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| 11 | Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshellallowing men free and easy access to sex WITHOUT the obligations and responsibilities that used to come with it, A.k.a. The empowering hookup culture. I swear I get pissed whenever a man offers me that, especially st their home for free, like bitch who do you think you are? Pay a prostitute or at least rent a nice room if some pickmeisha wants to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:30 PM |
| 12 | Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshellbeing peer pressured because it is "normal" to be kinky nowadays. Well big news - just because everybody is doing it does NOT mean it is right. Just like "everybody is doing drugs" does not magically make doing drugs a good thing. Exactly. Just like before when everyone hadn't have sex before marriage and the bigger prude, the better, now it's the opposite. Or when everyone participated in arranged marriages, which was everything but normal and natural. Just because it's a trend doesnt mean its … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshellSex positivity has turned into an excuse for pickmeishas to feel superior about their choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Not wearing makeup for othersLike the user here said, men jugde girls for wearing too much makeup but then go after them. You can't please everyone so do what you love, there will be always someone who loves it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Not wearing makeup for othersDo what you enjoy, but I hate when people are like: Who are you dressing up for? It's firstly for my self, then society, then men. I'm 50/50 in this case, but I was definitely wearing lipstick under the mask. I do it for both. I wore full face of makeup for a regular hangout with my friends and the exact same look for a date the next day. I sometimes like to overdress because I felt like it and because I like the attention. It's just annoying when men lecture us how we don't have to wear too muc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I think most of experienced this 😂why don't we still have more decent guys and more equality or respect? *Lastly we all are a product of our environment and NOT perfect, even though we might find we are feminists or whatnot. I am sure a lot of us (me included) do still hold a lot of internalized misogyny or stupid stereotypes in ourselves or have unresolved issues with ourselves as women That's an interesting question. It's probably because those mothers have internalized mysoginy but aren't aware of it. They teach their sons to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I think most of experienced this 😂This is comming from someone who wants a daughter one day. I'm an only daughter and I want girls too. I just wrote a comment how i'm disgusted about my friend experiencing sexism in her own family and the father of her son being sexist. I know how people can be ignorant. People who want a boy bc last name hurr durr should be sterelized. But her comment seemed very harsh, giving up on having kids so she wouldn't have a boy. She can teach that boy not to be sexist and toxic from an early childhood… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I think most of experienced this 😂She gave birth to a boy after all. She grew up in a conservative family on the coutryside so sexism is a huge part of her life. She won't inherit anything from her parents not because they don't love her, but because "it's the way it is". That angered me so much that I literally pressured her to speak up while she doesn't really care. Meanwhile, I grew up in the town 15km away as an only child and my parents hate their mentality. As for dresses, that's the first thing that comes to mind when thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | This is beyond creepy and concerningIdk where it came from, I feel like it's a Balkan thing. I chose a Croatian account because it was the most popular and the only bigger and active one that was public. Also people who run those accounts...what the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | This is beyond creepy and concerningI took her comment wrongly, I firstly thought that she was joking tp be conserned about looking bad in the photo because of the emoji | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | This is beyond creepy and concerningI cant even count anymore how many times I was approached by pedos on social media and wasnt aware. It's not even trendy anymore to critisize the internet except if it's TikTok and shitty influencers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 13 | This is beyond creepy and concerningExactly, at 13 I would be definitely hurt from not being posted there and guys not being interested in me. I don't want to sound like "it's because of the phones" mom but social media is making people more and more asocial and raising shitty men that don't have the balls to ask a girl out and girls who seek validation by acting narcissiric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 10 | This is beyond creepy and concerningIkr girl, that was the reason I ranted about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 10 | Be wary of men with racial fetishes/comments towards ANY raceAh yes, because someone'a race determines their personality. Also, this is the consequence of western so called liberal feminimits being overly sexual by pandering to men and the the whole world seeing the entire us like that because of them. Same goes to black women and Brazillians being overly sexualized, meanwhile other Latinas being badass and conservative. The media don't realize how harmful is to enforce those kind of sterotypes or any sterotypes to people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:55 PM |
