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28

That's called establishing your physical dominance. As joked about as it is on Reddit, it is still a very necessary tool. You spoke with action that day.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 12:19 AM
1

Self-aware and doesn't have her shit together. That's pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:11 PM
-1

More people are willing to read the short comments. I would explain, but more will read this if I don't.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:05 PM
4

Some of us did get married, though. At least you see the silver lining in your past.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:19 PM
3

This is a very on-point monologue that explains the reasoning behind many modern western societal problems. We bitch and moan about how women aren't responsible, yet it is literally enforced in every facet of society to NOT HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE for their actions. What's the solution? Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 04:54 PM
3

Frame it as such. You're on break just trying to chill and stay low key.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 11:06 PM
2

Only if you have control of the situation, or a very solid escape plan. Women suck at planning dates.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 10:51 PM
35

If I may paraphrase, you're saying you don't mind that others are weak. This makes you look strong(er). However, big picture, PC needs to chill. It's a gateway drug to false rape accusations, the golden pussy effect, and other poisons. It infects society, indirectly impacts who is leading our countries, and allows the media to control popular opinion. These are things that will negatively affect those that come after us. If you care at all about your offspring, you'll at least be able to caveat …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 09:59 PM
1

I'd like to add pretty much all Disney movies correlate "beautiful" and "handsome" with "good" and "successful". We are raised on this horseshit. This is why I secretly approve of the message in Frozen. It shows that beautiful people CAN have bad intent, and also highlights the importance of family.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 04:49 PM
2

How does it feel to be alive, and awake?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 11:01 PM
3

This is why a lot of guys have better luck in person. Height doesn't come into play until you're standing in front of her. Add game to the mix and it makes guys like me want to avoid Tinder. It's just so much easier in person.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 04:18 PM
1

Yeah, I know what you (they) mean. I am making a point that it's silly to use religious story as justification. Their religion is just as fictitious as my religion is, if I had one.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:11 AM
4

The story of Cinderella didn't say that either.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 12:35 AM
-1

How is it not rational? Do you expect no new problems to erect when we elect the polar opposite character to Obama? If you don't see something so basic staring you in the face, you might consider furthering your education. The rabbit hole goes deep, and I kept the discussion at a high school level. Your cherry picking is weak, and so far your arguments seem to be rooted in emotion over logic. Provide some substance to the conversation rather than trying to catch me in some logic loop fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 10:16 PM
1

It was an example. Quit relying on buzzwords to replace rational analysis.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 08:31 PM
2

Yep. There is no "preparation" or reason for OP to "keep an eye on this one". This shit is over. She's lying to his face and trying to isolate herself with another male. That's blunt disrespect. Best play for OP is go NC for good in order to save face amongst the social circles. No closure, no shitshow.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:24 PM
2

If it's important enough to berate him for it, you need to source this. IRT mental health, there is still a lot we don't understand.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:17 PM
5

This is why Trump is doing so well. I think a lot of Americans don't fully understand why they want to support him, but they admire his drive and frame. Unfortunately, his foundation is going to give out and present a new set of problems for us (the world). I suspect he runs in order to posture for power and further financial gain. He looks out for #1, as we should all expect from a billionaire tycoon. Point is, the foundation is our best indicator of where we could be in 5, 10, 20 years. Withou…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 07:38 PM
18

As soon as any party reaches for religion to back up their rationale, they've lost in my eyes. I like the endgame message, but they lack some necessary foundation for me to fully support that.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 06:23 PM
1

Interesting story, but MGTOW is necessary for some men. What better way is there to learn to live without pussy than to live without pussy by choice? You don't have to be attractive to determine pussy is not worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:20 PM
2

Women in the military generally behave this way, too. The ones to blame are the Cap'n Save-a-Hoe boys that follow them around all the time.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:55 PM
1

And now you broach the catch-22 of TRP and the like. Most who don't have the time aren't surfing around in the manosphere because they're too busy wrecking shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:48 PM
1

For some reason she wants to frame and guide the relationship. Something you did (or didn't do) made her lose respect for you. Think about what that was. Either way, she needs to implicitly understand if she wants to run a relationship on her terms that she can do that... with someone else.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 07:38 PM
1

It's ultimately up to you how much you want to text. If you like the plate, drop a little blue pill on her to keep her around. This is where the lines blur between TRP and PUA. It's similar to gaming a girl, only this is a little beta game. If she 100% knows you aren't going to commit, her timer will start counting down. Dropping a little beta game will keep her guessing. Depends on the morals you follow, whether or not you want to use that. However, the recommended plating strategy still stands…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 07:32 PM
2

Accurate on the strategy bit, but it's 2/3 instead of 1/3. Also, you aren't addressing OP's actual question.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 07:24 PM
7

That voice in your head is from all those retard movies and fairytale stories you were spoonfed in your youth. Move on and prove to yourself that you don't need her. Life before her was good, and life after her will be better.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:43 PM
2

I'm not sure your message is clear. Are you just saying you want to swear off sluts? You only want to date good girls with morals/values? You want to withhold sex until after you've become exclusive???
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:30 PM
3

Yeah, it's apparent through the arguments based on emotion.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:51 PM
1

I gave this some thought as well. There is still a difference in repercussions between the sexes. You get in a scuffle with another sizable male. Escalate it to police intervention, you both get questioned--possible jail time. You get in a scuffle with a female. Escalate it to police intervention... You see where I'm going.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 01:06 PM
2

Just to clarify, not giving a fuck about others' opinions about you. You give several fucks about #1, yourself.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:38 AM
6

I've seen it first hand. I probably haven't seen the "safety" often because I don't date snarky cunts that want to run shit on their own independent agenda.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 04:33 AM
3

Actually, it is. You're snarky attitude stands out here arguing about petty shit. Women know how to say no or nope the fuck out on a creeper. The friend thing is a direct form of approval-seeking behavior. You, being the friend, are her validation source.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:42 AM
7

That's reading into it about the same amount bud.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:23 AM
17

I think it has to do with how much they value their friend's opinion. They don't have a man to cling onto, so they latch onto friends in their social circle with a death grasp. It forces you to game them both, or jump through hoops.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 10:43 PM
3

Whether or not she was flirting with you, the short answer is validation/attention. Long answer: Women in a relationship are almost never penalized for flirting. They are usually allowed to pivot as they please to line up their next partner. Whether or not she chooses you, it still places you as one of her options when and if that time ever comes. What I'm describing is an orbiter. Not necessarily the provider orbiter that we usually talk about, but the guy who is around in her social circle tha…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 07:18 PM
-3

Good job on the actions you describe. WNTT (we need to talk) is nothing more than a power play. What the fuck is the dramatic build-up for? Luckily, you were too busy to fall victim to that. Your action is nothing. Hard next, no closure.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 06:24 PM
24

A woman normally doesn't have to worry about the highest level of escalation, which is physical altercation. They aren't held as accountable socially. Imagine how much differently you would view everyday life if you didn't have to think about fighting other men (aka dealing with consequences of your actions). With the examples you provided, this is hypergamy. It's like asking a man how he can fuck two women at once and only love one of them. It's how women are wired. When they find a better man,…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:33 PM
6

Cute is an insult unless you're one of the following: Under 20, a woman, or over 70 You just need to be able to derive whether the complement comes from a place of naivety or malice.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 07:55 PM
7

Race and religion are taboo in TRP, for good reason. A subforum like this can only afford so much controversy, and there are other subs that support that kind of stuff. In terms of how religion relates to TRP, it holds women (and men) accountable in most cases by providing a moral foundation. Whether or not it's realistic is irrelevant. It was a relevant mention since OP is implying these people follow socially acceptable code.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 05:42 PM
3

I draw the same line. Digits or GTFO.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 03:44 PM
2

"I gotta go pee, and I need someone to gossip with."
/r/askTRP05/12/15 11:59 PM
2

What a plate does on her time should be none of your concern. That will happen. They will come and go. You haven't faced reality yet. You absolutely cannot depend on a woman like this. Neediness in a male is insanely unattractive. You don't need her to survive. You need to be on your own for a good year or so to teach yourself this. You won't learn from me telling you. Go monk mode. Swear off women. Get back in the game in spring of '16 or '17.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 11:57 PM
2

This is prime time for dating when you're a dude. You're emotionally unavailable, so act now. Women will pick up on this. You'll have a blast. As long as you play with your cards close to your chest, you got it made.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 09:18 PM
7

