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| 1 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.But it is okay for a man to show anger. Sometimes, yeah. Good point. Although most women will just mock it by calling it a "temper tantrum". But I agree that anger is seen as a masculine emotion, it usually depends if women agree with the reason for the anger. If they don't they call it a temper tantrum by a man who can't control his emotions. when a woman shows anger, she gets called a crazy bitch Or a karen. Yeah, I agree with you here. Overall, I hate people who can't control their emotions. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.Outside of work, it's okay for women to cry in public. People will have compassion and kindly ask what's wrong. They won't be revolted the same way they would be if it was a man crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.As for the fact that society infantilizes women, women have their own set of problems that they deal with. But yes I’d agree that this is an issue. Unfortunately men find it hot so it’s hard to end it. That's so gross to me. Mature women are the best. A mentally weak, irrational woman-child is just the worst. But if men like to be their woman's father, they can go ahead. That ain't for me. that is obviously not going to fuel this narrative Yeah, I don't care what fairy tales women need to hear f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.I don't think it usually works out that well. No one takes you that seriously if you're a hot mess. Amber Heard's credibility certainly suffered from her conduct. Her credibility only suffered when they could show she lied. But she was crying on the stand, too many people were swayed by the show of emotion. Agreed. Stoicism is incredibly beneficial throughout life. Being able to keep it together under pressure is incredibly beneficial for success. If society could just get that message through t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.I agree with that. But the fact that it's only expected to be a one way street is the problem. Women are allowed to handle their emotions in bad ways, explosions of rage or temper tantrums are something men are expected to accept and deal with. That's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.Meh. I think there’s a point where things can get toxic, but gender roles are biological and people will on average be happier when these needs are met. The idea that gender roles are purely and completely biological is a massive oversimplification. But you said it yourself here, "on average", and a lot of human beings are not gonna lock perfectly into the average. I'm not saying it's wrong for men to meet women's emotional needs. Or that it's wrong for women to meet men's emotional needs. I'm s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 07:44 AM |
| 2 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.Do you think a woman who keeps crying when her boss says anything the least bit mean will have a successful career? No, she'll just use that on her husband, boyfriend and social situations. A bit like that show Amber Heard put on when she was to the stand. My family firmly believes that both crying and lashing out in anger are tawdry, so we were all raised to keep our cool. I wish more families taught the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.Why is it only men who are expected to act like adults? And women are told it's okay to stay children? Both men and women have to be in control of their emotions and stoic. But both are only human, and it's okay if both sometimes fail at being emotionless robots. Why should we continue to infantilize women and allow them to stay as mental children who can't control their emotions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I know that's the intent. But the results is "these people are pointing and laughing at a penis that looks just like mine. I feel so ashamed, how can I ever let another women see me naked again if this is what they think about a small penis" I don't know if people care about how cruel and mean-spirited their being towards people who share the same physical attribute. There's some bad women out there, but I'd never try and make it seem like it comes from them having ugly long labia, and making st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:00 PM |
| 0 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.People who like to say any man who's being evil must have a small penis. As if that's the true cause of evil and immorality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 11:39 AM |
| 0 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.More so than you'd think. I'm black, I hate Trump. But I remember seeing these statue people made to mock Trump, and they all had small penises, so people could take pics, pont and laugh. And that smallbpenis looked similar in size to mine. It felt pretty shitty to know that Trump's immoral behavior was linked to his having a small penis, that looks a lot like mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:27 AM |
| 3 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I don't think that's how sexual orientation works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Sorry if I seemed too defensive. Sometimes people try to tell me small penis shaming doesn't exist in society, and that it's all in my head. What we don’t agree on is painting an obvious issue you’re personally struggling with as a broad universal issue I do think it's an issue with society in general. I didn't receive small penis shaming from a vacuum in space. I have to live through it. Big penis men get validation and praise. So of course confidence will come easily for them. They live in a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I'd argue that it's society that's obsessed with small penis shaming. You may not get how constant and repetitive it is because you're likely not as sensitive to it as someone who's affected by it is. Anyone who thinks small penis shaming is this rare thing in society, is missing a lot of it coz it doesn't affect them. I've lost count at how many times I've heard "small penis energy". And when called out on it, people justify it by saying it's okay because it's just means "shitty behaviour". As … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 05:23 AM |
| 3 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.We should never as a society conflate physical appearance with personality defects. The best you can do is amend the association between those two things through your own character. Feel proud that you aren’t one of the countless assholes crawling the earth that lets their insecurities turn them into a bitter vindictive troll. Those people are everywhere and a lot of them aren’t impelled by their penis size. I agree. But I think half of that compassion and kindness you want me to have (and I val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I'd be okay with using a penis sleeve, but would women be okay with a toy as my penis? Would it feel as good as a real one? If you get pleasure from it, absolutely I'd wear the toy. I'm just concerned that unlike lesbians, straight women won't tolerate toy penis for long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:47 AM |
| 0 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.They do it all the time. Any man who they think is immoral, Trump, Putin, must have a small penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:34 AM |
| 3 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.That's why I said it's a vicous cycle. They say any man who found bad immoral things must be because they have a small penis, which drives men with small penises into more shame a and embarrassment, and then they turn around and ask why would you feel any shame over something you can't control, but they'll be happy to say someone driving a car there don't like has a small penis. Do women understand how damaging to mental health and psyche that is. To know that everything that's hated about men c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Wipe off? Like with a towel near by, just wipe her pussy after a few strokes? Okay. Never heard of that, but I guess I'll ask if I can do that. I'll definitely mostly try to stick to positions that target that front wall. I may have to explain why I don't wanna do too many other positions. Hopefully she'd understand. She may incorrectly think that positions that felt good with other men would feel good with me. But they were most like bigger. If the other 2 zones are deeper than 4.7", I won't be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I'm 4.7 x 4.2 inches. I was told it's a pencil dick, her words, too thin for her to get pleasure from it. The most depressing thing was researching and finding out she was right, I was very below average in girth. I was so depressed thinking I'm unique unfuckable, and therefore unlovable, regardless of anything else I did to try and make up for it, that it was the first time I ever Googled how to painlessly unalive myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.So how do I stop her from making it no friction and no pressure? It's a thin penis, she won't feel much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.it's not my attempt. I'm just the messenger of something I've seen so often. They absolutely link immoral men to small penises . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:09 AM |
| 0 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.My bf is very girthy Exactly. That's why you can still enjoy penetration, even if it doesn't make you orgasm. You can still feel his dick. It's thick, which is what women want because they can't get any pleasure from a thin dick, which is what I have. Imagine your BF had a thin dick. Would you still be satisfied and happy without penetration from him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:38 PM |
| -1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Oh yes. Trump, Putin, Hitler, all immoral, so their associated with small penises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:33 PM |
| 3 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Hey women enjoy fingers when we are wet and that is much smaller/thinner than what you are describing Are your 2 fingers thinner than 4.2 inches girth? If so, then that would be great if they can enjoy a penis that thin. I'm not sure how though, hows that gonna feel good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:31 PM |
| 4 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Many men who believe they are “small” are actually not, and perfectly acceptable to most women I've measured countless times and looked at so many different studies. Even the most lowest average estimate (5.1 x 4.6) is larger than mine (4.7 x 4.2). I know there are some morons out there who are 6 x 5 inches, and think their small, but some of us men really do have penis that are below average. And according to studies, women penile preference are for larger than average penises . I suppose I cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.If I did that, if I gave oral, manual (fingers), and used dildos that are bigger than me, is there a better chance she could forgive my size? I mean, the dildo one is especially humiliating, watching her enjoy a bigger phallic object that gives her the size she actually enjoys would be tough, but if it made her happy I'd be willing to put my embarrassment aside. I don't mind I just don't now if straight women could be happy in a relationship without penis in vagina sex that feels good. Even if i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Friction can be essential That's exactly the problem that I have. I know most women love the friction of a thick penis, and I can't provide that. I hope targeting the anterior wall is enough. It's just that I'm already starting from such a bad position. Everyone's anatomy is different but there are also "cheat codes" to add more friction (different position, use less lube, et cetera). So I don't want her to get wet then. That'll just mean no friction. That might mean I should skip foreplay, that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:53 PM |
