experience, a job, a home without parents, probably a degree, independence, and i doubt that's the end of the list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Summer 2016 General Survey ResultsI'm not making that argument. I'm saying that one isn't qualified to comment on the day-to-day content of the sub unless they read the sub regularly. And that's exactly what you're talking about, too -- you're claiming that the quality of day-to-day content has gone down (and/or farther from the sidebar material), and that claim can't be credibly made unless you read the sub regularly. eh, i don't agree. if you see it declining after reading for a while and rarely see anything new or of interest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Ex-Hollywood playboy Jack "Chad" Nicholson hits wall and is afraid he's going do die aloneand yet, it's not doing anything for him. he's still sad and lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Ex-Hollywood playboy Jack "Chad" Nicholson hits wall and is afraid he's going do die aloneyeah, basically. i feel for some of them; i've been there, and it's dark, sad, painful. it's harder to feel bad for those that are knowingly and willingly hateful though. saying it's for self-defense only gets you so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Summer 2016 General Survey ResultsBecause the sidebar isn't all blue pillers are arguing about. As you just demonstrated, they frequently make claims about the day-to-day content of the sub, too. To do this with any accuracy or credibility actually reading the sub on a regular basis is required. well now we're talking about different things, because a lot of non-reds (myself included) see how far the community has pulled away from the sidebar, and whatever 'plan' its creators had when they made it. IMO, the content of the sideba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 12:33 AM |
| 3 | CMV: facial features barely matter beyond 30yup, i agree with this too. when i happen to see pictures of guys around 30 when they were in their early/mid-twenties... way too young. even considering being attracted to it makes me feel creepy. haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Summer 2016 General Survey ResultsYou make the argument that regular reading is not necessary because of the presence of the sidebar in response to your statement that they weren't reading enough. if the sidebar doesn't change and that's what you believe they should be reading (as many TRPers insist), then why would they keep visiting or regularly read? but in the very next sentence you make an argument about the day-to-day content of the sub -- which would require regular reading to have an informed opinion about. not really. t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 11:19 PM |
| 9 | Summer 2016 General Survey Resultswell, if you're referring to the sidebar... it doesn't seem like it changes much, so there wouldn't be a need for constant reading. what you'd be left with is the carefully crafted posts that the extremist mods and whoever else choose to allow. not nearly as helpful as going to a place where you can discuss it with subscribers to that sub directly. i think most blue/non-reds here are debating with the ideas put forth by TRPers in their own threads and comments because 'the sidebar' is so loosely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Ex-Hollywood playboy Jack "Chad" Nicholson hits wall and is afraid he's going do die aloneSomething's Gotta Give, even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Ex-Hollywood playboy Jack "Chad" Nicholson hits wall and is afraid he's going do die aloneGod I feel old. i'm only 28, but there have been a few recent comments in threads here that have made me feel the same way, haha. the shining is amazing, though. and, i mean... anger management came out in 2003, at least! i never saw it, but it seems like i saw the trailer everywhere...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Ex-Hollywood playboy Jack "Chad" Nicholson hits wall and is afraid he's going do die aloneI mean, it probably sucks having to bang girls that are 30 now instead of 20. I'd cry and be melodramatic too if that was the worst problem in my life. ah, so this is the only kind of response you can give. good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 08:17 PM |
| 15 | Ex-Hollywood playboy Jack "Chad" Nicholson hits wall and is afraid he's going do die alonethat would be a terrible replacement for a handkerchief. but, in any case, he's the one who said he was lonely and single; he's the one who talked about his 'tears'. don't know why you're talking about it as if it's something someone else made up; he said it himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 08:03 PM |
| 5 | What science actually thinks of dead bedrooms, and how humanity is wired to be sexually attracted to both excitement and comfort.missmaude isn't the OP, but that aside... you probably shouldn't be making statements about something you haven't read and can't discuss. if it's too long for you to read, it's okay to wait until you've read it to comment instead of getting hostile to people who reply to you thinking you're actually able to discuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: In your opinion, should Fault Divorce be brought back? If so, how should it be legally structured?Doesn't that seem unfair to the partner being abandoned, though? To lose so many assets and financials that they invested into, when their partner broke contract against their wishes? i could be wrong, but from what others more educated about the actual outcomes of divorce have said here... it typically isn't a major loss for only one party in the divorce, and this is widely exaggerated by TRPers (what a surprise). i also don't believe all divorces are about one partner being abandoned; there's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: In your opinion, should Fault Divorce be brought back? If so, how should it be legally structured?i wouldn't want it to come back. sometimes you have reasons for not wanting to be married to someone that fall outside of the no-fault-approved reasons for divorce. i also think it would be great if people waited to get married and made sure it was to the right person... but even people who try to do everything right can change, or just realize the marriage isn't good for them anymore. i don't see the benefit in keeping those people together, really. even with kids involved, if they can manage t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: what do you find attractive about your significant other or your most recent one?I feel like no matter how profusely I compliment him, it always fails to capture how amazing he is. i feel the same way... i still try, but i'd go on for hours if i were to tell the whole story, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: what do you find attractive about your significant other or your most recent one?i think his care and regard are attractive to me. he notices the little things like i do, so, say, if i'm working on a housework task that would be finished quicker with 2 people, he'll step in to help. or if i cooked dinner, he'll rinse the dishes. i could ask him to do those things and it wouldn't be a big deal, but it's nice that i don't have to; being considerate, that wins so much. i'd also say his patience and willingness to let me have my way or compromise on things is also nice; we have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Why are you making a big deal out of women dating around in their 20s and settling down in their 30s when men do the exact same thing?you're being defensive to the extreme and it doesn't seem like you're even reading the comments you're responding to, so... nah. i'm out. talk to me again when you can calmly be part of a discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Why are you making a big deal out of women dating around in their 20s and settling down in their 30s when men do the exact same thing?Are you trying to deny that man and woman are different did i say that? where did i say that? please, show me. men want short woman woman want tall men, woman want strong men men want soft women etc. uh, you're the one who said men don't care about a woman's height, which i don't think is entirely true. you're also the one who listed off all these requirements that women have for men (which, plenty don't) so i don't... i don't entirely understand your response, haha. it kind of seems like it was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Why are you making a big deal out of women dating around in their 20s and settling down in their 30s when men do the exact same thing?not that i necessarily agree with the OP but... Why do you expect men to pay for dates? we just had a thread about this, and many don't. Why do you expect men to sign up to risk their lives to protect yours? who does? Why do woman care about a guys hight when men don't care about a woman's hight? i think there are most definitely guys out there that would be bothered by a taller woman... just like there are plenty who don't care about a man's height. seriously, for a lot of women, it's not the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What's the secret to cutting off your feelings for an ex, without losing all you gained from knowing them?time and acknowledging analyzing both, i guess, and the reasons behind those feelings. i think it's harder when you don't know why things went wrong, or didn't want them to end, though. for example, since it might better demonstrate what i mean... with one of my exes, i know that i still fondly remember our good times because we were good friends, we had things in common, we really cared about each other. that was a beautiful time, and the memories are still beautiful. i miss him and those times… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Who's time is worth more?i mean... i had expectations about how i would be treated on dates just like i had expectations about how an employer would treat me, or friends, even. i think most people operate this way, and it's more about setting a minimum for what you'll accept than it is about saying, "you must prove your worth!" to someone. i agree that in most normal situations, the two people on the date are equal. the only time i'd expect a man to pay is if he insisted i go out with him/that he pay, or if he asked me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Men don't really love women "for who they are"i'm still reading, but so far i only see OP having those beliefs about men... and her flair is not blue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 03:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Attempts to sexualize one's identity is a valid indicator of promiscuity in womenSomeone making an attempt to have a more sexualized identity, is an indicator of increased promiscuity and sexual activity. i understood your point just fine; i simply don't agree with it. it can indicate that, but i don't think it's a guarantee or even a set of traits common to promiscuous women. Social media is an outlet for the manifestation and practice of one's identity, it reflects their life. I have my profile pic of me playing tennis and my background photo as Federer, because I like the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 09:31 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Attempts to sexualize one's identity is a valid indicator of promiscuity in womeni mean, maybe? as with any other 'tells', it's never a guarantee and something you should just consider peripherally while you actually get to know someone (unless it's a dealbreaker, which is fine). Posting numerous selfies on social media showing off their butt, boobs, or other parts of their body, emphasizing their sexual attractiveness. this could just be run of the mill attention/validation seeking, or trying something new. if someone is promiscuous and constantly getting sexual attention, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What do you hope to accomplish when you say," I need a man, not a boy."heh, i actually said something similar about exes to my husband once, early on, when we were dating... i cringe now; i was drunk and 22 then. anyway, what i meant was that i wanted someone who would be honest, and just talk to me if there was a problem instead of being passive aggressive and avoiding it/me. someone who didn't play games, too. i don't hear this often so i don't think it's all that common, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel that rejecting a man puts you in danger?IF I did feel threatened by a man, I was probably afraid of him PERIOD. The act of rejecting him had nothing to do with it. i agree with this too. i've had the misfortune of being with the kind of guy who reacts violently to rejection; we'd either be in a very public place, or miles apart. all of my rejections have been like that, actually, but in response to the OP... unless i had a reason to be afraid (aside from rejecting him), i don't think i would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 04:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: My 3 methods for equalizing the hookup culture and sex distribution without reducing female freedomoh, don't be silly. everyone knows female incels aren't real. but, actually... ... does that make them the true unicorns? what a convoluted ideology... :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Would you rather be hot and stupid or smart and unattractive?i'd choose 2, personally. i mean i guess if i were super dumb and hot i wouldn't really think much about it, but even hot dumb people get lonely so there would still be a problem if i was just getting used and dumped over and over again. i'm not looking to change the world; 2 seems like a great balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/16 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4RPMen: Why do men frequent and enjoy establishments such as strip clubs, Hooters, and Twin Peaks when they supposedly hate women who flirt with no genuine sexual interest?:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 09:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: My 3 methods for equalizing the hookup culture and sex distribution without reducing female freedomi remember seeing fit and muscly people there when i used to go, as well as non-fit people getting some exercise in; this is an exaggeration. i don't remember any body-shaming either; they had a dress code and asked that people using weights don't go around roaring and grunting like pro-wrestlers, but it was pretty reasonable. there were also both barbells and heavy dumbbells, so i doubt the description above matches every location, if even one. it is a general gym, so if your workouts are speci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Q4RPMen: Why do men frequent and enjoy establishments such as strip clubs, Hooters, and Twin Peaks when they supposedly hate women who flirt with no genuine sexual interest?they're wearing makeup, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 08:06 PM |
| 3 | CMV: My 3 methods for equalizing the hookup culture and sex distribution without reducing female freedommy opinion is that you need a different hobby; none of those things are even worth discussing, they're so ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4RPMen: Why do men frequent and enjoy establishments such as strip clubs, Hooters, and Twin Peaks when they supposedly hate women who flirt with no genuine sexual interest?interesting... i think i remember hearing that a lot of clubs had rules like that, but i didn't know there were laws too (though that's kind of a relief; some of the guys i saw at the club were real idiots). even knowing the law, i don't think i could help feeling like the money-throwing was rude, even at a club... but, maybe it at least made someone feel like they made it rain... ? hm... haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4RPMen: Why do men frequent and enjoy establishments such as strip clubs, Hooters, and Twin Peaks when they supposedly hate women who flirt with no genuine sexual interest?the only strip club i hung out at was BYOB, thankfully, but i guess that friskiness is universal. i worked at a shop next door to one that sold dancewear so we got to go hang out at the club after our shifts were over and talk to the girls who shopped there. not every time, but every now and then i would get impromptu dances or something similar. i'm pretty 'clean' or innocent-seeming maybe, when it comes to things like that, so i'm sure my surprise at it was entertaining, haha. i also got invit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why is it okay for women to make judgements on men who sleep with prostitutes, but its not okay for a man to make judgements on women who are sluts?no kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Do most people downplay the impact of bodyhair?yeah, i've seen women even here talk about loving guys with body hair. i'm personally not into guys with hairy chests or just generally hairier types, for example, but i don't doubt plenty of women are. for me, i think maybe there's a certain neatness or even smoothness i just prefer in a guy. i don't mean 100% hairless all over; that would be strange. but less is definitely better to me. i'm not trying to snuggle up to a rug, which is sort of how hairy bodies can feel to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: ''Slut Tells'' Aren't a ThingI can relate because my tattoos represent my past. cool, so then you can understand that it's not attention-seeking. You simply want us to think something - maybe you are creative. sure. but i'd rather have that show through something i actually created, not my tattoos. honestly, mine probably aren't all that creative. maybe you had a tough past. why would i want to invite comments or questions about that? i don't. while i do get comments about my tattoos that are part of that past, again, i wri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 02:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: ''Slut Tells'' Aren't a ThingCan you answer this for me - why? Is it because you don't care what people think? or because you actually want them to think something? well, lots of reasons. it's my body, and i'm going to do what i want with it, first and foremost. i realized i wouldn't be happy otherwise. i knew some people would inevitably dislike it, or comment on it, or think weird things about me because of it... and i did it anyway, because it's what i wanted and needed, that freedom (among other reasons). i'm a pretty s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 02:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: ''Slut Tells'' Aren't a Thingsame, haha. i'm a total quiet homebody, but also, slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 02:20 PM |
| 6 | CMV: ''Slut Tells'' Aren't a Thingfunny, since i get nervous and self-conscious anytime someone comments on either my hair or tattoos, and respond to questions about them with the simplest answer possible so that it ends quickly. my hair is just black now (those colors require some annoying upkeep), but i still get comments on my tattoos frequently. i chose not to hide them all, true, but that's not at all the same as getting tattoos just to garner attention. if you got your tattoos for that reason, cool. that's okay. if you jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 02:17 PM |
| 6 | 4Women: why do your emotions factor so much into attractiveness?I'm like say something funny and I might ? My resting face is neutral. I don't walk around smiling lol finally recognizing this and that it was normal was... so nice. i used to feel self-conscious about it all the time until i did. who smiles all the time anyway? pah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 01:55 PM |
| 3 | 4Women: why do your emotions factor so much into attractiveness?what are you talking about? i'm not here to argue whatever bizarre ideas you have about what women are into. i just said what i was into above; try having an actual discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 11:49 AM |
| 3 | 4Women: why do your emotions factor so much into attractiveness?dthis sounds like it's more about his emotions than mine. in any case, a smiling happy guy typically equals fun, relaxed, guy i can have a nice time with (or at least suggests that might be true and worth looking into). that being said, there's a difference between a guy smiling with his pet (yay!) and a guy smiling while his friends do a keg stand or something in the background (gross). but typically, a smile is inviting, and tells you about the person wearing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: What "duties" do men and women have wrt flirting and/or dating?How do you view modern dating, particularly wrt young people? this is kind of tough to answer, honestly. i feel like maybe there's more hooking up going on than there was when i was younger? technology also seems to play a bigger part than i remember, with all the apps and things out there now. then again, i wasn't a part of it when i was younger, so maybe all that was going on just as much then and i didn't realize because i was out of that loop. Do you think it’s dishonest for women to date me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 03:16 AM |
| 3 | This Askwomen thread proves that most people on have no clue what TRP isAnd if TRPs reading this plan to respond with "who cares if other people don't understand? I don't care that BPers, women and society in general don't get what RP is about" then please stop bringing up every 5 minutes that no one understands you. quote properly, instead of taking it out of context. the behavior above isn't any part of a productive debate and doesn't even have anything to do with people having knowledge of RP; it's just the feeble complaint that some TRPers make when people disag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 03:01 AM |
| 6 | Let's be honest: ''Dressing well'' is not important to attraction. It's just a coping mechanism/placebo for unattractive people.better-looking people can get away with worse dress than unattractive people... but i think it still has importance. it does say something about the person; what they're into, their habits and way they want to/do present themselves, perhaps even their knowledge of what does or doesn't look good, and so on. it can definitely be important and affect attraction. no one needs to be on-point with their appearance all the time, of course. but if their best is still off to someone... well, that someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/16 01:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Even if LMR is a real thing, it’s irresponsible for TRP to teach how to “push through it”probably the only remotely sensible response so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/16 04:03 AM |
| 6 | Most women won't turn a guy down just because he agrees with TheRedPillnah, TRP has a pretty bad reputation, and rightfully so. most women would turn a guy down who hung out with that hateful bunch, if he didn't ruin his own relationship with her first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 09:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveYes but I keep repeating that it's a minimum effort that is made to feel gigantic like the whole "being a mother is the world's toughest job" because somehow anything women do that men don't is the toughest thing ever. Not the other way around though. well, no. i don't think all women do the bare minimum and walk out the door looking like supermodels. what would ever make you think they do? i'm not saying men do that either; stop getting so defensive. i don't really agree that women have it 'way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 09:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveBecause op specified attraction and that it's not only lyrics about looks. but we've just been talking about appearance so far in this comment chain, and even the subject talks about looking good. we're not talking about status; gonna leave that part of it behind right here. Then don't wear them, the majority of women wear them and appreciate them. Men love them too. that seems like kind of a stretch; i'm not sure that the majority of women wear them, much less appreciate them. not going around … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 08:48 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveThat's still easier than growing muscles and earning status. women also do both of those things. those things are not necessarily a must for women, either. status wasn't even mentioned and isn't relevant here anyway, so i don't know why you're bringing it up. And come on, let's not act like dressing up for an evening requires a degree - there are platforms these days that are easy to walk in. How can a woman not know how to walk in heels, even short ones unless she has back/leg issues? i didn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 08:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivethat depends on the woman; some really love makeup. avoiding the hassle from other people is probably the bigger benefit though. there are so many articles exclaiming about how 'bad' female celebrities look without makeup. people really lose their shit over a woman without makeup on because of their misunderstanding about what a natural face actually looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 05:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivenot that i speak for everyone... but walking in heels is hell and i feel like i've heard enough jokes about it to know i'm not alone in that. not to mention, attempting to be graceful in heels while wearing a garment that could easily result in a 'wardrobe malfunction' if you do mess up and stumble or fall. it's painful, and requires some grace/practice which, surprise surprise, we're not all just born with. everything you mentioned is still effort put in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 05:43 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveyup. so what? because it has a benefit to them, it can't also be something that they're expected to do and have to put effort into? what a silly thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 05:20 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveno one's denying that it's a benefit; in fact, that's what a lot of people are saying. that it makes women (and men) look better. that doesn't make it easy, or mean it doesn't take lots of effort. it does, or there wouldn't be such an abundance of make-up how-to tutorials. there wouldn't be make-up artists needed, anywhere. it's not cheating, it is something extra women have to do to their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivei feel like there may also be a misunderstanding about the difference between flat and smooth going on here, or maybe the difference between how a tummy looks from the front as opposed to the side... it's NSFW, but there's a suicide girl on Instagram that i follow (shamandalie.sg) that i feel is a good example of what i mean. she has a smooth tummy, and it often looks flat from the front or in laying-down pictures. but there are some pictures taken from the side, and she does have a 'pooch'. her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 04:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivenope. wrong. oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveYou've assumed it requires work to have a round ass when there are plenty of girls who have round asses who don't do those things. It's not like having big biceps, which (unless you're on steroids) requires you to have worked them directly and eaten enough to allow them to grow. Nobody's born with 18" arms but plenty of women develop round asses the same way they develop big tits. i'm not assuming; i know it. Is it also a point of pride for them to have belly fat and no fucking muscle tone? It'd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivethis is also true; i don't think that's the standard for male attractiveness at all (and actually, i don't even think the woman there is the equivalent to that guy either). it's an absurd meme all around. haha. men definitely do have to put in effort into their appearance, some more than others. i'd sooner call them equal, to be honest; i don't see the point in making it into a competition anyway. but i do think that meme is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveyeah... i remember in high school, even one of the more popular/tall/athletic girls got called pregnant and/or fat and laughed at by the popular boys because she had a small tummy pooch when she sat down or bent over. in some ways, that made me glad i wasn't popular; i got my fair share of bullying for being an odd kid out, but being popular and then held to such dumb standards just seems like another kind of hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveIt's funny you mention art modeling, I actually did that for a while when I was in college so while I'm not an anatomy artist myself, I got to look at quite a bit of it. I was heavy at the time and professors requested me specifically because I was more interesting to draw than skinny models haha. yeah, i remember my figure drawing teacher also trying to get a good range of different models for that exact reason. the idea of being one of those models is pretty tempting still, too... the best mod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveYou know what's hilarious? RP dudes claim that the be-all-end-all of what makes women attractive are fertility tells, so you think they'd be all about the little stomach pooch that houses the uterus and ovaries. indeed. this seems way more feminine to me than total flatness, for that reason and 'softness'. The fucked up thing is that it is achievable to get a "flat stomach" but it requires starving yourself until you're so malnourished you probably won't ovulate. So yeah. So much for "signs of f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 02:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivepeople also think babies laughing are cute, and doing other 'dumb' things that would be totally repulsive in an adult. you're really failing to make it seem like there's any good reason to have objective standards for humans across the board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 02:33 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveIt takes work to have a round ass? How? squats, a proper diet, cardio, to name a few (both for shape and fitness). Again, most of the girls who have one don't even workout and some of them are afraid to start working out because they think they'll lose it. ... or so they told you. it's a point of pride for some people to have others think that they just 'ended up' that way. that they woke up like that. Plus, again, most of the female fitness YouTubers I've seen who have been squatting heavy for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 02:31 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivewho's parading around and demanding recognition? when people vary as much as they do, not all standards can be objective. why do you think people lose their shit when babies walk, but don't go around cheering on healthy grown adults for it? obviously i'm not saying women are babies, but it's the same concept. it's more of an achievement for one than it is for the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 02:17 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivehow surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractivepeople are generally expected to have genuine engagements in this sub. don't say things you don't want taken seriously, or make use of /s if you run that risk. but if you think you see it everywhere, then perhaps you're not as aware of the work it takes to look like that after all. it does take work. it's not automatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 02:05 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveoh man, when i finally realized how dumb that was... it was such a relief. i could never achieve a totally flat stomach if i wanted to, but there's a time i would have tried, which is sad (because certainly, others have tried and risked their health when their bodies just weren't made for it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 01:54 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveThat's called winning the genetic lottery. this still suggests it's a rarity, luck, not the norm, which is not in disagreement with that commenter nor does it make what they said 'bullshit'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 01:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractive... it is more of an achievement if it's harder for them. if someone struggles more to reach a goal than someone else, they're typically congratulated or praised for it because they put in more effort and achieved more personally; this is a really basic concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: Would you welcome being approached in a supermarket?currently married but if i were single... leaning towards the 'no' end of maybe. i smile at people when i'm trying to get by them with my cart too, but my mission is that bag of frozen chicken. i'm just being polite while trying to patiently navigate my cart through a sea of other shoppers. is it a busy store? do i have a cart or even a handheld basket? am i dodging and weaving through people to get to what i need? i feel like that's how my grocery store trips typically are, so most times an app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 01:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women work way harder than men to look good and be attractiveyeah, that meme... no. haha. some women do have a high metabolism, or the ability to exercise all the time through their job and personal life. even retail jobs let you do that. but looking like that isn't just a thing that magically happens for every woman. supermodels don't wake up looking like that either. women also have to put in effort into looking good. it's not just a bunch of coincidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Why do women get so much support in life, yet no one cares about incels?well then i guess you're just doomed. women aren't going to start fucking men they aren't attracted to for the sake of those men. people don't do that. don't know what to tell ya, except that it's the way of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Why do women get so much support in life, yet no one cares about incels?we're lying. we hate men. eventual eradication is our goal. it's only a matter of time... i'm clearly not serious; the whining is just absurd. if you have serious concerns, i think you should talk to a therapist about them. this is not a great place to be if you truly feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Why do women get so much support in life, yet no one cares about incels?because life is incredibly unfair and men are the most hated things on the planet. i'm sorry to break it to you. i really tried to keep it a secret, but i just can't handle this act anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 01:59 AM |
| 8 | Why are having sex and getting to know someone thought of as mutually exclusive?this is it for me, completely; trust is a must. plus, i like the fun tension and flirting that happens in the get-to-know-you phase too; that's super exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 05:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The friends-first approach to dating and sex is terrible for both men and women.depends on the signals he's given me. i've gone to 1 on 1 meals with friends and dates alike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 11:11 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The friends-first approach to dating and sex is terrible for both men and women.it's probably important to distinguish between sex and dating. are we talking for ONS or casual/FWB, or actually looking for a partner? this distinction will definitely change answers. i'm going to respond assuming we're talking about dating in hopes of an LTR. For men, treating a girl like a friend, and doing friendly things for her, without communicating your attraction to her initially will project a lack of confidence. Women expect or appreciate men who have no problem being upfront and bold… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?But here's the thing - when we are doing MFF, we are all banging each other. Each one of us is getting it on with the other two. It wouldn't be that way with MMF because I don't wanna bang dudes. i mean, no one's asking you to engage in one. plenty of guys who don't mind fucking guys and girls will gladly take part in them, even if you don't. it's not only in MFF that everyone's getting it on. but if (general) you say you don't like MMF because you don't want another person there when it's just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?a reasonable feeling. it seems like most TRPers would expect the woman to be totally okay with another woman there, though, and be upset if she had the same feelings you stated above. they also rationalize it as "i don't want another person there, ugh" until someone asks what they'd do if it were two women with them and they're totally on board (which is what most people take issue with). one guy in this thread refused to even call MMF a threesome, despite being fine with MFF being a threesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?so it probably wouldn't be what you were looking at in an MMF either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?beta brainwashing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?Oh so during your gang bangs you made out with the guy? i'm a woman, and i've never had a threesome nor do i intend to. is hot to think about though; hopefully if i were in an MMF by some odd chance, everyone would be participating together. Also you're projecting. I could care less what free humans choose to do. You could try seeing a therapist about that issue. your comments express otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?if only math teachers knew that this was all that their hard work had amounted to... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?So you should come to the table with every sexual kink you ever want to try in an alphabetical list? where did you get this from what i said? that's not at all what i meant, and i don't even know where that came from. So, if I was dating someone, and I brought up position X, and the woman says "Yeah, I really don't like that and I'm not interested." I'm not supposed to ask why? you can. why wouldn't you be able to? If I ask why, and its because of a bad past experience, well now we are discussin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?well, TRPers certainly do, so why not? :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?OK but you'd have to, ya know, talk about your sexual history to even have that discussion, and I'm seeing MANY people here claim they don't ask. you don't necessarily have to talk about your past to talk about your boundaries or what you want. i think most people are willing to give a reason if they're vehemently against something, but you don't necessarily have to discuss your pasts while discussing likes/dislikes. So having a "freebie" is pretty much directly against my moral structure. Its i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?locks and keys. just locks and keys... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?post pictures of yourself right now. if you don't, it's because you're ashamed. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?i'm starting to think that the reactions of some of the men with this device would be, many times over, more entertaining than any details that they'd be able to get with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | [Debate][Male-female standards][Fap culture] There are culture of collecting and masturbating to amateur naked selfies of legal females of most body types and face types. Many subreddits devoted to this. What about the other way around? Girls watching guysI totes take photos of partners reading in compromising positions because it turns me on and then I have something to ''use'' when they're away. what an excellent idea/combo, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:36 PM |
| 8 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?given how often TRPers (for example) equate how hot she thinks he is with how much she loves (or cares for) and values him, though... then it does have to do with love, or at least what love TRPers believe women are even capable of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | [Debate][Male-female standards][Fap culture] There are culture of collecting and masturbating to amateur naked selfies of legal females of most body types and face types. Many subreddits devoted to this. What about the other way around? Girls watching guysi think you should be able to edit your post (with the links right underneath it, just like comments). re: the rest of your comment, in that case, though, i'm not sure. gonewild really makes the debate/question a lot more specific, and admittedly, i don't browse there or talk to people about it/people that do. interested to see everyone else's input, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?your only point seems to be "all women who have done a lot of sex things have a bad secret. i'm gonna crush them with it cuz i can! haahaha i'm so great!!!11" if you actually have a point with more to it than that, feel free to make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:24 PM |
| 3 | [Debate][Male-female standards][Fap culture] There are culture of collecting and masturbating to amateur naked selfies of legal females of most body types and face types. Many subreddits devoted to this. What about the other way around? Girls watching guysyou seem to be excluding guys closer to models in face, ripped bodies, and nicely skinny bodies... what else is there? i don't know how explicit they get since i've never looked but... i think a lot of asian models/actors etc. have regular photobooks and calendars, some of which involve nudity. they're not often super muscly (more toned or outright skinny) and they're still handsome, but there are women who are really into buying, viewing, discussing, sharing. i'm sure there's more beyond that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?As much as I hate it, I admire your commitment to the title. i can't be anyone but me, so... doing it to the fullest. And don't call me an alt, I'm a one account at a time kinda guy. that happens when you get banned or otherwise screw up on an account, i suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?It's for the lulz. There's nothing else. It's about me just watching the hilarity ensue after their dignity is crushed. you're overestimating your effect here... but if it were really just for lulz, you'd go watch some funny video on youtube. we both know it's not that. Also, by some you mean the 'Slut-walk' girl. The majority with burn bridges with close friends & toss others beneath the bus to avoid confrontation with certain misdeeds. i don't think women who do the latter would bother with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?... that's what i'm saying. it's this guy that's making a big deal out of it, and i'm pointing out why that's stupid (and a great way to make people avoid being honest with you if this is how you'll act about it when it's not even in front of you). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?so true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?once or twice, this alt, that alt, banned for a lack of civility, doesn't matter to me. it's my official title nonetheless, and i appreciate it being given due notice and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?The rule of thumb is, if the roles were reversed, would she want to know the same about him? seems fair. i still don't think most people, men or women, are as obsessed with it as TRPers/manosphere-type men though, so it may not result in this 100% disclosure they expect in the end anyway. (it would also be worth considering that a woman who wants to know as much as these men want to know would likely be kind of a nag, and dramatic, if she's hanging by such a thin thread on these subjects.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?Triggered The hamsters strong with this one. Rationalizations intensified you know that this makes you look really bad, and deters people from engaging with you, right? it was my actual opinion; calm down. No. It isn't psychological men are just aware of a bad deal. Simple cost-benefit analysis. Risk assessment. i don't agree, when it comes to TRPers and manosphere-type men and their way of coping with this. Girls who do compromising things to reach their goals or achieve a certain social status… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?yay! my status is finally recognized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?seems like something only exciting in fantasy to me. i can't imagine the real situation being like what's in my head, so no, i probably wouldn't. reserving the right to daydream sometimes though; the idea is definitely still hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?what a surprise, given your flair. (not.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?Was she a high-class prostitute this seems like it may be hard to hide (depending on the situation) but i don't think she would want to hide it if she was anyway. does she fuck-around with rich dudes in social circles to lock one down? what if this is just her surrounding? rich girls with social circles exist too, you know. Webcamming to pay off poor choices & a student loans? this seems pretty harmless, IMO. aren't these typically solo? 3-somes & short-term irresponsible behavior? so hopefully … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?Just kidding. I'd warn all my buddies if their wife... had a threesome, et cetera. I'd be a total captain save-a-bro. Damn, you're really good at exposing my harbored resentment. i wasn't just talking about you; i pretty clearly said TRP and manosphere-type men. but since you decided to make it all about yourself... do these sound like the words of someone with normal, healthy feelings about the subject? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?not being obsessed with history =/= doesn't matter at all. most people look for someone they're compatible with, so it does have some importance. the high level of fixation on it seems unique to TRP and manosphere-type men though (which, surprise surprise, also have a lot of other issues). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 01:07 PM |
| 12 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?i don't think most people grill their partners about their sexual history unless they already have hang ups about sex or their partner. it's not weird to not talk about all of your sexual experiences in detail, especially if no one asks (which is typical). only RPers think that's a problem or red flag because any sex a woman has before them is offensive to them. normal people don't have this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?pats on head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 11:39 AM |
| 8 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?because divulging every single sex act you participated in before marriage ASAP upon meeting is bizarre? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M:You are given a device that tells you exactly how many men a woman has slept with, and full details about each of these men. How would you use it and what would you do with it?seems like a pretty faulty device if all you need is a name. poor <insert common name here>. (also, fake names...) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 05:16 AM |
| 2 | What is your feminine role model?i don't think i have any family members i'd consider feminine role models, sadly... i most appreciate and look up to women who show their strength through what they actually do (without having to tell someone they're strong), and how they conduct themselves, though (with manners). sadly or not, this typically ends up being celebrities or perhaps some activists? i think helen mirren seems like a really confident and cool person, for example. she's said some things i don't agree with (something ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/16 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do men prefer women that are "quiet" ?exactly, haha. it's a weird combo of shy/outgoing, push-and-pull that really does the trick; just being shy is not enough for most people, men or women, sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Do men prefer women that are "quiet" ?yeah, this seems about right. when i was younger, there were also guys that would flirt with me but then tell me later on that i wasn't flirty enough, or didn't seem interested enough (even though i had been). it's probably another thing there is an idealized version of that guys actually have in mind for this question, similar to the TV nerd girl/girl next door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Question: If it's just casual sex, would a woman care if I don't work full-time or have my life together?not sure about the rest of your post since that's really specific but in response to the title... no, i wouldn't think that matters if it's just casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?you =/= we. read what i quoted. and even if i did think you were as good-looking as you run around telling everyone you are (which is unlikely based on RP's goals), your comments have presented the views of someone i wouldn't be attracted to. i don't use snapchat, i don't care to PM you, i don't need to see you to determine whether or not i'd find you attractive. your comments in this thread so far are just blatant self-comforting, telling yourself how awful everyone else is so you feel better a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?We lift, look after ourselves and work on our style i mean, you all say you do. even if it's true, none of it is a guarantee that you'll be "hot". but, whatever you need to tell yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?interesting; had no idea there was a name for that. i only vaguely see similar things to it here and there, and... move on. at least judging from google images, that's definitely too garish for my tastes. pastels and bright color are best in moderation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?weird; i think i've only read a few of yours (and i'm supposed to be the invested one). either way, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 09:16 PM |
| 6 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?yeah, totally. even this comment; so offended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?it really seems more like hipsters than even feminists, but at least in PPD it goes: feminist = BPer = ugly blue-haired tumblrina. granted, not everyone holds that view. but it seems like a lot of RPers do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?i used to have blue hair, when i first started posting here on a different account. although i was relieved not to have to worry about upkeep anymore... i was a little sad that i couldn't joke/flair about it anymore. i 'rebel' quietly with dark silver hair now (really, i just like having fun with haircolor, it's alright). my glasses may or may not be problem glasses, too, but really... they're just the ones that looked best on my face, haha. i kind of love the more stylish ones and i'd love to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men and women are not equally responsible for unplanned pregnanciesi may have to bow out of the insanity of this thread, haha. if it was an intended troll... bravo, OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men and women are not equally responsible for unplanned pregnanciesthen as stated elsewhere in this thread, the responsibility is 0/0. even, and none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men and women are not equally responsible for unplanned pregnanciesWe must take into account that men do not have control over their own reproduction. but they do.... very much so. i know so many men who have sex and no babies, haha. are they wizards? gods? supernatural beings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men and women are not equally responsible for unplanned pregnanciesthat's not even what the OP is about. can you just make a subject about what you actually want to discuss, instead of this mess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men and women are not equally responsible for unplanned pregnancieshonestly, then this wasn't an honest attempt to CYV. if you're just going to say, "no! you're wrong! i don't believe you!" no matter what anyone says, then this really wasn't a good faith effort to discuss and get a different perspective at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men and women are not equally responsible for unplanned pregnanciesClassifying it as a urge is a bit dishonest. This is a primal desire/need that people have. That is why there are so many unplanned pregnancies despite the wide plethora of alternative solutions. use whatever word you like. it doesn't make men somehow less responsible than women, especially since, as you noted, it's something that people have. IMO, proper education (beyond man + woman = baby) and availability is a bigger factor here than just urges. it's no surprise to me that states that have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men and women are not equally responsible for unplanned pregnanciessuggesting men should be less responsible because 'nature' is absolving them of responsibility. perhaps not 100%, but absolving nonetheless. even if men did have to work harder, it's like saying that a person has to work harder to lift a pen than a piece of paper. "where babies come from" is something everyone knows. they're not somehow less expected to take extremely easy steps to avoid conceiving a child because they had 'urges'. good grief, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:32 PM |
| 2 | If a man offers a woman a drink in a bar/club, he is politely displaying his interest in her. If the woman is not interested in him or unavailable, she should decline the drink.It's taking advantage if you're aware of what it means to be offered a drink by a man. It means he might be willing to be more than just friends with you based on what he can tell about you so far. You're right nobody is obligated to do anything... hell you can put years of your life and all of your money into a relationship but that person isn't obligated to stay with you either. The drink offer from a stranger is just a small gesture, but it is a gesture. eh, the guy's also aware of the risks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Does TBP think this is what most Red Pillers look like?semantics, again... sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | If a man offers a woman a drink in a bar/club, he is politely displaying his interest in her. If the woman is not interested in him or unavailable, she should decline the drink.i don't think you have to be secretive, but, for me, i think some subtlety is nice (and some women will feel the same way). as sublimemongrel said, the guy's intentions and interest are probably already known in that setting and situation. it doesn't need to be pointed out so immediately/deliberately and can be off-putting if it is. i would probably laugh at portmantoux's line, maybe talk to him a little, hey, even be friends someday. it is creative and playful, as is he, probably. i would remem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:21 PM |
| 3 | If a man offers a woman a drink in a bar/club, he is politely displaying his interest in her. If the woman is not interested in him or unavailable, she should decline the drink.No I wouldn't, unless I was single and attracted to the person. I'm right brained, I'm not an overly selfish person, I can't justify taking advantage of anyone... plus I can afford my own drinks. i'm sure these women can afford their own drinks too. but if you're too proud to handle someone accepting a drink from you and nothing more, if you think of that as being taken advantage of, you shouldn't be offering it. someone will take you up on that offer, and is not guaranteed or obligated to give … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:06 PM |
| 4 | If a man offers a woman a drink in a bar/club, he is politely displaying his interest in her. If the woman is not interested in him or unavailable, she should decline the drink.yeah, if he left out the breakfast part, it would at least win points for creativeness (that last bit would ruin it for me too). i don't think i'd accept a drink or date offer at a bar even if i was single so for some, it might not win much more than points, but... at least it was different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 03:13 PM |
| 6 | If a man offers a woman a drink in a bar/club, he is politely displaying his interest in her. If the woman is not interested in him or unavailable, she should decline the drink.Accepting a drink doesn't mean "Yes I want to have sex with you"... and it doesn't mean the guy thinks he's buying a drink for his future wife (although she could be). It's just supposed to be a way to initiate a conversation with someone that you find attractive and let them know you aren't trying to be platonic about it. but it also says something about the guy and his intentions, things that aren't necessarily good. so if a girl knows most guys are just throwing drinks at women to try their l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:01 PM |
