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Yeah I think they get 'approached' as in a guy will tell them they're beautiful or say hi or offer to help them with something. Very few guys will directly approach her during the day.
/r/seduction22/01/17 07:01 PM
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And your life
/r/seduction22/01/17 06:59 PM
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Yeah don't really need a slow motion video of you rubbing your hands. It's pike... get on sith it... Watch mtv cribs they do the transitions in double speed.
/r/seduction21/01/17 02:24 PM
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I think he's a phony now but back in the day I learned a lot from him. I doubt his advice is relevant anymore, he's pretty old now isn't he?
/r/seduction20/01/17 11:29 PM
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I hate day dates. No booze and seeing my uggo face in full daylight means no sexy time usually
/r/seduction20/01/17 11:27 PM
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I believe tucker max made an app like this. It seems stupid though
/r/seduction20/01/17 11:26 PM
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I think I actually have aspergers so I can tell you the problems I have. Most girls tell me that I do not express any feelings for them, they think I don't like them or I don't care about them. But in reality I do. I just cannot express myself. So if she's with you I would just assume the positive even if she's quiet or frowning.
/r/seduction20/01/17 11:25 PM
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Thanks I've never heard of this. I don't think it would work though I think the fear is in meeting new people. Only once I get comfortable or if the person is not a threat I can be myself.
/r/seduction18/01/17 09:08 PM
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Well i can read all the advice in the world but as soon as I get in front of the person everything is immediately forgotten.
/r/seduction18/01/17 11:35 AM
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I'm sure it will be. You just need to have interests! Or even better, passion.
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:40 AM
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most real men dont use social media. but you need to have real friends or at least something gooing for you
/r/seduction09/01/17 08:27 AM
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Instagram is my soft porn app where I follow a bunch of crossfit girls and models with amazing asses.
/r/seduction05/01/17 10:21 PM
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I think there's probably another explanation and you're reading too much into it
/r/seduction05/01/17 08:43 PM
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I have so many ghost contacts I cannot reemember who they were until I see them on the Facebook 'People you may know' list. Then I friend request them and sometimes end up going out again!
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:47 PM
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Field reports are stupid. I do not care if you got laid. Applicable Advice questions are what I come here for.
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:45 PM
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Ask your mom to join
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:43 PM
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You only live at home because you are in Jeff Bezos mode.
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:41 PM
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I'm 30ish. Yes it matters. I want my girls to be as young, tight and undamaged as legally possible. (I'll do my own damage thank you very much)
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:38 PM
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It is only worth it if everyone knows what's up. Trying to hide it is beta and will never last
/r/seduction05/01/17 07:17 AM
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I only have my AA and my life isn't that exciting but I've fucked girls with masters degrees before. I'm just kind of good looking and mostly just funny. I am painfully shy and awkward though and sometimes it's just too much, and sometimes it works for me as 'dark and mysterious man' kind of thing. When I started out I was met with only frustration and bbw's, but as I got older and my life got more interesting/gained more confidence I started nabbing hotter and hotter women. I am still awkward a…
/r/seduction05/01/17 07:07 AM
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There is nothing wrong with being a weirdo per se. There are plenty of hot girls who like weirdos or are closet weirdos themselves. I am pretty weird and nerdy, and very quiet, but I still date girls that make other men jealous. You can be weird and cool at the same time. For example: https://heavyeditorial.files.wordpress.com/2016/07/gettyimages-512936888.jpg?quality=65&strip=all&w=780&strip=all
/r/seduction31/12/16 04:02 AM
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I'm not really sure what you mean?
/r/seduction31/12/16 03:55 AM
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Brains are malleable. Neural pathways can be reshaped simply by thinking differently and having new experiences. CBT and meditation
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:44 PM
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Easiest way to get better at conversation is to do more things. Read more, watch more movies, travel to more places, try more hobbies and foods. The more you do the easier it is to relate to other people. If your whole life is video games, anime and masturbating you'll never get anywhere.