| 40 | This is beyond creepy and concerningIkr, men can't even talk to girls anymore. Is chatting and following on insta the only way to flirt today. I'm not someone who has had a lot of boyfriends but it's because I don't meet a lot of people in large groups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:45 PM |
| 8 | This is beyond creepy and concerningNahh, they usually snap them from the behind or while sitting in public transport. You have to see that person every day to be able to identify them since everyone there has a very generic fashion sence. It's like those "people at walmart" photos or bad celeb candids. Edit: I took the comment wrongly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.I saw somethibg similar on fb when both genders were asked what they see in a perfect partner. The one that made everyone laugh said wanted his dream gf besides naming every positive trait to alo be to be an animal lover (probably meant vegan, "be careful about her diet(no baking)" (probably wanted a fit girl) , not be religious, not be superstitial (ofc a redpilled atheist). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | I think most of experienced this 😂That's why I mentioned it, it's also her first serious relationship and first time so the power dynamic is obvious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | I think most of experienced this 😂Sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:10 PM |
| -21 | I think most of experienced this 😂Yeah, that's sexist as much as men not wanting a daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:37 AM |
| 16 | I think most of experienced this 😂Omg yes, my friend (21) is expecting a child with her boyfriend (30). He was 'joking' how he doesn't make girls, he was serious but wanted to sound like je was joking. She laughed and said she also wants a boy then when we were alone she admitted she wants a girl to dress her in dresses. The guy isn't a bad person, but he's very 'conservative'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:34 AM |
| 9 | I think most of experienced this 😂It's also scary and embarrassing if your son turns out to be like Colty from 90 Days Fiance - in short, a man too attached to his mother that it's borderline incestuous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:28 AM |
| 6 | Women only have to worry about potentially ending up in a situation like numerous previous women who were beaten, raped and killed by the men they were dating, but yeah, men must have it worse... 🙄Yeah, I'm actually nervous if my tinder dates will kidnap me and sell my organs or sell me. I live in a big city btw. The last guy I went on a date with played 1,5$ for an iced coffee, I'm sorry but y'all lucky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | High value women exercise their right to vote!The prime minister of my country is an open lesbian. She's literally a puppet and has even zero influence for her own people's rights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 19 | High value women exercise their right to vote!Lol these comments of women just wanting a female candidate for the sake of being female is saddening. Please step away from politics if someone's gender and political party is enough for you to vote. Not all women care for women's rights, some are no different than greedy male politicians. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:23 AM |
| 13 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasI swear when I see men with a wig on their chest they give me vibes of someone's dad in speedos. Also on that Twitter thread people posted supermodels like Gigi and Adriana on a runaway or backstage with unshaved arms to show that it isn't ugly and that it's normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasI'm sorry for hearing that, it's annoying how it can be impossible for some people. My friend is hairy but in a happy relationship so don't worry about not finding a man that doesn't mind that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasThey're looking the missing 30% but end up only getting 30% from the side chick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasYes, their only standard is to have wide shoulders and abs (which is achieved with exercise), not being a mouth breather and being slightly taller than the girl. Meanwhile for girls it's all kinds of stuff including something we can't change like body type and skin type and facial features. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:52 PM |
| 13 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasExactly, why are they so defensive abut doing the same? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 6 | Used or new, we will run you overThen the same men get angry when the virgin girl won't have it for the first time with them or doesn't fuck like a porn star. You can't have it both ways boo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:04 AM |
| 5 | Who would've thought... 