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| 9 | Had my wife not cheated....Yes I hear you loud and clear. When she cheated on me in year 15 she awoke a sleeping giant in me. Crazy enough in a reconcilation attempt we became pregnant after 18 years of marriage. (My son is mine, we tested). Once we got pregnant she could no longer suppress the same behaviors presented while cheating. I held it together for the sake of my son's birth. She was 39 and I didn't want to cause health issues. Soon as he was born she died to me. Eight months later she disrespected me in front of… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I am divorced! blogpost warningGrilling by the judge? Happy for you man. Fuck the judge! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | r/Divorce Men is Gold Mine StatusWas MGTOW before finding that sub. Now I just drop red pills like a champ. Some of them will have to continue to get stung. Sad but true. | /r/MGTOW | 27/05/21 02:11 AM |
| 13 | Had my wife not cheated....It was like I was beating my head against the wall. Even worse trying to please her while she had a side piece. I'm not sure how everyone made it out alive honestly. I guess circumstance coupled with being a bit older when it all went down. All I know is I'm thankful it's over and I can move forward with that all in the rear view. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/21 01:48 AM |
| 16 | Had my wife not cheated....The great Patrice O'Neal a happy man is a happy relationship. A happy woman is a miserable man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/21 01:41 AM |
| 7 | I’m literally so surprised how many men do so much for women.Add me to the list. She chose the nursing route. I went the career of mental health (not for profit) As soon as she started things began to change. And that my friends is the problem. Once she got some entitlement. Thing is I supported her and got little in return. Felt like I was swimming with one arm for our whole marriage of 15 years. Come to find out she cheated on me. Here's the real kicker. She made more money than me our whole marriage. When I inquired about alimony I was told that becaus… | /r/MGTOW | 27/05/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | I don’t date divorced men, but raise my 3 kids from my ho days. Probably born-again virgin too.She only wants to bring her baggage. Typical | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | I miss my sonHang in there man.....it's a season.......do your best.....that's all your son is needing and going to remember. Also, don't be so hard on yourself......you got this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/21 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Advice from finalized dude (Social media)Little did I know my ex had my old reddit handle and was watching it like a hawk. She had been doing this for many years. Scouring all my social trying to find anything against me during our marriage. Towards the end of our 20 month battle she tried to use some bullshit against me and failed. lawyer's hired hand | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/21 03:48 AM |
| 1 | The worst comes outThe system is horrible man. The lawyers laugh at all the parties while having cocktails together. It's horrible. Hang in there it does get better! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | The worst comes outHoly shit are you me? While living together she filed a restraining order on me (unsuccessful). Locked me out of funds....and blind sided me with divorce papers. 20 month war but I got all I wanted 50\50 and no child support. Evil snakes | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/21 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Why do men who get divorce raped remarry ?Especially in this day and age. | /r/MGTOW | 25/05/21 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Fellas....the truth always gets out. Don't defend yourself.Been there for years my friend :) This a new account....the ex was stalking my old one. https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/n29tc2/divorce_gift_to_myself/ | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/21 04:12 AM |
| 3 | I don't know how I can be friendsBeing "friends" with her isn't going to help you co parent better. You can be perfectly cordial with her while co parenting. As someone in the same boat my ex and I co parent just fine and we are far from friends. She fucked that up long ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Women constantly prove the red pill is correct.Can confirm. Right now this land whale comes into the dentist. Seriously she's a 3 and 75lbs over weight. Acting like the world owes her something. Complaining about vacation prices and she doesn't know what she's doing. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. A 3 acting like an 8.🤢 | /r/MGTOW | 24/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | It’s fucking with meHell ya! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | It’s fucking with meyw | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 19 | It’s fucking with meI'll just tell you up front as someone that came through a 20 month war with a covert narcissist. This isn't about winning with her....it's about control. Prepare yourself and buckle in now. I'd keep your answers to her short and to the point. Anything involving your children respond promptly. Always always keep communication through text or email. You better get this in your mind now......you are in for a minimum 1.5 year battle. This is just the way the courts and system operate. This doesn't … | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | It's the simple thingsIsn't it interesting how some do this? I could list you 50 things I would do around the house over the years and she would nit pick the negative. Never appreciative of the positive. Never. Oh well.....no one will ever do that to me and last in my circles. No one. That's why she's the ex :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Women hold less than mediocre conversationsI have this talk ripped and saved. Paul Elem is the best and this is one of his best talks. Thanks for reminding me of