| 5 | If a man offers a woman a drink in a bar/club, he is politely displaying his interest in her. If the woman is not interested in him or unavailable, she should decline the drink.yeah, in an ideal world, probably. i think this is a pretty universally understood signal, buying someone a drink. however... she's not obligated to like him for it, nor is it necessarily an invitation for physical contact. additionally, if he doesn't want to pay for a woman's drink or can't, then he shouldn't be doing it in the first place because it comes with no guarantees of reciprocation. yes; some women will take advantage of this. i mean, let's face it: it's not as if men are buying drink… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Does TBP think this is what most Red Pillers look like?"no! you're scared! you are!!1" -TRPers but really, this comment sums it up. not afraid, just repulsed. if i run into someone with these thoughts, i'll just politely laugh or smile and get away ASAP to avoid having to argue with them or listen to them any longer (not because i like you or think you're actually funny). it doesn't really matter if they look like the guy in the post or Chris Evans; their thoughts and views are disgusting and that's off-putting enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Does TBP think this is what most Red Pillers look like?please don't post comments like this and then talk about how other people lack self-awareness. haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?Of course I don't speak for all RP men, but I personally find those "little things" to be what separates my wife from "women" in general, so I don't think I dismiss them at all. My point is more that those little things aren't important until further down the vetting process. Or I guess you could say I don't start looking for those "little things" until I've already decided positively on the bigger things. So sure, those little things are rather important in a LTR, but they don't matter as much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Should women wear more skirts and dresses? Women use to wear them all the time a century ago.women wear skirts and dresses all the time now, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Should women wear more skirts and dresses? Women use to wear them all the time a century ago.i might actually be on board with wearing that... this too. it'd probably be impractical and uncomfortable, but i might deal with it, for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?You would think that right? Taking a shower, not being a jerk is a given. It's the other stuff that's got me worried. Did that girl refuse a 2nd date because I had a weak chin? Because I smelled like dairy? No hubris but no insecurity! Passion! Passion! did she? maybe she did! and you dodged a bullet, because you know, that never would have worked out anyway if it was problematic enough for her not to go for a 2nd date. you can't possibly please everyone, and that's okay. it still sucks to get t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?I'm glad I'm not alone! See, I think stuff like this is why I always say attraction is inexplicable. It's so many tiny things coming together just right in one person. it really is. and even now, i'm surprised by things like that that catch my attention about someone. i guess i sort of get it since i was like that in some ways once, but as i see things now... it's hard to understand why anyone would want to dismiss how incredible those little things are, and how fascinating discovering them can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?the variation of these responses should be at least somewhat assuring though. i think the common things between them basically sum up to "take a shower, and don't be a jerk". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?oh, i totally get that, and feel the same way, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?inability to swear fluidly this is always unpleasant, from anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?I'm curious as to why the acne is a problem, is it because you would be grossed out by their blemishes when kissing? A lot of people are diligent about washing their skin but they still have hormonal acne. yeah; i'm thinking really extreme cases though, like ones that are all over, heavy, or require medication to treat. i have the occasional breakout so i can cope with some acne, but really extreme, constant lesions... well, i think that would be hard for me. sadly, it kind of makes my stomach t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?showiness in general, whether that be in appearance or with personality. someone desperate to be approved of in every single setting. someone macho, someone mean, someone controlling or with excessive undue pride, someone aggressive, someone aimless, someone hateful... i'm not asking for much. be happy. be nice. be chill. i'm more tolerant/appreciating of physical things, given that no one's perfect, differences are interesting, and lots of it is based on things people can't easily change. i thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4 Women: How will you react to the backlash?guns blazing! but honestly, i doubt it will affect me at all, so i'll just carry on as usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?i'm passionate about coffee, tattoos, learning and studying foreign languages/cultures, traveling, trying/making new foods and drinks, some TV series and games, drawing, cool plants, old machines and buildings, hair design, cute things, some history, sleep. it's kind of up to other people to decide whether or not they find that interesting, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?both = trust and contraception. the problem was with both. though i don't agree with you anyway; you were both involved in making the child, you're both responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?so get a sex bot and a simulated girlfriend. or call a hotline. no need to waste your time on real women if all you want is to design one for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?in that case it was a problem with both, but how do you not know this person at least a little by now, to determine their level of trustworthiness? that aside, again, you know how babies are made. you know how to avoid making them again (especially with someone you should have well-established plans to avoid this with). it's common sense to use one form of contraception, and good sense to use more than that. unwanted/accidental pregnancies are very, very easy to prevent with minimal effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?right? there are so many ways to avoid it. it seems like just carelessness if you can't manage it in a normal situation with all of those options available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?You can only trust yourself and not others, right? Yes. I should not have trusted her. no, you should have been using more than one method of contraception if you were trying to be careful. you both have children together already; you know how this works, you know how to avoid it. grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?She was supposed to be on the pill. ...Some women are like that. hey, you can only control yourself and not others, right? this is on you too. But whatever. If the child is a girl, it'll be the first in generations, and my mother will be babysitting 360 days per year. poor child. this is the stuff the real decline is made of; how irresponsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?I can buy a better world? How much does that cost? you can buy a robot, or a simulation, or both. there are no shortage of games that would satisfy this too. I managed to get my ex girl friend, who is also my friend with benefits, pregnant this summer -- and she's considering keeping the child. ...suuuuure, I could pay for what I want, but I doubt I'd be able to live with myself. this took a really weird turn. that's not remotely what i was talking about. She REALLY wants the baby. But we alread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?you can buy what you're looking for, you know. if the reality of things as you see it is hell, just... do what would fix that for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?They're looking for a man that is stronger than themselves not really necessary, but happens to be the default. not a goal, but not bad to have around. smarter people are smart at different things so this is... a little too simply put. but, sure, i'll be lenient and say a guy that knows different things better than i do is interesting. more confident than themselves could go both ways. funnier maybe? i really only care if he's funny to me and the people we choose to surround ourselves with. i do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:42 AM |
| 2 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.totally. ya got us. yawn. next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:34 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.welp, ladies, it was fun, but i guess it's time. some guy on reddit says our freedom is actually oppression. better rein it back in! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?it's been relative to my own age most of the time; i'm newly 28, and i'd say currently it's 25-35, generally. there's some leeway at either end, but those are probably a rarity (like my husband, heeeee). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 11:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Red Pill makes the best case for assuming that all men are rapistsokay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill makes the best case for assuming that all men are rapistsoh, don't do that. nothing about what he said sounded like he was having a breakdown over the risks that women face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill makes the best case for assuming that all men are rapistsdo you think the previous commenter walks around moping about women being in danger, or has a normal sadness/worry response to a serious matter like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill makes the best case for assuming that all men are rapistswho isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Red Pill makes the best case for assuming that all men are rapistsIt is a given that a verbal NO from her is not enough they argue this pretty hard here; i'm with OP on that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.she will make a her guy friends a plate definitely took a moment to understand what this meant. this place and its slang is ruining me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.You are implying that just because I'm breathing you should respect me. If that's how you roll good for you, but in my mind that pretty much destroys the value of common courtesy AND respect. ... why do you think it's called common courtesy? it's social conduct, meant to be extended to everyone; it's not destroying the value of it to use or act on it as it's meant to be used or acted on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:07 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.Op does not define the word. no, people do. usage does. and dictionaries adapt to match that. It must be defined. it is defined. Most people do not know that the common use has 2 meaning which are not even similar. most people know that, as evidenced by this thread. and i linked the definitions way before you started spamming this thread with your comments. Now people in the thread know. they already knew. this fit over the definition was unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 02:45 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.language changes, and thank goodness for that; most of the even more classic versions of languages would be incredibly difficult to understand today, if it was even possible. it's not incorrect or useless just because you don't like it; stay on topic and stop picking fights with people over definitions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 02:40 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.it is; it's one of the definitions of respect. RPers choose to only acknowledge the definition that means admiration and awe, though. strange, for a bunch of self-proclaimed geniuses. see: here and here. it's pretty obvious no one is suggesting that you should be in total awe and admiration of everyone you pass on the street, guys... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had blue balls/vulva? If so, how many times? How distressing was it?i will also say that getting interrupted can be frustrating, especially when you're close. it really is a mix of sadness and anger, not fun to deal with. i don't do much when i'm on my period, so that can also get annoying after a few days (though not nearly as bad as being interrupted). the time after that totally makes up for it though :) . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: weed and sexoh, anything is red pill if you try hard enough... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Q4Women: weed and sexBut now I've heard from several women that they stopped smoking weed because it kills their libido and this ruins their relationship. i don't think it necessarily had a libido-killing effect on me... but i mostly just wanted to sleep. i don't smoke anymore and i haven't for a long time, but i seem to remember a lot of dryness when i did, too. Or that it makes them too paranoid and insecure to enjoy sex. it seems to affect people differently (so what i'm going to say is just about me) but i rarel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Morality in LTRs.if they were previously living normal lives and then she finds out about the questionable/dangerous business, i don't think it would be unusual for someone to leave that situation. it's a huge risk and red flag. how common is it? not sure. but i don't think it's unrealistic. it only (sometimes) looks like fun on TV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?If women changed, TRP's opinions would change. It is a sub about improving your self and the easiest and most effective ways of getting laid. It is not hate for the sake of hate. i doubt TRP would change their opinions, because tons of women are already unlike the descriptions and ideas that TRPers have about women, and they vehemently deny the existence of any good women when presented with it. it's a joke to call it a self-improvement sub. By the time they reach the levels of maturity and clai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersI'll even take it a bit further. A 300 lb rp would be suffering because he's starving himself and running his ass out on the treadmill. Meanwhile a 300 lb bp would be laffing at his ass while eating cheetos cuz the other guys is exercising for nothing and never get to sit around an enjoy ice cream like he does. He thinks we are all born fat and it's pointless to exercise and suffer. But who do you think is going to be happier in the end? that's not true at all. BPers talk about the struggles the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?That's a very immature statement. It describes my mindset when first finding out about TRP but it's definitely not how I feel now. I don't get all my information from TRP and I have plenty of life experience to boot. i'm not talking about just you. and just because some TRPers have chosen to word it in a more elaborate way doesn't change that it's what their sentiments and views boil down to. Again this is not something that a mature man would believe. i don't disagree. but i also don't think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?The experienced members will know that female nature is unavoidable and the current state of the westernised world is not going to produce a lot of quality women... "women are crap, it's just how they are" is still a statement fueled by hatred. The experienced man is a strong man, he does not hate women, but he does understand them a lot better than his former self and respects himself enough to not let his guard down. if what you call understanding is "women are all untrustworthy awful harpies"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 02:55 PM |
| 0 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?the members and content would have to not be hateful, for a very, very long time. well, time and a few other things. i'm not holding my breath though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?the only difference between the hatred of the new members and the hatred of the 'experienced' one is that the 'experienced' members have let it settle in and really become a part of them, while the new members are still flailing about in their tantrums. it's all still bitterness and hate though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:52 PM |
| 12 | "Withholding" is the wrong word.i mostly agree with this... but i always thought "withholding" also meant intentionally 'keeping' affection or sex from someone out of spite, knowing it will hurt them (which makes sense to me then, if that word is used). if i misunderstood and withholding is just meant to mean not 'giving' sex or affection 24/7, then i don't think the word is being used correctly either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 12:30 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?i'm guessing because more work is put into preparing for and performing those jobs, making them more high profile for this kind of thing. if both men and women have worked to attain and maintain those jobs but aren't being paid equally, it'd be a great example of why people are fighting for equal pay. but as the other commenter said, it doesn't matter in the end; pay should be equal across the board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:51 AM |
| 3 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?in response to the main question: the members and content would have to not be hateful, for a very, very long time. the amount of time they've been hateful several times over. one post is not enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?A BPer just admitted they don't allow debates, your the one who is not representing things correctly. i'm not a BPer, i just used to be, and actually know what i'm talking about. they allow disagreements between legitimate members of the sub, not debates from people outside of it, which is exactly what i said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?no, reread the comment. you didn't understand it, clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?they didn't say it was hateful. they said they are very obviously from a hateful subreddit and people from hateful subreddits are not allowed on TBP. and even if it were true that most women have casual sex, who cares? what is the point of even making such a comment, if not to argue with them (which is different than an occasional internal disagreement between members)? TBP is also not PPD and is under no obligation to welcome outside debate or red pillers if they choose not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 01:25 AM |
| 9 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?it also looks like the people disagreeing are being upvoted too. TBP is not TRP; disagreements happen sometimes, and they're allowed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 11:15 PM |
| 2 | How much does penis size correlate with SMV?And that reaction is more because of novelty and fascination. yeah, most of them just seem surprised. they may or may not be into it; some women are. but i'm not into it (seriously, that seems like it could only be painful) and i'd imagine i'd have the same surprised response on the off chance i was in that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?yes, and she's saying that it's disappointing, and that it's real ( which you acknowledged, finally). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?but hey, report it if you choose to think it was about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 06:00 AM |
| 3 | How much does penis size correlate with SMV?Those women who can't don't know how to sex. what an absurd statement. Also do you know how to read? I merely stated a big dick makes up for sexual inadequacy. it doesn't, and can make sex even worse and more uncomfortable depending on his inadequacy. only men who are ignorant or don't actually care about pleasing their partner believe this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?she didn't say anything about you; she made a general comment about discussion in the sub. it just happened to be in response to one of your comments. but hey, report it if you choose to think it was about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?Thats a nice Ad Hominem you get there. i don't think you understand ad hominem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 05:37 AM |
| 8 | How much does penis size correlate with SMV?lots of women don't get off from penetration, so the answer to your question would be no, a lot. some can manage to move and get external stimulation, but some can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?thia is exactly what she's saying, though. that African-looking women are not part of the norm (and pointing out that it's disappointing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 02:27 AM |
| 3 | How much does penis size correlate with SMV?probably still guy A. he's good at selling himself, and making people around him feel good. plus, eventually he would find out how bad he is in bed, which is a thing that can be improved. it doesn't sound like anyone would know or care that guy B exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?In fact, I can't think of a dark complected, natural haired, black woman I have ever seen portrayed as sexy in mainstream media. this was in her first comment. and honestly, the only woman i can think of that comes close is lupita nyong'o. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?That would be like men assuming they know how women feel when they aren't women. welcome to PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?referring to a woman as a hole is pretty contemptuous and is clearly a crude insult being made because she's a woman. i don't think that particular commenter has ever denied being on Team Man and hating modern women, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:05 AM |
| 1 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersRead the part about Natural vs Synthetic Happiness. IMHO BP's brand of happiness is synthetic happiness. It's manufactured from their idealistic world views and stem from their belief that the world is perfect around them. if you actually talk to them, you would realize that most of them don't believe that. hell, their sub is designed to make fun of something they see around them that is imperfect. but they can't change everything bad about the world. no one has that power. It's stuff that doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 10:07 PM |
| 5 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersThese bloops don't hold extreme views at all, they just want to view society as ideal, where people are happy. or they just choose to live positively, and gravitate towards other positive and happy people. RPers do the opposite, believing that they're stronger for seeing 'the truth' when really, it's just their experience. don't be unfair. some of us just decided we wanted to find 'the better' instead of giving up and saying everything is shit, as some RPers have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 07:26 PM |
| 2 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersyeah, probably. extremists are on the outside of the group regardless of which 'side' they're on. there are RPers and BPers that lack self-awareness; just the way it is. i'm not all that passionate about the subject either way, but i don't think that poster was extolling the virtues of MILFs as much as he(?) was just asking why they weren't as commonplace as older men with much younger women, and pointing out how unrealistic that dynamic is in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 07:23 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average Menit's safe to assume by his choice of topic that he's an average man (or has indeed misjudged himself). there would be no reason for him to complain about the plight of the average man if he wasn't one or thinking of himself as one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 05:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Existence of TheBluePill sub proves TRP's "Women are like Children" theory correctChildren have a way of overreacting to things which aren't that severe. ... like your obsession and constant posts that TBP is wrong and TRP is right, because you say so? There are things at TRP that normal people people would just brush aside and not take so literal. it's common sense not to say extreme things if you don't want someone to take you literally. but, in the case of TRP, this is really just an excuse to let them mean or not mean those things as they please. that's why it's criticize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenOn the contrary. Men are looking for girls on their level -- but are swiping right on girls slightly below their level, and message girls slightly above their level if they match. Mens' estimates of a woman's appearance is pretty accurate. using the OP as an example, he described a 7.5 as "okay". these are not the words of someone who has accurately estimated his own attractiveness (since he still calls himself average) or the attractiveness of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 04:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenWhich is how the average man's dating for LTRs looks right now: You're the least bad match they have when they finally decide to give up on meeting for ONS and realize that ONS is everything more attractive men are looking for from them -- and you're the first guy down their list actually looking for a LTR and not shitting them about wanting a LTR. it's really not. the subset of guys who complain here are aiming for the hottest people they can find without taking anything but hotness into consid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 04:25 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average Menthat's not what i asked. i asked if you thought it was ideal, and a desirable relationship to have (as opposed to being with someone who actually likes you and actively wants to be with you). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 03:28 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average Menan OK-looking girl, perhaps a 7 or 7.5 tops. For one of the less attractive girls I dated if you're rating someone 7-7.5 but essentially calling them "meh" looking, your attitude and view is probably part of your problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 03:22 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenIn the past, a woman would stick with a guy after a good date because she had no other solid prospects lined up. i get that not having dates be a sure thing is frustrating, but... isn't that part of dating anyway? i don't think it's ever not been true that people will date and stay with those they are attracted to. and is this really your ideal? someone who's just with you because you happened to be the least-bad thing laying around? such a relationship seems doomed to fall apart or be miserable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Which one would last longer: a society of all men or a society of all women?sure. i don't see any reason why they wouldn't. i've seen similar things on hell's kitchen, the apprentice, project runway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 12:42 AM |
| 2 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?ah, i was looking specifically for the 'forsaking' part. but, again, it's been part of the vows for pretty much every wedding i've gone to, even for non-religious couples. it's pretty common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What was your Best Sexual Experience Like?Is RP right? Was it with Chad? if you define Chad as "guy who has had sex" then obviously, yes. if you define Chad as some mega ladies man, then no. i've never slept or been all that interested in a Chad type. Do you compare every sexual experience you've had since to this golden standard? not really. my experiences went from bad/scary to nice and comforting, and that's really the only distinction or comparison i make, i guess. good or bad; not man to man. i also haven't had sex with anyone i wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 10:44 PM |
| 2 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?i didn't see "forsaking all others" in the Quaker section, though it was in other areas of the wiki article. regardless, i think they're right; it's in most marriage vows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Which one would last longer: a society of all men or a society of all women?reality shows are definitely designed and edited to show only what will get attention and make them money. it makes sense; they only have a limited about of time to show their subject matter, so naturally they're going to pick the most controversial or exciting stuff to generate buzz. i think this is pretty obvious by just watching the shows, as obvious as the fact that movies like The Social Network and The Fifth Estate aren't 100% accurate because embellished history is more exciting to viewer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?a red piller wouldn't know anything about truth, but at least you tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 06:33 PM |
| 4 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?i don't know what i'll do if the day ever comes where a discussion is started with a red piller and doesn't turn personal and/or insulting at some point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 05:53 PM |
| 8 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?you're a man, so they can. the comment and red pill community says so. got debt? bills? conflict at work? try this easy fix! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 05:20 PM |
| 7 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?oh, only when a woman says it, though. it's just honesty when men say it. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Which one would last longer: a society of all men or a society of all women?mommy, a mans best friend, wife, financial partner, and fuck friend your strange little tantrum aside... IMO, the best relationships involve both partners being these things to each other. if you can't rely on each other, can't trust each other, what's the point? not much, far as i can tell. you may as well be single. Why do you hate women, that you burden them with all these expectations? this has nothing to do with hating women; stop being absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Which one would last longer: a society of all men or a society of all women?what a shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 02:57 PM |
| 7 | Which one would last longer: a society of all men or a society of all women?my best friend tops the list, the spouse, does not even make it. ... and red pillers talk about how other people make poor choices in partner, or don't know how to actually be a partner in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 02:36 PM |
| 1 | A hypothetical for TBPThat's not a reflection of extreme stupidity though, that is simply reckless and risky behavior. Most people are fully aware of the consequences of driving under the influence. But that in itself does not motivate people not to take a chance at driving behind the wheel. The people who get DUIs are willing to take the risk instead of dealing with the inconvenience. we're talking about educating someone about something that happened and telling them how to prevent it. it's pretty obvious to all bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 12:14 AM |
| 1 | A hypothetical for TBPI don't want her to become a melancholic shell of herself because she got raped. but it's okay if she turns into that because she can't go out or have fun with friends, or anything, because of men. again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 12:04 AM |
