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I guess I will treat it like the other negs. Thanks
/r/seduction06/09/18 02:15 PM
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Thanks, I will try this one next time she says it.
/r/seduction06/09/18 02:11 PM
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She is my lunch buddy and she sets me up with girls.
/r/seduction06/09/18 02:27 AM
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I agree, and that is what I have been doing. Because I don't know how to respond. But she said it at least 8 times, I feel I can't ignore this anymore.
/r/seduction06/09/18 01:01 AM
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She is married and has kids. she teases me a lot and "agree and amplify" works for everything except this line. I am not hitting on her, but it is embarrassing when there are other single girls around.
/r/seduction06/09/18 12:59 AM
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My situation is she is already married and has kids.. Basically she is set, and she drops that line on me.. I am not hitting on her or anything, she just drops that line. I think she has said it about 8 times now.. and I haven't figured out a way to deal with it.
/r/seduction06/09/18 12:55 AM
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I have been told multiple times by multiple girls that my foreplay sucks... Anyone with any tips? I did search here and I tried but I still suck...
/r/seduction10/05/18 06:21 PM
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This. Or during the flip if you feel you are "hoping" for heads/tails you have your answer. I've been in your situation many times.. for some reason multiple girls come at the same time (not a bad problem but I personally hate this problem) I've always chosen the wrong girl in the end.. I would let the girls decide on the commit first. If neither is asking you for a committed relationship, then don't hurt your brain choosing.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:35 PM
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I enjoy reading your FRs. Amazing! A little more detail would be great. This girl seemed like she had perfect english? It is quite hard to find rich asian girls with perfect english.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:06 PM
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I agree with this; what about her personality?
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:03 PM
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Usually I don't like the "should have fucked her already.." advice.. But in this case.. gogogogogo!!
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:55 PM
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I am new at this and I only do day game. For every 10 girls I approach I get 5 numbers, and of the 5 numbers I only get 1 date. From what I read from your fr, it kind of sounds like you are rushing the conversations and you aren't really interested in the girl. The only bad thing about slowing down the conversations is when there are like 20 girls walking past you while the girl you are talking to won't let you leave lol.
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:39 PM
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Most of the time, I feel like I don't really care to get to know the girl. Any tips on how to get to know her? Asking questions is boring. Right? I have been treating her like a normal person, it is quite difficult!
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:29 PM
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Could you give examples for #2?
/r/seduction12/10/17 02:58 PM
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How should texting look like after going on a couple dates with the girl? Do the same rules apply? I have had a girl say "you are hard to text with"...
/r/seduction10/10/17 02:03 PM
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Lol, that is good, I will steal this for future. I feel she is the serious one haha
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:23 AM
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I agree, her texting is crazy annoying. In person she was normal tho..
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:21 AM
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We had a convo about food so I thought it would be "connected" In person she answered my questions, but texting it was a big 180. I agree, most girls don't act like this.. this is the first time I have experienced something like this lol Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:18 AM
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I set up the meet up for food. She is just asking me normal questions (where I am from, what I do for fun, etc.), but when I ask her back, she ignores my questions. The last question she asked was what my last name is.. I told her to guess, she got it wrong then said she doesn't like guessing.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:33 PM
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I am in a situation with a girl that is asking a lot of question. I feel she is scared and skeptical.
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:43 PM
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The last question she asked was what's my last name lol. Maybe she really wants to stalk me on facebook..
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:39 PM
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She started it. What should I do if she keeps asking questions?
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:36 PM
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What if the girl keeps asking questions?
/r/seduction15/09/17 02:25 PM
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I agree with your view, and it makes sense.. I've tried this method with my past 3 dating partners.. didn't work.. I think the girls thought I wasn't interested and most likely another came in showing more interest and I lost the girl. Is there a way I can improve? Any suggestions?
/r/seduction14/08/17 06:23 PM
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I agree that women prefer alpha males. But let's say out of 10 males, how many would be alpha? When I am in a family reunion, friends gathering or any gathering..there aren't many or most of the time it is 0 alpha males.
/r/seduction14/08/17 06:09 PM
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I understand that we should not act needy. But girls have many, many guys going after them. If I don't show interest, they will lose interest in me. I am finding a hard time to balance it.
/r/seduction14/08/17 11:15 AM
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There is lots of mixed advice here.. Most threads/advice say we should get the girl to chase, don't double text, etc.... In this thread, it is opposite.. In my experience.. if I don't text the girl for a week.. it is pretty much done... How/when do we know which strategy to use?
/r/seduction11/08/17 03:32 PM
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What is your view on kiss on first date?
/r/seduction08/08/17 02:21 PM
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I understand. Great tips! What if another guy comes in and pushes fast and hard? Wouldn't I be at a disadvantage? Since the girl will feel the other guy is more interested. (I am pretty sure this happened to me a couple times, of course girls won't admit it)
/r/seduction06/08/17 02:34 AM
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Sometimes I feel if you don't chase, the girl will think you aren't interested and it all dies. Any advice on this? My area is mostly Asians, quiet, fairy tale type girls...always thinking about "the one"
/r/seduction05/08/17 11:32 PM
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Mind to share examples of the lines, style and confidence?
/r/seduction05/08/17 11:23 PM
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How do you know where the line is? I keep pushing, but I am scared I will cross the line. I don't want criminal charges or anything. Is there a way to tell? Signs to read?
/r/seduction05/08/17 11:18 PM
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Oh sorry, I replied to too many answers. I got mixed up with who I was talking to. "6-12 month behavior" referring to how the girls behave towards me during the 6-12 month period. They all seem to have the same behavior such as telling small lies and going cold.
