[Advice] leaving when she has a boyfriend

recyclablebantha · 2015-07-29T05:38:03+00:00

Ok so I went out a few nights ago and I approached a cute blond by herself. I went up and I said "what's up? How's your night going?" In a pretty nasty tone that turned me off, she says "good. I'm just waiting for my boyfriend to come back"

Look, when the girl opens like that and says something like that in response...... You should have two questions for yourself

Did something in my response rub her wrong? This is always a possibility. Though sometimes it has nothing to do with you, really...... but more to do with her baggage.
If she turns you off like that, is she worth the time? Provided that there was nothing wrong with your opening, a girl who responds in a nasty tone, might not be worth your time.

From past experience, I know that pushing it doesn't really work out that well for me because I feel if she was genuinely interested she would let a small convo side. What do you guys say to duck? I wanted to be like "oh ok cool it was nice meeting you"

Throwaway is right.... the BF comment was probably meant as a deterrent. As for what to say.... It doesn't really matter. For your own sake, you should probably get away from such negative energy without letting it turn you negative. Unless you're really into that sort of thing. Some people are. You don't need to say anything. Maybe, "Have a good time with that then."

You MIGHT have a little light-hearted fun with it if you're in the mood. Like, :D "What's he look like? I'll help you find him." :D But if she doesn't correct her own attitude without prompting from you, then a girl like this isn't worth your time.

Murfdigidy · 2015-07-29T02:34:56+00:00

Things you could say....'oh same here let's wait together, so I like your shoes where'd you get them?

If she jokes and says oh so you have a boyfriend? Say yea, you find something wrong with that, are you one of those homophobes?

You see the key with any encounter is acting as if nothing the woman says will impact you and what you're doing. You always deflect the conversation into your favor as if nothing she says, negatively that is, will have bearing on what you are doing, you are here on your terms and your terms only.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-07-29T02:29:46+00:00

"I have a boyfriend" is one of the most common white lies that women tell guys, to give them the brushoff. Many times, there is no boyfriend, it's just a way to discourage the chumps who are easily deterred. There are plenty of legendary PUA stories about guys who seduced women who claimed they had a boyfriend, right up to the time when they were sleeping together and she admitted there was no boyfriend.

Anyway, there are plenty of classic IHAB Destroyers. Here's one:

Her: I have a boyfriend.
Him: And he lets you go out to nightclubs by yourself?
Her: Of course.
Him: I wouldn't.

CrushHazard · 2015-07-29T13:08:51+00:00

In this case, I think the nasty tone told you all you needed to know. I would just walk away without saying anything.

Morokweng · 2015-07-29T02:51:23+00:00

Good decision. She's not interested. Don't waste your time.

Title	[Advice] leaving when she has a boyfriend
Author	showmewhatyougot1234
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	July 29, 2015 1:11 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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