it! | /r/MGTOW | 23/05/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Women hold less than mediocre conversationsHoly shit that Toby Keith song is spot on. | /r/MGTOW | 23/05/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Father son project: Replace quiet exhaust with the loud shortyThe ride is great. I'm probably going to get a wind screen for it soon. I had a 94 honda shadow 1100 before this......so I'm used to a little more power. That said I have no complaints. I wanted a bike that sits upright to keep pressure off back and shoulders. So far so good. I'll probably settle into a FZ-07 at some points. A little more punchy and sporty looking. No complaints on my bike. The DCT is dual clutch transmission. So it is an automatic shift with no clutch......I can also switch to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Father son project: Replace quiet exhaust with the loud shortyHonda CTX 700 DCT | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 33 | Women hold less than mediocre conversationsWith my ex....she loved to talk about herself and talking shop about her job. When it was my turn she always directed the problems solving to being my fault. No honey that's not how this works. Towards the end I'd even say to her "I'm not sure why I talk about my stuff because it's pointless". She was only interested in herself. When her brain couldn't process anything other than herself she resorted to finger pointing at me. Add another log to the fire of why shes my ex. | /r/MGTOW | 23/05/21 07:26 AM |
| 5 | It's the simple thingsRight....and once you become free.....NEVER......go back! | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 15 | 26 year old thinking with the little headI know right? | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | 26 year old thinking with the little headNailed it | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/21 06:02 PM |
| 10 | Don't finish last. Start going your own way.This is why we go our own way. | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 15 | It's the simple thingsYes sir.....it's the best revenge. | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/21 04:54 PM |
| 20 | How do you stay in monk mode ?Kenjataimu - when in doubt....rub one out. That's how! | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Mother Loses Custody After Preventing Father Seeing ChildI think my ex knew if she ever tried to do this to me......everyone in her circle would be drinking through straws and walking with a limp for the rest of their lives. Personally and professionally. I'd happily sit in a jail cell too. I'll be damned if the system is keeping me from my son. She might be crazy but she's not that crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 4 | The man my mother left my Dad for... has gone MGTOWTry? He'll happily take her back. Hell, he'll be gleeful. | /r/MGTOW | 21/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 3 | New relationships after divorce is fine.Exactly | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Got asked out today by a woman, TW: blue pillsAlso tell her you have an illness that could impair your work ability. Win\Win | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Cheaters birthday cake.You son of a bitch! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Lessons learned?Right back at you man. That's how we heal and grow. Sharing our hurts and scars. Hang in there man it gets better! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/21 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Sock Day, thought I would feel betterI'm in the same boat. I'm a month from final. I took the time during the divorce to work on me. When the dissolution day hit I took the day and felt like you. Since then I haven't looked back. Funny you say "interesting as a brick" I used to tell me ex she was oatmeal and I was Mt Dew. So boring. Ah well man. It's their loss. I don't get my happiness from a woman. I do from working on myself and working on being the best Father I can. All the best to you good sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Lessons learned?Everything you said is natural and normal. I remember verbatim all you said and walked it. My ex cheated on me and then played the victim to everyone around us. Even worse this was among so called "Christians". Even my own family were almost lured into her web of lies and victimhood. I truly believe that you reap what you sow. Karma. What you put out you get back. She is now 42 and has our 3 year old son. She's in for a world of pain and she doesn't even see it coming. One day my son is going to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Dating post divorce and commitment issuesCrazy story......long short of it........my wife made 3 times my salary as an exec. We got pregnant trying to reconcile after she cheated and decided the money we'd put into daycare would be better if I stayed with my son. (We tested....he's mine :) ) I basically became the reverse role and my son was a year old when the divorce happened. That didn't stop her and her lawyer trying to treat me like the bread winner. "tried". In the end she bought me out. I stayed at home with my son through the w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Dating post divorce and commitment issuesYa man.....it's crazy that the worst thing to happen to us can make us such better people. OR SHOULD! All the best to you brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/21 03:48 AM |
| 9 | Dating post divorce and commitment issuesI'm also 45....married 20 years......I just came through a 20 month war and made it out without paying alimony or child support and get 50\50 time with my son. This woman I once knew became the most evil vile snake. She snuck around and cheated. She had burner phones.....had boyfriends when we were not divorced (pretty common but not in Christian circles). There is no way in hell I'll ever commit to another woman. Date? Sure.....hang out? Sure.....marry? NO WAY IN HELL. If I made it out virtuall… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/21 03:31 AM |
