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God speed man. I hope you become the man you want to be, you have plenty of time ahead, take it easy, be brave and don't give up ! I won't give you any advise, as i don't consider muself alpha - but what i can tell RP makes you happy because you start doing shit for yourself and in spite of everyone wanting you to fall into the obedient spinless blob.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 08:28 AM
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Suggestion: i am reading on mobile and usually in pretty lively places. Can the website not show my username and web-page name all the time ? I need to keep trp in some secrecy due to work related reasons... sadly as it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:45 AM
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Thank you ! This is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:09 AM
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Word.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:51 PM
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Maybe programming would be a better career option for you. You don't need that much mobility and it pays quite well, and could help you in building the necessary wealth to sustain you in later life.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:33 AM
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Kind of agree with you here. It's a calculated risk. There has to be a balance and everyone should know and control his exposure to risk. STD's in my country are not of big concern yet i try to be reasonable safe but that prpbably explains why i did not have ONSs till this day.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:26 AM
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I think that being in love is a great feeling. After trp i am not falling in love stupidly anymore. It protects you from those people that abuse that feeling. Gives you more control over yourself by explaining your feelings and helping you make better(for you) decisions
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:52 PM
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Martial arts give you confidence. I think that the best results in terms of confidence can be achieved by practicing martial arts. It teaches how to be brave, yet cautious and to correctly evaluate ones self.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:46 PM
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This: If I care, I'm a pushover and if I don't, I'm an asshole. and this: if I had any secrets and went through all our old communication identical. man, its like you're describing mine right there ! What worked for me was that i set up a goal for myself to fuck 10 other women before i try going after that one again. around no 3 almost didn't care abt her. I have still some work to do but i'm on the good path. good luck to you man and fuck the bitches don't let them ruin you !
/r/askTRP01/01/16 06:48 PM
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Oh yea, they are usually very smart. That's why they go easily through all your defenses. She mirror you until you want her into your life, and when she's in there - she strikes. They are social chameleons and they can't control themselves. I've seen this chick change herself three times in an hour - depending on the person they were talking with. And somehow she can press those happiness buttons in others and all adore her. It is an incredible power to wield but a curse as well. They can't stop…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:05 PM
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Dude, BPD's choose only targets they can fuck over. They enjoy making you miserable. It's like a drug to her and she feels good when doing it. Most of the times they know they are screwed and they catch you by taping into your save a ho instinct. They lure you by making you think you can save them - but that's the trap. Usually experienced guys don't fall into such traps and she will feel unsecure around people she can't screw. Anyway the point is that BDPs infect you woth their insecurity. You …
/r/askTRP01/01/16 12:32 PM
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And make sure all entrances to your location are secure. She could try and crawl back in.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:20 PM
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Potion
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:16 PM
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There was a list of all RP users and have somekind of flagging app (?) Because i get comments downvoted without any reason and angry SJW mob comments that are unrelated to my comments. So yeah fuck em. I consider it a win when they run out of arguments and start with the insults.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:39 AM
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Their rule no 2 should tell you everything you need to know abt that sub. Virtually anything you say breaks that rule. No wonder feminists started eating each other lately. Rules based on feefs lead to chaos and contradictions. Oh, and if you're white and male - you are always wrong. Just be a silent slave...
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:34 AM
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They do. And the quality of sex and pussy they get is astonishing...
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:44 AM
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Touching yourself is a part of the flight i guess...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:53 AM
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When they have to buy a larger mirror ? Neah.. Who am i kidding they'll invent some excuse like the room needs to be redecorated in some hippsterosh fashion..