When they ask for exclusivity, do you say yes? This is your main problem. I also know you're the type who stops looking for a fuck once you get a girl. They can't be plates if there's only one of them at a time. You're still living in the fantasy world where you expect too much from a woman. I'd be bitter too if I expected my dog to be logical and he never lived up to that. You haven't internalized realistic expectations of women.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 09:13 PM
4

"Cock" usually works.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 09:10 PM
1

A&A projects abundance mentality. It's like saying idgaf.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 07:50 PM
9

1000 lb club. This paints a top 15% figure alone.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:56 PM
7

This makes me realize the anger phase is TBP withdrawal. Getting angry about AWALT is what you do when you are still trying to hold on to that fantasy shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:19 PM
5

Actually I'd say we are all currently witnessing Bill Burr's betaization. He jokes about how he is still trying to stay in touch with the dog inside of him.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:21 PM
3

Once again, Chad is an idea. I applaud your effort in rationalizing why we shouldn't praise a natural, but my own image of Chad is not a natural that bottoms out in relationships. Nor is he someone that wifes up and pops kids out wondering why he can't keep her happy anymore. A natural alpha that bottoms out is no longer a natural alpha. It does happen, but we shouldn't use these fuckbags as examples of what an alpha is. Once you're inside the haze of an intimate relationship, maintaining and in…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 08:30 PM
2

Why not? He will receive insight to his specific problem from our point of view. You will not be tortured or killed for PMing the guy. Your account shouldn't be able to be doxxed anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 05:04 PM
2

This reinforces the fact that women marry for the social status. Why the fuck does it matter who sees the proposal??? These are the same women that get bored of said status and long to change from married to divorced. From marriage, women gain status and security. Men gain.. ????? Satisfaction that they might be able to raise a child in a "more suitable" environment?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 04:38 PM
1

And then you start to think about how many romantic comedies, love stories, and bible verses these same people have been exposed to. Media has seemingly unlimited influence on how people perceive relationships.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:05 PM
12

Hope he's at least fucking Julie by now.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:40 PM
1

That sounds complicating as fuck and I wouldn't even worry about it. Funny theory, though.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 07:34 PM
3

Again, this is not a catch-all solution. OP clearly stated he stopped watching porn and slowed masturbation. It's ironic that nofap became a circle jerk.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:00 PM
1

Hottie? Don't use that term because it subliminally pedestalizes her above you. Your A&A probably triggered her ASD and you didn't know how to keep escalating after that. Refusal to K-close means you didn't make your intentions clear. At most, she could buy into the idea of "getting to know you better first" at her speed within her frame. Soft next.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 02:12 PM
22

This happens to a lot of guys, not so much to the top 10%. She isn't interested. Best part is she is bitchy and saved you time from getting roped into a LJBF. If you had frame, you'd view it as she's too bitchy to fuck around with and forget her.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 08:50 PM
2

"No shit,... That's the exact argument I'm supporting. I keep coming back for that 5-10% of the time it isn't a rant or sidebar reiteration. It's still worth my time.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 08:43 PM
2

That can be debated in most threads here.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 08:06 PM
1

You're relying on your circle of friends to influence you. If you find better friends, they won't fix this problem. You have to fix this.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 06:49 PM
4

Withdraw emotionally, employ game, sex and logistics only. When there is kickback, next her.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:40 PM
1

Don't do it for the woman. Do it for you. She's right in vocalizing encouragement to socialize. Never isolate yourself inside your LTR because the LTR lifespan is never guaranteed to last forever. An easy way to know you're doing it for yourself: Go hang out with the guys. She doesn't need to be there for you to feel validated in yourself.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:35 PM
8

Yup, cocky/funny wins over honesty yet again. I've heard time and time again about girls that "don't date short guys... Except for him... and him... Oh, and him."
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:28 PM
3

I hate that this is buried. This is your answer, OP. You're wandering around the BP hipster scene wondering why they won't approach you like a RP man would. Then, you wonder why you get approached in the "bro" (AKA RP) scene so much. You're attracting alpha male assholes, but you're wondering why the liberal pussies won't hit on you. They're intimidated/shy. The less attractive girls are safe bets for them.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:22 PM
2

Are you fucking her?
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:11 PM
5

And? She's a rando on social media. You have better odds getting your dick wet if you don't add her in my opinion.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:09 PM
3

Buy her flowers, anonymously. If you glanced at the sidebar for 30 seconds, you would know what to do.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:57 PM
7

Assume it's malicious and don't accept the request.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:55 PM
1

This is the most important time to be in monk mode. It's a feeling you need to learn how to defeat and control. You'll come out much stronger on the other side. It's something only you can figure out on your own.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:50 PM
5

"Ugh we had so much in common, too. I just don't like him like that." Combine that with your explanation on "clicking". You'll wonder why you ever believed otherwise. Maybe it's so hard to accept you're not provoking tingles that you buy into it and all of its blissful ignorance.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 04:33 PM
1

Of the three you mention, I only value self-esteem in a woman. Tenacity and success (mentioned as accomplishments above) I don't value in a woman.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:37 PM
1

I don't value pride, accomplishments, or courage in a woman. Some qualities do overlap, but not all.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 02:31 PM
5

Integrity, honesty, courage, pride, loyalty, kindness, humbleness, humor, strength, accomplishments, wit, knowledge, intelligence, physical stature. I know there is more.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:24 AM
1

For reference, I'm 31. I know what it's like to have drive, and I know what it's like to be 20. It should be known to you that I do not know what it's like to have drive at 20, so your situation is different from mine. My analogy was meant to address the benefits of deep long term friendships similarly to the gains you make in the gym. You can get some instant gratification (noob gains, like the instant social validation). We can't grow based on the instant gratification, which is why we keep go…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 07:55 PM
3

At 20 it's a bit much to expect great return on your relationship investments beyond shooting the shit with buddies. It's not immediate gratification, much like working out. This pays off when your back is against the wall. TRP focuses on reliance of yourself which is CRUCIAL, but having a social outlet is what keeps us sane. Your buddies are plugged in. They're crabs in a bucket. Instead of shunning them, be there. Having an alpha male in your life means you have someone to look up to. Everyone…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 04:19 PM
8

Since we all like labels--even though it's not black and white--you seem to be leaning toward a Sigma male role vice an Alpha. This isn't good, but it's not terrible. Some of my greater alpha male influences in my life keyed in on similar social guidelines. They would tell me to never burn bridges if you can help it. To me that means it's important to keep people on your side. The kindness is what pays off in the long run because it can be returned two fold. You just have to know which people mi…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 03:31 PM
13

Slut shaming (illegalization) increases the value of pussy. Pussy is at an all-time high in the West thanks to the evolution of our governments and law enforcement. These are official-level SJWs put in place to protect the weak, but the pendulum has swung too far leaving the power in the collective hands of the weak. Escalate far enough in any situation and men with guns will pay you a visit.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 09:14 PM
2

And pretty much any alpha image you can think up. He's like Bill Braskey from the old SNL skits.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:35 AM
2

Thanks, I just learned something today.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 12:21 AM
1

So in other words intense OHP and rows.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 10:59 PM
6

Finally, someone put it into words. Chad is an idea.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 06:14 PM
4

Treat others the way you want to be treated. Debatable if not used in the right context. This isn't a blanket statement, but it does apply truthfully to lots of interpersonal interactions. However, when in a relationship this does NOT apply.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 06:27 PM
2

Thanks team. Your hard work does not go unnoticed.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 05:45 PM
1

You gotta understand. There are lots of Chads out there fucking fatties. So if you're a 7, well... you're not an 8 who's getting the attention.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 03:06 PM
27

These are certainly two of the many ugly truths. Personally, I believe my ugly truth was that I will NEVER be able to be completely trusting of a woman beyond anything more than what's in her nature. To have to deal with a creature that cannot overcome its natural instinct gives me an overwhelming sense of defeat. I cannot unlearn this, and it's painful. This issue also splices into an abyss of isolation. Even though it's painful, I cannot push these fears onto my SO. She doesn't deserve to shou…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 03:57 AM
1

No. If you're not getting enough matches for free, you're not going to get any better matches by spending your money. It does help you cast the net a little better, but you're still online dating. Almost every other guy is already casting a net.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:14 PM
3

Well, let me clarify. I wasn't even on the floor at the time. If you're dancing with her and you're getting AMOG'ed, I would ignore the guy at first. If he persisted, I would either pull her around me by the waist or circle her to physically block him. Even if she meant jack shit to me because that's purely a challenge brought on by HIM, not her.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 12:18 AM
3

