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| 326 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell. | Fundamentals | sophist16 | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Advice for guys considering a breakup... | sophist16 | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 06:10 PM |
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| 4 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenSorry to tell you but no man wants to be friends with a woman. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 04:56 PM |
| 11 | Why are hot girls easy to pick up than unattractive ones ?A ten is always easier to get than a 4-6. Always! For exactly the reason you stated. And I’ve said this countless times on here and to others in person. Dimes are easy pickens. Shooting fish in a barrel easy. Guys make it up in their heads that a dime is hard to get so they avoid the made up rejection. They go for the less attractive girl which represents a lower chance of rejection. Problem is, you and a thousand other guys have the same made up fear in their heads, and you approach the 4-6. Th… | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is this sh*t so hard?Get a hobby…strictly for the sake of your own interest. Not for “self-improvement.” Dedicate yourself to the hobby. Have fun with it. Enjoy the journey. Through that journey you’ll meet people. You’ll meet women. And they’ll be so into you because you’re so into your hobby (they’ll see it as you’re a focused guy that’s dedicated to his work, and has fun…the perfect combo)…and then one leads to another. You’re targeting is that much better. You don’t want gen pop. You want targeted, similar inter… | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Nearing 30's; I feel my space is not good enough for women my ageGet over yourself my man. If you’re acting like a victim when a woman says something like that to you, you have much bigger fish to fry then the size of your place. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 06:31 PM |
| 0 | My best tips to get pretty girls to chase (been doing this for 15 years)And what is it you l0ve about RuneScape? | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 03:54 AM |
| 5 | My best tips to get pretty girls to chase (been doing this for 15 years)Blind leading the blind. The future is doomed. Listen, if ya wanna get pretty girls to chase, stop chasing pretty girls and focus on your damn self. I say this every time one of these ridiculous posts pops up with some long drawn out explanation. Getting 8,9, and 10s just ain’t this difficult. Focus on yourself and things that interest you. Be so into them that you stop chasing women. When ya do that, women come out of the woodwork. Every keyboard warrior is gonna swear up and down this doesn’t … | /r/seduction | 10/06/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Why should I approach?Approaching is the last thing you need to be worried about right now my friend. You have some serious work to do on yourself before you worry about approaching anyone. Talk to your father. This is a conversation for him, not Reddit. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How should I handle the “if you mistreat/hurt her you will get it” threat from her friendsYou lean into it. Tell them “no need to worry ladies. I treat all of my women good. As long as she has my money every night she has nothing to worry about.” And then laugh. (Mainly because what you just said is hilariously absurd.) And keep on moving about your day. Ya gotta have fun my friend. Don’t take this stuff so seriously. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Women Communicate on a Level Most Guys Don't Even SeeMen do the same thing, only ten times better. Get some friends. You’ll learn. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Used go get girls easily, now I don't even get matches on tinder.Sounds like you’re too obsessed with pickup and not obsessed nearly enough with yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How to get used to taking pictures and posting them as a guy?Is this a trick question? You get used to taking pictures and posting them….by taking pictures and posting them. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Are there many examples of looks taking a backseat?There’s this thing called currency. And when you collect more of it, it implies you have resources. When you have resources, looks tend to take a backseat…quickly. There’s this other thing called resistance. And when you subject your body to it, your body will adapt to handle the resistance. When your body adapts to this resistance thing, it tends to make the one resisting more confident and carry himself like he’s ten feet tall. So check out this thing called currency. And figure out how to get… | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | I turned religious then stopped Cold Approaching altogether…wait, this is a serious question? So a wife just pops up out of nowhere? | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 02:33 PM |
| -7 | Why do most guys mess up dates and how can I help them get better?Mistakes? You’re not coding. There are no “mistakes” in dating. There’s only things that don’t work for you, and things that don’t work for them. Maybe start there. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 12:01 PM |
| 8 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Women are women. Same shit that peaks their interest young is the exact same shit that will peak their interest when they’re older. Same turnoffs when they’re younger are the same turnoffs they’ll have when they’re older. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 04:30 PM |