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:51 AM
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Great i made it to another list :D so now what ? They start going through the list and suck our dicks ? I am somehwere in the middle so i'll have to wait though.... On a serious note, i have suspected somekind of secret brigade cuz i had comments downvoted w/o reason previously. Fuck em, they can not stop men from waking up. The feminazis are the reason itself for us being here.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:56 AM
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If he's aware of that that's great. But what happens if he gets a better looking one, with some unhealthy past ? It's easy to place a fat/ugly chick in orbit, especially if they're almost hitting the wall.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:57 PM
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Yep, like the dude in the example. Jesus - he wrote a full-blown apologetic introduction just to basically say: You're fat.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:11 PM
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Indeed who gives a fuck ! :D
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:09 PM
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No she wasn't. They all say they are on dates/have bf/ have tons of sex when they get rejected. Well it's his fault, should've just said no to her and that's it. Also could keep her as a friend if she has such a good personality oh well, lesson learned: BP thinking just complicates things exponentially.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 01:45 PM
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Sorry dude not meaning to sound angry or anything. Am not very satisfied by people saying i have this freaking oneitis for everything i could say. It's like a mantra to some. Down-voting part was in general. Should've stated that sorry for that. Peace.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:55 AM
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Well i did try to get her out and i said it was a mistake. Also i did say i know my risks involved and explained why i do so. Now what you imply is that I have oneitis regardless of what i say. ** Can i arguably falsify your claim ? How can i falsify it ? In order for it to be valid claim it should be falsifiable. ** I am getting a little defensive when people act here exactly as sjw's when they tell someone he's a misogynist - he comes out with explanations of why not and instead they flock aro…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:36 AM
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Indications for that in your opinion ?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:23 AM
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Thanks man ! Really good advice ! I am cureently applying all that more or less. I am good at my job and people ask for my opinion about issues. I am friendly most of the times but keeping a safe distance from everyone. I don't talk about myself or what i do in my spare time. I dress nicely and overall try to look ok and not overdo it, keep it casual. I don't hit on any of them, even of they hit on me. I had women putting their hands on me many times, kinky jokes and other stupid shit like that.…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:57 AM
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I am aware of the risks man. I'm not in the US and they can not fire me without me fucking up really badly professionally. I understand the risks man. Also am looking for a new job at the moment as well. So let's say i will quit my job in a month. What should be my actions then ?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:43 AM
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Thanks a lot man, i really appreciate your response. This is a good advice. I showed her my interest she said no, and i just went ahead and ignored her for a month. Now she's testing the waters i guess. Anyway i decided that i made my move, and if she wants it she'll make the move. Anything else is just 'gimme moar attention' bullshit. Abt boyfriend - it could be a shit test, and they usually say that - because if she lies or tells the truth she got only gains from that. So i usually respond to …
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:36 AM
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jep. that's possible. oh well... i'll do nothing then. She got her attention. and now i look stupid. Lesson learned, dammit. these lessons hurt ego.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:55 PM
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I don't need to prove you anything, man. I ask for advise and understood yours: to be less desperate and needy. Got it, thanks man.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:31 PM
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Good point. It probably could evolve in an one-itis if i'm not careful. About cock-blocking i am referring to the action people do to not leave you alone with a person even the person does not have anything against that. Ugly chick rescuers, or colleagues hijacking jokes stuff like that. Let me add some more details. I have seen her in several occasions and she just pops around where I am. For example if we do some training outside (a lot of people from different departments) she will many times…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 09:11 PM
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I am currently looking for another job. I'm not in US so i'm not that fucked from this point of view. Can't fire me without hard solid evidence of me not doing my job. I have many coworkers hitting on me, and i know who can hurt me and who can not. I just want advise with this one, as i am aware of the risks, and they are calculated.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:58 PM
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Dude it can not affect me. I know, had these before, drama and shit. I am cautious. Also i never put my hands where i am not supposed to. So let's focus on how can i get this girl as i am aware of the risks involved.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:49 PM
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Yes. Also done it in the woods. Dirty but smeled of flowers. Car is also a good place. The risk involved makes it more exciting.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 01:57 PM
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OP happend to me. Borderline, but we actually fucked. I can not have emotions anymore. I just don't care. Funny that i tried to reconnect with her and i did not feel the same emotion. I mean yeah her fb pics get to me as well, but when seeing the person in flesh, nothing. The emotions refuel when i have problems but i know why and am not acting on them. In a way i should be thankfull to her for this. You know this somehow is loosing the virginity in their view.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 10:14 AM
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Thank you for sharing with us man. I learned a lot from your story and am glad you're ok now. Must've been fucking hard for you. When you see them lying to your face with so much sincerity makes you wonder all things she said - fucking hard man. Even i know you have to judge the actions and not the words it's still hard and upsetting.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 07:40 AM
