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Not really sure if you are talking about a stay at home wife, or a working one, but this "You tell her to clean the house twice a week, make sure the food is ready by 10am, 2pm and 6pm so the house feels like home. " sounds like a servant, not a wife/girlfriend. And if thats a servant how are you paying her? Are you so high value man that you have girls lined up for you, happy to serve you? I doubt it
/r/TheRedPill26/08/25 07:17 AM
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bullshit
/r/TheRedPill24/07/25 09:01 AM
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You mean I could have been? I have BEEN one.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 06:41 AM
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My question is, do You really deadlift 120 kg with an incline of only 25kg?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 01:08 PM
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I am 171 cm also, have abs slightly visible since I went on a cut, and I weight 70 kg. Never had a body scan so I am a bit surprised at your 14%, I would estimate myself at more, but maybe that is just underestimating myself
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/25 04:04 PM
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wow thanks, it worked, I used to think that theredpill is compeltely banned and only browsed marriedredpill for the last year!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 09:06 PM
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how can you enter this link, I get "red pill is quarantined" dialog and nothing happens when I click it
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/25 12:13 PM
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Yes this shit is so crazy. I actually WANT to give her comfort. But I observed I easily go overboard and go into this loop, like the meme "hard times create hard men...". When I am happy with her, I actually comfort to much, then she behaves worse and I get colder. So then she behaves better, and I give more comfort, and we go back...
/r/askMRP23/01/25 09:25 AM
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yes I know, I sometimes realize this and then emotions start to control me again
/r/askMRP22/01/25 08:51 AM
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for an update, she welcomed me after my martial arts training, with homemade tacos, wearing fishnets (my favorite) and short skirt. she was also very happy to see me and outgoing. seems shutting the fuck up worked. I did not break down (which I did some times in the past) to "explain my feelings" and describing why I "need this and this, and she owes me". She is not stupid, she now exactly which piece of clothing is the one I like, she just chooses not to wear it most of the times.
/r/askMRP22/01/25 08:24 AM
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I feel like I am always battling in my mind where is the exact border between not pouting, not being butthurt, speaking about my needs, and then finally negotiating something (which I know I should not do, but sometimes the border is blurry)
/r/askMRP22/01/25 08:21 AM
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What do you mean by that in real life? I already go to gym, I have progress. How to progress in relationship then? What is outside the comfort zone?
/r/askMRP21/01/25 03:57 PM
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thanks, but fixing motives is hard. who comes to the red pill because they want to be a better person? lets be true, I came here because at first I wanted more sex, now I want better sex
/r/askMRP21/01/25 02:01 PM
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I just might be fkin dumb and slow learner. I come here to ask better people.
/r/askMRP21/01/25 01:56 PM
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in my experience our relationship looks like a sinusoid. i get more on track the things start to get better, the sex/experiments better, then she becomes complacent, I try to up the comfort etc. she wants sex/experimenting less. then I get mad butthurt etc. and the things go back to start. this cycle takes 3-4 months each times as I observed myself. dont know how to break out of this because when I become more "loving" and "caring" then I actually get worse results, it is when I start to be cold…
/r/askMRP21/01/25 01:39 PM
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Not only, and we did that in the past, she even proposed that a few years ago. But now, not really
/r/askMRP21/01/25 09:49 AM
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She started accusing me "oh maybe you are cheating", but it did not feel genuine. I am not in a mindspace to cheat anyway. I am still trying to up my physical dread, but I think the psychological part is lacking. I am now out almost every evening a few hours, gym, climbing with friends, meeting with friends, other sport activities. I think still I am the one messing this up
/r/askMRP21/01/25 09:45 AM
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Did you tell her? “Hey would you mind changing into something else?” Yes I did, I asked her to change into something nice, she responded everything nice is in the washing machine Why were you going on a date? I like the idea of going out to eat. I like going out to eat by myself, why not take wife also?
/r/askMRP09/11/24 08:10 PM
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I really do not know how I should have acted even now. Should say when she said everything is in the washing machine that we cancel the date upfront? Should I shut up and go to the date anyway (showing she can just show upfront disrespect)? Should I go back as I did, but then completely ignore her when she went back to the car in skirt then?
/r/askMRP09/11/24 06:23 PM
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I have read the sidebar before. Any specific one that is especially important to re-read?
/r/askMRP25/02/18 02:10 PM
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Ok. This does not explain what I did wrong
/r/askMRP25/02/18 01:11 PM
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Is this a recent post. Did not see yet
/r/askMRP24/02/18 05:11 PM
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Never seen this interpretation. "The talk" is saying please fuck me? I do not get this vibe at all. Really I get the opposite vibe and actually I did not want to have sex since the fight a week ago
/r/askMRP24/02/18 08:08 AM
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We had "the talks" a few times. I usually did something close to what you wrote. Either tried to make it looks as unimportant having other things to do. Or I participated but did not talk a lot - so she could vent. But now I think she sees through it. She mentioned that she can wait when she comes back until I have free mind from work and no distractions. She also asked for me to fully participate - "and talk about the future of our relationship". I already told her many times that I am not inte…
/r/askMRP24/02/18 08:06 AM
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There is one thing she wants that I do not want to give. Marriage
/r/askMRP24/02/18 08:02 AM
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I guess the second. Due to trp I think I lost some empathy. Is there a legit trp guide?
/r/askMRP27/03/17 02:31 PM
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Don't work for me this weekend. Tried it few times and I hear -. "you say no nice words"
/r/askMRP27/03/17 01:42 PM
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Her mother is sick so she is helping at her home for few days every few weeks so that it is easier for other members of her family
/r/askMRP27/03/17 12:03 PM
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I called for a little chit chat and then in 5 minutes I have got a long call how I can not say anything nice and I'm emotionally distant.... what to do?
/r/askMRP27/03/17 10:45 AM
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That is what I learned.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 07:16 AM
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I would ask again but it always lead to a few days fight. I posted this also here 6 months ago....
/r/askMRP27/03/17 06:50 AM
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Thank You for this. I needed to read this
/r/askMRP08/03/17 09:51 PM
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I am confused here. Is it covers contract to expect that?
/r/askMRP23/01/17 04:28 PM
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Already told her a lot of times
/r/askMRP23/01/17 04:11 PM
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Do you think there is no point in salvaging if the attraction is low?
/r/askMRP23/01/17 09:09 AM
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That is actually my first advice ever here but I am read in and applying trp for almost a year. So I am in a ltr and I had a similar problem. For me it is two things - be a man, know your boundaries, do not give a shit. If you are more masculine then the girl knows she can be more feminine (*works 90% of time). Second is dread. If she feels you are not so available then she feels she needs to "catch" you again.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 06:08 AM
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Thank you. I have discovered trp half year ago and started working on myself. I already see some improvement but maybe I want results too fast.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:30 PM
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That Sounds wise. Thank you
/r/askTRP10/09/16 11:53 AM
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So is this the advice - dump?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 11:44 AM
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