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smokingtransistor/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:23 PM
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God speed man. I hope you become the man you want to be, you have plenty of time ahead, take it easy, be brave and don't give up ! I won't give you any advise, as i don't consider muself alpha - but what i can tell RP makes you happy because you start doing shit for yourself and in spite of everyone wanting you to fall into the obedient spinless blob.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 08:28 AM
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Suggestion: i am reading on mobile and usually in pretty lively places. Can the website not show my username and web-page name all the time ? I need to keep trp in some secrecy due to work related reasons... sadly as it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:45 AM
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Thank you ! This is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:09 AM
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Word.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:51 PM
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Maybe programming would be a better career option for you. You don't need that much mobility and it pays quite well, and could help you in building the necessary wealth to sustain you in later life.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:33 AM
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Kind of agree with you here. It's a calculated risk. There has to be a balance and everyone should know and control his exposure to risk. STD's in my country are not of big concern yet i try to be reasonable safe but that prpbably explains why i did not have ONSs till this day.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:26 AM
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I think that being in love is a great feeling. After trp i am not falling in love stupidly anymore. It protects you from those people that abuse that feeling. Gives you more control over yourself by explaining your feelings and helping you make better(for you) decisions
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:52 PM
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Martial arts give you confidence. I think that the best results in terms of confidence can be achieved by practicing martial arts. It teaches how to be brave, yet cautious and to correctly evaluate ones self.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:46 PM
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This: If I care, I'm a pushover and if I don't, I'm an asshole. and this: if I had any secrets and went through all our old communication identical. man, its like you're describing mine right there ! What worked for me was that i set up a goal for myself to fuck 10 other women before i try going after that one again. around no 3 almost didn't care abt her. I have still some work to do but i'm on the good path. good luck to you man and fuck the bitches don't let them ruin you !
/r/askTRP01/01/16 06:48 PM
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Oh yea, they are usually very smart. That's why they go easily through all your defenses. She mirror you until you want her into your life, and when she's in there - she strikes. They are social chameleons and they can't control themselves. I've seen this chick change herself three times in an hour - depending on the person they were talking with. And somehow she can press those happiness buttons in others and all adore her. It is an incredible power to wield but a curse as well. They can't stop…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:05 PM
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Dude, BPD's choose only targets they can fuck over. They enjoy making you miserable. It's like a drug to her and she feels good when doing it. Most of the times they know they are screwed and they catch you by taping into your save a ho instinct. They lure you by making you think you can save them - but that's the trap. Usually experienced guys don't fall into such traps and she will feel unsecure around people she can't screw. Anyway the point is that BDPs infect you woth their insecurity. You …
/r/askTRP01/01/16 12:32 PM
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And make sure all entrances to your location are secure. She could try and crawl back in.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:20 PM
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Potion
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:16 PM
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That would be useful !
/r/RedPillBooks04/11/15 09:11 AM
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There was a list of all RP users and have somekind of flagging app (?) Because i get comments downvoted without any reason and angry SJW mob comments that are unrelated to my comments. So yeah fuck em. I consider it a win when they run out of arguments and start with the insults.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:39 AM
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Their rule no 2 should tell you everything you need to know abt that sub. Virtually anything you say breaks that rule. No wonder feminists started eating each other lately. Rules based on feefs lead to chaos and contradictions. Oh, and if you're white and male - you are always wrong. Just be a silent slave...
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:34 AM
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They do. And the quality of sex and pussy they get is astonishing...
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:44 AM
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Touching yourself is a part of the flight i guess...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:53 AM
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When they have to buy a larger mirror ? Neah.. Who am i kidding they'll invent some excuse like the room needs to be redecorated in some hippsterosh fashion..
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:51 AM
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Great i made it to another list :D so now what ? They start going through the list and suck our dicks ? I am somehwere in the middle so i'll have to wait though.... On a serious note, i have suspected somekind of secret brigade cuz i had comments downvoted w/o reason previously. Fuck em, they can not stop men from waking up. The feminazis are the reason itself for us being here.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:56 AM
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Use google dude and watch some of his videos as well. Goes along: an ideallist saying something about others usually is trye about himself aka projecting himself on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 07:14 PM
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If he's aware of that that's great. But what happens if he gets a better looking one, with some unhealthy past ? It's easy to place a fat/ugly chick in orbit, especially if they're almost hitting the wall.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:57 PM
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Yep, like the dude in the example. Jesus - he wrote a full-blown apologetic introduction just to basically say: You're fat.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:11 PM
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Indeed who gives a fuck ! :D
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:09 PM
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No she wasn't. They all say they are on dates/have bf/ have tons of sex when they get rejected. Well it's his fault, should've just said no to her and that's it. Also could keep her as a friend if she has such a good personality oh well, lesson learned: BP thinking just complicates things exponentially.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 01:45 PM
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Because we still think it's ok to cut a boy's penis and think it's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/15 10:44 AM
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Sorry dude not meaning to sound angry or anything. Am not very satisfied by people saying i have this freaking oneitis for everything i could say. It's like a mantra to some. Down-voting part was in general. Should've stated that sorry for that. Peace.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:55 AM
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Well i did try to get her out and i said it was a mistake. Also i did say i know my risks involved and explained why i do so. Now what you imply is that I have oneitis regardless of what i say. ** Can i arguably falsify your claim ? How can i falsify it ? In order for it to be valid claim it should be falsifiable. ** I am getting a little defensive when people act here exactly as sjw's when they tell someone he's a misogynist - he comes out with explanations of why not and instead they flock aro…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:36 AM
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Indications for that in your opinion ?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:23 AM
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Thanks man ! Really good advice ! I am cureently applying all that more or less. I am good at my job and people ask for my opinion about issues. I am friendly most of the times but keeping a safe distance from everyone. I don't talk about myself or what i do in my spare time. I dress nicely and overall try to look ok and not overdo it, keep it casual. I don't hit on any of them, even of they hit on me. I had women putting their hands on me many times, kinky jokes and other stupid shit like that.…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:57 AM
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I am aware of the risks man. I'm not in the US and they can not fire me without me fucking up really badly professionally. I understand the risks man. Also am looking for a new job at the moment as well. So let's say i will quit my job in a month. What should be my actions then ?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:43 AM
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Thanks a lot man, i really appreciate your response. This is a good advice. I showed her my interest she said no, and i just went ahead and ignored her for a month. Now she's testing the waters i guess. Anyway i decided that i made my move, and if she wants it she'll make the move. Anything else is just 'gimme moar attention' bullshit. Abt boyfriend - it could be a shit test, and they usually say that - because if she lies or tells the truth she got only gains from that. So i usually respond to …
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:36 AM
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jep. that's possible. oh well... i'll do nothing then. She got her attention. and now i look stupid. Lesson learned, dammit. these lessons hurt ego.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:55 PM
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I don't need to prove you anything, man. I ask for advise and understood yours: to be less desperate and needy. Got it, thanks man.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:31 PM
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Good point. It probably could evolve in an one-itis if i'm not careful. About cock-blocking i am referring to the action people do to not leave you alone with a person even the person does not have anything against that. Ugly chick rescuers, or colleagues hijacking jokes stuff like that. Let me add some more details. I have seen her in several occasions and she just pops around where I am. For example if we do some training outside (a lot of people from different departments) she will many times…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:11 PM
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I am currently looking for another job. I'm not in US so i'm not that fucked from this point of view. Can't fire me without hard solid evidence of me not doing my job. I have many coworkers hitting on me, and i know who can hurt me and who can not. I just want advise with this one, as i am aware of the risks, and they are calculated.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:58 PM
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Dude it can not affect me. I know, had these before, drama and shit. I am cautious. Also i never put my hands where i am not supposed to. So let's focus on how can i get this girl as i am aware of the risks involved.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:49 PM
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Yes. Also done it in the woods. Dirty but smeled of flowers. Car is also a good place. The risk involved makes it more exciting.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:57 PM
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OP happend to me. Borderline, but we actually fucked. I can not have emotions anymore. I just don't care. Funny that i tried to reconnect with her and i did not feel the same emotion. I mean yeah her fb pics get to me as well, but when seeing the person in flesh, nothing. The emotions refuel when i have problems but i know why and am not acting on them. In a way i should be thankfull to her for this. You know this somehow is loosing the virginity in their view.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 10:14 AM
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Thank you for sharing with us man. I learned a lot from your story and am glad you're ok now. Must've been fucking hard for you. When you see them lying to your face with so much sincerity makes you wonder all things she said - fucking hard man. Even i know you have to judge the actions and not the words it's still hard and upsetting.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 07:40 AM