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Is that dude a troll ?! Gotta be a troll ?! For the love of god i hope the story's not real. Realizing that there could be poor chumps like that scares the shit oout of me. The level of control these women have other them is incredible! If he's not a troll, then he 's like a shell that can't think for himself. In other words he's lack of rational thinking is frightening. He sounds too childish, almost like a person lost in the woods. He does not know what to do and what or how to think.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 10:04 PM
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Geezus i see my past self in your responses :) good thing, you're on the right path. I failed these shit tests like really bad, fights over the phone etc... Damn :D Word of advice: no one is entitled to anything in this world. She is not entitled to you as she does not own you. A woman must choose to be with you, and you can't force her on the choice.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 11:03 AM
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Once you pass the anger phase, and trying to get women to be different (don't ever try to explain to women RP ! Never) you'll come to the fun phase and then calm phase, because you know how to react to situations and you feel more control. The crush you are feeling is also due to insecurity and knowing that there is a whole new world to fit in. Get yourself together. Get more hobbies, think about what makes YOU happy ! For once in your life :D internalize that. Then go meet women learn on mistak…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:58 AM
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I get you, happened to me in my early RP days. I was speaking out at every bullshit. It caused all my female coworkers to band out against me - remember they have a mob mentality. Even the ones that were friends with me succumbed to peer preassure, they were supporting me in private though. I almost got fired due to really bad feedback. So i read 48 laws of power, and it opened my eyes to wrong politics i was using. Unfortunately you cant push and win against them on argument level. It does not …
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:51 AM
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Same here man. I am now totally devoted to power metal. The strange thing is that i used to hate it back in the day ! Hammerfall, Gamma ray, Judas Priest etc.. I have a full list. Yet power metal seems to be dying out which makes me incredibly sad as i can't losten to the same songs forever.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 09:29 AM
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Happens to me all the times. Also would like to point out that this is not necessary a bad thing, it shows your opinion is good and people try to emulate it. Ever noticed how women copy their husbands, if they respect them ? The husband leads and she follows. If the dude is not rational she'll back him up anyways. So it's up to you to lead, and don't be afraid to do that - but it's a big responsability as well as you will be blamed by the mob if something goes wrong. So you have to think really …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:57 AM
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Maaan i was exactly like that ! Gezus, i am now ashamed of myself. I would always back women and think guys were dicks and that only I the good knight in shiny armor could save the ho. Thabkfully that is in the past got muself throught the anger phase etx. Now i actually enjoy discussions with random dudes. Can't have a serious discussion with women anymore, in any argument they never look at the facts. If they don't feel good about a thing the thing's evil. And they spin the delusion so deep th…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:42 AM
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Remember it does not matter what or how irrational the action is. The reward is attention. In her mind if she gets attention she wins and due to that she is doing a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 09:40 AM
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I know several "unique" girls that are running after all that is out of ordinary and hip. Sometimes, when they throw at me another obscure book or movie (for some reason sex is the main theme in all), i ask about clasic books or clasic movies and that practically ends the discussion. If i want to be mean i ask their own opinion and add some followup questions and bam ! Behold the transformation ! The special snowflake becomes an uninformed ordinary and intelectually lazy person with just one que…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:58 AM
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Wow ! Nice quote ! I should read the dialogues already. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:45 PM
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Yep, egalitarianism that ignores reality is bound to fail.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:44 PM
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Indeed. I listen to the interview and the reporter seemed a little biased/agressive in his questioning. And i'll say questioning as it was more of that than a discussion. And yes Sargon treated with calm and class . He was attentive and seemed to think and acknowledge every question. His responses were reasonable and well placed. Yep smart guy ! He would probably dismiss RP , even though he's pretty RP himself, ha ha.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:42 PM
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Nice breakdown. Totally agree. Not sure why MRA's do this, it's a weak defense almost apologetic at times. Almost as if they all came from BP and try to be gentle and as a result no one respects them... sadly enough these are the rules of the game.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:03 PM
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Good post. I have been following GG myself for some time and most of them use the only tactic that works and that's reason. I have been followin Saagon of Akad on youtube and i think he summs up all GG in one person. He uses arguments and is rarely extreme, he backs every claim with studies and links. And generally tries to have a serene view on the issues he talks about. And for some time now i think that they hit same points that coincide with mra's goals - and they did it awesomely. As you sa…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:47 AM
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The comments there are hard to read. I had once a girl tell me this, i guess i was so beta she didn't care: Never ! Just never help a girl if you see her being beaten by her bf. Call the cops and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:31 AM
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Thank you for your great post. I totally agree with you on every point. I can say i've seen both sides of the coin. For most part of my high school i was a geek and learned a lot then i skipped a whole buch of classes during high school. Failed math.. And was awfull at siences. The thing is that i liked science a lot ! I was good at math for example, but the borigness and lack of practicality just killed it for me. They required everything to be learned by heart. My love for math and science was…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:54 AM
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It sills over in other languages as well... Idiocracy was a prophecy movie...
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:43 PM
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Additional advise: take the prescription at least 10 times before Onetis wears off. I'm on # 7 and future's looking brighter everyday !