| -1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.There is no dick too thin for me to get pleasure from. So your vagina still feels pleasure even if the penis is thin and doesn't give any friction or stretching? An ex told me that mine was too thin gat any pleasure from it. That vagina needed something thicker coz that's where the pleasure comes from. The pressure and the vagina stretching. Some do prefer large dicks but a large dick to them might be a small dick to someone else. I doubt 4.2 inches girth is large to any woman. It's way below av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:38 PM |
| 6 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.The majority of woman are incapable of vaginal orgasms, so in that regard, penis size is much less important than being good with your hands and/or mouth. But that same majority still wants penetrative sex and expect it to feel good, even if they don't orgasm. Which is hard to do with a thin penis, since women don't get pleasure from those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 7 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.And then we say small penis = feminine and weak. And big penis = strength, masculinity that women worship as sex gods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 2 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I like dicks of all sizes but there is something to be said for a dick that isn't so big it hurts you when you both want to go hard. There are certain positions that are not doable with a big-dick guy and are much more pleasureable with a smaller dicked dude. Isn't it a problem when the dick is too thin for you to get pleasure from it? I have found that the guys who think their dicks are small often have average sized or even slightly above averaged sized dicks I hate those men. They're so dumb.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?honestly because the odds of a lady getting pleasure and orgasms out of PIV is extremely low. That's part of the reason I'm always surprised when women insist on or prefer PiV over cunnilingus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?It's very strange that so many women insist on or prefer penetrative sex, even if oral is offered. It's like they're their own worst enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?100% agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 13 | Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is.I don't think he made that assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 10:23 AM |
| 2 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.That's right. Have you ever heard of a woman bragging about how great her man's small penis is? They only ever brag about howgreat and big their man's penis is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Would never happen. That's like saying women would start desiring men who are shorter than them. Never gonna happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.I used to think so. But got told by a woman that they still want a big penis for oral and anal. Apparently it's more enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.That partially proves the point. Men with small penises are considered inferior and undesirable. I don't really know how much it would cost, it would depend on different countries I guess. But the cheaper and more accessible you could make this for parents to do for their boys, the better off those boys would be as they get older. we can go all the way down this road and see if it ends well It would end in a win-win situation. With women who no longer have to have sex with small penises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.For that many, the series would have to be more solvent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.That depends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.1st: we will probably have bionic cocks that can change in size at will, before this level of technology. I disagree. I'm by no means an expert on genetic research, but some of the leading experiments I've heard about is way more advanced than bionics. 2nd: even on FDS, the preferred size is just slightly above average (as with every other standard that women want). If you move what's average, women will still want more than that and will adjust accordingly. There will always be a bottom % and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Lame I disagree. As if this is gonna help guys get laid. Men with larger penises get laid more. The size of your meat (unless you have a micro, which is a medical condition and not common), is largely irrelevant. Micropenis is 2.5 inches. You could be at 3.5 inches, larger than a micropenis, and still be at a size women consider small and undesirable. Even for men that truly do have a micropenis, even if it's not common, there's still hundreds of thousands of them out there. Coupled with men wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.I honestly don't know anything about beastiality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.If it gave as good of results as the eugenics way, then yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Isn't that a behavioural thing? Penis size is not behavioural, even though small penises are tread like a character failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.A lot of people seem to think I'm saying cancer shouldn't be cured. That's not what I'm saying at all. Of course there's a bunch of other things that would be done. But we can walk and chew gum at the same time. We can cute cancer, and give men the kind of penis size women desire and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.This is how to make sure that never happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Hard to say about penises between 3 and 4 inches. Any man below 4 inches is basically sexually worthless to straight women of they have a choice. Of course most women don't know a man is than small until they're already in bed. But if they could grow his size, most women if they're being honest absolutely would. A 4 inch penis is fine for some women who are looking for a man with a smaller penis. There's almost no women looking and hoping a man has a 4 inch penis. I obviously can't say there's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Exactly. That's my point. They don't need to, it's what big boobs surgery is very popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Do they actually prefer these sizes though or do they not know what the average looks and feels like? Women like to be believed when they say something. So if they say they prefer above average penises, is it right to just say they're lying? Ocourse you can put a preference when asked but that doesn't mean you really care about it. With all the small penis shaming, calling negative character traits "small dick energy", calling positive character traits "big dick energy", women sure make it sound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.I don't want you going anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.I know people see eugenics as inherently bad. But I don't think it's enough to just reduce it to a buzz word and say let's never discuss it. Small penises are undesirable to women. And they lead to shame and ridicule for men. At my most depressed state, I started googling painless suicide. If I could spare a boy from the same fate through eugenics, I would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.This would be done at the fetus stage, so I couldn't get a big penis using that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.It's a hypothetical. I'm not sure exactly where genetic engineering as at this point. I've heard some interesting stories about that kind of research, about parents being able to give their baby a certain eye colour, things like that. If it keeps developing, I think they might be able to determine other genetic factors, like penis size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:12 AM |
| 0 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Maybe of it were a female body issue, you can build some compassion around it. Male body issues, for whatever reason, elicit none of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.For micropenis, this would help men who are under 3 inches. So should men who are 3 inches, or 3.5 inches be left to such a small and undesirable size? From what I've heard from women, girth matters a lot as well, you could make sure men have more girthy penises as that's what women desire. I don't know anything about fisherman culture and boasting. Does that mean that when women sat they want a big penis they shouldn't be believed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 09:07 AM |
| 2 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.I think we can all walk and chew gum at the same time. If it were feasible, I'm sure there'd be enough doctors to for different situations. Problem is that even if they don't breed, those genes might still occur. This would eradicatebthem completely. Help men lead better sex lives with more confidence, and help women not have to tolerate small penises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:56 AM |
| 3 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.I think that link partially agrees with my point. Women want bigger penises, and small ones are at a disadvantage. You could still help the men who are undesirable to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.It's been shown that women's penis size preferences are bigger than the average penis. Women don't tend to discuss penis size This just means that it's socially taboo to discuss the topic. But when asked for their size preferences by researchers, it's no women ever say they desire a small penis. outside of outlier sizes, Those who are outliers on the large side are still okay because size queens exist, so they're still wanted. But no outliers on the small side are desirable to women. There's no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:45 AM |
| 2 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Yes, a new baseline would be created. The this baseline would actually be desirable to women, in a way small penises aren't. If we had readily available gene altering technology, you honestly think the main priority should be to make our pp's bigger? Not targeting genes that make people more prone to cancer? Or eliminating other hereditary diseases? Whataboutism? I never made any claims against cancer, but we can all walk and chew gum at the same time. You could address a whole range of issues, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:34 AM |
| 0 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.This would be done at the fetus stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.Studies have shown that women favour and desire penises that are much bigger than the average. This would be a win for women too. They wouldn't have to worry about coming across a man with a small penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | It would be for the better to use genetic engineering on male fetuses to raise small penis size to a value that's more desirable and acceptable to society.You could still use genetic engineering on those with deformities. For technique to work, the tool size is still important. A small tool limits technique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?I disagree. I think expecting to be an all round great in every department is way more unrealistic. Of course, women choose singledom all the time, but I'm glad a lot of women here were still able to find which way they lean when weighing up imperfect options, as we have to do sometimes in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 09:22 AM |