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Is that dude a troll ?! Gotta be a troll ?! For the love of god i hope the story's not real. Realizing that there could be poor chumps like that scares the shit oout of me. The level of control these women have other them is incredible! If he's not a troll, then he 's like a shell that can't think for himself. In other words he's lack of rational thinking is frightening. He sounds too childish, almost like a person lost in the woods. He does not know what to do and what or how to think.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 10:04 PM
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Geezus i see my past self in your responses :) good thing, you're on the right path. I failed these shit tests like really bad, fights over the phone etc... Damn :D Word of advice: no one is entitled to anything in this world. She is not entitled to you as she does not own you. A woman must choose to be with you, and you can't force her on the choice.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 11:03 AM
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Once you pass the anger phase, and trying to get women to be different (don't ever try to explain to women RP ! Never) you'll come to the fun phase and then calm phase, because you know how to react to situations and you feel more control. The crush you are feeling is also due to insecurity and knowing that there is a whole new world to fit in. Get yourself together. Get more hobbies, think about what makes YOU happy ! For once in your life :D internalize that. Then go meet women learn on mistak…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:58 AM
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I get you, happened to me in my early RP days. I was speaking out at every bullshit. It caused all my female coworkers to band out against me - remember they have a mob mentality. Even the ones that were friends with me succumbed to peer preassure, they were supporting me in private though. I almost got fired due to really bad feedback. So i read 48 laws of power, and it opened my eyes to wrong politics i was using. Unfortunately you cant push and win against them on argument level. It does not …
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:51 AM
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Calling it! Sargon's Law on this dude !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 08:33 PM
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That's an achievement right? right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 01:58 PM
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MAN we have flairs for that ! Geezus !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 01:56 PM
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Ok. let me rephrase Not you nor I can have a good overview of the majority of RP users. The only one i know that is somehow public is /u/gaylubeoil but he is not representative. Also the founder /u/Rollo-Tomassi is public and his website does not contain anything you imply. Actually it's quite a good read. Also /u/redpillschool and his website is quite good. And there are more. Are those good proofs of existence or you need pictures ? Also there is a bias towards new and angry posters on RP. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 01:42 PM
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If you're so accomplished why do you seek validation on internet by making a huge list of what you did ? What next; we start sizing our dicks ? The message is 80℅ about you and how interesting you are. Good job ! Now what ? More to the point: Why would you care what RPers look like. I personally don't give a fuck about your view, it's your right to think wathever you want and will not try to change your view. If someone uses ad-hominem in the title and cherry picks arguments - says to me he just…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 11:58 AM
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It seems that i was wrong. I found this here. That proves that male and females cheat on tests at the same rate. I retract my previous statements and i was obviously wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 03:50 PM
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Oh, i see your point now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 02:57 PM
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Wait why it was deleted ? Sorry for my ognorance ? Edit: got it. Great post though !!! Edit 2: it is funny that in a debate sub meant for discussions between all opinions they have such flairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 01:47 PM
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Oh could be. I thought you were reffering to Rollo's concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 10:01 AM
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What's so wrong with SMV? It is pretty accurate as well, after 30 women start losing fertility, increasing risks at birth and also increased risk of bearing childeren with birth defects (at 40 it's one in 10). This is a harsh truth. You want healthy kids do them with a young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 09:45 AM
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Same here man. I am now totally devoted to power metal. The strange thing is that i used to hate it back in the day ! Hammerfall, Gamma ray, Judas Priest etc.. I have a full list. Yet power metal seems to be dying out which makes me incredibly sad as i can't losten to the same songs forever.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 09:29 AM
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All traits are human we agree on this point. What i argue about is that there is a difference in displaying the traits. Both women and men display agression as we agreed, we agreed that they display these traits differently. So given the above it is ok to speak of male vs female agression and separate those in a discussion, argumentation. So when you told me as an argument that the trait is human and not female/male you used a truism. Its's like me saying: Look there are green and red apples in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 05:13 AM
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That's a nice answer thanks. So yep exactly my point: we display different traits. You say females are agressive but in a different way and i toally agree. I say is that loyality honor and other traits are also different. In general they are human traits, yes but when you start analyzing them there are differences and OP used them as they are universal to both sexes which i do not agree as the differences come from the mentioned dimorphism. PS. I like animals a lot ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 07:43 PM
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You antropomorphize animals - does not count as argument. Humans are different because of sexual dimorphism. So far my position is that there are different traits that each sex has, generally speaking (this means that in order to discuss specifics we would need context added in). But by following your logic we can assume that excessive agressiveness and cockyness apply to females as well, but i presume you would not agree with me on this one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 11:46 AM
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Happens to me all the times. Also would like to point out that this is not necessary a bad thing, it shows your opinion is good and people try to emulate it. Ever noticed how women copy their husbands, if they respect them ? The husband leads and she follows. If the dude is not rational she'll back him up anyways. So it's up to you to lead, and don't be afraid to do that - but it's a big responsability as well as you will be blamed by the mob if something goes wrong. So you have to think really …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:57 AM
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Maaan i was exactly like that ! Gezus, i am now ashamed of myself. I would always back women and think guys were dicks and that only I the good knight in shiny armor could save the ho. Thabkfully that is in the past got muself throught the anger phase etx. Now i actually enjoy discussions with random dudes. Can't have a serious discussion with women anymore, in any argument they never look at the facts. If they don't feel good about a thing the thing's evil. And they spin the delusion so deep th…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:42 AM
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It's still his opinion and you can't change that. Then if they are not male and not female whose traits should we attribute them to ? Also did i mention the statistics about cheating ? Here is one link.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 09:45 PM
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You linked to a blog man, to a blog post with someone's opinion on some studies !? Furthermore you did not even have the guts to say your opinion out. Idk, maybe because yourself find it a little hilarious: Loyalty and honor are female traits And if you really want to link studies search for divorce statistics due to cheating by gender. You'll find that men and women cheat in the same proportion (i give this example because you linked to some sexual loyality stuff). So if cheating is the same fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 06:08 AM
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Remember it does not matter what or how irrational the action is. The reward is attention. In her mind if she gets attention she wins and due to that she is doing a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 09:40 AM
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OP you seem to not really like women yourself given the somehow loaded questions. Don't worry were not all like that. What you and many do not understand that men and women are different. You provide a list of male traits and give us a false choice to answer to. You should provide a list of positive traits you think women have so we can argue - but ofc you did not even think that women can be kind, funny and supportive etc. This i why i think you actually hate women. And men for that matter. I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 07:01 AM
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I know several "unique" girls that are running after all that is out of ordinary and hip. Sometimes, when they throw at me another obscure book or movie (for some reason sex is the main theme in all), i ask about clasic books or clasic movies and that practically ends the discussion. If i want to be mean i ask their own opinion and add some followup questions and bam ! Behold the transformation ! The special snowflake becomes an uninformed ordinary and intelectually lazy person with just one que…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:58 AM
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Remember women and men are different in their strategies. It may seem counterproductive yet the most efficient currency a man can give to a woman is attention. It felt very 'it will not work' for me as well untill i started using it. And behold women started respecting mebecause i am selective now in how much attention i give them. It is not necessarily a bad thing, as this is only a tool in your social interactions. If someone is a dick that uses dred game, it's not the tactic that is bad, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 05:55 AM
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Wow ! Nice quote ! I should read the dialogues already. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:45 PM
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Yep, egalitarianism that ignores reality is bound to fail.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:44 PM
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Indeed. I listen to the interview and the reporter seemed a little biased/agressive in his questioning. And i'll say questioning as it was more of that than a discussion. And yes Sargon treated with calm and class . He was attentive and seemed to think and acknowledge every question. His responses were reasonable and well placed. Yep smart guy ! He would probably dismiss RP , even though he's pretty RP himself, ha ha.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:42 PM
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Nice breakdown. Totally agree. Not sure why MRA's do this, it's a weak defense almost apologetic at times. Almost as if they all came from BP and try to be gentle and as a result no one respects them... sadly enough these are the rules of the game.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:03 PM
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Good post. I have been following GG myself for some time and most of them use the only tactic that works and that's reason. I have been followin Saagon of Akad on youtube and i think he summs up all GG in one person. He uses arguments and is rarely extreme, he backs every claim with studies and links. And generally tries to have a serene view on the issues he talks about. And for some time now i think that they hit same points that coincide with mra's goals - and they did it awesomely. As you sa…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:47 AM
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The comments there are hard to read. I had once a girl tell me this, i guess i was so beta she didn't care: Never ! Just never help a girl if you see her being beaten by her bf. Call the cops and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:31 AM
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Thank you for your great post. I totally agree with you on every point. I can say i've seen both sides of the coin. For most part of my high school i was a geek and learned a lot then i skipped a whole buch of classes during high school. Failed math.. And was awfull at siences. The thing is that i liked science a lot ! I was good at math for example, but the borigness and lack of practicality just killed it for me. They required everything to be learned by heart. My love for math and science was…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:54 AM
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It sills over in other languages as well... Idiocracy was a prophecy movie...