/r/askTRP19/05/15 09:37 AM
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He heh i'm usinb this account everywhere. It's fun when someone checks your history, in an argument, and starts to spin the hamster so fast that all logic falls in itself and create a logics singularity that lets nothing to escape out of it. And so they proceed to downvote about 10-20 previous comments you have on other subs, regardless of the topic. :D sometimes they call friends as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:46 AM
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Man i had same issue, deep inside i was boiling and i was very frustrated because of trivial issues. I was angry when my boss pressed me into working weekends - and i signed the dammned paper, feeling even more angry. I felt angry when i would back down from any interaction. I was angry when women literally pushed me away from my place, i wad angry when i would make stupid jokes. I never showed it, and it became somehow natural, and i became complacent. I was the victim. I realised that i am on …
/r/askTRP30/04/15 10:06 AM
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Depression stage. checking in. But seriously i hope i will come to a steady and calm view of reality, someday, somehow. Also thanks for this post a good reminder to get emotions like anger under control and realise that it's counter productive.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:52 AM
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Agreed, same realization here. Fucking women you don't like is not fun and it's boring, it't like going to a hairdresser - it's unusual stuff, it is kind of pleasant, yet you somehow wish it's done faster. And when it's done you forget about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:26 AM
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Sometimes you get angry customers that yell at you call you names etc. In this case just keep very calm (it is hard) and tell them, calmly, not to raise the voice, and pointing to them that this would not help them in resolving the problem. Then without waiting for their agreement ask about the problem (works like a charm). Then shows your involvement with dealing as fast as you can with the problem. After it's resolved you can slip a joke (depending on the issue ofc). I had several such cases a…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 07:35 PM
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You are right of course. It's hard to know yourself and control all what you think do, so that you avoid regret later on. I sometimes start pity-ing myself, and i hate that. It's hard but i try to correct and control it. A good lesson i understood is that respect for yourself is very hard, keeping a clean house, keeping yourself well groomed, keeping yourself well educated etc. all take effort time and will power. but i am already slightly circle jerking... The issue is that the subtle differenc…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 08:52 PM
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There is an exit from the barrel, or so i think, hope. You have to do what you like and what you think is good. For that you have to have good judgement and strong values - reassessed values. This is very hard to do because society started to respect only those that have money and can buy lots of shit. The evolution of mtv and advertisments are just two examples. I think rhat we inherently want to help ourselves and the ones around. I do believe that fighting and shittinb over others just to get…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:57 PM
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Well i can not back up my words on the internet. You know that, and yet you use that as an argument. Secondly saying fuck or using more !'s could mean that i am uneducated person, how am i victimizing myself is for you yet to explain. Thirdly i am really annoyed by the: stop whining - be a man narrative as it is used many times as a tool to just keep men obedient and silent. And trp is the single place on the internet where we can talk freely without being called victims and acused of whinig. Be…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:44 AM
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With same respect; you are saying that i should not get offended by things i consider wrong. Which i definitely respectfully decline. I consider that OP advocates a little to manning up and not whining. Maybe i am wrong in reading his mesaage, and you are open to debate with me on that. But you will have to explai why disagreeing means i am a victim ? I would be a victim if i would just whine and not do anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:32 AM
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What if your input is not rewarded, and is looked as an obligation ? We are not victims here as victimhood involves overstating your condition and focusing only on that. I do not see any victimhood when men are saying: marriage has become a prison to men, legally, do not marry! We are not victimizing ourselves. We are stating facts ! Wtf even here i need to be reminded that i am disposable and better man up and help women for free. No, i will try and thibk rationally about these issues and not m…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 06:01 AM
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Ha mate, i wa a virgin till 27. I had been a beta orbiter for all my virginity. I had no time toread all cuz i am at wrok right now but i'll tell you what helped me. I went into martial arts, and it just made me more in control of everything. After you manage control and start loving yourself, which is hard cuz loving means controlling and not allowing bad habbits, you start reading non fiction and any good books that teaches you how to be rational. (Stop watching tv alltogether) Make many frien…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 07:55 AM
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True man ! You wanna just have fun and have a good time. If that is your sole purpose then you will not care how people look they just have to be interesting. And then if a bitch is a 10 she loses all her power and she remains just bitchy. From a time sex with people i don't have many things in common gets boring. There has to be some kind of connection...
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:08 PM
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Yep i always speak to people i see often. And yep definite approach. It's trickier with waitresses though cuz they know they will get a good tip if they flirt a little.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:03 PM
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No man you don't approach blindly, there has to be an IOI. Or you'll have to use some PUA stuff to get past her defences which by me is too much hassle. Shotgun method works but it's sloppy and i do not think it builds character. I think and tested better approach, just talk to people of every kind, people in elevator, taxi drivers, people in bank queu etc does much much more positive things for your approach anxiety. Then you'll know how to read another person and know how to spark a discussion…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:39 PM
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Same here internalizing takes tine. You also have to get used to your new you. Once you do, you start seing more things and details that were overlooked before. I could say it's because of the shock of the change and part of it is because as a society we are moving towards "ultimate" protection. You are conditioned not to change and just stay in your confort zone. Nothing should be bothering you, and when you actually go ahead and start making changes you come over thos novelty shock. The good t…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 09:52 AM
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Welcome to reality. Stay strong. Keep calp and try not to be prone to emotions. It's hard to do this and you'll have many many thoughts of regret and wanting to go back to a state that is clearly damaging yet easier. Stay strong remember that good things come from hardships. And emotional ones are the hardest for us former betas and yes men. I had my own oneitis and i got used but hey i needed that pain to learn to stop being pushed. I know who am i and what i want and i do that regardless of an…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:17 AM
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Thank you man ! I always lived my life supporting bad pain and saying to myself that it was how it should be. But no more ! And every such post helps me a little more ! It's like morpheus telling neo to jump. No one will make the jump from first try, still you have to jum to learn
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:48 PM
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This is what i raged earlier this week. Probably used too many fucks... Oh well, but i read you and sometimes i feel that i should just watch the world burn without moving a finger... Onism ?! That really applied to me. I guss thanks to holywood that planted the ideea of me being incomolete if i'm not some kind of hero. No, i say fuck you! I will live try yo find my own happiness without any fucking one system to dictate how or what should i think and feel. I will make my own mistakes and try to…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:31 PM
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I started on sosuave and the people there helped me a lot. I had a very painful and destructive oneitis. Then TRP appeared.. and since then i truly believe that this is the only subbreddit where you can discuss rationally. The most frustrating thing is when you get downvoted to hell on certain subreddits because you asked a question or stated something opposing to "accepted" norm. The frustrating thing is that even discussing an issue is not allowed. It's like we always have to ask questions tha…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:18 PM
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Thanks dude i will read that, because previous comment just stuck me. I am feeling the same thing ! I am sick of tv with stupidity and nakedness everywhere. Every piece of shit has now a golden wrapper... Music books movies are nothinb new etc...