| 71 | The modern woman’s typical insane overreaction and a projected fragile ego on display to an innocuous commentYou always know when you speak truth because personal attacks follow. | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 15 | When she removes everything from your life...Yup and when they don't get the attention they are ALWAYS the victim. Society props them up too. | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | If Reasonable in Amount and Used Wisely, Taxation is Not Bad. But This is Pure Theft...Fair point. We're in a position where it's no long D vs R but good vs evil. Us being good and the politicians evil. This can be said of many things as well. For instance leadership in churches etc. Truly good vs evil. Corporations. You name it. Crazy times we're in. | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | ITS OVERLock downs with Tik Tok and Only fans.......who woulda thought?????? /s | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/21 03:50 AM |
| 4 | BC, Canada is it worth fighting?From least painful to bone chilling. Freezes your bank accounts and runs up your credit cards Order of protection. (restraining order) Spousal support (alimony) and child support The A Bomb if she claims molestation or child abuse. When this ball gets rolling they are capable of everything. If you're prepared for the worst and it doesn't happen....great. If it does happen at least you'll see it coming. She'll have at least 7-10 female friends\family telling her how to fuck you over and maximize … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 52 | If Reasonable in Amount and Used Wisely, Taxation is Not Bad. But This is Pure Theft...Wow they are really pulling the plug on the US huh? Prepare yourselves fellas. | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/21 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Post divorce relationship timingSounds about right. Six to ten months the real colors come out. You're in for a lot of pain if you marry this chick. You can take it to the bank. I have a submission called my motto for relationships you might want to check out and possibly follow. L8nk | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/21 11:54 PM |
| 3 | BC, Canada is it worth fighting?You should lawyer up and prepare for the absolute worst. You're in Canada after all. Consult some attorneys and chart a path. You're really going have to get mentally fit. Respond and not react to the shit storms coming. They will pass though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/21 11:48 PM |
| 6 | BC, Canada is it worth fighting?This is a season. Yes it sux and is going to get a lot worse. Just being real. BUT It will pass. Your thoughts are normal and if anything shows you're human. For your daughters sake you have to soldier on. She needs her dad my friend. This sub and /r/survivinginfidelity are huge outlets and help. Hang in there friend. You'll make it. Feel free to message me or respond here with anything you need help with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | This is my current state with finalized divorce. This is the way!That's awesome! I wonder if I would have let it ride or cashed out at 20k. Probably would have cashed out. HODL! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 8 | Stay safe out there.When women are not the center of attention (breaking up) they will ALWAYS become the victim. Today society coddles this behavior. He's fucked! | /r/MGTOW | 17/05/21 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Excited about dating but also nervous and kinda scared...any tips?Yw | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Excited about dating but also nervous and kinda scared...any tips?This is my motto | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Bad nightsThank you for sharing.....been finalized for a month......while I hope she never comes at me to want to get together.....because of this info....I'll always be skeptical should she pull something out of the blue! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/21 05:45 PM |
| 14 | Ex wife tells kids she doesn’t want divorce to be over (it’s finalized) but she’s the one that filedIt's just a ploy to save face. They want their cake and to eat it too. Unfortunately, life doesn't work like that. She made her bed and now she can lay in it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | What part of war is easy? Some of you need to hear this.Yep everything changes once the talk or papers are filed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 9 | How to do this and minimize my losses?Far too many men live comfortably miserable. My best advice to you is.....if you are miserable.......your freedom and happiness will come at a high cost. I will caution you......if you choose this path.....it will cost you everything you have. Happiness and honesty with your kids vs misery and pretending in front of them. Kids know. They know when you are not happy. That's what I did when I had my 2 year old. I couldn't allow him to see me smile on the outside when on the inside I was fucking MI… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/21 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Leave kids behindTY! As hard as it was at moments....I'd do it all again.......the other day my son told me "I love you dad".....must have learned that at daycare.....it's things like that, that made it all pay off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/21 08:36 PM |
| 4 | MGTOW Story Time: Women Send Men to MGTOWWhich hopefully results in the same outcome. MGTOW 4 life. Thanks for sharing btw! | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 4 | MGTOW Story Time: Women Send Men to MGTOWLong term relationship ending badly? Always the same story always involving the opposite sex. I have 6 male friends 20+ years and can call on them anytime for help. Weird how that works. | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/21 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Almost sock day and I just got more interesting news. Kind of feeling like crap.Stay the course.....your kids need you! Women are evil vile snakes man. They only care for themselves. My ex would take our newborn infant to her boyfriends on the weekends. He's be up till 12\1am......but to everyone she plays the role of the meek and mild innocent person. Mind you this was during the divorce. She'd play the sister christian role on Sunday's.....all the while banging\sucking some jackoff on the weekends. Truly evil. It was really hard when my son would call me the boyfriends na… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/21 01:38 AM |