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:43 PM
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Additional advise: take the prescription at least 10 times before Onetis wears off. I'm on # 7 and future's looking brighter everyday !
/r/askTRP19/05/15 09:37 AM
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He heh i'm usinb this account everywhere. It's fun when someone checks your history, in an argument, and starts to spin the hamster so fast that all logic falls in itself and create a logics singularity that lets nothing to escape out of it. And so they proceed to downvote about 10-20 previous comments you have on other subs, regardless of the topic. :D sometimes they call friends as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:46 AM
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Man i had same issue, deep inside i was boiling and i was very frustrated because of trivial issues. I was angry when my boss pressed me into working weekends - and i signed the dammned paper, feeling even more angry. I felt angry when i would back down from any interaction. I was angry when women literally pushed me away from my place, i wad angry when i would make stupid jokes. I never showed it, and it became somehow natural, and i became complacent. I was the victim. I realised that i am on …
/r/askTRP30/04/15 10:06 AM
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Depression stage. checking in. But seriously i hope i will come to a steady and calm view of reality, someday, somehow. Also thanks for this post a good reminder to get emotions like anger under control and realise that it's counter productive.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:52 AM
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Let me add a reasonable video from a feminist movement regarding the pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 11:03 AM
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I got downvoted for only disagreeing, or just only posting questions, because they checked my account history and someone noticed posts on RP. And that was enough for their ad hominem engine to run full power. I use this account as main and actually don't care about down-votes. What is silly though, is that if they want to change my opinion, wouldn't discussing my points and proving me wrong be a better strategy ? Shaming me would deepen the mistrust i have for SJW's and when this happens the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 11:02 AM
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No no, it's logical because she bases her judgment on facts. You start from facts and then drive the conclusion and not the way around. This is why she's logical. For example one fact is sexual dimorphism. So it's perfectly logical for me to say that women and men are different both physically and psychologically. Same with the wage gap thingie. You are wrong here, and should revise your argument and i would happy to respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/15 10:56 AM
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Agreed, same realization here. Fucking women you don't like is not fun and it's boring, it't like going to a hairdresser - it's unusual stuff, it is kind of pleasant, yet you somehow wish it's done faster. And when it's done you forget about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:26 AM
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Sometimes you get angry customers that yell at you call you names etc. In this case just keep very calm (it is hard) and tell them, calmly, not to raise the voice, and pointing to them that this would not help them in resolving the problem. Then without waiting for their agreement ask about the problem (works like a charm). Then shows your involvement with dealing as fast as you can with the problem. After it's resolved you can slip a joke (depending on the issue ofc). I had several such cases a…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 07:35 PM
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But the alpha doesn't post a long reply to a stranger about why they should acknowledge how unfair life is. Sorry for a long post, stranger, hopefully it will not be perceived as very beta That was supposed to be a joke. And yes what you say is true as general statements they are. I'll give you two points of critique: You totally ignored my point of argue and went off to explaining the ways of an alpha instead. Don't take me wrong, these are perfectly good points, but they are not addressing the…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 04:58 PM
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You are right of course. It's hard to know yourself and control all what you think do, so that you avoid regret later on. I sometimes start pity-ing myself, and i hate that. It's hard but i try to correct and control it. A good lesson i understood is that respect for yourself is very hard, keeping a clean house, keeping yourself well groomed, keeping yourself well educated etc. all take effort time and will power. but i am already slightly circle jerking... The issue is that the subtle differenc…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 08:52 PM
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There is an exit from the barrel, or so i think, hope. You have to do what you like and what you think is good. For that you have to have good judgement and strong values - reassessed values. This is very hard to do because society started to respect only those that have money and can buy lots of shit. The evolution of mtv and advertisments are just two examples. I think rhat we inherently want to help ourselves and the ones around. I do believe that fighting and shittinb over others just to get…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:57 PM
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Well i can not back up my words on the internet. You know that, and yet you use that as an argument. Secondly saying fuck or using more !'s could mean that i am uneducated person, how am i victimizing myself is for you yet to explain. Thirdly i am really annoyed by the: stop whining - be a man narrative as it is used many times as a tool to just keep men obedient and silent. And trp is the single place on the internet where we can talk freely without being called victims and acused of whinig. Be…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:44 AM
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With same respect; you are saying that i should not get offended by things i consider wrong. Which i definitely respectfully decline. I consider that OP advocates a little to manning up and not whining. Maybe i am wrong in reading his mesaage, and you are open to debate with me on that. But you will have to explai why disagreeing means i am a victim ? I would be a victim if i would just whine and not do anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:32 AM
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What if your input is not rewarded, and is looked as an obligation ? We are not victims here as victimhood involves overstating your condition and focusing only on that. I do not see any victimhood when men are saying: marriage has become a prison to men, legally, do not marry! We are not victimizing ourselves. We are stating facts ! Wtf even here i need to be reminded that i am disposable and better man up and help women for free. No, i will try and thibk rationally about these issues and not m…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 06:01 AM
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Haha ok lol, you mean reptilians? No, really lesswrong is a really good site for learning about biases and how to think rationally. As for AI they search for ways to create a friendly AI, cuz you know eventually, if we do not fracking Abomb ourselves to scorching hell, we'll invent one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 05:56 PM
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Heheh, you want a spoilers ? Also www.lesswrong.com (?) for more transhumanian stuff. Don't mention a certain Basilisk there though, instaban for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 07:46 AM
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You should read The Metamorphosis of Prime Intellect ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 06:49 AM
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Amish - the only humans on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 06:48 AM
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It would be the most gender equal thing as there would be no more biological conditioning on them. That would mean total freedom from their point of view (maybe i am wrong though). MGTOWs i think would also push for this as this would mean total freedom for the same reasons. Traditionalists would say that the family in this case would be destroied and that would lead to society destruction. If you ask me i think society would be totally changed and i am not sure if i would like to see that chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 03:38 PM
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Insults again man... it isn't funny anymore.. but let me try... See, you just broke my heart with your ad-hominem. It seems you are actually always correct, kind of like o god. You are never fail ! Waaaa ! I'll call you Herr Carkudo from now on. And here i stop feeding the troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 02:17 PM