Which is normal.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 08:55 PM
1

Not sure now. This was earlier last year, so it sounds like it changed.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:43 PM
7

More plates IS an option. You said yourself you barely spend time with Plate #1. Your mistake is you're letting Plate #2 eat up all your fuck time. Look, plates generally won't fall off to neglect until like day 5-12 of no contact. Some can be rekindled after that. More plates is your answer, and I'm not saying cancel your normal life plans to do it. Instead of fucking Plate #1 or #2 one night, pick up Plate #3 and #4. At 3 or 4 total, you can allow Plate #1 to drop if your time is too limited. …
/r/askTRP25/11/15 07:29 PM
2

Zoosk landed me my hottest plate HB8+ in a relatively short time period. That shit was riddled with bots and quite broken ~1 year ago, though. I'd say it was at least better than the BBW dating sites/apps like OKC, POF, Match, etc in terms of quality matches.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:11 PM
3

Perfectly stated. Her intelligence, manipulation, and extortion skills are through the roof. These are great things for her and her future children, not OP. In fact, what do you think would happen if God forbid you get sick or suffer from a loss in the family? You would never have any slack in the relationship, which means 100% A-game must be a go at all times. Not saying OP couldn't pull it off, but the risk FAR outweighs the reward. Turn your back for a second and she'll make Gone Girl seem li…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 06:47 PM
3

Like others are saying in other words: In order to be valuable you have to make yourself valuable. This is what separates entitlement from actual value. If you don't create self value, you're no better than the fat acceptance victims.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 06:41 PM
9

Yup. Plated a girl where this happened. Then got "Why didn't you come save me?" shit tested. I said, "That's not my job." Fucked her again that night. She was a nutjob. I nexted her a week or so later... after she blew up my phone in response to not committing to her and fucking other women.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 04:53 PM
1

I want to echo the communication point. This is where I fucked up. Don't talk, and don't text. Don't give her record of any shit you say unless it's legally agreed upon. What I didn't understand was, this girl is 100% your enemy now. Whatever you say can and will be used against you in the hamster's wheel. When I found out my wife cheated on me, I wasn't throwing shit like OP was. So this point goes double for him: Don't make snap decisions or reactions when you have to text/talk about your daug…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:57 PM
5

I feel women would are not safe during the other hours at my last dojo, but we still had to spar with them. They're too fragile.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 08:32 PM
11

Are they actually doing female hours???
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 07:47 PM
3

LOL I thought you were going to say she was at least 40.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:36 PM
1

If you don't feel comfortable using her, that's fine. I personally wouldn't cut it off immediately. I would just enjoy the time you have together until it fades away.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:55 PM
1

Go to the main TRP sub. Search for "LTR game". Top result. Read the 8-part guide, starting with "LTR game: Maintaining Frame". Anyone in a LTR should read this guide.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 07:02 AM
1

It was situational for me. If she was flying in and making a pit stop by my place, that's fine. Otherwise, I at least pretend to "have plans" after sex or early the next morning so they "gotta go". I'll at least give them some fairly overt social cues that tell them to leave, so they can feel good about being the one who "decided" to leave. Bonus spinning up the hamster.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:55 AM
5

with a lot of room for improvement This is not close to a unicorn. Use her as practice.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:50 AM
4

You're on her beta ladder, and quite low on the beta ladder. In order to turn that around you need to invest a LOT of time in social interactions where you display alpha qualities (like AMOGing), lift and gain noticeably, and generally being too busy. Next her. The reason the best advice is to move on is because once a girl has you pegged as a beta, it's extremely difficult to jump to the alpha ladder. You could spend years just trying to inch your way up the beta ladder with this girl, and she …
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:48 AM
2

You should see the Tinder experiments in the main TRP sub. Even the gross fat women are getting laid easily. If you're not attractive, it's not for you. Luckily, you can do something about that attraction level.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:56 PM
2

I figured. The point still stands.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 08:10 PM
3

Girls on Tinder are not LTR material. Youre setting yourself up for failure. Tinder is for fucks.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 08:10 PM
5

77 women in a year and you're still getting attached before the 4th date? This can't be real. You seem slightly depressed and not where you want to be physically. Work on that and you'll generally be more alluring to women.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 07:44 PM
2

This is the only correct response.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 07:41 PM
0

I think Jeb could get his dick wet easily if he tried.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:02 PM
3

In high school, it could have. I had a little groupie of girls that would come to my games to watch me. I had a gf at the time, so I paid little attention to them. Go ahead, ask me what I'd do if I could go back in time.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:44 AM
2

It's hard to explain because at this point it's a little bit of everything. If a girl is into you, she's normally showing a lot of signs. She will be very open. I personally look for IOIs first, like distant eye contact where you catch her staring at you. It's the most blatant IOI outside of groping. Then, approach to find out if she's: Open to conversation. Open to what you have to say, specifically. Open in terms of schedule if you're talking about meeting up. Open with her physical body (faci…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:40 AM
1

Exactly. My response to u/gotyouyo here is basically saying this message from a planning angle.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:28 AM
3

I still have hope that I can manage a LTR with a proper RP foundation in a deep enough relationship to where it's better than a typical marriage. I reserve the right to walk, albeit I would still get slapped with child support if I did. It's about damage control at that point. I wouldn't have to worry about possessions, alimony, or any divorce rape based on adultery or the other of the rest of the "conditions" that give the other party the right the legally fuck the other. It would be a clean br…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:23 AM
6

Agree with everything except: You can definitely have children without getting married. It's ok to not sign your relationship over to the government.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:36 AM
5

I just think to myself, "Go be independent by yourself" anytime I hear about this independent woman stuff.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 08:51 PM
2

You think because I believe people don't care about men's problems means I think outside sources cause men's problems? I think you are arguing just to fight for higher ground.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 05:59 AM
3

I see your point, but the difference is self-repair. Other communities look outward for the solution. I believe the main goal for us is to look inward.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 04:20 AM
12

But this isn't victimhood. This is realism. People don't give a fuck about men, so the proper answer is we have to give a fuck about ourselves and our brothers.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 03:02 AM
12

You're right. We hear about men's issues all the time in the media and they raise awareness amongst corporations and other similar social gatherings. /s
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 02:22 AM
1

When I was spinning, I was always recruiting at bars. I was also out with buddies, so there was social proof. I will say, I look for IOIs. Most of the time I won't hit on a girl unless she notices me first. There are more missed opportunities with this method, but it gave me a better win percentage.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 11:09 PM
3

Most here have it right. This doesn't affect a Western Feminist, so this problem doesn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 08:30 PM
6

I like that you took time to analyze Tinder, but I don't think you need text game. These sluts make their decisions based on your pic unless you're a socially retarded assbag in interactions.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 08:06 PM
40

This is geared toward men's health. Not enough people care about such things outside of this sub. The only thing that could be worse in the public eye is if it was geared toward the well-being of white people.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 08:01 PM
1

The intellectual types seem to thrive most when they can fuck a woman's mind as foreplay. I wouldn't underestimate the power an intellect could wield with TRP knowledge.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 07:54 PM
3

This is counterproductive for some. Some egos can survive more beatings than others.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 07:40 PM
4

How about you instead develop a stronger fear. The fear of missed opportunity. Think about lying in bed thinking about what you "could've said" or wondering if she would've been into you. Think about who is to blame for the missed opportunity. Beat yourself up for being a pussy. The world won't stop turning when a girl rejects you. They don't care. The only one who suffers is you, and you are capable of changing your outcome. If you don't cast the net, you'll never know. Also the more you do it,…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 07:36 PM
1

It just depends on what you're looking for. If you want a short term plate, like 2-8 weeks, definitely keep deflection at 100. If you want to keep her around a few extra weeks, you can drop the player game a few notches. Anything after that, you gotta be vigilant about comfort tests. You need to be able to find out if she's just fucking with you (shit testing) or looking for your validation and coming from a place of insecurity (comfort testing). Of course, this is all FWB and LTR stuff. Don't w…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 07:02 PM
2

I diagnose you with the Itus. Go no contact for good.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:04 AM
3

Coming from a relatively stable household, this song always seemed so psychotic.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:10 PM
7

She said working out is bad for you? I'm interested in this mindfuckery.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:08 PM
3