| 3 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Lol, really? That's understandable I guess, especially if you wanna protect him. I'm an ugly man myself, so I hate being asked for a picture, I'd much rather someone know my personality, which is affable, than just what I look like. It's why online dating is out of the question for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 5 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Wow, several excellent points here. Most of the women were choosing the first option, and I was beginning to understand that stance. But you also make a great point for choosing great looks, which is that people either overlook your personality flaws or they just see them as endearing. Like, I remember once at work, it was somebody's birthday, and the whole office got to have a slice of cake, but we had to choose between two cakes. I chose one, but one of my coworkers, an absolutely gorgeous wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?LMAO! 😂 Well, point taken, I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?That sounds like a good place to be in. I've often rolled my eyes when women complain about how hard life is when you're super good looking and beating man away with a stick. But maybe there's something to that, if you the plus side is not attracting bad men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?LOL, sorry, I'm a bit thick at times. Generally I like self-deprecation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?I'm unfamiliar with demisexuality. I'll have to educate myself on what that means exactly. As for the looks and personality, while I agree that people aren't absolutes, I still think the question is valid because, at least for men, I think there'll be an aggregate feeling of her looks and personality, encompassing the likes and dislikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Meh I mean I look how I look and I get most male attraction because of my looks Even though I'm a man, I'm low key jealous of people who get attention from the opposite sex because of their looks. If someone just thinks I'm hot and they don't like my personality, it 100% doesn't work. But I also don't want to date someone who doesn't think I'm hot cuz??? I'm trying to get laid here lol. But I know I'm far from the hottest girl out there, so at the end of the day to be fair, I guess if prefer the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 2 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?lol, well, I appreciate you making the choice. I know it's a bit hard, but that's kind of the point I think. Just tryin to really look deep and analyze the dynamic for women, and what's truly the priority in the real world where we often don't have it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?For instance, does "mediocre/average" really mean what you say it means and that he'd think something along those lines of in "on a bell curve, her looks are probably somewhere average" and he'd feel very "neutral" about it; or would he just feel kind of "meh" abot my looks, or almost "restentful" that I am not prettier? There's a big difference in that. I guess I mean the first one. Like, he's not resentful, he just thinks middle of the road, plain, common. First it really depends on how smitte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:56 PM |
| 6 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Really? I feel the opposite. Being both gorgeous and having an amazing personality is something few people encompass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Ah, I hadn't thought of that. Good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Yeah, but it's a fun thought experiment game where people have to make a priority choice of bad choices Yeah, this is basically it. It's looking into and really examining a situation to see where your priorities truly lie. But yeah, women seem to be extremely uncomfortable with doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?I welcome elaboration. Tell me what's the but. Someone said it's because looks fade in middle-age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 04:23 PM |
| 18 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?Maybe this is a consequenc of women's brains just working differently from men. Like, do most women not know if their partner is really good looking or just okay? I think most men know, but are smart enough to know to just tell her she's beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 14 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?I like this comment. Makes a lot of sense. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I hope you're right. Women tend to be blind when it comes to some men and assume they'd never be awful to people. It hasn't been my experience. My guess is they just don't show you that side of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Women are the biggest body shamers of womenit's my view. Change it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.There's a difference between a requirement, and being cruel and means spirited. Women ENJOYED letting small penis men know just how worthless and unfuckable they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 06:42 AM |
| 2 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I understand if you wanna end the discussion. Like I said, I like you, I think you're a good person. I've no I'll feelings towards you. As for men, yes, I hate men, even though I'm a man myself. But I see the death, destruction and suffering they've wreacked, and continue to, especially to women and children. It's okay if you don't wanna continue our discussion. But to me, you're not the enemy. Men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”It's not as good as sex with someone attractive who you also have a strong emotional connection with So for women, the emotional connection actually enhances the physical pleasure sensations from the vagina? It's just not worth it. If there's no emotional connection, a serious, long term relationship is impossible, which renders the whole association pointless So most women can only really like sex as the means to a long term relationship? That's very different for men because I think most men c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”If men are biologically incapable of acting humanely/controlling themselves, then they should not be allowed to hold any position of authority in society, should have a curfew and a woman or team of women who are in charge of monitoring him, and should be separated from the rest of civilized society. The men who prove to be violent should be put down like an animal that can’t be trained. This would be a fantasy premise for a speculative fiction novel a la "The Handmaid's Tale". I'd read it. I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”If men are biologically incapable of acting humanely/controlling themselves, then they should not be allowed to hold any position of authority in society, should have a curfew and a woman or team of women who are in charge of monitoring him, and should be separated from the rest of civilized society. The men who prove to be violent should be put down like an animal that can’t be trained. This would be a fantasy premise for a speculative fiction novel a la "The Handmaid's Tale". I'd read it. I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”If men are biologically incapable of acting humanely/controlling themselves, then they should not be allowed to hold any position of authority in society, should have a curfew and a woman or team of women who are in charge of monitoring him, and should be separated from the rest of civilized society. The men who prove to be violent should be put down like an animal that can’t be trained. This would be a fantasy premise for a speculative fiction novel a la "The Handmaid's Tale". I'd read it. I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Yeah, that usually does it for men. But it's definitely a good idea to keep in my the emotional/mental aspect for women. it's easy to take for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Here's my final reply. And suggesting that women turn to lesbianism isn’t going to work for the majority of women who are heterosexual. Sexuality can be surprisingly flexible. Just look at some research about female prisons. Surely men can't be so irresistible that women would rather risk sexual assault than be single or date a woman instead? I think political lesbianism exists for that reason. I constantly encourage women to not date men at all, learn about how to identify red flags, and build … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Wow, like I said, female sexuality is so strange. Even if a man had negative feelings towards you that day, if you sucked his dick, you'd make him orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 2 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I read the article. One of them talked about pretend she was asleep. I think most these men just need to be dumped. It's not like any woman would die without a relationship. I'd even ask why not date women instead. They're lovely, attractive, and won't fondle you while you sleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”But the pure physically sensations and pleasure are still there. Women just psyche themselves out of it? I guess female sexuality is really weird. So you could have 2 exactly identical sexual encounters. Exactly them same on absolute every way possible. And she could feel pleasure/orgasm in one and not the other purely based on emotional connection? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 5 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I don't think the dynamic holds up in young couples. A lot of those boys are about as good looking at their female counterparts. Male and female looks will never be comparable because one is feminine, the other masculine. But a lot of the young men in relationships look plenty masculine to me. A lot of men may not be super rich, but I think most of them make more money than their partner, and their partner wouldn't be interested if they didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”But women can enjoy sex without orgasm, can't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Yeah I don’t fuck with guys who don’t put in effort or don’t know how to please me in bed; that means my potential partner list goes down to about zero men Who cares about my private sex life. But you did include yourself here, and I included myself to refute this type of claim. I'll always have a small penis, there's no amount of "know how" changes that for men. The quality of the sex in these one night stands will be the same for both parties, accept all the pressure in on the male partner to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 02:21 PM |
| 4 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Except this is not true at all. Look around at the couples you see in public. 90% of the time the woman is objectively more attractive than the man That's because money is more important to women than looks. I'm betting most of that 90% makes more money than she does. If he made less money, and was ugly, I doubt he'd get the time of day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Well, it's a one night stand. They'll never see her again, so I guess as long as they get theirs, they're happy. I imagine the guys are extremely good looking, of a woman who do a ONS with them. So I feel no kinship with them. I'm ugly, and have a small penis. I'd never get the casual sex they do. But I'm sure women are still happy to give them ONS sex if there's a chance the hottie sticks around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 3 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I'll take your word for it. Although I don't understand. All the nerve endings around the vaginal entrance are still there. A decent sized penis should still stretch her open, fill her up enough to the stimulation. Not to mention the g-spot. Are they only activated with emotional connection with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”So you go quickly, rather than dying slowly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”You can’t compare not getting sex to starvation, because one will literally kill you and the other one just makes you a little sad. Ffs. Comparisons aren't meant to be an absolute identical in every respect. But they highlight something. The point of this one is that at the very least women are getting laid, which for so many men, can't even get the bare minimum women take for granted. What you described as painful and degrading, sounds more like BDSM/50 shades stuff. I highly doubt that's what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:36 PM |