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You could reply with something along the lines instead of insults: Your point of view is based on moralism, and thus is neither arguable, nor even falsifiable And then i would argue that: i stated that i have no position on morality as i really do not know either it is bad or good. All i know is that those people would not be considered same species as us by current standards. Would it be better or worse i do not know, but artificially grown life would not be homo sapiens. Either we re-define th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 01:16 PM
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More insults? I guess the only way you would not feel bad would be for me to agree with you. ok. ok. shh... you are right... see i am a bad mean person on the interenet ( kind of shitlord) and you are righteous and the best. Too bad you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 12:29 PM
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See i never said anything personally or insulting to you, yet you are the one claiming to be the educated one in this discussion. What is a scientific policy ? Some-kind of state created policy based on science ? Ha ha the policy of Gravity or Darwin's policy :D I am not sure but maybe you are feeling insulted by your own argumentation ? If you do, please rest assured that this is a normal process you just have to learn how to control your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 10:53 AM
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PS. Unless it was already invented in the future and i am living a re-created reality and thus making my previous point invalid. Thinking too much about this leads to depression and madness, or so they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 10:12 AM
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I would not call AI part of evolution. Evolution and natural selection in our understanding of it, would simply not apply to an AI. A singularity would not be affected at all by them. Certainly it would be a grimm age for humanity as we know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:55 AM
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You are trying to compare writing to artificial wombs. Writing in itself made us different from people 200 years ago. How would artifficial wombs change us i do not know. Would it be better or worse i do not know, but artificially grown life would not be homo sapiens. You know that we define species by how these species propagate, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:52 AM
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Those would not be humans anymore. Denaturating ourselves would make us non humans. Feminists push a narrative towards non humans and frankly i am not sure its a good idea. Having artificial babies and artificial sex would cometely strip humanity out of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 07:22 AM
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Yep they don't agree with what we do, they must hate us because we can not be wrong. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 10:28 PM
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Ha mate, i wa a virgin till 27. I had been a beta orbiter for all my virginity. I had no time toread all cuz i am at wrok right now but i'll tell you what helped me. I went into martial arts, and it just made me more in control of everything. After you manage control and start loving yourself, which is hard cuz loving means controlling and not allowing bad habbits, you start reading non fiction and any good books that teaches you how to be rational. (Stop watching tv alltogether) Make many frien…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 07:55 AM
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True man ! You wanna just have fun and have a good time. If that is your sole purpose then you will not care how people look they just have to be interesting. And then if a bitch is a 10 she loses all her power and she remains just bitchy. From a time sex with people i don't have many things in common gets boring. There has to be some kind of connection...
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:08 PM
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Yep i always speak to people i see often. And yep definite approach. It's trickier with waitresses though cuz they know they will get a good tip if they flirt a little.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:03 PM
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No man you don't approach blindly, there has to be an IOI. Or you'll have to use some PUA stuff to get past her defences which by me is too much hassle. Shotgun method works but it's sloppy and i do not think it builds character. I think and tested better approach, just talk to people of every kind, people in elevator, taxi drivers, people in bank queu etc does much much more positive things for your approach anxiety. Then you'll know how to read another person and know how to spark a discussion…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:39 PM
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Same here internalizing takes tine. You also have to get used to your new you. Once you do, you start seing more things and details that were overlooked before. I could say it's because of the shock of the change and part of it is because as a society we are moving towards "ultimate" protection. You are conditioned not to change and just stay in your confort zone. Nothing should be bothering you, and when you actually go ahead and start making changes you come over thos novelty shock. The good t…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 09:52 AM
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Welcome to reality. Stay strong. Keep calp and try not to be prone to emotions. It's hard to do this and you'll have many many thoughts of regret and wanting to go back to a state that is clearly damaging yet easier. Stay strong remember that good things come from hardships. And emotional ones are the hardest for us former betas and yes men. I had my own oneitis and i got used but hey i needed that pain to learn to stop being pushed. I know who am i and what i want and i do that regardless of an…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:17 AM
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Thank you man ! I always lived my life supporting bad pain and saying to myself that it was how it should be. But no more ! And every such post helps me a little more ! It's like morpheus telling neo to jump. No one will make the jump from first try, still you have to jum to learn
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:48 PM
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This is what i raged earlier this week. Probably used too many fucks... Oh well, but i read you and sometimes i feel that i should just watch the world burn without moving a finger... Onism ?! That really applied to me. I guss thanks to holywood that planted the ideea of me being incomolete if i'm not some kind of hero. No, i say fuck you! I will live try yo find my own happiness without any fucking one system to dictate how or what should i think and feel. I will make my own mistakes and try to…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:31 PM
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I started on sosuave and the people there helped me a lot. I had a very painful and destructive oneitis. Then TRP appeared.. and since then i truly believe that this is the only subbreddit where you can discuss rationally. The most frustrating thing is when you get downvoted to hell on certain subreddits because you asked a question or stated something opposing to "accepted" norm. The frustrating thing is that even discussing an issue is not allowed. It's like we always have to ask questions tha…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:18 PM
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Thanks dude i will read that, because previous comment just stuck me. I am feeling the same thing ! I am sick of tv with stupidity and nakedness everywhere. Every piece of shit has now a golden wrapper... Music books movies are nothinb new etc...
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:49 PM
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Would MGTOW be an answer ? I was flirting with the idea and it seems quite ok for me. Exiting the market and focusing on myself and whatever the fuck i like and contribute to their little utopia as little as possible (i do have to pay taxes). In rest, i go to hookers for my body needs. I am sick of trying and working my ass of just to be laughed at. Neah i genuinly started to not care at all about women. I am not hating or bad to them. I still help if i am asked, but that's it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:16 PM
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Or become your own boss that is... Which is much harder and with bigger risks yet with bigger satisfaction.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 07:13 AM
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That is a good material there !
