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Men want no strings sex. Women want relationship. It's just as hard if not harder for them to get what they want than for you to get what you want. Besides you don't have to carry a human being in your belly for 9 months then push him out of your dick. Be glad you're a man, you lucked out.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 11:28 AM
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From my experience of hooking up with literally hundreds of women it is this simple.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:54 AM
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I blocked you for a reason. Maybe it's time to stop stalking me and using your multiple accounts? Get a life.
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:04 AM
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There's an idiot on here trying to sell an ebook. The hater got multiple accounts and uses bots just ignore the troll.
/r/seduction25/04/17 09:30 AM
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Thx Dr Phil. Cash me ousside? "My goal" was to build attraction & get her comfortable enough to follow my lead. I was going for a deep emotional connection. Wrong place. The guy she ended up making out with barely exchanged any words with her hence the game changing lesson. How bout dat.
/r/seduction24/04/17 10:20 PM
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You make a move ( ask her out, get her number, try to move her to a different location, k-close, etc ). An attention whore will freak out and will turn you down immediately. If she's genuinely interested she'll say something like "I'd love to", or "I'm down". Sry only read the title.
/r/seduction24/04/17 09:54 PM
1

That's awesome, never thought about doing that, thx for sharing
/r/seduction24/04/17 01:06 PM
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What's not to get. If she's at the club be the DJ, if she's at the bar be the bartender, if she's on the film set be the lead actor, if she's at the gallery show be the artist, in other words have a life.
/r/seduction22/04/17 12:02 PM
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Me personally, I'm white, so I have to be the most confident guy in the room because she'll look at me then at the Hispanic guy behind me and assume he's a better dancer even tho he's my student.. I rarely ask.. The only time I'd ask if it's a really famous female pro who's clearly not in the mood to dance and she sort of knows who I am I'll go something like "Hi do you dance with beginners?". I usually get a laugh and they always follow me to the dancefloor. All other situations I usually eithe…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 10:13 AM
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Don't recommend it. Whenever a really beautiful beginner shows up 4 or 5 regulars compete for her. They got way more game than you. They've been doing it a long time. Of course she has no idea, she thinks she just met a random charming guy.. Aside from her you got girls who are regulars. You don't really wanna hook up with them because they are always around. The scene is small. Also if you get close to my level or even a strong amateur everyone will assume you're a player and you'll only be lef…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 10:07 AM
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It felt like she was running the show I doubt her girlfriends tell her what to do but you never know
/r/seduction08/02/17 12:05 AM
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I think that's it!
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:19 PM
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Idk, I didn't try the second time around. Maybe she thought about it and regretted not giving out her number, who knows.
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:19 PM
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Idk, the second convo was literally like 1min and no kino. The first interaction was like 15 min and we were all over each other.
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:17 PM
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I think that might be it. I think it's too easy for girls to get numbers, they don't find them valuable. Maybe my asking her to hang was gutsy and separated me from the rest who knows.
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:15 PM
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Like I said, got the number after the hook up but not before
/r/seduction07/02/17 07:13 PM
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Overall, you have no idea what you're talking about. If you want me to explain just ask.
/r/seduction29/08/16 11:26 AM
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If you don't hide your intent you might be a tiny bit nervous. Because there's a chance she'll go "you're being creepy, stop". The most important part about approaching is confidence. So. Hiding your intent allows you to be confident because anybody has the balls to approach someone and ask for directions.