| 3 | I just noticed how idiotic the "alpha" and "beta" talk is.You're right. And once you open the door to try and please them it's game over. | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/21 06:51 PM |
| 8 | People still want to get marriedNow switch genders.....if she would have went to the police saying he was going to kill her. Ya that's what I thought. (bUt WE nEEd moRE eViDenCE) | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 23 | Leave kids behindMy situation is a little different in the sense I'm guessing you weren't 43 when you had your son. Wife had cheated and we became pregnant during reconciliation. We tested he's my son. Around his 8 month mark after his birth she was completely disrespecting me in front of him and showing the same behaviors as when she cheated. Something just clicked with me. It's weird that we'll do for others what we can't for ourselves. I told her flat out that she would never disrespect me in front of him eve… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Bad Bill of GoodsYou absolutely nailed it. In the end....through all the pain....through all the soul searching.....me and my son WIN. My freedom came at a high cost but in the end it was worth it. All the best good sir! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Legal costs of divorceFell free to continue this or pm me if you got questions. Godspeed friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Legal costs of divorceNot sure where you're at but where I am when she did this she didn't have a leg to stand on. They don't just hand those out like candy. I would buckle in man......mine had a restraining order filed (I'm a stay at home dad) when no incidents or violence in 20 years. She locked me out of my bank accounts and had me served while she was home. I had my 2 year old in my arms as I was served. It was a nightmare. BUT.....I prevailed. Hang in there......you should prepare for the absolute worst. I could… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Bad Bill of GoodsTy sir.....well said! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 9 | Colonial Pipeline Hacked??Oppressing men tears at the very fabric and moral foundation of the country. It destroys the structure of God and His order. You then "build back" under "unity". Aka game over. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Wife Asked to Separate Last FridayCouldn't agree more. Once was good enough for me. I'll never marry nor will I give up my freedom for anyone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Florence's full quote about women's lack of empathyI see it all the time. Entitlement is a real killer. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Woman in a nutshellHappily oppressed women arguing while wearing head coverings. Cute. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 11:59 AM |
| 4 | I just noticed how idiotic the "alpha" and "beta" talk is.I've found a lot of recently divorced men in the red pill rage or just coming out of it like to talk about this. They'll even rationalize their cheating ex to the point that they think if they would have been just a bit more alpha it might not have happened. They are silly and hopefully they settle into a MGTOW lifestyle. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Hyperinflation is here. There has been a 30 percent jump on iron, cement and other construction materials. Hoard as much fixed assets as much as you can.Healthier\cheaper and dial in a skill | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 11:55 AM |
| 7 | Florence's full quote about women's lack of empathy"Women crave for being loved, not for loving. They scream out at you for sympathy all day long, they are incapable of giving any in return, for they cannot state a fact accurately to another, nor can that other woman attend to it accurately enough for it to become information. They literally have 2 jobs. Don't get fat and show respect. In 2021 this is damn near an impossibility with dating apps and the wall. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 11:48 AM |
| 13 | This belong here¿"Women crave for being loved, not for loving. They scream out at you for sympathy all day long, they are incapable of giving any in return, for they cannot state a fact accurately to another, nor can that other woman attend to it accurately enough for it to become information. They literally have 2 jobs. Don't get fat and show respect. In 2021 this is damn near an impossibility with dating apps and the wall. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 4 | This belong here¿Most women lack situational awareness. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The juice isn't worth the squeezeNo doubt. The system is set up for her to have no accountability and no responsibility. Walk away and don't come back! | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Sorry fellas.....I'm in love......honey do lists are a must!Drinks I got from Sam's club TWO years ago....need to throw them out lol | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 05:39 AM |
| 5 | It Never FailsAll the best! MGTOW 4 LIFE! | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 6 | It Never FailsNope the fuck out of that drama man. Head down and don't look to either side. Stay the course. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Legal costs of divorceJust came through a 20 month divorce with a covert narc. I tried every means possible to end it as quickly as could be done. Every time we got remotely close she'd pull something or change something. Then she'd project and tell me I was dragging it on and making this hard. What I learned about narcs is that it's not about winning....it's about control. Truly evil selfish snakes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | What do you think?Well done. Seriously that's amazing! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 11:48 PM |