| 4 | where did i fuck up ? Girl ghost me after great first dateTwo things…First, It’s Tinder…what are you expecting? Second, you said she stood out. Did you stand out to her? Or are you confusing hooking up a few times with “she likes me”? I applaud you for analyzing why the prospect didn’t convert…but it’s a sale my friend. You should have enough in the pipeline that if some don’t close…..oh well. And if ya don’t wanna increase your pipeline, than increase your activity. I preach this a lot and the youngins don’t quite understand it, but forget the women. … | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Will I die being a mid guy nd Is dating a luxury ?Whether you realize it or not, you’re in a great spot. Do yourself a favor and watch the first season of Billions. (Hedge Fund founder, Bobby Axelrod, went to some local NY school. Meanwhile everyone that works for him graduated from Ivy League schools.) When you’re done with that watch the original Wall Street. Gordon Gekko went to a small time college. My point is, nothing is stopping you from learning, applying and out working your peers. Unearned money breeds comfort. Use it to your advantag… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 11:14 PM |
| -13 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their AttractivenessThen I submit, that never in your 18 years have you ignored women completely and focused on a goal larger than yourself. Try it sometime. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Will I die being a mid guy nd Is dating a luxury ?First: Your classmates aren’t rich, their parents are. Your classmates are as broke as you. Second: The fact that you equate LV and Gucci to being well off is problematic to say the least. Show me a girl on your campus wearing Akris or St John, ok. But Gucci? That’s about as bottom of the barrel as you can get. (Feel free to go google Akris now. Lol.) Third: Speaking of Akris and St John, these clothes exude money and good taste, not because of logos, but because of what? Say it with me, materia… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their AttractivenessAnd you actually think this has everything to do with how you look? Wow, that’s really sad. Dare I say you have bigger worries than how you’ve aged my friend. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 05:50 PM |
| 12 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their AttractivenessI’m sorry you had to type all of that nonsense. Listen, the only necessary condition to attract women, is to stop trying to attract women. Focus on you. Women will magically appear. The right women I should say. If you’re some geek that’s just trying to see how many women they can get with, sure, follow this horribly over technical advice. You’re making “social situations” a blanket statement. Social situations means anywhere a few people are gathering. That’s it. House party? Sure. Orange Theor… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?So do you “play” soccer or do you take it seriously…travel team, summer and winter clinics, school team captain, etc etc? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Tired of Back and Forth: Tips for Moving it Forward?I just gave you the game but you’re not matured enough to understand it. Come back and reread this in a few years. For now, keep chasing. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?It sounds ridiculous to you because you’re inexperienced. You’re still seeing through the lens of a kid that chases women. I’m telling you what to do so you view life through a different lens. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Tired of Back and Forth: Tips for Moving it Forward?From experience I don’t get into that situation in the first place. Take a step back and reread what you wrote. If I didn’t know any better I would say that you’re the girl and she’s the guy. You’re chasing her trying to setup dates…My Man! Flip the script! You should be busy building the world while she’s chasing after you trying to setup dates. Leave the door open but please for the love of all things holy get a hobby. Make yourself busy. You’re chasing after this woman so bad it forced you to… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?You don’t need pickup lines, you need self esteem. (I say this in all seriousness.) Get a hobby or two and get better and better at that hobby. Become good at something. Improve yourself. The women will come. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | What can we learn from romance novels for women?The first answer is spot on but to answer the question in your title: What can we learn from romance novels for women? What you should learn from romance novels is to stop worrying about women and focus on yourself. I keep harping on this and my answers get taken down and bashed by those not ready for reality, but I’ll say it again, stop worrying about women. The very first answer was excellent but what does that thorough breakdown illustrate? It illustrates that women want a man that could care… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Setting like a $100 to buy a nice cologne, maybe two. Something to last a few hours on my skin. What would you get?YouTube my friend, YouTube. “Most Popular Male Scents 2021.” Start there, make a list, and then go to Bloomies and get to sniffing. Pick one, done. Wash rinse repeat when you start to get more specified, i.e. Scent for daytime/work, night time/happy hour etc etc. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | There was a girl that liked me in the past but I messed it up, should I shoot my shot even though i messed up in the past?Are you really that desperate? Was she the lone female in your city? (Serious questions) | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I follow this girl on Instagram?You have a lot to learn my friend. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 08:03 PM |
| 12 | Should I follow this girl on Instagram?How, as a man, do you expect to lead her if you’re starting off the relationship by following her? (Serious question) She gave you the signal already. Nothing confusing about it. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:16 AM |
