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| 3 | As it should be: Misogyny to be classed as hate crime from autumnThis won’t change anything under Tory government unfortunately. Their policies revolve entirely around profit and spending government money prosecuting men who commit misogyny would be very draining to the state indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Women over 30: I know you think "the wall" is silly and therefore not worth talking about. But please remember you aren't the target of that propaganda. It's not meant to hurt you. It's meant to hurt us (women under 30).Fuck that’s a hot take | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Week 2 of dating myself. I'm the best partner I've ever had because I always buy my favoriteSo lovely 💐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)PHENOMENAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:40 AM |
| 2 | ‘Not all men’ is a Trojan horse, here’s why:1000% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:47 AM |
| 49 | Woman makes a whole presentation to convince a guy to promote her to girlfriend..and this is how low he thinks of her. I'm in utter disbelief.All of this psychological weaponry because he’s scared he’ll lose her. At the end of the day he’s just a little boy worried when his mom hides playing peekaboo she’ll disappear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:08 AM |
| 16 | 🔥🔥The Female Dating Strategy podcast teaser is now live on Spotify! Check it out! 🔥🔥Already sounds phenomenal, well done ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:02 AM |
| 50 | ‘Not all men’ is a Trojan horse, here’s why:It’s not hopeless because you have us and we have you ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Davina McCall everyone - Pickmeisha supremeThe fact that she’s literally demonstrated the point in her own tweet is almost bordering on funny levels of irony. Who are we being vigilant of? The men too who are they being vigilant of? Is it the woman lurking in the dark? Or is it another group? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 0 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.Juliana This is Joel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:Does anyone have any take on more relaxed dates? Say drinking at a pub / bar. Or is the M.O. to never go somewhere casual? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 43 | I'm done being polite to accommodate men's egosScreaming at the limpdicketry of it all!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:17 AM |
| 12 | Seriously?So my ex got Reddit 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:57 PM |
| 15 | Seriously?This is sooooo accurate and insightful!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:51 PM |
| 18 | Just because you’re a rare case does not mean you should encourage others to give it up on the first date. Please- vet your partners before giving them any!SCATHING HOT TEA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 5 | These days it’s only walks and MEETINGS on OLD, no actual dates 🙄Circle back never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 10 | LVMs in the workplaceYou’re so right, been FDSing for a year but this still went over my head till now because he had a wedding ring. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | From The "Book Of Negs" (Negging). This Is What Seduction/Red Pill/Pick-Up Artists Have Been Teaching Males To Do To Us🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:34 PM |
| 103 | LVMs in the workplaceHad an interview for a job for a mid level position, for context I have mid level experience and the field has the recurring pattern of female ‘workers’ and male directors. Cut to my interview with what would be my male manager. Spends the entire interview not asking questions but talking about himself, his projects, his groundbreaking insights. Everything he told me I could’ve finished his sentence because as someone with MID LEVEL experience it was entirely predictable. The interview lasted an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:19 AM |
| 12 | Why We Can't Seem to Escape Male Sexual Exploitation--It Goes This DeepThe false parallel between men at war and women birthing children throughout history is SO PROFOUND. Thank you for highlighting this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Liberal feminism and its ZVM supporters. Ladies, it's time for resistance.I need to know who was rating this high qual pussy back in 1805. Give me the field findings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:51 AM |
| 7 | LVM Triggered on a Post of a Woman Giving Birth. Apparently if the Woman is Giving Birth Willingly, She Doesn't Deserve Gratitude.Natural phenomena /= genocide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:45 AM |
| 20 | Men join the party realizing they have given themselves mental illness!!! (But keep gaslighting each other that everything’s ok and it’s all normal)I’m about to take the form of a sledgehammer to these CRETINS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:41 AM |
| 30 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsMen don’t deserve teeth SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 10 | The word that keeps coming up over and over to describe life with out (LV) men: PeaceYES B | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 11 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂This made me laugh so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 55 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢Deceased ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:59 PM |
| 120 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?I think the last year had been a great pink flag unearther. Talk to a guy about his general stance on covid, social distancing, minimising travel and it’s quite easy to work out who thinks the world revolves around their ‘need’ to get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:58 PM |
| 22 | If You Hate Online Dating, Delete Your Dating AppsPoignant analogy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:50 PM |