| 1 | A hypothetical for TBPNo one is putting these restrictions on women. that's all anyone does when a woman is raped and this thread is a prime example. she should have done this. she shouldn't have been there. why was she wearing that? did she have a drink? why did she* let this happen to her? it's always about her actions, and so rarely about his. she's raked over the coals about what she did or didn't do, and interrogated, poked, prodded (if she can even get the courage to report it and go through all that). there ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 11:06 PM |
| 2 | A hypothetical for TBPDo they truly know? What if they write it off as an encounter with a devilish person? This isn't about saving anyone, and it may seem like that the person giving the "advice" is approaching this problem from a higher moral ground, but it's not. they did encounter a "devilish" person. and there is most definitely a smugness from some people (in this case, RPers) when it comes to this subject and the victims. It's like someone getting a DUI. Sure, you didn't want to get a DUI, but if I leave you b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | A hypothetical for TBPno. it's not acceptable to put these restrictions on innocent women and women alone because of the actions of men. things need to change, but not like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 10:25 PM |
| 2 | A hypothetical for TBPshe could have also decided to stay home for life with the doors locked and windows boarded up with turrets installed on her house for anyone who walked too close to it. it seems like nothing short of that will excuse rape victims* for causing themselves to get raped (as they do, in the eyes of TRPers). *not denying the existence of male rape victims; the topic just seems to be about women in this instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:27 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?ooh, interesting field of study :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 09:05 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?i forgot they had made an anime; i'll have to watch it :) . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 08:11 PM |
| 7 | A hypothetical for TBPsigh... both of these things have been addressed time and time again, and having your car stolen is not the same as being raped. prevention and looking out for your safety is good, but it's not helpful to tell someone who's been raped what they could have done to prevent a rape that's already happened. it's also not helpful to say, "well, you know, if you didn't want to get raped you should have done this..." they know. you aren't saving them. they don't need you there to make them feel even wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 07:54 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?I've only played WoW for about a week while I lived with a friend, but for MMO I've put so many hours into GW2. I definitely play tons of PC games, maaaaybe even too many. i've never played GW2, but a lot of people i know really like it. i would probably play more PC games if i hadn't gotten so lazy about upgrading the hardware, honestly... haha. maybe i'll play more once i do, but i don't know when that will be. I don't think I've played any VNs myself but I've watched a couple let's plays of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 04:38 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?agreed. on top of that, and it might just be me, but a picture of a guy with his pet and a smile is already winning points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 04:18 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?my playlist was getting boring for today, and i feel like i need to jam out to NIN now. thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 04:05 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?I'm glad you think this is one of the best versions :) it's so easy to think that "the others" have such a different, maybe bad life in whatever way compared to you but whatever, we are all people in the end. It's fun reading through everyone's days and seeing how similar it all is haha. more proof of how boring that adult life i dreamed of as a teen is. haha (though it does have perks, i know...) What games do you like to play? i used to play a lot of PC games, but i've switched to more casual/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?a safe space from harassment? yes. harassment is even listed as a reason for reporting someone sitewide, so i guess you should stop using reddit entirely if it bothers you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 02:10 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?this is probably the best one of these threads, honestly... okay, here we go: 6:31 AM: wake up to my alarm. stay in bed for 10 minutes to really wake up, then go to the bathroom and see if my hair is too wild to leave curly for the day. if it is, straighten it. if it's not, go right to makeup (typically just foundation, mascara if i feel like it). drink a small protein shake if i'm feeling hungry. make sure the cat is fed. 7:15 AM: leave the house with husband on the way to work. he drives, we l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?it's not just "asking someone their biological sex". it's repeatedly asking, "do you have a vagina? do you?" and then flipping out and changing your flair to "Blue Pill Woman" when a mod tells you to quit. it's "jumping in" to white knight for your friend who got scolded by mods, to keep asking, asking, asking someone for details about their biological sex when it's not relevant to the discussion and they already stated they live as a woman. all of these things happened here; you're just late to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?oh, boy. what an argument that would have been :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?they stated the only thing that matters here: that they live as a woman. the question was disrespectfully asked, and a collective effort to invalidate and humiliate someone. they just got mad about it because their stupid little game didn't go as planned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?they ship themselves with them, just like girls do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?amazing how upset people get about just being told not to harass someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?ah, you're so lucky... my cat does like to lay on me so it is nice when i have cramps... but she violently attacks at even the slightest twitch of a foot. i so wish she was the type to just warm them, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Are Romance and Marriage Compatible?well, thinking of the sort of romance you have when you're dating... it keeps the closeness alive between the two of you. it's the 'love' part of marriage. i think if you're going to continue working to take on challenges and life together, that's really, really important. the opposite to me sounds cold, or worse, resentful. then again, i actually married for love, basically, so it might be more important to me than other people in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?I've noticed that people (men and women both) usually do things like that more to girls who aren't necessarily the hottest, but a combination of cute and friendly. One of my friends smiles at everyone and is really nice to every stranger. Even though she's not the cutest, I've seen her get free added stuff. i'm friendly, but also pretty reserved and shy, so maybe that's also a part of it. i have the option to give out perks at my job though, and niceness is definitely a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 08:52 PM |
| 4 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?i've probably gotten more benefit from this, than people giving me free things or perks, honestly. i don't really do it anymore, but i definitely played this up when i was younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?If a partner can't take a joke, they really need to examine why they are in a relationship. when were we even talking about jokes? and no one is obligated to accept being made fun of by another person, no matter who it is (least of all to satisfy you). Partners don't need to share all interests. Hope typical of a feminist to pick an extreme position. i'm not saying they need to share all interests, or picking an extreme position; i'm the one who said this, after all: i definitely don't need a bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?... several women have already said that they got 'special treatment'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 07:36 PM |
| 14 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?talked a beta into signing a contract and now he makes me dinner, buys me drinks, and drives me places whenever i say so. but in all seriousness, probably something like a free pastry or coffee add-in. i'm not unattractive but i don't think i've ever fit the description of 'hot girl' so maybe i don't get that as much as women who do. i'm cute, but not really hot. i don't really go places alone either, or to a lot of places where i'd get a 'perk' for being either hot or cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Are Romance and Marriage Compatible?don't see why not. IMO, a good marriage involves romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?I didn't think it was necessary to say "in my opinion" before every statement I make on this sub. It is obviously just an opinion, as I have already stated "I have my own metrics." actually, this is what you said: The reality is that practically no women have predominantly male interests. When they do, it isn't the way men want it to be. Like how geek girls are more into the cosplay and collecting plush toys than they are into buying comics on Wednesdays, or like how a gamer girl only plays Nint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?I have my own metrics for what a hardcore gamer is that of course cannot be the definitive idea. I would love to say only owning a Wii U makes you casual, but surely someone has spent 300 hours making a level in Mario Maker...I would have to take it on a case by case basis. But generally, most people who own a Wii U aren't even playing it much at all given their sales numbers. you're presenting your opinion as fact, though, which is the problem. i don't see how sales numbers for the Wii U would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?Look, I don't even consider myself hardcore anymore. I only have a PS4 and I don't get a platinum trophy on any of my games. I am not proposing that there is any real metric for what "hardcore" even means anymore. so you can't even define hardcore, but you're defending it and excluding people from that group? Anyway, I am confident that anyone who at least considers theirself a gamer of any stripe would not call someone who only has a Wii a hardcore gamer. some of those Mario maker courses were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?it doesn't matter. you're dismissing a lot of really popular things that men and women worldwide enjoy, games with a long history that come with plenty of challenges and playtime, just because you don't feel like it's 'hardcore'. it's incredibly foolish, and the only people who call themselves hardcore gamers now are doing it in an attempt to assert some sort of superiority over others, to make sure everyone knows how good and impressive they are (instead of just being those things). but, hey. f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Feminist Media and How it [doesn't] Portray Fathersof course not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?If you are that addicted to validation that you can't consider gender differences when someone says that, then maybe you don't belong in a relationship. You should get a secretary yes man instead. i don't think hobbies are restricted by gender, but even if they were, it's not a license to be an asshole to someone else about what they like (man or woman). it's not about validation, it's about not being married to someone who ridicules me, or that i'm constantly having to justify my interests to. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Feminist Media and How it [doesn't] Portray Fatherscan't be out-alpha'd by good ol' dad, though. (seriously, what a gross idea. wtg RPers.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?aren't RPers the ones going on about how a married couple is supposed to be a single unit? you're in one of the most intimate relationships of your life, spending an amount of time together that most people haven't experienced since living with their families when they were younger. of course you're going to want some compatibility or at least consideration instead of someone who laughs at your interests and calls them stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?What do you mean 'only have a Nintendo?'. right? i mean, most of the 'original' and most popular videogames are from Nintendo (not to mention how hard some of those games were, with minimal sources for hints if you ran into a problem). if you want to make fun of the Wii or Nintendo because it's not rife with cookie-cutter military shooting games, then fine, but you're just going to look like a fool if you scoff at Nintendo and go on about how it's not for 'real' gamers. i don't think much of mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Feminist Media and How it [doesn't] Portray FathersThe first issue is you're confusing 'shows that have male characters who happen to be bad or have done wrong' with 'feminist media'. pretty much what i thought, when i was done reading this. and, while i've only seen one of these (Supergirl), Kara's Earth dad is pretty highly revered and loved even though he's dead, and in fact, avenging him/investigating his death is one of her driving forces for a good portion of the show. dead parents/orphanhood is really common with superhero stuff and it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Blue pillers: why would a married woman cheat on her successful dentist husband, for a meth addicted wife beater?No one said this confirmed TRP. ... yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 01:50 PM |
| 2 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?not all of us; extroverts are exhausting to me, and others have expressed the same sentiment here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Blue pillers: why would a married woman cheat on her successful dentist husband, for a meth addicted wife beater?this also doesn't happen all the time, but TRPers conveniently gloss over that and choose only to expect and prepare as if you'll 100% only experience the scenarios like the one in the OP regardless of the woman, and then argue violently against anyone who tries to help you take a more moderate view/approach. it's not the brilliant set of ideas you think it is; it's pretty foolish, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:49 AM |
| 1 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?This is 100% maybe just a personal bias, but I would advise men not to hit on girls at book shops at random. i'd imagine a shy guy wouldn't do that anyway, or at least that's what i had in mind. i didn't mean "hit on" by "strike up conversation", i meant have an actual conversation. i don't think hitting on shy girls is the way to go; getting to know them is. that's what makes dating in your friend group really great, but it's not helpful if you're not into someone in your friend group and i don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:43 AM |
| 9 | Why do men belittle ‘stereotypically female’ hobbies and traits while still saying they want ‘traditionally feminine’ women?because no one wants to deal with the resulting tantrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 03:56 AM |
| 3 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?the internet, or maybe a coffee/book shop or other place where you might find someone with similar interests. i suppose that's stereotyping shy people a bit, but as a shy person myself, i love going to those places and it helps to have things at hand to talk about when i'm unable to easily strike up conversations on my own, without that sort of help/boost. i've never done them myself, but there might be some good meetups to check out too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Is being a male virgin really such a weird, strange thing? {Male, 26}i think it's unusual, but not weird (which has a more negative connotation, i think). it's good that you know your reasons, though, and that you seem to live a full, happy life. there are assholes who will always make fun of virgins, and say the things in the articles you mentioned; sadly, there's no avoiding it, and this is true about pretty much everything (someone, somewhere, will hate you for x thing no matter what). if you're comfortable and you're okay with it, i think that's most importan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 02:30 AM |
| 1 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingyes, i'm sure there are no possible negative consequences that could come from just putting your hands around a woman's neck suddenly. well done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?"no" is pretty much as clear and unambiguous as it gets. there's no confusion about what this word means, i hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?cry more about the male struggle of having to accept "no". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?I don't what? I don't have to take risks? what does a guy trying to identify shit-tests have to do with "shifting responsibility"? oh, you're doing this now. if you're just going to play stupid, i'm done. you don't have to take risks. men don't have to take risks. you, and other men, do not get to assign a value or validity to a woman's "no". she does. if you just go about your business anyway, then you are a rapist. simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?not really. you'd like to think so, but no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?sigh again what about shit-testing? You're either deluding yourself into believing it doesn't happen or you are deliberately trying to deny it because you know there's a ring of truth to it. i've said in the past that there probably are women who test, and that they should be avoided (because there are plenty of women who don't). i'm hesitant to bring it up that way, though, because the immediate response (which i expect from you as well) is "see!! women do it! i'm right and 'no' doesn't matter!… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?only considering those who agree with you to be reasonable. how unexpected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?I thought the whole point of the repeating is because she's too timid to get the point across, or she's indecisive. i was talking about my own repetition of "it's not up to you to decide when or if the 'no' matters" which you still don't understand. I don't think he get what I'm saying. I'm talking about her and what she wants or doesn't want. In this context we already know what the guy wants - sex, and we know he's willing to push his luck and the luck pushing is the problem. that's what needs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 04:28 PM |
| 6 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingit's no one's problem that you haven't bothered to discover smoother ways of doing this. you could ask, though, if you can stop thinking of it as being beneath you for a moment. whenever it comes up, people here are always willing to provide examples and ways to confirm consent without making it awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?If women are saying 'no' and it's not a shit-test, then she needs to make that 'no' into a 'No' and get the point across that the guy needs to back off. ... so repeating it didn't make it sink in, then. no is no, the end. If that means coming off as a rude bitch or whatever then so be it. If she means no but is saying 'no' very meekly and without much firmness and the guy is pushing his luck thinking she's shit-testing...nothing good will come out of it. i agree that nothing good will come out o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?No. In one scenario a woman was clearly unconscious and could not give any consent whatsoever. That's not the same as a woman who's conscious, says "no" but is too timid/weak and so "consents" to sex by submitting. no = not consenting. that's it. like i said, very simple (especially when it comes to a more timid person). I'm not saying men should get a pass. I'm saying they shouldn't be called rapists when the situation that occurred didn't warrant them being rapists. if you proceed to have sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?Good grief the amount of hamstering here is astonishing...being a responsible adult and having the common sense to look out for certain things in order to prevent certain things, makes the person suggesting those things a "rape apologist". is that what i quoted? because in both scenarios, men were forcing themselves on women who didn't consent. Unbelievable. Not an ounce of introspection. Why do so many people feel women should get a pass for every thing they do no matter how stupid or irrespons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Does the "rape culture" debate give TRP validity that women are essentially children who need their hands held and who irresponsibly put themselves into compromising situations?Seriously, that right there is a great example of real rape...notice how it's a different situation from a girl who's conscious who's saying "no" but isn't being firm enough for him to take her seriously and so she gets "raped". just saying... comments and ideas like this are probably why you're being called a rape apologist (and as it's starting to seem, rightfully so). both of these situations are rape. it's not the guy's place to decide if the 'no' he's getting is legitimate or not. you get a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 12:56 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?I'm also looking at the tone and bias of mainstream media outlets; my opinion is that they tend to be favorable to feminist views. and there's the reason for the impasse, because with that kind of thinking you can just dismiss anything you don't like or personally agree with as feminist-slanted whether or not it's true. there is nothing that could compete with that if you choose not to believe it because reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?I'm thinking more about articles that, for example, pooh-pooh concerns about false rape accusations, or use inflated, highly dubious numbers about the prevalence of rape, articles that call for, advocate, defend, or demand affirmative (or enthusiastic affirmative) consent to be the default standard, articles that support the April 4th Directive/campus rape tribunals, etc. along with the generally sympathetic treatment of rape victims and generally unsympathetic treatment (read: demonization, con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?yes, i said maybe, and then expanded on that. go read. i'm not going to bother continuing with this if you aren't even reading the comments of people you reply to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?please read my first comment, stop making up things and claiming i said them, and calm down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?at an impasse, probably. i'm not sure what a news article claiming the opposite would look like though, especially when it comes to real-life incidents being reported on. it seems most likely to be someone's personal opinion of another individual's actual life experience, which isn't worth much if the incident being described actually took place and is real (as they typically are). i'm not going to consider some manosphere schmuck's diatribe about a person's account of what happened to them equa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 09:35 PM |
| 3 | What is 'rape culture'?even in recent news, so many of the stories about brock turner led with his athletic status/records, and that his victim was super duper intoxicated, silly girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?I question on what basis you make that claim. personal experience + news + commentary from people across the nation. people talking about it, the main way that people learn about things happening to other people that aren't physically around them. I would also point out that we should differentiate between what individuals or small groups believe and what the overarching cultural zeitgeist is. i don't disagree but what i described seems pretty overarching to me, given that, as i said, it happens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?Here be trolls. and people with twisted, negative views of women. outside of here, even just being a resident of a particularly conservative or religious area can result in some of the same thinking, though probably less hateful. Describe to me, in real life, the men you have spoken to face-to-face who tell you that a man just can't prevent himself from raping somebody. way to totally change what i said to one, single extreme that isn't even what i was referring to. No man has ever said or impli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?If those views were widespread, it was kept away from me somehow. must have been, because it still happens all the time (even... here. seriously, how are you not seeing it). if it's not said outright, it's implied plenty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 08:37 PM |
| 0 | What is 'rape culture'?okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 0 | What is 'rape culture'?i don't live in the UK so i can't speak from experience, but i don't doubt there are people who would disagree with you, as i wouldn't expect this to be something confined to the United States. perhaps someone who does live in the UK can chime in, though; maybe i'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 08:15 PM |
| 2 | What is 'rape culture'?because the things i mentioned are really common across the United States, and are even written into rules governing girls and women (like dress codes). i already said i don't use rape culture though, so maybe those people saying it mean something else; what i said in my original comment is how i would define it, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What is 'rape culture'?if x is a main culture of an area, then you are living in x culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 07:31 PM |
| 2 | What is 'rape culture'?if there are areas where those ideas are widespread (like the ones i mentioned above) then those cultures are present there. i see a lot more anti-immigration than active, separate white supremacy though, so the degree/spread of those beliefs really does matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 07:06 PM |
| 3 | What is 'rape culture'?maybe? i don't personally use that term because it's broad, and controversial (which can be a real problem if you're trying to have an actual discussion). but if we're using culture to mean "ideas and values of a people" then yes, i suppose we do, since the ideas above still exist and are prevalent in a lot of places. it's changing. it's getting better. but we still have a ways to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 06:45 PM |