| 0 | Proper way to deal with flake on 4th date?…and there lies your dilemma. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to pick up women on Instagram and other social media?Depending on your reply it’ll help better shape my understanding of you, your situation and your question. Would you like a thoughtful answer that can actually help you or simply a blind response, as-is per the usual on these forums? | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Waiting to respond to girlsJesus Christ! How is this even a question? (I’m just venting frustration with this ridiculous industry my friend…nothing against you.) Listen, the appropriate time to respond to a girl is whenever you have the time to do so. Try to understand what I’m saying…you’re worried about some right and wrong way to talk to a chick instead of worrying about yourself. If you are a busy man with shit to do and a world to build, why do you care about some chick not responding back? They should be wondering w… | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Proper way to deal with flake on 4th date?Quick question: aside from the sex you had since the second date, what value does this girl bring to your life? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate things when dancing at night club“In the cases where you can escalate things they move on”……And? So what they move on? Is there some inexplicable reason why you feel you need to be closing every single broad that approaches you to dance on the dance floor? Listen, you said they approach you, correct? Without seeing this with my own eyes and going off of your account, they probably approach you because why? (The exact same reason I constantly say) BECAUSE YOURE NOT FOCUSING ON HER….YOURE FOCUSING ON YOURSELF! You’re having fun. … | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible to pick up women on Instagram and other social media?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible to pick up women on Instagram and other social media?You actually have time in your day to stare at IG and message women? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate things when dancing at night clubWhy do you think you’re “doing something wrong”?? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate things when dancing at night clubAre you there to enjoy yourself and dance, or are you there to get something from a woman? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Just got rejecter by co-worker-First question, how old are you? -Second question, how do you “have feelings” for some broad that has contributed ZERO to your life and bottom line? -Third question, if you’re showing affection for her, watching shows she recommends and she’s “teaching you” how to solve a Rubik’s cube, doesn’t that make you the girl in this situation? After spending 30 seconds reading your report I see you as the woman and her as the man. I say this to help, really re-read what you wrote. You’re doing everythin… | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Ok so all summed up you’re an orbiter? 😂😂😂😂 My friend, if there’s “so many women” at the casino, why are you orbiting around a woman, coworker or not, that’s engaged? Listen, this will probably piss you off because it’s not plain Jane vanilla and nice as these forums tend to try and make our comments, but coming at you like an honest big brother that wants to see you win….Don’t do that nonsense again. You’re contradicting yourself. Messing with married women happens. It’s apart of life, but ya g… | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?No problem at all. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 08:51 PM |
| 11 | Couple of successful dates but no reply afterwardSales 101: Always have a steady lead flow. Would you be this concerned about her not responding to a text message if you had 15 other women that are ten times more appealing then her actually responding to your texts? (This is a rhetorical question) The only time salespeople panic is when they don’t have consistent quality lead flow. It sounds like you’re doing pretty well with her so just replicate that with a bunch of other women. The moment you do you’ll most likely hear from the girl in ques… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I improve my “game” when I speak in English?Embrace being different and embrace it with conviction. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?You can go either way. You can acknowledge it or you can ignore it. Both routes are fine. Route 1 (Acknowledge): when she says that or something to that affect let her know, “listen, when women say that to me they’re actually letting me know that they WANT to have sex with me but are just too awkward and unsure of themselves to say so. There’s no need to feel awkward around me baby.” And then you move on to some totally different conversation. You don’t even give her a chance to react to what yo… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:16 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]To answer your question, yes, she is definitely hinting. But again, counter to popular opinion, don’t act thirsty. She’s hinting. Ok, so what. Act as if this type of thing happens to you all the time. Besides, if all a girl has to do is say “sleep in the bed with me” and “I don’t wear pants to bed” and that’s supposed to get you to react…man please. Have some standards my friend. Let her know she’s going to have to work a whole lot harder than that to earn even a peek at your dick. (Just a heads… | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?Well, counter to the majority opinion, that’s actually a great thing. Women say that to me constantly. The second I hear it I know Im getting laid. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I expose myself to more women during the week?It’s called ClassPass. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Why is the “height requirement” such a common/widespread preference?Women, biologically tend to like taller. Taller equals safety. Taller equals protection. Taller equals better chance at producing quality off spring. I didn’t say it was right or wrong. It’s just what they’re pre wired to prefer. Does that mean they all end up with that? Of course not, but it’s a preference. Men prefer hips, big breasts, round asses etc. They’re the symbol of a woman, her ability to produce offspring blah blah blah. Whether or not we end up with someone that exhibits all of thes… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Men age like houses, women age like cars. Trust me when I tell you you’re nowhere near your peak. With that out of the way, let’s get a bit more granular. Where do you live? What’s your education level? What do your days consist of? | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.All banter aside, what exactly are you having a problem with? Provide details. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]There ya go! You’re going to give her the opportunity to impress you and show why she’s a good candidate. Good shit my friend. Keep me posted on how it goes. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.I understand the frustration but stop for a second and assess what you’re asking me. You’re asking me to provide you an answer for EVERY possible outcome. That’s a losing proposition. You’re setting yourself up for continued frustration and failure. Instead of that, look at it through a different lens. Really understand what I’m saying to you instead of looking for an answer to every possible outcome. The amount of responses is infinite, dont play that game. Nobody has that kind of time. There i… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]There’s no universal yes or no. It depends on various factors. How deep was your connection? How many tragedies did you experience together and on and on and on. Has she met someone else that has captured her fancy? What stage of the relationship are they in? So who knows if she’s still interested. One thing that will help you is to chill with all the calculations. (Sizing up your chances) If you like her then approach her, directly or indirectly. Your choice. If she’s feeling you cool, if not t… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Are all women like this?No, not all women will have outside conversations when also talking to you. My question is why don’t you know how to “act” anymore? Weren’t you being yourself the whole time?…or we’re you “acting?” If you were being yourself, just continue being yourself. What would yourself do? Would you cut her off and never speak to her again? If so then do that. If it’s ultimately no big deal then keep it moving, have your fun on the weekends and that’s it. Pursue other women etc. Another question, what exac… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.What is this imaginary peak you guys keep mentioning? This has to be the lowest life expectancy group in the modern world. Lol. You won’t be hitting your proverbial peak anytime soon. A chance for what exactly? | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 02:16 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Because you’re a focused man. And why all the emphasis on one girl? And why do you think all women on planet earth have had a meeting and declared that you are universally unattractive? (Or is this all in your own head?) | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Very true my friend…but it will greatly improve your odds. Also, think about the outcome you’re after. If all you want is a “lay” just pay for it and keep it moving. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Unless you plan on joining the priesthood sometime soon I’d say you’re fine. How do you approach women? Put one foot in front of the other until you reach said woman and say hello. How to deal with whatever you consider rejection?…say hello to someone else. You’re ability to continue breathing doesn’t depend on one woman giving you her phone number. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.As the saying goes, “Whether you say you can, or whether you say you can’t….either way you’re right.” | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.These are great follow up questions. Let’s see, according to you “oversimplification does not work.” Ok, but also according to you, “overthinking is a bad thing.” So which one is it? I understand what you mean when you say you need more detail. As I’ve said previously to someone, in the context of a forum post I’m speaking more to the general mass as opposed to getting granular with each person. That’s why I asked for follow up questions so that I could be of more individual help. Please don’t c… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Well said and I agree with you. Some men do simply enjoy the process and have no interest in the actual girl. Nothing wrong with that at all. I would ask though, what’s the outcome they’re after? | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Absolutely. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Well said. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.That’s great to hear man. Kudos. To anyone listening, I would agree with KindredJars. Approach what you consider the 10’s. Why? They’re the easiest ones to speak to. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.We’ll said my friend. If you’ve been to business school, an incubator, entrepreneurial competitions etc, you’ll hear it said from Harvard to Stanford, business plans are an ever evolving thing. Once you create your business plan most people think that’s it, it’s set in stone. Nope…as your business grows and evolves so should your business plan. I liken this to friends as well. The friends you start with aren’t necessarily the friends you should end with. As you grow and evolve you should prune y… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.All good man, no worries at all…and great analogy. I understand you. Taking the workout analogy, when you have an injury I agree that certain people can definitely shy away from doing certain movements for fear of agitating or doing further damage. You are spot on. That fear will make you not try, even small movements that will build you back up. A proper trainer or therapist can recognize this and will usually disguise it by having you do other movements so you don’t realize that you’re actuall… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:29 PM |