| 8 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”So women are physically incapable of enjoying sex without an emotional connection or commitment? Like, they don't even feel NO SEXUAL PLEASURE AT ALL. Nothing? Just a completely numb unfeeling vagina? What, does the g-spot just completely deactivate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 01:14 PM |
| 47 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I don't buy the not going for less attractive women thing. Most men have very little physical standards. They make like big titty porn, but if the flat chested woman smiles at them, and they won't care at all. They just wanna be with her. There might be some super good looking, tall, wealthy men out there who can afford to be super picky. Or men who really do think they can get anyone hottie they want. Be most ordinary men will take what they can get, outside of the extreme of obesity, or very n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:20 AM |
| 51 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”I think getting sex is better than not getting sex. Unless you're saying women don't care about sex? Regardless of the goal, the journey to it for women is filled with men who atleast physically desire them. But women are so used to being sexually desired, they take that feeling for granted. It's like sunlight, so abundant and everywhere, it's no longer special for them. But take a man who been locked in a dungeon for a few months, and sunlight will be the most beautiful thing. Sex doesn't matte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:01 AM |
| 44 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Nobody likes to feel undesirable, goal or not. It's not perfect for women, but it's a whole lot better than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:42 AM |
| 108 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”100 rejections and 100 unsuitable dates is NOT THE SAME THING. One tells you you're desirable, men want you. The other tells you you're undesirable, ugly, and they don't want anything to do with you. One leaves you feeling worthless, the other leaves you feeling your dates are worthless. Women have it better than men in dating. But they complain because THEY DON'T HAVE IT PERFECT. And then try to say men and women are in the same boat. They pretty much can get sex on tap. And complain about how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?Aww, sweet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?You may not see it, but that doesn't mean it's not there. There's degrees of hatred. I'm not talking about an extreme vitriolic hatred. But a low, simmering hatred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?I think there's a thin line between disappointed and a low level, deep inside hatred for not turning out how a real boy is supposed to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 12:07 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?Well, can anyone reading this translate that please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 6 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?I wasn't talking about being trans. I'm talking about people who still I identify as their original gender, but have an express that doesn't completely go along with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?Hey, I'm not sure what this means in relation to the question. Could you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 9 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?Yeah, men definately hate feminine sons. I've read a few stories on r/parenting, and their so ashamed and embarrassed by them. They don't even have an affectionate name like "tomboy" for them. It's just "girly/sissy/gay" I don't know if women are as resentful as men are. I doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?I agree. I just don't think neoliberals, or right wing conservatives as the other poster call themselves will ever understand that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?Exactly! Yeah. And you gotta look at the generational aspect of it as well. Most of the extreme wealth we see is generation. They inherited. As much as the like of Trump might try play that down. But poverty can be generational as well. People are born into poor communities, with poor I'll funded schools. So even if you were paying attention at school, you might not escape those circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 03:53 PM |
| 0 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?Would men really not fuck a single mom if she looked like Jessica Alba? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 12:21 PM |
| 3 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?I'm guessing their a neoliberal. They always see poverty as personal moral/spiritual failing. IF POOR PEOPLE WOULD JUST WORK HARDER, THEY COULD AFFORD ALL THE HEALTHCARE AND HOUSING THEY COULD EVER NEED, SO LET'S CUT SPENDING ON SOCIAL PROGRAMS, WE'RE ONLY ENCOURAGING THEIR POVERTY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)All my hopes of ever finding sexual love and happiness are in the oral stimulation basket. By biggest fear is to end up with a woman who either doesn't like or want that, or who's says it's not enough, I need to have a dick thick enough to give her the full feeling women want. I'd happily eat pussy for hours if need be if it made my partner, this woman that I'm into, that I find beautiful, sexy and funny, happy. I wouldn't even need a blowjob back. I'd be self-conscious about showing her my thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)I prefer the team work based approach. we work together to pleasure each other. Give and take. Selfish lovers suck, even if they're lazy females who think their mere presence in the encounter is enough from their end, and all the work and responsibility is mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)I would, but they don't come cheap. And me without insurance... I wasn't trying to "talk" about it. Just trying to tell the other poster they're not correct about male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Most men get an erection when the damned wind blows. Such a stereotypical view of men. Not all men hypersexual hormonal teens walking around with an erection everytime they see above the ankle. I like being in the mood too. I like being relaxed, comfortable and with someone I trust too. I like to know I'm not being judged and graded on my performance coz that just makes me feel pressured. I wanna give pleasure, but I don't wanna be with a selfish lover who makes the entire success of the encount… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I see. I mean, I don't think I'll ever understand the female obsession with being "dainty", other than I guess giving your lovers a "weak helpless damsel in distress to rescue" power fantasy. Which I'm sure a lot of men go for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 02:25 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)I wish I had a dick that big. Women would love me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 10:49 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Hopefully. But when your dick is a below average girth as mine, all you have is giving oral and manual stimulation. And hope she won't be too upset with how small your dick is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)There's no being fuckable when you have below average girth dick. You eat pussy, finger her, and hope and pray she'll forgive your dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Why thank you Satan. 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Planks are the sexiest if you have a nice ass. And an Italian woman who does overhead squat thrusts and curtsy lung lifts is gonna have a really sweet ass and thighs. (I LOVE this body part one woman who are fit. When it's bubble butt and strong thighs) Very strong yet still feminine curvy. I think you got the right priorities. You know what looks good for a woman, and have achieved it. And now you're just tweaking it to perfection. Good for you. It's very admirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 06:47 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)They've gotten SUPER wet really easily. Maybe I just got lucky?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?You're probably selling yourself short on that one. I'm guessing you pumping iron is incredibly sexy. Do you never get that feeling it might be, when you're lifting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Ever measured your biceps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I get the feeling you're hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I'm not knowledgeable on those programs. But I'm glad if they're working. Because at this point, I've begun to accept my misandry. I hate men. I hate how we glamorize violence. I hate how it's cool to beat down another man and make him submissive to you. I hate how this is viewed as a measure of a man's worth. I hate how it's considered brave to do something stupid, and cowardly to be smart. I've lost hope that men will ever be different. And I hate being a man, and having all these narrow expec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I don't blame women for wanting to be with tall men. I'm not much of a body guard so I could never fullfil that type of "fight club"/ "fight other men for me" role those women need from men. Men could choose to severely decrease male violence, and then fewer women would feel the need to depend on stronger male partners for safety. I imagine you might be able to appeal to a men's sense of gallantry/masculinity to get them to act in whatever way you need, maybe. But I know when I was physically as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Just because I have follow ups, doesn't mean I'm not listening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?LOL, I know right. But I did. There's merit to it. For me it's all about getting different points of view. It's why I use Reddit. Sorry if it's offensive or seams bad faith. Any comment on the topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?You're "fascinated" why women want to be smaller and weaker, but don't wonder why men desire smaller and weaker partners. We know men are supposed to be big and strong. But it's weird to hear people tell girls "BE SMALL AND WEAK" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Not copy pasted. Typed it out each time. I make my way through all the POST REPLIES, and respond. Then I see what the replies to that are in COMMENT REPLIES. I like getting as much different responses as possible to my thoughts. Sorry if it's offensive. Not my intention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Cool. I wish that was a wider sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Right. In relation. But do you think even being stronger for a woman, is undesirable to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I was referring more to physical strength. Surely there must be benefits for women to be physically strong, even if the downside is bit chases away men who want a helpless damsel/Barbie to take care of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?And yet you're defending your preconceived notion. You ask why women feel a certain way, and when woman after woman explains that we DON'T feel that way, you continue to affirm that we must. Just asking follow up questions. And I've had some good informative exchanges because of it. I think that this is a natural human thing though. That's understandable. As a man I hate feeling like I have to pretend to be strong, when I'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 03:51 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I've seen women who have pumped iron become very strong. Not stronger than men who pump iron, but WAY stronger than women are expected to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Not necessarily. Lots of women pump iron to get strong. May not be stronger than men who also pump iron, but they do get stronger than women are expected to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Men prefer weaker and more feminine framed women. Seems like most do. I didn’t think about my height. If anything women stress over having too broad of a frame (wide shoulders) or no boobs in adolescence/teen years. So height doesn't count for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Even if that means being feminine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:48 PM |