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:42 PM
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Social anxiety isn't something that goes away by reading a reddit post.
/r/seduction21/12/16 03:34 PM
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Make your place clean.
/r/seduction21/12/16 03:32 PM
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No, wear what's you. Some guys dress like clowns and they still get laid.
/r/seduction21/12/16 03:09 PM
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If you're not insane it won't matter, where I live it's pretty much dark all the time. You have a self limiting belief about the daylight. You can't go to a park but you can walk around like the downtown shopping centers, they're usually well lit with xmas lights and such.
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:35 PM
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I do have interesting hobbies but I feel like listing them makes them sound boring.
/r/seduction06/11/16 06:02 PM
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Can i lick your toes
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:24 AM
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Player is for black people
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:23 AM
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Tldr direct approach
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:20 AM
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Sounds like you're off to a good start. But best of luck either way.
/r/seduction07/10/16 12:35 AM
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Sounds like you made your decision and now you've got non-buyer's remorse. I feel the same whenever I break up with or let a girl go. But the decision wasn't made lightly. So now you're rich and single, sounds like win-win to me.
/r/seduction06/10/16 07:09 PM
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I have an HTC Vibe
/r/seduction06/10/16 06:56 PM
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If you get off your ass long enough to go to a con you could probably find a nice whale to let you in her folds while you play League.
/r/seduction05/10/16 10:40 PM
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If you enjoy it how it is why are you complaining?
/r/seduction05/10/16 06:53 PM
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We can learn a lot from homeless guys. They say 'You look good!' And grope women all the time. No approach anxiety whatsoever.
/r/seduction04/10/16 08:53 PM
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Get some hobbies. Be good being alone.
/r/seduction01/10/16 11:54 PM
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Be interesting, Be careful with your jokes. Texts can be easily misinterpreted.
/r/seduction01/10/16 11:52 PM
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Naw I get most of my dates online. The rapport is all text based. I've had girls acting like my girlfriend before I even met them
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:02 AM
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The best is seeing them show up on Facebook under 'People you may know' I just started adding them and see which ones bite
/r/seduction30/09/16 06:53 AM
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For a drink, or to meet my dog. Sometimes I just ask if they want to go there. Why beat around the bush
/r/seduction29/09/16 12:43 AM
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Get a hooker
/r/seduction28/09/16 07:24 PM
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Yeah that just sounds like the nature of online dating. I wouldn't waste all day going on a hike on the 2nd date. just practice the three Fs. At peast you're getting laid. Also I usually don't make out unless theyre in my house, it's a lot easier to fuck them that way.
/r/seduction28/09/16 07:13 PM
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Oh yeah awkwardness will kill it. You just gotta get out of your head. Just remember She went out with you because she wants to get fucked. It can be weird since she hasn't really met you but you can tell by body language if she likes you. Like is she covering herself up, is she looking around the room, does she keep touching her hands, then you are fucking up. Then again I went out on dates where the gurl looked bored as shit and then I just asked 'want to go back to my place?' Yeah and then we…
/r/seduction28/09/16 01:56 PM
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there's a missing piece of these stories. What did you do after the date? That could be the problem.
/r/seduction28/09/16 08:09 AM
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You gotta work your way up to it. It shouldn't be out of nowhere. You gotta escalate gradually. I usually start by finding excuses to show her something on my phone, while our hands touch. Then like poking her on her bare legs. If she lets you touch her hair then you know it's on. Then you fuck her doggy style. You know, romance.
/r/seduction28/09/16 08:02 AM
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With a brick
/r/seduction28/09/16 07:53 AM
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You should always try to kiss on the first date. In fact you should try to fuck them all on the first date. You said it yourself you will only see her again if you fuck her. What have you got to lose.
/r/seduction28/09/16 02:00 AM
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Im offended. I'm a pervert but that doesn't mean I'm part of some He-Man woman haters club.