| 0 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Wisdom? Lol. Or a place where they can jump on the hamster wheel of confusion? K.I.S. Don’t overthink it. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 09:49 AM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Thanks for sharing your story. It sucks that happened to you as a teenager but look at it from a different lens, you tried something and it was a major fail. Fair enough. It happens. I’m sure you’ll experience many more “fails” as well…it’s apart of a progressive life. But it sounds like you’re on the path to addressing your issues, “forced by work.” It’s a process and takes time. Baby steps. Once you’re comfortable enough, try going out to social events or hell even just walking down the street… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 09:45 AM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.My post reads “To You” that way. Hey man, I’m sorry you’ve had a rough go of things but what you posted is my exact reason for writing what I wrote. -Some people have social anxiety. Exactly my point. Stop overthinking it and putting so much emphasis on it. They’re just women not the boogeyman. -Some people are overly sensitive to rejection. Fair enough. Focus on yourself so you learn to handle setbacks in smaller more manageable doses. Eventually you build up a tolerance to it to where you can … | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:54 AM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Thanks for the insightful response. Why do you have so much fear around girls you consider 10’s? | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.This is an EXCELLENT QUESTION! The answer is simple…but not easy by any means. It takes work. But the answer itself is simple. The answer is to stay in successful environments at all costs. Please Understand, “handling work, life and responsibilities” are all apart of life. And let me be the first to tell you the more successful you become the more of those responsibilities you’ll have. So get used to it. You shouldnt be ignoring all that you pointed out. You realize it now move on. How do you m… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:27 AM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.How old are you? Unless you’re on your death bed and have a week left I doubt very highly that you’ve hit your peak. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Ok I’m with you but give me some details so I can actually help. From what I understand you work in either a male prison or you’re a coal miner and you dont see any women between work and home. I’m assuming this is completely not your situation so provide more details so we can help you out. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:07 AM |
| -1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Terrible analogy but I understand the point you’re failing to make. For those amongst us, like my friend here, that need everything spelled out, as you’re pursuing your own interests and making your mark on the world, women avail themselves to you that either run in similar circles or you end up carrying your confidence with you into the nightclub or bar or restaurant and conversations become a whole lot easier because you can take it or leave it. As a man, of course you’ll go out and want to ta… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.I take it you haven’t seen all the lonely women that play DND or the ones running around Comic Con. More excuses. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 3 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.And where does this fear stem from? Have you been accused of harassment in the past? Are you running around the streets grabbing women’s skirts saying “OOGA BOOGAAAA!!!” Seriously, where does this fear stem from? Or is it just a convenient excuse to not speak to women? | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Why haven’t they? Explain your situation. Provide some detail. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Great response. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.How so…please explain. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:36 PM |
| 0 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Thank you! | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:34 PM |
| 0 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.Do you overthink this much when speaking to a teller at the bank? Cashier at the supermarket? Co-workers? Classmates? You say hello and proceed to have a normal convo. Stop thinking so much and trying to follow some script. Talk to a girl on the street the way you would talk to anyone else. The only reason you have confusion on what to say next is because you have some strange fear of “rejection” or not getting the phone number or whatever other measure you perceive as successful. Reread my post… | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:33 PM |