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:49 PM
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Would MGTOW be an answer ? I was flirting with the idea and it seems quite ok for me. Exiting the market and focusing on myself and whatever the fuck i like and contribute to their little utopia as little as possible (i do have to pay taxes). In rest, i go to hookers for my body needs. I am sick of trying and working my ass of just to be laughed at. Neah i genuinly started to not care at all about women. I am not hating or bad to them. I still help if i am asked, but that's it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:16 PM
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Or become your own boss that is... Which is much harder and with bigger risks yet with bigger satisfaction.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 07:13 AM
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That is a good material there !
/r/askTRP22/02/15 08:49 PM
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I personally liked some of Jarred Diamond's books. You could try Black Swan or some psichology: Games People Play These come to mind at first.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 06:01 AM
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Go do some martial arts and keep to it through all hardships (no matter what ! this is important). Try something that actually involve some sort of sparring as well as discipline+philosophy (something japanese maybe).. That's the easiest and fastest route that i can think of for someone to change fast. It changed me. I will not say what art i profess, because it's really not that common, but it made me think a lot and modeled me into a better person: i cope well with stress/insults/hardships, i …
/r/askTRP03/02/15 10:33 PM
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ha ha don't get me wrong i got burned as well, big time. I learned my lesson, no physically fucking coworkers ! You have to see them every day, all kinds of bad joojoo and unpleasant things happen afterwards. Almost got myself fired, got problems, got angry etc. So yeah, now i am calm as a dead whale on the beach. Whatever happens i can deal with it :D (I get constant advances like touches out of the blue, all kinds of strange flirting, weirdest and naughtiest jokes, some of them act like they h…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 10:19 PM
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I dont't mean to be rude or something i just want to tell you how i see the situation. You wanted to have BJ and you showed that to her. Beeing needy makes vagina dry, dude. She should want to give BJ without you asking. I don't know more details about your situation so i could be wrong, but you should learn on your mistakes. They act as they do so they can assert what kind of man you are. They need to know that you can deal with a situation without gettinv aggressive. Because on an instinctual …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:02 AM
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can do anything a man can do and yet they'll almost always ask me to do any physical task that involves any form of lifting even if they should be able to do it they'd always try to have me do it even if it would be simpler if they did it. This tip is very accurate, be assertive. Ha ha. In my office women can stay thirsty for hours (i have 40+ on the floor) because no one of them has the gut to ask a guy to change the water in the dispenser. I suppose that's below them. They suck all the water o…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:21 PM
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Thanks man ! I really appreciate your post. It serves as a reminder and i am always having problems with no.5 (as if i give one some attention, the rest get angry and so on)... no. 4 can be done, if they accept you as a lead and if you are separate enough from the group (hard as well). i am currently in a very female environment. Had to learn everything on my own skin. As a group women can be extremely harsh and irrational. They can gang up on you for even a small thing you said and they will re…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:07 PM
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It is not ok to go to someone uninvited also it betrays insecurity (were you checking on her? yes), creepiness (stalking much). Think of your reaction if someone comes to your home totally uninvited, while you do something that is not meant for guests to see. Her reaction was normal, you scared her and i am surprised that she initiated contact (you good looking mother fucker aren't you ? ;) ) Then again you totally act strangely by treating her with silence as if she had done something wrong. Ag…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 11:37 PM
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yes maaan!!! i have the same experiment running. I try to see the rate of chocolate disappearing from the box. And yes after breaks when no one sees, the sweets disappear faster. It is because they watch each other and talk badly if one does something that is different. (and ohhh women trash each-over behind the back like there is no tomorrow) Sometimes i test them; i go and take sweets several times to see who will comment badly, look angry etc. I don't need the sweets and don't care what they …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 09:31 AM
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No, believe me you don't ;) but yes they can not resist chocolate or sweets etc. Sometimes at birthdays it seems like there will be fights for teh food. Maan they're all bunching up and grab as much as possible on their plates. It amuses me how they talk about how they will go to the gym, while stuffing their faces :D Pure bliss and joy (for me at least ;) ) !