| 284 | A journey to admit that your life won’t be the same after adopting FDS principlesMost people aren’t ready to admit to themselves the micro and macro stresses of entertaining LVM, and worst of all, the TIME they steal from your life (before /during /after dating) was just not worth it for what they received in return. It’s like sunken scrote fallacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:58 AM |
| 4 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!Big balls too cracked me tf up 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 17 | Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!No mention of him dating or attempting to date other single parents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 08:22 PM |
| 3 | I’m happy to see women on social media (mainly TikTok) speaking out about the dangerous glorification of sex work. She’s speaking facts!Hahah, it’s the thought that counts 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 09:41 AM |
| 7 | I'm feeling a little pickmeishaSo many of the things that make being single enjoyable are unavailable right now. It’s totally natural and what’s more a lot of people have rushed into cohabiting or are being quite smug about married/ family life because it’s probably the only moment in our lifetimes they have an upper hand of sorts. Just try to keep day dreaming of all the exciting, freedom inducing things you will be able to do soon and remember the tide of LVM that will reveal themselves when it’s over (because they only wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:32 AM |
| 18 | I’m happy to see women on social media (mainly TikTok) speaking out about the dangerous glorification of sex work. She’s speaking facts!I think the allure is so heavily embedded in the fact that young women do not have permission (societally and from themselves) to step into their intelligence, intellect and power, because this would make them undesirable to the straight male. It’s a means of gaining some kind of personal and financial authority without, on the surface, upsetting or making themselves unattractive to men. Of course almost no men would willingly date a former sex worker but once the damage has been done it’s too l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else feel like FDS hasn't changed their dating life, only confirmed and vocalised their instincts?Eloquently put | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:00 PM |
| 3 | No sign is small if it reveals a mindset.Recently listened to the Jordan Harbinger podcast with Jack Shafer, who is a former FBI agent who specialises in extracting truth from people and the episode very much confirms this (do listen there are a lot of interesting techniques he talks about). Another takeaway was if you listen to how people talk about a third party you’ll get their true feelings on the matter. E.g. you ask your low value boyfriend if he’d ever cheat on you - “no of course not honey I would never do that”, but then you a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:53 AM |
| 33 | It makes me sad how delusional this woman is. This is such a bullshit excuse!Babe I just wanna support her.. with my penis.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:38 AM |
| 3 | My flair got upgraded 😎Mine too! This community is life changing, thank you ladies for being you ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:20 AM |
| 15 | Remember, men have agency. They choose. They aren’t idiots. They know what they’re doing and they’re getting exactly what they want without consequences. See past it and free yourself. (Here’s some snippets of an AMAZING article on the subject - link attached!)Great article thanks for sharing, I think there’s so much to take on even a micro level. For me this pertinent with things like waiting around to confirm something that is time sensitive. ‘Sorry I just wasn’t looking at my phone’ in a world where everyone is glued to their smartphones 24/7, has them connected to every device. My lv ex used to do this all the time, he’d be too busy partying to check his phone and acknowledge my existence, yet online offline every 10 mins or so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:17 AM |
| 27 | Remember, men have agency. They choose. They aren’t idiots. They know what they’re doing and they’re getting exactly what they want without consequences. See past it and free yourself. (Here’s some snippets of an AMAZING article on the subject - link attached!)Women are traumatised and men are manipulators | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:10 AM |
| 9 | Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its SubtletyExcellent analogy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:30 AM |
| 14 | Hot Take: Therapy is No Substitute for MoralityHonestly I could read a 2000 word thought piece on this, thank you for sharing. I think in the western world, therapy is at risk of becoming a status symbol for the liberal middle and upper classes, to signal their own highly individualistic morality, whilst minimising the amount of privilege needed to have the time and money for regular therapy. A ‘therapised’ version of oneself is only as useful as how it sits in the wider community, and so often I see with this demographic, it’s used as an im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 8 | Repost: "People no longer marry other people, people marry the corporation they work for"Lol this man is definitely cheating on his wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:42 AM |
| 84 | Armie Hammer’s (34) ex girlfriend (22) reveals his canibalistic BDSM fantasiesSorry for sharing Daily Fail here is top line summary: Armie Hammer's ex-girlfriend has claimed the actor was '100 percent serious' about figuring out a way to remove her ribs so he could eat them Model Paige Lorenze, 22, said Hammer brought up the subject of cannibalism 'multiple times,' while they were dating from August to December 2020 'He said he wanted to find a doctor that would remove my ribs,' Lorenze told Star Magazine She added: 'He was telling me you can remove the bottom ribs so he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 09:38 AM |