/r/seduction29/08/16 11:24 AM
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I agree for the most part except sometimes you have to know when to push and when to pull. You don't want to scare her away. But overall you're right
/r/seduction29/08/16 06:43 AM
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I was actually not the one asking but the one answering. But thanks for the help, I'll delete the extra spaces hope it works
/r/seduction29/08/16 05:08 AM
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haha
/r/seduction29/08/16 03:23 AM
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For some reason reddit changes my 1-9 numbered points to "1s". No idea how to fix it
/r/seduction29/08/16 02:21 AM
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Sorry, just saw this. Not sure what AA is but I don't get blown off 99% of the time. Maybe 10% of the time if it's daytime and 50% of the time if it's nighttime ( like at a bar/club ). And even then it's never "eww go away", it's usually "I'm flattered but taken" after a convo. The worst I get is they talk back but they are pretty cold and are trying to give me the vibe of "not interested". I get turned down 80% of the time if it's on the street at night... If you're getting rejected that much y…
/r/seduction29/08/16 01:43 AM
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I'm trying to remember. I wasnt interesting nor funny at first. I was very relaxed and confident though - if I'm able to stay super relaxed I usually do okay.. I think I said "what are you working on", she "I'm just reading" ( I was eating at a table 10 ft away ). I was trying to figure out if she had a hard deadline and how much time I was gonna have to get the number. Me ( smiling but v confident ) "cool, what are you reading?". Her "blah blah blah ( she was very soft spoken and I couldnt hear…
/r/seduction19/08/16 11:26 AM
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The ear buds are a shit test
/r/seduction19/08/16 04:13 AM
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What do you mean? I just started talking to her. I might have said something like "what are you working on". Don't remember. Once she smiled I sat next to her and it was easy from there. I joked around with the staff for a bit first and had her save my seat while I went to the bathroom... Basic stuff. She was there solo. Would have been hundred times harder otherwise.
/r/seduction19/08/16 03:17 AM
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I'm guessing one lucky guy with decent game who happens to be extremely attractive
/r/seduction19/08/16 02:47 AM
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"do you take all your dates out for coffee and a walk here?" - No, the pretty ones I treat to sushi. ( smile or she'll slap you ) Your response was corny AF. A safer reply: "pretty much" or just ignore and change subjects. Oh just say "ha". She asked a stupid question no need to ask about it. I don't even have game this is basic stuff
/r/seduction19/08/16 02:07 AM
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You have to kill it in person. Otherwise that number is worthless. If you were relaxed, confident and made all the right moves IN PERSON it doesnt matter what you text and when you text it. She'll make everything easy for you. If you were a mess in person ( too polite, too weird, etc ) your text game better be amazing and even then she'll probably flake. Focus on real life, the rest will work itself out.
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:26 AM
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You don't need to become the top 10% to get laid. You just need to be the top 10% at the place you meet her. Become a regular somewhere, become the guy all regulars love, get some power ( maybe you're the DJ or your roomate is the bartender ). Then when she walks in there for the first time you won't have to do much. She won't be looking at her phone when she gets to meet you. The point is she has to see you being alpha BEFORE you open your mouth. Once you do that for a while and start hooking u…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 04:01 PM
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Just solved it. I pressed her for Instagram and Facebook accounts. She has a weird name no wonder I forgot it.
/r/seduction12/03/16 03:28 AM
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Just got home. We made out for a bit. She texted me already so I'm guessing we'll hang out again. I'm thinking about asking her if she had any nicknames growing up. Hopefully her nickname will remind me of her real name. Or maybe I'll just wait till I f-close one day and then during the cuddling part after I'll be like "hey, so I have no idea what your name is, what is it". I'm joking about the second part but the nickname idea I might try. It might backfire though.
/r/seduction28/06/15 10:48 AM
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Find a homebase, like a coffee shop, a club, a bar... Become a regular. Hang there for months. Make it your place. Only hit on girls who end up at your homebase, don't chase them at random venues. You will be much more confident at home than at some dj's home-base.
/r/seduction20/02/15 04:51 AM
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I don't know enough about your case to suggest specifics. For me, a few things made a huge difference. I really liked two specific girls that i've known for years and they both kept making it clear that im not desirable to them in that way. I slowly started believing them, that I was too old, too short, not successful enough, etc. Both of these chicks are smoking hot and they date the coolest guys in town. So one day i just said fuck it, who the fuck is they, and i just started ignoring their te…
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:49 AM
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Oh I was talking to 1vs1. And I agree with you. It's possible I'll end up only hooking up with 1 or none out of 7 but doubt it. Tbh I don't really care it was just a fun night and my buddy who's been struggling with chicks was really impressed - I got a kick out of that. I felt bad that he got 0 numbers and I kept introducing him to chicks but he said he had an amazing night too.
/r/seduction01/02/15 11:06 PM
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That sucks dude, sorry to hear. You're probably doing something wrong I'm sure you're a great guy. Your game probably needs a minor tuneup. I'd say only ask for the number if you feel like she really wants you. Otherwise you'll be miserable during the texting phase of the game which could hurt your confidence.