| 3 | What is 'rape culture'?there are probably many ways to define it but... a culture where women are still held responsible, almost solely, for their rapes, assaults, or any sexual attention that they receive. women shouldn't ever be in the presence of strangers, especially if they're men. girls shouldn't wear anything above the knee, with straps, or even just a slight v-neck in school so that boys aren't distracted or harassing her. women need to stop being drunk around those athletes so they can stay out of trouble and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.you can easily not want to do something, and still do it; this doesn't hold up. she indicated in her post that she didn't want to, though, so that's why people in this thread are going with that (while acknowledging that the guy probably wasn't aware of that). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.if you consider a kiss the same as starting to make out and make no distinction from it, then i suppose it would be, but i think of making out as something different than just kissing (even though there's overlap). elsewhere in this thread, the same commenter says the girl was woken from her sleep with a guy forcing his tongue into your mouth which is also more than just a kiss, and something a person would specify given the increased contact and intensity of such a thing, don't you think? (i do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Do you carry any kind of self defense aids? Why or why not?i've never seen BPers claim that it happens to every single woman without exception; just that it is a common response for both men and women (which, it is). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Do you carry any kind of self defense aids? Why or why not?that's typically what fight or flight means, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you carry any kind of self defense aids? Why or why not?do you carry anything? nope, despite being raised by a gun/hunting enthusiast (my sister and i were scolded for even being in the closet with the gun safe when we were children). but i also don't really go anywhere alone, or particularly dangerous. What are your thoughts about carrying self defense aids in general? seems wise; honestly, i probably should. i don't know if i would freeze in fear or react too slowly to use it when i needed to; i just might. but it's probably better to not be left w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.you and a few others are saying, throughout this whole thread, that she was totally asleep and he was shoving his tongue down her throat, talking about 'laying on top of her' as if it was 'pinning her down', and so on. there's nothing saying either of those things in the OP, if it's quoted as written (i'll look at the original thread in a moment). i already think this is a poor example of rape culture, and these exaggerations aren't helping; they're just putting people off who might actually agr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.there's nothing saying he 'started making out with her' in the OP. please stop saying that; it's dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.I knew it was weird, but I didn't want to be a rape victim yes, she says it was weird. i don't think she was lying about how she felt or was trying to 'trap' him, but i still don't see a present threat from her description of the situation. he didn't make out with her, according to the quotes in the OP; he kissed her, and she kissed back. she didn't say she was asleep; she said that's what she was trying to do. he didn't just stumble upon a sleeping girl and try to force himself on her; she laid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Rape Culture and the anatomy of a regret rape case.he should have just left her alone when she said no, or at least have considered it before making out with her. i hope that she's okay, and/or finding a way to deal with what happened. but... from the story, i don't get the sense that she was threatened or incapable of 'fighting back', or something just seems like it's missing (perhaps it was just the wording, though). when threads come up here asking how a guy can tell that she's into it or consenting without asking every thirty seconds, respon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | The stepford wives might actually happeni wonder if this was just a fun thread to try and prompt nutty comments like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Why do some RP feel the need to control women?seems like a good way to get poisoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Why do some RP feel the need to control women?oh, goodness. haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 09:36 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's no such thing as too old or too youngoften, too young = we don't have enough in common, though i guess they are likely to have crappier jobs too, depending on the age gap. there's a significant age difference between my husband and i so even though we share a lot of interests, there are still some things that we remember or experiences differently. too young or too old is a thing, even if it also means some of the things you mentioned. unless it was a really young guy though, i don't know why anyone would say something about body d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Why do some RP feel the need to control women?I wish it wasn't true, but I can't change anything about it. this doesn't help you, support classes are better off alone than tanks (by design), and making infidelity punishable means men can't cheat either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 08:39 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.so then you don't really know either, and instead claim to, because it makes you feel better to believe everyone's "on your side". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 06:15 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.well, it is. the only ones desperate to take it seriously are TRPers. it's okay to live life without always having an appointed archenemy, you know. you can enjoy it sometimes (preferably most of the time). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Married people: what is something none of the pills seem to grasp about marriage?i feel like most of what BPers/non-red pillers talk about here matches my experience. but, i think sometimes that group might leave out the more problematic parts of marriage when isn't the main topic, because it's either obvious that it exists when not spoken about or because they choose to focus on the positive aspects of the relationships as much as possible because that's what really matters (i'm guilty of it too). i can see how, for some, that would make it seem like it's effortless when it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Why do some RP feel the need to control women?We're fucked, we're cucked. this should be their new subreddit slogan. there could even be shirts! and hats! but in regard to the OP, it seems to be at least one of three things, if not a mix: 1) they don't think they're "good" enough for women to voluntarily sleep with them. 2) they actually aren't "good" enough for women to voluntarily want to sleep with them. 3) they have a skewed view of women and themselves, and therefore believe that they are owed things which they are not. i get the frust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 02:11 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.the comments i saw were also joking. this is just another example of people not getting it and then crying about it when it wasn't for them anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 01:36 PM |
| 3 | [Serious] Q4W How does it feel knowing that seduction of your gender to have sex with men reduces down to very basic canned lines and quotes anyone can use?normal male sexuality. Anyone who would think less of him for being like that is obviously very poorly informed about reality. no, most men are not like this. even with your completely unnecessary and thinly veiled insult... no. But just as about 10% of men are gay, probably a similar percentage have the muted, frail type of sexuality you describe. i didn't say anything about muted or frail, just not being an out of control buffoon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 01:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP comes from mommy issuesin the interest of keeping this subreddit a pleasant place... it's best to report things if you think they break the rules; mods can't always read and monitor a thread, but they address reports pretty frequently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 04:43 AM |
| 3 | [Serious] Q4W How does it feel knowing that seduction of your gender to have sex with men reduces down to very basic canned lines and quotes anyone can use?interesting; i feel like i've only seen that in entertainment... i didn't know if it was just a stereotype, but... perhaps not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 07:27 PM |
| 4 | [Serious] Q4W How does it feel knowing that seduction of your gender to have sex with men reduces down to very basic canned lines and quotes anyone can use?if you see the report link, you have the ability to report it. you admitted to having a lack of control when it comes to attractive women though; they're not attacking you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 06:14 PM |
| 4 | [Serious] Q4W How does it feel knowing that seduction of your gender to have sex with men reduces down to very basic canned lines and quotes anyone can use?really... i might be in the minority on this one, but even on Captain America it seems like overkill and just, doesn't look good to me. it seems like something only guys trying to show off really hard do... my tattoo artist is really muscular and it doesn't bother me at all (though he's a huggy guy, and realizing how small i am in comparison is always funny). he dresses in clothes that are tailored though, not tight, and his level of fitness is still obvious. he's not my type, but the guy always… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 06:13 PM |
| 4 | [Serious] Q4W How does it feel knowing that seduction of your gender to have sex with men reduces down to very basic canned lines and quotes anyone can use?your OP and following comments are not in good faith; you don't get to ask for what you won't give. i stand by the label i gave it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 12:30 PM |
| 4 | [Serious] Q4W How does it feel knowing that seduction of your gender to have sex with men reduces down to very basic canned lines and quotes anyone can use?this seems like personal fantasy. in that hypothetical world, i probably wouldn't care or try to do anything. after all. why would i? but fantasy, that's all it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/16 04:55 AM |
| -1 | How common/rare are false rape accusations?i misread; i thought your first response was giving a reason for the comment removal since my edit had mentioned that. it was the same text, just not posted to automod. i've since deleted it myself and reposted (since i thought something was wrong) but it definitely wasn't appearing before; i don't know why. that's a generous interpretation of a nothing comment (four words, really?) from someone who doesn't really engage in good faith here, ever, but... okay. i guess that's allowed after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/16 07:22 PM |
| 1 | How common/rare are false rape accusations?i didn't realize it was a debate thread, since this type of subject seems to usually be flaired as a discussion instead. if it was removed for being wrong for the thread, i get it; i just think a heads up would be nice. but... the top comment in this thread somehow is allowed to stay when it's pretty much just circlejerking by saying all rape accusations are false to win some upvotes. if this thread is being moderated more strictly in order to be fair and focused, i'd hope that comments like tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/16 07:00 PM |
| 0 | How common/rare are false rape accusations?it sounds like you're paranoid as a result of reading too many stories online, as you've suggested (especially if you follow it up with reading comment chains over at TRP). i don't have statistics, but i seriously doubt it's that common, given how little i hear about it. edit: it would be great to get a heads up if a thread flair changed or my comment was removed, instead of just having it disappear (especially when comments saying far less haven't been removed). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/16 06:34 PM |
| 2 | why do women hate or are uncomfortable with the idea of prostitution and with the idea of their partner having past experiences with prostitutes?why do you hate men so much you would deny them that /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/16 10:30 PM |
| 2 | why do women hate or are uncomfortable with the idea of prostitution and with the idea of their partner having past experiences with prostitutes?he doesn't have to stay, though. he neither has to stay, nor suppress anything. sweet, sweet freedom, to go find someone he's actually compatible with. really, only a red piller would make this out to be a "poor men :(" thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | why do women hate or are uncomfortable with the idea of prostitution and with the idea of their partner having past experiences with prostitutes?for me... the exploitation and poor conditions that prostitution can involve, and the kind of regard for sex that a person who sees a prostitute might have. i've never thought of people who see prostitutes as solely being those who need to do it (though i haven't thought of it much at all), so the 'ew, desperate guy couldn't get laid on his own' hasn't really been part of it for me. it just seemed like another thing that some people that i don't know do and enjoy; awesome for them, not my thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/16 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Which one of these scenarios best represents equality?which is the only reason i even tried to work with it. but as i said, it cannot be used as an analogy for all things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/16 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Which one of these scenarios best represents equality?i'm not sure this is comparable since sports =/= other real life things, but getting as close to real life as possible... 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/16 12:37 PM |
| 8 | [Discussion] Has a RPer ever actually harmed someone because of his beliefs?there are also red pill men that feel the need to take vengeance against women for wrongs they feel that woman have committed towards them as a whole. or red pill men that enjoy feeling in control of women by hurting them, taking away from them. or men who 'push through LMR' and 'go for it, no questions asked' while also claiming to fear 'false' rape accusations. i have no doubt that red pill beliefs have led men (or women) to hurt other people. you're painting them in the best possible light to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 11:19 PM |
| 10 | What r/thebluepill is aboutif i remember right, there are sheltered and privileged RPers/RPW too, men and women who also don't hesitate to express their dislike for feminism and those who believe in it ("people who don't think like them"). if it's true about TBPers, it's most certainly true about TRPers too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 10:21 PM |
| 3 | All Male High School opens in Washington D.C.It seems likely that there would not be such a strong opposition were the genders reversed here. i don't think that's true, barring the opinions of extremists. i wouldn't like it any more or less. haven't boys and girls schools been a thing for a long time? i thought most of them were private, but judging by the comments here, others know of public ones too. i don't think there should automatically be a girls school just because there's a boys school, but in this specific situation, if there are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What are some truths about male nature?i almost wonder if facilitated topic phases would prevent some of those broken-record topics from coming up. probably not... but a girl can dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 07:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most women are more or less asexual, putting up with sex only to secure a good husband.so many chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 07:11 PM |
| 6 | CMV - People from /r/TBP are mostly simple internet trolls.i can read the thread flair/subject; you said TBPers were challenged by the "argument" above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 02:35 AM |
| 4 | CMV - People from /r/TBP are mostly simple internet trolls.that they have no redeeming purpose and only exist to spew scorne, sarcasm, ridicule, etc. towards people who are trying to better themselves not much of an argument, and unlikely to be true. i'm not surprised someone would object to another person saying that about them. and, let's not pretend that they're going into subs about, say, people who have lost their pets or suffer from anxiety/depression and laughing about people sharing their thoughts there and trying to find a way out of the darkne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/16 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Is this supposed to be funny?i'll have to read the original thread to be sure... but judging by this post, it looks to have done what it was likely intended to do. the person you mentioned getting downvoted is pretty clearly the alt of some sort of manospherian who chooses to hang out there, too. edit: took just a glance over it and... yup. kudos to that OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/16 09:43 PM |
| 5 | CMV How would you even know IF anyone follows TRP?this. i might not know whether or not he subscribes to the sub, but their thoughts, methods, and opinions are out there for all to see (and it's not what i'm into). so, that, i would recognize. the mindset and general attitude, not his subscriber status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/16 09:30 PM |
| 7 | What are some examples in movies of RP relationships?only the parts of the movie i like are real and anyone who likes or claims to have experienced the rest of it are brainwashed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/16 12:40 PM |
| 2 | What are some examples in movies of RP relationships?aggressively forward even your description is of a pretty forward guy. i love that movie, but it's just a movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/16 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Why marry a RPer?most TRPers maybe you are lying, maybe you aren't. a lot of TRPers do, though. it's made clear either by their own admission, or just their lack of skill at it. i don't doubt there are many who manage to tell reasonable lies that no one would second guess, yet still can't prove. it's reddit, it happens, and the sub is filled with guys all trying to one up each other or prove their authority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Why marry a RPer?it sounds like the lies they say everyone else tells themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Why marry a RPer?so, imaginary at best. cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 07:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRPs generalizations are proof that it doesn't work on mature womenthis isn't the evidence she said she'd like to see, and you're just making statements; not including anything to back them up (even if this actually was related to her comment). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Why marry a RPer?neither will most TRPers, if any; even they admit their stories are made up, and they're there because of a lack of success in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Why marry a RPer?... yet, they'll still scramble to claim how great they are as partners, as shown in this thread... silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 05:49 PM |
| -1 | Why marry a RPer?way to prove her point. also, jackhammering is not great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Is Ryan Lochte an asshole?yes. i thought he was an idiot even before this incident. i don't think he's cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 12:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV: People's physical appearance (SMV) Often Displays Their Value as a Human Beingif this were true, then it would mean that Chad actually is a great, wholesome guy, TRPers weren't actually 'lied to', and no one should be mad about anything. someone's appearance can convey things about who they are as a person, but not to the degree laid out in the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/16 12:18 AM |
| 6 | CMV: People's physical appearance (SMV) Often Displays Their Value as a Human Beinggreat way to respond to comments in a CMV. really showing your interest in listening to and acknowledging other people here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/16 11:55 PM |
| 6 | CMV: People's physical appearance (SMV) Often Displays Their Value as a Human Beingno, not wrath. not pride. just an unfortunate thing. as for me, i got it from my dad. someone can have a 'bitch face' if they're wrathful, or prideful. but that's actually how they are, being reflected in their expression. 'resting bitch face' is not that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/16 11:49 PM |
| 6 | CMV: People's physical appearance (SMV) Often Displays Their Value as a Human BeingThe sin of pride manifests itself as the exceedingly unattractive "Resting Bitch Face" if i was feeling proud, i'd be smiling or possibly smirking, not just resting my face in a way that looks serious or mean but actually isn't. it's fine to not like it, but it's not about pride. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/16 11:27 PM |
| 6 | What would you assume to be the issue if a man were to come to you and say, "I'm pursuing women in a socially acceptable way and I have normal social habits, but I am unable to find a date or gf."?he's not being as normal as he thinks, his interest isn't coming across, their interest isn't coming across, or he's approaching women who aren't compatible, or aren't looking for what he's looking for. it's also possible he's just unattractive, but i'd assume that last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/16 11:56 PM |
| 7 | SAHM's work hardThat's not work, though. That's spending time with your kids there's no reason something you want to do can't also be taxing, time-consuming, tiring (lift all the time, right?). it's pretty inaccurate to say that just because a parent enjoys spending time with their kids, it's not hard work. it absolutely is. i have an easier time doing my job in the office than i do watching just one child (let alone two or three). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/16 07:31 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The reasons there's an incel epidemic now is because men aren't men anymoreits confusing for women, in one sense society is rewarding them but in the other sense their instincts are conflicting against their observed realities, telling them it's not supposed to be like this. I'm not a woman you can answer that. i'm talking about how women are supposed to feel in this proposed reality, not how they do now. and if you're going to speculate on it initially, i'm not going to accept 'idk, not a woman' as an answer when someone asks you questions about it. because what you s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/16 04:34 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The reasons there's an incel epidemic now is because men aren't men anymorewomen on a primal instinctual level are attracted to violent men women will not like this because they will not be swamped with romantic offers like they are now pretending this is true... is this good, or isn't it? will women like it, or won't they? i don't think a violent or lawless society has any place here today. i don't think there's an instinctual attraction to violence, and it seems unlikely that many would want to bring children into such a world. i certainly wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/16 04:08 PM |
| 2 | RP Theory of Women as Parasites and Men as Workers/Hosts versus Reality and Historythe article is kind of long, and there's no way i, or most people, will go through all the links provided in other comments. can you summarize some of it in the OP for insight/discussion? as it is now, i'm not really sure what we're supposed to discuss beyond 'women aren't worthless, as TRP insists' (which most already know). edit: i was surprised at how reasonable some of those comments were... but it seems they weren't from TRPers. ah well... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/16 03:16 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill and Churchi interpreted "you need to leave" as "you need to leave the church/this situation" (but i could be wrong). if she's being serious, then that does sound like a pretty risky situation. if she's trolling, then the church doesn't even exist and there's nothing there to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Why I'm not a red pill woman... to gloat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Why I'm not a red pill womanIt's not that I'm not assertive, it's just that there's not a whole lot that upsets me or that I feel the need to get dominant about. counting myself into this group... i was actually kind of worried in the first stages of my relationship with my husband when we were dating, since fights almost seemed essential and like a rite of passage or something (with the common statement being, "it's unhealthy not to have fights."). i think that can be true in some cases, but as it turns out... we just don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?you essentially called me a child who belongs in high school, and then complained about BPers with an 'argument' that can be summed up with "b-but they started it, mom!" okay, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Are women who have height requirements a minority?i've met maybe one or two people online with a specific height requirement. i've seen some here say that they just prefer the guy to be taller than them, which at 5'9" is pretty likely, still. i think for many that do have an aversion to it, height would become a lot less important if there were other things there to make up for it (cuteness and charm, basically). not all, of course, but many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Women categorize men solely on looks, this is what either makes a guy "creepy" or not. Personality comes second.whoa, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?If you're implying "full of shit" is a mean term, then no, it's not. Many people use profanity with their friends, or even in professional settings. this is neither setting. don't take this route. Using profanity after describing in detail how a person is being intentionally dishonest is fine. We're all adults here. yes, we're all adults who should be able to talk to each other without shouting 'you're full of shit!' when it's not needed. you'll notice that no one has addressed you that way, aft… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?i think we both know that simply 'pointing out someone being intentionally dishonest' isn't what i was talking about. pretty dishonest of you to suggest otherwise, no? :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?at this point, it would come down to discussing specific examples then, because i don't see it that often so i can't imagine what you're thinking of. we'll leave it at that, though; i really don't care if you agree with me or not and that's more time than i want to expend on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?Accusing someone of lying, being disingenuous, or being purposefully obtuse -- being full of shit -- is not an insult. but is it civil or helpful, or even necessary? and i didn't say it was an attack or insult, just that it was getting close and obviously heading that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?And yet blue pillers still insist that no, TRP is using words literally. They still insist on taking offense at stuff that the authors themselves say is written in a deliberately over-the-top manner. some do, some don't, some just object to different parts of it; there's more than a solitary way of complaining or criticizing that goes on. you're claiming to be well-versed in that criticism, so you should know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Go to Facebook messenger. Go to gifs. Type in "men". You see the third picture is "KILL ALL MEN". Is this acceptable? What could the implications of younger person be on their social perspectives?nah. that's for men, remember? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?any native speaker who claims ignorance is full of shit. and this is why i said to be careful, in the hopes of avoiding attacks and insults (which this is getting pretty close to). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?If TRP uses hyperbole, or uses a clickbait term, or makes a crude analogy, obviously their word choice is deliberate and they're obviously intending that word literally and it's clear that just the way they talk about women reveals their misogyny. TRPers say openly that they do this, intentionally, to upset people. if you don't like people pointing that out, take it up with TRPers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?This is intuitive to native English speakers. careful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?well in the end, they're hunting pictures too. inanimate. and if that's why hunting was used (which i don't believe)... it certainly seems to have worked on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?it's safe to assume the vast majority of people who go apartment hunting or job hunting are not trapping and killing in order to succeed. the men being described are also predators; don't call it 'the wrong word' just because it makes you uncomfortable. it is an apt word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 03:17 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadi didn't tag you, nor did i say you deleted your posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Go to Facebook messenger. Go to gifs. Type in "men". You see the third picture is "KILL ALL MEN". Is this acceptable? What could the implications of younger person be on their social perspectives?nah, but you can; this is your thing, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Men & boys hunting schoolgirls for child pornography site. Do you think that's acceptable?right? now let's ignore this useless subject, and focus on the real problem: facebook gifs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Go to Facebook messenger. Go to gifs. Type in "men". You see the third picture is "KILL ALL MEN". Is this acceptable? What could the implications of younger person be on their social perspectives?ha ha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Go to Facebook messenger. Go to gifs. Type in "men". You see the third picture is "KILL ALL MEN". Is this acceptable? What could the implications of younger person be on their social perspectives?you've gotta let that fantasy go sometime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 01:07 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadthis, i also agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 11:55 PM |