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:01 PM
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Thank you for this post. I always liked the buddhist thinking, and the way it deals with reality and especially desire. It falls perfectly with redpill teaching you to be calm and not prone to drama. Of you hate or desire something then you are not ok with yourself and you are weak. Being in a perfect state with yourself is the hardest thin to do. (A warning though: it's easy to fall into JBY fallacy if you use this to excuse your bad parts)
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:02 AM
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You're thinking too much about penises. It's starting to show in your comments.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:54 AM
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wow. mod justice :D also there were some bluepillers upvote-brigading on some chick-dude (or dude-chick) moffo or something like that... which did not play nice cuz she/he was pretending to be RP Then the OP was probably trollin' oh internet so much drama ! :D Actually before it was deleted some responses were good ! edit: some small corrections... also who will read this ?! :D
/r/askTRP12/11/14 09:56 PM
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Some really good posts lately ! Thanks a lot for this post, it's a good reminder. I usually don't go to sex from first date, i want to know the woman first, probe the ground for crazyness.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:00 AM
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Just wanted to say thanks, i agree with heavy moderation here, since all internet is somehow against RP and the message got very diluted lately. There has to be a line and when everyone here is anonymous only moderation can keep chaos out.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:05 AM
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Oh sorry man, if she came uninvited then you're ok. I am on my phone and read it the othe way.Happened to me to have weird stalkers. Man these women are creepy. Probably you'll lose this one, and probably is better for you. I had crazies like that leave panties hidden in my apartment. Stalk me on fb and showup at events i went. Neah too crazy.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:20 AM
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Dude you never directly show them the truth, she has to guess weather or not you date other women, she has to suspect but never knew for sure. I myself am trying to leave the plates better than they were before me. They start sports, because i always talk that it important etc. When you mixed yor plates in the same room, it was bound to happen. And in my opinion you were kind of a douche. Why keep a plate if you don't like her, further more you want to avoid and control drama, instead you purpos…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 06:54 AM
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Good luck man, start slowly healing, meet more girls, there are nice women out there which can give you better things, sudden rushes are not long lasting, like all good things in this world you need to work for them.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:29 PM
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Mothers are women in first place ! They have rights you know ! And children should not limit her freedom ! Men should man up and learn to cook and take care of the child so she can go out with her friends and take care of herself ! It's basic human rights ! /s
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:06 AM
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It's food's fault all along ! Patriarchy food !
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 07:40 PM
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Wow nice comment ! Good job mate !
/r/askTRP29/10/14 10:53 AM
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Oh you're right man, fucking around is their modus operandi. You have a close friend/relative she never met, be aware that one day you both can have a nasty fucked up surprise. The kaboom i was speaking about. :))
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:47 AM
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You have to be some emotional gandalf now,man. ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:15 AM
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Fuck her man ! You tried to be nice and she was a piece of shit. Psychotic weired and destructive beings. No, bpds in my life i can now control myself. I am stronger than them
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:11 AM
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Literally a spring in your step. I haven't had the feeling since. :/ Man it's all a lie,when you mature you start understanding that imperfections also are needed and important. You know, like in japan, when they fix broken cups with gold and then praise the uniqueness of the cup.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:07 AM
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Ha ! yep man ! you can never forget a BPD. Yet man i do agree they give you a challenge, it can be fun and if you can master to hit only the tops and disappear when there are downs then you're in to some good time. Yet again if you get a smart one she'll probably try different tactics, mine played with me the "i'm a fool" game. I did not realize that at the time. Now one day suddenly, after i was preparing the ground to cut ties with her, she tells me: you are forgetting who are you dealing with…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:40 PM
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Smart borderlines are evil man, they slip under your skin undetected. One word here, one word there. She laughs with you, makes cool and smart jokes (best jokes ever heard from any woman !), reads you and knows where to push the buttons to get you relaxed. Knows your interests and yet does not always agree with you, she argues with you, yet it's fun and pink and all is good. Then when you drop all your guards and you say to yourself, wow such a nice girl, she's a keeper, doesn't do shit to you, …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:45 PM
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Imagine that every day! You become alpha regardless of what you want !!! You know you start writing blogs etc... :))))
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:22 PM
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Oh how much truth ! Whole countries made int schmucks....
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:39 PM
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They are not fat ! They are food impaired ! /s
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:34 PM
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Not sure that LTR with a BDP is possible from TRP point of view. BDP's spark many many red flags which TRP teaches to avoid... You sure they were BDP's ?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:30 PM
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Yep and she (i think i remember the writer being a woman) tells you to be always ready to leave the house for several days till she chills after a breakdown ( you know having a go ready bag and a place to stay).
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:27 PM
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Oh maaan this is exactly what i got ! Lol ! She was accusing me of the things she was doing, i was going crazy ! You stay long with one you copy them a little though, and it stays with you, the hardest part is to start trusting people again... Later i learned that it's called projection....