🙃I'm not your typical feminist but that will be always one of the dumbest excuses ever. How tf children get assaulted if the reveling clothes are what drives men to rape? I understand getting attention purposefully by dressing provocatively but men aren't dogs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Why is isolation normalized?I don't blame the existence of boyfriends unless they're abusive. It's the girls' fault if she wants no friends anymore. Parents usually encourage that behavior because they're happy for their daughter. My mom also encourages me to be selfish if ny friends are. I lost my best friend after she ditched all of her friends because she iS iN lOvE. Her boyfriend was very chill and wanted a social life but she voluntarily isolated herself. Girl you can be in love and have friends, just take 5 hours out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Why is isolation normalized?Hmmm, I was talking about girls that voluntarily do that with chill boyfriends. It's different when the guy is being manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Why is isolation normalized?Exactly, we need multiple people in our lives, having only one person can ve lonely after a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Why is isolation normalized?I'm from Serbia, I mean it's technically bad here, everyone hates it until they get in a relationship, then it's "Do what your hear desires, don't listen to the haters" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 9 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄I thought it was some 4th wave feminist bullshit, but these reasons ade completely valid and I can't believe someone can disagree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I'm going to a stop light party soon, any advice?I meant to wear a green neon bracelet they give at the entrance, green is for single, yellow for complicated and red for taken. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 03:55 PM |
| 4 | I'm going to a stop light party soon, any advice?Well I can simply say that I don't want to bang. I meant all black lol, I don't own a green top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 6 | I'm going to a stop light party soon, any advice?Well, some of my friends was with her boyfriend she met at a party for 2-3 years. We don't really throw house parties here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | I'm going to a stop light party soon, any advice?Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 10 | I'm going to a stop light party soon, any advice?Yeah, I was thinking exact that. Whenever I put an effort in my looks, not even something provocative, just having a nice outfit, I attract at least one guy, but it's always someone I didn't want to. I'm thinking of wearing a bralette, black mom jeans and docs. I'm not a fan of heavy drinking, so that wouldn't be a problem, I noticed I'm very approachable when tipsy, so I think being tipsy will make me more confident and approachable. Thank you for your advice, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Unpopular opinionNo, I swear I'm not trolling, I thought she was joking until she showed it to me. Your friend sounds like a pickmesha if shes going and staying with this kinda man, finds validation by the attention of men. Even it's a crazy insane level like 200 texts. Yikes. Definetly that. I was talking about multiple girls in this post btw. One of them literally can't stand to be single for more than a week and cut all of her friends because of her boyfriend (no he didn't tell her she did it because she's iN… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinionWell, the ones who look out for their behaviour the most always end with, in my opinion, shitty guys. The ones who are chill and not super analytic seem happier and less stressed. They are happy with their boyfriend but aren't completely broken when ending their relationship. It wasn't a fiction nor abusive at least on the guy's part, he literally was sending messages like "PLEASE" "PLEASE LOVE" "YOU'RE MY WORLD" "PLEASE I LOVE YOU" and other combinations over and over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 7 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"It's funny how they think that we only dress up for them and rant how we don't have to wear this and that because they don't like it. To be honest, If I'm trying to impress a particular person, then it's 60%, but overall I dress up for myself only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | 20yo, virgin, inexperiencedThank you for the advice, hope you have a nice day! I just need to often put an effort into my appearance, not dress provocative every day, but be more polished and more confident because how a man would notice me if I were invisible. But also why not dress provocative in summer lol? I'll make sure to level up self esteem and be more approachable ro men, I'm confident around guys I don't like and gays so I always end up friendzoning straight guys. Honestly, I'm not going to ignore guys, but rath… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Yes, this is directed at you 👀 Block him, sis.I just found a perfect description, he wasn't ghosting me, but breadcrumbing. I asked him to go to a party where music his taste was played and he said that he didn't like all the bands and asked to go maybe next time with his guy friends and his female friend. I was like Ok and hid his stories so he wouldn't hope for me to see them. It wasn't like I was crazy for him lmao. Why tf isn't he dating that girl, he literally mentions her with "my [name]" but they're friends. I hate when people do tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Yes, this is directed at you 👀 Block him, sis.This literally happened to me. He was kinda interested, my friends where there and convinced. He was posting some memes about chasing a girl that fit my description. I texted him first because who tf cares, it's not like I'm going to lose something. He replied but only if I ask him something, y'all know how you actually test with people you're interested, and this wasn't that. Despite that, he was one of the first people to like my pics and watch stories. Why is this happening? Of course, I wish… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 11:48 PM |
| 8 | Going 50/50 🤡Well it's the same old mentality before women started working and it hasn't really changed sonce women started working. My mom works less and gets paid less so she does housework, but I would be pissed if I worked as much as my husband and had to do housework. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 01:01 PM |
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