Yup, she has probably learned over time that this manipulation tactic gets her the quickest "in" for potential social groups. Men and women alike are obviously more open to inviting a single girl with no friends along on their adventures.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 09:37 PM
2

Too much joking/A&A can trigger ASD/LMR. You can shoot straight every once in a while on comfort tests (never shit tests). There's a balance to keep and it varies depending on the type of relationship. Pick your battles a little better. You might be thinking a lot of tests are popping up, but in reality maybe getting hit by very few shit tests. You can reveal a card in your hand every once in a while, if and only if you believe she deserves it. If not, then expect the plate to fall.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 09:25 PM
1

This is when you engage in the rationalization that you took a prime sliver of her early reproductive years. In a certain light, you were the alpha. You were the one who left her a damaged girl at the wall with shit options. You were the one who remained capable of building yourself up and upgrading your quality/quantity of relationships. Source: Have lived through the fall of a 5+ year LTR as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 08:52 PM
1

Agreed, with a caveat: We must treat women as if AWALT as an order of protection of what we bring to the table in relationships. So you're correct in a sense that yes, our perception must be that AWALT... but the reality is obviously NAWALT.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:18 PM
1

One of my best buds is near your age. We both went through similar breakups at the same time, and I can tell you it's no different. The advice that benefits me at 31 is the same shit that benefits him at 48. Read the sidebar, top comments, lift, socialize.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:56 PM
1

Female superiors can still cry victim.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:37 PM
1

There was a study done where they found pictures of women to be more attractive when they showed a happy personality. Men were proven to be more attractive when emitting a proud personality in pictures.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:34 PM
3

Strengthen your game. Why is a girl able to throw you off balance so much? You give her way too much credibility. When she interjects, either ignore her or call her out. Ask if she wants more attention and throw her a sad face, jokingly. "Are you getting jealous again?" smirk Don't take what she says at face value because this shit originates from somewhere. It always does.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:29 PM
5

They are SJW redditors, meaning mostly low SMV males and females over there. So I hope not.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:09 PM
7

YES, and this is why men NEED male spaces. That was perfectly explained.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 02:57 AM
3

Deadlifts are extremely underrated, unless you're in the weightlifting community I've noticed. Take this man's advice. I also avoided them for too long until recently. I love them now. Others will say not to push yourself too hard on them to prevent injury.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:05 AM
1

Basic hug intro. Playful pushing is a power move. She feels you touching her, yet you're literally pushing her away. Couple that with a cheesy "Get outta here", and you're onto next level kino. Arms/lower back/hip/thigh/etc.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 11:38 PM
3

Devil's advocate... Most posts and replies here are rants. Rants about how fucked up society is, and how much more fucked up it will be if things continue the way they have been going. And the popular opinion here is to do nothing? More and more men are donning their red-tinted lenses every day since the manosphere has been growing over the past decade or more. And as men, we are sacrificial creatures. If not for sex, then for those that come after us. A quote comes to mind: The best time to pla…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:49 PM
5

I definitely wouldn't. Even a top 1%er would sometimes struggle with downgrading a manipulative gf to a plate. Just imagine what you're going through now, amplified because you're not giving her any commitment. Shit tests would go way up in frequency. There are billions of others out there, several are better for you than your gf.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:31 PM
1

Lift, starting today. Read. Read, read, and read. Read to a point where you start to get tired of it, and then try to completely forget everything. If you can't forget most of what you learn here, then your internalization process is working. In order for me personally run approach game, I have to slow analyzing/thinking down to a near halt. Say whatever the fuck comes to mind, be kind, etc. Others here are more articulate than myself when it comes to approach game, but I can only say what works…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:24 PM
3

You're better off alone. A lot of the time here we will see something minor and jump the gun on replying that OP should next her. Like if she looks at him wrong or spills milk or something. This isn't one of those situations. I sense some above average levels of manipulation from this girl by your post. This shit will damage you in the long run. I mean look at yourself here. You're blaming yourself because she lied to you. What the fuck? I wouldn't be surprised if you were thinking about apologi…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:09 PM
0

I laughed at that, too.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:09 PM
1

How many other women are on this planet again?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:00 AM
4

Good text, no action required.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:02 PM
1

It seems you have most of the puzzle pieces. You even said yourself that you need to see yourself as a man which a lot of males wouldn't admit today. So how do you do that? Become someone you respect. This is not the same for everyone, but universally similar.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:25 PM
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Not enough to overtly downgrade, but you should back off a bit to gauge her investment. Be a little less available. I'd be keeping an eye out for an excuse to dump her after this set of conversations, but wouldn't tell her about that. Definitely keep your options open with other women, as you should be doing anyway.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:17 PM
5

"I don't wanna date your sister" or "Sure I'll date your sister too"
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:12 PM
1

Don't plan dialogue. Appear interested without showing investment. "Hey, nice skirt. You free later?" Will result in one of the following: "haha thanks, but..." "haha thanks, and yes after X." If she's interested, tell her when you get off work and grab a beer/coffee with you. Shits only hard if you over-analyze and psych yourself out. Maybe try hitting on one girl per night.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:09 PM
3

On point. You've articulated something that I've not been able to for quite a while now. TRP text game is like shirtless selfie game. It only works if you are an 8+. Otherwise, I'd keep the allure of TRP within personal interactions.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 07:10 PM
1

No. You have family, and maybe a close friend or two. It's the world who doesn't care about you. Sad reality, but the sooner you can accept that, the better off you are. A lot of TRP theory evolves around bettering yourself for yourself. I think what people here don't like to mention is that everyone ultimately wants to be liked and loved. I'll occasionally find myself in the gym surrounded by 95% males and just realize some sad shit. Just about everyone there is going through the cycles just to…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:45 PM
2

Right, I want to add emphasis to this one. OP, you're not the only male with this problem. In fact, you see what you have going for yourself so you need to exploit that. Think about your positives before going hard on approaches. A lot of guys here I've noticed over the past 18 months say the same shit. They feel like failures because they're not batting 1.000. NOBODY bats 1.000, not even Chad. Keep casting the net. Dry spells will happen and yes, sometimes you need to lower your standards just …
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:32 PM
2

Right, if OP isn't making her feel good about her or her decisions it is emotionally considered "rude".
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:24 PM
2

I think you're mostly correct. It should be clarified that you can say whatever the fuck you want. Whether it comes off as arrogant or confident is largely dependent on how she already perceives you. In game theory it is in your best interest to be polarizing. Use this when you ask yourself similar questions like this. Instead of asking "If I say X, will it seem like Y?"... ... Tell yourself "When I say X, I can more clearly tell if this girl is interested." The goal shouldn't be to not offend s…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 04:20 PM
1

Use that as initial motivation. You'll find your way along the long road. Some like to say your goal shouldn't be pussy. I agree. I also won't argue with how we are wired. If you need to use pussy as a means to create a goal, then desperate times call for desperate measures. I also used pussy as a goal, and found I actually like socializing more than I had thought before I started. That cliche shit about "happiness is a journey". I 100% believe that. You run around chasing tail, get laid a few t…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 09:25 PM
1

Do you want money, opportunity, and pussy?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 08:45 PM
1

You made her feel bad. Women hate people that make them feel bad. The ill intent Chad had doesn't phase her because she dreams about his cock day and night. She thinks Chad is better than her, so he could never do wrong. If he wants another girl, she will see that and want to try to get his attention even more. Until of course, she starts nearing the wall and her clock starts ticking.. She may realize she won't get commitment from him, and then bail for a more obtainable guy.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:54 PM
1

This one is no good. Move on. I mean even if you were one suave mother fucker, she already has you pegged as a beta. It takes a lot to come back from that. She's game-aware and just seems like she's thrill seeking trying to make her bf jealous. Work and risk required far outweigh the benefit here. Saying nothing at this point is the best game you can run on this one. She'll only be able to convince herself to sit on your lap if anything. And it's hard to say why she has you on the beta ladder. I…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:34 PM
0

"I'll give a fuck ;)"
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:07 PM
1

Wait.. She said she's a girl in love with her bf who doesn't give a fuck? That sounds like an invitation.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 07:03 PM
7

Yup, OP you're a fisherman. You can't teach a fish how to be caught.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:18 PM
3

I wanna look good naked. To whom, you ask? Everyone pretty much has it correct here. It's used as an internal building mechanism here. Internal game.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:15 PM
5

Agreed, there are lots of reasons. We need more personality context to narrow it down.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:51 PM
1

