I never get better, every date is like a replay

sexualsidefx · 2017-01-18T05:50:09+00:00

it gets easier. You might try a dating coach though if you literally have gone on hundreds of dates and nothing improves.

_fixxxer · 2017-01-18T05:50:48+00:00

The easiest thing to change is ask questions and LISTEN (also, stop talking so much). Example (this ALWAYS works for me, I get second, third dates all the time):

Did you grow up here?

No in Nashville, I went to school there something, something I had two dogs growing up there something else something else.

What made you leave Nashville and come here? (this shows you listened she's from Nashville) I had to come live with my aunt May because she had a problem with her something something.

So, what are your dogs names?

Mick and Jagger

(more questions about the dogs)

Did aunt May ever recover? (remember names, that's important)

She did she's better now, she moved to Portland something something.

Have you ever gone visited her in Portland? (now you guys can talk about portland for a while)

Did you take Mick and Jagger with you when you came to left Nashville? (again you remembered Nashville and the dogs names)

Let her do 80% of the talking, just ask questions and get information, show you're interested in her. Pay attention to this information because that's going to help you bring up topics SHE likes (and hopefully you enjoy too), remember details, that means a lot to women, it means you're listening. Talk about yourself as little as possible, a lot of guys talk their way out of women liking them; it's even better when you remember and mentioned things she said one or two dates later.

Last but not least, do yourself and all the girls you date a favor, and read or listen to this book (I recommend listening cause the writer narrates it, so he puts emphasis exactly on what needs it).

https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Man-Corey-Wayne/dp/1411673360

I'm not confident, I'm not good with conversation, I'm not good looking (not ugly either, I'm alright) but after reading this book I've dated and retained more girls than I have ever done in my entire life.

Right now what I'm struggling with is getting them to bed; I do get to that, but not until after the third date, and super clumsily. I need to get better at that still =P.

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-01-18T19:32:27+00:00

I also suggest a dating coach, many will do Skype calls, and some will actually simulate a mock date scenario over Skype. Sounds like that might help you the best.

http://www.winggirlmethod.com/category/coaching/

Good luck and don't give up. You can approach and ask a girl out...now all you need to figure out is how to act on a date!

Title	I never get better, every date is like a replay
Author	sexualsidefx
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	January 18, 2017 5:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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