/r/askTRP22/02/15 08:49 PM
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I personally liked some of Jarred Diamond's books. You could try Black Swan or some psichology: Games People Play These come to mind at first.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 06:01 AM
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Go do some martial arts and keep to it through all hardships (no matter what ! this is important). Try something that actually involve some sort of sparring as well as discipline+philosophy (something japanese maybe).. That's the easiest and fastest route that i can think of for someone to change fast. It changed me. I will not say what art i profess, because it's really not that common, but it made me think a lot and modeled me into a better person: i cope well with stress/insults/hardships, i …
/r/askTRP03/02/15 10:33 PM
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ha ha don't get me wrong i got burned as well, big time. I learned my lesson, no physically fucking coworkers ! You have to see them every day, all kinds of bad joojoo and unpleasant things happen afterwards. Almost got myself fired, got problems, got angry etc. So yeah, now i am calm as a dead whale on the beach. Whatever happens i can deal with it :D (I get constant advances like touches out of the blue, all kinds of strange flirting, weirdest and naughtiest jokes, some of them act like they h…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 10:19 PM
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I dont't mean to be rude or something i just want to tell you how i see the situation. You wanted to have BJ and you showed that to her. Beeing needy makes vagina dry, dude. She should want to give BJ without you asking. I don't know more details about your situation so i could be wrong, but you should learn on your mistakes. They act as they do so they can assert what kind of man you are. They need to know that you can deal with a situation without gettinv aggressive. Because on an instinctual …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:02 AM
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can do anything a man can do and yet they'll almost always ask me to do any physical task that involves any form of lifting even if they should be able to do it they'd always try to have me do it even if it would be simpler if they did it. This tip is very accurate, be assertive. Ha ha. In my office women can stay thirsty for hours (i have 40+ on the floor) because no one of them has the gut to ask a guy to change the water in the dispenser. I suppose that's below them. They suck all the water o…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:21 PM
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Thanks man ! I really appreciate your post. It serves as a reminder and i am always having problems with no.5 (as if i give one some attention, the rest get angry and so on)... no. 4 can be done, if they accept you as a lead and if you are separate enough from the group (hard as well). i am currently in a very female environment. Had to learn everything on my own skin. As a group women can be extremely harsh and irrational. They can gang up on you for even a small thing you said and they will re…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:07 PM
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It is not ok to go to someone uninvited also it betrays insecurity (were you checking on her? yes), creepiness (stalking much). Think of your reaction if someone comes to your home totally uninvited, while you do something that is not meant for guests to see. Her reaction was normal, you scared her and i am surprised that she initiated contact (you good looking mother fucker aren't you ? ;) ) Then again you totally act strangely by treating her with silence as if she had done something wrong. Ag…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 11:37 PM
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You're right. Have you seen the last "douche-walk" we RP ers organised ? Was smashing ! We got +2 alphaness only by being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 07:11 AM
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He heh, you define your world-view relating to RP. good. good ! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 08:58 PM
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I think you use the strawman term wrongly. The strawman usage would be trying to sway someone opinion by giving arguments against a different thing. For example you could say feminism is a huge strawman in arguments against BP. But aaanyways RP does not clearly define where RP ends and BP begins. Yet RP at least has some theory and rules of RP treats. BP is very generic....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 02:41 PM
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They deny BP works. If we talk about other people that come somewhere between RP an BP then the outcome will fall somewhere in between
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 11:56 AM
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There are different strategies for different people. There are strategies for LTR's incorporated in TRP and they do say that "happy relationships' can exist. TRP does not reject or deny existance of relationships and for many RP men happiness is a goal to achieve. Maybe i misread your response but am not sure what exactly is your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 11:14 AM
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Oh what an intersting thought let's hear your reasons mate. You know the mantra of rational thinking: question everything. So please add more details to your rant. Unless you trolling ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 11:07 AM
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Aren't you claiming moral higher ground by just stipulating general terms like 'normal' and 'happy relationships'. In many ways 'normal' means a thing accepted by most people. In this case indeed trp is not normal. But at the same time general acceptance does not necesarily relate to quality or truth. As example holywood movies are 'normal' but that does not necessarily mean they are good quality movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 11:01 AM
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yes maaan!!! i have the same experiment running. I try to see the rate of chocolate disappearing from the box. And yes after breaks when no one sees, the sweets disappear faster. It is because they watch each other and talk badly if one does something that is different. (and ohhh women trash each-over behind the back like there is no tomorrow) Sometimes i test them; i go and take sweets several times to see who will comment badly, look angry etc. I don't need the sweets and don't care what they …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 09:31 AM
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No, believe me you don't ;) but yes they can not resist chocolate or sweets etc. Sometimes at birthdays it seems like there will be fights for teh food. Maan they're all bunching up and grab as much as possible on their plates. It amuses me how they talk about how they will go to the gym, while stuffing their faces :D Pure bliss and joy (for me at least ;) ) !
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:01 PM
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Thank you for this post. I always liked the buddhist thinking, and the way it deals with reality and especially desire. It falls perfectly with redpill teaching you to be calm and not prone to drama. Of you hate or desire something then you are not ok with yourself and you are weak. Being in a perfect state with yourself is the hardest thin to do. (A warning though: it's easy to fall into JBY fallacy if you use this to excuse your bad parts)
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:02 AM
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You're thinking too much about penises. It's starting to show in your comments.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:54 AM
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wow. mod justice :D also there were some bluepillers upvote-brigading on some chick-dude (or dude-chick) moffo or something like that... which did not play nice cuz she/he was pretending to be RP Then the OP was probably trollin' oh internet so much drama ! :D Actually before it was deleted some responses were good ! edit: some small corrections... also who will read this ?! :D
/r/askTRP12/11/14 09:56 PM
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Some really good posts lately ! Thanks a lot for this post, it's a good reminder. I usually don't go to sex from first date, i want to know the woman first, probe the ground for crazyness.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:00 AM
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Just wanted to say thanks, i agree with heavy moderation here, since all internet is somehow against RP and the message got very diluted lately. There has to be a line and when everyone here is anonymous only moderation can keep chaos out.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:05 AM
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Oh sorry man, if she came uninvited then you're ok. I am on my phone and read it the othe way.Happened to me to have weird stalkers. Man these women are creepy. Probably you'll lose this one, and probably is better for you. I had crazies like that leave panties hidden in my apartment. Stalk me on fb and showup at events i went. Neah too crazy.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:20 AM
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Dude you never directly show them the truth, she has to guess weather or not you date other women, she has to suspect but never knew for sure. I myself am trying to leave the plates better than they were before me. They start sports, because i always talk that it important etc. When you mixed yor plates in the same room, it was bound to happen. And in my opinion you were kind of a douche. Why keep a plate if you don't like her, further more you want to avoid and control drama, instead you purpos…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 06:54 AM
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He heh i like you mate. It's always nice to find a reasonable person on the internet. Have a good one. Also let me share some good virtual place where you'll find very good reads here. Sorry if you already know it. Thank me later if you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 06:26 PM
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Of course bias is bad i totally agree with you, yet i am saying that there are differences (physical ones is an example). It does not matter if the physical jobs will disappear or not, i was pointing out the difference. There is a profound genetic difference between males and females. Take the best female sportsmen and best women sportsmen and in comparison men out-compete women due to these differences. I never implied that women can not play musical instruments, by all means i think they would…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 03:17 PM
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So you're saying sexism is bad... i see. Well i am saying that we are divided by sexes biologically and there are some things that need to be sexist. For example women and children first rule is extremely sexist yet it ensures the propagation of species. most women do not have physical strength and this is given by genes, and genes are extremely sexist ( mysogenes ?! ;) ) If you get the strongest men compared to the strongest women on this planet, men would have the definite advantage. Nature is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 10:16 PM
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no no, feminists hate women, i love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 09:46 PM
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Sincerly, i don't know the numbers, and there are different things that can be wrong with studies. For example per total the below is true: 1155 for women and 1150 for men. Yet if you look at the rates of aggravated assault and with weapons, attempts for murder men have it badly. (and these i presume do not include cases that happen in prison). Just a short example of data being incomplete or interpreted. I could say that women are more harassed because they think that everything is harassment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 05:19 PM
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Same can be said about you, you overplay your concerns. Oh now i'm a troll, because i have different opinion, and pointing out that the video is biased ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 11:44 AM
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Heh exactly how dare i even see those people as people ! I would like to see the same video shot in a fancy part of town, and see how she will be harrased there... Probably she will even welcome the harrasment from a nice brad-pit-looking-healthy figure... I have a better idea: let's gather money for the poor instead and of shouting harrassment at every society injustice...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 11:04 AM
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oh another one :) Hello there, now it's sexual harassment ? I thought it was just harassment. Instead of saying: man those people are poor and deserve better life, for some reason a good part of people are obsessed over some kind of harassment. Ignorants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 10:13 AM
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Oh excuse me it seemed to me that somehow you predicated another mesaage than poor people are more violent and it's not a gender issue - but a people being poor issue. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 07:09 AM
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It's not about women -censored- ! It's about poverty and low education ! I've been in poor regions and i was hackeled as a guy as well, i was dressed better etc... Instead with addressing these problems you piggiback and obfuscate the whole problem. That video should gather money for helping those people be they women or be they men ! Why choose feminism over humanism ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 07:05 AM
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Let me translate this message: i try to look like i think that the video is biased, but instead of addrrssing the video let me focus on rape culture, which exists due to comments that do not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 06:39 AM
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Good luck man, start slowly healing, meet more girls, there are nice women out there which can give you better things, sudden rushes are not long lasting, like all good things in this world you need to work for them.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:29 PM
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Mothers are women in first place ! They have rights you know ! And children should not limit her freedom ! Men should man up and learn to cook and take care of the child so she can go out with her friends and take care of herself ! It's basic human rights ! /s
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:06 AM
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It's food's fault all along ! Patriarchy food !