That seems to happen a lot. Articulation will come to me eventually.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:39 PM
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Yes, I fully believe the girl with the "guy who must've thought she had to do all the work" barely did anything for a reason. He probably figured he'd settle for fucking a 6 that night.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 05:36 PM
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positive reviews from a friend of a friend (don't judge--chicks talk) When they say "don't judge", that's when your ears should perk up. She openly admits to reviewing fucks amongst her friends. This is something you don't hear about much when anonymity isn't available. Always fuck well.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 05:34 PM
2

No, I clearly am not. Read again. You want a woman to seek validation from you, not just validation in general. This is how she attempts to fit into your frame.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 05:19 PM
1

Pussy doesn't value honesty. Whatever honesty you want to display to her must be done implicitly. (i.e. Spending time with her means you place some level of value on her. Spending time with her does not mean you're exclusive/LTR/married.) If you're playing the honest game, you better be in the top 10% at least.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 03:03 PM
3

It's ok to validate a woman, but only if she's seeking it from you. Don't offer validation unless you believe it was earned.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 01:44 PM
2

If it wasn't your height, you'd find something else to whine about. I see short guys all the time pulling 8s. You gotta fight this height battle internally.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:50 PM
7

She's either too naive or too possessive. Good job filtering this plate out.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:46 PM
6

No. These conversations are driven by her desires. If you tell her there is no way you will settle down with her and she still fucks, it means she has lied to herself. A lot of FWB situations are like this. It's like the female version of an orbiter. In the case of male orbiters she says no sex, but he devotes his time to her anyway. In this case you say no commitment, but she devotes her pussy to you anyway. Because of hope.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:09 PM
2

Be someone you can respect. You're not quite living up to your own expectations. I go through similar cycles of thought. Sometimes you have to go back to the drawing board and push yourself harder in a better direction.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:53 PM
1

Think of boundaries from a fatherly point of view. Do you get mad that your 5-year-old did some shit he wasn't supposed to and didn't know any better? All you need to do is plan ahead. If X happens, I punish swiftly by performing Y action. If whatever X was, and you weren't prepared (which does happen), you remove yourself from the situation to think of a suitable punishment. The beta way is getting emotional/angry and thinking up punishments on the spot in the heat of the moment. Clear loss of …
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:49 PM
5

Use a beta's juice instead.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 04:23 PM
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Talking about the relationship potential is one of the many tactics women use to lock a man down. They want to feel those fuzzy, warm feelings of a LTR. I wouldn't be alarmed, but I'd remain vigilant and conduct business as usual.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:20 AM
7

Little late to the party, but these top comments here are wrong. TRP advocates getting what you want out of life while improving yourself. The specific strategy everyone seems to be pushing on you is plate-spinning, or at least a sex-focused strategy. If you don't want sex, but you want to hug it out with some girl, fucking do it. Where you MUST draw the line is when you stop getting what you want out of the relationship. If she withholds whatever it is you want, you withhold your time. And as T…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:12 AM
1

Attractive asshole = one who places high value on his time, aloof Unattractive asshole = one who places low value on his time, controlling, emotional
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:58 AM
1

That doesn't answer either question.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:48 PM
1

GFTOW (go fuck ten other women), find male spaces, and allow yourself to go through all of the stages to recover. You have to allow yourself time to repair. It sucks, and it will suck for a while. Before you know it, it won't suck anymore and you'll realize your life is pretty fucking squared away.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:39 PM
0

Use estimated statistics. I will lowball some here: 20% of the US = obese 20% of the US = beta 20% of the US have no hobby 20% of the US dress poorly 20% of the US = unconfident 20% of the US have shit jobs 5% unemployed (more since they don't count those that aren't seeking work) Pull yourself out of those categories and you'll be in the top 40% easily. To break through to top 20% from here is challenging, but possible. Lift, eat, and sleep well. Exercise discipline. Socialize. Fuck. Make money…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:33 PM
1

In the west, they would have cuffed the boyfriend had you called 911.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:06 AM
7

My French maid.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:19 PM
1

Do you think he will leave you? ...and... Do you think you will leave him?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:11 PM
1

A power grab is necessary and natural. You instinctively need to push your mate to make sure his "armor" is solid. If he pushes back and draws the line in the sand (again), it tells you he is still steering the ship. Women have a LOT of power today, so anytime he puts you in your place successfully I think you very well know when it's time to chill. Men like this are rare today and you have a ~10-year window to find one. If you decide to keep suppressing these urges, you will find yourself at so…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:03 PM
1

It's PUA, and it's still more or less the same shit. It's more easily accessible and widespread than it was previously.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:23 PM
19

Happiness comes from within. It's unfair to rely on someone else for your own happiness. Other than that, keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:19 PM
1

I'd remain extremely vigilant throughout the rest of the relationship. Don't even stick around for a second if you catch a whiff of male resentment. Domestic violence is obviously terribly wrong, but some people cannot shake prejudice/discrimination.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 04:20 PM
6

If it's drama, her hamster will find a way to make it seem like it's happening to her. Remember a lot of these examples we read in TRP involve a woman telling a story as if she's the victim, when she clearly isn't.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:11 AM
17

"A woman would rather be dead than bored." Negative feelings are still feelings and should be used as necessary. If I were to agree with a portion of this... I'd say if all you're doing is putting out bad news, then you'd be associated with bad feelings eventually.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:26 PM
20

This is why a man is able to run out for a pack of smokes in the middle of the night and never come back to his family. You can't control anyone but yourself. Knowing this and what you mention here are two things that make you damn near invincible emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:21 PM
2

You already know what you need to do. You typed it out here. So to answer your question: Action. Go do. The reading is good to internalize information. There's a condition people have where they spend so much time analyzing that they end up getting cold feet. It seems you're beyond ready for action now, so go fucking do it and stop planning so much. If you spend this weekend not doing something you need to do, you're wrong. Edit: Just remembered, it's called Analysis Paralysis.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:21 PM
1

TRP to the core. Can't even be mad about that.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:10 AM
13

It's more like a "sell by" date. They are still a consumable product, but just taste better before.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 04:45 PM
1

Women get too horny from 18-26 for that shit. That law will never adjust that high.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 04:40 PM
8

Game of Thrones had a mass stabbing at one. Strictly business, though.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 03:05 PM
2

What does this mean? "Are you still an option?" You don't need to address the question at all. She just wants to know if you are interested in her. Whether that means she wants you to orbit her or fuck her is unknown based on what was provided. This is why people are telling you to invite her out for drinks (assuming you're interested). It would keep you out of orbit.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 06:20 PM
3

ABC. Always be closing. Bullshit with her, kino, A&A, etc. Let the convo flow, but don't get stuck in a direct, across-the-table type of date. K-close minimum, unless you decide to nope out of her. Also don't carry the conversation at all times. Don't be afraid to let her try to keep conversation going. If you act a little uninterested while talking, it normally benefits you.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:16 PM
2

Read up on ASD.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:13 PM
5

"Spinning plates" gets its name from the act of actually spinning plates. Sooner or later, they fall. Expect that.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:33 AM
3

I love the story. I'm a little buzzed from drinking tonight, but I'll tell you what... You're polarizing. Sure, you're getting a lot of negate vibes, but if you keep doing what you're doing it will change for the better. Think of this like one huge shit test. The girls that noticed you didn't back down will eventually let it be known to you. Bad decisions make great stories, and that's really what it is to live. You seem down about it, but fuck... Own it. Keep lifting and keep your head up.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:53 AM
-2

I don't misunderstand this concept, but diagnose as you please. Nullifying results due to physical appearance is ignorant af.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 11:17 PM
0

Kinda like I wasn't pretending he would have the same results if he was ugly. Funny how that works, "you dumbass". Let's be thirteen again and call people names.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 11:16 PM
-2

Did I say anything about ugly people? ACTUALLY, let's go ahead and elaborate on this. By attributing everything to his looks, you're just crying that it's unfair. "There's nothing we can do" tear drop Maybe pick yourself up by your fucking bootstraps and learn game. Maybe putting effort into yourself and carrying yourself in a higher regard will generate results. Attributing his success to his jawline is a pathetic, defeated mindset and I suggest you do something about that. INB4, this has no re…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 10:13 PM
10

You were probably dirty bulking. In this case it's normal to gain muscle and lose definition unless you're on cycles or going hard 5-6x per week and maintaining a sufficient diet plan. Refine your diet to eat smarter rather than eating less.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 08:29 PM
-4