| -4 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Not really. It's a logical deduction to women enjoying being small and weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 5 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Not a conclusion, a question. Surely those are ok here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Weak men, Betas, LVM, any men that women don’t get sexually excited for. I was talking more about physical power. A man could be physically weak, while still being socially powerful. Like a monarch. No, they just hope to find a man bigger/stronger than them. Regardless of their height. But wouldn't the chance of doing that be better if they're not tall/strong themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:25 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?So sick of seeing this argument that women just naturally want to be oppressed. Nobody naturally wants to be oppressed, and anyone who does is messed up in the head. I've never thought about it the way you put it here. Erotisizing the power dynamic. I just hear it so often from women that this is how they like to feel in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:19 PM |
| 7 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Right, but being small MEANS they're smaller than their partner, doesn't it? And feminine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 6 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I'm taller than an average American man and I love it: That's great. I see so many women being resentful of being tall. I never used to think that was a thing because fashion models are tall and help up by society and media as attractive and feminine. First, I never faced any issues dating,men love being womanhandled by a tall woman. But society seems to be very resentful of couples where the woman is taller. Like I've heard some ACTUALLY angry comments about that kind of situation. Second, you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?The feeling of being cherished and protected has to do with security, not weakness. But doesn't better physical strength mean better security for a woman? Unless women only really want that security from men and not themselves? Because I'm guessing even using a firearm takes some amount of strength for a woman. (I could be wrong here, not an expert on guns) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Can't remember. I think it's just from the idea that being small is feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I think for women, it’s less about being actually “weaker” and more about being feminine. It's the connection there that fascinates me. Because weakness is considered a feature of femininity. Like, do young girls grow up hoping not to get tall during puberty so as to be feminine? I want to be with a man that encourages that feeling of femininity especially as men are naturally physically stronger - but I’m also short so that’s not hard. Does that include treating women as weak and inferior not m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?That's a good point. It still fascinates me in a way. Like do young girls grow up hoping not to get tall during puberty so they can preserve their femininity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?You find it weird that heterosexual women want to look feminine at times play up femininity so that heterosexual men desire them? I find it fascinating that they enjoy being weaker or inferior physically than men? I wonder if they grow up as girls hoping not to get taller during puberty, so as to protect their femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 11 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?That's a good point. So women enjoy being psychological superior, but PHYSICALLY INFERIOR? That's fascinating. Always makes me wonder if girls grow up hoping they don't get taller during puberty so they can preserve the physical inferiority part of it. Sometimes it feels like there's an overlap when being physically weaker turns women on mentally, or makes them feel safe or protected, which is partially a mental state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:39 PM |
| -1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?In terms of what I'm referring to, it's the bodyguard. Because the emperor could be a gay effeminate, and still be dominant if you're talking socially. The weakness of femininity is an interesting idea as well. So does that mean the female psyche is built to me more small and weak compared to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?This is probably the best explanation I've seen so far. It's like an in bedroom/out of bedroom divide. So women like being inferior to men sexually only. That's interesting. I guess it's easy to take for granted just because outside the bedroom the idea of women being weak or inferior is considered very bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:25 PM |
| -2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?It's almost like some women want one thing and other women want something else. I didn't mention this because I think it goes without saying that this sub is about generalization. Otherwise, it why should it even exist? Also the desire to be "strong" doesn't always mean physical strength. Autonomy and financial independence are goals for a lot of women too, That's right. So this would mean women like being stronger than men financially, but weaker physically? That's still fascinating to me. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:14 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Can't help it, I'm a thinker. Like, are all non boyfriend/husband men considered weak to them? Did they grow up as little girls hoping they wouldn't get taller during puberty? How does their inferiority to their husband playout if they notice a man stronger than he is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:07 PM |
| -4 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?That's FASCINATING TO ME. Is this because if nature, or nurture? Have women always enjoyed being physically weak and inferior to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Still interesting. Do all those women grow up a little girls praying they do not get taller during puberty? That's fascinating to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 01:00 PM |
| 17 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Feminine and attractive translating to short and weak? That's what fascinates me. It's interesting that women find the physical state to be advantageous and desirable. Like do young girls grow up praying they don't get taller during puberty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 12:41 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?So they like being strong in other areas, but weak physically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 12:38 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I like being attractive, and being smaller and weaker is part of what makes me attractive. That's why I asked of it's just the female psyche that enjoys being weak. Power comes from money and social standing. Maybe I should have been more precise. I didn't mean money power. Obviously some women out there are more powerful than the average man in this category. I meant physically power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?So that's why being strong and powerful in the bedroom turns them off? So it's like they're natural state is one of weakness, but they have to be strong outside the bedroom for their own wellbeing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I'm 30. If someone is a virgin or has had like one partner (unless it was a 12 year relationship) tells me there are other problems. It's not the virginity the problem but the causes thereof. I think that's why I started lying about. And life was easier. There's no incentive to telling the truth because most women will assume you're a sexual moron who doesn't know what clitoral stimulation. Or that you're dumb enough to think copying porn is a good idea. (I once had a married woman tell me that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?It's not unfortunate. It's just you. Fortunately, others are different, and would have no problem fucking someone who doesn't fit that description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Yeah, it helps to be with the right kind of woman. Some open minded, communicates well sexually, and is willing experience with them. And it definitely helps if she acute likes them as a person, and wants to fuck them because of that. As well as just treat them well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Wow, that's lovely! Maybe it's because of the type of person you are? But I just felt so ugly and undesirable. The best I could do were cheap dates to free museums, by train coz I didn't have a car. And even then I could hardly afford to buy her more a sandwich or small burger after. Being poor is the worst, and I couldn't do that to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I see. I think he had other issues going on then simply not having fucked more women. As far as simply being nervous around a new partner, is it really that unreasonable? (Info dump about past partners, not so much!) But being nervous around someone new and beautiful, that you wanna give pleasure to, that's understandable. What helps for me is of it's someone I like and TRUST. Trust just makes me so much more relaxed and comfortable. I've had someone get angry when they learned I was a virgin. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I wasn't trying to impress anyone. What would be the point. Just saying anyone who pegged me as a sub because I was an older virgin would have been wrong. There's nothing I care less about than being "ALPHA". It's so fucking moronic. Just be yourself. Anyway, you're hostility is weird. Did I insult you somehow? I actually agreed with some of what you said. Why can't I use Reddit now? I did make it happen. That's why I think open minded adventurous women are the best for virgins. And the "one and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Yeah, I'm not sure why that should matter so much. If you wanna fuck, let's fuck. Who the hell cares why no one else hasn't. Atleast you know they're not giving you chlamydia. It's too simplistic to just say shy. I'm no Casanova, I can't seduce or pick up strangers at a bar. But given an introduction, I can hold a good conversation. It's a shame that people use preconceived notions to judge you. It's why I simply lied. And advise all older virgins to do the same, since there's no incentive to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:37 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Even as an older virgin I always hated the moralizing that goes on with "your first time should be special". People just have this preconceived notion of who you are based on not having put your penis in a vagina. But I also knew random one night stands were not for me. I wanted to like and trust the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Well I'm still no Casanova. I can't approach random strangers romantically. I need an introduction. I'm good at normal conversation about whatever, not smooth taking or pick up stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Sorry. I was agreeing with you. There's women out there who are wrong for virgins. The ones who are one chance and you're out. But the ones who are into communication and open minded enough to experiment and try different things are the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Lol, Wow! That's crazy. I guess it's not only men who think of sex as something a man does TO a woman, instead if it being a team sport where they both contribute and help each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Oh, I understand. It's totally understandable. Especially if the woman in question is only giving you one sex session to rock her world, no directions or instructions, or you're out. It's like she wants you, until she finds out you haven't fucked anyone else first. But for women who're more into communication, and willing to give you more than one chance, open minded and adventurous enough to experiment and explore different clitoral, g-spot, manual, oral, different positions and techniques. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Agreed. The best thing for a virgin is to be with a woman who doesn't expect men to simply know exactly what she likes, how she likes it, when she likes, at what speed, rhythm and angle. All you can do as a man is focus on giving her pleasure. Whether that's clitoral stimulation, g-spot, oral, fingers, sex toys (a woman who owns sex toys is always a good sign) different positions and techniques. And willing and open minded enough to experiment with you to find what works. Instead of just laying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Understandable. I resorted to just lying. I couldn't stand the sheer amount of judgement of being a 30+ virgin. Women look at you like you're a leper. Or a love sick moron. Or a mental retard who doesn't know clitoral stimulation exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 9 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Lol, yeah. Being an older virgin, people look at you like you're a leper. Or you're mentally retarded. You absolutely have to lie when asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Would you only give a virgin one sex session to prove they can give you pleasure and orgasms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Thank you. It's how the world is unfortunately. I've just learner not to tell future partners. It seems women take it to mean I was involved in sex trafficking minors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?That's why I think I'll have to lie if I'm ever asked. I imagine 7 is a number most women might respect. I wish it didn't matter so I could be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Would you ask them if they're within your range? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I don't know if that's a good reason or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I always thought there was this Hollywood image of me as an old virgin that people had. Like Steve Carell in that movie. That I must be a socially inept moron who doesn't know what a clitoris is. Or that I must be a submissive. Wasn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I was fat, ugly and poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:47 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I was an old virgin just because I spent so much if my twenties fat, ugly and poor. I basically lived in a shoe box. I couldn't really date women because I couldn't bring the kind of money and healthy weight that's needed. I couldn't pay for all the things I wanted to pay for. Couldn't afford even a second-hand car. But I felt so defensive when I ask WHY I was still a virgin, because we're supposed to follow this life script that says have sex before this date or you're a worthless man. So I hir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Sorry, just getting clarification. Do you mean you dislike men with 3 more AND 3 fewer previous sexual partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | We know all about the pitfalls of women dating a mamma's boy, but have you ever been involved or known with a daddy's girl/princess?Psychosexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you think it's men or women who mostly engage in small penis shaming?Sorry for such a late reply. But if you're still engaged in this topic, may I ask what you mean by not making it the woman's problem. Having a small penis, I'd prefer to mostly cunnilngus and fingering sex. But women still want penetration, even of the man has a small thin penis. Which means it becomes her problem since I'll have to ask her to do the positions that work with my small one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you think it's men or women who mostly engage in small penis shaming?By declaring any man with a small penis inferior to his large one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do men ever get angry or upset at a partner with sexual dysfunction similar to how women get upset with men who lose erections?Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do men ever get angry or upset at a partner with sexual dysfunction similar to how women get upset with men who lose erections?Oops, was I biased? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysWhy's that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysYou're the one implying that women who are infertile or can't give birth, are are a a useless waste of space. I disagree. A rich vibrant society needs all sorts. A man who eschews physical strength and objects to pursue intellectual or cultural contributions to society doesn't deserve the contempt you have for him. And neither does a woman who does the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysYes, it could. Especially with the right support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysThat doesnt mean female skills arent valuable, cause they are if you an actual female that can utilize those skills, aka give birth and such. LMAO😂 Welp. That's all women are good for. As human incubators. And of course once the birth has taken place, Job's done. No need for nurturing child care for the man. So obviously, when a girl shows interest in masculine things, we deep down know those interests could lead to the learning of masculine skills. A culturally rich and vibrant society has room… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysHave you been schooled at all? Wouldn't that kind of adversity actually toughen them up. Might be the reason drag queens are some of the toughest SOBs I've ever met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysOh yeah, that's a good point about drag queens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysHm. How is a male ballet dancer feminine? Lol, really? I know a boy who went to a ballet school, HE WAS THE ONLY BOY THERE!" I actually know one and that guy has nothing "gender non conforming" about him Good for him, I know boy who is gender non conforming. There's nothing wrong with that either. A gender non conforming dude wears dresses and plays with dolls. And how is a boy playing with a doll, or wearing a dress completely destroying his future as a productive member of society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysHow would a boy being into "fairy princess" stuff like ballet fuck up their lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysSomeone else made a similar argument. I'm saying those two are not mutually exclusive. One causes the other. Seeing the feminine as inferior leads to treating GNC boys as abominations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysLol, I wish I knew what that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Gender non conforming girls are given much more freedom of expression by family than GNC boysThis isn’t “boys have it worse,” it’s quite literally “boyish behavior is seen as good, girly as bad” Those two statements are not mutually exclusive. They connect to each other. The reason boys have it worse is BECAUSE boyish behavior is seem as superior to girlish Regular girls know this - how many of our fathers took great pride in teaching us to change our tires? My father took great pride in the fact that my sister and I were both gifted athletes. I know that's how it is. But if they believ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI’m really sorry that happened to you, and I hope you can see/believe that’s not everyone Yeah, it helps to calm down my anxiety to see some women are different. Sometimes I get so scared I'm too small for women to enjoy when I experience penis shaming. I get very depressed, thinking how even if a woman fell in love with me, I'm dooming her to an inadequate penis and sex. Or that she'll be disappointed when she sees it. I also get scared she won't want me to compensate with toys, oral or manual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaHey, I know I'm a bit late on replying to you here. Just wanted to say I may have been a little defensive and combative, maybe a lot. I know there's things women can't easily change. And a lot of women can't afford surgery. Even losing weight can be so hard. Women shouldn't receive that kind of scrutiny and criticism. You could also buy a vibrator, get good at oral sex/hand stuff. God, I hope and pray that's the case. A female poster elsewhere here told me all that other stuff gets old for women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI'm not playing victim. Just being honest. You admited yourself women talk about, and I've obviously heard no than you. "What am I supposed to do with THIS" "*SHRIMP DICK" Holding up pinky finger. "His dick was he size of my 5 year old brother*" These also comments from I've from various women. I'm not taking this or making it up. I'm not the one making it a big deal. I wish it wasn't. But women make it a massive windows deal, and make it seem like men deserve to be treated like shit for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaIt’s nothing to be suicidal over Yeah. Money isn't important to rich folks. But to a poor person, it's everything. It might be easier for you to take sex for granted. But believe me, feeling like you're uniquely unlovable and unfuckable, can produce the kind of depression that makes you wonder why were you even born if there's no hope for sexual love and happiness in your life. I would do ANYTHING to be good enough for a woman. Toys, tongue, fingers and fisting, if it makes me sexually worth whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaprefer average or below average. It Women who like a below average penis? I've been searching the Reddit subs for anything like that. I could easily find women who like large penises, but none who like small. The closest I can find is women who say they don't care about size. But none who actually prefer below average. Is that the best smaller men can ever really hope for? It can hurt a lot having someone pound on your cervix Would that be preferable to a lack of sensation from how slim it is? L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaYou’re right not many prefer really small ones, just like not many men prefer really flat chests, but I’d say plenty will overlook it if the guy isn’t too insecure makes up for it sexually using toys or other methods. Yeah, it's painful to know I could never be anyone's preference. But I hope you're right about being acceptable if I've got other skills. It's just distressing to think I'll always be a disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaReally? But like, men get turned on by certain body parts especially. butt, boobs. Their size and roundness. Is it not like that for women and a penis? Was the small one still hot? Sexy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginabut that would be true if you had a bigger dick too. Except of I had a big dick I'd have the societal backing of being told how desirable I am, and how women are looking for what I have. Instead of being small and having it ingrained how undesirable I am and how women don't like it. Assholes exist in the world. Worst thing is, I've seen people who are against body shaming do penis shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaAlso, my exes had big dicks, and I just had no urge to have sex with them. You weren't turned on by that? Attracted to it? You didn't miss the extra sensation you got from something bigger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaWere you not disappointed when you first saw the small one? Or turned of? How did you still derive enough sensation from it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaDo you have physical preferences about women you date that would be “dealbreakers?” Do you consider it “causing pain” That's not what she was talking about. She specifically said being "VERY CRUEL". And that she does it too. Look at her profile. Penis shaming is something she does. I'm sorry, but you can have preference, whilst treating others who don't fit it like human beings. And the fact that that's hard to understand is strange to me. I personally think sex is about way more than dick size.