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:09 PM
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Not really. I'm just tired of playing the tug of war game that is American dating. I don't think anyone's a 'bitch' for growing up in a certain culture.
/r/seduction27/09/16 12:42 PM
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You think you know more about being gay than a gay dude?
/r/seduction26/09/16 08:07 AM
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They're usually ugly unless they are asian. Most attractive girls are not shy.
/r/seduction26/09/16 08:03 AM
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If you want something easy, go play video games and masturbate. Even Stephen Hawking doesn't understand women. You picked arguably the hardest subject on earth to study.
/r/seduction26/09/16 02:15 AM
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Mind posting what your metrics are? Just curious
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:54 PM
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What is your goal? What does it mean to be successful socially to you? Define that, then do what /u/Conotocaurious85 says. You can't track success unless you know what the end result is.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:53 PM
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It's true. Brett Favre sent a dick pic. But do you think most women would consider him creepy?
/r/seduction25/09/16 02:54 PM
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They do but you have to seduce them, you can't just ask. That's why this place exists lol.
/r/seduction25/09/16 02:47 PM
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You can still flirt with girls. I know plenty of old married guys who are ridiculous flirts. It will only make her want you more to know that you could leave.
/r/seduction25/09/16 02:44 PM
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Do you feel better? Do you make other people feel better? Then you're doing better.
/r/seduction25/09/16 02:38 PM
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Start small, don't even talk to them, look them in theeye, once you can do that, walk past them and mumble hi. Eventually you can say hi, or good morning, then move on to asking directions. It is harmless and nobody will judge you. once you can do that, you can compliment them in some way, and keep walking. Then maybe you can stop and have a chat.
/r/seduction25/09/16 08:30 AM
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A bad reputation with who? Do you live in a wild west town with one corner store? Nobody knows you exist. You are a tiny speck of dust in an infinite universe. There are 7 billion people in the world and maybe 50 of them remember you.
/r/seduction25/09/16 08:28 AM
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Try to talk to everyone not just the ones you want. Be your own one man party
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:21 AM
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Money. I find these types to be pretty easy. If you're not black and you got money and a big dick, black girls will love you.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:18 AM
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They can still hear you most of the time. Don't listen to ^ No girl wants to be bothered. Do you let that stop you?
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:15 AM
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In ten years we'll look back on the man bun like tribal tattoos and ed hardy shirts.
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:09 AM
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It's 2016! "quotes lyric from 1995"
/r/seduction25/09/16 06:03 AM
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How many cumulative girls did you wave at before the threesome? For research.
/r/seduction24/09/16 09:23 AM
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High fiving is for fucking dorks
/r/seduction24/09/16 03:12 AM
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Get on Bumble
/r/seduction23/09/16 02:58 PM
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Watch youtube videos by Tom Torero
/r/seduction23/09/16 02:57 PM
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I think of it like this, which may sound crazy. You're in the Matrix, and you're trying to wake up. The Matrix doesn't want you to wake up. It will turn against you like when the grandma chopping onions turns into Agent Smith and throws a knife at Neo. But if you keep fighting and learning, eventually you'll be able to see the Matrix, and then you can stop fucking bullets man.
/r/seduction23/09/16 12:16 PM
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He means don't get married to a philosophy
/r/seduction23/09/16 12:10 PM
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Real life experience is always more interesting than 'I read once'
/r/seduction23/09/16 12:00 PM
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Red flag, it just means she wants the option of flaking
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:56 AM
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Consider medication. You have everything you need, you might just need a lift off.
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:53 AM
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Just say I'm not alone, I'm with you now (I just came up with that)
/r/seduction22/09/16 10:14 PM
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I hate this thread and curl babbies
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:23 AM
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Do you think Seal gives a fuck about his skin? No, and he wrote a hit song and bangs Heidi Klum.
/r/seduction18/09/16 12:36 AM
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You shouldn't be drinking when trying to learn social skills. You're not learning anything about how to be confident, you're just letting the alcohol do the work for you and it's making you do things that don't make sense.