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 07:40 PM
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Wow nice comment ! Good job mate !
/r/askTRP29/10/14 10:53 AM
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Oh you're right man, fucking around is their modus operandi. You have a close friend/relative she never met, be aware that one day you both can have a nasty fucked up surprise. The kaboom i was speaking about. :))
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:47 AM
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You have to be some emotional gandalf now,man. ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:15 AM
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Fuck her man ! You tried to be nice and she was a piece of shit. Psychotic weired and destructive beings. No, bpds in my life i can now control myself. I am stronger than them
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:11 AM
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Literally a spring in your step. I haven't had the feeling since. :/ Man it's all a lie,when you mature you start understanding that imperfections also are needed and important. You know, like in japan, when they fix broken cups with gold and then praise the uniqueness of the cup.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:07 AM
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Ha ! yep man ! you can never forget a BPD. Yet man i do agree they give you a challenge, it can be fun and if you can master to hit only the tops and disappear when there are downs then you're in to some good time. Yet again if you get a smart one she'll probably try different tactics, mine played with me the "i'm a fool" game. I did not realize that at the time. Now one day suddenly, after i was preparing the ground to cut ties with her, she tells me: you are forgetting who are you dealing with…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:40 PM
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Smart borderlines are evil man, they slip under your skin undetected. One word here, one word there. She laughs with you, makes cool and smart jokes (best jokes ever heard from any woman !), reads you and knows where to push the buttons to get you relaxed. Knows your interests and yet does not always agree with you, she argues with you, yet it's fun and pink and all is good. Then when you drop all your guards and you say to yourself, wow such a nice girl, she's a keeper, doesn't do shit to you, …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:45 PM
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Imagine that every day! You become alpha regardless of what you want !!! You know you start writing blogs etc... :))))
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:22 PM
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Oh how much truth ! Whole countries made int schmucks....
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:39 PM
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They are not fat ! They are food impaired ! /s
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:34 PM
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Not sure that LTR with a BDP is possible from TRP point of view. BDP's spark many many red flags which TRP teaches to avoid... You sure they were BDP's ?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:30 PM
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Yep and she (i think i remember the writer being a woman) tells you to be always ready to leave the house for several days till she chills after a breakdown ( you know having a go ready bag and a place to stay).
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:27 PM
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Oh maaan this is exactly what i got ! Lol ! She was accusing me of the things she was doing, i was going crazy ! You stay long with one you copy them a little though, and it stays with you, the hardest part is to start trusting people again... Later i learned that it's called projection....
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:24 PM
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Man, i feel you ! I was crying like a little bitch dammit, that was the turning moment for me, i read that site many times and now i realize that many things were because of me, i ignored flags, i let hope and good thoughts to cover my judgement... I was weak and it is the hardest part to accept. Don't get me wrong bdp's are fucked up big time and most of what they do is wrong and they are to blame. But as they say, it takes two to dance. You will not be free until you can face your fears with c…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:21 PM
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Same here, just a year though, one friend directed me to Rollo's blog, then slowly i escaped. Edit: oh yep, fucking never again indeed ;) no bdp can fuck with me now.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:13 PM
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When you realise shes not right in the head - it's soo much too late. They use mirroring like a fish uses water.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:11 PM
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Most borderlines are attracted to BP traits. Happened to me, got into TRP after around a year and it helped me. Golden rule for treating oneitis applies here as well: sleep with 10 women. Then look back at your borderline and see the truth. They are the sweet poison songs tell you about. From my experience the ups with a borderline are incredible, yet the downs are much worse. They enjoy seeing you hurt, no logic, they enjoy the feeling. When you try to explain her how hurt you are she'll almost…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:10 PM
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I totally agree with you here sir. There had to be a reaction - and exactly reactions (edit: as in actions) are the things that are not drama. You used the tools that you have to retaliate, quite successfully i would say. Nothing wrong with sticky-ing this as well, we're a community and our support is a payback for your work. A censorship example is furthermore proof of what we figh for here on TRP. Ironically by deleting that thread he is breaking the same rule - trying to influence someone's o…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:53 PM
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Oh yes man ! Of course ! With work and dedication everything is possible. And i think RP has best utility for these folks, It improved my life greatly ! And the difference in RP in comparison to self improvement books(most of which are bullshit anyway) is that RP is harsh and does not feed you with feeling good pink utopia. It tells you what to do and what to expect if you don't do. No one else to blame - just yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 02:02 PM
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Yes but many don't become such, i am not sure that there is a statistic, but i would argue that most people choose the easy way, rather than keep improving, furthermore they do get validation by JBY bullshit in media/movies society etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 01:50 PM
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Sadly there is a grain of truth there, chances for a looser to remain a loser are bigger than that he will change. TRP improves the chance of change. Change is hard and accepting harsh truths is hard, takes years of self improvement and accepting that your ideas could be wrong.... So yeah if at 18 you were a loser chances that you'll remain a loser are pretty big. And as you get older it takes much more effort as well to redress your life...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 12:27 PM
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This comment is bliss friend because the initial argument is not an argument at all. It can apply to anything, just change a word which you did masterfully :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 12:18 PM
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So if say i want to buy something on the internet and i read some reviews and some say that the company ive chosen has past delays or bad service etc. I automatically have to judge and make a decision if i want to buy from them. It is not necessary that the same will happen to me of course but why should i take the risk, when there are many competitors on the market. Same thing here, why should i date you ? If i know you dated lots of guys i would have to ask myself why is that, and i would have…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 06:54 AM
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Do it! Get a decent one, pay more money and tell her it's your first time. But don't believe that there is more than money. It's a transaction nothing more and nothing out of ordinary. Sex is just sex, i wish i did not have my stupid principles (i strongly refused to go to hookers) cuz my virginity was lost pretty late. Would've released me of many many ideals and awkward situations with girls. So go for it. Pay and leave.You can talk to her, we are all people, nothing that special in sex actual…
/r/askTRP11/10/14 08:19 PM
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Depends on how he reacted, if he showed he did not care, then he passed the shit test. If she wanted him to know she has a friend she would've made sure to let him .know one way or the other. Actually they do that all the time, she has to let you know about her friends: expecting jealousy or maybe more info about your girl friends (would be very stupid to reply with a list of your girls) etc. I think 'ah ok' or nice friend is ok answer, yet if she further followups on this, you have to slightly …
/r/askTRP09/10/14 09:46 AM
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Unless ofc you predict you'll eat tomorrow and you die before that. (harsh example though....). You can state probabilities about future but never be sure. In the book the author explains how to improve, taking randomness into consideration. For example you can predict that if you take a certain road you will be in the next city at a certain hour (where you planned a meet-up with a hot chick), yet you can get stuck in traffic-jam (due to unexpected rain, police roadblock, passing tornado, accide…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:50 AM
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Really good book, yet you can't be antifrigile just by ignoring things and having some fuzzy feeling. no, you must plan for randomness, work and constantly change, learn and improve. This requires courage, control, actions and persistence. You have to be prepared for as many things possible. So, you'll have to go to the gym, not just think about it, you'll have to pass shit tests, you'll have to action when you get disrespected etc. RP is antifragile when it suggests to have plates, and to be al…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:24 AM
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People usually choose the easier way. The hard way is to control emotions and read all clearly and calmly. I am sure that most do, yet we see only the ones that actually chose to reply. The issue gets totally confusing when someone throws in a straw-man in the stew. The issue starts rolling like a big ball of bullshit getting momentum and gathering more and more straw-mans along. At this point even people that firstly did not want to comment chip in with their opinion - the original argument now…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 07:52 AM
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This is what it wants. Please don't feed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 07:40 AM
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Don't feed the troll in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 07:35 AM
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Totally agree with you here sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 07:28 AM
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Furthermore people who use spoons while eating, support female obesity culture !