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaFirst of all: “except” Whatevs Not all men love big boobs the same way not all women love big dicks, but media/society tells us that’s what the opposite sex seeks as a group, so we get insecure about it. Some men small breasts, virtually no women love small penises. More men can over look a flat chest then women who can over look a micropenis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaWhat would the minimum be for you, before a man is worthless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaYou may not have had a below average sized partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI wish. You don't get called a "pencil dick" for having a big dick. Look, it's okay. Preference is fine. But I don't see why treated people like shit has to go along with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI've thought about admitting I've got a slim penis beforehand. I'm not sure how though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaAlrighty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaHuh?🤨 Bizarre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaThat's true. Sometimes men have trouble getting erect, or women have trouble lubricating. Sexual dysfunction is normal, it happens. It's not always the partners fault. I hate when women say it's their fault when a man can't get hard. It's not. Neither is the man's fault if his partner struggles with dryness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI understand. I know how worthless I am. I'm only 4.7 x 4.2, so I could never stretch you out. I'm hoping I can use clitoral and g-spot stimulation to give pleasure and orgasms. But like you said, those orgasms would get old. I just hope that's not the case for others. I feel suicidal enough as I am. If I real am unfuckable, I feel so hopeless about finding a woman who could forgive my size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI did. Agree. But I think some people use that as a cover to say some really mean things about someone's body. The few times I've seen a vagina looseness complaint, it's followed by a "only small penises feel loose". Like it's always the fault of the penis. Vaginas are all perfect. Penises aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:59 PM |
| 5 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginahate to say it but I kinda just wanna tell you to get over it. I'm glad you hate to say it. It's a mean thing to say. So it makes you seem like a good person. If there's was a switch in my brain I could flip to never feel shame or embarrassment, I would have by now. The things you meantioned above seem like they're easily changed. Like noise. I understand women feel bad about boobs too. But do some women like small cocks anywhere near as much as some men like small boobs. The derision of small d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaNo, he has pics and vids posted on his Twitter. It's really huge. Society is complete and utter bullshit in so many instances, and this is one of them. Yeah. Trying to maintain my confidence and a sense of worth is so difficult when it's associated with penis size. Even "big dick energy" hurts a bit. Just another reminder that that's the ideal, and how far away I am from it. Makes me very scared of women. When I like one, my mind mediately goes to"* but what will she think when she sees how smal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaIs 4.7 inches 20% away from 4 inches? The margins are so slim. Another inch and I'd be suicidal. How do you live knowing can ever love you? I felt that way during the incident I described above. It makes life feel so hopeless. Like, why was I even born if I'm so worthless to women. Sorry, maybe I'm being too honest here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaAlso plenty of shaming towards "beef curtains" looking vaginas, different shapes, colors, pubic hair Men seem to be more accepting of long labia then women are of small penises. It feels like penis shaming is more prevalent. I'm all for preference, but does that mean you treat people bloke they're less than human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaSure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaIt's a person issue for me. I didn't hide that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaAs long as you’re around 4 inches and know how to angle your dick Is 4 inches the minimum for a guy before he can't really be good in bed? I'm asking because I'm genuinely curious. It scares me to be so close to what's unacceptable. One less inch and I'd be unlovable? If you’re good at most of those things dick size shouldn’t matter much. What do you mean by "much". I strive to be good at those things, but penis shaming is beaten into your head since childhood as a man, it becomes ingrained that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaBecause for penetration bigger does feel better for a majority of women, the clitoris goes into the vagina & stimulation there can feel great to loads of ppl. I get that the bigger the penis is, the more pleasure it gives you. That's okay. As a guy with a slim penis, I know I'm probably hard for women to feel, or get pleasure from. It was an issue a few years back, when a partner told some of our mutual friends I had a "pencil dick". It was pretty painful. And depression. It's still a hard pill … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaExactly! Men don't do anything of that equivalence to women. Atleast not these days without looking very misogynist. Women don't get to go into a sexual relationship wonder if their vagina is big enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vagina"As much"? Does that mean you do sometimes? Is it not an issue if it's lacking in girth? Less pleasurable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaLol. I do. Having a smaller penis, you don't want it being covered in hair. I'd increase my girth if I could as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaLol😀. No, she was straight. I saw she eventually did end up with a guy who had a HUGE penis. They look happy. I'm a little ashamed to have checked her social media to see. It made me feel worse. Like her issue was legitimate. I do have to wear small condoms, and I'm very ashamed of that as well. Society just beats it into your brain from childhood that small is bad and shameful, and leaves women unhappy. I'm a bit jealous that women are all acceptable, but us men have to live up to these standar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaBut atleast you don't get the shame and embarrassment of knowing you need to wear small condoms. Of being scared she'll be disappointed when she sees you naked. Of having society tell you you're sexually worthless and unfuckable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaThat's okay to have preferences. But people don't deserve to be treated like shit for being outside them. How do you derive pleasure from causing someone else pain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginabut the majority aren’t that bothered, and even if they do prefer it it’s typically further down the priority list. Not sure what this means? Like if he's below average, they'll forgive it? 7 inches sounds like a LONG penis. If that's your maximum, you're taking big ones. It might be man made, but women are more than happy to perpetuate it. Not to say women should be shamed, but it's so nerve wracking going into a new relationship knowing you wear small condoms. The shame and embarrassment. Hopi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaWaxing public hair is fairly easy compared to trying to increase penile girth. I wax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:19 PM |
| -2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI wish I was as emotionally impervious as you. But just like women, I have feelings and emotions too. But I understand, as a man mine are supposed to matter less. I'm not emotionally bulletproof. Being called a "pencil dick", I didn't know how not to be ashamed of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:17 PM |
| 9 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaIf a woman is unable to get physically aroused, then while yes, you can lubricate the vagina, the lube doesn't make sex automatically pleasurable. Some women can be turned on but still dry. Just like some men can be turned on but not get erect. Dysfunction happens. But one dysfunction, in general, is treated with compassion. The other with jokes and ridicule and complaints. The "treatment" is nuanced but includes adequate and skillful foreplay, I agree. But there's no treatment for a man who nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaMore important as in a factor to consider? Or more important as in "I like men who have a cock like a soup can"? Yeah, as in they like feeling "filled up". I was told vaginas are pressure sensitive, and that's why women like girth. You are lucky. I had a partner call mine a "pencil dick", to her friends. I almost wanted to kill myself I was so depressed. I've never felt so worthless in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:05 PM |
| 6 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI never said that, I said “penis improvement“ measures are niche. Not to men. I see ads even in reputable newspapers. And penis enlargement and penis shaming go hand in hand. And men who are bad lovers suck. I'm with you there. But why make small penises synonymous with bad sex, and big penises synonymous with good sex? Not saying you personally, but I see that logic from a lot of women. "He had a small dick. Hahahah, loser!". It's just this assumption that small penis equals bad sex, big equals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaRight, but the reason you give is the reason the shamers give for why they shame. Vaginas feel the same, penises feel different, so that makes okay. Which of doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaReally? Hideous boobs? Even so, they're not a sex organ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaEven a pinky finger smashing into a pussy can cause bruising the next day. Really? Okay. I'll accept that. But that doesn't explain why all the blame for bad sex falls on smaller penises. While big ones are still praised, even if they're painful. Do women just like the pain from a big one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaIs that why it's okay to engage in penis shaming, but not vagina shaming? All vaginas are the same, but penises come in different shapes and sizes? That's painful to hear. I'm not saying I wanna see vaginas shamed. Women are lucky that they all feel the same for men. But that shouldn't excuse penis shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaYou really think small penis shaming is niche. I wish it was. Even growing up as I did, without an internet connection at home, I knew men were shamed and ridiculed for having a small penis. Women would hold up their pinky and giggle at a guy. I'm not saying women should be shamed, I hate that some men out there don't care about female pleasure. But all that blame is put on small penises, as if women who have sex with large penises never have bad sex. As if small penises automatically mean bad s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaIt's still so cruel to shame men for variations women are accepted for. Micropenis is also rare, but does that mean they deserve to be treated like a shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaDidn't you say you're average though. Only in length. My girth is below average. And women always say girth is more important. I'd be willing to use whatever toys, I'm just afraid that toys on the long term would be unacceptable to her. That she'd miss the real thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaTime spent is different that the severity of scrutiny. Men spend less time talking about women's weight, but that doesn't mean that shaming doesn't exist. Accept weight can be changed. Penis size can't (outside of snake oil and bad surgery) Women are more cruel to small penises than men are to larger vaginas. Any man who complains about a large vagina is accused of being small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:20 PM |
