I see this question a lot here and I’m asked this question by guys in my daily life more than I’d like to admit so I thought I’d provide an easy way to evaluate your situation.

I can’t tell you whether or not should breakup with your girlfriend or wife etc.

Here’s what I can say...just ask yourself this simple question:

When you imagine your future self...the man you imagine yourself growing to become in the future...that successful James Bond/Diddy/Leo Dicaprio etc etc etc (fill in the blank with whatever image it is you have of yourself)....

Would that guy, the man you’ll grow to become...Would that man date or marry the girl you’re currently with?

(I can almost guarantee that the answer is probably NO!)

Answer that question honestly. And if the answer is No, dump that chick quickly and move on.

Problem solved.