| 2 | What do you think?Damn dude how do you cope? Seriously wtf! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Excellent broadcast from Coach Greg yesterday. Must watch!He comes across as forceful and dismissive. Also the constant selling of him and his time books merch is off putting. This guy once was a treasure trove of info now you have to sift through the grifting. Shame. It's almost as though he don't give a flip and getting while the getting is good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 4 | The juice isn't worth the squeezeI'm not after any of it. That's the point of the post. It's not that there's not opportunities. My time is far more valuable though. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 25 | Saw this garbage today, in broad daylight, while at Target. Two kids indicated as well."muh emotions" doh | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Sorry fellas.....I'm in love......honey do lists are a must!ty sir | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!Fair enough on the bikes. You really have to pay attention and presume no one sees you. As for remarriage....I was referring to marrying the bike. No way I'll ever subject myself to the system again. Ever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 14 | The juice isn't worth the squeezeThe way, this is. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!Bro.....I fell into the 1-3% of men that don't have to pay child support or spousal support. Was a stay at home Father prior to the divorce. I still walked through hell and them trying to put me through what most other men go through. The system drug things out for 20 months (some of that was due to covid). The lawyers probably loved the extended retainers. They labeled me a mooch or parasite because my wife was an exec that made more money than me because of careers. It's interesting when a man… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 129 | The term "obese" is:Facts are now hate speech. Welcome to 2021 🤡 🌎 | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!Not a fan of motorcycles? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | You thought Gates divorce was recent? Come on fellas.....AWALT!I think you are onto something. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Sorry fellas.....I'm in love......honey do lists are a must!A few years ago lesson learned on the front brakes.....car stopped dead in front of me on a yield. The loose sand on corners is always waiting. One thing in the MSF they stressed and was worth every penny was "how many brakes do you have? Two. How many do you use? Two" That alone has saved me many times. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Sorry fellas.....I'm in love......honey do lists are a must!No shit taken. I'm doing it for exactly the reason you speak up. I'm a little more courteous to neighbors though. As for everyone else....they can fuck right off. I'm trying to survive. Be safe out there! | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/21 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!No doubt....always get a good parking spot too! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 04:14 AM |
| 4 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!So I've heard. I have a buddy that wife was a drug addict......she was ordered to pay child support but before that he was ordered. Long story but She never did. So he called the Enforcement Agency......they asked him what he wanted them to do. His response...."How bout "enforce" like you did when I had to pay". It's a rigged game man. Never again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/21 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!I'm with you.......spent about $15k+ myself. Really sucked at the time but eventually worked out. I still have to keep in touch with her as we have my 3 year old son together. We at least have always came together for his sake. Hang in there man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Recently finalized. My motto on possible relationshipsAll the best......don't be afraid to reach out on this sub with questions or whatever you may be going through....this place is great! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Sorry fellas.....I'm in love......honey do lists are a must!No doubt. Where I live the commute is only 5 mins.......but that's okay I take the loooooong way home! | /r/MGTOW | 10/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 11 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!No doubt. I had put off my motorcycle riding for a few years. Interesting that she never could be happy for something that made me happy. Selfish woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!Well played. Actually in business with my best friend. It's weird.....if only my ex could communicate like him. Oh well kicking ass together. All the best! Cheers! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!CTX700........I'll eventually move to a Fz-07. Be safe! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 21 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!The bike. It's complicated. :) No way in hell I'll ever remarry a woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Only been divorced a few weeks and just got remarried. Honey do lists are amazing!This is what she'll sound like when I get that lipstick exhaust off there. LINK | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Sorry fellas.....I'm in love......honey do lists are a must!This is what she'll sound like when I'm done. Before and After | /r/MGTOW | 10/05/21 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Recently finalized. My motto on possible relationshipsVery well stated. Oh I certainly will! I'm honestly in no rush and have no desire. From what I've gathered the dating scene in an absolute shit show that I want no part of. I'll never allow myself to go through that hell again. Fool me once...... And it's not that I have trust issues.....it's just that I'm thinking with reason and logic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Recently finalized. My motto on possible relationshipsOh I feel ya. It took awhile to get comfortable with myself and being alone. As men our dedication and emotional ties run deeper than we're given credit. We used to have date nights every Friday for 15 years. As you know people are busy on the weekends. I had many a lonely time. Once you settle in though it's the absolute best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Recently finalized. My motto on possible relationshipsI'm giving it my best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 05:04 AM |