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:24 PM
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Man, i feel you ! I was crying like a little bitch dammit, that was the turning moment for me, i read that site many times and now i realize that many things were because of me, i ignored flags, i let hope and good thoughts to cover my judgement... I was weak and it is the hardest part to accept. Don't get me wrong bdp's are fucked up big time and most of what they do is wrong and they are to blame. But as they say, it takes two to dance. You will not be free until you can face your fears with c…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:21 PM
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Same here, just a year though, one friend directed me to Rollo's blog, then slowly i escaped. Edit: oh yep, fucking never again indeed ;) no bdp can fuck with me now.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:13 PM
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When you realise shes not right in the head - it's soo much too late. They use mirroring like a fish uses water.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:11 PM
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Most borderlines are attracted to BP traits. Happened to me, got into TRP after around a year and it helped me. Golden rule for treating oneitis applies here as well: sleep with 10 women. Then look back at your borderline and see the truth. They are the sweet poison songs tell you about. From my experience the ups with a borderline are incredible, yet the downs are much worse. They enjoy seeing you hurt, no logic, they enjoy the feeling. When you try to explain her how hurt you are she'll almost…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:10 PM
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I totally agree with you here sir. There had to be a reaction - and exactly reactions (edit: as in actions) are the things that are not drama. You used the tools that you have to retaliate, quite successfully i would say. Nothing wrong with sticky-ing this as well, we're a community and our support is a payback for your work. A censorship example is furthermore proof of what we figh for here on TRP. Ironically by deleting that thread he is breaking the same rule - trying to influence someone's o…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:53 PM
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Do it! Get a decent one, pay more money and tell her it's your first time. But don't believe that there is more than money. It's a transaction nothing more and nothing out of ordinary. Sex is just sex, i wish i did not have my stupid principles (i strongly refused to go to hookers) cuz my virginity was lost pretty late. Would've released me of many many ideals and awkward situations with girls. So go for it. Pay and leave.You can talk to her, we are all people, nothing that special in sex actual…
/r/askTRP11/10/14 08:19 PM
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Depends on how he reacted, if he showed he did not care, then he passed the shit test. If she wanted him to know she has a friend she would've made sure to let him .know one way or the other. Actually they do that all the time, she has to let you know about her friends: expecting jealousy or maybe more info about your girl friends (would be very stupid to reply with a list of your girls) etc. I think 'ah ok' or nice friend is ok answer, yet if she further followups on this, you have to slightly …
/r/askTRP09/10/14 09:46 AM
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Unless ofc you predict you'll eat tomorrow and you die before that. (harsh example though....). You can state probabilities about future but never be sure. In the book the author explains how to improve, taking randomness into consideration. For example you can predict that if you take a certain road you will be in the next city at a certain hour (where you planned a meet-up with a hot chick), yet you can get stuck in traffic-jam (due to unexpected rain, police roadblock, passing tornado, accide…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:50 AM
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Really good book, yet you can't be antifrigile just by ignoring things and having some fuzzy feeling. no, you must plan for randomness, work and constantly change, learn and improve. This requires courage, control, actions and persistence. You have to be prepared for as many things possible. So, you'll have to go to the gym, not just think about it, you'll have to pass shit tests, you'll have to action when you get disrespected etc. RP is antifragile when it suggests to have plates, and to be al…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:24 AM
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Furthermore people who use spoons while eating, support female obesity culture !
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:04 PM
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Spoons are not persons - forcing women to eat like that !
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 01:45 PM
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Definitely best to read this first. It gives you the explanations and the basis for reasoning behind most of the side-links.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:38 AM
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Aaaaand the downvote train arrived because people are incapable of seeing that you were just playing devil's advocate here. well he knew the risk... yet i did up-vote, as it's clear that it's not his opinion. Also it helps to have different points of view - cuts out the cult-like feeling of a discussion.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:10 AM
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Ate too much while drunk - spoon manipulation !
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 07:52 AM
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True that my friend ! If a girl wants to fuck me, and she's ok looking and not total bitch why say no ? Everyone,s happy. Now let them make a marriage chart and i bet you that the numbers will reverse.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 11:08 AM
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Yep feminine - good, feminist - bad. I once told this to one of my coworkers, she was upset, almost like i called her bad words. I do not desire a feminist woman if these dysfunctional ladies want to be desired they better start learning how to be feminine, pronto !
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:35 AM
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In my experience if you say no too many times does not bring results. It can show that you're unsure about what you want. When you know what you want, then you don't have to think about when you should say no. For example if the girl proposes for us to go out and i want to go out, then i do not see any reason to say no. I am not losing my frame there. In the beginning i was always saying no, to her every proposal - nothing good came out of that - being a control freak shows lack of control. Now …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:54 PM
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Man, rock climbing could stress your knee a lot and your back as well, i'm no specialist so better ask a trainer about this. Maybe swimming would do for you man, gotta work with what you have.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:35 PM
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T Well in this case either strengthen yor knee or try something that uses dome kind of weapon, instead of your body sword fighting, japanese archery, sticks, stuff like that. I am thinking of combining with lifting once per week. I'm 29 so.... I have to do twice the effort to get the same results. I tried rock climbing before yet, at least for me, it did not provide the same level of 'philosophy' or maybe 'ways of doing things' that the martial arts did. Yet it's still awesome, keeps all your mu…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:57 PM
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Don't own a tv for 9 years already, yet internet takes its place... Some days i have to force myself to get out meet friends.like today for example. What helps really much is doing some kind of martial arts. I think every man should know some kind of fighting. It makes whining go away, makes you think fast and clear, puts you through hardships that you have to face, makes you less lazy, and makes you more confident. I am three years into such a sport, and it changed me incredibly, combined with …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:28 PM
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Good point! Like from me good man. When people describe us as being uneducated full of hatred silly men, for some reason they cherry pick only some comments and not such as these. Keep up with good comments ! Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 03:31 PM
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Yet, let me add a warning: it's easy to slip into JBY way of thinking, if you think that happiness is just how one thinks. No, taking action and constant fighting with yourself is the correct hard path. For example my personal nemesis at this time is procrastination. Next one is learning to think rationally and calm in any situation. Cheers and keep getting better !