He goes up to girls and talks to them. That's where he builds most of his attraction. It has little to do with his looks here. He even wears loose-fitting clothes and showers women with complements. The most winning factor is his confidence.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 08:18 PM
3

What I like about this is that he put a rejection up on his video. Dude looks good, has confidence, has fun, and gets rejected. His next target is the girl's friend without skipping a beat. He doesn't run away after the rejection, but hangs out to bullshit a little. He had some fodder with the YouTube comments, but anyone can get creative like that. Anyway, nice display. Opening really is this easy. If a girl is into you, the conversation will be easy. If she isn't, the conversation will die out…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 08:14 PM
6

True. This has a lot to do with The Generation of Men Raised by Women.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 07:49 PM
2

It DOES happen. In TRP, we use absolutes. Obviously, there are always outliers. This is to avoid adding disclaimers every other post. Generalizations are generalizations for a reason... because they are extremely common. So in this thread when we say women aren't capable of rational argument, you should know this is not ALWAYS 100% true. But in context of a relationship issue as we are doing here, this shit is a hell of a lot closer to 100% true than 0% true. Hell, I can have rational conversati…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 07:43 PM
2

You might be getting downvoted because this complement was meant to be playful, almost a neg. Like if some girl said you had manly kneecaps.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 07:08 PM
2

Scorch has amazing insight here, but you need to realize it's a lot of shit you need to internalize. This isn't stuff that you need to think about on the spot. If you try to recall all of this (albeit useful) information right before talking with a girl, you're likely to get cold feet or act too nervous. We told you the mentality to carry, so in a sense you should clear your mind for the day and fucking own it. Whatever thoughts come naturally are exactly what you should do. Go with your gut.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 07:05 PM
1

Post an update. Don't care if reject or not. I'd be proud to hear even that.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 07:52 AM
2

Say anything. Say something stupid. It doesn't matter. The world won't stop turning if she shuts you down. And worse, do you want to be that bitch who lays in his bed at night and thinks about what could've happened if you just went up to her and talked? That's what worked for me. Thinking about the regret I'd have if I bitched out is not fun.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 11:20 PM
1

The Rational Male was a good read, and I don't read books. I tried NMMNG and it wasn't for me. There's a lot of fundamentals I read in that one and just thought.. "well, no shit". I made it about halfway through before moving on.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 11:06 PM
2

Yup. Most girls in a virgin male's reach are more nervous about sex than he is.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 10:23 PM
5

Facebook is ok if used as a low-effort DHV and/or long distance contact.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:57 PM
6

Sounds like you need to find yourself an older, solid CEO type.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:30 PM
2

Yep, the best game you could pull is doing nothing. It sounds weird, but a guy that doesn't waste time talking about meaningless bullshit with women projects value. Adding them on fb is about as slick as you can get, like fnordsnord said in this thread. No time cost, added a sliver of potential dread options, and extended social circle.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:07 PM
2

Obviously, you have read the sidebar. I'll just reinforce some things you can find there: 1) Keep pining for her. 2) Make sure you constantly respond to her in a timely manner. 3) If she offers no value as a friend, keep being her friend anyway. 4) Take everything she says seriously. 5) Keep being a good friend and being nice. 6) Perform duties for her at her request. Make sure it remains a one-sided platonic relationship. She said You will get in her pants in no time.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:50 PM
1

Also metal.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:14 PM
2

I'd do nothing until I got back. Treat them like a soft next.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:12 PM
1

There was an enlightening topic in TRP a few days ago on this very subject.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:05 PM
2

You can't control other people. Do what the fuck YOU want to do that night. Tell her you genuinely hope she has fun. Internally, you need to think about this club girl and her red flags. I'd definitely be looking elsewhere after she pulled some shit like that. Obviously keep dicking her down for now, but this ain't no LTR girl.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:33 PM
12

No response. Unless you're a performing monkey, in which case your job would be at stake.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:19 PM
1

You should engage in more less meaningful relationships. Plates. This girl isn't a plate. She's a fuck buddy you got attached to. What you say to her doesn't matter. She doesn't need closure, nor do you. Stop answering the door when she comes over. Text her nothing. Go full NC. It wasn't the beer talking, it was your insecurities. Either way, you felt your respect was at stake that night. You don't seem to be ready to detach emotionally, so eliminate her as a future plate. GFTOW
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:07 PM
1

I hate the phrase "shit test" because I grew up around the term "bullshitting". It encompasses any time you fuck with someone just to see how they react. I would call this a male shit testing a female, by using his actions. However, most of the plate spinning is screening. Not all red flags are provoked by the male. Some are just hanging out there for everyone to see. No shit testing required.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 12:11 PM
1

It can be whatever you want. Your purpose in life. Lots of people are still trying to figure that out, myself included.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 12:08 PM
1

Good choice if you're trying to manipulate and fuck her, but not LTR.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 10:09 PM
4

Oh yeah, I 105% believe you. Just thought it was funny.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 08:22 PM
11

This reads like one of those male enhancement spam emails.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:29 PM
2

TRP really makes you think about the "Why?" behind actions. In the case of spinning plates, it's experience. We as men are socially cornered in the relationship world to the point where we HAVE to resort to rigorous screening processes. This is to protect our own future (socially/financially/genetically/etc). Women can run around and fuck any guy that moves in this sex positive atmosphere with little repercussion. In fact, they get rewarded in some cases (pregnancy, money, depends on their goal)…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:25 PM
5

Maybe it's related to this paradox: "I want to apply game to get pussy until I stumble upon a LTR, but I won't settle for a LTR that falls for the game I applied." Somewhere in there you can use experience. Slut A and Slut B do this, but Slut C seems to have more class because she won't do this. Slut D is even better that Slut C, but I'm still not happy. Maybe I'll just target girls that seem less slutty. Enter Girl A and B, both blowing the Sluts out of the water. Now you know how a slut acts, …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:25 PM
2

IMO the best way to find out is self-reflection. Right now it probably is a tantrum. I know mine was, as much as I never wanted to admit to myself. As soon as you let go of this bad relationship and build yourself up, you'll be able to see a lot clearer.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:46 PM
3

So you get a new car, this time with even more experience under your belt. You're breaching on a struggle that everyone has, and that is you can't predict other humans... but we combat this uncertainty with experience.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:31 PM
2

I'd like to play devil's advocate by saying I've been in this situation before. The pouting occurs because this woman isn't who he wants to fuck the rest of his life. Her snarky little attitude and selfishness are easy to deflect at first, but since most women are socially superior some men can't keep their game up. It's an unreal emasculating feeling, and a feeling of betrayal to get shot down like this. I can vouch for OP as I've also hit points where I just thought "fuck it" because it wasn't…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:27 PM
16

It's possible. Thing is, to spot a girl worth your time you really need to spin plates to be able to tell a good one from a bad one. I'm not a car guy, but I know I should test drive cars. If I took the time to test drive 20 cars, the time it takes to determine if one is good or bad will improve by the time I hop behind the wheel of car #20. A girl that K-closes on date one is one of the prerequisites most people have. ABC though. If she's not turning down your advances, and you back out to K-cl…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:05 PM
1

I brought a similar topic up recently here about a breed of tree frogs. During breeding season, the females drop to ground level to find a mate. Males know they're looking, so they call. The most attractive (loud, powerful) call is the one that the females flock toward. However, all lesser males know where the females are going. The lesser males scurry to intercept the females on their journey to the alpha, and the female victims succumb to the natural rape sessions that ensue. Nature.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:48 PM
1

You should also mention that you need to be perceived as a 8+. If OP is LTRing a 5, I don't think he's quite there yet. I would still take this angle if I were you, OP. Making yourself happy is paramount. If she's not on board with that, it's understandable given the prior terms you have set with her.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:05 PM
1

You know where she wants to go better than she does. Even when you think you're "not sure". Own it.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:28 PM
11

18 guys isn't bad for a 45-year-old woman.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:25 PM
1

Yeah, I agree. Maybe reaching out after a month is a bit destructive, though. OP has already put his product out there AND sought date two, so any more pushing is a display of low value (DLV) regardless of her memory. If she did forget him, that's even worse as he wasn't polarizing.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:23 PM
3