| 1 | New Mods Nomination ThreadI don't see any issue with the deleted comments, and don't see how they break any rules so our opinions differ; that's not a surprise. the comments were pointless goading of another commenter, and served no other purpose. i don't think someone who engages like that would make a good mod, or appropriately handle situations like that when they come up. All the more reason he should be mod, curb some of the pointless deletion that's rampant in PPD more personal opinion; we're on even ground. i don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | New Mods Nomination Threadwhich is why i said i would try to look later, since i was at the gym. just today, stuff deleted: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4y0a5l/members_of_the_opposite_sex_other_people_find_hot/d6jy4lz. none of this somehow revokes my entitlement to my opinion as to whether or not he would be a good mod though, so i don't know why you're getting rude about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 11:11 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadyes, the reporting system is very convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 10:29 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadthey've been deleted. i mean i can try to look later, but probably deleted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 10:17 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadmust be different experiences; i've seen enough name-calling and otherwise poor behavior to think it's a bad idea. nothing out of the norm for PPD but since we're talking about mods... people with better track records, even ones i don't personally agree with, have been mentioned, IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 10:16 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadi wouldn't trust him to be a fair or objective mod based on the way he engages with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 09:58 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadi second both of these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 09:56 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadplease, no, haha. i don't see that being a good outcome at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tdisgusting cucks!!!1 all of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'ti don't remember him in batman, but based on the pictures, totally prefer the batman one (though also, glasses). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tsome stranger who let you use their room for a few years. you seem pretty oblivious to how parenting typically works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'twho you are would have nothing to do with them. they're effectively strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tit's fun that you imagine your 'real' family will just welcome you with open arms and... what? make up for lost time? take care of a grown stranger? naive, and ungrateful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'ti also think amanda seyfried is really cool looking. unusual, for sure, but i think she's beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tI thought maybe it was Michele Pfeiffer same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tyou seem to care a lot, just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tsame. i think the first thing i saw him in was red eye... ? he still looked cute in inception, but the memes have kind of ruined that for me, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'talong the same lines of TW's response below; he had charisma and a way of carrying himself that made you notice. so if he maintained those things, he wouldn't go unnoticed; people like that are magnets. but if he simply looked like prince and wasn't like him in any other way, he would remain physically attractive but less fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'ti'm not /u/TW_CountryMusic but since i share the same opinion... i will say yesssss. prince would never be 'just some hipster', even as a non-famous non-musician sitting in a coffee shop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tyeah. i was going to say that i think he looks better a little scruffy, but i guess that's because that... diminishes the things that seem strange to me. clean cut though, it's just not... my thing. even though i like him otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tscritch yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tright? he's got my attention. i haven't seen him in much... but i loved swiss army man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'ti will admit, that is a nice picture. amazing hair, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tpeople like different things. ain't it great? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'talfie is cute :) i get steve buscemi, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tit really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'ti think he's cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tNot gonna fucking happen on my watch. you have zero control over it; it would be good to let go of whatever strange rage it's causing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'theh, i will probably think that from now on... i definitely see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'ti didn't know what he looked like until today but... he seems teddy-bear-ish; smiles do wonders (but to each their own). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'treally? that's sad... well, thank you for the heads up though; now i don't feel bad for not seeing it in theaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tHa, I agree with pretty much all of these. Although I thought Channing Tatum was cute in Hail Caesar. Maybe because of the dancing. oh, i never saw that. but, i remember wanting to... well, it's been rainy, so i have plenty of time to watch movies at home. Zayn from 1D is hot. The rest, meh. yeah, i somehow forgot about him... the rest, though, either too young, or bad choices. i love tattoos, but i'm picky as hell about them, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'ti like a lot of japanese actors; i discovered their stage plays, specifically surrounding games and anime, and... there's a whole lotta cuties there. but in terms of hollywood/otherwise popularish actors, i prefer actors like tom hiddleston, paul rudd, dane dehaan, christoph waltz, more-recent jon hamm, james spader, kevin corrigan, paul dano, weird al, even... that type. goofy, fun, quirky, nerdy, smart, or reasonably stylish (or any combo of those) guys get me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Members of the opposite sex other people find hot which you don'tChanning Tatum, though seeing him in The Hateful Eight changed that slightly. Chris Pine, too (though this portrayal still makes me laugh, especially compared to his more recent roles)... Clive Owen, though he doesn't seem popular anymore. Justin Bieber, i guess? don't know if people still think that. most, if not all, of One Direction. i think one of them maybe used to be cute, but then got a bunch of tattoos that to me, seemed pretty lame. also, Adam Levine. i used to think he was cute but he'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Selfless people have more sex, study findsthis seems like a "well obviously they're talking about alpha/Chad only" response, but most of these things are pretty easy for most people, and don't necessarily indicate that only the best of the best men are being discussed. = Rich Men, poor men can't hand out money you really don't have to be rich to do this. it can be as simple as giving $2 at a checkout for groceries or pet food or whatever. = Healthy men, unhealthy men aren't allowed to donate blood you also have to wait a certain period … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 01:40 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Finding your Niche Doesn’t Mean Worse Odds; It Means You're Focused, and That's an Important First Step.if you're defining masculine so loosely, it's no surprise that you believe all women are into masculine men. i don't think that's typically how people think about it, especially if they're not trying to convince people that everyone is secretly a part of their nutty ideology. it's like the same guys who label chad as 'guy who is washed, isn't deformed, manages putting on an averagely normal outfit and talks to girls sometimes (regardless of setting)'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/16 03:55 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Finding your Niche Doesn’t Mean Worse Odds; It Means You're Focused, and That's an Important First Step.Guarantee you on the inside these masculine guys think or operate the same as us. One of the first steps to becoming masculine is actually to realize that women are crazy. that has nothing to do with masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/16 03:51 PM |
| 3 | META: If being civil is our most prominent rule then we should refrain from using Red Pill buzzwords and Blue Pill mockery.red pillers seem hesitant to report things, though, either because they feel like reporting is 'wimpy' or whatever, or they feel like things that break rules shouldn't be against the rules, and therefore don't report them as some sort of rebellion against rules they don't like. i've seen mods advise red pillers to report people when they complain about stuff like this, but they argue and actively refuse to do so. i don't think anyone else feels that way about reporting though, so that's probably… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/16 03:47 PM |
| 5 | What caused unrealistic weight expectations people today?nah, /u/HigHog has it right. the rudeness is really the thing (and don't be so juvenile, you can control how you treat people, don't act like you can't). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/16 11:36 AM |
| 3 | META: If being civil is our most prominent rule then we should refrain from using Red Pill buzzwords and Blue Pill mockery.no, i don't often see BPers or non-redpillers act like that; most engage without resorting to that behavior. and the few that do typically don't stick around long (because they can do that at TBP so coming here would be pointless). there's no reason to take it personally unless you've been calling names in discussions like that. i mean, the story of my flair only really became clear because i said it; otherwise, you wouldn't have known. i don't really care if you think it's childish, and if i do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | META: If being civil is our most prominent rule then we should refrain from using Red Pill buzzwords and Blue Pill mockery.i'm referring to red pillers, who often resort to personally attacking and insulting those they don't agree with here simply for holding different views or having different experiences. my flair is not a personal attack in any way; i just chose to approach the insult with a sense of humor after the second or third time it happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | META: If being civil is our most prominent rule then we should refrain from using Red Pill buzzwords and Blue Pill mockery.then perhaps you should stop associating with people who act in the uncivil way you seem to despise, given that it was prompted by that group. i have no obligation to show special courtesy to those who can't at least avoid personal attacks in discussion, so you'll have to deal with the flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 10:03 PM |
| 6 | META: If being civil is our most prominent rule then we should refrain from using Red Pill buzzwords and Blue Pill mockery.i'm talking about people in this sub in general, not you or me specifically (especially since i don't downvote). don't be rude; making this a personal thing is unwise (and pretty uncivil, i gotta say). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 09:50 PM |
| 2 | META: If being civil is our most prominent rule then we should refrain from using Red Pill buzzwords and Blue Pill mockery.i don't know who downvoted you, but that's just the thing; it's done anonymously and there's really no way to identify downvoters or enforce the no-downvoting rule (and if you can get away with it without repercussions, why wouldn't you?). that won't change unless reddit's design does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?well, it's obvious; there are extra beautiful men and women. not all men manage to look like k-pop stars just like not all women manage to look like supermodels. some men and women can only do so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 08:02 PM |
| 6 | META: If being civil is our most prominent rule then we should refrain from using Red Pill buzzwords and Blue Pill mockery.but then how would i have gotten such a flair, if not for red pillers calling me a whore (or fat or ugly) when i say something they don't agree with? it's practically a rite of passage here these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?nah, you're just making stuff up. only you read it as entitlement, and the rest of your comment is just desperate grasping at straws. there's no recovering this time; just accept that you were wrong and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Promiscuity and Infidelityno. 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?nope, still not what she said. better learn to read if you plan on staying around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?that's nothing like what she said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?no, it doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?her opinion about how selective men are/were, and then a fact about her life. nothing about that shows entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?no, not really. in fact, i don't see how you made it to that conclusion from what she said at all. if you want to say something just say it, instead of trying to twist someone else's comments around to pave the way for you to share your own thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?stop. she's not outraged. she's just answering the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?yeah, lots of people are into games, including cute girls. the idea of it being only for men or ugly girls needs to fade away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 02:07 PM |
| 7 | Q4BP: do you think RP men are being disingenuous when they say they find the vast majority of young women attractive?this whole exchange is astounding... but it's always nice when they prove your point exactly, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What's your opinion on RPW and RPWi?yup. i don't think there's anything wrong with those who choose traditional relationships. but those who think themselves lesser when compared to men, don't go to college, don't travel abroad, and consider it an honor to sit next to a man who sits silently and 'allows' it (or advocate that for anyone else)? no, i don't think that's healthy or alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How can women think of themselves and like to be thought of, as capable and empowered and 'strong' and all that, yet they cannot approach a man romantically?yes! thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/16 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How can women think of themselves and like to be thought of, as capable and empowered and 'strong' and all that, yet they cannot approach a man romantically?there should definitely be a safe way to send pizza like this. like secret Santa, but pizza. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Who here rejects being on "team women" ?Most of the time successful men are going to be successful irrespective of who they happen to be married to, not because of who they are married to. ... but even having a spouse at home is taking things off his plate (assuming we're not just talking about the shitty spouses who are obviously shitty), allowing him to focus on 'the real things'. especially if that spouse gives up their dreams to take care of his. the only real way i see that not being a benefit to the man is if he wasn't all that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Who here rejects being on "team women" ?Even if the man makes millions? you really think being a SAHW is worth millions of dollars? Sign me up. i'm not advocating clearing out the guy's bank account and throwing him on the street. but if he was able to achieve his success because of what she gave up and the things she did, then no, i don't think it's unreasonable for her to request compensation for that. Aside from red pillers, they really dont. I haven't seen any women complain. you must not be looking very hard, then. First of all, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Who here rejects being on "team women" ?I'm a woman who rejects the idea of "team women". I'm wondering how many others are like me and what your reasonings are. i reject it just because i'm not on team woman or team man. in addition to being on team me (and my husband)... i'm either on team no one, or team everyone (depending on how you choose to look at it). I don't think a wife is entitled to half her mans shit, even if she was a SAHW with no income. It doesn't make sense to split it 50/50 in all cases. Even if she did "support" hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 04:07 PM |
| 25 | Q4Women: How can women think of themselves and like to be thought of, as capable and empowered and 'strong' and all that, yet they cannot approach a man romantically?you've forgotten: your penance for being a woman is to flatter and fuck at least one guy you're not attracted to per month, for humanity. (but don't tell anyone, they'll think you're a slut.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 02:39 PM |
| 8 | Q4Women: How can women think of themselves and like to be thought of, as capable and empowered and 'strong' and all that, yet they cannot approach a man romantically?they can be strong and empowered at different things, while having difficulty with others (strengths and weaknesses, just like real humans!). there's really nothing saying they can't either, and lots of women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?i mean, you've stated that yourself in past threads, and otherwise made your lack of regard for others clear. the anecdote added nothing to the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?i was going to be really surprised if you weren't Texan, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?we get it; you don't care about anyone but yourself. this was a worthless anecdote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?but god forbid they criticize his technique. you don't have to care about them to pick up on very obvious body language, but if you can't even employ some basic courtesy towards others you'll be less perceptive (because you don't care) and pretty unlikely to alter your behavior to their body language (again, because you don't care). it's not a good plan if you're actually trying to improve and become successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?if not that, what else does "just go for it, it's a numbers game, the worst thing that can happen (to you) is rejection" mean? it's not a strawman, this is what he's encouraging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 10:10 PM |
| -1 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?it's not just feminists who would be bothered by a guy who ran around approaching every woman he saw with no regard to how they might feel about his advances. for people that seem to despise the 'everyone's a winner' mentality, red pillers really push for men to be rewarded and babied just for 'trying'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?oh my god, people he hits on have opinions so he has to deal with the reality that not everyone cares about his love life or wants to deal with his advances? what a catastrophe. truly, how awful. people will react to what you do; that's life. being aware of their behavior and language (verbal or non-verbal) is key for being successful. give a shit about the people you're hitting on; it's not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What do you think about the narrative that you will be loved for your ínner beauty?yup :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: What do you think about the narrative that you will be loved for your ínner beauty?probably elementary school (4th grade, i think?) when i was rejected for the first time by a boy that i thought was cute, but hadn't seemed to consider me at all. it was a minor situation (turned down for a dance on valentine's day T-T haha) but i think that's when i started realizing it. then, being bullied by popular boys i hadn't done anything to or even talked to really drove it home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenright? on the off chance i see a cute kid and start having those 'maybe' thoughts, i remind myself of the cost and how much effort i already put into pet care. that, or i encounter a child screaming/running about at the store; that takes care of even minor thoughts about it real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenindeed; most do. so, it's likely only the women who find things like parenting and homemaking to be their passion would find that life fulfilling; most would need more. being second place to an alpha or whatever wouldn't be satisfying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 03:48 AM |
| 5 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenbut even then, you'd still be doing something other than parenthood that you find fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Why housewifery isn't enough for so many womenmakes sense. i don't think i know any mothers that aren't working mothers, or at least doing something in addition to being a parent. kids are expensive, and people typically want to do more than one thing with their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 01:29 AM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Trump and PPD conceptions of 'alpha'...Is Donald Trump an alpha male or not and depending on your answer, explain why. no. he really does seem childish, based on the things that he says to and about other people (particularly those he sees as threats or opponents). he also doesn't seem to put much thought into his words or actions, choosing to just be the loudest, most brash guy in the room to get attention instead. all around, the guy seems like an insufferable mess. Are the qualities of an alpha male external, internal or both (thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 12:24 AM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Trump and PPD conceptions of 'alpha'...i'm sure there are plenty who would consider a james bond type to be alpha as well, and he probably checks most of those boxes. i'll post something more in-depth in response to the thread later, but my idea of alpha is closer to yours than... trump (ha), or a thug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 08:55 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The exception fallacy is downright dangerous thinking.agreed; cute's not an insult. for some (like me) it's even better than just being some hot guy (but not if you're looking to never commit or build anything with someone). i still think cute can work in the favor of those seeking more casual encounters but, meh. no point to that argument, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Exceptions aren't really exceptionspretty boys are popular with a lot of women, and many of them possess physical traits that are often considered to be stereotypically feminine. chace crawford was really popular, as is chris evans, even. especially for chace, i would consider those lips and eyelashes to be more on the feminine side when it comes to traits (not to mention any aspects of their personalities that might be more feminine). john mayer probably met that description with his hair and facial features too, as i recall. sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 06:03 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The exception fallacy is downright dangerous thinking.i think shorter guys are actually kind of cute. but yes, obviously, if a guy has a nasty attitude, he'll stop being cute. if he has a cute face, he'll be cuter. i thought this was a well-established idea, that multiple things factor into attraction... it's also not a crime to appreciate both tall and short guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 12:35 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between Redpillwives and Redpillwomen?gasp the f word how offensive /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 04:29 AM |
| 2 | If it's perfectly reasonable for women to have fantasies about being raped, is it reasonable for men to have fantasies about being the rapist?I think there is also a big difference between someone fantasizing about a scene where they are the aggressor and fantasizing about actually hurting someone. i suppose; i've never really heard of a case where an aggressor didn't cause any damage or hurt so they don't seem separate to me, but i haven't really researched it either (not being into that kind of thing, and all). in any case, there's a lot of overlap there. At the same time, I think that someone who is not fantasizing about a scene or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 04:27 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between Redpillwives and Redpillwomen?three letters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 01:31 AM |
| 2 | If it's perfectly reasonable for women to have fantasies about being raped, is it reasonable for men to have fantasies about being the rapist?probably not as strongly; it really depends. as others have stated, there's a difference between fantasizing about hurting people, and fantasizing about being hurt. i think it's also important to make a distinction between a rape fantasy and simply a desire to have really passionate spontaneous sex with someone; i feel like these are sometimes equated, but they're not really the same thing. but even though my objections to anyone having a rape fantasy where they're the victim would be less stron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/16 01:07 AM |
| 8 | If it's perfectly reasonable for women to have fantasies about being raped, is it reasonable for men to have fantasies about being the rapist?if it remains a fantasy (or is only acted out with an aware and willing partner, after talking it out, etc. etc.) then i don't see the problem with someone having that fantasy. i would want that person far far away from me... but they are free to fantasize as they please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 11:33 PM |
| 4 | CMV: It isn't RP that offends BP - what really offends BP is the existence of the discussion itself.you wouldn't need to ask if you were actually reading and not just screaming at people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Did Melania marry Donald for his money? Is there real love there?any way you can try to spin it, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Exceptions aren't really exceptionsthe two types of men in the first set of photos are wildly different, and there's a lot of variations between the men in all of the pictures. beyond a few basics that are pretty easily assumed, what people find attractive varies a lot. suggesting that men and women are attracted to varying things is not some sneaky conspiracy to convince people that being unwashed and not taking care of yourself is okay or celebrated. it's not saying looks don't matter at all, and have no effect on your success … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 05:07 PM |
| 7 | CMV: It isn't RP that offends BP - what really offends BP is the existence of the discussion itself.and still, refusing to respond to the actual points made by /u/SkinnySweaty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 04:50 PM |
| 1 | A low-value guy dating low-value women as "stepping stones" to improve and eventually upgrade to higher-value women. Legitimate method of self-improvement or abusively "using" unattractive girls?indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | A low-value guy dating low-value women as "stepping stones" to improve and eventually upgrade to higher-value women. Legitimate method of self-improvement or abusively "using" unattractive girls?It's the upshot from statements like "Just be yourself" and the ideas that using heuristics (like AWALT) and modifying one's behavior to get better results in the mating game ("game") are manipulative, bad, immoral, and not kosher. You see a great deal of this from BP posters here. no, i've really never seen that, and i think you're severely misunderstanding people here if that's what you believe. if you act in a way that is actively and intentionally harmful to others, that is looked down on pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 01:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Exceptions aren't really exceptionsnope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Did Melania marry Donald for his money? Is there real love there?oh, don't be like that. shouldn't you be cheering? a woman is being called out for likely including money as one of the benefits of marrying a guy, who isn't even attractive. go shout it from the rooftops buddy; you win this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Do women life life on "easy mode"?red pillers are particularly obsessed with sex. lots of men aren't, while still managing to enjoy and have interest in it. those without red pill blinders on see this clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 02:15 AM |
| 4 | Do women life life on "easy mode"?oh, what a cute bot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Your future kids don't care about AF/BB. They just want a father that sticks around...what are we supposed to talk about here? this is just a rant. i'm sorry you've seen some unfortunate things and i don't even disagree with some of your comments about it (having family members not too different from what you described) but i don't know what the point of this was, in relation to this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Do women life life on "easy mode"?mods should add this statement to the banned phrases list. way overused, and in incorrect ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/16 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Do you guys realize the statement "men are better" doesn't mean women are less valuable?it's obvious, they want to claim men are better among themselves while claiming the opposite to everyone else. that's what "they're not bad, just different" accomplishes. they say that, then go on to their bashing, saying it's just pointing out differences between men and women and anyone who disagrees has been brainwashed by feminazis. dishonest, but it's what they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys realize the statement "men are better" doesn't mean women are less valuable?... did this become a troll account suddenly? or just return from the dead after enough time passed that i forgot what kind of content came from it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Did Melania marry Donald for his money? Is there real love there?yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 10:55 PM |