| 15 | If you are getting the "I want a divorce" talk.....just know she's been planning it loooong before!Also interesting......there's no way his wife didn't know he was connected. Reminds me of Weinstein's wife.....jumped ship AFTER he got nailed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.Because I'm a man? Married 20 years....she's always made more money than me because of the fields we worked in. It's funny because she wouldn't have been where she is without my support and decisions to let her succeed. Anyway, what I was told was that they look at the spouses education and ability to provide. It's a joke. I know so many people in the state of Missouri that are female that got alimony. Honestly, I'm glad there's no child support or alimony involved though.....I wanted a clean br… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Some good advice if you have to live with your soon to be ex.I purchased the Ring indoor cams. They were about $150 each and worth every penny. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Divorce final a month ago. New bike....new business....this is the wayHe's an 80 year old. Prob just blue pilled. | /r/MGTOW | 07/05/21 10:57 PM |
| 16 | Divorce final a month ago. New bike....new business....this is the wayOnce you are free from the plantation you don't go back. I know a guy married 7 time. Yes SEVEN........ | /r/MGTOW | 07/05/21 05:02 AM |
| 6 | This is my current state with finalized divorce. This is the way!No lie in 2013 or so I ALMOST bought to bitcoins for $300.......seriously.........damn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | This is my current state with finalized divorce. This is the way!Whatever works for you my friend. All the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/21 03:23 AM |
| 21 | Divorce final a month ago. New bike....new business....this is the wayTY.....having the best time right now. | /r/MGTOW | 07/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Wavering.. anyone else?give this a watch https://youtu.be/th0R2nxva2w | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Lessons learned?1 and 2. Once I discovered I have requirements and I am the prize the game changed. Screw them and their requirements and needs. It's all about me and my son now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Lessons learned?I'm in the same boat as you. Will never subject myself to man's system ever again. Covenant over contract all day. My convictions and word through covenant are deeper than any marriage license. I never used to think this way but walking through hell the last 2 years I got to this. As for religion I'm with you. Also people always seem to do to others what they'd never want done to them. Walking through the pain of divorce has given me compassion and empathy for others that I didn't have prior. It… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/21 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Lol. But hey, on a serious note what are your thoughts on getting the vaccine? They are just handing out the Sinopharm one where I'm located currently so waiting it out.99.9% recovery rate. I'll take my chances without it. No disrespect on your decision though. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Some good advice if you have to live with your soon to be ex.LOL I nearly spit out my shake as I read this. Well done! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Lessons learned?Oh man....please do share some......I am in the community and will go first. Wife and I join a church. I go through the membership (6 months) Am meeting regularly with the pastor. Due to her cheating and being a narcissist she never took any responsibility. I'm going to the pastor for guidance. He was little help. Just kept telling me I was hurt and holding offense. (NO SHIT SHERLOCK). Basically looked down on me for being a stay at home dad and not moving forward from her cheating. He is suppor… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Lessons learned?Never again | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Starting the journeyIs there anyway to just do mediation without courts and rulings involved? Have someone write up an agreement and have her sign off? I'm guessing if it were this easy you wouldn't be here asking for advice but wanted to check. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Lessons learned?That's exactly what I do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Amber heard story gets worseThis is the perfect MGTOW response! Love it! | /r/MGTOW | 05/05/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Lessons learned?Good points. When I discovered that I am the prize and I get to be happy it was game over. As for future relationships I'm probably never going to live with anyone ever again. My time and space are too valuable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Some good advice if you have to live with your soon to be ex.Keep fighting the good fight. I've read stories of the wife dropping the "atom bomb" which is accusing of molestation or sexual harm towards the kids. I think my wife knew it would be absolute game over if she pulled that garbage. It took 20 months and a lot of bullshit but I made it. Never again will I subject myself to this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 8 | Some good advice if you have to live with your soon to be ex.In my situation I went into my office and locked the door. No lie she kicked in the door. This is what prompted the call to my relative law enforcement. She played the victim of course. I got lucky because she didn't call the police and blame me. She easily could have. I have another friend that his wife cornered him and even yelled "HIT ME YOU PUSSY". When he tried to get away she got hit with a boot of his. He was holding his clothes. Of course she got her restraining order and he was arrested… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Some good advice if you have to live with your soon to be ex.What's the logic in building a case that your wife is unstable and violent? You shouldn't paint with broad strokes. Every situation is different. In fact, I've seen good documentation and recordings work out in the favor of many men. I get what you're saying about being more covert.......but there's nothing wrong with being above board either. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Some good advice if you have to live with your soon to be ex.In some states that's illegal. Nothing wrong with being above board and stating the purpose for the cameras. If she is going to destroy cameras during a divorce that's in your benefit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 01:03 PM |
| 9 | Lessons learned?Boy isn't that the truth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Divorce in U.K. next step?yw | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 12:03 PM |
| 6 | Lessons learned?Evil vile snakes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with the bitterness?yw | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Lessons learned?I feel ya. Sometimes there's too much to unpack. I just try to give out best I can through topics here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Divorce in U.K. next step?Get all important paperwork you can think of....deeds, titles, taxes etc etc.... Move over funds and be aware she may try to clean you out Be prepared for this to get ugly. It's said many times "everything changes once you file" and it will. Prepare for this to drag out. Not just because of her but the lawyers and system love to drag this out as long as possible. $$$$$$$$ Maybe see if she's open to mediation and an agreement set up so that no courts or judgements are needed. If she doesn't want … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/21 03:54 AM |
| 8 | How do you guys deal with the bitterness?What you ask is no easy thing. It took me till 44 to be able to do the things I'm going to advise. I guess life and experience play a role because when I was younger there's no way in hell I could. You have to be honest where you're at. (Sounds like you are) Acknowledge all things. Usually a trusted friend or family member or therapist can help you get it out. Saying these things verbally are a tremendous help. It's like vomit. No one wants to do it but you feel better once you do. Once you have… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | He spends 8 years supporting and uplifting this female. And she throws it all away for one night with night with Drake. Drake shows up and she spreads it on the first chance she gets.She's not even pretty. Resting Bitch Face is strong too. | /r/MGTOW | 04/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 3 | The Guilt?I went through depression for the first time in my life at 43. Probably different circumstances than yours. Not sure how your communication is with your wife but there's nothing wrong with just being honest. And your kids know. They know the misery behind the smile. Do you continue to live comfortably miserable with depression or do you communicate and move forward. That's on you. One thing is for sure......your depression isn't going to get better until you make a decision and move forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/21 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Bill and Melinda Gates Are Getting DivorcedbUt shE deSErveS HAlf | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | At 19, Billie is ready to hit the wall, as shown by her Sellout Thousand-Cock-StareThousand Cock Stare Resting Bitch Face | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/21 11:36 PM |
| 49 | Jesus Christ...Years ago my friends step dad is from the UK and was making fun of the NFL. He thought he was being cute and then I said "coming from the guy bragging about going to the penis puppeteers show a few mins ago" Got quiet after that. | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Divorce gift to myself!🤜🏼 | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 11 | 15 dumbasses compete to get a 41 year old eMp0wErd whaamanz pregnant. She and the "winner" break up a few months later. She wins 18 years of child support. He wins a lesson in what it's like to live in a feminized society. From Better Bachelor on you tube🤮 🤮 | /r/MGTOW | 02/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Paperwork - Personal, Financial, Business, Family etcOh man I can only imagine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Time heals pain.....It took me a while too. What I discovered that not only time but really working on myself. Discovering what I liked and didn't about myself. Taking a good look and setting now, short term, long term goals along the way. Now when I look in the mirror I smile. I really like the guy looking back at me. It takes time but you know the saying. Goals without planning are just wishful thinking. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you divorced your wife because she let herself go?Oh ya. They've processed hours and hours. It's one marriage that I can say from an outsider that is a true partnership with little bs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.You know the sad thing? I absolutely adored her. I got along with her parents and they loved me. If not for my faith and my son....this whole thing would have been way different. I wouldn't be on my new motorcycle happy....that's for sure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 05:31 PM |