/r/seduction17/09/16 08:11 PM
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I think all the sexual harassment and rape talk in the media has made me deathly afraid of seeming creepy, so I stay away from girls and don't touch them unless I know they want me to.
/r/seduction17/09/16 08:04 PM
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It's not common sense for a lot of basement dwellers nowadays
/r/seduction17/09/16 02:49 PM
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Just don't get excited, she's probably going to get used to having you on HER time, 'forgetting' to reply, showing up late, being a bitch in general. If she does that again drop her like a hot tamale.
/r/seduction17/09/16 02:34 PM
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Keep her at arms length, it's not a good sign but no reason to not bang her
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:52 PM
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Tall white guy = easy mode
/r/seduction16/09/16 09:55 AM
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It sounds like you're exactly where i'm at. I stopped wearing headphones a week ago and it's amazing how many more interactions I've had. i also went around just saying 'hi' I say hi to everyone, even the bus driver. Just getting my mouth moving. I get a rush off of it now when I say hi to a hot girl, it's almost like a runner's high.
/r/seduction15/09/16 03:32 AM
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Well I guess I need to learn to dance, I've been avoiding it all my life
/r/seduction14/09/16 07:55 AM
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What if you call and she's busy and she doesn't answer?
/r/seduction14/09/16 07:48 AM
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Right, no exclamation points.
/r/seduction14/09/16 07:45 AM
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What
/r/seduction14/09/16 07:42 AM
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You don't have to talk to girls all the time, try talking to every stranger you see, build up momentum, then when you see a girl you're already in a social mood.
/r/seduction14/09/16 07:40 AM
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I don't comment on the text in their bios. (Unless they actually put effort into it) I ask them a question about their pictures.
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:23 PM
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Need a pic of OP to confirm this is bullshit or not
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:04 PM
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What evidence do you have of this? I don't think most girls are attracted to stupidity. Do you talk about how intelligent you are to them? Do you drop a lot of ten dollar words? Because maybe you come off as a loudmouth know-it-all.
/r/seduction12/09/16 03:57 AM
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What if you're too afraid to approach in person
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:24 AM
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make it short but sweet, make a connection, get number, leave the scene who cares, ask them out anyway. you'll never see them again anyway. Sometimes she doesn't really have a boyfriend, or she might be looking to upgrade. Be a little more persistent. If she keeps saying no then leave. You're not making enough of a connection or maybe she was just trying to get rid of you. The only solution is to get more numbers.
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:09 AM
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I think every girl I ended up banging texted me right after our first date. If they're excited about you you'll usually know it.
/r/seduction12/09/16 01:57 AM
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Unless they've watched Chris Rock. "I like your shoes, want some dick?"
/r/seduction11/09/16 06:54 PM
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'I know'
/r/seduction11/09/16 06:49 PM
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Maybe focus on yourself and what you're interested in, don't make girls your main priority in life
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:44 PM
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You should never text a girl first thing after a first date. Unless she texts you first, it makes you seem like you're in love with her already. These are the games women play.
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:20 PM
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A big problem is that they have a million other guys waiting in the wings.
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:15 PM
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Lots of girls don't put out on the first date, it makes them feel like a slut. You could have just been too pushy, if you made out with her you have guaranteed pussy on the second date, you just have to be patient and not fuck up in the meantime.
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:13 PM
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What the hell is a female PUA. Isn't that just a woman?
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:03 PM
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Online dating nets me at least a few a week
/r/seduction05/09/16 11:57 PM
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"So I'm a chef..."
/r/seduction05/09/16 11:56 PM
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Dressing like a tool can make you stand out as long as you have confidence about it, but if you're gonna dress like a japanese rock star you have to act like a rock star otherwise you're just a chode.
/r/seduction02/09/16 07:59 PM
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Yeah if you're paying hookers you don't really need to talk to girls
/r/seduction02/09/16 06:57 PM
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