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I'm in the same situation right now but def not as extreme. I met this great girl on tinder with her head on straight and great work ethic. But the problem is that she's been with quite a few guys (I think maybe 6-8ish with a few ONS that turned into relationships). I've only been with 1 person (5 year relationship) and so the difference is kinda bothering. I'm just going to feel it out
/r/seduction28/12/15 10:32 AM
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Seriously. It distorts perceptions Let me know how it goes!
/r/seduction19/10/15 11:56 AM
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Dude a girl who is just interested in being friends would not keno like that. I think you are. Sometimes things move fast with certain girls other times things take a bit more time. But you definitely need to make a move.
/r/seduction18/10/15 11:41 PM
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I was in a 5 year serious relationship from 17-23. Loved every minute of it and made me a better person. I knew it was he right relationship because I had no urge to flirt with other girls like I thought they were cute but no desire to flirt. You need to be upfront with her about your casual desires. Don't be an asshole and cheat
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:14 PM
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Dude you serious right now? That's a very successful first date and girls just don't hold hips with friends. My personal belief is that sedition distorts expectations a bit with all these stories of closing. In my experience, I don't get some until date 2-3 because the girls I date by choice are a bit more conservative. This second date is her showing you off to her friends circle!! Just be yourself and talk to everyone with interest but try to stay close to her and don't cling just casual are r…
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:11 PM
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Don't take this as an immediate rejection unless its clear prior that you are friends. Girls are allowed to go on dates & often do so just to meet new people. So don't freak out if youre the jealous type like I am because it doesn't mean shes going to bang. She is being honest with you and I've had girls tell me that they are going on a date but then a week later I've closed. Best strategy: disregard it and ask her out spontaneous "what do you have planned this weekend" on like a saturday mornin…
/r/seduction17/10/15 06:11 PM
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great conversation makes those panties wetter than any pick up technique
/r/seduction17/10/15 04:24 PM
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This is actually the best advice here. I've been in a similar situation & there is 100% chance of recovery. When you say you haven't had sex for x amount of time, you want to say it with confidence and that you are ok with that. You hold yourself to a very high standard and would prefer to wait for someone who matches that standard. Its part of your core values. Simple as that. Also, if she is super into you & you say that, she will be putty in your hands. What a girl won't tolerate is neediness…
/r/seduction15/10/15 03:46 AM
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Partly. I'll be moving out of NYC to a more warmer area in a few years for post grad training. I'm between San diego, Miami or Austin. My personal preference is that I like the warmer weather and the girls that come with it are very outgoing, athletic and beautiful.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:28 PM
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This is by far one of the best posts on the thread. A lot of the material here becomes a pissing contest about how many women a person should sleep with. In all honesty, those type of one nighters aren't all that great for personal development. Its about having meaningful relationships with people who actually care about you ~transformed serial monogamist
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:13 PM
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wow really so you don't even talk that much?
/r/seduction28/09/15 12:54 AM
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I did and she heard me. She did the same and I couldn't hear her...
/r/seduction28/09/15 12:54 AM
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this is dope. just did it and wow I'm like thinking straight again.
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:58 PM
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NoFap can actually work wonders on your game if you use it right. Now, I'm not saying that I quit cold turkey becaues thats just an unrealistic expectation but I dramatically reduced from about once a day to once a month or so if I'm on a dry spill. What I like about it It really forces you to become alpha & straight to the point. For example, I am much more eager and more likely to go talk to that girl & not care if I get rejected if I have that sexual energy driving me. It also helps me turn t…
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:43 PM
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All of that reminds me of my girl. It's been like 48 hours and now that we aren't together, I kinda don't want to do it anymore. Funny how that works. I'm still going to do it thought and force it out so whatever comes back is minimal.
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:21 PM
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These are really powerful words. I feel a completeness with her. But as you mentioned, I haven't been with anyone else and now as a decently attractive male I have people noticing. There will come a time when they will stop & I don't want to miss out on this opportunity & regret it. I also ahve this urge in me to do it and feel like it needs to come out of my system
/r/seduction01/09/15 03:35 AM
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This. As of now, its honestly just for the sex... & I am definitely not ready to settle down. We had a talk and it was clear that she wanted to get married at 26 because she wants to wait a few years before having kids. All this talk of marriage and kids almost gave me a heart attack because I am definitely not ready! I agree she may not be there and that would honestly be the worst thing ever. She is like ideal: she is willing to sacrifice her career and follow me on my career (both physicians)…
/r/seduction31/08/15 02:24 PM
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Damn dude. You may be right but I need to do this for me at least a while. She was the only girl I have been with and it was amazing. Everything like in the movies. But I need to play around for a little bit at least. I am just 22 and all these girls are eying me right now. I know that once I'm older that will go away & I don't want to miss out on that fun. Am I crazy?
/r/seduction31/08/15 02:33 AM
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Then I just made one of the dumbest and biggest mistakes of my life
/r/seduction31/08/15 12:31 AM
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Fuck dude. Maybe you're right. She is the most important thing to me but for a few months now I've been getting distracted by other women and I feel like I just need to flush it out. Maybe a year is too long
/r/seduction30/08/15 10:43 PM
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I know. I've thought a lot about this but it's something I have to do to have a no distraction filled marriage. Pickup has corrupted me.