/r/seduction02/08/17 11:00 AM
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Most of the girls are similar to me in terms of type. Not 100% the same but very similar. I am not lacking direction, I am set. (except for a wife) I am quite busy at work and do want to spend more time with the girl...(I can't really think of any other problems)
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:44 PM
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I've only had 3. Longest was 3 years. The other 2 were about 1.5 years. But no matter what stage in the relationship, I end up with the "6-12 months behaviour". I do share these deep connections, not a lot, I guess I will need to share more. Thanks for the examples, they are really good.
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:41 AM
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Yes, I want long term, but I can't get any girl to stay
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:37 AM
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Every girl I date, I have progressed a little bit more. But no matter what stage in the relationship, I end up with the "6-12 months behaviour". My longest relationship was 3 years. At the end of the 3rd year the girl behaved the same as the "6-12 months behaviour" girls. I am 27, looking for a wife, I am tired of dating around.
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:33 AM
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The stuff from the sidebar, I read advice given in the threads like texting, dicarlo escalation, etc.
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:36 AM
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But I have more girls leave me at 2-3 months vs 6-12 months. I agree, the girls really want to be with me/talk to me, etc... then that 6-12 months point hits and BOOM..they go cold.
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:21 AM
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Thanks for the reminder, I do tend to forget to make girls feel that way after a while..
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:16 AM
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What is an example of a super deep connection?
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:13 AM
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I do... I try to follow the advice I get on here and apply it on the girls. Sometimes it works great sometimes I feel like I am forcing it. (Maybe pushing a shy girl too fast? she seemed ok with it though)
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:08 AM
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I had 1 girl that left me because she thought I was cheating (I was not..) As soon as she thought that...she basically made up her mind...
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:06 AM
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One of my best friends pointed that out as well. I follow the dicarlo escalation method and it works great.. but girls still leave. It just seems at the 6-12 month mark there is a big hump that I can't figure out. (Was hoping someone knew)
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:04 AM
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Either relationship or dating. It usually ends after 6-12 months.
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:55 AM
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I agree, but I can't figure out what is causing them to leave. Everything is good and then boom they go cold.
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:54 AM
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I agree, and most of the time I do that. We usually want the same thing, and we continue. But at the 6 months - 12 months it always go bad..
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:52 AM
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It is just normal relationship interactions. I noticed the same behavior almost every time. They start telling small lies, then they start the "distancing". And eventually they ghost me. Most of the time I am on good terms, and I ask. (I don't think they tell the truth) I get the "it's not you, it's me" "You did nothing wrong" "We aren't compatible" They also turn really cold. I strongly believe they found another guy, but they never tell me that.
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:48 AM
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This is happening to me.. very similar. What happened? PM me, I would like to learn from the experience.
/r/seduction24/07/17 07:52 PM
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This is spot on. If I was the guy, I basically wasted time and money.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:21 PM
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Thank you, I will try this.
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:37 PM
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Spices definitely makes my breath stink tho.
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:36 PM
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Thanks, I will look into it.
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:36 PM
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I do, it is just weird taking so many mints while on a date.
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:36 PM
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I don’t feel comfortable with it, it feels “hot” When I talk to girls, they cover their nose/mouths. I sometimes can smell my own breath, when I floss, the saliva stinks. Sometimes when it is really bad, my family tells me (usually morning breath)
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:35 PM
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I think it is both. I am dieting, on the “peleo” diet, trying my best to do no carbs.
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:35 PM
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I use my toothbrush to clean my tongue. I do it everytime I brush. Is there a method? I see below someone uses a spoon?
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:34 PM
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Thanks, I will look into it.
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:34 PM
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This is something similar to what my dentist said, but in my stomache, sounds like they didn’t have a solution to it.
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:34 PM
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45 minutes to an hour, I try not to hold anything in. I rarely drink alc too..
/r/seduction14/07/17 05:33 PM
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Checked by a doctor? (I think my doctor is pretty dumb actually..) I brush three times a day, sometimes more. Floss twice.
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:56 PM
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I do all of that. I am scared I might overdose on mints. I have to go to the washroom every 45 mins with the amount of water I drink. I use a lot of mouthwash too. Mints, mouthwash. Gum, etc lasts like 10 mins.
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:55 PM
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I love reading your frs. Keep up the great work!
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:27 PM
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If you were in Toronto; I would help you out ;P I would advise to make it as easy as possible for the guy you are interested in. Even go up to him to ask for directions, ask what's his favourite coffee in a coffee shop... etc. Easy =)
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:33 PM
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Ask another girl, don't wait for this one.
/r/seduction19/05/17 03:10 PM
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If you look like Cristiano Ronaldo, girls will give numbers to you. I would give my number to you ;)
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:01 PM
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This.. or they are looking at you because you were looking at them. Happens to me all the time.
/r/seduction12/05/17 08:40 PM
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Holy crap.. you are totally describing me! Not only I attract single mothers... the non mothers are crazy.. Like all kinds of crazy, mentally, emotionally or any other kind of crazy there is...
/r/seduction11/05/17 02:30 PM
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I am not asking her through text..but it is heading that way.. We have done a variety of different activities, she seems to be happy with everything..or a very good actress..
/r/seduction26/04/17 02:10 PM
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But in all other aspects she shows interest. She is a quiet, conservative girl and my friends say she is normally like that (hard to talk to). How would you engage with someone like that? I guess you would still move on? I do find it difficult..
/r/seduction26/04/17 02:08 PM
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Thanks, that is what I have been doing. I find it quite difficult to observe as she seems to be excited by everything. I guess I will continue to observe..
/r/seduction26/04/17 02:06 PM
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