| 5 | A low-value guy dating low-value women as "stepping stones" to improve and eventually upgrade to higher-value women. Legitimate method of self-improvement or abusively "using" unattractive girls?this guy is being presented as already knowing these are just practice girls though. so, given that, he should make sure that she's on the same page about the kind of thing he's looking for, instead of just letting her get her own ideas about it. it's as simple as saying you're not looking for serious, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 10:18 PM |
| 2 | A low-value guy dating low-value women as "stepping stones" to improve and eventually upgrade to higher-value women. Legitimate method of self-improvement or abusively "using" unattractive girls?oh, no no no. you're gonna have to provide some examples or something for that, haha. please, show me where this is the (really extreme) view being expressed. even just one or two is sufficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is TBP defending cheaters now?You use the word fixated, which has a negative connotation. well he seems to be in a pretty negative place in the OP, no? And youre acting concerned for his mental fortitude, telling him he should consider taking a break, as if you were in the position of authority or wisdom, and he somehow misguided. i observed that he was bothered to the point of actually being upset by it (or put on such an appearance, whatever the case may be) and, noticing this, advised that taking a break might be a wise i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | My idea of a low value manyeah, sounds pretty insufferable and sad. kind of par for the course there, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you know your Myers-Briggs personality type, and do you think it has any bearing on your RP/BP alignment?i think it's ISTJ or INTJ; i'm not sure. i've gotten both. i don't mention it very often, but i remember some RPers having the same results, so i don't think it has a bearing on RP/BP alignment. edit: did take an enneagram test for fun though; apparently i'm type 9, with type 5 at a close second. i don't entirely agree with the description for 9 (don't just go hugging me as you please), but 5 was dead on. some questions were tough since parts of my work-self are opposite my downtime-self, but...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is TBP defending cheaters now?yup. doesn't change my comment in this context. guy is obviously fixated, to the point of being upset (not joking). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/16 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Why is TBP defending cheaters now?they're just serving the purpose of the sub; this is something totally different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Why is TBP defending cheaters now?really, just don't go to the sub if it bugs you so much. there's no need to worry about it so much; they're harmless and easy to ignore if you don't like what you see. you'll probably never meet one anyway, and most of them are just there for laughs (the ones that aren't get bored, quick). you might just want to take time away from all pills if it's concerning you this much. i mean that seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Why is TBP defending cheaters now?let's take a look... i see... comments making fun of the way TRPers rationalize cheating for men but condemn it for women, comments making fun of the way TRPers try to make themselves feel better and different from the guy that was cheated on (by tearing him down), a commenter explaining (but not defending) the reasons women might cheat, and other general fun-poking at the RP response to the article. look, i have my own personal beef about some of the content in that sub so i get it, but no one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 09:49 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTit wasn't an assumption or thing that i made up; it was an observation based on your comments, which you can plainly see above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | My Interview Podcast with MAGAPod (The Red Pill Men's Rights, and more). Want an accurate representation on our views? Need help on understanding our concepts? I'm an EC on TRP; listen to what I have to say.from an EC, even! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 08:51 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTThe women in this sub that so vehemently disagree with all things RP, I've noticed, tend to sound particularly unattractive and/or undesirable when they describe themselves. ... to RP men, and, what a relief it is. And that isn't a value judgement. Ugly things can be good and useful, and pretty things can be terrible or useless. oh, it's definitely a value judgment; don't backpeddle like that. What I'm saying is, if you're not an attractive/desirable woman, then you're not even within the demogr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 08:20 PM |
| 3 | My Interview Podcast with MAGAPod (The Red Pill Men's Rights, and more). Want an accurate representation on our views? Need help on understanding our concepts? I'm an EC on TRP; listen to what I have to say.oh man, a red piller bashing women and being as absurdly offensive as he can be (because he's a REAL MAN here to tell you the TRUTH guys)! how novel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Women of PPD, do you prefer having a female or male boss and why?let's see... i switched managers frequently for some jobs and worked with multiple management teams for others, so to estimate, 7-8 female bosses and 10-12 male bosses. although i could relate to female bosses more, i feel like i enjoyed talking to more of my male bosses. however, i had more male bosses that i felt weren't that suited for the position, because of how they conducted themselves in the workplace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, do you prefer having a female or male boss and why?i prefer whatever boss acts professionally, fairly, and appropriately. personally i've been able to relate to female bosses more easily, but professionally, it's based on performance. i've had professional and unprofessional male and female bosses before, and both types that just had unprofessional moments so i don't think one is better than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 04:44 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTso basically, searching for any reason possible discount what she's saying, instead of responding to it normally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 04:03 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTI'm honestly curious, did u go to college in the US and have you ever met a bunch of sorority girls? yes, and yes. i'm not saying they don't exist, but that the list of criteria above is stupid to use as a ruler to judge people on. Ah twisting and bending what I said. Read what I said carefully. I said a whole phase of hooking up, not just a few. I also said rejecting guys because they are nice and not sexy off the bat. even if it's a whole phase, my response remains the same. no one is obligate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 02:26 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTi don't know what world you live in where having sex with a muscular guy, having a few hookups when you're young (and have things like studies to focus on over a relationship), and just... reject guys you aren't attracted to (really, wtf) turns you into an entitled, shitty girl. there's not a magical formula or set of steps that suddenly turns you into one; you can be a shitty person without doing any of those things, or a great person who has. i shouldn't be sad that red pillers would weed wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 11:37 AM |
| 2 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTyeah, telling someone you don't want children... i mean, you should make that clear early on. it's more distasteful not to, and then drop that news on someone later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 11:33 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?i didn't, but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 11:28 AM |
| 3 | One troll down...TRP is right. TRP is right, TRP IS RIGHT. calm down, damn. you're really not helping it look less like a cult full of crazy people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 11:24 AM |
| 3 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?all women are interested in dominant men. Or at least dominant to them. no. Every girl defines dominance in her own way, and every girl will only fuck and date a guy who they see as above them and dominant over them. no. While some girls may date guys that are less dominant than your standard chad, the guys they date are still "leading" the girl, and are dominant to the girl personally. no. No girl ever wants to date a guy they have to take care of or lead. These relationships are never happy an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?i think it can do both... though i have little sympathy for someone choosing red pill as their path. it's clear that they know what they do is hurtful to others, and they still voluntarily follow it, even enjoying the pain they cause others. so, i don't particularly feel sorry for that type. they cross the line on purpose; too bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 05:25 AM |
| 3 | TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALTis this really the criteria, or even part of it? how ridiculous; aside from 3 or potentially 2 (for compatibility, anyway), no real negatives and tons of women that don't check any of these boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 05:16 AM |
| 3 | TBP: Why does not being a feminist supporter get you downvoted on TBP?right? people will downvote anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/16 12:03 AM |
| 8 | TBP: Why does not being a feminist supporter get you downvoted on TBP?Right. But a lot of people have come to terms with the fact that feminism is most certainly not about gender equality anymore, at least 3rd wavers. It's more about shaming traditionally feminine ideals and shitting on women who go against the grain of feminism. do you think the people downvoting non-feminists would agree with that assessment, or absolutely fit the description, with no exceptions whatsoever? So it should be no wonder a lot of people have stepped away from mainstream feminism. i'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 09:57 PM |
| 5 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?no. there are plenty of women not interested in dominant or aggressive men, who don't want to be led but cared for as a partner, and prioritize personality over looks (while considering both important). choosing to ignore that, even if that's not the guy you want to be, is a mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 09:39 PM |
| 17 | TBP: Why does not being a feminist supporter get you downvoted on TBP?it's just speculation, but as i recall a lot of the people at TBP who identify as feminists seem to most strongly do so because they believe in gender equality. someone coming into the sub and stating that they don't support that would clearly be negatively received. in any case, it's not really a freedom of speech issue, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 09:31 PM |
| 6 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?i'm not asking you to hide it or whatever weird shit you're making up; just pointing out that there's no point in a discussion if you've already decided the outcome regardless of what takes place in the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 08:17 PM |
| 5 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?Just as easy as the numerous, in fact, countless incel stories, beta past stories, blunder stories, dead bedroom stories and "this is how stupid and bluepill I used to be" admittances from current or past pillers. you don't see a difference between "people hurt me in the past" and "i hurt people in the past"? the stories you mentioned are not the same as what i mentioned. Anonymity makes it easy to own up to stupidity. it also makes it easier to make shit up, create a persona, hide from the trut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 07:20 PM |
| 9 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?Until I see from experience that TRP is wrong it's unlikely I will be budging then what is the point of even talking about it? you've essentially said "no matter what anyone tells me, anytime, my mind won't be changed." so even if someone gave you the answer to this, it wouldn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 07:14 PM |
| 4 | [Discussion] What does the apparent lack of ex-redpillers tell us about TRP's accuracy?how easy do you think it would be for someone who ruined their personal relationships and made a complete ass out of themselves to admit they were wrong, take responsibility for the things they did, apologize, try to completely change their ways, all while coping with a great deal of shame and anger? it's not surprising that some people would dig themselves deeper into an ideology rather than admit they fucked up and take on everything that comes with doing that. even if they did, i'd imagine th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Just because a woman agrees with Red Pill theory, doesn't make her an "internalized misogynist"but you know, less likely to be totally dipshit material. there's no guarantee of this, and in fact, judging by their posting history, they're even more likely to troll and shitpost because they can and the community will eat it up, believing they should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.i think most people here did too, when it was posted. not sure why that's being ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Just because a woman agrees with Red Pill theory, doesn't make her an "internalized misogynist"sometimes mods are idiots posting some crap too, you know. even the ultra-holy ECs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.but i'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.you could just look and realize i'm correct, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.that's a misinterpretation, and outside of the point of the comment but whatever, you're not listening anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/16 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.... except they're being criticized for already being bitter and resentful. not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 10:19 PM |
| 8 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.i thought they were just poor, struggling peace-loving non-misogynists being beat up by those blooper meanies though... surely, your previous description wasn't a misrepresentation, was it... ? (really, come on.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.it's not 'you did it first'. it's 'you wanted to act like an asshole, and now i'm calling you one'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 09:11 PM |
| 18 | Blue Pill is hypocritical and contradictory because it is comprised of privileged people who dislike the misogyny of TRP, but for understand dating as an average or below man.you don't get to use 'i'm trying and it's hard' as an excuse to act as hatefully and cruelly as you want and demand that no one criticize you. you chose to act that way; accept the consequence of being judged for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Do women encourage nice guy behaviour?Probably only about 10% of what you read in the news is accurate and it’s impossible to tell which that 10% is, unless you were actually there. Reading a few articles is not going to solve anything and there are always at least two sides to a story. I don’t need to read anything to guess which side the mainstream media took; the woman’s obviously. i'm not really talking about the articles themselves though, just the reactions to it. i believe it was posted to TRP, and the comment section of any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Body levels of 35-44 year old women: scale 1-10i couldn't take this list seriously when i got to 3. even if you prefer slimmer women, that woman is clearly very beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Body levels of 35-44 year old women: scale 1-10all the men. i think this is my favorite part of this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Do women encourage nice guy behaviour?Anecdotal, statistically insignificant, aberrations in behaviour do not constitute a thing. i doubt there's many studies on this, if any; don't be like that. just go look up articles about it, and read the comments. even without stats, you can see that there are plenty of guys who do feel that way. Also, isn’t Tinder essentially an app for fucking? It’s not exactly the wisest thing to try and hire people, for a job, through it and then expect to only pay them with a verbal thank you. ... and you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Do women encourage nice guy behaviour?all you have to do is look up the news story of the girl who asked for help shoveling snow on tinder to know that it absolutely is a thing. silly men were outraged that she didn't strip down and fuck him right there in the snow that he'd shoveled even though she'd neither offered nor suggested she would do anything of the sort. they certainly thought she owed it to whoever helped her to put out, and considered her a bad person for not doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Is Soc Jus disrespect for other people's relationships hypocritical?So you're not going to provide any examples of white men wanting an East Asian woman to be his wife/maid hybrid? nope! guess you're just gonna have to trust me on that. or don't, and choose to pretend it never happens and all men are purest of heart. From what I've seen, a lot of men are attracted to the idea of a traditional, feminine woman who takes care of her body, which happen to be reasonably common in SE Asia. I don't care about this one way or the other, and I fail to see why anyone othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/16 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Is Soc Jus disrespect for other people's relationships hypocritical?Are there any examples that you can link to of someone wanting an East Asian woman as a glorified maid? it's a general sentiment i've seen online; i don't typically go to places where people that have that sort of opinion congregate though, it usually just comes up if i search for culture/travel tips for that area and find a forum post about it, or something. i don't have any bookmarked; discount my opinion because of that if it pleases you. Of course people can criticise any aspect (real or per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women encourage nice guy behaviour?being nice is not the same as going overboard. going overboard is going overboard, and that's why it's a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Post of the Week Nominations Threadnot really; it was a CMV, an opportunity for people to prove him wrong. he presented his view pretty plainly and calmly, and engaged with the people responding to him the same way. you might not appreciate the subject or agree with him, but it was a decent post/discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Post of the Week Nominations Threadi don't have any problems with the OP, though i was nominating it more because of the comments and discussion that followed; i remember the discussion being decent, at least (and since there wasn't just a single standout conversation, i didn't link one). i'll look through it when i have more time and try posting one or more of those discussions instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Is Soc Jus disrespect for other people's relationships hypocritical?then it's absolutely nobody's business about the hows and whys of a relationship. ... if someone's outspokenly saying they want an asian woman to essentially be their maid because those damn western women just don't stay in the kitchen and have kids and take care of the home while the men do the real work anymore, they're making their motives public (everyone else's business). they're certainly not somehow immune to criticism either; what a foolish thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Post of the Week Nominations Threadi also feel like this thread discussed a pretty important subject and had really great responses: TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44) for now, i think that's it. i think finding any thread that doesn't lead to knee-jerk reactions in this place is pretty tough, but i thought those were all really good threads (not that there weren't others in between that i personally enjoyed). edit: i still maintain that this was a good thread... but mainly for the discussion, which i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Post of the Week Nominations Threadi didn't take part in it, but it was a post that seemed to really made people think: Question4all: What is love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Post of the Week Nominations Threadi'll give it a go, with a few nominations. first: CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult. this is the first 'real' post discussing something that i could find recently, and it seems like it started up an interesting discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Do women encourage nice guy behaviour?but you're using him as an example of why men age better than women, and i'm saying he's an exception (as are most celebrities), whether he looks older than he is or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Do women encourage nice guy behaviour?that probably has more to do with just being good-looking and aging well as a person, rather than being a man. idris elba is definitely an exception. and you may not find them attractive personally, but there are beautiful older women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Do women encourage nice guy behaviour?i feel like i've heard some red pillers just tell women not to talk to any man unless they have feelings for him/plan to return his; definitely some unreasonable advice that gets thrown around about the subject. i agree with you, there is no winning in that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Experiment: Rate these men and guess their age (updated with proper links)it sounds like some sort of 'women are unconsciously attracted to taller guys' attempted gotcha... but the guys i'd assume are the shorter ones (since they were rated lower) were noted as unattractive for very specific reasons unrelated to height... those things are still true whether they're tall or short, OP. too young, too boring, whatever... still the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Experiment: Rate these men and guess their age (updated with proper links)i may have to look again for ages; i think it's easier to differentiate between 'stages' rather than ages, but, the ratings... 1: 7. he seems cute (and i have a thing for guys with glasses) but he also seems potentially smug (meh). 2: 4. he's not bad looking, but from the picture, seems kind of boring, maybe. nice view behind him, though. 3: 6. he doesn't seem like my type, but even so, i can still see that he's a handsome guy. 4: 4; he looks kind of sad. with better lighting and a different ang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/16 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Honest question for redpillers. If women peak at young ages (18~), don't men peak similarly as well?oh man, haha. i had forgotten about that... have an upvote :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/16 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Is Soc Jus disrespect for other people's relationships hypocritical?yes, that would still be understandably offensive. perhaps not as predatory, but still offensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/16 03:59 PM |
| 8 | Is Soc Jus disrespect for other people's relationships hypocritical?i think some of the 'sins' are misrepresented... White man, Asian woman totally fine relationship. people like what they like, right? i also happen to think asian guys are cute, since most of them have the things i find attractive in a guy. but... the fixation some white men have with (their wonderful, docile, dependent, easily controlled and eager just to serve and be a homemaker with no aspirations of their own) asian women (and why) is understandably offensive. Relationships were the age gap … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/16 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for redpillers. If women peak at young ages (18~), don't men peak similarly as well?oh, tsk tsk OP. don't you know men never peak? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenpeople are susceptible to persuasion and error; this isn't a 'thinking little of men' thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/16 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Why are people surprised by feminists being accepting of BDSM?who knew :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Why are people surprised by feminists being accepting of BDSM?TIL all men on earth (and even the universe) are too beta/omega for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 11:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenAs a former Catholic I can only say this sounds an awful lot like "the Devil made me do it!" Or as my grandpa used to say, "if all your friends jump off a bridge, are you going to jump as well?" that's clearly not what i was saying, but way to simplify it into something else entirely for your own purposes; really, ARPALT. Agency: we all have it. Some of us willingly give it up, and those that do are STILL responsible for their actions, for better or worse. yes, everyone is responsible for their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 09:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenthis guy didn't learn the RP things all on his own; if people were egging him on and then he did the things they egged him on to do, then they are responsible for egging him on to do something that harmed his life/relationships. are they as responsible as the person who actually committed the actions? no. but they contributed, so some blame falls on them, for the part that they played. not every situation only has one single person to blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 08:24 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenobviously, he's responsible for his actions and those who encouraged him to do it or pushed him into it are responsible for their part in it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 06:31 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenMen find TRP because they already have a problem. ... or they're told by a TRP friend, family member, internet article, whatever, that they have a problem when actually they don't. TRPers 'convert' or talk about doing it all the time, thinking that they're saving men or one-upping women or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 05:43 PM |
| 7 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenit's just a variation of the "people who hate [insert hate group here] are the REAL hate group!" that some people spew when the faults in their thinking/methods are pointed out by others. it's lazy, and (characteristic of TRPers) just another way to excuse yourself and never be responsible for anything. the goal of most TRP tactics is to make someone submissive to you, and obviously, that's only going to work on women that are already susceptible to it. if all of the women you attract are as ter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 05:30 PM |
| 7 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenthis seems like wishful thinking. if a guy finds out about TRP and thinks he needs to do extreme things to 'control his woman' because all of them are terrible and he's just been brainwashed into thinking she's wonderful, he's going to do it, because according to TRP, all of his positive feelings about his relationship are just blinders to The Truth. unfortunately, some people really are swayed by that kind of thing, especially since TRP incorporates some general truths into their whole deal in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenyeah, that's bullshit. this is not depth hub material, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 05:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womenoh, this is such a boring cop out response. i know you don't respond to threads genuinely to begin with, but at least put a little effort into what you do if you're gonna do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 03:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP attracts the wrong type of womeni think most of us have given up on trying to explain to them that their actions and choices influence their results, honestly :/ . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/16 01:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.who cares but you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.nope, even just the use of 'real man' or 'man up' upsets them. despite their claims to the contrary, they're very emotional and sensitive about some things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 11:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.what a childish thought; she nor her body parts are your possessions. he's probably not the only one she slept with either, you know. people have sex with other people, and move on to have happy loving relationships with no issue. it's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | A question about affirmative consent.yes, forearm yourself. ^^^<sup>good</sup> ^^^<sup>grief</sup> ^^^<sup>you</sup> ^^^<sup>guys</sup> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 10:53 PM |