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:46 PM
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Correct. It does a lot of things. Also girls hate "pickup artists" so that tells the girl you're not one of them. Girls usually think puas are those aggressive dudes with cool pickup lines who go for the numbers. I was the "dude who was having an amazing time and happened to vibe with her". I'll give you an example: One bar was really happening. It was small though and I already got two phone numbers there and told girls I was leaving and had to close my tab ( i had a soda water and my wingman h…
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:36 PM
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I'm a pretty sensitive dude and I've gotten a fake number before and it felt like shit ( my game was terrible at the time ). So I only ask for a number if the moment is right and I know 100% she'll give it to me. Basically if I feel like I can kiss her right there if I wanted to I ask for the number. If I don't feel comfortable kissing her means I need to keep getting to know her or move on to a different chick.
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:26 PM
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Ha all good. If you can think of a way for me to prove it let me know and I'll make an effort.
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:24 PM
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All numbers are real. ( See my #1 point super long post below ). Only 1 chick the entire night gave me the "polite vibe" and I listed her under my rejection category ( didn't even ask for her number ). I'll try to remember to report back next week. None of the chicks were shit faced but there's a chance they won't remember everything crystal clearly in the morning but the numbers are real for sure.
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:23 PM
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Guys all numbers are real see my point #1. When you "unlock", the number is always real. All 7 girls ( maybe 6 of 7 can't remember ) did not want me to leave. I had to make an effort to get out of there and then we would have to go to a different bar 'cause I already told her we were leaving and then I felt weird getting a different chicks number a few feet away.
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:21 PM
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Wow 17 upvotes ! That's so cool, thanks guys. Just woke up. 1 All numbers are real. This is how I know: When you approach a stranger and are doing everything right you will feel this very specific thing happen- like you unlocked her lock. It's a very specific thing where all of the sudden her guard will be completely down, she will be smiling the entire time and saying stuff like "what are you guys doing later?". You will feel like you can do anything with her from that point on. I was coughing …
/r/seduction01/02/15 10:08 PM
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girls I haven't talked to in months are trying to get a date for V day
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:19 AM
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Being a successful actor is game. Successful producers, DJs, musicians do alright too. They weren't born that way, they made themselves and acquiring social status is usually one of the major driving forces. Btw if you want to sleep with a lot of beautiful women you'd do better as a pro pua than a celeb. Celebs are always paranoid of getting sued or getting a chick knocked up or a trashy story leaking. Furthermore lots of girls dont put out thinking that all other girls do and she wants to be th…
/r/seduction28/01/15 11:18 PM
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yes
/r/seduction28/01/15 01:58 PM
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Thanks. I disagree though. If you have "it" you can have the phone number of any single woman with very few exceptions. A lot of taken ones too. How many women do you think Leonardo Di Caprio, Ryan Gosling or a top pua are "incompatible" with ? From my own experience I've had a chick blow me off on an off night. I would run into her a few weeks later when i was on fire and easily get her number. If you're on it doesn't matter who she is or what mood she's in I guarantee you.
/r/seduction28/01/15 01:52 PM
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I guess I was trying to show those who fear rejection that even the worst rejection stories are not that bad and are not to be feared. #glass-half-full
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:47 PM
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You felt correctly. It is polite. You will lose points though. The kind of points that get one laid. Just trust me on this one.
/r/seduction22/01/15 09:05 PM
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Never read any books on seduction. A few things made a huge difference for me. I permanently deleted my tinder and okc accounts. I had some success on there but they were hurting my real life game. What changed things for me was one singles meetup mixer I randomly went to. I'm an average looking dude and I went there and basically just killed. I used to think I wasnt good looking enough to date 10s and it was pretty amazing to watch the really good looking guys struggle at the mixer while I was …
/r/seduction22/01/15 12:47 AM
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It's sort of like robbing a bank. You could do it with your phone but it's so much easier to grow some balls and get out of the house. ( dear fbi i don't rob banks ).
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:27 PM
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Do NOT text when you get home after the first date no matter what.
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:00 PM
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