| 47 | Emotional F*ckbois: The Subtlest Gaslighters of AllAnother classic telltale sign of an emotional fuckboy, maybe an expansion of no.5 : when they fuck up and you CoMmUnIcAtE about what hurt you, they agree and tend to feign an intense self hatred “I wish I wasn’t like this. You must hate me” etc. Then they act good as gold until the next big fuck up which inevitably has its roots in the first, because they never fixed the problem just told you what you wanted to hear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:23 PM |
| 17 | I've decided to not date or sleep with men for an entire year.Mine since November 4th! Hoping to make it a year without a date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 13 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡Pickmeisha behaviour 101: “I aCtUAlLy ReAlLy EnJoY iT!!!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:44 PM |
| 20 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡A true queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | The reboot nobody needsI thought it was unanimously agreed that SATC was racist trash?? It will probably come back wokewashed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 6 | What’s the worst neg you got?I think what he meant was ‘you seem like a bitch’ and not ‘you seem like one of the most prolific pedophiles in the world’ but who knows, these scrotes do like to project | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:44 PM |
| 19 | What’s the worst neg you got?I reminded him of Ghislaine Maxwell. No words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:09 AM |
| 63 | Living alone as an FDS womanComprehending the scale of entitlement that a whole gender has been socialised to only show basic human empathy to people they think they can potentially have sex with is unfathomable. It honestly feels like grief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Smh!!!!! Stuff like this is why I will probably never date until my kids grow up.*air | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Someone here recommended drawing your ex and the reasons you left....I ran out of space.BALLOONS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:08 PM |
| 32 | Radical feminism on social mediaOne thing chidera promotes that I always loved was equity over equality. In a world where women are systemically disadvantaged in every financial arena, it’s not enough for a man to pay ‘his share’. She gets so much heat for her various stances on things and then eventually the libfems catch on. Can’t wait till they realise there’s nothing empowering about paying half for a shit date with a dusty ass man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 31 | As if we didn’t all see it coming but OOOF are these pandemic relationships are gonna end badly 🤡😬Fascinated to see what 2021 will be like in terms of dating. Those HVW who spent this year working on their goals, fitness, and mind instead of clinging to a dead relationship with a man who sees them as a walking fleshlight. Can’t help but feel a little smug about being part of an elite few who didn’t let their standards slip even when the world was ending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:13 PM |
| 3 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Little dude 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:51 PM |
| 50 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"One of the many realisations for me after joining FDS was that my ex had a porn problem. Took months before he was ‘comfortable’ enough around me to stay hard for longer than 5 mins, he used to say it was because his dick was intimidated by me, and I lapped it up like I was some Uber-hot dominatrix. Now this same guy confessed to me (later down the line) when he was hungover at work he would go to the bathrooms and get himself off, and he was hungover ALOT. Seems so obvious now but I never linke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:58 PM |
| 8 | The Modern Man's Hatred of WomenThe hottest of takes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 11:07 AM |
| 8 | Society gaslights women into thinking they’re awful for not wanting to date poor guys. The result, modern ladies before they find FDS:Seeing and hearing women repeat the sentiment that ‘broke guys are amazing lays because they fuck like they’re looking for a home’, has got to be one of the more stomach-churning mantras of pickme culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Men are really weird 🤨Such an interesting take!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Best one I’ve seen yet 😂Wheezing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:53 PM |
| 16 | I am disgusted.Total cognitive dissonance, much easier to go for the party that has some reason to fear your reaction than the one you’ve made it clear to, that there are no consequences to their terrible treatment of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 14 | It’s time for: Spot 👏 The 👏 Flag! 👏 🚩 🚩 AKA profiles that made me give up on OLD.The audacity of having lips that resemble a cats arsehole and calling women fat bitches.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:50 AM |
| 15 | This libfem meme directed at us so-called SWERFs makes me sad. :(This comment is highly underrated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:45 AM |
| 31 | This libfem meme directed at us so-called SWERFs makes me sad. :(But muh eMpOwErMeNT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 69 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”Does no one else find it creepy he’s getting back out on the field 5 months after his exes suicide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:49 AM |
| 24 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?As I’m breaking up with him “I’m going to tell people this was a mutual decision” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 10 | Thanksgiving for the Things That Aren'tI am reminded of this quote from Jessica Dore “Saying no is saying yes to something better” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:39 AM |
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