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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Love Is Blind- What Did Shake Say Behind Deeptis Back?To…what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Family annihilators and how to spot one quickly when dating. Long-ish post. TW [murder, suicide]She tried to sue the Police department as well and the Supreme Court denied her even that much. So sad. She couldn’t even get some sort of justice that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 24 | LVM are out there thinking men don't treat women like shit. Drew's response is on point as always 👑She has a podcast called Two Idiot Girls…give it a listen! She’s amaaaazing! Oh, and very right about everything. Love her laugh too. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 25 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"Oooh. This is a GREAT strategy! You should make a full post on it…comments can sometimes be lost/mixed with everyone commenting all at once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | When evaluating a man, don't just look at how you perceive his behaviour. Also look at the factual realities of your life before/after he came into it.Why anonymously? I would think it would be a great way to garner more business…especially if it’s from anyone from FDS…possible lurkers who haven’t actually joined yet and are looking for more support? More resources means more lives saved. Anonymous or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:50 AM |
| 8 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.They weren’t married. In fact, he PROPOSED to her the next day…and she accepted. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:45 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys go about walking out on a date safely?I’m sure he lied about his phone running out of charge in order to manipulate you into letting him stay. In the future I would check his phone just to make sure…or better yet carry a portable charger with an iPhone AND Android charger…and then let him know he can charge his phone with it. This way he can’t put push you into a situation that you’ll have a hard time getting out. Totally not blaming you btw. Men just know that women have a soft heart…and they know exactly how to manipulate us becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 68 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesThis video is terrifying. The fact that he notices a security cam and STILL tries to keep opening the door…wow. Just wow. We all need to be super aware of our surroundings.The woman knew he was following her…and STILL WENT TO HER HOUSE. So now he knows where she lives. He could have come at a later time and the result could have been SO much worse. If someone is following you then (IMO) you should head into a store and get help. Or go anywhere else. Don’t lead them straight to your house. So sca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 64 | 100 years old and still living her best life.She looks AMAZING for 100 years old! She could easily pass for being in her 80s. 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menWere these therapists men? Cuz that would explain a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Men Telling on ThemselvesUgh. They always tell on themselves. Block and delete is the only way to go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Men Telling on ThemselvesSo what was the breaking point? What made you finally realize he ain’t worth it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:12 PM |
| 4 | UPDATE: My Experience Implementing the 3 Month Rule of FDS. TDLR: For your own protection, wait EVEN LONGER than 3 months, preferably 6+. Men are sheep in wolf's clothing when they are trying to get a 50/50 roommate and after this, I will NEVER cohabitate with a man again until marriageThank God you’re okay. It seemed like you really went though a tough situation. These things tend to make us stronger and I know you’re at a much better place now. I hope (when you’re ready) that you’ll share what exactly happened. I feel like a lot of us could learn from you. So happy you’re okay. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 03:07 AM |
| 12 | Share your FDS dating success storyThe desk is amazing. But the skincare?! OMG. As an esthetician that makes me SO HAPPY FOR YOU. It’s the small little details that make the biggest difference. Congratulations on finding a good (hopefully!) one! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 9 | FDS is not the place for you if you’re not willing to examine your own attitudes, beliefs and behavioursThat was an amazing post. As someone who is 5 feet tall, I really related to it. Just wanted to say kudos. It sucks that it was taken down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 4 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.It’s because they’re comparing WOC to monkeys…from the jungle. It’s disgusting and derogatory AF. 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?Love how he didn’t appreciate it at all until it was taken away from him. Isn’t that how it always goes? 🙄 Good on you for not hesitating! Love the no bullshit energy! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?Did he realize you actually WERE doing him a favour afterwards? Or was he still an ungrateful shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:00 PM |
| 9 | If he needs space from the relationship, it's a no.YES! This needs an update post! 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:22 PM |
| 7 | A guy who is sending you mixed signals is just using youAhhh yes. The very definition of insanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:51 PM |
| 11 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?This is a save worthy post. Good work OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 09:34 PM |
| 32 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?This should be added to OP’s post! Chores that are considered “women’s work” should always be paid attention to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 09:34 PM |
| 51 | Why Is No One Preparing A Generation Of Women To Partner With The Brokest, Most Sexually Depraved, Infertile and Useless Generation Of Men?I was very surprised to see Michelle Obama on this list. I didn’t know that Barack cheated on her. Interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Just because a guy appears to be altruistic, it doesn't mean he's a HVMWait, what wrong with Shaun King?! He seems so genuine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:52 PM |
| 5 | FDS isn't about giving the benefit of the doubt. It's about being smart women who don't get played.I’m so sorry you went through that. Did you tell your ex-husband? What was his reaction (I’m guessing not good considering he’s your ex now)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:37 PM |
| 88 | Saw this on my Instagram feed and I’m completely wrecked for this woman. This man had a “report card” for his wife that he eventually murdered. TW: Domestic Violence, Religious AbuseNot just abuse. Incest is HUGE in the Mormon community. I feel so badly for the women that have to go through it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:13 AM |
| 33 | Scrotes are literally cancer. Always get the Pap smear.AND you’re guaranteed an orgasm EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 01:22 AM |