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:06 PM
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Def not. She's very traditional and proper
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:03 PM
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Here is how you know you have a great catch: mutual respect of each others opinion, she respects you in front of her friends and talks highly of you, you are open with each other, you enjoy the same things to a certain degree, there is equal sacrifice for each others happiness If she meets those criteria then by all means shes a keeper!
/r/seduction30/08/15 04:38 PM
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If its the right girl. always.
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:28 PM
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Indian guy here and I have a similar experience and taste. I personally believe that it's not that white girls don't like you but rather the out of shape girls as a whole have to try harder to get dates and put themselves out there. I've had this experience with girls of a lot of races and especially African American. It's also because a lot of white girls have probably never had an Indian guy around them and have a lot of weird stereotypes in their heads. I've found that once I show them my per…
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:17 PM
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Ah gotcha! Then I totally agree. If it's going to get you in a bad mood then don't bring it up. But know it doesn't hurt to ask her about what she does and when she asks the same say something like "I hate talk g about it! I'm trying to pivot careers actually" or make it a joke and be like "I don't even know you I can't disclose that info"
/r/seduction01/08/15 04:28 AM
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Totally agree! There is a marked difference in how I feel and my ability to be in the moment if I'm thinking pick up vs lets just talk to this person. By talking to everyone, you have the ability to have a fluid conversation and it reduces the outcome dependence. You are just talking and accept that not everyone will connect with you.
/r/seduction31/07/15 08:16 PM
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Totally agree! There is a marked difference in how I feel and my ability to be in the moment if I'm thinking pick up vs lets just talk to this person. By talking to everyone, you have the ability to have a fluid conversation and it reduces the outcome dependence. You are just talking and accept that not everyone will connect with you.
/r/seduction31/07/15 08:16 PM
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Totally agree! There is a marked difference in how I feel and my ability to be in the moment if I'm thinking pick up vs lets just talk to this person. By talking to everyone, you have the ability to have a fluid conversation and it reduces the outcome dependence. You are just talking and accept that not everyone will connect with you.
/r/seduction31/07/15 08:16 PM
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Next time I'll do this open with hey how's your night going, what brings you guys out and then try the direct opener on the target
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:23 PM
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1) hey what's up are you guys from around here? You guys look like tourists 2) hey how's it going, where did you get that Starbucks? I have an addiction 3) hey what's up I'm new in town and I wanted to introduce myself 4)hey what's up? You guys seem to be having a good day 5) hey what's up? What's good to do around here I don't really care about blowing out or not. If they aren't invested I just thank them for their time and walk away
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:19 PM
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If they ignore & continue talking then move on to the next set? Hey what's up is followed by a question about the area, complement on something non physical or directly state that I wanted to introduce myself to you
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:11 PM
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Hmmm ok I like the advice. So ignore the target initially until a vibe is set and then open the target while still talking to the group? Let's talk about the opener. For me, it feels only applicable at the mall or something. What about at a night scene? I was think "hey how's you guys's night going?"
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:08 PM
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What's wrong with talking about work at a bar? its really s great question to get to know each other. It really doesn't matter what you say rather it's about how you say it. Anyone else?
/r/seduction31/07/15 10:04 AM
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Flying might as well be public transport. The context is the same stupid. You could literally have said "excuse me for assuming people wanted to enjoy their plane ride in peace" I've also approached on a public transport (bus and train ) with success. Also it's not about Being a PUA. It's about being a normal social human being who enjoys the company of others and possibly meeting someone
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:47 AM
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Dude stfu. That's just a beta excuse you tell yourself to not approach. It's really not that awkward at all. Think about it. People commute everyday and would love a friendly conversation/change. I do it all the time and have tremendous success. Note that by success I mean we have a conversation almost always. I don't believe in success being a # close or whatever. Success is approaching and being ballsy enough to do it. Sometimes the conversation doesn't happen because she's not interested and …
/r/seduction31/07/15 03:06 AM
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Open open open. You're surrounded by people who want to meet other people. You don't need to be fancy at all. A simple "hey wants up" with nice easy eye contact and a smile and you'll go far. Keep interactions short so it doesn't get dull and be interested in her. Always number close & if it's really good interaction insta date. Have fun! Don't think pick up because for me at least it causes me to be not in the moment. Think having fun. No pressure.
/r/seduction30/07/15 01:32 AM
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Thanks for the advice and I agree. I try to focus my time into women that are actually interested in me. The success rate / effort ratio is much higher there and its just more fun. Anyways, I like those responses. I'll hold on to them
/r/seduction29/07/15 06:46 AM
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See I thought about doing that but then I saw another iphone next to her and her story looked like it checked out. Lets say she didn't have a boyfriend, would you have stayed & if so has that ever worked out?
/r/seduction29/07/15 04:33 AM
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is this based on experience?
/r/seduction29/07/15 04:32 AM
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