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:50 PM
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Thanks for the input. So you understand me. I can work with women, some are ok and really focused. And like i said i have changed my tactics. Yet when they are a majority and together in the same area all the dynamics change. When team meetings are organized for more chit-chat, without any insightful goals or decisions being made, blame shifting and avoidance of responsibility. None one said that she was wrong, or when someone pointed that one is wrong they take it very personal. I can accept wh…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:54 PM
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Yes, but that is my exact point. If you decide, and recently you do not have much choice, to try a venture. Your risk is very high. For the first two years you expose yourself. And by my opinion throwing everything you've got on a venture is a very bad idea, because as i said it's bound to fail. And given the corporatist environment, that in most cases rewards treachery, overtness - intrinsically women properties, the only path for many men is entrepreneurship (again high risk). So in other word…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:01 PM
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If you have a mortgage you are tied to the bank. The cash has to come from somewhere. Most ventures start paying back after 1 - 2 years. If they are successful that is. And most of the ventures do fail. And you have to fail once or twice before you learn. You can not learn without failure. So the risk is even greater.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:01 AM
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I work in a mostly women environment. All my bosses are women. And let me tell you - it's hell. Theyre worse than mafia. It's all built on relationships and favoritism and some kind of weird consensus. Whenever someone comes with an improvement idea it has to be debated and talked over and it doesn't matter if it would help, it is not approved if it's not agreed by all. It doesn't matter if you are doing a great job if you're having different opinions and too many questions you're perceived like…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:53 AM
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This is the first book to read that i recommend to all friends that have problems with women. The rest come afterwards when the basics and theory is understood. PS. Just wanted to use the opportunity to say thanks for saving my life. Would have been in a deeply depressive marriage with a borderline if it wasn't for your book.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:32 AM
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That is brilliant example of double thinking two opposing thoughts so they both are true. Have an upvote, sir.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:48 PM
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Showing a different perspective does not make a theory wrong. Facts determine that. You use the same thing religious people do to hamster away compelling evidence. A rationalistic approach would be to get facts and weigh them against theories. Providing a different opinion is not a fact in itself. Please consider that for future arguments you have in your life unless you're here to rant/troll and you're not here for a discussion. edit: spelling.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 08:38 AM
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Then, when you change into more of an asshole, they'll shit test you by telling you that you were so cute and adorable and now you're a butthead and an arrogant prick now. First was said because she felt so insecure around the person that it was in her interests to make you more of an asshole. They demanded an upgrade to the white knight not more.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:54 PM
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Rude of you, it's not sex, it's called: making love. And last year's one was great. We had candles and i made cookies. She did not have time as she was going to an all girls party of some sorts, so it did not last, but all good things do not last. She was so very sexy and attractive, stockings and a nice short dress. I was very happy she'd do that for me. Can't wait for this year. She promised it's soon.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:43 PM
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Agree with you as well, i think nedsheperd tried to warn us of the bias. My feeling lately is that we eschewed a little from the getting better path and we focused more on shaming which shouldn't be the main concern
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:01 PM
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Would agree with you. What for most including myself is hard to realise is that women are different. Women are not men. And that's what they do best. What we are here for is to understand this even the first phase is anger and bitterness. We don't want women to stop being unreasonable and stop being emotional. That would make them almost men and i don't fuck men. I want a woman that i can support and lead, there was a post some months ago with the captain and first officer analogy. If you know h…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 12:39 PM
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Wow you're lucky to have such a good wife ! Mine brings home only douches that drink my beer and talk badly about me and my anime collection. I am not worried though, she tells me that she loves me, and only me, and that i make her happy
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 09:40 AM
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I've been lurking around this thread from the beginning and have seen it's evolution and it's growth. It surely makes a stand but lately it's becoming very diluted in terms of trp- male self improvement. So i'll say thank you mods for the increasingly tough job of cleaning it and trying to maintain a high standard. About the feminist subreddit - we must treat it like the big shit test it is. Less attention and if we give them some of it, it should be laughable and funny. Treat them as schoolgirl…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:03 PM
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