| 3 | People 👏🏻 don’t 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 women 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 enjoy 👏🏻 PERIODTHang in there. He will eventually give up. How is your child doing in all this? How old are they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 4 | People 👏🏻 don’t 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 women 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 enjoy 👏🏻 PERIODTI’m so sorry you’ve been through all that. What’s the situation now and how are you doing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".He didn’t shower?! What??? This is news to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".Probably gave himself the awards. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:36 AM |
| 12 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"How can you be fat phobic AND promote obesity? They don’t even make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?OMG Jensen Ackles is SO HOT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?SRK is PERFECTION! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallWait, why do you think he’s responsible for River Phoenix’s death? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:15 AM |
| 1 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Thank you! Makes much more sense now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 3 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?What do you mean? Can you expand on that please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:20 AM |
| 15 | The Irritating Gentleman, by German artist Berthold Woltze (1874) https://i.imgur.com/HMa0cro.jpg (saw this on another subreddit)Males, circa NOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:23 AM |
| 12 | To counteract liberal feminists and beta males trying to manipulate us into thinking "dad bod" is the hottest male form, we will be instituting one day a week to post photos of actual hotties! Let us know what we should call it!I’m sorry...but have y’all seen Kim Taehyung (V from BTS)?! He is absolutely STUNNING. BTS in general are so, SO gorgeous...and get so much hate for it. All the racism they’ve had aimed their way is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsDid you call him out on it? Cuz I sure as hell would have! Cognitive dissonance at its finest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Is Saweetie a FDS icon?What happened? Can you talk about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 12 | A lot of “Doms” in bed are really just sexually selfish men who use the presence of a dynamic to justify not having to care about their partner’s sexual pleasure.I would have broken up with him at that point. Life is too short to tolerate men who act like toddlers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Another epiphany on male jealousy 👁️👄👁️BTS is EVERYTHING! They’re sooooo beautiful. Literally. 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 19 | Where is the lie?“They will tolerate worse leaders as long as they can secure a male”....SO TRUE. Americans do have Donald Trump as a president after all. Couldn’t handle having a female president. I don’t know if Hilary would have been the best choice...but it’s pretty obvious they ran a (VERY effective) smear campaign against her. Kamala as VP gives me hope though. I feel like this is a turning point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:19 AM |
| 10 | Where is the lie?Better a cat lady then a grown ass mans Mommy. FFS. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 6 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Where did you get the tank top? The n another note,FDS should think about having their own merch. I would totally buy some! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 2 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?My time. So OTT that it’s something I’ll never get back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Broke men being afraid of gold diggers is so funny to me😂SO TRUE. You should definitely repost this as it’s own separate post. Other people won’t be able to see it unless going through that specific subject. Better to make it it’s own separate post and raise more awareness! Cuz God knows some of us (me included!) could really use it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 15 | Is it an American men thing or?Aren’t men trash everywhere though? What makes European men different? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 34 | That really puts it in perspectiveI read an article that said India is known as “The Rape Capital of The World”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Reason no. 6394573 not to date LVM’s. Your hair will FALL OUT!Can I ask what the other dark triad personality disorders are? I’ve never heard that term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.I would have said “Don’t worry...you make it up for the both of us.” 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | i started my own business, and men are revealing their true selves!Me too! Do you have an Instagram with your designs up by any chance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:57 AM |
| 3 | The fact that she feels the need to ask if she's an asshole...Funny you mention that. Someone in the comments mentioned another couple doing the same thing and the wife was so startled she spun around really fast with a knife in her hand. She slit her husband’s throat. He didn’t survive. This was during the 60s...and she was black. The deck was stacked against her and yet somehow they let her go. No one should be trying to come up behind someone (least of all when they’re cooking!) and startle them. It’s a recipe for disaster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:40 AM |
| 6 | A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as ExplanationThis guy sounds like bad news. Anyone who talks shit about their girlfriend is a no go. I suggest you quit before you get fired...which is what will happen if things escalate. He’s highly intelligent and in a high position within the company. He will twist the situation to make himself look innocent. If I were you, I’d start fixing up the resume and looking elsewhere for employment. Don’t wait till it’s too late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as ExplanationCan I ask what happened? I only ask because I really feel like we as women can learn from each other’s experiences. If you don’t want to share, I totally understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.I think Rapex is a great idea in theory...but the problem lies in the fact that (more often than not) women are raped by someone they know. Someone they trust. And so they probably wouldn’t have it inside of them in that moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Do not get in a car with a man you are fighting with/breaking up with. PSAIf I was your mother, you better believe I would have gone into school the next day and absolutely gone off on that disgrace of a principal. WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Do not get in a car with a man you are fighting with/breaking up with. PSAWitnesses have been known to be killed as well as the wife/gf. Men don’t care about who’s in the way. Once they’ve decided on killing you...you’d be VERY lucky to get out alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.This is very true. You never know what goes on behind closed doors... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Stop being nice to men.Yeeeah. You totally need to share these stories. I mean GOD DAMN...how can you do that to another person?! A woman no less? We already have it rough out here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:30 AM |
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