| 2 | A question about affirmative consent.a pointless effort since consent can be revoked at any time and that contract won't be supported in the end but... sure. okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | A question about affirmative consent.no, and saying "totally serious guys, so serious" doesn't make it so; come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | A question about affirmative consent.it's probably against the rules. i won't report it, but i won't be sharing that information either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 09:39 PM |
| 1 | A question about affirmative consent.they can; have at it. as i said, it was unusual to me and something i just hadn't really heard of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 09:28 PM |
| 2 | A question about affirmative consent.oh, i don't need to. i think many women accidentally or intentionally experience a degree of this at least once in their lives; there's waxing, and pads do have adhesive on the bottom, after all. but even done gently, i already know it's either unpleasant or nothing for me either way; it just seemed odd to me, especially given that and that i've never heard anyone mention it as a 'thing'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 09:15 PM |
| 3 | A question about affirmative consent.Can I grab your pubic hair? i'm just observing this exchange because it's interesting but... is this a thing? it seems like it would be especially unpleasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 08:52 PM |
| 0 | Article from Journal of Evolution and Human Behavior: Men pay far more for younger prostitutes. How does this fit into the RP vs BP paradigm? (banned from sugar subreddit)The truth hurts. "Online dating is giving these idiots the impression that they can snag a honey. Most of them have no chance, of course." indeed, i'm sure it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Why do women care if their partners cheat?spot on; this was really easy to answer. i can't tell if this thread is genuine, or just bait to stir up some drama. seems pretty low effort either way though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 02:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.TRPers definitely complain about the whole 'real man' thing and being told to man up, and so on. that's... exactly what my comment was pointing out. hang around here long enough; you'll see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | The case against affirmative consent laws.meh, the article wasn't impressive. it reminded me of writing that i read at Jezebel before i stopped reading it because it seemed just as poor to me. not interested, regardless of how 'premiere' it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 04:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.it's much more fun to watch the struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 04:01 AM |
| 2 | The case against affirmative consent laws.it's a rag of a site, obviously. it may as well have been someone's blog post; it barely seems like an actual news site, one worth reading anyway. if his employers or other universities found out and thought of him unfavorably for it, that's still nothing to do with affirmative consent laws. the college or university isn't convicting him of anything, for fuck's sake. that's not even within their power to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 03:40 AM |
| 2 | The case against affirmative consent laws.you're really grasping at straws here. if you're this paranoid, spending time away from these subs may do you some good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 03:37 AM |
| 2 | The case against affirmative consent laws.this doesn't seem like a great site to begin with, but it sounds to me like they're just discussing a decision made at the university level, not law. the situation and the expulsion is certainly unfortunate, to say the least. but it's not what i would consider insane punishment for a guilty person (if we're talking about guilty people, the incident in the article aside). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 03:23 AM |
| 3 | The case against affirmative consent laws.why would his friend report it if he was okay with it? and if he did, how would it even be proven? honestly, do you think that this is what i'm advocating for, based on my last response? that would be quite a stretch, i think you know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.you probably would, honestly. maybe not on Reddit; i haven't visited the fitness subs here. but lots of fitness communities are about self-love and body appreciation, because for most, that leads to improvement and care (far more than shaming and hate). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 03:04 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | The case against affirmative consent laws.just saying... most of the people in those pictures look uncomfortable or as if they're just trying to let the moment pass. granted, they're out of context, so maybe everyone was having a great time. but if not, i don't think it's somehow better because he's VP or means everyone should just be free to do whatever. it's my understanding that affirmative consent laws are only 'out' in a few places and aren't enforced in an insane way, so this is kind of a silly argument anyway (if my understanding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.no, that's pretty much what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 02:14 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.whoa, no. cuckolding is not equivalent to those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.yessss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 02:10 AM |
| 6 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.they better not do it! the line is drawn! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 01:11 AM |
| 3 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.why indeed... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 12:37 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If TRP was really against shaming male sexuality they would not use "Cuck" as an insult.they use 'cuck' to shame and ridicule men in the same way they complain everyone else uses 'real man'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/16 12:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Male love is more pure.Posture, body language, looking out for threats most situations for most people don't warrant this. being bigger than her he was born like that; it took no effort. next. walking on the car side of the road the same amount of effort is expended regardless of which side of the sidewalk he's walking on. i don't think this is a big deal for most women, but other women are free to chime in and prove me wrong (personally, i don't mind either way; even as a clumsy person, i just, don't see the need). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/16 05:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Male love is more pure.OP would be doing it out of spite. nah, there was nothing spiteful in what she did/said. Not everyone who doesn't talk is doing it out of spite, some people just don't like talking and prefer non-verbal communication. true. but it was pretty clear that he'd be doing it out of either spite or disgust in this case, given that it's in reaction to her changes. so, his love wouldn't be so pure after all. If a woman is allowed to stop fucking her bf and you can hamster it as not being negative emotion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/16 04:48 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Male love is more pure.not having sex with him seems pretty spiteful. if she loves him, why wouldn't she want to have sex with him? she's not doing it out of spite, though. not talking to someone you say you love (and live with, etc. etc.) could pretty much only be done out of spite or some other negative emotion. it would most definitely make his love conditional and not some pure thing, though. He's still protecting her and taking care of things for her, after all. that should be enough, in combination with him as a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/16 04:17 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Male love is more pure.that seems pretty spiteful. if he loves her, why wouldn't he want to talk to her? she's still cooking and taking care of things for him, after all. that should be enough, in combination with her as a person still being there and interacting with him, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/16 03:57 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Male love is more pure.whoa whoa, she's not dumping him. she's totally still around, and even doing things like cooking and being that same old person inside he had such pure love for. now, she just enjoys the luxury of not having to worry about styling or restricting anything from her diet; more freedom to indulge and enjoy. so, those other changes should be insignificant, totally meaningless, even, if his love is so pure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/16 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP Can you explain this? NSFWso? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/16 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Can you be a Red Pill Woman/Wife while not being a conservative, Republican person?this is coming from a non-RPW... but you can pretty much be whatever you want to be. they have no exclusive claims on the things they discuss, and anyway, you decide, not them. personally, it seems unusual to cling to being a card-carrying member of a group if you only have a few things here and there in common with them, but if you really want to, i don't see why you couldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How did you find out about this "Pill" stuff?RoK had been brought up in conversation with someone (talking about how ridiculous it was) and 'red pill' was mentioned. i hadn't heard of it before so i looked it up and... learned quickly what it was. haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP Can you explain this? NSFWi think there was a thread about what guys would do if they were reincarnated or reborn as a young woman, and playing around with body parts was included in quite a few of the comments if i remember correctly. it's a normal curiosity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 12:23 AM |
| 2 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)to add to the other responses to this: several years ago, a friend i was at a party with offered to take me home from the party, and then mid-drive said he was worried he wasn't actually in a decent state to drive all the way to my house and wanted to just go to his, which was nearby at the time. i figured there was a good chance he was exaggerating but didn't want to risk it, so i agreed and slept over. thankfully nothing happened until morning when he stripped down and made his attempt (which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 11:46 PM |
| 3 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)nothing worse than becoming a rapist (or being raped) because you (or the person you were with) didn't get a green light to move forward before springing something boundary-crossing on someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 11:22 PM |
| 2 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)can confirm: shy pretty boys are my thing. i prefer a more sensitive, gentler guy; it doesn't mean that they're lacking in passion, not at all. plus, anticipation and the tension that comes with it can be very exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 10:15 PM |
| 2 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)i'm not sure how being offered a drink is the worst out of those, but clearly you're the outlier here; there's no point in even trying to act like your reactions are typical, based on this thread and your comments in the past. you're outside of the norm, congrats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 09:40 PM |
| 3 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)that's quite an interpretation of what i said. from now on, just quote me directly instead, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 09:20 PM |
| 8 | "This science-backed strategy is the key to keeping the passion alive in long-term relationships"makes sense; it's an expression of care and understanding, from either partner. personally, i'm more comfortable being physically intimate with someone that i'm emotionally intimate and in tune with like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Q4BP: Are the women who respond to TRP outliers in your opinion, or common?i think someone once defined Chad as a guy who just had no major defects (we're talking extreme) and managed to have sex at least once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Are the women who respond to TRP outliers in your opinion, or common?then OP should provide it so that we can be sure we're all talking about the same thing. there's no point otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Q4BP: Are the women who respond to TRP outliers in your opinion, or common?yeah, a set definition of 'alpha' would be helpful for this discussion, since everyone seems to have their own definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 07:54 PM |
| 2 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)thank god indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 07:27 PM |
| 3 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)Why are you frozen in fear? Why are you sleeping with people that terrify you? obviously it's not a case of women being terrified from the outset; don't be obtuse. Why is it so fucking hard to say, "knock that shit off." because fight or flight says so. i think mostly ONS have been discussed in this thread but to go with your example, why is this person you love and trust suddenly treating you violently? a person who, by now, should know your boundaries, strengths, and weaknesses. why would that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 06:21 PM |
| 6 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)there's a huge difference between being unable to communicate and just proceeding with doing whatever violent things you please to another person's body without consent or their awareness, and being unable to communicate because you're frozen in fear towards someone doing whatever violent things they please to your body without notice or your permission. if (general) you act out in a violent way because you're too anxious to communicate, it's you that can't be trusted or left alone with others. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 02:22 PM |
| 6 | According to sex-positive feminism, sex is a fundamentally healthy and non-shameful thing. So why won't feminists support me going up to women in public and asking them for sex?being sex positive =/= supporting people making advances in inappropriate places or times, or towards those who have expressed their disinterest and wishes for the pursuer to stop. you know this, or you wouldn't have picked the grocery store as the setting for your example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 06:21 AM |
| 9 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)i don't think you actually know what you're talking about. but if you want to learn, there's always Google (or a politely phrased question to members of this sub). i'm not super well-versed or even a participant in BDSM, but even i can see that it could be damaging if it's not done with care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 04:40 AM |
| 8 | TRP: All women want to "fight back during sex, and lose." (+44)they were talking about very specific moments with very specific people playing very specific roles, not anyone at any moment. pay attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 03:49 AM |
| 3 | An argument in favor of legalized abortion.Anyway, any thoughts on what I wrote here? :) you really love italics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/16 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Can men and women be friends if they are sexually attracted to each other?i agree; totally possible. i think it carries a bit more risk, given the possibility of one falling in unrequited love with the other, but just like you said, i don't think some sexual tension is a big deal. it may or may not be a bigger problem if one or both are in a committed relationship, however. i feel like that's something that would vary by situation though; some people are bothered, some aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP Women - Those of you with men who started showing RP tendencies. What were your share of failings in the relationship?you're asking women about their relationships with a type of man they dislike and had a bad experience with. so much so that they tried to avoid 'him' in future relationships. obviously that man is going to be part of the reasons for the relationship ending; i don't know why you're making such a big deal out of women pointing that out along with their own faults. if you wanted to have a genuine discussion and not just jump down the throat of everyone responding, you could have asked about relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/16 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4BP Women - Those of you with men who started showing RP tendencies. What were your share of failings in the relationship?i get the feeling unless women respond with "i was an absolute piece of shit for anything and everything i did and will take that feeling to my grave" he won't be satisfied. this thread/OP isn't inviting actual discussion in any way; disappointing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/16 01:47 AM |
| 6 | (Q4Women) Whats the worst way a man has ever mistreated you?please read this thread. if you're genuinely interested in learning more, you have an excellent resource on the subject in google, as well as this poster. read up, get some knowledge, and come back when you can discuss this without being so utterly disrespectful to people, especially those who are sharing personal, painful stories. if you want to be seen as something other than clueless, present yourself as something other than a clueless person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/16 04:04 AM |
| 3 | (Q4Women) Whats the worst way a man has ever mistreated you?please read this thread. if you're genuinely interested in learning more, you have an excellent resource on the subject in google, as well as this poster. read up, get some knowledge, and come back when you can discuss this without being so utterly disrespectful to people, especially those who are sharing personal, painful stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/16 03:57 AM |
| 4 | (Q4Women) Whats the worst way a man has ever mistreated you?please read this thread. do some work on your own. other people with far more patience than me have been trying to explain it to you, kindly. so, drop your defense/need to blame abuse victims for even just a few moments, and read the comments that have already explained this very clearly and thoroughly. seriously, why are you even here if you don't read the responses that people are giving you? just go away if you can't be bothered to even read what you're responding to. stop wasting everyone's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/16 03:49 AM |
| 7 | (Q4Women) Whats the worst way a man has ever mistreated you?Lol. That's not what I've been doing. I said that they are partially at fault. But this is why I can't argue with you fucking people. Because as soon as you make that point you start saying shit like "telling us how stupid and deserving of abuse victims are". Only people I said that deserve the abuse are the people who go back 7 fucking times. That's stupidity beyond comprehension. you just did it again. i can't believe that you would actually be so oblivious to it as to not realize that you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/16 02:06 AM |
| 11 | (Q4Women) Whats the worst way a man has ever mistreated you?Does one really need to read 15 articles and personal accounts to understand that you shouldn't be leaving and coming back to an abuser 7 fucking times? you certainly seem to need further reading, based on your comments. people in this thread with experience either being or working with victims have even explained why this happens, but you seem intent on ignoring that and running through this thread telling everyone they're wrong, telling us how stupid and deserving of abuse victims are. certain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/16 12:07 AM |
| 9 | (Q4Women) Whats the worst way a man has ever mistreated you?it would benefit you to do some research on this and at least try to have some compassion before engaging in a discussion on the subject. you don't seem to know or care about what you're talking about, and no one can even actually talk to you about it productively as a result. it's okay to stay out of a thread or just observe if you can't provide meaningful comments on the subject at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?I'm just following where you're coming from. Commenting on your ass in a grocery store is not the most prestigious social interaction. But it depends on the context. I've had laughs and giggles with way more bold interactions in neutral environments. But it was accompanied with wit and it was appropriate in the context that me and the other person were in at the moment. But you don't become good at this over night. There is a lot of trial and error. i don't think you're following where i'm comin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 05:54 PM |
| 4 | (Q4Women) Whats the worst way a man has ever mistreated you?verbal abuse, cheating, sexual assault. he was my best friend's brother, who i really liked until i started realizing something was off, and unlikely to change. i was also briefly back together with/planning to spend my life with my high school boyfriend when he returned to our hometown from college, but despite his insistence/promises, he started acting weird/cruel and then just disappeared from my life about a month later. i see him every few years or so at concert and things and it was friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?It's OK to let them know. It's not OK to make drama, scream "rape" and destroy the boy's reputation or life. Yes, there are some douchebags that never learn. But there are many more boys that rather go numb and play video games, because social interactions are becoming too risky (for people that were not lucky enough to learn social skills when young and make mistakes) who in this thread is advocating any of that? i haven't seen it, so i don't know what other reason there is to even bring someth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4Ladies: Rudest and Crudest Pick-up lines"Your..you. Omg. Your body is desirable!" Once a guy tried to smash ice on the floor in front of me at a club as a literal 'icebreaker'. I was so confused. all of them were terrible but... these in particular. good grief! haha. i'm glad i haven't personally encountered a lot of this; i don't even know what i would do, except maybe run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/16 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?I believe you're replying to me? sort of; i went with the auto-mod, because the other responses already covered it so well. If so, success isn't my goal. I am happy with where I am in my relationships and sex life. i meant the general you, not you /u/JaxxTeller; apologies if that was unclear :) . But it seems that feminism's overwhelming message is that these kind of advances aren't appreciated, and it seems quite dishonest and goes directly against 90% of my experiences. then i guess it's just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:46 PM |
| 8 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?so we're in agreement, then. it's okay for people to let him know he's messing up, directly or indirectly, instead of just moving on and letting him do whatever because 'he's trying'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:20 PM |
| 8 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?shoup88, lollygagyo, and future_space_boobs have pretty spot on responses; there is a difference between objectifying and expressing desire, just as there is a time and a place. it's not a restriction of freedom for someone to say that your advances aren't appreciated in a certain time/place/form either; don't be so dramatic. pay attention instead, and learn from it if success is your goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Why do women tell men it's disgusting to objectify a women, while at the same time find it sexy to be objectified by a man they deem attractive?if he's actually trying to learn, he should be paying attention to comments like this. at least he's actually getting some insight into his error, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who are "cookers" make better wives than "cleaners" and TRP should advise men accordinglyinteresting; maybe i'll consider it after all. i clean as a necessity, but i wouldn't mind someone else doing it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a man whom you are significantly stronger and/or more intelligent than?my response kind of echoes /u/MissMaude's... although i don't think it would be a dealbreaker, it would make some household things more difficult. if he were significantly weaker than me, he'd be pretty weak, so we'd have to work around that. without context, i don't think i would want to date someone that i was significantly more intelligent than. a little more intelligent than? okay. about the same but in different areas? even better. he could even be a little smarter than me, but i wouldn't w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who are "cookers" make better wives than "cleaners" and TRP should advise men accordinglyi didn't make a big deal of anything; i just responded to the OP. i don't know why you're throwing a fit about it. i even added a note explaining that the marriage is great for both my husband and i to get that jab out of the way for red pillers, and yet, you've found something else to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who are "cookers" make better wives than "cleaners" and TRP should advise men accordinglymy very first sentence points out that i'm outside of the generality, not that i trump it or that no one matches it whatsoever. but sure, make a big deal of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 05:30 PM |
| 6 | CMV: There is nothing wrong with being a Misogynist.you stated that he treated people with respect, which he clearly doesn't, by his own admission; that's what i was pointing out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 05:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV: There is nothing wrong with being a Misogynist.He treats everyone with respect. from the OP: I've found that when I treat women like they're stupid and talk to them like children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 04:39 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There is nothing wrong with being a Misogynist.I've never not hired someone or charged them more because they are female. this was particularly amusing. you're 21, and talk about nothing but going out and partying, as far as i can tell. i've never considered that OP did either of these things, because the idea of someone fitting that description being in much charge of anything is pretty much ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 04:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Feminists/Blue Pill are too quick to assume things to be misogynistic/oppressive when they aren't actually misogynistic/oppressiveI think the word "misogynist" is thrown around too much by feminists/blue pill. if this is the gist of your post, regardless of the title, no one really has the power to convince you otherwise. Why do feminist/blue pill women think it's oppressive to compliment or flirt with women? context matters; it's mostly complained about when it's inappropriate for the place/time, or if the guy's being inappropriate himself/unwilling to take a hint and go about his merry way when it's clearly not going wel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 01:48 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women who are "cookers" make better wives than "cleaners" and TRP should advise men accordinglyoh, restaurants and maids would be lovely... but, while we live well, that would be more of an expense than we're willing to pay. we both take them on, whenever; i'd say i probably do more of both, but our grocery store has a lot of prepped and proportioned meals that we get, so often it's as simple as just putting it in the oven at the right temperature, for the right amount of time. neither of us like cooking that much, to be honest, so even the dishes that require active cooking are low-effor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 12:57 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women who are "cookers" make better wives than "cleaners" and TRP should advise men accordinglyguess i lucked out then; i hate both cooking and cleaning, but still have an awesome marriage (yes, it's awesome for us both). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/16 12:45 AM |
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