Alphas are capable of so much more since they drive a team. This is why we see so few Sigma males in this world. You're not normally going to depend on a Sigma to perform a task or make an appearance more than an Alpha because of the huge difference in credibility. In my opinion, the rarity is the only appealing factor to a sociopathic Sigma male. There is a reason you can spot an Alpha long before you can spot a Sigma. More people can respect and trust an Alpha, and that credibility alone makes…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:14 PM
11

Multiple male friend text buddies is enough for me to nope out of any serious considerations. Enjoy her while it's your turn, bud.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 02:49 PM
2

You care too much. You just gotta know that you can trust your gut and show her the door if you don't like where it's going. Snooping around is either a result of insecurity or a gut feeling she is fucking around on you. All the more reason to get what you want out of the relationship while it's still alive.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 01:51 PM
1

I'll express anger toward morons that insult me like yourself. A woman isn't worth the thought, but have fun wallowing in your little tantrum phase. But I suppose you're in denial about that too lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:24 AM
-1

No, ANY bitch that gets under your skin is entirely your fault.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 09:19 PM
7

She shouldn't be able to make you mad. Above all else, her bullshit should be amusing you. You might want to take a step back and reflect on why you are getting triggered so easily.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:06 PM
2

Abbreviated form: 1) Improve yourself inside and out. 2) Cast the net. Abundance. 3) Repeat. Game theory is only documented based on experience from other men. It's not absolutely necessary as you can derive your own experience.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 03:17 PM
2

He had nothing to gain by educating a hostile random who wouldn't be receptive. In fact, it would net him a loss of time and risk his local social stature if this random chose to pull quotes out of context in an average (read: PC) setting amongst others. Don't show them behind the curtains unless they come to you from an honest position... specifically seeking knowledge--NOT some fulfillment of curiosity. "Enjoy the decline." This isn't just some saying meant to watch others burn. It's also mean…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:16 PM
1

Honestly, a girl looking to meet up won't need to hear anything beyond... 6'4", drummer As long as you don't come off as a creeper/insecure/nice orbiter, you're fine. This isn't a bad thing, but it drives the point home that your physical and social stature are the most alluring things to a tinderella. I mean, sure you applied TRP game... but, you are likely wasting energy even analyzing yourself. Try using game that you think wouldn't work (aside from pandering/whining or other obvious strategi…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 07:34 PM
1

There is a type of tree frog that displays this behavior. During mating season, the loudest/deepest croak can be heard by all the males and females. The females all gravitate to the alpha, tracking it down in order to mate with him. The lesser males know what's happening, so they intercept the females and do to them what humans would call "rape".
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 04:41 PM
1

At a certain point you can speak what's on your mind. You'll find you're not so weird after all.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:26 PM
5

It's a wonderful thing when you can view your "flaws" as positive. It makes you question who decided they were flaws in the first place. I'm not NPD afaik, but this acceptance of my own points of view have made a tremendous impact into my outlook on life. I worry much less about what other people think is "wrong". I'm surrounded by semi-SJW politically correct types on a daily basis for reference.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 02:33 PM
7

I think you're in good stance if you're reading through these stories and able to relate to the men these girls long for. Anyone need some ego? I have too much right now.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 01:45 PM
1

It was probably the same face you see in today's sitcoms where the man does something "completely wrong" like enrolls their child into football and the woman finds out about it. At least the difference here was the man didn't spend hours apologizing or act like a doofus.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 10:56 AM
1

I believe that level of disrespect is a byproduct of the loss of pair bonding skills. I see it this way. Most of us have a max age we will consider for a plate/LTR. Why? Sure, we all have specific reasons like child-bearing/health or just general bitchiness or jaded attitude. Overall, it's a generalized screening practice. Some guys are more selective than others. We all rule out certain women because more often than not, we have learned the probability we are wasting our time is too high. So yo…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 02:51 PM
1

Go look at the ab pics in fittit today. Women drooling and begging dudes to marry them.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:20 PM
61

I consider that to be a high count for a woman's entire lifespan. Edit: I know it's surprising to find a "low" n count like this these days, but I will no longer lower my standards just because societal standards for women have dropped.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:45 PM
1

There was a mystery prize, so it was a competitive atmosphere. Maybe there's something to be said about male competition vs female personal gain in terms of memory usage.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 11:03 AM
19

Now, now.. We had a contest in 7th grade to see who could memorize the most digits of pi. I won the contest amongst a class of 30. I memorized about 200 digits of pi. Second place, male, memorized around 80 digits. Third, male again, memorized about 50. I'll just assume you meant a "different" type of memory, as this wasn't really an exception to a rule.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 04:22 AM
1

He was playing with his phone, and not making good conversation. He was either uninterested or awkward. Considering he also made her pay, I'd say he wasn't into it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:43 PM
3

Thank you. It's like these bros are TRP newbies or something.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 04:15 PM
1

Exactly. Her hamster is supposed to be working for you. For a while it was not, until she offered an apology. Although there was still some backhanded twang to that apology. You be the judge, jury, and executioner on this one. I think you did well overall.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:43 PM
0

It doesn't matter how blatant or subtle the bias is. They could have a black female sexually harassing people in the videos, and we would all know the exact demographic being targeted is. It's just all around shitty because we wouldn't need this kind of stuff if white guys weren't so god damn thirsty and understood social cues.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 01:56 PM
4

You have to understand everyone is learning. They were also raised on Disney fairytales like everyone else and believe these are the things that make them happy. I made it work with a narcissistic woman for the better half of a decade because I built a tolerance to bullshit (aka doormat). When you're inside the relationship, it's always hazy on the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 12:58 PM
1

Call me bro. pm on its way to you. You need to vent.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 05:00 AM
0

You're arguing the same pov as I am, but pedestalizing yourself because you have a rule about unavailable women. I have the same rules. I will still say wanting to fuck girls you work with is fine, but doing it is not. Let's see if I can paint a picture: I want to fuck Chandra in accounting, but I work with her so I won't. Same shit you are saying, but you're twisting words to make it seem like you have better morals than everyone here. Remember confidence is good, but arrogance is not.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:55 PM
0

Maybe you're just better than everyone, bud.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:51 PM
1

I've never met someone suffering from cognitive dissonance when talking about how analogies work.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:48 AM
1

This is because of how men are wired. Most males think monogamy is what we are supposed to want, but that's bullshit. Monogamy was enforced over time because the social structure has fallen under female/SJW control. It is spread by the media and single moms alike, training us from birth we must get married as an endgame. Honestly based on how women are socially superior, the reason the social structure changed makes total sense to me. We can rationalize all day that we think "it's better for the…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:00 AM
1

Wanting to fuck them is one thing, fucking them is another. He stated earlier he didn't even want to fuck them. I normally wouldn't care to point something like this out, but I believe this is strong evidence of denial. Denial doesn't work if you know you're in it.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:52 AM
1

Are you a high school dropout?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:47 AM
3

dogs will behave like dogs. dogs will bite children if you don't train them properly. dogs MAY bite children even if you DO train them properly. you can't control anything but yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:21 AM
1

Most of us growing up can remember when our mouths/ego got the best of us. When we think we will come out on top after a school fight, but in reality the opponent put us in check. Sure, I won my few fights. In one of them, only him and I knew if it didn't get broken up he probably could've killed me if he wanted to. That's a raw level of respect women don't get to experience when they're shoving popcorn in their faces at the movie theater.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 05:34 PM
8

I love how he doesn't even consider morals as part of the equation (fucking another guys gf). He only addresses the bf's mental stability and his devotion to his job. Bill Burr understands if the author doesn't fuck this girl, someone else will because she can't keep her legs closed.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 03:52 AM
3

This is true, but I think you are not addressing his comment from the right angle.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 03:50 AM
5

You can't do anything more to minimize this behavior. It's expected behavior. Women have to rationalize away past relationships to make themselves look and feel better. She's pair bonding with another dude now, so it's no longer your turn. The best you can do is erase her from your life and move on.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 01:56 PM
1

I'm deeply impressed. I've gone from 165 to 183 in the last 8 months (I'm 6'0"). I'm going to cut a tiny bit for some physical testing, and then pursue 190-195 as my new goal by March 2016. I'm bookmarking this post and will take some of your advice with me on my next "bulk". I doubt you can say I've plateaued, but it's gotten a lot harder to make gains with my lack of discipline lately. Much respect.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:50 PM
6

Which makes sense if you are talking about writing a fucking essay. However, what's the relationship here between AF and BB? Rough draft is chiseled abs, cocky, etc? Final product is spinelessness, finances, overweight? The fuck was this mouthbreathing retard even talking about?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:42 PM
1