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:04 PM
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Spoons are not persons - forcing women to eat like that !
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 01:45 PM
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Definitely best to read this first. It gives you the explanations and the basis for reasoning behind most of the side-links.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:38 AM
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Aaaaand the downvote train arrived because people are incapable of seeing that you were just playing devil's advocate here. well he knew the risk... yet i did up-vote, as it's clear that it's not his opinion. Also it helps to have different points of view - cuts out the cult-like feeling of a discussion.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:10 AM
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Ate too much while drunk - spoon manipulation !
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 07:52 AM
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No you actually strongly implied it. When talking in general terms like you do, saying humans, your statements are true. Yet when confronted with specific details, your statements depend on the context, they can not be true as well. Yet you get offended by a more specific argument, meaning that your original argumentation implied specifically women and not humans. (Veiled argumentation i call it). It's like saying that all green jumping things are frogs which is not true in case of a green ball …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:52 AM
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+1 my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:45 AM
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You could simply say that you're wrong. We don't care how you feel about it though no need calling people dicks because they beat you at logics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:44 AM
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That's great bro, keep it up ! Ps. Fuck TV ! It makes loyal zombiez out of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 10:29 AM
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I say change yourself, the why's and how's is individual choice. Yet i believe that we have some innate mechanisms that help us in being more social ( like we know it's wrong to kill someone).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 04:38 AM
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We're on the same page here. Lost business ? learn by mistakes and start over + have back up plans, be in control and deal with the problems you have, change if needed and pursue perfection. Upset is an emotion it is senseless without understanding why you have it and then act accordingly. (yet to be upset is a necessity for change) The worst for me is regret and sincerely i regret a lot of stuff i did not do... will not make the same mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 09:32 PM
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If you're sick - change. Women don't look at us the same way we look at them. We're different. They seek man traits in a man, even they tell you differently and those traits are: confidence, strength, risk taker yet always in control, rational thinking a man that is respected by others We seek other traits in women, i don't want to date a women that has men strengths. I said it several times that every man should study a martial art of some kind that would give him control and a philosophy (japa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 08:28 PM
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Well, you can improve your appearance and focus at what you're good at. Everyone like strong confident people, women do that too. Looks matter too, if you're fat assed but compensate with a blasting personality plus some money you will have pussy, seen it happen. Yet if you have strong personality you will not stay fat assed for long. Success comes through hardships and leaving your comfort bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 03:41 PM
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If you are confident and calm like a mountain why care about what someone's personal preference ? Every person has different preferences, opinions and needs. If you know yourself and know your value nothing can upset you. If someone critiques you, you either take it as a lesson to improve or as a untruth, depending on the critique. If it's true then you know what to do, if not true then it should not bother you. In both cases you're calm. Be better with yourself and do what has to be done in ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 09:42 AM
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Dude i really enjoyed reading your responses, so thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 09:46 AM
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True that my friend ! If a girl wants to fuck me, and she's ok looking and not total bitch why say no ? Everyone,s happy. Now let them make a marriage chart and i bet you that the numbers will reverse.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 11:08 AM
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True that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 01:08 PM
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She got the attention she wanted given by the length of your response, which was actually a very interesting read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 10:54 AM
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If i could i would give you gold ! You captured the difference perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 10:49 AM
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Yep feminine - good, feminist - bad. I once told this to one of my coworkers, she was upset, almost like i called her bad words. I do not desire a feminist woman if these dysfunctional ladies want to be desired they better start learning how to be feminine, pronto !
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:35 AM
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Dichotomies everywhere: example was talking to some girls at the office and there is this new guy hired and they all talk about him. They tell me the'll go to him and check him out and maybe grab his ass to assert his viability (they hadn't seen him yet - but gossip). So i ask jokingly: can i do the same to all new hired girls, cuz i would like that. They said yes but only if i wanna spend time in jail afterwards. If this is not hypocrisy by the definition then i don't know how to call it. Socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/14 09:02 PM
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Also i am strongly strongly suggesting some martial arts for every beta dude out there. Something that mimics a fight or something with discipline, but it has to have fighting though. And keep to it no matter if its hard. Does miracles in a short time-span, an year or so and you will start noticing the differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 07:55 PM
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Thanks troll-bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 07:51 PM
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No. Because you constantly change. Your self today is different than the one 5 years ago. It is not only about looks, its about self respect, thinking rationally without drama, redefining yourself and always asking and questioning yourself, even trp. Trp is a guideline, a tool, how you use it is about you. For this go here: www.lesswrong.com (or net do not remember) it helps with thinking rationally. I would start with sequences and then go int epistemology chapter (hard to read though...)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 07:08 PM
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Indeed my man. The barrel full of crabs analogy applies here perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 03:30 PM
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To add to that it's funny how dating and manipulating advice was present in any teen girl magazine for years and no one told it's damaging or that it lacks morality, yet PUA's are thought to be jerks. Edit: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 03:27 PM
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Don't kid yourself ; changes do not happen when there are cognitive dissonances involved.what i did was do what society told me was good. I tried to do what everybody told is good to do, i was doing the right thing. Be nice be yourself even if i was fat someone would love me anyway. Ofc i blame myself cuz i did not listen to my guts and i listen to other people. My father should have been the trp for me. Part is my blame yet part is society's blame, it's easy to say that it was only my blame cuz…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 03:04 PM
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Not only it's abusive it's lying and cruel. Don't tell me i am a nice guy and that you would like that all men be like me. So now you come here and try to tell me that i don't need that group, society clearly did a great job most of my life. Now i'm not that nice ready to do everything person and it's not ok for you. Also stop cherry picking words and read the meaning as well, maybe try to understand. Sticking to accepted standards is easy isn't it? Makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 01:37 PM
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To add on that: deep down i had a feeling that something i did was wrong yet everyone told me to be patient that the other half is somewhere on the globe - that is the biggest lie. No, you are the one in control and doing nothing to be better will keep you in that state of ball-less chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 12:01 PM
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I was the ultimate geek raised by my mom and christian granny mostly. Father never gave me much investment. Then there was school and feeling good movies... So i became a boneless shmuck... Trp gave me confidence and self respect. It made me change and become a better me. Its painful to know that a part of my life was waisted but that's how it is, and i'll never go back to who i was. Now i believe in exchange and do not give anything for free. And what do you know, girls started calling me and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 11:59 AM
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No, i do not. I believe that society forgot to teach me how to be a man, so here i was virgin in my late twenties.. women telling me how nice i was and that i am a good person while having sex with other people. I don't know what's more abusive. Now i changed thanks to trp. I focused on myself, i dress better, i do sports, i try to be considerate i read a lot and try to be as better as i can be. I had the bitter phase, it passed and i can say that i am feeling really good now. I don't know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/14 09:54 AM
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In my experience if you say no too many times does not bring results. It can show that you're unsure about what you want. When you know what you want, then you don't have to think about when you should say no. For example if the girl proposes for us to go out and i want to go out, then i do not see any reason to say no. I am not losing my frame there. In the beginning i was always saying no, to her every proposal - nothing good came out of that - being a control freak shows lack of control. Now …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:54 PM
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Man, rock climbing could stress your knee a lot and your back as well, i'm no specialist so better ask a trainer about this. Maybe swimming would do for you man, gotta work with what you have.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:35 PM
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T Well in this case either strengthen yor knee or try something that uses dome kind of weapon, instead of your body sword fighting, japanese archery, sticks, stuff like that. I am thinking of combining with lifting once per week. I'm 29 so.... I have to do twice the effort to get the same results. I tried rock climbing before yet, at least for me, it did not provide the same level of 'philosophy' or maybe 'ways of doing things' that the martial arts did. Yet it's still awesome, keeps all your mu…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:57 PM
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Don't own a tv for 9 years already, yet internet takes its place... Some days i have to force myself to get out meet friends.like today for example. What helps really much is doing some kind of martial arts. I think every man should know some kind of fighting. It makes whining go away, makes you think fast and clear, puts you through hardships that you have to face, makes you less lazy, and makes you more confident. I am three years into such a sport, and it changed me incredibly, combined with …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:28 PM
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Good point! Like from me good man. When people describe us as being uneducated full of hatred silly men, for some reason they cherry pick only some comments and not such as these. Keep up with good comments ! Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 03:31 PM
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Yet, let me add a warning: it's easy to slip into JBY way of thinking, if you think that happiness is just how one thinks. No, taking action and constant fighting with yourself is the correct hard path. For example my personal nemesis at this time is procrastination. Next one is learning to think rationally and calm in any situation. Cheers and keep getting better !
