Hey guys,

So some background about me: I ended a committed, healthy, sexually satisfying and happy 5 year relationship because I missed the rush you get from pickup and wanted to meet more women before I settled down.

I just wanted to put out an opinion that's very valid but often gets lost in this sub. I want to start off by saying that seduction works & it works well. The pillars of opening well, outcome independence, self amusement, and personal growth over time will compound into results. You will get girls (not every girl though!). You will get everything you wanted from it: casual sex, feminine energy, comfort with the opposite sex, some girls to cheat on their boyfriends etc.

But the point that I want to make is this: after a while casual meaningless encounters lose their luster. They remain fun but after a while you realize that these women aren't there for the long run and move on quicker than you do. It's kind of like that friend you have only when your at the bar drunk. It's definitely not like that friend you have that will drive you to the hospital at 3 Am.

For those of you who have been in great LTRs, you know what I'm talking about when I say they are hard work but you have a partner in crime.

Sure for some people all they want is to live the womanizing life. But I would argue that the vast number of people on this sub are looking for advice to approach women that they find attractive and eventually want the skills to create mutual attraction and have something more with and not blow it with initial oneitis. This sub can help you achieve that but know that there is a huge difference between the girl you seduce at a bar and the girl that you are genuinely interested in

All in all, I will be practicing pick up for another year or so because pick up is fun before trying to back with the girl of my dreams who is waiting for me.