| 7 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaMen are the #1 people who insult men for their dick size. This is so popular in our media, you’d be lying if you said that wasn’t true. And you be lying if you claimed women don't do it just as much. I think it's shitty either way. women are better off not having hookups because most of you suck. Smaller dick men are better off without hookups as well. That's all women in that situation really care about. It's a better cushion if she atleast sees you as a human being and so she hopefully won't t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaNobody cares that much. I'm never too sure what "THAT MUCH" means. Does it mean there a minimum requirement and then yes, any man below is sexually worthless? You might be right about me seeing it mostly from the male perspective. I try to look for instances of men shaming women the way you say, I'm even searching r/memes now, and I can't find any. You clear just expect women to just shove some lube up there and get going regardless of how they may feel. Not at all. Just saying the female issue … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaAnd I totally get how being small must be a big cause for insecurities & society need to stop using shaming tactics like „small dick energy I agree mostly here. I'm not against women having preferences. But pleasurable intercourse can ALSO related to vaginal muscle tone, width, wetness, yet I'm sure you wouldn't want to see women being shamed for being wide set or looser. Pleasurable intercourse requires both vagina and penis, yet the penis is the only one that gets scrutinized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 9 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaYou ever been in pain because of a vagina? Pain is more associated with big dicks, but those are still praised to high heaven by women. Makes sense women are more critical of sex and penises. They’re the ones hetero sex is happening to. Hetero sex happens to TWO people. Furthermore, you ever have sex with someone continuously and never had an orgasm? Women do all their lives. Even with clitoral stimulation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI think straight men are pretty accepting of all vaginal variations. Whereas men get complaints about not being thick enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI don't know if my own issue would be shamed or not by another man. I'm sure some would shame me for being "broken", especially men who mostly enjoy porn where the guy just slams his 7" cock straight in. I'm glad you have a partner who doesn't shame you. But that would be rare. Unless the guy had the confidence of having a large dick himself (so he wants to replicate porn), I don't think you'd be shamed by another man. I'd be relieved you're not gonna shame me for being smaller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaMen don't complain about vaginas because they can still get off when fucking them. A man with the wrong-sized dick is a waste of time if a woman actually wants an orgasm And women can still get off with clitoral stimulation, unless I guess it's situated up by one of her ovaries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:21 PM |
| 7 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaMen are held responsible for being bad at sex when they're lazy turds who can't find a clitoris and don't care to learn. If their idea of great sex is to stick it straight in and jackhammer without any warm up. It's true some men are lazy, and completely ignorant of the clitoris. But strangely enough, so are some women. Which has always blown my mind. Whenever women are talking about how inadequate small penises are, none ever mention the clitoris. Like EVER! It's as if it doesn't exist. I never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:17 PM |
| 10 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI'll believe you if no one replies with something like "YOU JUST HAVE A TINY DICK" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do people accept women not going down on men, but can't accept men not going down on womenAhh. That's good point! Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Being a "real woman" is a right, being a "real man" is an achievementA man can be open, communicative, as well as confident and assertive. These things are not mutually exclusive, and I'll never understand why people are convinced they are. Women very often do this these days - they try to make their lives (and people in their lives) "fit the script". I personally have no interest in fitting anyone's script. Not a woman's script for me.And certainly no man's script either. I don't need to fit anyone's cookie cutter, to be a man. I'm my own man. There's nothing wr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Being a "real woman" is a right, being a "real man" is an achievementThere is no proof that being "more emotive" is good for men in any way, and in fact, much evidence that it's socially and professionally damaging, and equally terrible for his position in his primary relationship. Maybe that's true for all of mankind. Buy it's not true for me. The most depressed I've ever been in my life was during a stage when I was trying to live up to the stereotypical image of what a manly man should be. I'm not James Bond, or Han Solo, and trying to wear that manly man mask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.I'll change it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.Just the opposite. I wish we men would stop having disdain for each other. It probably is unrealistic to expect us to treat each other as human beings, as opposed to disposable tools for society, I know this is how it'll continue to be. And why so many of will continue to commit suicide while our fellow brothers mock our suffering, or just don't care about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.I know a female swimmer who would save him. But I don't think it's either or situation. Saving a man when he drowns, doesn't mean you have to show him cruelty when he's raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.Point is on a panel with other men, she's the only one who treats the man in question as a human being, while the actual men see him more a a life support for a penis and disposable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.Men dont care about what other men do or suffer. Agreed. Women force men to do thing and suffer in their place Disagreed. There is a difference between to force someone and indifference to it. True. Most men are already limited in resources to worry about another man. I do not think it is men's fault. They have no choice. Disagree. Compassion is not a finite resource. But even then, we are still helpful to one another, with the few resources we have. The same cannot be said to women. I wish we w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.I've noticed this as well. It's no wonder the suicide rate is so high with us men. When we're suffering inside, all we can expect from another man is cruelty or apathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.I know. Cruelty is normal for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are more misandrist towards men than women will ever be.I guess I just don't see strength as equalling cruelty. If your fellow man is raped, and you think the best way to respond to that, the way that helps society the most, is too tear him down instead of lifting him up, that really saddens me. With that in mind, I really don't know of women that truly help/save one another I have. And it's cool that people will help someone in physical jeopardy if they can. But shitting on men who're suffering in other ways, is part of why suicide is so high among … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:19 PM |
| 0 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?Thanks, I'll keep that in mind the next time I'm dick shamed :) | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?She was black. The average girth is 4.6", so she was right. You're 5.5" girth is big. So maybe that's what she expected from me, not a 4.2" girth. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?Erect girth, and nope! | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?The praise and worship of you dick is not something you enjoy? That's the worst part about having a small dick. You know the world will always see you as a joke of a man. Something to be laughed and made fun of. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 09:14 AM |
| 0 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?The penis praise and worship that you get must feel amazing. As long as you have a big dick, then you know you still what's wanted, and worshipped. A god amongst men. Believe me, having a small dick, all the constant ridicule, shaming, and embarrassment, it's not easy to deal with. I know you're right about learning sex technique, that's why I read "She comes first". But I'm struggling with building up my confidence and letting a woman I like see that I'm small, without feeling ashamed of being … | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?I wish more than anything that I could just flip the "Don't care" switch in my brain that you guys have, and I'd be bullet proof to all the small dick shaming in the world. I just don't know how. As much as I tell myself not to care, when it happens, I just start to feel embarrassed and ashamed. I'll try that response, though, maybe bit works. Is it really that hard to understand why this would affect us small dick guys badly? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?Thanks. I just need a need a mental strategy for dealing with,"BABY DICK NIGGA,"holding up the pinky fingers and laughing. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?You're right. I didn't know how to answer people holding up their pinkies, and saying "toddler dick nigga.", to laughter. And I didn't know how not to care, when so many judge a black man's worth based on his dick size. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?I thought so too back then. Then a woman told her friends I had a pencil dick, was ridiculed, and almost driven to suicide. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?I don't wanna damage a working penis. Or spend money I can't afford to waste on snake oil. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?Thanks. But wouldn't I have to say SBC (S for small). 4.2" girth is small. I can't even buy regular sized condoms. I can't really afford therapy. But I am thinking of getting an escort for an hour. Someone who's not gonna care at all, I think. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 06:16 AM |
| 6 | Black guy who was called a "pencil dick", trying to gain confidence. How to deal with BBC expectation?Yeah, it's a moment that affected me self-worth badly. I started googling painless suicide, coz I honestly thought being a man with a small penis meant I was uniquely unlovable. How can a woman respect a man with an boy's penis? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 05:44 AM |
| 1 | The Surprising Case of Emily RandYip, important lesson learned, I'd hope. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/11/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Predator mum gets labelled as a pedo just as she shouldHas anyone said "THOSE BOYS WERE LUCKY" yet? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/11/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Is there far more pressure on men's physical appearance these days, compared to women?Women judge men on overall shape, with ratio, height, and status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 09:24 PM |
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