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:50 PM
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If you don't understand read a pretty self explanatory post below. It explains why trp is there. What would your feelings be after you found out that everything in your life was based on lies, everyone around you gave you wrong advice all the time, tv, parents everyone . Then the same people that promoted this whole egalitarianism and political correctness come to you and ask why are you angry ? Do you see the irony here ? And yet you still do not understand why men are angry? We are angry at a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 08:29 AM
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See bringing your sister in the discussion is not an excuse to take it personally. What if i told you that i have 2 sisters and 3 brothers. Would that make me entitled to have more right to discuss something ? You are using other people for shielding yourself and shifting responsibility, yet you get to say what you think without any harm. And due to that i think you have some kind of hidden agenda, and you try to move the discussion in a way that fits your perceptions and reasoning. If you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 05:33 AM
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See you have to actually take everything very personal. I needed to say tits once. Actually i am a really nice and gentle man, still a virgin, i am waiting for the perfect match that would make my life happy so i can bath her in presents. Also we on trp are all like that, we do not respect anyone, and all are wankers without any perspective in life. We stay in our corner and all we do is talk badly of incredible good ladies out there whom we should love and adore unconditionally. And when one co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 09:24 PM
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I very much understand your concern, yet you seemed to skip reading my comment. As i said, the negative thoughts is a natural response. Many get angry, i was myself angry, and i see this as a normal reaction. Yet i was angry on myself and it helped me channel my energy into getting things done. It is like on a forum for... Let's say, inexperienced anthropologists, you would find mostly those anthropologists. Same here. People express directly what bothers them. You see men do not gather together…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 08:40 PM
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The example is biased, same can be said about a majority of feminists on a feminist thread (for example). They would say men are stupid, and not many would correct that. Many trp'er are bitter because the majority came to trp for help. I was a very nice guy before trp, was a blank wall for women yet i did all that they told me to do in movies, books. I was unhappy and frustrated, and angry. TRP just helped me understand that what i was doing was not beneficial for me. I changed became more socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 04:23 PM
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It's about equilibrium and being true to yourself. For me it is important to have sex at the beginning of a relationship so i can get sex out of the way. I need to see the relationship with clear, unbiased by hormones, eyes. Afterwards, sex becomes less important and i can understand better the woman i'm with and understand if i want to further be with her or not. I will not date a woman if she wants sex only after marriage. She would enjoy my company, would tell all her friends that we're datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 04:06 PM
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Thanks for the input. So you understand me. I can work with women, some are ok and really focused. And like i said i have changed my tactics. Yet when they are a majority and together in the same area all the dynamics change. When team meetings are organized for more chit-chat, without any insightful goals or decisions being made, blame shifting and avoidance of responsibility. None one said that she was wrong, or when someone pointed that one is wrong they take it very personal. I can accept wh…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:54 PM
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Yes, but that is my exact point. If you decide, and recently you do not have much choice, to try a venture. Your risk is very high. For the first two years you expose yourself. And by my opinion throwing everything you've got on a venture is a very bad idea, because as i said it's bound to fail. And given the corporatist environment, that in most cases rewards treachery, overtness - intrinsically women properties, the only path for many men is entrepreneurship (again high risk). So in other word…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:01 PM
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If you have a mortgage you are tied to the bank. The cash has to come from somewhere. Most ventures start paying back after 1 - 2 years. If they are successful that is. And most of the ventures do fail. And you have to fail once or twice before you learn. You can not learn without failure. So the risk is even greater.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:01 AM
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I work in a mostly women environment. All my bosses are women. And let me tell you - it's hell. Theyre worse than mafia. It's all built on relationships and favoritism and some kind of weird consensus. Whenever someone comes with an improvement idea it has to be debated and talked over and it doesn't matter if it would help, it is not approved if it's not agreed by all. It doesn't matter if you are doing a great job if you're having different opinions and too many questions you're perceived like…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:53 AM
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This is the first book to read that i recommend to all friends that have problems with women. The rest come afterwards when the basics and theory is understood. PS. Just wanted to use the opportunity to say thanks for saving my life. Would have been in a deeply depressive marriage with a borderline if it wasn't for your book.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:32 AM
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That is brilliant example of double thinking two opposing thoughts so they both are true. Have an upvote, sir.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:48 PM
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Showing a different perspective does not make a theory wrong. Facts determine that. You use the same thing religious people do to hamster away compelling evidence. A rationalistic approach would be to get facts and weigh them against theories. Providing a different opinion is not a fact in itself. Please consider that for future arguments you have in your life unless you're here to rant/troll and you're not here for a discussion. edit: spelling.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 08:38 AM
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Then, when you change into more of an asshole, they'll shit test you by telling you that you were so cute and adorable and now you're a butthead and an arrogant prick now. First was said because she felt so insecure around the person that it was in her interests to make you more of an asshole. They demanded an upgrade to the white knight not more.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:54 PM
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Rude of you, it's not sex, it's called: making love. And last year's one was great. We had candles and i made cookies. She did not have time as she was going to an all girls party of some sorts, so it did not last, but all good things do not last. She was so very sexy and attractive, stockings and a nice short dress. I was very happy she'd do that for me. Can't wait for this year. She promised it's soon.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:43 PM
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Agree with you as well, i think nedsheperd tried to warn us of the bias. My feeling lately is that we eschewed a little from the getting better path and we focused more on shaming which shouldn't be the main concern
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:01 PM
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Would agree with you. What for most including myself is hard to realise is that women are different. Women are not men. And that's what they do best. What we are here for is to understand this even the first phase is anger and bitterness. We don't want women to stop being unreasonable and stop being emotional. That would make them almost men and i don't fuck men. I want a woman that i can support and lead, there was a post some months ago with the captain and first officer analogy. If you know h…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 12:39 PM
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Wow you're lucky to have such a good wife ! Mine brings home only douches that drink my beer and talk badly about me and my anime collection. I am not worried though, she tells me that she loves me, and only me, and that i make her happy
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 09:40 AM
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I've been lurking around this thread from the beginning and have seen it's evolution and it's growth. It surely makes a stand but lately it's becoming very diluted in terms of trp- male self improvement. So i'll say thank you mods for the increasingly tough job of cleaning it and trying to maintain a high standard. About the feminist subreddit - we must treat it like the big shit test it is. Less attention and if we give them some of it, it should be laughable and funny. Treat them as schoolgirl…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:03 PM
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