"hey, np" and let the convo die.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 11:48 PM
2

IRC is a pain in the ass. If anyone is in Baltimore/DC area, PM me. I keep meaning to say this here. I only have a few close friends, and too many acquaintances I don't hang out with.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:09 PM
3

Depends on your free time, number of plates, smv, their behavior, your type, and maybe a few other factors. Mine lasted between 2-5 months on average, but I never spun 4 at once. I never went over 3 because I could balance my time between them more practically.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 01:59 AM
11

Then explain how cheaper manufacturing has had negative effect on consumer products in terms of shipping jobs overseas. In fact, prices have risen with inflation instead.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:07 AM
22

You honestly believe we will see drops in cost of living expenses? I wish I had your optimism.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 10:48 PM
3

I don't know man, but as a man I would be god damn proud to leave behind 20 kids of my own when I die. That's just a personal thought. edit: That is... if you strip away all of the finance obligations involved.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:59 PM
31

I'd also put a healthy amount of cash on a bet that this "friendship" was completely one-sided the entire time. Men aren't the only ones that need to wake up.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:07 PM
3

It was a good point, but you see.. Rosie wanted to talk about assault rifles, so she waited for the perfect time to attack him with that.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:10 AM
20

Victimization 101. X happened to me, so this is why I have Y behavior. It provides them with a lack of agency for when shit hits the fan.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 03:40 PM
4

Disrespect and shit testing are two different animals.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:41 PM
0

Right, this wasn't much frame. He did what he had to do to get to a commercial break. He had an emotional reaction because she got well under his skin.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:44 PM
2

I like the way you wrote this.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 05:04 PM
1

I do hope a TRPer has the time and patience to type up a similar troll post with genders reversed. I'm quite interested in what we would see.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 10:33 PM
5

Next time she checks the room for relatives first.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 10:31 PM
1

Yup, "first time" and "first time getting caught" are often two separate occasions. I mean, what are the realistic probabilities here? I never got full closure on my cheating SO. Found cum-stained panties after girls' nights out. Never brought it up, and fully expect that wasn't the first time. Looking back, I am happy I kept that little discovery to myself.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 10:30 PM
11

Actually, when she walked out of the speech it wasn't a big deal. His character was being a bitch. He stated he "needed her" to be there because the speech was "for her". What the fuck did she have to do with his career success? They had been dating for less than a year and this award predated her. No man should need to rely on his woman. He has no standards for partner count, or for keeping her in line. She was ready to walk out on the relationship throughout its entirety. And all this time, th…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 09:35 PM
1

Plate them. Abundance and aloofness are most pure when it's your actual state of mind. Use them to climb up.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 06:09 PM
1

100% true. They will even fire female USMC Commanders for holding other females to male standards. HFRs are real, and they come in the form of anonymous unit surveys. (Hurt Feelings Report for those non-military) http://www.marinecorpstimes.com/story/military/2015/07/07/kate-germano-fired-marine-corps-female-recruit-unit-commander/29763371/
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:16 PM
1

You'll never really get the raw truth from any movie. The viewer is at the mercy of the story written by an author, and the author is a person with their own perception of the world. I believe this is why you see so many inconsistencies in characters at the movie theater. This movie wasn't as poorly done as a lot of others like Gone Girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:51 AM
-4

Reread the comment and respond accordingly.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:32 PM
1

When did you start reading TRP? When did you start noticing your ED?
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:25 PM
3

I suggest you also use the denim condoms.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:23 PM
2

Yup, OP she lied to you in order to appear nice. You forced her hand and she came out with an "as friends". Let this one go.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:22 PM
-2

I don't really get this. As long as she isn't over-feeding her validation hamster on Instagram, I don't see the importance of this. Hobbies build status and character. I don't give two shits about a girl's status, and character can be built by basic social interactions. If we go LTR and into basic human instinct, as long as I suspect she knows how to raise children with me I don't see the issue. I don't see the issue with having a girl that isn't into doing a bunch of hyperactive bullshit becaus…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:38 PM
2

I assure you there was sympathy, but no empathy. Women feel sorry for betas all the time.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 01:18 PM
1

I was the same way. I still smile and laugh excessively, but TRP material is starting to take effect. It's been about 18 months for me here, but I AM noticing I will hold a straight face for longer periods of time. I start seeing gestures and comments for what they really are now--moreso than before. Stick with it and do more research. You're not the only one with this issue.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:22 PM
2

Upvoted for sarcasm
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:23 PM
14

"JBY" is poisonous. It's a rationalization that encourages complacency. I vouch for "JGB". Just get better.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 03:24 PM
3

Just got rejected by a girl at a restaurant last week. She had a bf. Now she knows I'm interested. Ego gave no fucks.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 02:30 AM
1

I'm over 18 months in... You have to make the decision to stick with it every single day. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 02:23 AM
-5

You on a mass gainer yet? Use that to supplement your caloric intake.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 07:15 PM
46

That will be great once I start cutting after this eternal bulk.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:27 PM
1

Now you let her go. If she was interested, she would have told you when it was over to make it easy to hang out. Complete silence now, unless later she voluntarily tells you when she's free.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 10:39 PM
32

For a public reference, see Amy Schumer.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:26 PM
2

Less is more. Get her out of your life with as few words as possible. The less you say now, the better you'll feel later.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:27 PM
1

Yes, now in the meantime focus on yourself and talk to other girls. That means more than one.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 09:25 PM
2

Let her hamster spin. I know what it's like to want to fuck a girl that is stringing you along. Her pointless banter does nothing for the tingles, so ignore that. She knows you want to fuck her and she at least wants to stay on your radar. Ignore her until tomorrow afternoon and set up another date for that evening. Just remember, she already has one strike against her. You sound like a three-strike kind of guy, so get better by being a two-strike guy.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 06:31 PM
2

Don't say a damn thing. If you want her to keep spinning, she needs to learn to spin herself. If you try to force it, you'll decrease your chances. Enjoy the fact that it was your turn for a bit and pick up another one.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:26 PM
3

You're wasting time worrying about what women want. Just about everything in the sidebar touches on this...
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:23 PM
2

If he disgusts her with a nuclear comment like this, he could face harassment charges. OP needs to learn to shut his dick off during work hours. She knows he's attracted to her, and is using him for validation. The more orbiters she gains, the better her workday is surrounded by supporters (people that will go to bat for her). Girl game 101.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:20 PM
1

Soft next her. Don't talk to her again unless she texts you again. If she texts you again, wait 24 hours to respond.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 11:38 PM
4

If you have to ask yourself if you should remain silent, usually that is your #1 answer. Your gut usually knows this. Reason being if you convince a girl to hang out with you, you're chasing or orbiting. (AKA she's doing you a favor by spending her time with you. Wrong dynamic.)
/r/askTRP19/07/15 09:22 PM
2

An Ex AND still in love with you? That's a solid no in my book. Plating her would create a toxic environment where she will try to suppress her feelings. That makes her more unstable than her normal level of instability.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 08:17 AM
2

Most ads are geared toward women because women make up the majority of consumers. Women love to buy (gifts). Planning future events with her SO gives her that warm fuzzy feeling inside called security.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 08:10 AM
20

She's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 07:37 AM
20

The movies would be demonized and banned at a U.S. national level if that were the case. The creators would be publicly shamed by media, and we would have to hear how this made everyone around us feeeeeeel for weeks. It's easier to take the Everybody Loves Raymond approach and say men are idiots. No one gives two fucks about a statement like that. In fact, it's encouraged.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 07:14 AM
11

No. She used the term "hardwired". What the fuck are you on about?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 07:07 AM
3

Imitation is the purest form of flattery.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:38 PM
2

Why do you know all of this about him? Did she tell you just to make you jealous (red flag), or did you ask about it (red flag)?
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:56 PM
3

"Hey" covertly displays an abundance mentality. Everyone knows basic greetings are the least effort you can put forward when opening. So if the girl is trying to figure out where you fall on the SMV scale, and you bust out with the peacocking joke of the century, what does that say to her? (Hi please look at me and laugh at my joke. I'm funny!) It's been said before. It doesn't matter much what you say. Just be attractive.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:43 PM
1

You act less interested. There is a topic on the trp main right now about Siren Song. Some of your wording alludes to warning signs of this. It seems to me her point of view (frame) is too important to you.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:30 AM
2

It doesn't matter how you perceive him. It only matters how she perceives him.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:15 AM
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