| 372 | girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attractedYou should be thankful. She helped you out by not wasting your time. Realize that and move on. As a man you should start to value your time above most other things. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | 25Male, never had a girlfriend and I find it extremely difficult to find happiness in this loneliness.First things first, Go Read my Post from Yesterday. Second thing: Forget About Finding a Girl Right Now. That doesn’t mean forget about it forever. That means you obviously have a LOT of work to do on yourself. That doesn’t mean going to therapy etc…that means you need to figure out what it is you like and what you’re interested and not interested in from a solo stand point. Here’s the danger in trying to find a women right now…you don’t know yourself it sounds like and you’re going to take all … | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | I have no fucking idea how to act around clubbing/drunk/party girlsOk so let’s try something…Throw all the “theory” out of the window and just be true to your current self. If you don’t care for women at clubs/bars that are drunk and/or obnoxious etc, why in thee absolute hell are you trying to figure out a way to force yourself to be around them? Please explain this to me. Dude, simply tell them to beat it. How hard is this? (BTW, that shows supreme confidence too.) If they don’t beat it then they’re most likely interested in you so proceed accordingly. If the… | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Where to find a milf?You’re only 24….every woman will be an older woman to you. Lol Seriously though, I say this a thousand times, stop focusing on women. You’re actively seeking out an older woman, but understand that older women aren’t seeking out you. Older women are seeking out guys that are into themselves…meaning, running around chasing women will only get you so far. You’ll have the pick of the litter when you are selfish and do things that you’re into. Once you focus on YOU the women, whether older, younger … | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Where’s the best place to meet high value women?You’re focusing too much on the woman. Focus on yourself and likeminded women will easily follow. You said, “basically mirroring the qualities I like to think I possess.” Logic should tell you that clubs and bars aren’t your thing so you’re not going to find a longer term interest there. Sure there’s more “volume” there but it’s a crapshoot. As many have said already get a damn hobby. (Chasing women is not a hobby) Actually have fun participating in your hobby or hobbies. You’ll meet women that … | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 10 | How to ask a Girl Her age?Unless you’re hanging out and picking up girls near your local high school, how is this even an issue? I don’t know your age but I’m assuming you’re college or beyond. So how/why would this be a thing? You’re hanging out and doing things in life that “adults” do correct? So anyone you meet would also be of “adult” age correct? So again, why is this an issue? | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 02:23 PM |
| 29 | Why results come when you stop caringEver notice you ace job interviews when you’re comfortably employed already? Same concept. The pressure is off so you can be yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 4 | The Loophole That Makes Women Start Chasing YouI know this is a seduction forum but you guys are way too focused on women. Jesus Christ. Who gives a shit if the girl likes you or not. Interact and converse with women “as apart of your daily pursuits.” Focus on making sure that you yourself are firing on all cylinders: Stay active. Read for enjoyment as well as education. Go hard at your job. Improve yourself. Where are the women in that scenario? They’re at the gym. They’re out on the jogging path where you’re also running. They’re at work. … | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What should I do?No problem at all my friend. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What should I do?Think of yourself as a consultant...or a doctor...or a salesman. Ok, now think of yourself as one of those professionals but you only have ONE client. ONE patient...etc. How do you act? How do you conduct yourself? From fear, that’s what. You do everything you can to hold onto this one client. You can’t really live life for fear that your one income source will suddenly leave you which in turn takes away your ability to do more. Now, think of yourself as a consultant/doctor/salesperson with DOZE… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Mystery Methods are outdatedI think you should read it again, and again after that. The Mystery Method is literally every interaction you’ll have with a woman. It’s also very applicable in business. All the RSD and this guru and that dating guru are just rehashed/reworded plays on the Mystery Method or a section of it. That’s not to say there aren’t other really excellent programs out there but they all are the Mystery Method. Ever see RSD Julien’s PIMP program? He calls it the “flow of the night.” Basically just ACS rewor… | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | 6-7 months since we broke up, still missing here from time to timeThinking about an old girlfriend is just like binge eating and getting progressively fatter....you only do it when you don’t have shit else to do. If you have other pressing matters, if you’re busy with things that genuinely interest you, if you’re working towards something etc you won’t give more than a seconds thought to your old girl. It’s when you have idle time that you start to think about her and conjure up all sorts of plot lines in your head, downplay yourself, question yourself etc etc… | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Been ghosted by this girl back and forth and it's really hard to deal withYou're not busy enough my friend. Plain and simple, you have too much down time. Why do you care what her reason is?...because you're not doing anything of value/meaning with your time. The fact that you actually have time to sit and wonder why she didn't hit you back etc...cmon man, GET BUSY DOING STUFF! Who cares why she ghosted you! A man on a mission has no time to worry about such minute and trivial things. You haven't had the epiphany yet that you're the prize and not her. She has to work … | /r/seduction | 06/05/19 09:18 PM |
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