| 348 | Why has MGTOW been quarantined for (roughly) 3 years?Because logic and reasoning was labeled hate and sexism. | /r/MGTOW | 01/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Have any of you divorced your wife because she let herself go?My buddy has had to keep this in the forefront of his marriage. It sounds vain but why do people settle and become fat asses? He's a savage but all he's establishing is not settling. Being healthy. He's made it clear though that if she becomes a fat ass he'd consider moving on. It's worked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.You know what they say about deception? When you're walking in deception you don't know you're deceived. She's also a covert narcissist. It's okay....those that need to know, do. And those that don't can F off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.This is the way! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.Yep. They probably have cocktails and laugh at all the poor saps along the way. The judges too. I'll never subject myself to this again. Ever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.Bingo. A covert one at that. The most evil vile snakes you'll ever encounter in your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.Agreed! Men try to get the affirmation from others and I believe they are never truly content with themselves. You see it time and time again. Also the suicide rates of men are crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.That's the rub. If the roles were reversed they would have bent over backwards to make me pay. What I was told is that they look at a spouses ability to to earn an income. I know this is bullshit. But because I was a man the "system" looks down upon you. I'm actually happy she's not paying alimony or child support because I want to be completely cut off from her. Where I live alimony isn't common.....but I have read so many other places the man is totally strapped\screwed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 14 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.Ty sir. I became a billionaire when my son was born. I was 43. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. He's also what caused me to stand up to the cowardly dragon lady and fight. It's crazy that we'll do for someone else what we can't for ourselves. Once she disrespected me in front of my 8 month old son....it was like a light switch. Something clicked and I resolved 2 things. 1. I wasn't going to let my son see me miserable on the inside while smiling on the outside. Kids know. 2. I wasn'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:37 AM |
| 17 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.I tried for years to communicate. Every which way. I was so frustrated because I was clear and would lay things out. My best friend and I have the best communication. I was always frustrated that I'm not married to this dude yet I have a better friendship with him than my own wife. It felt like I was beating my head against a brick wall. Any time I would talk about anything. Instead of supporting me and helping....it would be nit picking and second guessing me. ON EVERYTHING. We'd talk about her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:20 AM |
| 13 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.She's so evil I never truly got the full truth or story from her. I'm guessing there were multiple upon multiple men. She says it all started from game apps on her phone. One thing leading to another. When she cheated......it just grew me up fast. I realized how immature and petting I was being in life. Making big issues out of such small things. When you get cheated on it wakes you up quickly. Or should. Oh well......I'm the best me at 45. Seriously. In every aspect of my life. And it's just go… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.Married at 23........Currently 45. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:04 AM |
| 22 | Far too many men live comfortably miserable.Crazy story......long short of it........my wife made 3 times my salary as an exec. We got pregnant and decided the money we'd put into daycare would be better if I stayed with my son. I basically became the reverse role and my son was a year old when the divorce happened. That didn't stop her and her lawyer trying to treat me like the bread winner. "tried". In the end she bought me out. I stayed at home with my son through the whole thing. They tried to label me a weak low life mooching off her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 04:01 AM |
| 4 | Sitting after SO goes to bedFar too many men live comfortably miserable. My best advice to you is.....if you are miserable.......your freedom and happiness will come at a high cost. I will caution you......if you choose this path.....it will cost you everything you have. Happiness and honesty with your daughter vs misery and pretending in front of her. Kids know. They know when you are not happy. That's what I did when I had my 2 year old. I couldn't allow him to see me smile on the outside when on the inside I was fucking… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Could have picked a better spot but oh well.You nailed it. I'm 45.....no mid life crisis I'm just the best me I've ever been. So crazy that the worst thing that can help make you the best you! All the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Could have picked a better spot but oh well.ty good sir! Hang in there......freedom is around the corner! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Could have picked a better spot but oh well.Awesome. I'm going to flip this bike after the season and then get a Fz-07 or a Triumph Trident. All the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 2 | My(28) wife(29) mislead me about the type of person she was before we met. I found out recently after stumbling across an old Instagram account of hers.🤢🤢🤢 | /r/MGTOW | 01/05/21 03:22 AM |
| 18 | Divorce gift to myself!2014 Honda CTX700 with less than 1000 miles. It's brand new. :) Good things come to those that wait. 20 months, two lawyers, but I AM DONE! | /r/MGTOW | 01/05/21 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Could have picked a better spot but oh well.My divorce gift to myself. 2014 Honda CTX700 with less than 1000 miles. It's brand new. :) Good things come to those that wait. 20 months, two lawyers, but I AM DONE! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 03:05 AM |
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